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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| – | regarding past history: Clean men vs. used men?Removed. Posts must be made in good faith. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/26 03:04 PM |
| 3 | one sided open relationshipContent must serve to help women, deviations from this are off topic | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/26 07:28 PM |
| – | Would you ever be polygynous?Removed for being low effort; see Rule 7. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/26 05:34 AM |
| 9 | There was a lot of redpill men under a spousal homicide IG post who defended a man’s murderous actions.I'm awarding you a star for your comment. Thanks for taking the time to write this out! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/25 10:21 PM |
| – | [F26] I'm trapped in a cycle of craving "Alphas" who treat me like dirt. How do I stop self-sabotaging and choose a good man?Removed because I don't think OP is here in good faith based on post history. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/25 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Why is it so frustrating wanting to get married?That's not the question. This is the women's sub, advice must benefit the women here. Framing marriage in this way is not a women-centric, helpful contribution. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/25 11:31 PM |
| 7 | How do I talk to my long-distance boyfriend about my visa ending (and the possibility of needing marriage to stay) without sounding like I’m rushing things?Ladies, getting a lot of comments on this one that I'm having to remove. RPW is an amoral sub. If you want to criticize a manipulative strategy, explain why you don't think it works and not why you think it's wrong or distasteful. Being appreciative, being vulnerable, presenting problems for him to solve, and even moving on if your partner doesn't share your long-term goals closely resemble strategies we have shared time and time again on this sub. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/25 11:57 PM |
| – | Pro-Women, Not Feminist: Join Women’s AdvocatesBe polite or be quiet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/25 01:02 AM |
| – | I've been banned from 3 subs for this post. I don’t even know what the red pill is . They called me red piller. I don't hate women I just found a statistical imbalance. Please explain me.Men's questions are not permitted on RPW. Please post instead on https://www.forums.red/i/asktrp | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/25 11:41 AM |
| – | Is it easy for you to make and keep girl friends?Self promotion is only allowed by active members with mod approval. You can message modmail to request permission. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/25 09:15 PM |
| 8 | A married man who brought me around his close friends?I've given you a star for this comment. Thanks for all that you do around here. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/25 02:05 PM |
| – | I just want to learnThis comment violates RPWi rules for male participation. You can read more here: https://reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/w/males?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | how do i make my husband agree to stay longer at my parents'?Removed. Advice must be actionable for the OP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | how do i make my husband agree to stay longer at my parents'?Removed. Be polite or be quiet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | how do i make my husband agree to stay longer at my parents'?Strategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How to get over him not being as involved at home as I’d like and just be gratefulThis comment violates RPWi rules for male participation. You can read more here: https://reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/w/males?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/RedPillWives | 22/07/25 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Not being "that" special girlRemoved. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/25 05:14 PM |
| – | Leadership and Submission: Are They Compatible in Family Life?Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort posts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/25 04:14 AM |
| 3 | I’m lostRemoved. Be polite or be quiet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/25 11:57 AM |
| 2 | I am 23 and my bf is 24Let's stay on topic. Your opinion on OP's employment matters very little to the discussion at hand. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/25 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Understanding what submission really means and how to do it without resentmentRemoved. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/25 09:43 PM |
| 0 | I (24F) found out the guy I'm dating (28M) has a severe ED, what should I do?This comment violates RPWi rules for male participation. You can read more here: https://reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/w/males?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Husband struggling with weight loss, I'm struggling with attractionThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/25 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Bf wants 'a bj'Removed. Tradcon is RPW but RPW is not Tradcon. Avoid moralizing. You can give reasons against providing oral sex but they have to exist outside of religious belief. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/25 08:26 PM |
| – | Appreciation postThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/25 03:35 PM |
| 2 | The wall for childfreeRemoved. Tradcon is RPW but RPW is not Tradcon. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/25 08:28 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I’m falling out of love and losing respect for my fiancé and we are getting married in 3 monthsI'm removing this per Rule 2: there needs to be actionable advice for OP. Remember, she is asking for help and has stated she can't/won't leave so replies here will be subject to more scrutiny than a post where the OP wants to leave. You can include caution or an anecdote as part of your advice, but it should not be the entirety. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/25 02:30 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m done doneClick on the blue "Everything You Need to Know about RPW" to find the full wiki/sidebar. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m done doneSee posts in the sidebar/wiki if you are unfamiliar with RPW strategies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/25 04:52 PM |
