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I’m a woman btw. And i said specifically meet irl through friends/hobbies. A singles event is a completely different kettle of fish. I’d equate a singles event to a job fair with a ton of people all similar to you trying to get the same handful of roles available, versus networking with a few existing colleagues/acquaintances to hear about a new job opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:22 PM
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Read my other comment above replying to parrotsandarmadillos; In a group, mutual-friends setting you’re at an advantage in a number of ways. It’s an entirely different environment to talk to someone in that isn’t ‘cold approaching’.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:46 PM
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I disagree. If you’re meeting someone who has a mutual friend in a casual group setting, you immediately have an advantage with a woman. (a) she will naturally have her guard down as you’re already pre-vetted by your mutual friend as not anyone dangerous, assuming you’re not being weird or pushy. (b) You can strike up a casual conversation to get to know a bit about each-other without the pretense of vetting like you’re on a date. (c) Assuming that goes well, you can simply follow eachother on s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:51 PM
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Its easier to determine those things (kind, funny etc) in person rather than online. Online dating forces women to only judge men on looks. With x1000’s matches thrown at them and having to swipe through based on a few pics and 200-character-limit-bio where you’d get 0.00001% of their personality (if that)-what do you think happens in this scenario…? If you want to demonstrate your value other than your looks (cooking/humour and the other traits you listed) get tf off the apps and meet people ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:20 PM
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I think that stems from women bearing the brunt of income loss at maternity/post-partum stage, especially in countries with poor maternity pay. If i earned more than my husband and our livelihood relies on both our incomes (common nowadays with high housing/rent costs) we’d have to save big bucks. I’d reframe your phrase to: the vast majority of women still need security at the most vulnerable part of their lives because society treats maternity like a joke - then people wonder why birth rates a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:25 AM
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From your response then, this is a man issue driven by societal pressures, sex drive and bravado amongst other men. I would say female friends and mothers very often warn their friends/sons/cousins, etc, if a woman they have been introduced to by their male relation seems off in some way. Whereas as ‘older’ women, or anyone else for this matter, are getting chastised for looking out for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:42 AM
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The question here should be do other men defend/warn young men about these types of relationships? Often they cheer them on and encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:10 AM
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It’s not driven by insecurity/resentment of older women to younger women. It’s driven by experience. Older women are more attune to games and manipulation many men play to get their sexual needs met, so naturally when a much older man tries to pursue a younger woman he has no business with - other than trying to get sexual access in exchange of money/gifts/a lavish lifestyle - yes, it strongly appears as predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:16 AM
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Some would argue the entire concept of creating 9-5 jobs since ww2 was to give people some semblance of purpose. Now that’s eroding, the 9-5 deal is one sided for corporations. People are struggling to afford basics (home, food) on good incomes, so there is scramble for sense of purpose and survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:59 PM
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Look up the Universe 25 experiment. We’re at the stage of over population, the few hoarding resources, increasing selfishness and violence, moral corruption and males/females not wanting much to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:29 PM
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Condoms have a 98% success rate on its own when used correctly. If the woman is also on birth control, there should be even greater possibility to have sex without conception. You keep mentioning women’s part in this- im focusing on what you as men can do at the first level of protection. But since you want to keep bringing up women, heres my 2 cents: We do place a great responsibility on ourselves to make sure we don’t have an unwanted pregnancy. We carry the most risk as we have to carry the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:15 PM
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I get mistakes happen. But you need to mitigate it. As your own person in control of your own actions, you need to control what you can personally do to prevent conception. That means bring your own untampered condoms, make sure you know how to put them on and use it properly. There will always be some level of risk, but you have to take that on the chin if you want to have sex without wanting to be a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:09 PM
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If you don’t want to be a father, use a condom. Seriously, your 2 mins with a rubber is substantially safer than a woman having to get an abortion, physically and emotionally. Mistakes can happen and responsibility comes from both parties, but as the man who releases the semen that impreganates, the buck starts with you. Stop thinking about getting your peens wet whereby it clouds your sense of consequence, and be actual leaders in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:49 AM
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I’m married, but yes if a man is very attractive I’d assume he’s not the committing type as he probably has lots of women looking his way and is sleeping with. I also think a man with a high number of sexual partners is a put off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:22 PM
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My thoughts exactly. If loyalty is absolutely crucial to me and I’m developing a new relationship, last thing I need is to worry about a partner with twice the population he can potentially cheat with. And what if we do establish something and he decides he wants a man, well I can’t exactly help in that department. It just seems like extra headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:22 AM
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They’d rather be single. We’d more likely have a relationship with another woman (despite being straight) than be with a man we find unattractive. Another woman would bring more to a relationship than a man desperate/using your body for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:59 PM
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Or the flip side is they manage to finally reach step 1, only to fuck it up because they don’t know the relationship skills. They end up bitter anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:52 AM
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This. Too much emphasis on sex (which is only the first hurdle) and not enough on maintaining long term relationships, marriage and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:39 PM
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Marriages are declining because women don’t want to be a part of a shitty deal that op described. Most couples have to have two incomes, especially in this economy. And if both parties are working, both should contribute equally at home. The trouble is, women are still doing more at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:51 AM
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The actual wall is the men who can’t get access to all the sex they are desperate for, let alone be able to reproduce. This so called wall for women is a scare/shame tactic for us to rush into choosing who we reproduce with. It’s a woman’s biological right and god-given power to choose whom she has children with - if at all - and if it takes her until 40 instead of 25 to find that person, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:02 PM
