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A lot of men don't even get to be considered options for dating. Even if they're entirely fine people, if they're lacking attractive masculine qualities, almost no woman will even view them as a dating option even if they like them as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:59 AM
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Yeah sorry, a 5'4 dude saying the same stuff is not getting any of these women replying to him and wishing they were with a guy like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:44 AM
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There are, and they get looked at like they're losers and don't have girlfriends. Meanwhile their female counterpart isn't viewed as a loser and is never without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:25 PM
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EVERYONE in society is somewhat pressured to have ambition Yeah women really aren't though. Unambitious women who just want to get by and live a somewhat comfortable life face no penalties for this. Not that they should. But that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:36 PM
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Sorry. We've been over this. You being a woman does absolutely not a single thing in making you more correct than me. It literally doesn't matter. Mansplaining is such a lazy cop out. But I think we see the root of the issue here. You don't want the men in this sub to have something they noticed and they know to be true validated. You don't credence giving to their experience. Because you're scared of what could happen if they are empowered. And I do understand this. But it does more harm than g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:26 PM
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You're the one with preconditioned biases. You're being defensive. And I get it. But that's what is happening here. It feels as if you're prescribing beliefs to me subconsciously based on the argument I'm making because that's what you expect to hear and so you can't let me get away with what I am saying. As if I would say "Yes most women are attracted to power because they're shallow creatures who have no empathy and they suck at picking partners". I'm not saying any of that or anything like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:16 PM
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Okay it's fine if you and your friends aren't necessarily attracted to it. But as I pointed out in my original comment, while you saw it as being attracted to kindness, what really happens most of the time is it's kindness and power. The power lets him do meaningful things with his kindness. Either way, what you've said to other women and what they've said to you doesn't change the conditions we grew up in. I'm sorry. It just doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:10 PM
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Okay by your own bad logic, you don't know either. Are you all women? No. Your friends aren't either. This is so stupid to dismiss. Im not gonna tell a woman that most men actually like single mothers and overweight woman. I may not mind it. But I know most men actually do. Stop. This is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:49 PM
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I mean. I have done more than that. I don't think women are inherently this way. Like it isn't biologically based. That's ridiculous. I have simply said that we are fed these ideas from a very young age. Patriarchal ideas of what gender is and what is attractive in the opposite sex. And something women more often than not end up being attracted to in men is power and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:41 PM
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No one will buy this garbage. It's old. Women all all the time about what men are attracted to for the most part and complain about it and no one cares. And people shouldn't. You have not done a single thing in this thread to explain why this is a wrong take other than going "Tee hee actually ummm no"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:34 PM
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This is so bad faith and no one buys this dumb argument anymore. You can speak on the conditions of a group of people even if you are not part of that group. And you can argue with someone who belongs to that group and still be right. If we bought your line of reasoning, no one could argue with Candace Owens and what she says about people of color.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:28 PM
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What? I'm not a woman. But that doesn't mean I can't speak on gender expectations and attraction. You can do so as well about men. If you're right, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:23 PM
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It is. You're not really doing much to counteract it. This is ingrained in our society. And it isn't all women of course. But it's the majority of them. You can say similar things about the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:18 PM
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Well it's both. But the power definitely matters more. A man who is just as kind but has little money or power to fully realize that won't be nearly as attractive to women no matter how much he tries to be a kind person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:13 PM
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I mostly disagree with this post but it usually is the primary attraction. But kindness isn't necessarily a sign of weakness or unattractive like this guy is saying. It is usually very very attractive to woman if a guy has enough power to meaningfully affect the lives of others with his kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:07 PM
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Okay. I don't really know what to tell you then. Denying and dismissing it is just pointless. That's the way things are now. It's not women's fault. I'm not blaming them. But it is just the way things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:01 PM
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Entitlement is definitely a bad thing. Anyway I don't know if you actually have any interest in engaging here. You can't possibly actually believe nothing has changed since then. Back then, the case was that guy had a very clear and severe character flaw which made him undesirable to almost all women. Nowadays, with online dating and just meeting people online in general, the reason is simply "You aren't as good as the competition that is available to me now, doesn't matter that you're literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:43 PM
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An entitled angry little weirdo is actually kinda a bad person yes. They have failed morally. And that's why it's comfortable to imagine that all the men having trouble dating are like that. But it just isn't true. I'm not the most successful dude but I know I'm not a loser. My friends aren't either. And of course single men did exist in those times. Even ones who couldn't find a girlfriend at all, but back then it was very obvious why that was the case. Many of the guys today who are struggling…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:19 PM