| 2 | I think I’m done doneVindicative actions and insults are unlikely to lead to a more stable or improved environment for OP and her child. See comments from WifeandMama, TheFeminineFrame, and ArkNemesis00 for comments that contain advice that is more likely to better OPs life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m done doneRemoved. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | I think I’m done doneStrategies or discussion of actionable advice requires either a thorough red pill rationale or must be backed by existing and accepted red pill theory. What you are suggesting is not supported by red pill theory. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | My (33f) bf (24m) has a hot female friend. Should I be concerned?Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/25 03:24 AM |
| 2 | My (33f) bf (24m) has a hot female friend. Should I be concerned?This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/25 03:23 AM |
| – | RPW from 8-10 years ago was of much higher qualityBe the change you want to see. Write a theory post. Report comments you think are rule-breaking. Removed. We don't permit rants. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/25 12:25 AM |
| 2 | HelpComments must contain actionable advice for the OP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/25 10:03 PM |
| – | HelpOP, you may benefit from completing the weekly OYS exercise at RPWi. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures jobRemoved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/25 03:41 AM |
| 1 | My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures jobRemoved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/25 03:40 AM |
| 2 | My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures jobRemoved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/25 03:38 AM |
| 9 | My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures jobEDIT: Post is locked due to the amount of rule breaking comments. OP, please make do with the responses from the 3 ECs as well as the other commenters. This is a reminder that comments which do not contain actionable advice for OP will be removed. Important Relationship Context OP has stated some of the attention involves pressure from superiors to drink more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/25 11:40 PM |
| 2 | My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures jobYou insulted him. Make your point without doing so. Direct insults aren't allowed for any reason. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures jobAdvice must be actionable for OP. No insults. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?Banned. Following people across subs to harass them is not acceptable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I feel rejected, my bf told me "I don't think I can just keep paying for everything", how do I deal with this situation?Advice must be actionable and applicable for the OP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/25 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/25 04:10 PM |
| -1 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?I'm generally fine with people giving advice and sharing their opinion. I'm not okay with random people giving commands or orders to an OP. We don't know her. We don't know what her options are, nor are we offering her support beyond a few words or sentences. I expect all commenters to at least respect her agency. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/25 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/25 10:32 PM |
| – | can i use nicotine patches while on birth control? NexplanonI'm going to remove this for being outside the scope of RPW/off topic. Best of luck to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/25 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/25 09:58 PM |
| -20 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/25 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?Removed. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines on low effort comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/25 09:42 PM |
| -21 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/25 09:40 PM |
| – | High heels versus modestyPosts and comments must be made in good faith. Your post history shows this isn't. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/24 08:52 PM |
| 3 | My fiancé wants me to address him by a term of endearmentAdvice needs to come from a RP perspective. Suggesting his request is a precursor for abuse is absurd. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/24 03:27 PM |
| – | When "Babe" Turns to "Nadia": Am I in Trouble?After checking OP's post history, I've decided to lock the post and ban the account. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/24 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Took the red pill years ago and reinvented myself to be a feminine, submissive woman but now I’m 30 and STILL single. Please help me.This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Personal preference is not advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/24 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Took the red pill years ago and reinvented myself to be a feminine, submissive woman but now I’m 30 and STILL single. Please help me.Removed. RPW offers a toolbox, not an ideology nor a strict set of rules for women to follow. You can give advice, but you are not welcome to speak on behalf of all RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/24 09:02 PM |
| 7 | How to deal when you are right in a situation and your man doesn't believe you/thinks differently?Removed for Rule 1: Advice must be from a RP perspective. A man hearing his partner out and then making a different decision for his own business does not equal that he doesn't have respect for her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/24 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Where to go for guidance?Removed. Advice must be woman-centric, and encouraging a monogamous woman to befriend, accept, and participate in her husband cheating is much more likely to destroy her happiness and mental stability than it is to help the marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 5 | RPW strategies that helped me the most, from a slightly different perspective. (i.e. How to have a good relationship, even if you're a bit insane)Thanks for the great write up! Here, have a star. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Support groupYes! We're happy to have you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/24 05:17 PM |
| – | 2 years post implementing Empowered wife skills and need adviceOP, please add line breaks. Walls of texts repel readers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is buildingSee Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/24 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is building"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Unhealthy habitsSee Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I met a guy randomly and now I can't stop thinking about him, but I have a boyfriend , how should I act?Low effort. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/24 02:33 PM |
| 0 | I met a guy randomly and now I can't stop thinking about him, but I have a boyfriend , how should I act?This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Advice must benefit the woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/24 02:32 PM |
