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| 0 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)This is a difficult message. On one hand younger generations of men have been socialised to believe sex is a thing women enjoy and choose for the sheerjoy of it. An expression of sexual liberation if you will. On the other hand we all know women use sex as a tool foranipulation and control.. It is a dichotomy in men's minds. How can she be both free and mutual in her engagement of intimacy and yet still use it as a tool of manipulation and coercion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 08:54 PM |
| -10 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?Projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 08:47 AM |
| 7 | If men focus on compatibility, they wouldn’t have to ‘play jester’ and be ‘Dance Monkeys’ on dates.What are the top 20 male hobbies vs womens hobbies? Men and women generally have very different interests, its actually the single largest psycological difference between the sexes. Interest in things vs interest in people. It means women generally gravitate towards hobbies that involve people, whereas men generally focus on hobbies that involve things. Everybody knows this, or at least i thought they did. With this in mind, how would you propose men and women meet over shared hobbies? Do men fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 03:35 PM |
| 23 | If men focus on compatibility, they wouldn’t have to ‘play jester’ and be ‘Dance Monkeys’ on dates.Idiotic 'just be yourself' viewpoint. Only the female dating viewpoint of endless opportunity would think thats a reasonable proposition for men trying to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 12:36 PM |
| – | The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce ratesCompletely disagree. Why? Because higher socio economic demographics are MORE likely to get married. Yet less likely to have children compared to low socioeconomic groups. So why are middle and high earners not having as many children as low earners/unemployed. The reason is cost and housing. If you are on social welfare they are not concerned because the government pick up the tab. The actual incentive is to have more children to increase your welfare. This group is also the most likely to be u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:05 PM |
| 7 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.When women are also the majority people in the decision to split the home. Then yes, the accountability mostly lies with the women/single mothers. Of course there are plenty of useless, bum, absent fathers. But that doesnt offset the fact that its usually the mother who chooses to split the home with the help of the courts, the government and the welfare system. So blaming poverty is not helpful, because it can mean only two things. Either increase government welfare to single mothers lifting th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyI am helping you. You seem lost. I am at a great point in my life and want the same for everybody. Great wife, 4 kids, nice home and cool cars, satisfying job and wonderful friends. You could have similar if not for being a brainwashed femcel. There is hope for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 11:55 AM |
| 0 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyI am not angry in the slightest. More baffled at your inability to empathise with men. You clearly dont understand how men and women interact then. Men as a rule are the pursuers/approachers whereas women are the gatekeepers/selectors. These rules typically only differ if the man is exceptionally desirable, or the woman desires a specific man. This is the rare occurrence where women approach men. There are entire womens memes that recognise this. A man not caring about your income does not mean … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 11:10 AM |
| -1 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamyWelcome to the world men have to negotiate. The entire existence of men dealing with women is because women expect/want something from them. Be that resources, somewhere to live, gifts, princess treatment and ultimately their sperm so they can have kids. Hypocrisy much?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 10:51 AM |
| 11 | Holding women back and beating them down, won't do anything to calm down hypergamySadly even the most incompetent women 'think' theyre being held back. It is the current narrative of feminism despite all the structural advantages given to women in the professional environment. Luckily my daughter had an epiphany that the patriarchy, wage gap and female oppression is BS. We had a large family disagreement about her University course. She abandoned her Chemistry degree to pursue Psychology which she found more interesting despite me spelling out to her its useless career wise. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:45 AM |
| 15 | FULLY destigmatising sex work is a net positive for men but bad for certain feminist narrativesFeelings are irrelevant, its facts that matter. And the fact is that there are probably billions of women working shit jobs feeling hopeless and desperate who dont turn to Sex work. The fact is they could do they work but it doesn't pay as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:29 PM |
| 18 | FULLY destigmatising sex work is a net positive for men but bad for certain feminist narrativesThe exact same could be said of Amazon fulfilment center workers. So what exactly is your point? Earning a wage is a necessary means of survival. Choosing sex work which can be rather lucrative and highly paid is not always their only option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Grip strength. My 2 daughters and wife are not unfit. Actually my eldest daughter does rock climbing/bouldering. Even so their grip strength is pathetic. Really quite limiting in day to day tasks, and if they had manual or even difficult technical jobs they would be useless next to their male counterparts. I am not a gym king but as a farmer grip strength is crucial in most activites, and mine must be close to 5-10 times a normal womans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Clearly you have never really 'physically dominated' anybody outside of a gym or ring. Ive seen enough big lads get humbled to know. I also know enough smaller guys who are straight psychotic. Joes Pesci style nutcases who even if they lost would run you over or take a bat to your bonce. As a side note, growing up in northern English towns the rule of thumb (and i was always taught) when it kicked off the biggest guys got fucked up first. Everybody dropped the big lads straight away. So much so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:05 PM |
