ChancreMechanic Archive

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3	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Yeah that's a hilarious argument, it's way more special to be one of the very few, or even only one, chosen for your great qualities and for long term prospects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 04:02 PM
4	This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also? This is a little amoral, but it's the Internet and the truth so I guess it doesn't matter. If you're really starved for attention, you can give it to some older, uglier, fatter women and they may give it, I'm just saying. Men don't receive many compliments, it's just true, and a woman or two fawning over you might just be what you need. It might also make you feel better to know that the fwb you went out with will grow older and uglier and may start to miss the attention and feel invisible, as m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 03:57 PM
1	Why are people so obsessed with age gaps when it's such a niche issue? It's just something celebrities do and becomes the "talk of the town" on the Internet. Social media really isn't representative of real life, of course, where I've never heard people talk about age gap relationships, because they mostly occur with modest differences which nobody finds notable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 12:24 PM
16	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I think the funniest argument against caring about body count is people saying that women with lots of partners will have a PhD in sex and be masters at it. This feels like a stupid fantasy arrived at by binging Sex and the City and porn. Pleasing a man isn't hard at all, honestly, in my experience, and if your girlfriend or wife loves you, she will ask you what you like and work at it. It differs per man, and especially per woman, so even if you have ample experience, you will have to communica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 12:15 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid Enjoy! You'll likely see what I mean. Bringing women to social dance events for dates, or going out dancing with your girlfriend, is great.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 08:18 AM
3	Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstated No, I've never personally known a nineteen year-old dating someone over thirty. I've heard of it, but it was solely told to me to disparage, and I also found it strange. I did mean people in their twenties, often mid twenties, dating people in their thirties, hence the reference to the "all-too-common" five to ten-year age gap. I know three adult men ten years older than their wives, and have known several women in their early twenties in relationships with age gaps varying from five to ten year…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 07:05 PM
1	"Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. I'm happy to be in a long term relationship, as are all normal people I know. A small number of people is having a lot of casual sex, especially in a small number of metropolitan areas, but it's hardly everyone out there. The statistics show that most people are serially monogamous, as is everyone I've known in my entire life. I wouldn't personally advocate casual sex, since having many sexual partners is a very strong predictor for unsuccessful marriages, but I imagine you like a different kind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 06:49 PM
7	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid I think the most obvious example of this is in partner dance classes. If you've ever been, you can spot like 5 desperate guys clearly just there to get laid, after following advice on the Internet. I think you're right that you can very much tell and that it's very off-putting. It's psychologically healthier, and just more successful, to set the goalpost not on getting a girlfriend but on getting a happy, healthy life, through you either meet women naturally or in which dates can also partake. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 06:39 PM
4	Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstated I've personally known many college aged women who dated men in their thirties. In fact, it's so common that there's a sizable gap between the amount of women in their twenties who are single and the amount of men in their twenties who are single, only explicable by the fact that many women in their twenties date men in their thirties. Disgust with age-gap relationships is one of those typical phenomena that exists mostly on social media. A lot of the social media response is to extremes: a famou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 05:33 PM
13	"Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. The statistics clearly show that most men and women only have a handful of partners in their life. The only retort you ever receive is that those statistics are self-reported and false, which is paranoia. 'Hook-up culture' seems like a phantasmagoria, or a niche thing a small number of people participate in. Those people pursue 'short-term dating strategies', and will likely do so for the rest of their life. Most people, normal people, are serially monogamous. Take your eyes off slutty sorority …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 08:55 AM
5	Average guys in relationships are subject to a different set of rules than attractive ones In a succesful relationship, the woman is in love with the man and that will be the case whether he looks like a model or Joey next door. This idea that superduper Chad is so attractive that women let everything slide and will drop to their knees for him is just ridiculous incel nonsense. There always has to be a certain equality in a relationship. During the early stages of dating, sure, he will have an advantage. But not taking care of her needs sexually, having a temper, making no time for he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 05:03 PM
0	What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future? Is there a more obvious example of someone so brainwashed by Internet rhetoric on women that you lose grip on reality? You've heard women like wealthy men, you aren't, and now you're worried, when you're literally a doctor, one of the most prestigious, well-paying, honorable jobs in the world, essentially requiring you're in the top percentiles of intelligence too. And this idea that women swoon for wealthy men automatically, or for doctors for that matter, is a sitcom-level analysis. A lot of o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 08:55 AM
–	Confidence is non-transferable There are plenty of examples of unattractive men being confident, even in my own direct social circle. It can come from many places, especially a love of yourself, being comfortable with yourself. Far from being "dumb" to tell unattractive people to be confident, it's very good advice: women want someone who likes himself, who is comfortable in his own skin, who is socially competent. You, however, sound very bitter and self-denigrating, which is not very attractive. Blaming the outside world wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 07:50 AM
–	Men should not be shamed for leaving their wife for a younger woman. Of course people will be shamed for leaving their wife, who is devoted to them and who they have build a life with, to date someone else based on something very superficial (looks). Nor do I know women who left their boyfriend to "explore themselves" with no other reason, nor is leaving someone you've married, presumably years ago, the same as breaking up a realtionship in your early '20s, nor is the fact that one group of people do something bad a good reason for another group to do something b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 07:35 AM
–	In the age of the internet, does being unremarkable cut it? You're a well-educated student with various hobbies, stop feeling that you're inferior because of social media. By the time people are in their '30s, almost everyone just goes to their job and then sits on their couch watching Netflix after, if they find any time next to taking care of their kids, it's just around your age that people advertise themselves well. I remember when I was a student going to all these events, joining all these classes, hoarding the photographs made there, putting them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 11:02 AM