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Question for BluePillChanceDesign2622/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:24 PM
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thanks for the advice ill try that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:45 PM
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we cuddled before previously but I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:44 PM
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well how do I become okay?? i know i wont be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:18 PM
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but I want help, I know I can fix things with him but I want to be better as soon as possible so i can have better relationships, friends and life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:16 PM
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why so? maybe thats my issue i stick to one guy. if i have multiple I wouldnt be able to be obsessed and attached
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:58 PM
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I said I want to be fixed overnight thats the thing i want to stop this behaviour this is the worse it has ever gotten
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:57 PM
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therapy doesnt mean get fixed overnight lol. but i am telling my therapist about this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:51 PM
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when you get abused lets see if youre accountable for it. life isnt black or white
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:50 PM
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hope you take your own advise weirdo, imagine victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:49 PM
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im just gonna hookup with other men and let them take my virginity, its advise to get onto someone to move on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:48 PM
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you could be a man too😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:46 PM
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yes? mental illness doesnt mean doesnt deserve love
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:44 PM
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youre victim blaming someone for suicide. you dont suffer from ptsd lmao. most people who have ptsd want to off themselves why? BECAUSE OF TRAUMA not because themselves so no it isnt their fault. low iq comment and you lack empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:39 PM
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if i wasnt holding myself accountable I wouldnt be on this thread asking for advice to stop the behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:38 PM
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Lol what?? Now you are just typing anything. I admitted that I was wrong, but Im also telling the why which is important for healing and accountability. but keep lying girl, you literally said someone killing themselves is their fault when no its more complex then that. whats next abuse is someones fault?? because they were around the abuser. yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:38 PM
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you don't have ptsd lmaooo. youre literally victim blaming someone for offing themselves. you are weird. but yes i was shitty for harrassing him and its good that i left the cult
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:35 PM
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ig but i want a relationship to feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:31 PM
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if someone kills themself ur implying that they are accountable for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:30 PM
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yes? but do you understand you cant heal and become better without understanding the why in order to held yourself accountable? i cant apologize to him he will just tell me to stop harrassing him. this is why im telling u that leaving the cult is the first step. theres people who killed themselves because of it, are u just gonna tell them? oh thats their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:30 PM
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thanks for being honest. how do i stop obsession?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:28 PM
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reread what you wrote. i dont think you understand I was literally off the rocker. yes im better now I havent texted him since. but people literally kill themselves because of delusions. so yes mental illness can affect your actions. doesnt make it right but it lets you know why to fix everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:24 PM
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Yes, law of assumption, and abuse fucked me up. i should take a break and heal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:22 PM
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youre weird mocking mental illnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:21 PM
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hows that overreacting? i need professional help
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:18 PM
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and I did hold myself accountable for my actions yes Im wrong, but im also giving you the reasoning why. the why is also important so i wont repeat the same negative patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:13 PM
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yes... its a cult whats not clicking. I advise you to read the nevillegoddard critics sub. someone killed themselves because they truly believed everything the new age was telling them. do you understand how delusions work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:12 PM
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It does, people with bpd can be obsessive over a person. but in my case I was limerent and believed he was the love of my life, and was connected to my reality because of the law of assumption cult and the tarot readings telling me to reach out to him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:10 PM
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Yes I could admit I was wrong for that. but the thing is, I apologized to him for it. I was only contacting him because I was in a law of assumption cult. I believed that I was god of my reality and that messed me up in my head. I still regret it of course. I still regret it and it sucks I can't tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:08 PM
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you guys don't know what its like to suffer from ptsd, derealization, health anxiety and social anxiety. of course I will feel scared to eat. but I shouldve used a better word because you guys probably assumed I cussed him out. when no I simply told him to put that down I don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:06 PM
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I didn't yell at him angrily. I was abused in the past I would never hurt someone. I simply told him I couldn't eat that more louder. I should use better words
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:04 PM
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so what are you saying what I should do exactly, I tried not arguing with men and breathe work nothing seems to work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:00 PM
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why are u trying to diagnose me with a mental illness that ruin lives. ur showing zero empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:54 PM
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but validating someones emotions and things is literally exactly what my therapist told to express support for soneone.. and last time i check when ur empathetic u show support but okay. ur trying to make me seem horrible when im not. i agree im not healthy and thats why this is happening but im not a narc, ur miss diagnosing me from a few posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:48 PM
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Yeah I know already, now how do I fix this overnight by tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:43 PM
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i dont think i was played now but he definitely hurt me to my core
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:06 PM
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well then i didnt have psychosis. the better word is limerent. i only said that because i had delusions. but delusions ≠ psychosis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:06 PM
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and being irrational doesnt make you horrible. and ted bundy was nice who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:03 PM
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again, he started arguing first i just expressed i felt played
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:02 PM
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how do i lack empathy? when i validated him when he told me about his problems
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:01 PM
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we only cuddled thats about it, it was only a week after all. if anything he gave me money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:59 PM
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You implied it, everyones trying to act as if im a horrible person. i just think im a little irrational and broken
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:57 PM
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I never implied that they dont block me for a reason....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:51 PM
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this question was for bluepill not redpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:49 PM