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But that's the thing, you genuinely seem to find it either impossible or very very unlikely for a man to be unable to find a date and not be a total worthless loser who is a bad person. Most young men who can't find anyone to date at all are not bad people. These are people who would be in relationships easily if it was the 1990s or 2000s before online dating and meeting people online became a big thing. And it's not just simply about a guy getting a date. This all leads back to patriarchy and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:53 PM
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Not dismantling them nearly enough. And not really dismantling them at all for men. Anyway so you admit then that you know there's tons of men who actually are just straight up unable to get someone who is willing to date them, you just don't care? That's fine. Just say you don't care instead of saying it doesn't happen. We always know that's what you mean anyway. It's fine to just say it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:31 PM
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You do not agree that as a society we should work to dismantle gendered expectations for men and women based on patriarchal ideas? And reality does not line up with that. There is a good amount of men who literally have no options and are not picky at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:18 PM
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You do not agree that as a society we should work to dismantle gendered expectations for men and women based on patriarchal ideas? And reality does not line up with that. There is a good amount of men who literally have no options and are not picky at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:18 PM
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You ignored most of what I was saying but I am going to say that is because you hopefully agree with it. Regarding what you said, it is true, women have unfair expectations put on them as well. However it is not as strong as it once was. And that is a good thing. Meanwhile men are still expected to be how they were in the 50s. Also, consequences for violating gender roles and norms are not equal. A straight woman whos is super masculine may get shit from men and other women, but she undoubtedly …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:57 PM
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I do not think you understand my point. It's just frustrating that men are given very little leeway to act or encompass life circumstances/traits that are traditionally feminine. Yes, it is men's fault for putting up with woman who still do not have their crap together. However, women never had to have their crap together previously. So when a modern woman does not, we (both men and women) just think to themselves "Ahh thats okay women arent supposed to have jobs anyway, so at least shes working…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:30 PM
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Men have to be able to be providers, not necessarily serve as one, but they should be able to. They're largely expected to be strong and assertive. Women still have pretty old fashioned expectations of men. A woman who is 26 and lives with her parents and has a full time job where she doesn't make much has endless dating options, but a 26 year old man who lives with his parents and has a low paying job probably won't be able to find anyone at all who will accept that. Also this subreddit isn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:53 PM
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I think what it is actually is that we are upset that patriarchal expectations for men are still heavily ingrained in society and not as much for women. It is men's fault, but at the same time, for decades this was the expected norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:40 PM
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It is a shocker because the opposite is not uncommon at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:18 PM
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So you're the kind of woman who's BF would end up getting knocked out because of your antics? That's what I'm hearing. She chose to get involved in the situation. Now I would have stepped in, but he only had to "protect" her because she went out of her way to do something. Also would this go both ways for you? Would you be just as disgusted if he had intervened immediately to help the girl in the Uber while his GF did nothing and just scrolled around on her phone? Something tells me you wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:30 AM
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There are multiple facets to this one. Of course "fat" women will date "fat" men since the majority of people in the US are overweight. However overweight and obese aren't the same thing. There's much more leeway for an obese woman to date than an obese man. Also, a lot of women, even some thin women, do not mind dating fat dudes. There's a stipulation though. As long as he is tall. A lot of girls actually will find an overweight dude who's 6'5 super attractive because they're into a guy being b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:19 PM
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In media. I feel like the vast majority of younger generations were actually raised by mass media. Our parents did their damn best. But TV, Movies, etc really influenced us the most I feel like. And everything portrayed there gave us the idea that finding a partner and getting married are as normal in life as breathing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:40 PM
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I mean, it's never explicitly said "you are entitled to this", but it is portrayed as a normal part of life that everyone goes through.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:24 PM
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I don't see the issue here. If the sex is truly 10/10 then clearly she's attractive to you. Unless you're just worried about what other people think which is really shitty then. I dated a girl who was pretty conventionally unattractive. She barely put any effort into her appearance. But I hit it off really well with her and enjoyed talking with her and spending time with her. And she was attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:23 PM
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More young women than young men. You are the one that brought up the ratio, failing to consider that elderly women exist and so do children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:02 PM
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No. I think there's more young women than men. At least in America. Looking at the ratio of men to women is irrelevant to the issue at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:47 PM