| 10 | How are young men being disenfranchised?That is the very nature of statistical equity metrics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 06:35 PM |
| – | Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW?Cool story bro.... By my last comment i mean this, the level of man a lady can attract for a relationship generally declines as she ages and as her trauma and body count increases. The quality of man you can attract at 22 with 2 previous partners is not the same as when you are 32 with 15 previous partners. Ive seen it first hand, female friends who split with their boyfriends and husbands yet never manage to replace them with a better guy. Perhaps they are happy, but the men in their lives late… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:01 AM |
| – | Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW?Not true in the UK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 09:54 AM |
| – | Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW?This is hilarious female fan fiction. So the ex husband is a loser, wanker, bum, spineless with no self respect. Yet she married him. Which means in this hypothetical she must be deeply unattractive and undesirable if that is the calibre of man she would wed. If she is unattractive then her hoe phase is just a nail in the coffin. Because her LTR would have to be worse than her ex. Women dont get older and bigger hoes while simultaneously increasing their relationship/sexual market options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 09:48 AM |
| – | Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW?Once again, you are trying to absolve her of accountability. Which in itself is entirely unattractive to men. These are all excuses for bad behaviour and ironically raise even more red flags that men should and do avoid, effectively making her hoe phase even worse. If she could just admit and say "my husband left, i was lonely and shagged 9 guys to make myself feel better. They didn't mean anything to me". Then perhaps some men could understand it and move past it. Though ideally she should bury… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 09:42 AM |
| – | Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW?Again, this makes it worse. It makes her a hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 09:34 AM |
| – | Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW?Just my personal opinion. But if she had a 'hoe phase' before she was married i would view that slightly less negatively. The 'hoe phase' after her husband left i would view significantly worse. If she was OK with lots of sex and intimacy after the marriage, then why was she not the same with her husband? That would have significantly reduced the likelihood of her abandonment. Again it reflects badly on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 09:33 AM |
| – | Post-divorce “hoe phase” from a woman married at 19 and divorced 5 years later. Would she still be considered a HVW?Yeah, thats a big fat red flag and no from me. Hoe phase is a big nope. Invites guys over to cuddle, again a massive nope. Naive enough yet receptive enough to have sex with men she didnt want to sleep with, absolutely nope. Basically to answer your question, mostly being a hoe is being a hoe. While some blokes may look past it or consider other factors generally we dont care why a girl was promiscuous. And if I'm being honest, those men that do overlook it do so because they have no other optio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 09:25 AM |
| – | If women are hypergamous, does this mean that social status is more important that everything else?Of course, nothing builds sexual tension like an enthralling discussion teaching a lady about global economic cycles. You are an outlier and being charmed by an intelligent man doesnt offset any desire a handsome man can create. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 11:01 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ?Id argue that most men who commit domestic violence are the type that wouldnt resort to violence against other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:02 AM |
| 4 | How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too?Because it is such a broad and varied term it is literally meaningless. It speaks of no particular people, intent or specific organisation/structure. It is a term for low resolution thinking to tie a bow on an ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:28 PM |
| 12 | How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too?Replace the term 'Patriarchy' with 'Society'. Realise that it is the same meaningless platitude. Then realise women are over 50% of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 04:13 PM |
| 11 | What do you understand certain male experiences to be like?Whilst i mostly agree with your post, "As a boy all emotions other than anger are punished out of you." Is nonsense from my 44M perspective. Boys anger is specifically punished in a way it simply isnt with girls. Also boys have to learn to suppress the hormonal rage they get during puberty with the massive testosterone spikes at that age. Why? Because regulating your anger is part of male social interaction unless you are a socio or psychopath. What is the mechanism that encourages boys to bury … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesWell refuted. Clearly an intellect to be admired | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesNo proof necessary. The recent history of manufacturing in western Europe and America is all the proof you need. Initially manufacturing was exported to Japan, once their economy grew it was China and other Asian nations. After Chinese middle classes price out manufacturing there they will create the African economies under Chinese ownership. You perhaps havent followed the decline of British manufacturing for these exact reasons. It began in the 70s and resulted in us effectively becoming a ban… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesCool then, cancel all the tariffs and watch all the last of your manufacturing offshore to asia and then Africa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 01:44 PM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesEvery lefty going on about tariffs as though they know what they're talking about makes me realise they're lemming herd following sheep. Im not a big fan of tariffs but they bloody well work. The whole point of a tariff is to dissuade the economy from spending on non locally made things. In doing so create a market opening for native (in this case USA) companies to fulfill the market need. So for example price out a BYD ev car in comparison to a USA made Tesla. Or a cheap imported tool relative … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.)Thats completely dishonest to associate kerbing wheels as the issue for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 12:45 PM |