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Stereotype here: you can be a software engineer on $200k a year, but if you’re too shy, introverted and struggle to make emotional connections etc, those aren’t cues to becoming a good lifetime mate. Money can only get you so far, same with attractiveness level for a woman. If you keep looking at relationships as these black and white transactional things, you’re going to struggle. Building and maintaining relationships are intricate processes between people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:11 PM
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Based on what, just looks? Have you considered that maybe this woman (likely with an inexcusably shitty personality) just doesn’t want to be approached by guys / constantly solicited for sex? There could be many reasons as to why she didn’t want to engage with any man on that occasion you witnessed. Stop making these kinds of scenarios black and white to fit in your rigid box.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 08:55 PM
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I think the younger generation (18-25) have lost the art of social interaction altogether. This affects men more negatively as the main pursuers of relationships. There is too much emphasis on everything online: online gaming, making friends online only, online dating… its easy to not develop newly formed relationships to a depth required. I also think men in particular suffer from having too many vices to escape to that make them more solitary, zeroing their chances of forming decent relationsh…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 07:05 AM
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Yeah the stuff on there is terrible. And it causes betrayal trauma to partners, similar to that of Complex PTSD. It’s common for people to think porn wouldn’t be an issue when you have a partner. Id seriously advise you quit, and I don’t mean no fap, but get to the point where you reset your dopamine receptors and use your imagination instead of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:02 PM
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All of them I’m afraid. If I were to give an order of severity: Manipulative / narcissistic / liar - I mean, not much else to say on that. Porn addiction - yes ai and hentai do count, if not worse. You’re desensitising yourself from real people. This addiction is so detrimental to relationships, you can see for yourself in r/loveafterporn Social awkwardness - can be worked on if you truly want to improve
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:27 PM
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Ah ok. Those are pretty big 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:16 PM
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Well done, it was extensive…! Which 3 did you have to go for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:57 PM
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A high / feminine voice or certain accents Lack of hygiene and self-care Not knowing how to cook/clean, basic chores Lacks initiative Has to be told what to do, then gets mad if you ‘nag’ Someone who is messy and doesn’t take pride in their living space Can’t keep calm and help find a solution in stressed/pressured situations Full of complaints without any actionable solutions Lacks self control and discipline Not loyal / lack morals Selfish Substance abuser A porn addict Follows IG / Tik Tok ‘m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:59 AM
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Why are you mad that women now have choices that were artificially and systematically suppressed by religion-back patriarchy? I swear, comments like these show that deep down, men know marriage is more beneficial for them (and i mean marriage, not the consequences of divorce, thats a different topic.) You want a guarantee that ALL men are entitled to a partner to have sex with/reproduce/cook/clean/cater/support your ambitions/[enter anything else to use as another resource]. Nature doesn’t work …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:52 AM
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Correct me if you don’t think it’s the same, but isn’t that like asking: why should I go around being polite/show manners to just anybody? Answer being, you automatically show respect until that particular person gives you a reason otherwise. Don’t tarnish everyone with the same brush upfront; you’ll just become a bitter and negative person and that will reflect back on to you. This statement seems like you’re only displaying certain traits for a chance to get sex, when you shouldn’t be play act…
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:20 PM
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Cost of living might force along these kind of long term relationships. It seems having 2 incomes isn’t comfortable enough to sustain a household these days.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 01:09 AM
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Yes, it will continue for as long as most of these men only rely on dating apps and their social intelligence diminishes. If you’re relying on dating apps (which gives you near impossible odds as it is) and say you finally get a match; you then have to woo over messages and try to stand out; you’d have to see how much you have in common to warrant meeting; then she had to agree to meet for a date/coffee which is risky in itself for both of you; then you’d have to hope she actually shows up. And …
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 09:21 AM
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Most of these guys aren’t ugly
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 05:28 PM
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I mean, go ahead and pay if sex means that much to you (or so little, depending on your point of view) but know that should you find a partner that finds out you engage with SW’s, that will likely harm the relationship. And to your first point, men in general are harmful to society if not kept in check by laws. Look at how men typically behaved in the past and even today where its a literal free pass to harm women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:29 PM
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Personally I think they are for the degenerates who have given up or something is seriously wrong with them to resort to paying; that includes all the horrific people that have wives and still go looking for SW’s. That said, I see the need for sex work to exist in order to suppress such people otherwise they’d probably be law-breaking nuisances that are a danger to women / society as a whole. Just my 2-pence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:07 PM
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There are plenty of men who have almost have no contact with females who would want a relationship Well thats the first hurdle to overcome. Thats like saying there are plenty of men who want to swim but refuse to dip their toe in the water. Not gonna get that far are you.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 11:37 AM
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For a gender that is supposedly "not a monolith", you sure do love sharing the exact same opinions and coming to the exact same conclusions, relying on the exact same arguments, making the exact same comments and expressions, and coming to each other's defense. Isn’t that like 99% of the guys complaining on this sub? When we say we’re not a monolith, we mean who we are on an individual basis. Shared experiences don’t make a group a monolith, it just further proves our point. Oh boohoo, you have …
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 11:32 AM
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Sometimes you can drown in too much choice and making the ‘right’ choice has a lot of pressure attached to it. Think about when you open netflix on a very rare bit of downtime you suddenly have on a sunday evening; you’re looking for something binge-worthy. You can go by friend recommendations but it might not be your go to genre or you’re not in the mood for a thriller. Despite spending ages flicking through, maybe one spurs your interest but you are reading up reviews and it has a 32% rating o…
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 08:43 AM
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I just have a bit of free time on maternity leave.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 02:54 PM
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I don’t think they will create artificial wombs, for the masses anyway, even if they could. They are trying to depopulate earth, not the other way round.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 06:58 AM
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Not everyone can be a leader just because they say they are. Theres always a pyramid structure where there are few leaders at the top and the rest follow. Not all men possess leadership qualities and can be effective leaders.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 10:57 AM