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It's what the person you originally replied to said. Online dating and social media give the average woman way more options and dating prospects than they would have had back in the day. And because of that, the competition for the attention of any given woman is much more fierce than it used to be. Many men find that they can't compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:26 PM
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No. Did I say that? I'm just pointing out that when you say there's an equal amount of men and women and so that means men shouldn't really have a tough time finding a willing partner, that number also includes children and women in their 70s and 80s. Those women might be available. But they aren't viable options for a date. So to make it simple, you can't point to there being a roughly equal amount of men and women when a good portion of those women aren't really options to date for a young man…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:04 PM
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Well it may be true there's roughly an equal amount of men and women, age is a factor to consider. Women tend to live longer than men. So a larger portion of the female population is elderly compared to the male population. I'm pretty sure that even for the most lenient guys with age, dating somebody who's 50-60 years older than them isn't a viable option. So while it may appear that they're an equal amount of men and women, it's important to note that doesn't mean they're all viable dating pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:51 PM
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The issue isn't that dating is complicated and hard. It always has been. Dating advice and relationship issues have been a very common thing as long as humans have been around. However, it's much much tougher to even be ABLE to date as a guy now. That's where the issue lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:46 PM
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Who has more of a chance to get a date? The person who gets 5 matches a year on Tinder, 3 of which are bots, or the person who gets hundreds of matches a day? Even if you make the argument that tinder isnt real life and guys on there just want to use women for sex, there's still a much better chance they meet a partner. Maybe a guy who initially just wanted a one night stand ends up really vibing with the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:42 PM
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Age is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:40 PM
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This has nothing to do with men's rights. If you wanna fear monger about the woke SJW leftists orwellian trans mob cultural marxism just take it somewhere else.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 10:40 PM
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Oh no. I was referring to my area oops. Most of the metal shows I go to are not full of guys with the aesthetic. It's a lot of pretty generic looking people honestly. I like metal music myself. I don't know about aesthetics of punk but the environment at a punk show can be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:47 AM
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Oof. Heartbreaking. A mohawk could probably be doable although I couldn't keep a hairstyle like that lmao. Most metalheads don't look like metal heads lol. At least around here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:40 AM
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Oh yeah. I figured you were talking about aesthetics. I do like metal music and am a metal head. But stylewise I'm not like that. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:35 AM
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What does it mean to be metal? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:09 PM
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Well I would be able to actually date and have sex so that's a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:57 PM
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I was a year old back then. Much much different time. You and him were fucking pioneers. You didn't know how many choices you truly had back then. The internet and social media and online dating wasn't as big as it is now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:35 PM
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Yep. It's true. As a fat guy who is a while foot shorter it's pretty much impossible for me to find a single girl willing to even go out with me or anything. Thankfully I'm losing weight but the height is still pretty damning on its own. Good for you losing weight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:47 AM
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Happy Cake day. But there you go. So you know. Women love big guys. Who are tall and fat. But if you're shorter and fat they're repulsed by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:40 AM
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Well no. I'm making a point. Just because people are not aware something exists doesn't mean that it doesn't. Most people wouldn't know what the bystander effect is but it's a well established phenomenon where people won't step up because they assume someone else will until no one helped at all. Obviously no one wakes up and goes "time to further exacerbate the blackpill" but it gets fed anyway. None of these are excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:34 AM
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Do you think most people know what the bystander effect is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:29 AM
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I'm sure he's a good height And it also depends on whether or not they met pre blackpill. There's lots of factors to consider
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:18 AM
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They were married when you met them though correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:17 AM
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Okay but he's not like 5'7 or below right? And if they're married in their 30s right now they might have met PBP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:13 AM
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How long have they been together for? And how tall are these guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:09 AM
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We don't. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:07 AM
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Lol when was this? 2009? That shit doesn't happen anymore. Fat girls don't date fat guys. Anytime I see a fat woman in a relationship the guy isn't fat. Some fat guys can get women but they're usually very tall. There are a lot of men now that don't have any options at all. Meanwhile no matter what negative traits a woman has, there will always be a sizeable amount of men willing to date her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:05 AM
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Just going back to once again "women have options, but they don't like those options" Meanwhile men in their position have absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:01 AM