| -1 | Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.)The split in gendered vehicle accidents is asymmetric yes. But women's accidents are typically smaller low speed accidents. The vast majority of which go unreported to police or insurance. When corrected for this fact women actually have significantly more accidents per mile than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 10:36 AM |
| 5 | Women’s desires from a partner are simply more antagonistic for relationship building than men’sMy opinion is that in general women tend to be the consumer in relationships. Expecting more things done for them, expecting romance given to them and rheir needs to be met. Whereas men tend to be the givers and supporters in relationships. Doing the romantic things and supporting their wives, emotionally and physically. Now if two men are in a loving relationship and they are both generally giving to one another, with a lower expectation of the other having to meet their needs. Then that is a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingI think the issue is more directly related to women's predisposition towards social contagions. My daughters both tell me how incredibly common they feel date rape drugs are in the UK, alongside the belief they hold of the needle injection spiking they swear is common. Despite that being understood to have been a hoax. Now im not at all concerned that this makes them cautious on a night out with friends. But it does seem to have had an effect on their ability to view men as people rather than pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest?A couple of my single mates are in this boat. They seem to be living it up. When we go out and chat about it they dont seem to have any animosity or revenge at heart, in fact they seem to be very happy life is working for them. What they both tell me is that they dont put up with any crap or games from any women, and are quick to dump any who dont fit or improve their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe circumcision is harming males?I dont believe it should be banned, but it should be banned unless you elect it yourself. Ultimately it is genital mutilation, irrespective wether it is done culturally or theologically it should be the choice of the individual involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsI think i you might have something here. As men we know that being a Beta orbiter has very little chance of success. The utility most men find in it (and im guessing here) is that having female friends allows you to meet other women they know. I have virtually no female friends and wouldnt be caught dead as a beta orbiter, because i couldnt be arsed with a one way friendship constantly being asked for favours and help. But also as a married man who has spent time around women (the wifes friends)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 09:07 AM |
| 7 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itWow, this is perhaps the most sensible comment ive ever read from a blue pill woman. I 100% agree with you as a red pill man. I too am pro family and marriage, and notice almost everybody underestimates its difficulty to maintain one long term. And as a red pill man i view situationships as one of the worst things to emerge from society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.I dont hate women at all. I love women, but the more i know them the less i like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Lucky him, you must be nice. Not all men are that fortunate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Welcome to the male experience of marriage. I love her but can at least admit she is far from perfect. Looking back, if i called her bluff she would have gone nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:08 PM |
| -2 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.No, she made my life very difficult when she was younger. She was quite horrible to me, expecting the world whilst giving nothing back and threatening to leave with the kids unless i bowed to her. Now she won't try any of that nonsense. Does she cry at night? No because she has no leverage so has to negotiate and discuss like a fucking adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Yes, give children, or give time, just like men give their partners children, and their time, and their resources, and their affection and support and protection etc etc. Unless of course you dont think men can give women children. Which is sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.It is known women 'attempt' suicide exponentially more than men! But theyre as useful at that as they are at everything else. So if the rates of attempt are anything to go by then yes women are significantly more unhappy than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.So why do women treat men as provision objects? The old male saying about marriage... "Find a woman you hate, and buy her a house" has never been truer than in modern society. Do i think my wife would have divorced me and took half my £750k house during the rough times had i not taken precautions? To frigging right she would. Women are fickle and always think they can do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.If your partner doesnt have mutual desire for you then what is the point? So a man can beg for starfish sex every month whilst endlessly trying to make her happy. The reality is men are happier than women. And men who find purpose without women are the happiest of all. Thats not to say a good relationship isnt valuable, but many women see relationships for their utility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:40 PM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Ha, im happily married since 22yo with 4 grown children. The leverage my wife had in the relationship when we were younger has evaporated after 20 years. I rule my kingdom and dont put up with bullshit. So yeah, my life is fucking awesome. And i teach my boys that women who play games should be kicked to the kerb to focus on self improvement and success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.A great many men as they get older have zero desire to provide for a woman that hasnt given them kids or their 'best' years. They might cohabitate though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:58 PM |