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I tell you what will level the playing-field: workplace childcare creches and men picking up the slack at home if both parents are working. And there is a growing number of successful female entrepreneurs. Besides, you’re talking as if all men are CEOs.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 06:59 AM
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Bruh these whores literally live in some kind of fantasy where women are worshipped, fuck chads, and all the non chads raised their children lol. It wasn’t a fantasy, women were revered thousands of years BC. Plenty of female gods and deity figurines that have been found. And stop lowering the tone of the convo. Calling us whores achieves nothing. In primitive societies, women were seen as much of a resource as any other kind of resource, and that resource was meant for breeding. Wrong. We were …
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 06:56 AM
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Funny how you only interpret one man with many women as some kind of male harem fantasy. Why couldn’t it be viewed as the one man the women in villages all fancied so they passed him around? Also, I’m talking thousands of years bc when matriarchal societies existed and women were revered. The examples of Ghengis Khan and the Qing dynasty are far too modern of examples and tied into established patriarchy.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 06:48 AM
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Women have only entered the workplace in the last few decades. We have obstacles reaching the top, including sexist men and small career gaps when having children. I was going along the lines of men wanting to be leaders within a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 06:33 AM
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I don’t get it when all men want to be treated like a leader- when most can only lead with their d*cks. Leaders are depicted as exercising self-control, competent, accountable, empathetic, possess emotional intelligence, resilient, self-aware, decisive, positive, active, has humility, has integrity and shows gratitude. Many fall at the first hurdle of self-control. Funnily enough, women tend to have more of these characteristics.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 06:20 AM
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It's bizarre people believe this. The distance between "natural" human mating selection in a hunter gatherer type society and the modern world is enormous. The modern world doesn’t change biology Pre modern/hunter gatherer societies, whether they enforced monogamy or patriarchy or not, were really not kind to women even if in some cases women did have more sexual freedom, a notion that is highly debatable given how often murders and violence are centered around sex in primitive societies. Patria…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:42 AM
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Men treat women they don’t find attractive as non-human. No one owes you an apology. Its just a hard fact of life. There could be several people out there for you if you removed your hate and get out there. Ps. The race thing is silly.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:29 AM
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Only nobles were monogamous. It wasn’t mandatory for everyone else and they even had a year probationary period after marriage. Of course all laws are artificial, but we can agree some are better than others, some are wrong and some are to keep the masses in check. The laws that used to pertain to women that included not being allowed to vote or have their own bank accounts and so on artificially held them back by forcing them to be dependent on a man.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:27 AM
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That’s right. But think about the millenias before patriarchy was set up; we lived in commune villages with matrilineal lines and the woman was worshipped for bringing life. Women chose which men they wanted to sleep at anytime; some men were more lucky to be chosen often over others and hence why only 40% of the males genetics were passed on. So as society takes away the artificial rules of patriarchy that has had women literally dependent on being married to live and function, we’re allowed to…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 07:23 AM
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Back to nature. Artificial monogamy with a patriarchal society didn’t leave us with much choice before. But you’re saying this as if men don’t choose genetics either. Funny how women are demonised for the same thing.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 07:04 AM
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Haha so you’re of the opinion that all women are here for is to pine for a man and procreate? I’ll let you in on the fact that most women, married or not, will nearly always die ‘alone’ as we outlive men on average. Only, know that the majority of women are never alone - we are social creatures who place importance on maintaining relationships with friends and family. In contrast, you’ll often find stories of men - many with children - who live out their last ill health days in a care home witho…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 05:54 PM
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What’s between my legs brings life and is highly coveted - average or not - hence the reason subs like this exist and the growing number of men complaining they are sexless and alone.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 05:28 PM
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You’re the one coping here dear
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 05:09 PM
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Seed is cheap and plentiful. You’re the one lacking in value with this mentality. Buy a dog and die alone, or whatever the saying.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 05:04 PM
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No, roping is for losers. Arranged marriage is a means to live the life you’re looking for.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 01:20 PM
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Stay off onlyfans and social media…? If you want to avoid trash, stop looking in the bins.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 01:11 PM
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Thats due to a number of factors. One being that casual hookups are frowned upon for women in their culture. Secondly, India (and China) have a shitshow of a problem where female infanticide is rife and you’re left with more men than women to marry and procreate with. In turn the women and their parents are more selective with marriage prospects, thus creating a very hypergamous culture. I also believe this is why rape culture is rampant there and it’ll only get worse. Op has better prospects be…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 01:05 PM
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EatLessGheeMaxx. On a more serious note, aren’t arranged marriages on the cards for you? In the meantime, focus on your med career, get healthy and fit and enjoy life before your big responsibilities as a husband and father.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:59 PM
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It’s all the extra awful shit American food companies add. Top one being high fructose corn syrup. I saw a vid recently on how your loaves of bread from the supermarket last a month vs. in Europe, ours last around a before going mouldy. Thats all down the the ultra high processing and artificial additives- all of which have recently been linked to cancer, diabetes etc.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:38 PM
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And somewhere there is a man who is emotionally intelligent and stable, makes a decent living, loyal, ready to settle down and have children, can cook and knows his way around the house like how to work the washing machine, confident, doting, empathetic, caring, loves me for me and not just my looks which will naturally change with pregnancies and age, great converser, has strong morals and ethics, share similar values and can protect me. Bonus if he looks like Roman Reigns. We can all dream hey…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 07:37 AM
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Aren’t SAHM’s the popular choice of women here? That is all I see anyway. I agree dual income is the most ideal in today’s economy. I don’t know how families can live comfortably on one income unless that person is earning well above 6 figures.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:22 AM
