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| 2 | Can you actually find FWB hookups on reddit?Get off reddit and go outside man | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 11:27 PM |
| 7 | Fumbled the girl of my dreams and now I’m sadI mean this in the most polite way as possible but get rid of the “girl of my dreams” mentality. You met a fun chick on vacation, cherish it for what it was, which was a vacation fling. It was never going to be more than that. You talk as if this is some unicorn of a woman. There are plenty of fun chicks just like her that are more datable due to logistics. Get rid of the “oneitis” mentality. | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 05:09 PM |
| 30 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannaThis is where you just get up and leave. Dont feed into her games | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Video games are holding you backI agree as long as those hobbies arent holding you back and dont encompass your whole persona then they are fine. But I’m also not going to act like the women who judge men for these hobbies or others arent the same type of women who bitch about video games and then browse tik tok and watch netflix 5 hours a night after work. Whenever a woman judges you for ANY hobby you have, take it with a grain of salt as it might be a projection of insecurity. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:24 PM |
| 38 | All you men need to stop putting pussy on a pedestalTitle of the post: ✅ Text of the post: 🤡 | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Do you think someone could have woman having no job no house no car (being poor and not independent)“Is it possible to lose weight without working out and without changing my diet and still sitting on my ass all day?” See how stupid that sounds? | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 02:04 PM |
| 2 | So tired of having great dates from dating apps and great interactions from cold approach. Just to get ghosted. I hate social circle but It’s my last option before becoming a passport bro. Any tips?If you’re getting dates, becoming a passport bro isnt going to change things. You may need to do some self-reflection from your dates and see why you are getting ghosted. | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 11:01 AM |
| 3 | What have you learned so far and why are you here? (Guys)Still applies. Always applies. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 02:11 AM |
| 8 | What have you learned so far and why are you here? (Guys)Nah. Ive done the 2nd as im willing to bet most guys have. Still doesnt work. Not worth it | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 06:29 PM |
| 12 | What have you learned so far and why are you here? (Guys)She lost interest | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 05:19 PM |
| 35 | What have you learned so far and why are you here? (Guys)Never open up and be vulnerable with women. Never works out. The less you say the better. She’ll bitch and moan about how closed off you are and what not but she’ll still fuck you. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 02:38 PM |
| -1 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?Get a life | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym?If you think im being a dick then you need to hit the gym more | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Breaking Free from the Friendzone: Strategies for Transforming RelationshipsSomeones tilted | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym?And this attitude right here is why you’ll fail | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 04:08 PM |
| 26 | Breaking Free from the Friendzone: Strategies for Transforming RelationshipsThere's no such thing as the "Friendzone." She's either attracted or she's not. And what type of friendship is it that you're just staying friends with the small chance that you hit it one day. A lot of you need to accept that Men and Women can't be friends. One party is always usually interested in more than just a platonic friendship and 9/10 times it's the dude. Also it's insane to me that dudes will go out of their way to to try and do things to get out of the "friendzone" with one women whe… | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 03:56 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym?How do you think girls would react if you told them what you just posted? | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 01:21 PM |
| 215 | How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym?Work and gym always come first. Making those two as a priority makes dating easier. Never ever give up or sacrifice those two. | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 11:05 PM |
| 10 | was this genuine attraction or just alcohol?Yea man you need to recognize these opportunities when they present themselves. She was an easy lay and she was basically throwing herself at you. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 07:52 PM |