| 8 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Perhaps you won't like how men will adapt to '21st century style of living'. It is simple logic that those women prolificly dating only the top guys cant possibly end up in long term monogomous relationships with the men they pick. Obviously the men have abundance and that will destroy any reasonable ability to pair bond and weather difficult times that are inevitable in any relationship. The lonely men will either become bitter losers, or give up on dating western (or even all) women. Focusing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:33 PM |
| – | As a Man i believe Passport bros are disgusting, and its legit to shame them.You stated you live in CH! The Swiss are slim and polite in a way American/British women simply are not. Your opinion is formed based on living in a country that doesn't suffer the societal decline anywhere near as badly as other places. Reference, my brother lives in Lucerne, have visited many times and love the country. Edit: Ive spent quite a bit of time in CH/DE/AT and the women are equally adulterous and unfaithful as British or Western women (possibly moreso) but they are more discrete wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:23 AM |
| -1 | What should men do to vet if a woman is safe to be vulnerable with?The problem is that generally women like to compare. So unfortunately as her significant other you are getting compared to past partners, her male friends, her friends partners and on and on. So if you show that vulnerability with your SO, you better have some exceptional other traits and positives to offset the less masculine vulnerability. People dont get that being vulnerable might not make her leave you, but it might kill her desire for you. Meaning there is little upside to showing your emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Do women think hypergamy doesn’t exist?Great rebuttal to his point. .sarc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:47 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: You're alone in the woods... Would you rather be vulnerable with your SO or with a tree?Being 'unsupportive' and getting the 'ick' for your partner are not mutually exclusive. She may be a very supportive woman and get the ick. So better safe than sorry and not be vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 10:46 AM |
| 25 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?Female spaces are celebrated. Male spaces are at best viewed with suspicion. At worst actively dismantled. If anything bad comes from a male space then obviously its the male element thats to blame. Equally if anything good emerges from a male space that is exclusionary and negative also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:31 PM |
| – | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Often mens urinals are a large long stainless steel troughs. Sometimes they are porcelain urinals with privacy blanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 11:44 AM |
| 3 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?By using the urinals men are consenting to having their penis seen by women? Good one. Men understand that their penis is on show at the urinals. But they also expect it to be on show to people who also have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Bollocks. Next youll be telling me men dont have to shake it afterwards Or are you from an area where every man has a tiny penis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Not at all, i expect you to be a big girl and manage your bladder like a functioning member of the public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:55 PM |
| -3 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Half the population are more stupid than the average person, so there is that. Ultimately there is no reason for a man to enter the female toilets with a child. Even a female child. He should use the mens toilets and take them into the stalls or the family restroom. What could possibly be the benefit of it? Other than possibly making some women feel uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:54 PM |
| -2 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Well then your opinion is formed entirely from bias. You like the convenience of using the mens toilets but dont give a hoot if the men are made to feel uncomfortable. It isnt at all about you looking or eroticism. It is entirely about appropriate and conscientious behaviour. Would you be as hypocritical and biased about a man making women feel uncomfortable in their spaces. Or do you ask every man in the restroom first if its fine by them? By your logic its fine for a man to walk through womens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:37 PM |
| -8 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?If there are men taking their little girls in the womens bathrooms then they are retards. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:19 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Tbf i assume you havent ever been in a mens toilets so your opinion is formed out of ignorance. Mens toilets (especially at event places) usually have an entire wall of urinals facing the stalls. So if a woman enters to use the stalls she will see most of the penises of the men at the urinals. Not cool. Now it wouldnt bother me, but the point remains that if the genders were switched there would be hell to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:17 PM |
| 4 | It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger.100% agree. Over the Christmas party season 2 guys i know saw a woman scuffling with a big bloke one evening in our local town. White knights to the rescue they both step in to help her out. One is a 5ft4 dentist, the other a 5ft9 office boy. Neither have ever been physical since school. Both got royally twatted by the fella. And it turned out the woman was the aggressor. So they got what they deserved. Its a minority who white knight nowadays and rightfully so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 10:52 AM |
| -1 | When male loneliness is brought up, what is meant? Romantic loneliness or general loneliness?Men are not randomly caring to women. The men who offer random women care are men who are romantically or sexually interested in that woman. Bullshit. Women get a privelidge in the world from men that they simply dont get returned from any gender. How many women who have had punctures or a breakdown to have had a random man stop and help. I have presonally done it 3 times. How many times have women been helped carry heavy objects? How many women help men do anything? I agree that it happens far … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:23 PM |