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On the surface, that 24 year old seems happier. But the caveat here is she is stupidly putting her whole life into the hands of a man no matter how good of a loving wife and mother she is. As soon as that man fucks up or decides to leave her she’s screwed, especially if she only has a high school diploma. The 38 year old may or may not find a partner- purely her decision as she still has options and can choose to be less picky- but at least she can take care of herself. I would never in a millio…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:07 AM
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You guys take things to such extremes. You need to work on subtlety and a formula that works for you in certain scenarios / environments / the women’s perceived personality type. Not everything is ‘2 + 2 = 4 for Chad’. If you’re not chad work on something different and find your 1 + 3
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 10:48 PM
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Upvoted. To add to the op, my theory is that nice guys give off ‘only being nice to get cheeks’. Whereas the ‘asshole’ type is intriguing; like why isn’t he fawning over me like others? Challenge-pick-me accepted.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 08:19 PM
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Females are excelling in education because the educational system is geared towards females. An example is that in my high school physics class they got rid of 90% of the maths in it in the Outside of your one experience where you’d like us to believe this was the sole reason they removed most of the math parts, is their proof of this on a global scale? On a macro scale, education is still fundamentally sitting in a class to learn and pass exams. Thats hasn’t changed much since victorian times o…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 12:56 PM
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You raise many good points, and I have said similar in the past. Humans used to be matriarchal where we lived in commune villages and women picked the best males to copulate with. Children were ‘raised by the village’ so to speak, so the idea was that there were no ‘single mums’ as we understand the term today. It was only until religion and agricultural possession dictated that a more selfish approach was needed in the form of a nuclear family. This meant monogamy had men who wouldn’t have a ch…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 04:24 AM
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Well there are plenty of women now who choose not to have children for various reasons. We’re also having less.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 08:14 PM
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Speed up the correction process…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 12:49 PM
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You could argue that’s nature correcting itself. Before the govern of patriarchy that allowed most men to reproduce, women were hypergamous and only reproduced with the top males. Look at what centuries of patriarchy has done to the world with over population.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 09:08 AM
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Thank you for your honesty. I hope you heal from the hate/pill rage and focus on loving yourself. I hope you see that there is so much more to life than women and sex, and so much the world can offer you in rich experiences. Save up and make a goal to visit global monuments. My bucket list includes: matchu pitchu, the giza pyramids, taj mahal, great wall of China, vatican city etc. Perhaps somewhere along your backpacking adventures you’ll meet new friends.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 09:01 AM
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Ok, I’m glad it’s not complete isolation you’re suffering as your post suggests. How about any women you have interacted with also on the spectrum. Any experiences with that?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 12:32 PM
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Your isolation….?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 10:10 AM
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Why not start by making friends with other people with Aspergers / autism?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 09:15 AM
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I mean, what are you actually looking for? This sub is about debate. You can either take on board different arguments or viewpoints or break down why you disagree. Take on board advice people have taken the time out to type for you. Don’t get mad if thats the purpose. If its just sympathy you’re looking for, make an r-/patamanshead or r-/poorincel sub.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 08:32 AM
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Same.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 08:28 AM
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They also love serial killer documentaries. They love creepy men and cat callers. Just the hot ones. Many women also have rape fantasies. Women are crazy. Have you considered that the fascination with dangerous men is coming from a warning angle of interest. ‘What and how did this crazed male do and how did he get away with it for so long?’ No we don’t love creepy men, attractive or not, we value our lives tyvm. Getting cat-called from visibly grown men since we were visibly in school uniform is…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 04:23 AM
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Last couple sentences literally say destruction is the most likely outcome. Benevolence is great but lets face the reality that it’s rare to see. Your racial tone was unnecessary. I never tried to justify anything, just explained a brief overview and conclusion. Don’t many on this sub cite that only 40% of men in history were able to reproduce? Thats 6 in 10 that are left in limbo, and should actually place their interests in other things they can enjoy in the one life they’re blessed to be give…
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 10:30 PM
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If you give more value to absolutely anything else in life other than pursuing sex every second of the day, life will have a shit load of meaning. But no, as men it’s your biggest weakness and downfall, especially for those that can’t get it. Imagine a society that literally has to write it in religious instruction/law that rape, incest and beastiality is a punishable offence. We all know whom that was geared to. Accepting the fact that not all men will get to have sex and procreate its tough. P…
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 08:11 PM
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Where’s the same energy for the males here?!
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 07:43 PM
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Depends on who you are approaching. White women aren’t everything. Cold approaches rarely work anyway- they’re cringey.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 07:41 PM
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Whoops, autocorrect
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 05:58 PM
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So a few wacky outsiders determine that all women like psychopaths?
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 09:21 AM
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Stupid comment
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 09:04 AM
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To clarify, are these mainly white women you speak of or a mixture of races? Because in mixed or white dominant areas, people tend to treat black people as dangerous in general. And if you also have the height you appear more ‘menacing’ and overpowering. Please don’t think it is just you. As black people we can never just be ourselves to the outside world for this reason. We have to have this ‘mask’ on to appear as small and friendly as possible to get ahead everyday in work etc. Black guys I kn…
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 09:03 AM
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What’s the matter with your hands? Ps. Autism shouldn’t be used as a cop out or a be-all-end-all excuse. Plenty on the spectrum that learn to navigate how to live with it and benefit from it. No one knows if you are autistic (and won’t just dislike you for it) unless your behaviour is inappropriate. Not saying it is easy to remedy but the only way to improve it is to be immersed in more social situations and carefully observe others in different settings.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 05:47 AM
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This is why the very popular phrase ‘touch grass’ is so prevalent.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:57 PM
1