| – | Do we have a discord?No. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Was this cheating?Rule Zero: Advice given must benefit the woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/24 03:43 PM |
| – | Don’t date women with breast reductions or cosmetic proceduresThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Meeting my man’s sexual needs and my own emotional needsThe snark is unnecessary. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/24 02:17 AM |
| 11 | are my standards hurting my options?u/Wife_and_Mama has requested you be given a star for your comment. Congrats on your second star, u/Ok_Obligation_6110 | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/24 02:04 PM |
| 2 | How can I find a guy who would want a housewife?They've been shown the door. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Guy telling me I’m of lower value to himNo insulting the community. This is not the red pill philosophy of RPW/RPWives. Banned. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/24 08:04 PM |
| – | Guy telling me I’m of lower value to himPlease answer the Seeking Advice Questions listed out in Rule 2 of the sidebar. I'll unlock this post once it's been edited. Edit: u/Flyhigh488 I'm going to need you to elaborate on the ways in which you have been "difficult". I don't know whether that means repeatedly kicking his beloved puppy or if you accidentally coughed in his face and immediately apologized. The advice you will receive will vary greatly depending on what your actions were. Edit 2: Post has been unlocked. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/24 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Confused between two guysAdvice must benefit the woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/24 01:35 PM |
| – | Guy telling me I’m of lower value to himOP, I'm locking this post. Please edit your post and answer the relationship questions listed in the Rules page of the sidebar. Once edited, I'll unlock. Posts that list multiple bad things that one person did with no insight into what the other party contributed to the situation tend to produce only one type of comment. There isn't enough written here to produce constructive feedback. Edit: OP, I'm going to need you to elaborate on the ways in which you have been "difficult". I don't know wheth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/24 03:14 AM |
| – | Women who are provided for by their husbands, how did you / he ensure you'd be okay no matter what?Post is locked for non-engagement after OP deleted the very few comments she did make. OP, communicate through modmail if needed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/24 11:35 PM |
| 2 | I moved out and I'm scared to tell my boyfriend.It looks like an account deletion and not a post deletion. Account deletions aren't penalized in the same way since others in the sub can still read and benefit from the post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I moved out and I'm scared to tell my boyfriend.See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | STFU gone too far? Field report/ advice/ general discussionThank you, I've approved it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/24 01:54 PM |
| 0 | STFU gone too far? Field report/ advice/ general discussionComments need to contain actionable advice for OP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | STFU gone too far? Field report/ advice/ general discussionRemoved. Comments need to contain actionable advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/24 01:51 PM |
| -1 | STFU gone too far? Field report/ advice/ general discussionRemoved. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1cu1qr6/comment/l4g9him/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/24 01:17 PM |
| 4 | STFU gone too far? Field report/ advice/ general discussionComment has been reapproved after edits, thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/24 01:17 PM |
| – | STFU gone too far? Field report/ advice/ general discussionLadies, calling someone a "doormat" is an insult. We do not allow direct insults as per Rule 3. All comments labeling OP as such will be removed. OP has made it clear what advice she is looking for. Not addressing this anywhere in one's comment is disrespectful to OP. When women reach out for advice when their partner is being disrespectable, that is the most critical time to show these OPs a proper example of courtesy. Comments that don't contain any actionable advice will be removed. Find a wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/24 01:17 PM |
| 0 | How much money would it take for you to sell yourselfGross. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/24 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Husband wants a one sided open relationship what do I do?The physical abuse in OP's post history wasn't brought to light until a few hours after this comment from Happy was made. The thread is now locked, physical abuse is beyond the scope of RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/24 01:58 PM |
| – | deep crisis in my LTR (13.5 years, 3 kids)OP, I'm going to lock this post until line breaks are added and you answer the relationship questions in Rule 6 on the sidebar. It'll help everyone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on how to be stronger and stop being a doormat / letting my feelings control meI'm going to remove this post since I think your earlier post is sufficient and we like participants to absorb the advice they get on one post before making another. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | I am new to reddit and confused by this subreddit. Is this group for women who comply with Redpill men or is it for women who have taken their own redpills regarding men and their dynamics?Read this link: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/wiki/index/ I'm going to remove your post because it's a little basic and it doesn't add value to the RPWives women participating here. Please know you are welcome to be here and can direct general questions to modmail if you are unable to find an answer in the Welcome/About/FAQ posts linked in to the side. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/24 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Marrying a man who's not taller than youAutomod flagged your comment, I've approved it because I do think it adds something to the discussion but please keep this in mind: We don't typically like to see "man here" type comments. You can read rule 9 in depth for a linked post as to why, but the spirit of it is to let the advice itself do the talking We want to see comments have some actionable advice for OP | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Marrying a man who's not taller than youThe snark is unnecessary. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Can’t go past the honeymoon phaseAdvice must be actionable and benefit the woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Men commit only when they're ready. Doesn't matter how great you are.See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Men commit only when they're ready. Doesn't matter how great you are.See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/24 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Men commit only when they're ready. Doesn't matter how great you are.Advice must be actionable and benefit the women here. No RP rants. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 03:42 PM |