| 7 | How bad are huble Jobs in the eyes of women? ( Ex. Garbage men)In my experience men respect competence and success not success alone. Actually a successful person who isnt particularly competent or gained success in certain industries that aren't particularly respected does not gain admiration from fellow blokes. I am a member of a large social club with men from all walks of life. Two very successful member just never seemed to get the respect they thought they were due. This despite being top of their game and wealthy. One was a photographer and another w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...Bullshit.. Certainly from my perspective in the UK, older women are very easy to talk to. As a bloke striking up random friendly conversations with women can be a minefield, so you just dont bother in case they take it the wrong way or assume you're sexually interested in them or flirting. Not the case with older women, you can just chat and be friendly. Exactly as i would with another bloke. Especially from Northern UK where having a natter with strangers is commonplace, it would seem to me tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 03:56 PM |
| 8 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.The age old saying of 'if you couldnt shag them, you wouldnt be friends with them' has never been truer. The reality is that overwhelmingly women bring drama and liability as friends. They dont understand the way male friendships work and view men almost as a utility. I agree with you that men should have higher standards. But that would leave an enormous amount of men lonely as their choice is limited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:00 AM |
| 6 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?I 100% agree with you. Luckily i was raised by my mother and father. But i witnessed cousins raised by just mums that really struggled because their mum was never wrong. But the worst was my SIL raising her 3 kids alone. Everything she did she thought she was the best mum in the world, but she was so toxic and created endless problems down the line for her kids. She became the ultra lioness mother. Her kids couldnt be criticised or disciplined by anybody else, despite her fighting constantly wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 08:04 AM |
| 7 | Do men not care about having female friends?I have at least 30 close friends (the type you could call up for help at unusal hours) yet i dont have a single female friend. Though this may be because im a married man of 20 years. I do have a lot of female acquaintances. Though i would always class them more as my wifes friends. I know a few women who are not the wifes friends who i know well enough to chat to in the pub or out and about. The 2 main reasons for this lack of female 'friends' mostly because it would be disrespectfuland risky t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeYou really didnt read my comment or understand it did you? I said everything else being equal, status and money increases a mans attractiveness. Extrapolating from that then, a 4/10 guy in looks with status and money would easily compete with a 5/10 looks guy without money/status. We've all seen it, very average guys with game, money, status happily coupled up and women eager for them. Your comment has just proved mens opinion that women only seek top 20%. Its all about being attracted in your e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?Surely every single porn star thinks she will quit at some point. So thats ludicrous. Maybe you believe that having lots of sexual partners or making sex a transactional act while simultaneously disconnecting the act of sexual intercourse with true intimacy, doesnt have an effect on a woman's ability, stability or loyalty? In that case i think you are naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?Yes, id wish the best for my friends, but im more concerned that a pornstar would ruin them longterm at the expense of short term dick wetting. Thats why we would tell them the hard difficult truths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?Fair enough, but its a personal position. Ive seen many fellas lose respect and standing in the community because of wayward women. I expect my partner/wife to help elevate me as i would try to do for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?Do you have any male friends? Imagine having videos and pictures of your GF doing intimate things on the internet for everybody to see. You would get trolled by all your friends and your close friends would tell you to ditch her. In fact a girl we grew up with pursued quite a successful career in porn. She was pursued by loads of good guys beforehand yet is a trainwreck now. Loads of lads have shagged her locally just to say theyve shagged a pornstar. But nobody would take her seriously despite … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeBullshit, all other things being equal. Take two dudes who are similarly average looking. But one has a way above average house, can afford to dress far nicer, travels extensively, drives nice cars and has time and resources for interesting hobbies. That dude will get way more female attention. Add on the fact that an accomplished man will be more confident and capable. Now thats established as a benefit, how does it compare to youthfulness in men. Will it gain you 5 years? Or 10? Would a woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeHilarious that a female is educating us men about our possible/probable future health issues. The reality is, herein the UK, women and womens health problems swallow the overwhelming proportion of the NHS budget. Yes most men will eventually suffer from aging and health problems. But theyre a tiny drop in the ocean compared to what women suffer. Just the Menopause alone has such a catastrophic effect on womens personalities, bodies and relationships its almost a miracle any stay married afterwar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:55 AM |
| 0 | Marraige is a net loss move for men.I 100% agree with this. As a married 40's male in the UK I look around at the married couples we know and interact with and the overwhelming imbalance between the husbands input vs the wives input is stark. In our circles (middle to upper earning working class)most of the men earn significantly more than our wives and do significantly more of the chores and housework. Most of the wives have blessed lives with ladies lunches and girls holidays, yet the trope of dead bedrooms and amorously unwilli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 12:47 PM |
| – | The decline of the James Bond franchise shows how traditional masculine values are quickly fading into the background.Bored with the shoehorning in of diversity, politics and terrible writing by 'woke leftist' Hollywood writers. Bond had been a franchise since the 50's and theyre only getting bored of it now. Ask yourself why that is. Every bloke i know who saw the last one has thrown the towel in with the franchise because of the forced feminisation of what was one of the last masculine archetypes in popular culture. Same with Marvel and its shite Mary Sue strong women storylines that have zero character progr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 07:42 AM |