Not sure how much this would help; but if you’re standing near someone and ‘creeping’ them out without saying a word, have you considered your demeanour? Maybe standing too close? Staring? Have an obvious reason or context to be where you’re situated? By nature women have to be innately aware of their surroundings and if there is something not quite ‘right’ it probably will be made obvious to you.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:56 PM
3

Umm no, we’re both mixed race. Seems like you’re obsessed with white people. Get rid of the racial self-hate.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 06:31 AM
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I’d love to ask him what he thinks about being called a ‘Chad’. He wouldn’t consider himself one
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 09:13 PM
0

Don’t studies show that sexual satisfaction for those who have had sex before marriage tapers of after 5 partners for both genders? Never understood the pair bonding thing, but I’m a firm believer that men with high body counts are a big NO for me. I see it as they’re less likely to commit, comes across that they have never been in a serious committed relationship in the past and they’d likely be unsatisfied with one partner the rest of their lives. Anywho, I have no regrets with my past sexual …
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 08:38 PM
1

I understand I can be considered an exception. I did date two other people before him, had sex with both. Been with my husband since 16 to 31 at present. Lived in London, now live in the suburbs to be able to afford a family home. Married in 2021 after getting engaged and saving up for years together to be able to buy our home just before covid. Got pregnant with our son soon after marriage. I was brought up with my parents being married, my grandparents and most of my aunts and uncles. He also …
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 08:18 PM
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Id like to put it out there that I met my husband at 16 and I think he’s the most sexiest man I’ve met. He had many ‘options’ but I’m his person who he could never find the same connection with. We’re so in love, married with a baby and have a wonderful life. We’ve had some trials in our relationship as all marriages do, but we literally can’t live without eachother.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:15 PM
-1