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WoW So we talking like 2006 here? This phenomenon is recent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:58 AM
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Changing the culture that OLD and social media has created. There's no going back after opening up Pandoras Box. And I will be honest that I don't know what the solution is to solve this and make dating and sex more fair again for below average men. But the answer certainly isn't to mock people who call the current landscape unfair and gaslight them about whether or not there is an issue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:50 PM
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No it is not. Not at all. If something isn't fair there should be an honest conversation about changing it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:37 PM
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Yeah it's not. Make fun of it all you want. It's not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:35 PM
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I think a better thing to say is that most older women would have not gotten with their husbands if they had access to online dating and dating apps when they met their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:30 PM
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I think most people missed the point of this post so far. What OP is saying is that women who are depressed usually are in an objectivt better situation than men who are. They always talk about their boyfriends and seem to be in a much better and stable situation socially and financially while guys who are depressed and post about it rarely ever seem to have girlfriends and are usually in pretty awful situations. It isn't specifically about "solving their depression" or what kind of support netw…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:13 PM
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Not a viable option. Certainly not as viable as the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:15 AM
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I think you're missing the point. When it comes for what I want for the world, I don't think there's anything wrong with women being in more positions of power. They have been historically underrepresented and it would be nice for the people in power to represent our population at large. But this shouldn't be relevant to what we are talking about. Personally, what I want in life is to simply get by and live a comfortable life. I don't care if I find myself in a powerful position one day, even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:49 PM
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Okay well thats just you. The vast majority of people do not care about that for themselves. The vast majority of people's personal ambitions are to live comfortable lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:35 PM
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Well it's very hard for a woman to be single against her own will no matter what she's like. There's always men willing to go out with any kind of girl. She could literally be the craziest person who has ever existed in human history and there would still be guys willing to date her. She could be female Hitler and there would be guys willing to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:02 PM
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And this right here is the difference. But people will do anything to write this off as "it doesn't count"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 09:55 PM
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You kinda already did
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:13 PM
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Gen Z is the real generation that's absolutely fucked in this regard. At least almost all Millennial men had the chance to jump on this stuff early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:21 PM
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If my ambitions were to become an executive at a company even if my chances aren't good to start with, I would feel better as a man with those ambitions than a woman. But I don't necessarily disagree with that last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 03:15 AM
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Well to be fair it's possible to live a perfect and easy life as a member of any group under the right circumstances. I'm not saying to isn't. I'm just saying that even if you have Privileges from being a member of a certain group that doesn't protect you from other issues and you could still live a miserable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:47 PM
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There is no such thing as living life on easy mode tbh. The closest you could get to it is being super rich but even then I'm sure that comes with its own share of unique issues and you still aren't immune from mental health struggles and stuff like that. However life may be easier for certain groups in certain areas. And it also depends what you want out of life. For example, it's way easier to obtain sex and dates as a woman than it is as a man. It's also much easier to avoid homelessness as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:05 PM
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Not saying they should. Just saying that they will. Any person will do something that benefits themselves. Especially if on the surface it doesn't look like it hurts anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:18 AM
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Yes exactly. As a concept. Lol just stop
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:27 AM
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Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:25 AM
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Not you. Because you probably overestimate women's looks And underestimate guys looks like many people tend to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:24 AM
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Thanks??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:39 PM
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Actually didn't know this. That definitely could be a factor thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:13 PM
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It's not the other way around. There are more MtF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:06 PM
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So I'm pansexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:17 PM
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Not true. Many straight guys willing to date trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:13 PM
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If a trans woman can even pass a little bit than they have a much better chance. Trans women pre transition obviously have even less of a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:01 PM
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Still a better chance than a below average cis man. You still get more positive attention. Especially if you pass. Then again there is a downside to it as well. Many trans people get treated poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:58 PM
