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| 3 | Talking stage ended after going to her houseIf she already gave you personal reasons, whether those are true or not I think it's unlikely you're gonna get a real answer out of her without making her uncomfortable. Just tell her thanks for letting you know and wish her the best. Take the L chief and maybe plan ahead for foot odor next time. You're young, there'll be other girls. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Escalation adviseI doubt there was some magical escalation plan where if you touch her in the right sequence on her body she would've let you continue lmao. She probably just didn't want to go further while she was in public or on the beach. Take her somewhere more private like yours or her place. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Frustrated with no hookups while in my mind there are things happening, people are getting laid.Honestly if you want to hook up with girls you're gonna have a much easier time if you go out. Context matters a lot and most of the time when I hook up with a girl the night I meet her, it was from some party or some club. I'm sure it's possible but I've never done so off of an app or meeting at a more casual setting. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | General cold approach line(s) at clubs?You don't ask her to make out. She makes it obvious she's down because she's already being really touchy and looking up at you. You get there by escalating in the conversation. Tease her, flirt with her, touch her arm, grab her waist, grab her hand and lead her to take a seat, etc. Basically try to escalate and if she's interested she'll match. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | General cold approach line(s) at clubs?Escalate as much as you can. You're not gonna be able to ask her to get out of there if you're not at least making out with her. Actually I'd say if you're not dancing with her or making out with her you probably failed in terms of night game. Very doubtful she'll respond the next day if you didn't get that far. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How best to screen a match online if they would be interested in a one night stand?One way you can do this is by choice of app. Tinder is much more hook-up forward. Coffee Meets Bagel is basically entirely LTRs. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:44 PM |
| 2 | How best to screen a match online if they would be interested in a one night stand?Yeah this exactly. The way dating works in western countries is that men are expected to pay the cost of admission and women are allowed to decide at any point to set the terms of the relationship. Sucks, but it is what it is. Just don't go for girls who are religious or explicitly say long term relationship because they'll be very unlikely to flip. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | General cold approach line(s) at clubs?Hey, I thought you were cute. Can I buy you a drink? Now you get her in a conversation for about 15 minutes so you can escalate. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl sending mixed signalsgood move | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Girl sending mixed signalsNever ever try to figure out why women do what they do. Until they become very attached to you, their feelings change like the wind. Just try to get her out on a date. If she says yes, great and just stop texting her while she's taking forever to reply. If she won't commit to a date, then you have your answer. She just ain't that into you. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Dating under 25 as a guy is a losing game — Here’s why :Dating under 25 isn’t just a distraction ..it’s a slow bleed on your potential. This is such terrible advice. This is how you get those posts from guys who approaching 30 and still haven't touched a girl in their lives. One bad relationship at this stage can derail years of progress. This is just way too dramatic lmao. It's not that serious. If you feel like she's not adding to your life, just break up. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when a girl answers most questions with “I was just feelin spontaneous”?It's hard to say without more context, but either: Your questions are boring, which lead to boring answers They're boring so they give boring answers I'd ask fewer questions and make more statements. Instead of asking them why they're at a speed dating event, tell them they don't seem like the kind of person to attend a speed dating event. Much more interesting and leads to conversation. If the convos are still boring then just drop her | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with night gameI don't approach on the dance floor. I find it pretty hard because you can't hear each other and there's no way to naturally walk up to someone without losing tons of aura pushing through a crowd. I usually look at the fringes of the dance floor or at the bar. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:41 AM |
| 2 | weird interactionIs her profile public and does she have a lot followers? It's possible she missed your initial follow because she gets a bunch of follow notifications. You can send her a cheeky DM like "can't ask you out if you don't follow me back", but honestly odds are pretty low. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:51 PM |
| 4 | Struggling with night gameIf you can go up to girls during the day, you shouldn't have any approach anxiety. What changes just because the lights are lower and the music is louder? I'm actually the opposite of you. It's much more socially acceptable to hit on people when going out so it's way easier for me to approach at night time. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Help with textingUnfortunately if she's low energy, she's not interested. She only matched with you because she's bored or you're barely cute enough for her to talk to. You can try to get a reaction out of her but just think back to a time where a girl you weren't that into tried to get your attention. It most likely just comes across as trying too hard. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Help with textingContext matters. Are you talking about on a dating app or after you got a girl's number? In general, just match her energy. Try to be fun and flirty but if she's not responding well to that then just try to get her out on a date. Agreed with the other poster that texting is the worst possible medium. Women do not feel connection over text so if you don't move them off quickly they'll lose interest. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 01:29 AM |
| 1 | How to text her after a first date without sounding needy as a busy entrepreneur?This sounds really high effort to be honest. When it comes to texting, just match her energy. If she's responsive and bantering, then play along. If not, then just focus on logistics and getting her out again. I feel like trying so hard to come off as high status is only going to make you look tryhard. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 01:24 AM |
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