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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:27 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP28/10/20 07:39 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/seduction22/10/20 09:08 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:48 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP01/11/19 12:15 AM
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ConversationChaotixEDM/r/seduction11/10/20 04:27 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/seduction01/08/19 03:10 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:10 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP12/01/20 07:29 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:54 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:04 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/seduction28/06/19 01:07 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/seduction30/08/19 01:59 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:17 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:37 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:22 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:29 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/seduction30/07/19 12:25 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP13/11/19 12:32 AM
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Rant/VentingChaotixEDM/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 12:31 AM
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Rant/VentingChaotixEDM/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 10:47 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:03 PM
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ChaotixEDM/r/seduction11/04/22 02:14 AM
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ChaotixEDM/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:25 PM
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You missed the opportunity to fire back a “we can change that” with a friendly smirk. It’s all about being playful dude. Tbh she was probably just testing you with the “but we don’t even know each other” and you failed the test haha.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/24 06:33 AM
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That 6 times in 20 minutes is almost certainly an exaggeration by her.
/r/seduction31/05/23 10:41 PM
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You're golden dawg, just keep hitting the gym, get some nice fitting clothes and you'll be swatting off the ladies.
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:59 AM
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Well calling all women despicable creatures shows a lot about your own insecurities and views. I’d fix that first.
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:39 PM
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It’s been a day bro, chill out and go do something haha. People get busy.
/r/seduction24/10/22 04:41 AM
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Disagree with that thought process. I never push for sex when hanging out with a new chick and it usually just builds sexual anticipation.
/r/seduction23/10/22 05:43 AM
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I like the hooker vibes 😂
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:52 AM
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Naw. Therapy is so normal now a days. If she actually didn’t want to continue things with you over trying to better yourself. What’s that say about her?
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:52 AM
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The nice guy act is just pure manipulation. It's mostly guys who don't have a spine to say what they actually want so they soften women up with acts of chivalry as a bargaining tool. It's weak and women see straight through it. Instead, be a stand up guy, that is direct with what you want.
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:27 AM
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Lmao, nice save.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:17 AM
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Lmao yup.
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:56 AM
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Because women put on the spot like that will rarely straight up say no they’re not feeling you. They don’t want to reject you to your face and honestly, I get it. Some loser guys become enraged when rejected. My ex use to tell me she had to give ppl fake numbers because she felt scared when guys pressed her for her digits when she was single.
/r/seduction01/07/22 02:31 PM
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This is pretty shallow thinking.
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:27 PM
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That doesn’t override the fact you care too much about the expected outcome.
/r/seduction01/06/22 06:11 PM
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You shouldn’t care when people get back to you. The thought of even caring about that is needy behaviour.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:58 PM
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I personally don’t like to have sex with women on the first date. I usually wait until the second date. Them making it too easy on the first date almost turns me off for some reason.
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:52 AM
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Entitlement runs strong in some men unfortunately, it's a trait that needs to be curbed.
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:43 AM
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This. Just have a normal conversation and if you feel you guys are vibing, it makes it a lot easier to ask for their number.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:15 PM
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All good man. Chances are most women that guys hit on in the gym don’t secretly have the hots for them. That’s a pretty rare situation.
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:35 AM
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Ya that’s why I said most of the time, to not generalize. Also, a gym crush is a pretty specific situation haha.
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:10 AM
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I see guys at my gym hitting on women and i can tell by their body language that they don't like it most of the time. People generally want to be left alone at the gym.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:13 AM
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You can’t categorize all women as terrible, man. You definitely will meet women that have zero integrity in life, but they often say you attract how you act. Going by the tone of this post, you may just need to do some deep introspection.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:18 AM
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I just like getting external opinions on things. Someone might make a point on something I never thought about. Appreciate the input :)
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:31 PM
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Yeah I don’t feel like hanging out with someone once is a good enough feel. People usually put their best foot forward on first hangouts lol.
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:24 PM
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Yeah this is generally how I like to go about things. On the other hand, it could be a lot of fun haha.
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:37 AM
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Of course they do haha.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:57 AM
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No lol. That’s a horrible thing to do to somebody.