Question was who would you give more effort into if you had sex with both. Now let’s just say the obvious in that you’d try your utmost to please the supermodel, probs put in a load more effort to ensure she orgasms and whatnot. Going back to the point, theres this RP saying of ‘Alpha fucks Beta bucks’ which is what op describes. Well we can argue the same with men in that you all would love a supermodel, but you have to ‘settle’ for the average woman that you’re able to bag. Women are demonised…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:08 PM
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Wasn’t admitting to anything at all, just throwing the question back at you
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 05:33 PM
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You guys love moving the goal posts when you struggle to score as it is. Let me ask you this: if you had a scenario of having sex with a supermodel and a below average or someone you’re not wild about attractive-wise, who would you put in more effort to please? Silly question right….?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 04:38 PM
0

Your mum giving birth to you past 30 has f-all to do with your damn bone structure. Stop blaming women, esp those that are your own flesh and blood, for everything negative.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:22 PM
-1

So damn dramatic. Most people’s instinct is to help or get help immediately, not decide how attractive you are first. We’re humans fgs. Are you projecting? Would you not help a drowning woman you don’t find attractive?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:16 PM
-1

So damn dramatic. Most people’s instinct is to help or get help immediately, not decide how attractive you are first. We’re humans fgs. Are you projecting? Would you not help a drowning woman you don’t find attractive?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:16 PM
2