| 4 | WEEKLY OYS - April 18th 2024Blank form OYS Number: OYS Comment Preference: (1) Encouragement only, (2) Constructive Criticism only, (3) A mix of both Demographics: Gratitude list: aim for 5+ Things I Did for My Present: aim for 3+ Things I Did for My Future: aim for 3+ Things I Did for My Partner: aim for 3+ Relationship Lowlights: Relationship Highlights: | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/24 01:03 PM |
| 6 | WEEKLY OYS - April 18th 2024OYS Rules Please comment even if there are weeks where you can't find out the entire form! We're all working to improve here and would love to meet you where you are. OYS is a locker-room environment designed for women's participation only. No criticism unless the commenter marked #2 as her feedback preference. If she marked #3, some affirmation needs to be included alongside the critique/advice. Comments will be removed and temp bans issued for repeated infractions. RPWi OYS is geared towards l… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | My husband's tone and temper are ruining my attraction to him. I'm not sure if I'm handling it correctly.See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 03:45 AM |
| 1 | My husband's tone and temper are ruining my attraction to him. I'm not sure if I'm handling it correctly.See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Women, how do you find balance when there is so much on social media of women speaking badly of men or claiming they all cheat? And what are your thoughts on shera seven, she stays this..He's been shown the door. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/24 05:18 PM |
| 2 | So, We've Decided to Ban the MenOof, you'd have to hunt through the sidebar. The split was before my time. Ultimately, RPW and RPWives disagreed on how much influence the men should have in the sub. It was men who originally formed RPW, and ECs like Whisper contributed greatly to theory. Some of the RPW female mods split off to form RPWives, but their departure wasn't peaceful. RPWives also ran more traditional than RPW, staunchly sticking to marriage as being the correct path for women. Over the years, the RPWives mods have m… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/24 01:36 PM |
| 1 | So, We've Decided to Ban the MenRedPillWomen will remain open to male participation, RedPillWives is closing it to Endorsed only, with additional structiny for male ECs. There are some manosphere subs like MRA and TRP that allow for comments from women, and there are others like MRP that do not. We are simply taking a note from their book - that mods should reflect on that purpose of the sub and whether what the opposite sex brings to the table makes up for what it detracts. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/24 01:16 PM |
| 2 | So, We've Decided to Ban the MenHe was perma-banned, men like that have always been. I'm not sure the new rule will do much to deter trolls, but if it gives the community more faith they'll get banned, that's a win. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/24 07:37 PM |
| 3 | So, We've Decided to Ban the MenI'm not going to never say never, but RPWi's new rule will most likely postpone changing course over at RPW. The quickest way to get us to kick out the men at RPW is for us to have a great group of women there who really get the men's perspective and have an excellent grasp on RP theory. ;) Our current roster of ECs is great, but I'd like to see many more before I'd feel comfortable suggesting the men are redundant. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/04/24 01:44 AM |
| 9 | So, We've Decided to Ban the MenThanks for understanding. I'll look forward to seeing you over at RPW from now on. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/04/24 01:39 AM |
| 5 | OYS is Starting Over at RPWives!My pleasure. :) I really hope this process helps someone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/24 01:51 PM |
| 5 | OYS is Starting Over at RPWives!I remember! It was one of your comments that sparked the bit in the OYS about listing a number that correlates to one's desired type of feedback. Great suggestion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/24 09:59 PM |
| 5 | OYS is Starting Over at RPWives!I hope to see you there! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet like minded women?Great! Thanks for working with me on this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet like minded women?You can keep the title. It was the title in combination with the single line of text in the body being somewhat specific geographical information that seemed off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet like minded women?I see. In that case, I recommend you either make a new post with more information about the type of woman/friendship you're looking for, perhaps also some of your interests and hobbies. Alternatively, you can google "Reddit RedPillWomen how to find female friends" and similar posts will pop up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/24 12:47 PM |
| 4 | A word of appreciationLovely! Have a star, u/MinimalistDreamer | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Loyalty from RPMRemoved. See explanation here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Loyalty from RPMRemoved. See explanation here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Loyalty from RPMRemoved. See explanation here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Loyalty from RPMRemoved. See explanation here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/24 08:15 PM |
| – | Loyalty from RPMOP, please edit your post and remove the words "high value". Oftentimes when people use this label to describe their partner, conversations devolve into debates over whether or not the label is applicable. It detracts from the issue you and your man are having. See Rule #6 for a helpful guideline when seeking relationship advice. Commenters, all comments mentioning high/low value will be removed. Note: thank you OP | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet like minded women?No requests for personal information. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | PsychologyThis is very hard to understand as is, please rewrite with proper punctuation. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/04/24 03:08 PM |