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:57 AM
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You can't see that someone is perfect for you without meeting them my dude. I don't think there is anything wrong with shooting a girl your number either.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:35 AM
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Women don’t like hearing that
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:56 PM
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I’m painfully average so I usually just say you’ll have to wait and see 😂
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:50 PM
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She has an onlyfans haha. Literally that’s her job. Just posting provocative photos for guys. That’s why I’m a little insecure about it.
/r/seduction27/12/21 12:56 AM
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I think that’s my fear. Only being able to hide things for so long rather than just flat out changing my outlook.
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:53 PM
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Can’t risk one of you sending her this sub, otherwise I would lol.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:30 PM
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Outa sight, outa mind. Yeah that could help haha. I get curious tho.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:29 PM
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She makes more than me doing that lol
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:27 PM
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I get like 100 views on my videos. It’s absolutely killing my Insta game lol.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:23 PM
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I would, but I can’t risk one of you doing some lame shit like sending her the link to this sub.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:22 PM
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She’s pretty good about it. I never see her commenting back to these people in the comments but she will follow back attractive guys that add her first I’ve noticed.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:22 PM
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I change the ages up slightly and names usually from what they really are cause I worry the person I’m talking about might somehow stumble upon this post and make connections haha.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:17 PM
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I agree. Thanks for the input bro!
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:54 AM
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Through Instagram actually. I admittedly white knight’d when some dude said something rude on her page. The next day I woke up and had a message in my inbox thanking me for saying something. Started talking from then on until she was asking to come see me.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:49 AM
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I couldn’t do that. For one I think that’s kind of beta to ask that of her. And 2, that’s literally her source of income, she makes money through simp guys sending her money everyday.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:41 AM
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Now I’m curious haha. You mentioned a girls Instagram status and that didn’t turn out well?
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:48 AM
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I like this mindset. Thank you!
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:27 AM
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Good advice also. I’m trying to line another one up.
/r/seduction26/12/21 03:58 AM
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Good to know man, I appreciate this bit of advice.
/r/seduction26/12/21 03:46 AM
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Yeah but that number was a business transaction. He also was probably quite drunk and doing things he shouldn’t be doing. When he sobered up a bit the next day, maybe he felt guilty.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:07 PM
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He has a girlfriend.. pretty obvious no?
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:06 PM
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I’m not aware what this is haha
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:28 AM
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Bro she’s a twitch streamer who literally stays home every single day 😂 she doesn’t have no appointments or life duties. I understand what you’re saying but she’s got the time. She’s just choosing not to at this point because she’s lost interest or is playing games. I’m trying my best to just be mature about this. I honestly hate the push/pull reward/punish system cause then I feel like I’m jumping in on this game that I despise. I’m not saying you’re wrong or anything either, I do agree with ev…
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:49 PM
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I’m sorry man but if she was texting me all the time, then goes to hours at a time that means something is up. I can live with hours at a time but texting me back the next day, or not at all is completely unacceptable to me given I knew she was replying at the drop of a dime before. It’s frustrating for anybody to witness and have to deal with this because it’s blatant disrespect.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:29 PM
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Ya I’d say you’re right, but it’s always her messaging me first. I’ll respond, then she disappears for hours. If it was me reaching out to her first and she was doing that I would just drop and move on. I just don’t know why she messages me, then acts this way. I almost think responding to her extremely late text almost instantly with a “gotcha” is almost more impactful. I don’t need to stoop to taking forever to respond, just acknowledge her text back and show I’m losing interest.
/r/seduction16/10/21 07:24 AM
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Yeah I did twice, slept with her both times then it was awhile before we could hang again due to covid restrictions and me being unvaxxed.
/r/seduction30/09/21 03:03 AM
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Yeah it really sucks man. I decided to just be blunt with her and ask her why she's been being distant. She told me she's still interested, is not trying to be and will try harder. Then doesn't try harder at all... It's extremely frustrating that they won't just be honest and say yeah I'm losing interest. It's cowardice and almost every girl that has done this in the past always takes the same path of feeding me bullshit instead of the truth. Just tell me how it is.. i'm a big boy, i can handle …
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:32 AM
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Ya thought that to so I did start reaching out more to make it fair and she’s just not reciprocating the effort at all. She’ll chat if I reach out but it’s always just me reaching out now.
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:36 PM
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I almost feel it’s better to just act like nothing is wrong and set dates.