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But there is a fetish for that already without being transgender necessarily. Cross Dressing. There's many men that are into cross Dressing and even drag that are actually straight Wanting to be treated like a woman in everyday life and all the time is not just a fetish. Something like that goes far beyond a fetish. The most logical reason for it seems to be that women tend to live easier lives than men especially in getting dating and sex which men have a brutal time with nowadays. So that's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:50 PM
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I can assure you that for most transgender women it is not a fetish thing. That's a bit of a transphobic thing to say. No matter what their reasoning is, like 99% of transgender people truly feel that their transition is necessary to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:27 PM
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Gender Dysphoria is a real thing most trans people suffer from. But seriously why are there just that many more MtF than FtM? If it was all above social and environmental factors you would think it would be pretty balanced? And yet MtF individuals are very very plentiful amongst transgender people. The desire to be female is still really strong but a lot of times it comes from the fact that they think they'd be better off as women and it would improve their social lives and dating prospects grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 03:50 PM
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Really makes you think why most trans people out there are MtF rather than FtM? Really makes you think about that doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 03:11 PM
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This also gives them plenty of opportunity to genuinely meet a guy. And also it's possible that one of the hundreds of guys desperately trying to get a woman's attention wants more than sex. Men don't have these opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 03:10 PM
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Yes you make a fair point. Me and my friends also sometimes engage in this banter. But we are completely self aware about it. The conversation is never about how these sexual qualities are the only thing worthwhile about these women. It's not like we are talking about who would be the best girl to date and we mention Jenny because she has large tits. No that isn't how it works. Because we also sometimes have conversations like that and our tastes are vastly different and our take on who the best…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:30 AM
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You explain everything very well here. Guys are much much more lenient when it comes to standards. No matter what kind of "unattractive" quality a woman has, not only are there many guys out there willing to look past it, but there's a decent amount of guys who genuinely think it's hot. Same can't be said for female standards for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 06:55 PM
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There been a huge disparity in recent years between the amount of women who have sex and the amount of men who are. My point is, men are more likely to not have had sex. So of course they're less susceptible to the gender roles enforced by it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 05:16 PM
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I think it could also have to do with the fact that much more women are more experienced in sex than men. They have experienced this first hand many times so they're more susceptible to stick to it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 04:30 PM
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Ahh yes. The solution to everything. Tradcuck shit. "Men just need to be men again!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 11:09 PM
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Not true at all. It just wasn't as big of an issue. There was an internet from 1997-2015. And incels were not such a massive thing like they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:59 AM
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Used to be a much much much much much smaller population and required many more short comings to be in that position
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:46 PM
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It's a combination of a few things one of which is this. The just world fantasy people want to hold onto is real. But also I think another factor is how recent this stuff is. 20 years ago the advice they give would have easily worked for ugly guys. It would take more effort than it does for attractive guys but they'd still be able to somewhat easily find a relationship. With how much things have changed in the dating and sex landscape, especially for Gen Z, it isn't surprising many people are st…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:32 PM
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Not here to debate capitalists simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 11:48 PM
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This is exactly what it is like and I have been trying to explain this so much recently. I'm a leftist and so wealth inequality is something I also care about and the similarities are remarkable. It's literally the same situation except in the sexual marketplace situation, the ones who benefit from it aren't intentionally exploiting people and harming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 09:06 PM
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I don't think autistic women date autistic guys usually. You're an exception and good on you for giving guys like you a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 08:10 PM
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Facts. Online Dating and Social Media is to blame. Not even women. They're just a cog in that system doing what any person would logically do when presented with the kind of choice and power OLD and Social Media gives them. This can never be pointed out enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 08:08 PM
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Who said gay men don't have high standards? Who said they care less about looks or income or career than women? Tons of gay couples I have seen in my personal life. I get that's anecdotal but I have seen so many gay couples where one of the guys would never be given a shot by a straight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 03:14 PM
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Actually 100% yes. While since I am straight, the idea of any gay sex stuff is not appealing to me, being loved and having a significant other still does It is definitely easier to both get a relationship and get laid as a gay guy. Ironically, my older brother is gay. And I have had a gay guy in his social group ask if I was single before finding out im just his brother and I'm straight. If I wasn't straight I would almost certainly be in a long term relationship right now. I don't care what any…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 03:12 PM