| 3 | You're focused on the wrong qualities that are triggering her lust: He's more attractive than you because he's more masculine, not because he's an asshole.Whilst i agree with your point, you seem to be forgetting that most women simply dont find most men physically attractive. This has become amplified with younger women. Now perhaps youre right and if a man is behaviourally masculine then she may increase her attraction for him. You are also glossing over what actually constitutes masculine behaviour. I would put it to you that asshole behaviour most of the time can be the very same masculine behaviour. Being able to tell a woman to get lost or g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 09:29 AM |
| – | Money and status and career are not that significant for men (including being rich)Just because you make 300k doesnt mean you walk like a 300k earner. My bro earns around 200k as an aeronautical software engineer yet carries himself like shit. You wouldnt look twice at him as a woman. (Luckily hes married). Having money is irrelevant if you still drive a toyota, wear sketchers and dress like shit. I make way less than my bro, but people we meet think i outearn him despite him having nicer cars. Its the way you carry yourself, the way you dress and the hygiene and styling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 09:59 AM |
| – | Money and status and career are not that significant for men (including being rich)With the greatest respect, every doctor ive ever met (and its loads as lots of family are in various healthcare roles) are borderline autistic. Similar to software engineers in that they're exceptionally bright but have an air of awkwardness about them. Basically they have no game whatsoever. One of my close friends was an anaesthetist and was average looking yet his girlfriend was a 8 or 9 easily. He is a great guy, but as wet and limp as 3 day old lettuce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Is passport sis a real thing or just a meme?Endless hoards of European wall hitter middle aged women find love in Turkey. Its exactly the same as men getting asian mail order brides, the only difference is that the men aren't deluded. Most of the women get fleeced too. I also had a very good friend who moved to Zanzibar for work constructing hotels and apartments. He said the island is full of older white women trawling for BBC. He let one of his employees mother and aunt stay in his spare rooms while on holiday. They got trains ran on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 09:38 AM |
| – | Do you think the average straight woman feels this way about guys?Libido and sexuality is a very broad spectrum. It sounds like you are intelligent enough to recognise you are on the lower end of it. You dont need a label or a diagnosis as it doesnt seem to be negatively affecting your life though. Regarding meeting somebody who will solve this 'problem' i suspect you would have an uptick in desire and sexuality if you connected with the right person for you. But you are starting from a low baseline so i cant imagine it would turn you into a nymphomaniac. Sexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Women in relationships with male best friends?I can tell you categorically you are in a tiny minority. I am a member of a male only national social club. We do tonnes of charity work and organise local events and socials in the community. Unfortunately because of modern trends membership is reducing. This caused some of the clubs in more urban areas to open the clubs up to women in an effort to improve membership. Guess what happened? A few females attended the events, which youd think would be good. But most of the wives and partners put t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Women in relationships with male best friends?Oh shit. It all makes sense now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Women in relationships with male best friends?Its an instant no from me. No way i would be in a relationship or let my wife have a male best friend. Is she supposed to be going for lunches and dinners with them, catching up having drinks together or going round their place. Behave. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot, and i had a female best friend. Going out for dinners or drinks, visiting their place or buying them birthday gifts. That wouldnt fly with our wives or girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Women in relationships with male best friends?When i met my wife she had a male gay best friend. Theyre still good friends but he lives far away now. She will go and visit him every other year and its not a problem for me as hes a massive queen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Do women mature faster? Are they forced to grow up more quickly? Does this justify a dating age gap?Just because the average woman is more socially adept sooner doesnt mean they 'mature' faster. In fact i strongly believe that many women never fully mature until they are much older and their sexual influence has receded. To me, and i would wager to most people maturity comes with self sufficiency and accountability. Yet this is in surprisingly short supply among women. Theyre very quick to ask for help with virtually anything whilst at the same time being incapable of accepting their own faili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 01:39 PM |
| 3 | The gender war is not just an online thingIts a difficult thing to gauge when performing polling and surveys. The reason being that 'Feminism' means different things to different people. It also means different things to the same people at different times. Im in my 40s and grew up during the whole Girl Power feminism movement. Was brainwashed to think women were paid less for the exact same work and only women suffered sexism. Jump to today's society and its common for female and minority only promotions and recruitment. The whole patri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredI disagree somewhat, being the asshole can be the catalyst to put you on a woman's radar. I always used to be a nice guy, never grew up around women so assumed that being nice was the thing to do. How wrong i was. A long while back i was out on a big night out away with friends (maybe 10 of us). Proper lads night out, and early on these scrounger cling on girls latched onto our group. Followed us around a few different venues and basically split the lads up into 2 separate groups. After an hour … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 08:23 AM |
| – | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get bored100% agree and i even witnessed it last week. My wife and I went on a vacation with with 3 other couples. One of the blokes, lets call him Danny, was there with his missus. He is a proper decent lad, funny, smart, honourable, yet his missus whilst nice is a bit of a bitch to him. Despite this he is always very tolerant, overly kind and doting towards her. Its self evident he loves her more than she loves him. Now when we are in conversation with the other wives and partners about it, it is him w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 08:06 AM |
| – | Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want powerBravo. You read my mind. Boys in school are actively repressed in a way that is not conducive to their development. Fatherless men are the biggest issue precisely because they have feminine solutions to all their problems combined with a lack of male mentor to aspire to. Their behaviours are more commonly antisocial and they can very often be difficult to be around for other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Is there a stigma to dating foreigners where you’re from?UK here, no stigma if a white person dates a foreigner. But im mixed and my east asian family initially looked down on me marrying a white girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 06:54 PM |
| 2 | How common is it for you to see people cheating?Weirdly when I'm not wearing my wedding ring women never hit on me. I've only had women approach me when I've been wearing my ring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:58 PM |
| 3 | How common is it for you to see people cheating?NW England here, fairly affluent rural area. I'm married early 40s and our social circle is very large, friends ages from late 20s to mid 50s. Of all the men (married and unmarried) i know its quite polarised, overwhelmingly they are faithful to their partners. Even on lads trips away when they have the opportunity they choose to be loyal. But a small number of them are Chads and known to be prolific shaggers, around 1 in 10. Among the male social group talking about instances of cheating is mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | 37% of Men have used prostitution: ramifications?Bullshit. Thats like saying spending £100k on a car is a cost invested to get women interested in you. No, women being interested in you because youve a nice car is a free side effect of having a nice car. The nice car in itself is the benefit of the input cost. Unless of course you are specifically doing it to attract women. Then thats just kind of sad. But the same principle applies to careers and fitness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:53 PM |
| 5 | 37% of Men have used prostitution: ramifications?Working your arse off for a career/fitness/status usually comes with improved success with women as a byproduct. The success and improvement in one's life is the reward itself. Of all the successful people i know i cant think of one who did it for the access to women. In fact, id argue that if you are thinking of becoming 'high value' to specifically attract women then likely youre the type of guy who will be a failure. So you cant view the work they put in as input cost. I mean have you ever me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 09:01 AM |
| 16 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderIm a married man in my 40s, i see and know of lots of somewhat lonely women in their 40's and 50's. But guess what, theyve only recently hit this phase. Their children are grown up, and theyve divorced their husbands or left their partners. They had it good when they were younger but now they dont get the attention they want. Sure they can get shagged by some fella on OLD but theyve grown out of that. This is exactly my SIL. Tough shit for her, she broke up her family because she thought she cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 11:40 PM |
| – | Q4M: How do you treat pregnant women?Youre right in that it is less common to offer help able bodied women. But elderly, pregnant women and mothers i regularly see being helped by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you treat pregnant women?Clearly youre a unicorn whom should be treasured. Your stated behaviour and views contradict the general experience that i have seen from british women in my 40 years trying to live upto the archetype of a gentlemanly behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you treat pregnant women?No jealousy whatsoever, i am very traditional and gentlemanly myself. Ive 4 children, two of whom are girls and zero resentment towards women. I want my daughters to have meaningful relationships with a decent worthy partner, and at the same time i want my sons to not be simps and suckers for manipulative women. What i dont like is double standards, entitlement and narcissism. I dont doubt you hold doors open for people. But do you also do all the other chivalrous things men do? Do you also expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: How do you treat pregnant women?In the UK I see men all the time doing socially expected things for pregnant women, mothers and the elderly. Things like lifting or carrying items, giving up seats, holding doors and letting them cut in front of lines. What i rarely see is the same things done for the same people by women. Yet funnily we are told that women are the more empathetic gender. As a man i notice women will never/rarely hold a door, let you cut in, and they walk straight at you expecting you to move. They rarely give w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 04:42 PM |
| 6 | What is the source of men's motivation for working hard?We're still together and i do love her, but it took my decision to get rid of her to make her sort her shit out and grow the hell up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 09:38 AM |
| 17 | What is the source of men's motivation for working hard?For me(married family man) its because im the back stop of the family. Everybody relies on me when the shit hits the fan. Having 4 kids really makes that obvious, because if they want something they will ask mum. But if something is 'needed' or really has to happen it me they come to, and that especially applies to the wife. Her money is for her and to treat the kids, luckily shes a district nurse and makes good money. But i carry 90% of the load by working easily 60 hrs weekly, paying for the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 06:00 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.Its not difficult guys. Sacrifice, prostrate and simp hard enough for long enough to a 'maybe woman' and you just might be lucky enough to be her Beta bucks current provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 10:07 AM |