| 0 | unsure whether multiple wives lifestyle is for meRemoved for being insulting and condescending. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/03/24 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Bf of 9 months bought million dollar home cash wants me to pay $1,000 rent + foodSee Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/24 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Single motherThis comment violates RPWi rules for male participation. You can read more here: https://reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/w/males?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/RedPillWives | 22/03/24 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Need help with sex...I'm going to award you a star for your replies in this comment thread, u/templilwitch. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/24 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Met a guy who writes a blog on how men can seduce women. Lots of articles about this. On the blog he also advertises dating apps (where he’ll earn commission if people sign up for the apps) and writes tips for how men should use them. How much of a red flag is this on a 1-10?This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/24 12:23 AM |
| -1 | My fiancé went out last night with friends and didn’t return until the following eveningAdvice must be actionable for OP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/24 01:33 PM |
| – | man seeking perspective/advice from solid womenThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/24 01:26 PM |
| 2 | How Women Keep ScoreThis is very condescending and not at all helpful. Removed for Rule 3. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/24 03:47 AM |
| 3 | I (f22) am planning on a petty revenge for my cheating ex bf(m29).It's right there in the rules that while this is a sexual strategy sub, no-strings-attached casual sex will not be discussed. Revenge sex with the friends and family members of OP's ex falls into that category, although far more disturbing and harmful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I (f22) am planning on a petty revenge for my cheating ex bf(m29).Although this is an amoral sub, I think your advice would be so damaging to OP that I'm going to remove it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend liedI'm going to remove this until you have a chance to rewrite in English, then I'll reapprove. RPW is a heavily moderated sub, and if I can't read it I'm going to err on the safe side. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/24 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Getting married in 2 months and fiancé broke down in tears due to sexless lifeAdvice must be actionable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/24 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Getting married in 2 months and fiancé broke down in tears due to sexless lifeThis is a women's sub, advice should be to help OP first and foremost. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/24 03:10 PM |
| 3 | what do you think of loyalty testsAbsolutely! Here you go u/Mighty_Wombat42. Love seeing your comments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/24 05:45 AM |
| – | How to have an emotional connection? *Cross posted*OP, we don't like seeing new posts from users before they've taken and installed some of the helpful advice given from their previous post. Several members of the community took time out of their day to listen to you and try to help. I understand some of that feedback you did not like, but I believe taking some time to reflect and discern what's helpful and what's painful will lead to better results than making a new post with multiple references to being bitter towards others. My advice to you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/24 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Success story, and a lesson -Yes! Great work u/deviant-priestess. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/24 03:13 AM |
| 3 | I need to forgive his sexual past but don't know how.I'm going to give you a star for your comments on this thread. I like your advice, your patience, and the references you've given to OP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/24 02:59 PM |
| 5 | Bl*wjob vs Handj*b vs Regular S*xI think inferring to any sex act as red pill Red pill or not, no one owes anyone a sexual act. It’s for you and your partner to decide. I think you're getting a bit off topic here. OP is not partnered nor is she referring to some acts as more redpill than others. She's asking why men are stereotyped to have a preference, if the stereotype is true, and seeks to understand why some acts may be more pleasurable than others. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/24 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Accused of being the cause of his sister dying?"Leave him" without other actionable advice breaks the rules of the sub and provides little quality to the discussion at hand. Women don't need to be told to leave him, and most women here do not appreciate being ordered around by some random commenter. Have some tact. Women don't often take kindly to their husbands being referred to as "morons". This is the man OP chose to spend her life with. You are insulting her judgement as well as him. This is not how you get someone to listen to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/24 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Accused of being the cause of his sister dying?What you quoted is miles away from what the removed comment stated. If you would like to help the mod team, report content that you think breaks the sub rules. Let's keep meta discussions about moderation out of threads and into modmail. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/24 07:22 PM |
| 14 | We Really Should STFUThis is not an appropriate comment. If you’re going to do the right thing, then do so without patting yourself on the back. Field reports are in high demand and short supply around here. We need more members to share their successes for others to learn from. These kinds of posts are exactly what we want to encourage more of, and I do not take kindly to you criticizing OP against the best interest of RPW. Even if you were in the right, using your MIL as an “example” to show how you’re the better … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/24 03:38 AM |
| – | My husband makes over 400k a year, I dont work and we split all the choresExpand upon your post to include what you did do to attract your spouse so that other women can learn. It is unhelpful to state "I have what you want and you're not going to get it the way you think" without elaborating further. Please help provide value to the women here if you would like to post. Keep in mind we want posts from women who have an interest in the community and will continue to participate here. If this is not you, please move along to another sub. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/24 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Dedication to myself and using RPW as a tool changed my life entirely.Absolutely! Thank you so much for sharing your story with us u/amityjeanklein. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Women who haven’t settled and are over 30, how do you feel?No self-promotion unless you're a starred/EC with permission from mods. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/24 04:51 AM |
