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| 1 | Women simp on whole another levelThe difference between genders is men generally simp over anything in a skirt. Women simp over top 1% males | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl exampleI’ve seen the same thing from a female friend of mine. Her tinder looked exact like that and she’s cute maybe an 8/10. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | how do I develop a godlike confidence chill vibe?Learn to make drinks and become a bartender on the side or drive an Uber. Find a gig that affords you the opportunity to meet a lot of people in short intervals | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Hinge openersHow are you doing? Women love that one and they’ve never heard it before. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone withThe only way you can get out of the FZ is if she likes you already or sees some value in you. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How to friend-zone women you are trying to seduce?Friend zoning women comes down to saying no to them and hoping they don’t have 100 other guys in their inbox to take their attention when you don’t give it to them. In short it only works if they like you already and even then it’s a tight rope. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 12:56 PM |
| 0 | How to friend-zone women you are trying to seduce?Yea this only works if the guy in question is either really good looking or has something else really desirable about him like a lot of money | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | 4 mistakes men make when they ask a woman outI’ve stumbled on 1,2,3 organically and can confirm they work. | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Approaching is normal and so many men are doing itThis is entirely geographical and age based. If you live in New York near nyu and are approaching 23 year olds, yes they get approached a lot. | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | The worst advice dating advice I've ever received.My version of this is be the version of yourself you feel most comfortable. Unfortunately looks play a large part in this. Guys who look like models or have a lot of money can just be themselves because women proactively come to them. For the rest of us we have to bend a little bit. Don’t completely change who you are for ANYONE but learn where your deficiency is as a lover and work on them. | /r/seduction | 01/05/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | You're not in a job interview, you're the employer.You’re not wrong | /r/seduction | 22/04/23 12:58 PM |
| 10 | You're not in a job interview, you're the employer.No I feel you. There’s a scale of acceptable ranges is how I view it. Like if looks and personality were a 1-10 scale I couldn’t date lower than a 8 looks regardless of personality score. But a 9.5/10 looks wise would mean I’d go as low as a 5.5 in personality | /r/seduction | 21/04/23 02:06 AM |
| 40 | You're not in a job interview, you're the employer.The holy grail is a former fat/unattractive girl that loses a bunch of weight or grows into her face. | /r/seduction | 20/04/23 08:24 PM |
| 67 | You're not in a job interview, you're the employer.Facts. I’ve met so many women that were gorgeous but are like talking to a wet sponge | /r/seduction | 20/04/23 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Old school tip: The Brad Pitt RuleI have a variation on this but in the same category sort of. Girl cancels a date, I say something like “oh that’s too bad I had a surprise lined up for us. Maybe next time”. I also do this AFTER THE DATE would have happened. They always ask what the surprise is. I always say “guess you have to wait to find out”. I’d say 80% of the time they say something like you should have said that before I probably could have gotten out of whatever magical plans came up. Now they’re anxious to find out what … | /r/seduction | 19/04/23 01:39 PM |
| 4 | If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier timeBeen saying this!!! | /r/seduction | 14/04/23 09:04 PM |
| 2 | The solitary best thing I ever did for my game was learn how to read body language.Yea that’s hard because every guy is different. Some are comfortable showing their interest (by doing stuff like the post above). Any initiating contact is a sign of interest. Asking questions is another one. If a guy asks questions about you they’re interested. Not asking questions doesn’t mean there’s no interest but asking questions is a definite sign of interest | /r/seduction | 14/04/23 03:24 PM |
| 34 | Old school tip: the Knee testThe arm test is a good lead in to this as well. If you’re sitting side by side lean towards them in a way where your arms are touching. It’s a softer build up to the knee test IMO which is a great gauge by itself | /r/seduction | 14/04/23 02:22 PM |
| 14 | The solitary best thing I ever did for my game was learn how to read body language.We show up. Men who aren’t interested don’t make an effort at all. Even if we just want sex we put in some effort | /r/seduction | 14/04/23 01:14 PM |
| 96 | The solitary best thing I ever did for my game was learn how to read body language.So much truth here. I’ll add something I stumbled on that works for deciding to go in for the kiss or not. I was in the car with the girl I was on date #2 with. And so far we flirted a little and hugged but that was it other than casually touching her arm here and there. In other words not a lot of physical contact at this point. So I’m driving and she’s in the passenger seat. I am parking the car and it’s a tight squeeze, so I have to fold in the side mirrors. Anyway her window is already down … | /r/seduction | 14/04/23 12:21 PM |
| 0 | The solitary best thing I ever did for my game was learn how to read body language.Interested how? Interested in just sex is a lot different than interested in dating. | /r/seduction | 14/04/23 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.While this is sometimes true it’s also a good approach to take if certain types of women like you. Maybe you’re not super athletic but athletic women like you, play sports. You’re not super nerdy but like nerds, hang around nerds | /r/seduction | 12/04/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a party?Come here often? Lol No for real though you’re overthinking it. At a party is prime time to approach because unless she comes with a bf, the assumption is probably that people are open to meet new people. Just walk up and intro yourself, keep it simple and go from there | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 08:26 PM |
| 11 | I've learned that concerts are one of the worst places to meet new people.It’s a mixed bag depends on the artist, venue and all sorts of variables. In general though it’s way too loud to meet people at concerts | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:41 PM |