| 6 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Almost every married man. Its a stereotype and cliche that married men get birthday and Christmas sex only. And its because its largely true, maybe a little exaggerated, but true nontheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:41 PM |
| 29 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.OP, are you making the assumption that when a woman has sexual intimacy with a man (her body being used) that she gains no benefit of enjoyment from the consensual act? That seems like a terrible way i which to view interpersonal relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Where have all the good men gone?I feel it boils down to modern schooling. Girls are pushed forward to work hard and female ASB doesnt get picked up on and overtly punished. Which can make school hell for some girls. Whereas boys are constantly penalised for typically boisterous young male behaviour, where bantering and play fighting is absolutely out of bounds. Add in the whole feminism tirade of women victim and male patriarchy oppressors and its no wonder male ambition is quelled. Ive seen this school dynamic endless times i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20?It entirely depend on the age of the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Men and women have it equally hard in dating, just with different strugglesAny evidence for women facing more violence? I agree that women face more 'serious' violence, but general violence and agression i would wager women are more prone to. Most couples i know (including my own marriage) the wives have some kind of pride in hitting and punishing their husbands when upset or feel wronged. Even my wife hits me when angry despite her knowing id not hold back if she actually started assaulting me proper. Equal rights, equal lefts. But the fear of violence thing will garn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 10:12 PM |
| 3 | What differences have you seen with the way women cheat vs how guys cheat?Ive been married for 20 years, mix with my wifes friend group so get to hear a lot of the female gossip. Also i have a very large and varied friend group (3 actually) consisting of at least 50 fellas, 20 who id consider close. My definition of a close friend is somebody you could call in the middle of the night and rely on for a favour immediately, and i only say this to demonstrate an honesty and sincerity between guys. What ive come to learn is a significant minority 30-40% of the females we k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 10:39 PM |
| 28 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?White knighting for a girl is Royalty Simp move. Especially if it involves jumping somebody at a later time, so i think you got what was coming to you karma wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 08:52 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: Is it okay to make relationship material men wait for sex?"Pressuring someone into sex they don't want to have is a form of rape" Not necessarily, If Sarah didnt want to have sex with Mark then why would she be asking for marriage (by saying no sex before)? Its a way of manipulating and encouraging men to wife her. Effectively putting a price or value on sex and making it a transaction. Its the same as saying i dont want to have sex with you until ive got what i want. In this scenario if she told him about her promiscuous past, he would feel less value… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadAre you American. Do you need to be educated on your own body? Or can you take responsibility and educate yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadSome women do not know when they're ovulating. There i fixed it for you. But that still doesnt absolve women of any responsibility they share in getting pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadAhhhhhhh, responsibilty! It burns! No you cant get pregnant at any time in your cycle! Only 5 days before and 24hrs after youve ovulated. Sperm lives max 5 days.. Youre a woman? And dont know this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadDo any of the pro-abortion thinkers not consider that the backlash from the pro-life side was caused by the fetishization and push for unrestricted abortion rights? Just like NY was promoting and pushing for? I was very pro abortion (and still am within limits) but the extreme leftist position of it being a human right is nonsensical, esp in a country with payment/insurance led healthcare system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 04:44 PM |
| -1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadMen can get women pregnant, yes. But how in gods fucking name how does a man know where in the menstrual cycle she is. Women know very fucking well when theyre ovulating and shouldnt be surprised when they consent to unprotected sex that they get pregnant. "You don’t control if your body get pregnant. Some guy does" = Responsibily Krypotonite of full display. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadReferences please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 6 | What are some examples of female privilege?Exactly, the education system, particularly in the UK is overwhelmingly female dominated. Much to the exclusion of boys. Ive 2 daughters and 2 sons and have seen first hand how woefully adapted it is for boys needs. Thats not to say its all that easy for girls especially when it comes to discipline and bullying, with most of the female bullying going unpunished yet the slightest boyish physicality is crushed immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 03:45 PM |
| 13 | What are some examples of female privilege?Mysogyny and anti female sexism in education!? Hilarious! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum?Its actually a rarity in the animal kingdom for females to be physically smaller than males. Thus female aggression has a far more natural tendency. Whereas in humans the dangers and risks that a female will encounter as a consequence of aggression is far greater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the rule should be for who pays on the first date?20 dollars! Where are you being taken on dates? Macdonalds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Men getting vasectomies at a young age, yes or no?I had it done at 25. But i was married and had 4 kids! Even then my GP wasnt too keen on referring me for it. Having said that its your choice and only you can know if its right for you, although its a relatively simple process to store sperm for future 'options'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 12:07 PM |
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