| 14 | Cruise with hottest women?Carnival is your best bet. Full of young 20 to early 30 year olds. Dont go on Royal Caribbean especially the large ass boats. Full of families and not ideal for night life IMO | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl's interested but doesnt rly know how to talkIt’s because theyve never had to develop social skills or even hobbies. Imagine constantly being showered with attention your whole life then finally trying to maintain a relationship. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Sleeping overTheyre more likely to get attached if they stay over. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Sleeping overJust say no if you dont want them to. It’s your house/place. If youre worried about losing them then you dont have an abundance mindset and should work on that. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I say something to her on Valentine’s Day?Dont say anything. Stop acknowledging this bullshit “holiday.” It’s insane to me that we still take it as seriously as we do. It’s a scam that is designed to make women feel jealous of other women then bitch to her man about how becky’s bf bought her XYZ and spent hundreds of dollars on her. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Pre-date warm-upCall your best friend and bullshit with them for like 20 minutes. | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 10:27 PM |
| 64 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?Little bit of both, i think Tinder rewards dudes who travel more. Also, Pilot is a cool profession that makes good money. I mean besides it paying well, it's unique and you can talk a lot about it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:45 PM |
| 51 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?On Tinder, the dudes who got the most likes were pilots. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:38 PM |
| 539 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?Pilots/Flight attendants get a lot of action. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:36 PM |
| 14 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?Never spend any money on any program or coach. You cant get all the info you need from books and youtube. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 01:01 AM |
| 9 | Dumb question : How not to waste too much money dating ?I dont even think commitment needs to be involved, even girls that im seeing casually, I’ll take out to dinner after a few dates where I can see she’s chill. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 08:30 PM |
| 259 | Dumb question : How not to waste too much money dating ?Dont do food until later on. First few dates should be just drinks/coffee or going for a walk. If they suggest food tell them you already ate. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I give up?Cliquey how? Like is it a college bar? | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Should I give up?Go to bars alone. Specifically go to a place with live music. Even if youre a little introverted, odds are most dudes there that are with their friends are still doing the same shit and standing on the outside of the dance circle still afraid to approach women. Focus on making friends with some random dudes while out to help get over the social anxiety portion of it. Then slowly graduate to approaching women. Ill go out by myself then go up to a group pf 3 girls and just bullshit with them. A pr… | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 12:27 AM |
| 186 | What was your game changing moment or moments?As weird as this sounds, once you get laid enough times you start to put it on a pedestal less. Women hate this because you’re no longer controlled by basically the only thing they have to offer (most modern women at least). Having options also does wonders. A girl blows you off? Cool ill hit up another. Edit: To add, you can also start to turn down women based on shitty personalities. The 7/10 that is fun to hang out with and has a great personality becomes more fun than the 10/10 self-obsessed… | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 08:28 PM |
| 6 | How often do you have your first kisses at home vs out?Parking lot after a date. I dont personally like kissing inside the bar/restaurant if we met there for drinks. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to let the girl choose the date?I think you should be leading most of the time but if she wants to hang out and set something up, take that as a sign of interest. Dont overthink it, youre fine letting her set something up once in a while. | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 05:22 PM |
| 266 | Getting fit was the greatest change in my life. Has anyone else noticed the social changes?Getting jacked will earn you the respect of other men. Earning the respect of other men makes you attractive in the eyes of women. Working out and lifting has pretty much become a religion to me. Even days i feel like shit I just go and do what i can. Socially, youre more respected and have a bigger presence among a group and people are less likely to mess with you or take you for a doormat. It’s great for all aspects of life, not just with women. Youll advance in your career better, be healthie… | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 04:15 PM |
| 3 | PT jobs for socializing and meeting womenWork part time at a gym as a trainer. Free gym membership and you also have an excuse to go up to women and ask them if they need anything. On top of it, youll also be helping people better themselves which always feels awesome. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 02:55 PM |
| 70 | Are college campuses good for picking up chicks?Idk man, if youre a college student then yea but if not it just seems weird/creepy. Like if you have no other reason to be on campus you shouldnt. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 01:28 AM |
| 5 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?Because he can. Simple enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 08:27 PM |