| 4 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?I don’t like to over commit to an activity on a first date in case the vibe isn’t there so I go for something you can get out quickly like drinks or a lunch. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 01:02 AM |
| 7 | What are some good ways to tease (by touch, or “make her melt”) a girl when you’re in a bar/pub/in general?That’s a good one too!!! | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:17 PM |
| 40 | What are some good ways to tease (by touch, or “make her melt”) a girl when you’re in a bar/pub/in general?I’m tall so I frequently lean in very close to talk to women (especially in loud public places). Usually a gentle hand on the small of the back (!not butt but back) and lean in close to their ear to talk. That gives an indication of interest or not, if they jerk back or look at me weird I know the vibe isn’t there. Usually what happens is I get a smile which lets me know I’m on the right track | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 11 | Does ignoring girls work?Ignoring women is a risky proposal especially with online dating. It used to be ignoring girls worked pretty well because unless they’re constantly getting hit on in public, usually their choices are limited. If you’re ignoring a girl that has 1200 matches on tinder you’re begging to get forgotten completely. In those situations a lot of men prefer the push/pull method. You give them large amounts of attention at once, make them feel special, then you pull back. You have to make yourself unforge… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 04:29 PM |
| 10 | Does ignoring girls work?It drags out the amount of time they have your attention and it gives them the bandwidth to get that attention from other places (other suitors). Essentially you’re the toy they play with every other day or so but they have a whole bin full of toys | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 04:26 PM |
| 46 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?Yes this is an overly discussed topic. Women do way better at online dating than men do. This is most likely for several reasons. There are more men on dating apps, by a considerable margin at that. I saw a stat that said tinder had a 12 to 1 male female ratio Men aren’t as picky. We swipe on everyone. Women are pickier What you get as a result is a massive Imbalance | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | what cold approach lines work well in galleries?Wait until they are enthralled with a particular piece. Then ask them what about that piece caught their attention? | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | 'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye''Sometimes you gotta know when to hold ‘em and when to fold ‘em | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 0 | What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do?Some of the most successful guys I know that get women aren’t conventionally attractive or super tall. A good friend of mine sleeps with a new girl every week, he’s 5’9 and probably 250 lbs and married (they’re poly). but he’s confident, doesn’t give af about impressing them (he’s not thirsty in other words) and he makes them laugh. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Having an active conversation with a girl, but she already has a bfIf you aren’t interested in just being friends you should say something sooner than later. I wouldn’t get too crazy here but let her know how you feel Honesty just like option 1. Just be upfront and tell her you are looking for a romantic relationship and she’s great but you like her too much just to be her friend Maybe her BF doesn’t like hiking. Also you’d be surprised how many people have significant others they don’t like spending a lot of time with. She might not like her bf that much tbh. … | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I am genuinely interested in a girl for the first time and I have absolutely no idea what I'm doingThis is the best advice here IMO. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | How many girls have you approached in the past month?2 | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention.The point isn’t that it’s uncommon that guys do it. We all know there’s a million simps out there. The issue is guys who should know better expecting the results to be different | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Bumble in my hometown (population 300,000) = 1 match in 1 year. Bumble in city on west coast I'm traveling to (population 1.5 million) = 15 matches in 36 hoursFacts!! | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 01:49 PM |
| 17 | What was the most helpful Lesson you learned from this community Tell was pro-tips and advices you learned here that were a game changer for your seduction life?Yes for me it was a big mindset change. Didn’t help my results but it helped me get over my fear of rejection | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything you can do to approach a cute girl who walked past you?Catching a woman while she’s walking to a destination is tough because you’re in a situation where she might be on a time crunch so you’re more likely to get the “I have a bf” before you say two words response | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 02:08 AM |
| 33 | What was the most helpful Lesson you learned from this community Tell was pro-tips and advices you learned here that were a game changer for your seduction life?The top post all time here is a game changer | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Date night went great, we got naked & rolled around in bed for a while! .. Advice is awesome on this sub!—-the joke——- Your head | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueThe ratio of dateable women is ridiculously low as well. However men have both a quantity and quality issue women just have to deal with quality | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:59 PM |
| 11 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueI’m not speaking for myself for the record, but this is how I see most guys in the dating world act. I very much subscribe to the idea that I know my worth and I’m willing to be picky to make sure that’s met | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 04:36 AM |
| 140 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueSo much this. If men just had 20% higher standards we’d flip the power dynamic in dating around. As it stands women have the power because they can be picky. Especially with online dating apps just because men almost always outnumber women by 2-4 times | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 11:00 PM |