| 2 | I want kids but am running out of time and trying to accept that it might not happen for meNot wanting family-oriented women to be misinformed is a far cry from wanting women to be infertile. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I red pill?Do what benefits WOMEN. Advice needs to follow RPW guidelines. We encourage mutually beneficial relationships and strategies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Do men really enjoy providing or a coverup?I'm giving you a star for your comments on this post. Thanks for your contributions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/23 02:53 PM |
| 6 | I haven't refused sex in months, but he's stopped giving me pleasure in response"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/23 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Do men really enjoy providing or a coverup?Congrats on your fourth star u/Cosima_Fan_Tutte! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/23 05:10 PM |
| 9 | Do men really enjoy providing or a coverup?You have bitter responses to three different commenters on your thread already. If I see this impolite behavior continue I will lock this thread. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I wanted to get some objective advice on my current situation. IHere you go! Keep up the good work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/23 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Is anybody here a survivor of Schrödinger’s PatriarchyI'm going to go ahead and award you a star for this comment. Keep up the good work! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/23 05:57 PM |
| – | What is the red pill perspectiveNo low-effort posts. See Rule 7 for posting/commenting guidelines. Read the sidebar for information on the beliefs of the sub. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/23 07:04 PM |
| 0 | “Beta Batman”Be polite or be quiet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/23 08:33 PM |
| 3 | “Beta Batman”Sure! Here's your third star u/Cosima_Fan_Tutte. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How to make HIM the leader - not you - fast!Removed. Don't insult OP's man. Read the sidebar to learn about men's protective and provision instincts. Femininity, gentleness, and grace will do more to encourage them than snark would. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | My (20F) boyfriend (26M) cant let go of my past but doesn’t break upThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Refrain from speaking about personalized experiences. We are interested in learning about male nature in a more general sense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | My (20F) boyfriend (26M) cant let go of my past but doesn’t break upThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Avoid using phrases that make it clear you're a man or speak of your personal preference. Talk about male nature generally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/23 04:18 PM |
| 0 | My (20F) boyfriend (26M) cant let go of my past but doesn’t break upStrategies must be from a Red pill perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I find a good man?This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/23 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Boundaries about his friends?There's a good chance they're banned, or have been banned on an alt and would've gotten flagged for ban evasion. Banned users can still reach out to DM users but wouldn't be able to comment on your post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/23 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Restarting my life to save my marriageYes! Here's that star u/Single-Long-5668. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/23 05:08 AM |
| 5 | Is it better to invest on a Masters Degree or Plastic Surgery?Removed. We recognize fertility decline on this sub. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/23 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Damaged sex lifeOP doesn't have to agree to go to therapy for this post to be in good faith. She came here for a reason. I ask that we treat OP's judgement with consideration and respect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/23 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Where do we go from here"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Cooking for boyfriend.Participation here must be in good faith. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Regarding Body Count and not being a VirginRemoved. Personal preference is not advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Regarding Body Count and not being a VirginRemoved. Advice must be from a red-pilled perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/23 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever feel bad about using red pill tactics?Sure! Congrats on your first star u/Leosandlattes! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/23 01:53 AM |
| – | I’m a formerly poor woman who married into extreme wealth. AMA!Please see OP's comment for additional context about her marriage. I personally feel as though it's important to weigh the pros and cons of every situation. This thread has picked up a bit of attention, and I want to ensure readers see this. OP, I'm glad you've found the lifestyle you want. I would like to help others do the same, whether that's following your footsteps or choosing a different path. Thank you for sharing these insights into your relationship with us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/23 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Stressed out stay at home mom needing marriage adviceSure. Congrats u/Mommy_Koala! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/23 07:07 PM |
| 5 | WWLDD? What would Laura Doyle do?Advice must come from a Red pill perspective and benefit the woman. OP doesn't want more conflict in her marriage right now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/23 03:40 PM |
| – | There is a part of me that really wants to be a stay at home Dad...This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/23 03:07 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend says he wants varietyCongrats on reaching your fifth star u/InevitableKiwi5776!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend says he wants varietyThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Personal preference is not advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/23 07:48 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend says he wants varietyThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Our bar for male participation is very high. Personal preference doesn't meet what we're looking for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/23 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Supporting husband through tough timeThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Don't pet the unicorns. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How should I address the fact that I’m not physically attracted the men in my league?Advice must be actionable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Keep seeing this questionI'm going to award you a star for this comment. Keep up the good work! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Becoming averse to sex with husband (25F) newly marriedAdvice must be actionable. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/23 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Overnight he said he doesn't love meOf course! u/flower_power_g1rl, glad to hear things resolved. Here's a star. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/23 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Overnight he said he doesn't love meRemoved for insulting OP's man and OP. This kind of language is often unhelpful and turns people away from your advice. If you delete your first two sentences I will approve your comment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/23 04:21 PM |