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he started the arguement, i simply stated calmly i feel played.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:47 PM
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huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:46 PM
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my personality is good, thats why i got bullied for being the sweet kid. i think its my mentality like he said not be a shithead :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:45 PM
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because I suffer?? that doesnt mean I should give up on love
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:42 PM
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and you can't blame me for pyschosis. blame the stupid tarot readers grifting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:39 PM
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everyones anxiety is different... it's not one size fit all. some people can feel like they can't breathe some people it can look like control. I didn't argue with him, I yelled at him because I thought I was allergic to treenuts when I wasn't. I simply told him I don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:37 PM
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but it's weird he said he wanted casual but don't want no other guy to have me?? doesn't casual mean we can both talk to others?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:35 PM
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No :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:30 PM
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I block them because I feel like we won't be compatible or they don't value me. I don't want to hurt anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:29 PM
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My anxiety contributes to my behaviour. beliefs create actions. I don't eat sometimes because of my health anxiety. I remember he tried to buy me some nutella snacks and I yelled at him and told him no because I thought I would die if I do. Until my anxiety is more tame then I will be able to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:26 PM
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It's not confusing it just sucks, I deep down to my core feel like no one values me. even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:23 PM
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I see thanks for being honest guys. I think I need to work on myself mentally, I need to challenge my core beliefs. I'm already doing so but yeah he's right my mentality isn't so great. the other guys probably left because of this too, they just didn't tell me straight to my face. after all what guy you know rejects a woman who wants to cuddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:22 PM
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Oh you're saying I should be alone. that's what I'm doing now, I'm in therapy and in school. I tried to get a job but you know how that is. one thing at a time unforunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:19 PM
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Yes, I was deep in psychosis but this WAS after he blocked me to clarify. I usually get attached to men or people even like friendships I know I can't have. that's when I got limerent and started looking into tarot, manifesting etc to say I will get him back. he did came back for a second but then he snapped back into reality and told me "No, I cannot accept you back you will just use that against me" he was referring to the time I accused him of playing me and wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:14 PM
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Why would I waste a mans time if I feel like were personally not compatible? so of course I will block. and I'm loyal, you don't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:12 PM
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Well yeah, but he blocked me before that lol that's the thing. maybe it's just my anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:10 PM
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don't worry I don't believe any of that new age bullcrap anymore lol, It was contributing to my delusions possibly psychosis. zodiac signs, tarots, manifesting all dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:06 PM
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I'm 5'2 115 I'm pretty sure that's average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:02 PM
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I block them to protect myself, If you're playing games you are clearly immature and will be blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:00 PM
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So you're saying people with depression and anxiety doesn't deserve love? that's a bit shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:59 PM
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I was limerent afterwards because I thought I was getting signs from tarot readers he's the love of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:57 PM
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I would date myself because I'm cute, not only that I'm loyal, true to my word, I don't play any games and I'm mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:56 PM
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and I only tell them this because anxiety changes my relationships, yes there will be times I can regulate it but I have ptsd so it won't be cute all the time. that's why I clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:54 PM
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then I don't know why men talk to me then, I make it clear I'm anxious and unemployed. some tried to change my resume. some just block me. why talk to me in the first place? maybe people are just distracted with heart shaped glasses on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:53 PM
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yes, I said I think it's silly to talk to someone and you don't want a relationship, no offence I feel played. then he went off at me. I feel like all men played me that's why I will block them or communicate with them about it, they just block.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:51 PM
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It wasn't an arguement at first, I simply stated if you don't want a relationship whats the point of dating. thats when he said oh you think im playing with you bla bla stop accusing me of things. you're crazy all type of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:43 PM
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plus he was calling me his girlfriend out loud do men do that oftenly on first dates??? people was like ohh you guys are so cute together and he was like yeah thats my girlfriend. and calling me baby? but I don't know hes the only guy who did so most guys don't do that but they still block me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:41 PM
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I don't know man, most men have already argued with me within first several weeks. I have never had a smooth date. and when I do it feels like lovebombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:40 PM
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Sadly it was in real life when he told me that straight to my face, and I deleted all my conversations with him too anyways. because I was in limerence with him for a while, boderline delusional so I didn't want to feed into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:38 PM
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we met in real life, he blocked me on my number, instagram, and tiktok. but I made an assumption that he was playing me, because he told me he didn't want a relationship right now. and we argued about that. but that's when we went on our other date just for us to argue again. and I told him about my depression and being unemployed then he told me your mindset is awful. so then he blocked me and I begged for him and he repeated the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:36 PM
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he was vunerable with me telling me about his family issues, he's 25 and I'm 20 I don't see why people don't be vulnerable and authentic in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:33 PM
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we were on a date, and it's good to be vulnerable. plus he's the one who asked anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:32 PM
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I'm not calling myself a femcel. I don't believe femcels or incels exist most of the people who say that are just extremely racist and mean, or they just don't want to date in their league. men find me attractive and want to date me and do date me it's just after a while they block me. this was the first man to tell me my mindset was an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:31 PM
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I was telling him about my anxiety and depression, he told me to get a job and I said I was trying but the economy is buns. so he told me that's what he's talking about my silly mindset. so he blocked me, then I tried to contact him again showing him that I got a job interview then he said that's great but he's not the person I need, my mindset is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:29 PM
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🤣 it's unfortunate the manosphere is just attractive men, with already rich lives selling average men a dream. or con-artists giving out unrealistic toxic advice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:43 AM
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they're just sex addicts. every guy who swear they love sense of touch just wanted to get into my pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:05 AM
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