| 3 | How does my Friend get all the girlsI guarantee you it’s his attitude. Girls can tell when guys are thirsty but more importantly they can tell when guys don’t give two shits about them, that’s the part that gets them intrigued because they’re used to guys (I’m guessing you’re in your 20s) throwing themselves at them | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Is the "texting is for logistics only"-Mindset really still applicable these days?Everybody has it wrong on this. You need to get dates early in the relationship to build a true connection. Once you get a few dates in then the texts will start to increase and you adjust accordingly while still pushing for in person dates | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 01:16 AM |
| 3 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?I disagree but I’m fascinated to see where this goes | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 05:57 PM |
| 24 | How to hook up with girls on vacation?I’m going to preface this with there’s nothing wrong with vacay hookups. You have to think about what you’re asking for. If you want a ONS on vacay you have to be aggressive. Girls typically don’t go “he’s so shy and cute I want to fuck him tonight!”, those guys are the guys they like and want to build a relationship with. If you’re looking to hookup you’re going to have to also compete with the other guys looking to hookup, that also means rejection, lots of it but you need to be approaching as… | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl who used to like me way back in highschoolWon’t know if you don’t try | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Girl who used to like me way back in highschoolThis might sound crazy but some people are terrible through text. Have you tried just calling her? | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Got her number, what should I text her?Just call and ask her out | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 01:13 AM |
| 6 | Good comebackThere isn’t one. Thank her and leave | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:34 AM |
| 2 | 40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong?you're matching with pretty girls so you are doing better than 98% of guys on tinder pretty girls on tinder have like 100+ matches a day so even if you are interesting as hell they are getting messages from 100+ guys a day. You also have to accept that a lot of people on tinder are just looking for attention and reassurance so they don't actually want dates they want to know that people like them. best advice, stop being thirsty. your opening messages and follow-ups kinda reek of thirst or stop … | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How to make the jump from touches on the arm hand to the waist? What do you do beforehand to make sure the girl will be comfortable with you doing that?Start small and work your way up. Go from holding her arm to rubbing/gently touching her forearm. If you don’t get the pull away try touching her back, high and in the middle. If that doesn’t get the pull away then go for the waist. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional?the history shows he's doing this on purpose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Do women really hate when men approach? I’m referring to a purple pilled subreddit post that started a debateI’m mixed too! | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Do women really hate when men approach? I’m referring to a purple pilled subreddit post that started a debateLike I said I’m tall. I don’t have to work as hard | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Do women really hate when men approach? I’m referring to a purple pilled subreddit post that started a debateI should add the caveat that I’m 6’6 and fairly decent looking. But I don’t over think it and I only approach when ideal circumstances. For example I’m in a grocery store and we’re looking at the same thing (salad greens for example). I usually start with something like “iceberg fan huh, I’m more of a green leaf fan myself”, “you like to cook, what’s your specialty?”,”oh that’s interesting, I’m more of a ______ fan myself” then go from there | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit. Have you ever agreed to a date or gave a guy your number from cold approach?Yes I have and dated the girl for 16 months. The difference here is that she cold approached me. She actually used a lot of the techniques you see on r/seduction all the time. She initiated, she asked questions, she asked for my number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:06 PM |
| 12 | Do women really hate when men approach? I’m referring to a purple pilled subreddit post that started a debateI’m not a big approacher but I notice a trend when women are put off by an approach and it’s almost always related to where and when If you approach a woman while she’s walking to work or an appointment or something you’re more likely to get the “I have a bf” and walk away because she has somewhere to be. Then there’s the gym. Similar, we’re all there to get in and out. And my guess is women at the gym already know guys are checking them out so they’re on guard. Best approaches are done when it’… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Ladies: Asking for consent before a kiss or just by reading non verbal cues? Rule or preference?If you wanna check do the ol lean in and pretend like you’re pulling a string or something out of their hair. If you pull in close like you’re going to kiss them, but you’re reaching across their seat to adjust a mirror or something. Anyway when you do this look and see how they initially react, if they jerk back or look weirded out, you know that’s the reaction they’ll give. If they lean in or look like they’re expecting something then you know they want the kiss | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Guys who are successful with women, how long do you wait until you kiss a girl on a date?read the room. I have a “no kiss if it’s our first time meeting in person rule”, but I’ve also broken this if her body language says I can. If it’s a first date with someone I know already, I’m going off of the vibe and her body language solely. But for me it’s almost always at the end, unless there’s a strong moment somewhere. Don’t go into the date with a kiss plan just let it happen is the best advice | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 5 | Need FLIRTY way to respond to "Hey, what perfume are you wearing?"Tell him he’ll need to smell it again at night to figure out what brand it is | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:08 PM |
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