| 11 | Is the Difficulty of the Current Dating Market for Men an Exaggeration?By the year 2030 they are expecting 45% of women aged 25-45 to be single. Women are now only chasing the top percentile of man. 4s and 5s are chasing the 9a and 10s. What do you think happens when Bill the Truck driver or Jim the plumber stop participating in society because they say “fuck it, whats the point?” The economy sucks too which isnt helping anything. Add to the fact that divorce laws are insane. Look at Japan. They are begging dudes to have kids and the guys are like “nah fuck that.” | /r/seduction | 12/12/23 02:51 PM |
| 136 | Is the Difficulty of the Current Dating Market for Men an Exaggeration?Statistics dont lie. Objectively the average dude is not having success. That being said if you find a way to work your way into the top 20%, you’ll have a fair amount of options. It sucks because I genuinely do feel for the average dude out who just wants to start a family and live a chill life. Even for the top percentile dudes, yea we may pull a lot of women for casual shit but honestly most women are not relationship material. But heres the thing. Neither you nor I have the power to change a… | /r/seduction | 12/12/23 11:34 AM |
| -4 | What can older guys do to not feel shortchanged in the dating world, like they say?It’s just something you need to get over. Women are in their prime for dating around the age of 23. For men it isn’t until early to mid 30’s. Just as women exercise their options when they’re younger in their prime, men are going to do the same thing. Just because a women who is in their 30’s is ready to settle down doesnt mean a man of similar age is ready to also. Men usually have to work hard throughout their 20s to even get noticed so by the time they are mid 30’s and successful, they’re gon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Which is why majority of divorces happen within first 5-9 years of marriage and are initiated by women. Also women will remarry ASAP. Hypergamy is a hell of a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 07:34 PM |
| 84 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellI don't care about what degree or job a woman has, at least in the sense of attractiveness. Attractiveness for a woman is mainly looks and personality. Like I think it's cool that you're a doctor, lawyer, engineer, etc. but it does nothing for me being more or less attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | how do you feel about modern marriage?It makes me wonder out of all of the married couples i see on insta and FB, how many of them are actually having sex? Like theyll posts pics to show they are “happy” but behind closed doors chances are they arent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Purple Pillers, what would you have done to prevent this situation?Honestly for someone like this, it’s just a gut feeling. You can tell when someone is crazy or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:14 PM |
| 3 | how do you feel about modern marriage?This. The couples that stayed together that "made it work" were most likely miserable. I think today people are just less likely to stay with something that makes them unhappy. Marriage originally was about the acquisition of in-laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be HonestIt’s better for guys to not be emotional. At worst, your girl will just complain and say things to her friends like “I just wish he was more emotional.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Q4All - What percentage of men do you believe care about n count on some level?Biology says otherwise darling. Thanks for playing though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4All - What percentage of men do you believe care about n count on some level?They don't though. If a guy is successful, fit, and good looking, you're deluding yourself if you think women will be like "oh he's perfect but hes been with a lot of other girls" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Q4All - What percentage of men do you believe care about n count on some level?Im all for women being sexual and “discovering” themselves. But let’s not act like that doesnt come without consequences. A girl with 50+ partners is going to have a hard time settling down with a guy. Mentally and emotionally. Plus the guy if he has self respect, will bang her then leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Q4All - What percentage of men do you believe care about n count on some level?Men and women are different. A lot of posters on this sub wont acknowledge that. I could have 50+ partners as a guy but still prefer a woman with less than 5 previous guys. Women will complain it’s a double standard but it’s just how things work. When it comes to long term mating, a guy wants someone who wasnt passed around the local campfire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:01 PM |
| 2 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here AREI remember when everyone would always joke about “women are so complex” and “lol good luck understanding how a woman works.” Women really are simple to understand and RP made that more abundantly clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 6 | How important is a man's physique to women?They’re jealous that the man would hold her to standards in the relationship. They know he wouldnt tolerate the “letting yourself go” bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:31 PM |
| 3 | There is no difference in how attraction works between the sex'sBro there are literally studies out there that prove youre dead wrong lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 11:18 AM |
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