Their culture, especially those that migrate to the U.K. or the states, is to push really hard on education. Parents won’t settle for anything less than being Doctors, Dentists, Lawyers, Engineers and the like.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 05:21 AM
9

I coined them ‘Alpha-by-exchange-rate’. Husband thought it was hilarious. In all seriousness though, if you’re trying to avoid transactional relationships, going abroad is the worst thing you can do. Many of those women are only looking at your wallet, and best believe you have to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:46 PM
1

Funny how men didn't mind accommodating women who were/are broke and living with her parents but you women lack that kind of empathy. Thats men’s business. Women think you should have more standards other than pining for air-headed baddies, but RP’ers love to scream ‘We DoN’t CaRe AbOuT yOuR cArEeRs’. Furthermore, it’s actually important that you’re not a broke bum if we want to take you seriously. Sure, we can work and help with the household income in this economy, but when we have children an…
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 06:20 PM
1

Im happily married so, peace
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:46 PM
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Incel subreddits are not an echo chamber of hate. Pointing out the reality that women are natural eugenicists who sexually deselect men with bad genetics is not hate. Im not one to lurk on often on subs like incel tears, but if i were to, every other post is a screenshot of some bat-shit crazy stuff inciting abuse/rape/murder. There are such young impressionable boys that participate in those cesspools of poison that we’re more often seeing mass shooting by self proclaimed incels. If thats not h…
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 01:09 PM
-2

Funny how fat women get married all the time. Lena Dunham, anyone? For every 30 men that have treated that fat woman as invisible, theres 1 man that sees her as desirable and they have both got along to the point of marriage. Lena Dunham - whomever she is - has probably had to touch grass x1000 times to find that man, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that she has been treated differently from her appearance. That's how dudes wind up in the friendzone. Wait, no, the Let's Just Be Friends …
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 12:59 PM
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Id strongly argue that being in an echo chamber of hate is far worse. Seeing women day to day - not just romantically trying to pursue them, but general interactions with a cashier, waitress or colleague - will open your eyes to the simple fact that not all women are these awful people that see you less-than because of the way you look. I think this idea of be treated as inhuman cos of attractiveness is projection as many women cite that men also treat them as invisible if they’re not beautiful …
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 08:20 AM
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Doesn’t it mean to go out in the real world more instead of staying in toxic online circles that shape your opinion
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 07:02 AM
0

Lord
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 02:58 PM
0

‘Propper’ age… tf? Maybe you have a lot of growing up to do then.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 01:42 PM
-2

Making it blatantly obvious you want sex
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 01:40 PM
3

Didn’t you go to a mixed school / college?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 06:11 AM
1

Well a number will differ by area as you say. And women often get put down if they state £/$100,000 a year when that may be necessary if you live in a big expensive city like London or LA, NY etc. Decently well would be to comfortably pay the mortgage, bills and other living expenses, and have a good amount left over to save / invest. Be able to comfortably provide for a couple children and a wife; by minimum she can take a decent maternity leave and not have to rush back to work so soon after b…
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 05:38 AM
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This. Also many stories of addictions of hentai porn while in a relationship. Sus af.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 06:35 AM
2

Many of their communities are more patriarchal. Women suffer the brunt of the backwards mentality.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 07:58 AM
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Just because someone isn’t charged due to lack of evidence doesn’t mean the rape didn’t occur. Proving rape is incredibly difficult as many cases would be based on a he-said she-said scenario. A lot of police officers in the UK for example often tell victims that there is a highly likely chance their perpetrator will not be prosecuted or even get a chance to reach court because of the lack of evidence that can be presented. Many women here often don’t go to the police for this reason.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 03:02 PM
1

You looking to marry?
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 08:03 AM
-5

Theres a difference between shallow and picky
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 09:19 AM
-15

The best way to view this statement is that men tend to place higher emphasis on beauty alone. whereas women look at more than just a mans looks. You could be an average looking guy but you can make up for it with other attributes.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 07:05 AM
1

Im not denying white privilege. I just dont understand what that has to do with interracial relationships
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 04:41 PM
0

Such a white supremacist trope. We’re all human beings and have been mixing for millennia’s.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 03:32 PM
1

Thanks for this reply. I’m curious- do some here not have a similar mentality of a hot girl to have sex with and someone more ‘pure’ as they put it to marry and have children? If so, why can’t women be afforded that same dichotomy where they like to have sex with the hot celeb or something but really want to have children and share a life with a man that’s stable for a good household? Not saying stable is a bad thing as its a matter of longevity. Same way a lot of guys would love to have the rea…
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 03:22 PM
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Thats for a relationship though, not sex.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 12:58 PM
0