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:10 PM
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Yeah that’s my guess. Someone else is in the picture. She’s been going out with a new group of friends lately, prob met some dude while doing so. Best to just not contact them anymore at this point?
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:40 PM
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Good to know. Maybe I gotta check myself.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:37 PM
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Just constantly blowing up my phone asking to come over. Flat out saying she wants me to fuck her. She found me on Instagram through my music page. I guess she liked it.
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:12 PM
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I’m not disagreeing with that at all, but i can’t really help if I’ve lost attraction due to it. I do feel bad about it big time.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:15 AM
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I didn’t say I was surprised - I’m not.
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:48 AM
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I know she’s sexually interested. She blatantly says she wants me to rail her. So the “come find out” comment back just seems cocky cause you know it’s big. In person that’s going to be severely disappointing. I seriously wouldn’t care as much if there was no anticipation like this and she just pulled my pants down and it was a little smaller. It’s the anticipation of her asking that’s making this brutal lol.
/r/seduction30/06/21 01:32 PM
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It’s a win my dude. Now she no longer lives as a what if in you’re head.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:21 AM
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Dunno why you’re arguing with me when I can easily prove it. All I wanted was some thoughts on the situation man. Not if you believe me or not.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 10:19 PM
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Ya you got the correct one and you don’t have to believe me, I’m well aware I’m a bit of an oddball but it’s just how I’ve always been. I barely even contact my own friends which I’m sure bugs them. And you gotta realize she gave me the option of the two so me being the way I am went for the Insta option in a heartbeat.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:30 PM
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Brittneymacrae on Instagram. I think she’s attractive but attractiveness is subjective. I just prefer talking a bit before giving out my number and honestly in the moment I didn’t really think heh should I text or Instagram her. I just reverted to what I always do cause I’m a creature of habit. I’m not even disagreeing that it could have been the wrong thing to do but I do think it’s stupid that that could be a wrong thing to do. Who cares how you communicate.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:42 PM
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I’m quite charismatic with women and most of them feel safe talking to me. I dunno if that’s a good or bad thing— bad because it could be more of a friend vibe for all I know but women tend to like texting me a lot. I’m not saying I don’t like it, I’m just not really a huge texter in the first place.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:31 PM
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Ya that is a fair point and I guess is a good indicator for quality of women that I quite honestly didn’t even think about. I was looking at more surface level of them being attractive haha
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:19 PM
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Regardless, it annoys me and that’s why I opted for Instagram.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:03 PM
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You’d be surprised how many text regardless of set plans
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:31 PM
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I’ve had chicks that just text way too much off the cusp and I feel obligated to answer back if they have my number opposed to Instagram which I don’t check as much.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:15 PM
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Yeah I don’t really want her having my number right away.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:13 PM
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I’ve thought about sending a message but my own ego won’t allow me to do that. I feel so cringe sending another message to girls if they don’t respond to the first one. My outlook is they knew I sent the message they requested. If they want to get back to me, they will. Til then I guess I’ll just take it as a change of heart.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:31 PM
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Girls actually do that? Haha.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:21 PM
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Personally I don’t want to even engage with this chick anymore unless someone died in her family or some shit then it’s understandable. I don’t mess with disrespectful chicks. Funny thing was she seemed quite in tune and like a decent chick. More so just curious why someone would do that.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:08 PM
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That’s a bold thing for a chick to say lol
/r/askTRP01/03/21 09:00 PM
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Why buy courses? There’s so much good free knowledge.
/r/seduction31/01/21 05:19 AM
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Sometimes people just aren’t into you for whatever reason. That’s life.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:10 AM
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It’s the insinuation that you probably want to fuck them. 90% of the time that is why a girl will call you buddy. Just to nix that thought.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:37 AM
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I’m so happy for you buddy! That must have felt great! Good job :)
/r/seduction30/10/20 07:15 PM
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Yup you’re right man. Had a slight moment of weakness and I now see the result of that.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 09:01 PM
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I sent it yesterday around noon and still no response so I doubt she’s going to. Lesson learned I suppose.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:22 AM
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Only cause she asked and I didn’t wanna lie so I was just truthful about my current situation.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:55 PM
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Yup. You’re probably right man. I got in my own head thinking it would be good to put everything on the table so it didn’t cause problems later. Which was clearly a bad move. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:59 PM
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Ya fair enough man. I realize I slipped up on the wording of things.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:04 PM
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It had nothing to do with validation? Why would I even want to tell her something like that? It makes zero sense for me to. I’d rather it just not come up in the future and look like I tried to hide it cause I am a little embarrassed about having to move into one of my moms places with a buddy.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:03 PM
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Ya but I did cause it’s good to be honest with people.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 07:56 PM
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How would one go about that without seeming needy though? I personally would like to know if that is the reason, but i also don't really want to pry.