| 3 | How quickly do you sleep with a new partner?Removed. Redpill is not Tradcon, and the sub doesn't exist to educate men on such basic concepts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you bring up you’d like to be a stay at home mom/provided for after a few dates?Removed for snark. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/23 06:11 PM |
| – | Corporate America wants women to be single and childlessRemoved. No cross-posting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend watches a lot of RP content I disagree with and find kind of unsettlingRemoved for being low effort. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/23 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Ive been seeing this guy 38M for a month. He is intelligent, treats me 100% respectfully,his personality is great and I like spending time with him. However,I am worried at his age his apartment looks horrible (hasn't been touched in 40 years),and drives a car in which I am really ashamed to be seenBe polite or be quiet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with new BF's clothing preferences for meRemoved. Advice should come from a RP perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with new BF's clothing preferences for meThis was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Your personal preference is not advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Please welcome our new mod!I like the questions! I think I lack the brain space to get it done in a timely manner, but I'll reflect on them and hopefully have some answers in a week or two | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Sad that my husband likes lingerie model types and not me.I'm aware. It's the comments that were responding to yours I had a problem with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/23 05:52 PM |
| -10 | Sad that my husband likes lingerie model types and not me.I'm going to lock this comment in the interest of not derailing the thread, it's spawning comments that aren't relevant to OP's post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Sad that my husband likes lingerie model types and not me.Comments that focus solely on sympathizing/validating OP in 'Advice' posts go against the heart of this sub. Advice needs to be actionable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I so so happy!!If you don't have anything nice to say... | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/23 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Cheating Dilemma: do you let your partner know that you know?u/West_Army_160 I'm going to give you a start for your poise, patience, and understanding throughout your post. I'm sorry you're in such a difficult spot. I hope everyone's comments have helped you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Daughters of Pick Me Girls or Cool GirlsOf course! Here's your second star, u/cosima_fan_tutte. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/23 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Why you shouldn't feel bad about wanting a providerI like your style, u/Fluffyhandle1990. Have a star. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/23 09:48 PM |
| – | Chat Groups for WomenWe done have anything active outside of Reddit right now and generally discourage this kind of thing for doxxing reasons. Hope you can find connect here by posting and interacting in the comments! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/23 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Should I still watch Jasmyne Theodora?No debating feminism. See our rules page. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/23 04:43 AM |
| 7 | Husband hurt my feelings and I can't let it go"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. This is not RPW appropriate advice to a one-off comment from a husband who has been there through four pregnancies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | We’re back on our feet!Sure, congrats u/lovewitchxo! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/23 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, in your opinion is it better to work or be a stay at home wife?Low effort comments will be removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What do HVM want? I need a women’s perspective because what is said in those male podcasts is not what I’ve observed in real life.This comes across as condescending and isn't constructive. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/23 02:29 PM |
| 2 | How to get him to tell me I'm beautifulLet's stick to the topic at hand. The answers in OP's previous post were meant to be used to help give her better advice in this one - not to tell her she should leave him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Please welcome our new mod!Thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/23 07:35 PM |
| – | My close friend weddingApplied 'Off Topic' flair. I don't see the harm in keeping this up but I'll remove it if conversation derails. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/23 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Is it bad that my boyfriend is a bit younger than me ?The snark is unnecessary and unhelpful. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/23 01:16 AM |
| 3 | What would the “Surrendered Wife” approach be to husband’s excessive porn use?Sure! Welcome to the community, u/Nelaboji. Thanks for participating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/23 02:39 PM |
| 4 | What would the “Surrendered Wife” approach be to husband’s excessive porn use?Insults towards OP will not be tolerated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/23 04:58 PM |
| 9 | What would the “Surrendered Wife” approach be to husband’s excessive porn use?"Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. OP has asked for help and has two small children. Comments disparaging her husband with no insight or actionable advice for OP will be removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How to move on from a break upRemoved. OP has asked for advice and by our community rules it needs to be actionable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to convince/talk a man into becoming a provider?Low effort comments will be removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/23 03:06 PM |
