Chalphamale Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghosted That's extreme neediness behavior and for what? You won the chase and she's obviously not LTR material why are you so worried about her coming back again? It sounds like you still have some deep-seeded BP tendencies possibly like loneliness. I've NEVER initiated contact out to a plate the same day after she left. Like literally, wtf?. Like others have said, the neediness gets amplified because of the age gap. Now you just look like a creepy old guy	/r/askTRP	26/05/20 04:46 PM
16	What tf do i reply The only thing missing in this post is the OP casually dropping in the fact that he's pulling in 7 figures from his online business at 24, and that he made the girl cum 10 times during one session	/r/askTRP	17/05/20 04:51 PM
2	Fuck this shit guys, i'm getting tired of girls and dating ... I just don't get how this stuff bothers you guys. You did the right thing by not texting her everyday. Probably didn't need to be that blunt about it but not a big deal. You were obviously busy and put your goals above her which is great. But why does it bother you so much that she decided to move on? The same thing has happened to me plenty of times where I don't give a girl any attention and then they move on to some guy who does. She's not yours it's just your turn. Just let her go and don't …	/r/askTRP	17/05/20 03:33 PM
7	COVID getaway planned, but blood is in the water. You sir are the epitome of alpha. Reminds me of the time my wife got blindsided by a drunk driver in a car wreck and had to be rushed to the hospital. Luckily I had my plates at teh ready to keep me satisfied that night when I heard the news. B!tch was in the hospital, in a coma for three months. Obviously we couldn't have sex so I ghosted her, gave her the soft next, and then kept spinning my plates. Once she came out of her coma, I neg'ed her and flirted in front of other women to teach her a …	/r/askTRP	15/05/20 06:56 PM
2	LTR slowly losing attraction I think? "I know for a fact I'm the best she has ever had, and WILL ever have" Are you sure about that and are you sure she feels the same way? idk, a lot of this post comes across as insecure actually. Your physical credentials check out, but you haven't fully internalized the side bar yet. Basically, you're a paper alpha. Despite all you've said, you're complaining on an internet forum because you didn't get a good morning text. "When I see pictures of guys she has been with I laugh at her for having…	/r/askTRP	13/05/20 07:58 PM
9	Father died, girlfriend left me shortly after Good post. I remember when my grandfather died, my dad didn't show any emotion in front of me or my mom at the time. I remember wondering how in the world could he be so emotionless, but now I get it. Doesn't make it easy though, but it shows why maintaining solid male friendships is important no matter where you're at in your dating life	/r/askTRP	12/05/20 07:36 PM
3	One some days I wanna be a cuck and on other days I wanna be a bull. How do I kill the cuck part inside of me? These types of cuckolding fantasies are becoming more and more common these days. I've been trying to figure out why, but I think it's due to two reasons: 1) dating apps/feminism/hypergamy making it about as tough as ever for the average man to date let alone keep a woman 2) social media now floods you with pictures of your ex and her new Chad bf that you can't get out of your head. Even if they live in another state So the average BP'er has it a) harder to score a woman b) less wiggle room fo…	/r/askTRP	08/05/20 03:12 AM
2	I don’t want to hang or or be excessively cool with any girl I’m not fucking. AITA for this? What is this called that I’m experiencing? Yep, social circle game has been like 80% of my non-online lays as an adult. And I barely have to do any work. If I go out with a large group (15-20 people or so, mixed with girls/guys) it's only natural we'll attract other groups and eventually I'll find some girl to take home just through a mutual introduction. Sounds like OP is talking about something a bit different though, as in hanging out one on one with a girl throughout the day as if she were your best friend or something. That sounds h…	/r/askTRP	02/05/20 07:37 PM
1	Dating very attractive girl with high N-Count and many male "orbiters". Seeking advice on handling jealousy. I don't really see anything unusual here or the need to panic. She's just making it easy for you and revealing the fact that she's definitely not anywhere near LTR material. She saved you a lot of time. Just think of her as another plate. Easy. Done.	/r/askTRP	29/04/20 03:20 PM
1	For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it? ever heard of punctuation?	/r/askTRP	26/04/20 02:32 PM
4	For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it? There's your problem right there. Asking if it's ok to do that, which shows you completely miss the point since you're taking it too seriously	/r/askTRP	26/04/20 02:10 PM
4	What can I do to increase my exposure to women? 13 girls at 24 in this day and age when women are as hypergamous as ever, shows that he's decently attractive. That's a pretty decent count if you're not actively trying to hook-up 24/7. Like if you're one of those wannabe PUA's who's looking for pussy all day, everyday then that would be considered low	/r/askTRP	25/04/20 02:17 PM
1	What can I do to increase my exposure to women? 100%. Frame is just as important. Looks may get you a one night stand, but she will instantly lose attraction if she sees that you have a boring lifestyle and/or let her walk all over you	/r/askTRP	25/04/20 04:25 AM
1	What can I do to increase my exposure to women? Truth. We're all here to take the red pill which means we have to face the truth no matter how depressing it may be. And looks are a huge part of it. I know a good friend of mine who is filthy rich, has a 'mission', great personality, lots of hobbies, etc. but has ZERO luck with women because he's balding, short, and overweight (although this he can control). I feel awful for the guy especially because he goes for women way out of his league. Women always give him excuses ("I'm not looking for a…	/r/askTRP	25/04/20 04:22 AM
7	What can I do to increase my exposure to women? This is the cold, hard truth although I think his notch count is fine. When I first discovered TRP, I read the sidebar, all the books, etc. and while I felt better about my masculinity overall, my notch count didn't really increase that much. Knowledge and personality only did so little. However, once I invested heavily into my appearance (wardrobe and grooming), it was a complete 180. I could go out to the bar with a few friends and have a variety of quality girls approach me to the point whe…	/r/askTRP	25/04/20 02:51 AM