/r/seduction28/10/20 05:53 PM
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Just being honest about my current situation and life being kind of uncertain at the moment. That i personally don't know if this business is going to work but I'm trying and if it doesn't i'll be finding another job in January. Basically that i just really want to give this my all before i go back to a job. I mean i guess it is somewhat lame that i had to move in with a buddy into one of my moms houses, but it really is helping with the cut costs and putting more money into this dream of mine. …
/r/seduction28/10/20 05:51 PM
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To be honest with you man. I usually do. But her taking ages makes me feel like responding right away is eager and I only feel this way cause of how long it takes her.
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:57 AM
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Well it’s been an ongoing conversation. I’m not going to just stop and ignore her next one, that’s kinda rude in my opinion.
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:42 AM
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I dunno cause you shouldn't be shallow? and i feel like I'm being a jerk i guess.
/r/seduction22/10/20 09:37 PM
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Ya it is weird haha. That’s why I don’t really know how to respond like oh cute?
/r/seduction11/10/20 05:02 PM
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Cause it’s done through the chat.
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:22 PM
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But sending a selfie isn’t really communicating. It’s just strange and is almost as if they want me to send one back which I won’t ever do lol.
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:57 PM
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No it’s directly to me. Not the mass way. Which is why it’s weird. If it was to everybody I wouldn’t be making this post.
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:55 PM
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Your dick prob tasted bad or something lol
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:52 PM
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Revel in their insult. Turn it back on them by being sarcastic with your response and own whatever they throw at you.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:42 PM
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When they aren’t answers to do with anything I asked, it’s more so debate. Not validation.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 06:15 AM
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Might not, I still think it’s too premature to hard next.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 06:08 AM
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Yeah I totally get that man. Everybody has got their boundaries.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:49 AM
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Yes it’s been three whole days lol. Not a big deal in my honest opinion.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:38 AM
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I think that’s kind of illogical man. Every case is different. Seems like you’re shooting yourself in the foot jumping to conclusions like that. Someone not responding through the weekends pretty common. Hell even I do that to ppl.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:35 AM
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I see your point but I don’t think that’s the right play. It’s tinder, of course she’s talking to other guys. It was also through the weekend she didn’t respond. So it’s a little more understandable. When she does respond it’s quite receptive so it’s not like there is zero interest. I just know response times matter for some stupid reason.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:27 AM
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This comment needs to be rethought 😅
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:09 PM
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Dude... SHE DATED YOU. How can you not laugh at the fact she's calling you ugly, but dated you? I'd find that hilarious and a complete indicator that she's full of shit.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 09:47 AM
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Things aren't going to get better. Only much worse. Don't get married. That's the biggest mistake you can make.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:05 AM
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Yeah they are questions she doesn’t reply to and that’s why I find it so rude. But thanks man. I appreciate your input. I was just trying to find a mature way to set boundaries if she isn’t going to respect something I’ve asked of her.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:54 AM
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Naw she’s knows. I’ve brought it up to her before to be more mindful of doing that cause I find it rude as hell. And it still happens. It just feels like straight up disrespect at this point.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:42 AM
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Lol dude I know she saw it and just chose not to respond. That’s what pisses me off. It’s blatant disrespect.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:38 AM
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Ah just completely ignoring my fb messages sometimes. I don’t buy the “sorry I just forgot to respond” bullshit she try’s to feed me.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:34 AM
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What do you mean. If I tell her it bugs me I don’t really need to explain why. It’s pretty self explanatory.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 11:18 PM
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Yeah it’s just the thing I find disrespectful is something I shouldn’t care about. That’s the paradox. It’s about sometimes just not responding to me. I find it pretty rude. I know this shouldn’t bug me because I simply shouldn’t care but it aligns with what I find as common courtesy. That’s why I don’t even know if I should bring it up.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:18 PM
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Ya but withdrawing attention will defiantly make this girl ask why I’m not talking to her... then I have to get into it.. thus looking kind of weak.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:51 PM
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Maybe I wasn’t clear. I still wouldn’t mind getting her to my place without looking weak.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:13 AM
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Yeah I would have left after 20 minutes. My time is valuable and if you’re going to waste it, next.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:08 AM
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I agree with masculine. If you actually did have other plans I’d 100% not go hang out with her. But if you’re sitting around anyways and she’s willing to come to your place. She’s working for you. Try to smash and be done with it.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:05 AM
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Cringe level is high.