| 2 | is my boyfriend controlling because he says i can’t go out alone with guy friends? must i break up with him?Hey Jenn, I want to give you a star for your patience and guidance towards OP in this thread. Really great to see. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | How can I accept the fact that I'm a whore?This comment is not in line with the sub. This is not a red pill perspective (Rule 3) and crosses some lines regarding feminist talking points (Rule 5). | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/23 09:09 PM |
| 6 | SurrenderSure! Congrats u/lifelonglistener, and nice work on the journaling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/23 05:55 PM |
| – | How are immigrant indian men able to marry non indian women st high rates in US despite their bad media image?I'm locking this post - we've had some interesting discussions but it's mostly devolved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 08:27 PM |
| – | Should I leave him?I'm locking this post because I'm pretty sure OP just posted about this a week ago and the advice received there should be sufficient enough to answer this question. OP, don't waste anyone's time, including your own. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 06:35 PM |
| 5 | As an Indian woman, it irks me to see most of my male indian role models are married to foreign womenRule 9. You get a ban for being particularly impolite and clueless when it comes to RP. You do not have what it takes to contribute here. Spend your time over at TRP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 03:47 PM |
| 8 | Should I pick out his clothes?but we don’t need to be hearing from incels or serial daters spinning plates around here. Wrong. Some of the best TRP contributors here are serial non-monogamists, like Whisper. Uncle Vas is another who gives quality advice. These men are able to put RPW and OPs first and give theory/feedback that will benefit women with her goals. This is what we are looking for. Keep in mind: "Your gender doesn't matter in the marketplace of ideas." Read Pearl's reply to the top voted comment in your first lin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Should I pick out his clothes?I don’t see how my comments above (ie: if you don’t meet the above criteria, then this is not your space; his response came across as pretty entitled/guns-blazing for not being an endorsed responder; mens personal life/relationship standing is relevant to posting here as a man who is not an endorsed responder) were uncalled for? Stating that he was breaking the rules of the sub and was not welcome to weigh in was what was uncalled for. If you believe someone is breaking the rules, hit the report… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Should I pick out his clothes?Let's not tone police. Debating whether the word choice was slightly too strong or whether "so handsome and strong" is too much but "really handsome and compliments your eyes" is just right is not the kind of quality discussion we want to foster. I agree with u/Flat_Shower that your comment disparages him while reiterating the same advice. Not helpful. As for Rule 9, you and u/Scared-Tea-8911 should be aware that the married/TRP experts thing is a guideline, not a hard-and-fast rule. The purpose… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Using Red Pill Tactics to be a 6 Fix Sugar BabyI have some sympathy for your friends, but this forum was created to benefit women. Questions aimed at benefiting men over women are off topic. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Using Red Pill Tactics to be a 6 Fix Sugar BabyA certain level of politeness is expected here. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/23 07:37 PM |
| – | What are the advantages and disadvantages of being really conventionally attractive as a girl?OP, you made multiple posts over the past week that you've since deleted. This violates our community rules. If I see this behavior continue, you will be banned. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/23 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Advice on how to motivate my man."Leave him" should not be the first piece of advice you give. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | 3% of women are virgins/wait to have sex before marriageRemoved. His comment is helpful and relevant to OP's question. But u/chrisyankar, be cognizant of announcing you're a man when you're here. Even with good comments, it can sometimes lead to people overlooking what you have to say. Let your ideas speak for themselves. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/23 03:27 AM |
| 7 | Please welcome our new mod!Thanks so much! I got a quick nap in and now I'm ready to mod for the next week straight | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 07:21 PM |
| 20 | Please welcome our new mod!So glad to be a part of the team! This space means so much to me and I'm happy to help foster this community. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 04:38 PM |
| 3 | How to stop being a plateGreat comments throughout this thread, u/blushingoleander. I've awarded you your second star! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being a plateRemoved for being low effort and unhelpful. OP is engaging with the comments and seems to be genuinely looking for guidance. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Single at 31 - how do I not freak out?Solid advice, but your first sentence violates rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Forgo the "guy here" type phrases. Edit that part out and I'll restore your comment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Female friend coming over with malls friends to his house: what would you do?This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Comments with phrases like "man here, as a man, etc" break our community rules. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/23 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Single at 31 - how do I not freak out?Platitudes do not constitute advice. Fertility is a very real issue for women as they go through their 30s. Removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | My (35F) ex husband (33M) left me for an engineer (26F) from his work, will he want me back some day?Rule 3. Do not insult the community or its members. The EC men that comment here have proven their ability to contribute to TRP and RPW. Converse with respect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | My (35F) ex husband (33M) left me for an engineer (26F) from his work, will he want me back some day?We do recognize the wall here. It doesn't mean dating is over for women, it references a general decline in male attention and in fertility for women post 30. Comment removed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/23 08:21 PM |
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