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Lol you think they're decreasing? Just wait a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:03 PM
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That is just blatantly untrue. And I know you're talking about other niche communities as well but this applies to all of them. It doesn't matter. Okay yeah sure, Giga Chad probably won't be in a goth or punk community, but these communities still have tall guys, guys with good facial structure, guys with beards, guys who are tough. There's guys with traditionally masculine and attractive qualities in these communities that the girls will go for. A guy like me or other incels couldn't compete wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:59 PM
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Not all incels don't have friends. I have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:52 PM
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Okay well who says incels are goth? And not all goth guys or guys in these communities are unattractive. You realize this? You may find the style to be unattractive, however there are attractive guys in these communities and that's who the girls in those communities will go for. Attractive, traditionally masculine guys. Girl in those communities still would not want anything to do with incels like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:45 PM
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Introverted people don't hate the idea of being in relationships. It's just the fact that introverted guys aren't given a chance really to be in a relationship. Especially nowadays. Meanwhile introverted girls, like any girl, have guys pursuing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:40 PM
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This just isn't true. I'm in central NJ and have been to Philly and NYC tons of times and can get to both within an hour. This area is not good for incels. Our point is that okay, you can find girls that have a certain attitude to them, but if you aren't a desirable, physically attractive guy, it doesn't mean shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:35 PM
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"Can't blame women" Yeah true "Can't blame dating apps" Umm no, he most certainly fucking can blame dating apps and online dating and social media. This is what is causing all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:25 PM
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I never even interpreted this post that way. When I first saw this image a few years ago I thought it was a body positively thing,not a consent thing. Which in that context the response is perfect.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/17 08:37 PM
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This is one of the best case scenarios. They turn against each other and fight each other and not stuff such as "manspreading"
/r/MensRights03/06/15 06:22 PM
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No problem. I remembered seeing it a few months ago when I decided to look up male rape as an experiment to see if it got any recognition or not and there are a few websites and outlets besides CNN that were exposing it. Not as much as female rape for sure,but I was surprised by how much recognition it got.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 11:52 PM
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To be fair,didn't CNN publish an article about male rape? Why are we acting surprised. Did I miss something? Article in question: http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/09/living/chris-brown-female-on-male-rape/
/r/MensRights09/11/14 11:44 PM
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Its like theyre upset that they already achieved what they were fighting for and they can't accept that their movement is over and useless now. They wanna keep it alive as long as possible for some reason.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 02:43 AM
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Its still bad because as I said its mutilation and it takes away a lot of sexual pleasure. And it is barbaric to do it for religious reasons. "Let's cut off our sons foreskin against his will simply because it says to do so in a book that's most likely not real!"
/r/MensRights14/08/14 10:20 PM
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As I said though,if the penis is washed well enough,those infections will most likely not happen. If a guy wants to take this very slight risk then he should be able to. It shouldn't be a forced decision from birth. Circumcision itself is not necessarily a really really bad thing. Its just that it is forced onto baby boys who have no say in what's happening to their own body and its all normal.
/r/MensRights14/08/14 09:25 PM
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No it wouldn't. But keep in mind these things grow back. Mutilations definition is having damage be done to something. There's really no damage done if it's just gonna grow back in a couple of days. Foreskin doesn't grow back.
/r/MensRights14/08/14 08:04 PM
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Yeah,you're right. Parents do need to make decisions for their child when they're that young. But its a permanent choice that will last the guys whole life. People do it for religious reasons,its barbaric. And doing it for cleanliness actually is kinda a valid point since you don't need to worry about that stuff being cut. But as long as you wash your penis well,nothing will happen most likely. And it most certainly is mutilating the penis. You are born with foreskin. Getting rid of that is muti…
/r/MensRights14/08/14 07:51 PM
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If you're circumcised and happy with it,then that is absolutely fine. Our issue isn't that circumcision is a thing. Its the fact that it is a norm for a baby boy to have their penis mutilated without being able to think for themselves if they want it. If guys want to get it done when they're older then that's fine. Its their choice. The issue is that it isn't their choice normally.
/r/MensRights14/08/14 07:41 PM
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Basically,its because its generalizing. This certainly isn't a big issue take more of a deeper look into this subreddit for that. This is basically saying that all girls are gonna be victims and all boys will be rapists if they're not taught otherwise. That's just wrong. Girls in general are not victims boys in general are not rapists. This isn't really an issue as much as it is cringe material. Just look around more in this subreddit.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 04:31 AM
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He did hate women the most because they were never attracted to him(I wonder why?). He also said that he hated men because they were all having sex and he wasn't, and that's an injustice. Overall he hated everyone and wanted to kill everyone. He just made a point of women because they were most of the "cause" for him.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 06:25 PM
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