Traditional men wouldn’t be so desperate to have ons with ‘modern western women’ and creating a hookup culture. They’d be focusing on getting a wife. Live and let live
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 12:55 PM
-5

Not usually. They’re just a fuck to most.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 11:47 AM
0

Not all. And if thats still a large majority, why is that a bad thing. It’s their prerogative.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 11:45 AM
1

I know, just going by their logic
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 10:59 AM
2

What’s that exactly?
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 10:58 AM
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The issue here is that you’re making an equal comparison on what women are attracted to vs. men. Sure, men can look at someone, find them attractive and want sex. Women on the other-hand look at attractiveness but thats only one part of the pie. We’re also looking at your character; your persona; your confidence; how you carry yourself; how well you’re put together; how you interact with others and so on. Someone randomly and awkwardly trying to talk to you when you know nothing about them and m…
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 10:41 AM
0

On top of that, if you’re all shaming women with a number of sexual partners, why would she say yes to just any man that approaches her on a whim? Surely even you would agree that a woman should be selective about who she sleeps with. A celebrity is someone she’ll somewhat know and if there is a (silly) hope she is able to bag that celeb long term, shes won a jackpot, no? Simple really.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 10:19 AM
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Why is it an issue? It will become more and more ‘common’ as the world becomes smaller and more people travel and move countries.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 06:46 AM
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Don’t get so worked up. As with both genders, there are immature people. Those women saying this are probably not the type of women you’d want to associate with. And it’s the internet- people say shit just to say shit. Better to acknowledge this and move on instead of getting bogged down by it and ranting online.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 06:44 AM
-4

I didn’t know this sub was incel.is2.0
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:59 PM
8

Probably only referring to the p-stars and IG/Tik Tok models they ogle or pay and think they’re representatives of all women.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 01:42 PM
0

This. As I’ve replied to him in a previous post, the options are: Get an escort if you’re that fanatical about getting sex Use the time you take moaning online to keep working on finding someone.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 08:28 AM
1

No, I wouldn’t advise anyone to use escorts. But in this case EverVigilant has said in a previous post that he is not looking for a life partner, but just sex. Assuming he is talking of his own experience and is lacking intimacy, he has the option of escorts in the meantime or continue to find someone. Just complaining and being hateful online isn’t conducive to anything.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 08:25 AM
1

‘Grow the fuck up’….? Bit rich coming from you after that rant. You seem to have a real disdain for women as a whole. Why not go MGTOW and be done with it. It’ll save you a lot of emotional distress you display in this sub. If it’s just sex you want, buy escorts.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 07:47 PM
1

Maybe that’s where you’re going wrong. Focusing on the wrong things.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 03:42 PM
1

The pessimism won’t help your cause. We don’t want toxicity. The women that do, alongside thriving in drama are naive and not worth your time. Women have different dating goals. They primarily want a life-partner. All we expect is that you treat us with the same level of respect as you do with your friends and not see us a objects. We want you to want to get to know us on a deeper level as sex isn’t everything in a relationship and marriage. Are you confident to interact with our friends and fam…
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 12:57 PM
0

Sexual discipline is a virtue. If all you’re driven by is sex, you’re not going to get very far. Women can see the desperation a mile off and it’s off putting. And those who will take advantage of that situation, will do so. It’s not nice, but you have to charge it to the game. For her to want to see you as a potential life-mate, you giving off ONS vibes is exactly what she will avoid. I personally think the best way to meet someone is through mutual friends. That way, a woman’s guard isn’t natu…
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 11:49 AM
0

People have different opinions on attraction. Either way, you can’t really make a blanket statement like that. There are plenty of ‘invisible’ women.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 11:44 AM
0

In this case, enable a woman to get by with no money. Nothing to do with Alpha men specifically. Not sure how/why you segued that in. And FYI no, we don’t only see ‘alpha men’. But if you want to throw about that theory, you can liken it to the theory than men only ‘see’ attractive women and ignore or treat women they are not attracted to less favourably.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 07:08 AM
1

Ok but it’s men who enable this. Don’t hate the player, hate the game.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 06:44 AM
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