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| 2 | Coffee date etiquette?Let’s normalise understanding that dates don’t mean an obligation of emotional or sexual connection. They are for getting to know each other to see if there can eventually be those things | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Women pull away when you’re needy. Relax and watch what happens.It’s great that there are people out there who don’t resort to that. But I guess if it’s to feed the desires of the flesh… when the option to be yourself is not working… who are we to judge. lol | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Women pull away when you’re needy. Relax and watch what happens.In agreement. I think the advice being given most of it seems to remove the fact that people are different. There is no set formula unless u are weeding out a certain group eg those that don’t tolerate negging, lies, or manipulation. And use ur formula to get with those that do. A better way to approach things is to first assess a person. The good old days “get to know someone” strategy. | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 09:05 AM |
| 52 | Women pull away when you’re needy. Relax and watch what happens.Not always. Don’t confuse being needy with being interested | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think slightly older women (30-40s) are generally less picky about men's height? In the US at least.Height issue is a new age phenomenon. It cuts both ways. Women being shallow and men feeling superior about the height thing. Same way women think their beauty is what they bring to the table, you find some guys thinking their height is what they bring to the table. Dating is so shallow and bland these days sigh. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Let’s Settle This Once and For All…Witty, funny, playful after that initial hello. Always grabs my attention. Playful in a flirty but not overtly sexual way | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Let’s Settle This Once and For All…In real life. Ok as a woman, i tried dating apps. They are overwhelming. I’ll get so many matches and messages and it’s all overwhelming. And I would be naturally guarded because of safety I guess, and just the initial assumption that they are for hookups etc (which is weird because of course I also want sex bla bla). But when a guy approaches me and is great at conversation and takes initiative I find that hotter and more likely to lead to deciding on a hook up or ltr | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 04:59 AM |
| 0 | why do girls say they want a nice guy and then date someone who looks like he eats drywallI think people really need to see both sides of the coin when dealing with reasons for attraction or being skipped in being chosen. A lot of valid points here. Be careful not to take only what u wanna hear. There is potential in the advice being given here. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 04:55 AM |
| 2 | why do girls say they want a nice guy and then date someone who looks like he eats drywallAnother underrated comment being downvoted. Instead of being mad that people aren’t saying what you want to hear, this is a moment of putting ego aside and thinking… hmm, maybe there IS something to all this? Don’t live in an echo chamber. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | why do girls say they want a nice guy and then date someone who looks like he eats drywallAlso another underrated comment being downvoted. I think ladies with low self esteem will put up with the mean but attractive guy BS or the blatantly “strategic” niceness. So if you find she isn’t falling for those little games, she probably has good boundaries. That’s all. Just be a bit more genuine and don’t do blatant playbook approaches. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | why do girls say they want a nice guy and then date someone who looks like he eats drywallNot sure why you are being downvoted but this true. Unless men are also in competition with other men and want what other men want. Not necessarily wanting that specific girl | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 04:45 AM |
| 2 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?I think social media is twisting just how much certain things like looks height and money matter. Of course have a stable income, but other than that start approaching women you like. Work on your confidence there. For a start | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | It's better when she knows you have options. (text screenshot)Attraction is attraction. Getting a wedding ring doesn’t 100% equal attraction. You have to have some sort of appeal to begin with?? So saying a wedding ring equals attraction is skewed. U have baseline attraction, the wedding ring increases likelihood of women wanting u because they know u going back home. | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Emotional rollercoasterThis. 👏. I see a lot of advice that leans into manipulation and games, narcissism. | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | It's better when she knows you have options. (text screenshot)Who said it didn’t? Point is women hit and run to. And a wedding ring makes it easier to spot a conquest | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 06:59 AM |
| 12 | It's better when she knows you have options. (text screenshot)Because they don’t want anything serious | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 05:13 AM |
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