/r/MGTOW10/12/19 04:51 AM
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Calm down dude lol
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:52 AM
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Classic manipulation. If you fall for it you’re a sucker.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:50 PM
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It's a girl i know quite well. That's why i find it so rude. If it was someone i barely knew, i wouldn't really care.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:29 AM
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Even when it's a constant thing that happens? And it actually drives me nuts cause i find it incredibly rude.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:22 AM
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That’s all mindset though, man. Anybody can be a prize in their mind even if their smv is truly quite low. Myself for instance. I had to move back into my moms place at 33 because I wanted to take an honest stab at funding and starting my own business. I know that’s insanely unattractive but I have confidence it will pan out. I know I have good moral values and take self improvement quite seriously - because of all this, I see myself as a catch.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 12:24 AM
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Do it man. I’m not counting reddit so let me know how it’s working for ya if you decide to do it thru November :)
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:48 PM
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I’m failing to see how responding to her messages makes me an orbiter? So you guys just ignore people when they message you?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:55 PM
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It’s more a moral thing man. I morally find it rude. The thing is I realize other people might actually not feel the same way and not see it as rude at all. That’s why it’s conflicting.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:07 PM
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I’m not tho lol. I don’t ever message her first. She’s always the one to message me first but then drops off.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:03 PM
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We’ve always kind of been in touch since breaking up years ago. Not hanging out tho. We’ve met up twice and had a good time each time. I was flirty with her in person and she liked it but when the night ends and we talk again say the next day she does little hinters she is trying to enforce friends but saying stuff like “i has such a good time buddy, you’re really funny”. I know the buddy is thrown in there to enforce boundaries. Should I just not care about those boundaries. I haven’t contacted…
/r/seduction05/09/19 06:49 PM
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Ah no outcome in mind. I think it’s best not to set expectations. I do like spending time with her tho and I do wanna fuck her again haha. That’s why I asked of ways to be flirtatious without coming off weak as hell.
/r/seduction05/09/19 05:51 PM
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K good tip man. Thank you!
/r/seduction05/09/19 05:30 PM
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Well to be fair this was an ex from ten years ago but I mean ten years has passed. It was kind of like meeting someone completely new. I’m guessing that’s why
/r/seduction04/09/19 08:11 PM
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Yeah I’m currently trying to do the same thing. It is really strange because all my friends are like you guys totally still seem like you’re into one another and a spark is still there but escalating to something sexual after it not being like that for awhile just seems so weird. We made out last time we hung out then nothing was said about it the next day and just back to a friendly vibe between us lol.
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:02 PM
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You’re right
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:30 PM
1

I mean I don’t think it was that bad. It was clearly a joke and not meant to be taken seriously. But maybe you’re right.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:23 PM
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Yeah I figured this. I would like to explore things with this girl again, but I’m not going to be a second option. Maybe just best to respond less interested? I just feel like then you have the possibility of seeming like a cold fish. Which also isn’t good.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:14 PM
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Little harder than that considering she’s a ferry ride away. It’s only an hour ferry but still a big enough inconvenience where I can’t just say stuff like that or I would have. Thanks for the tip though. I appreciate it.
/r/seduction09/08/19 12:47 AM
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Has nothing to do with growing up. if someone is going to blatantly ignore me on purpose, i naturally am going to feel bad about it.
/r/seduction09/08/19 12:12 AM
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Yeah I totally agree with this man. Funny thing is it was actually a girl I went out with for 2 years 10 years ago lol. So i can tell there are still feelings there on her part cause we’ve fucked many times in the past. But I agree with just walking if she’s not into it. I want her back but I feel at my core I’m okay with losing her out of my life again since I already did once for 10 years lol.
/r/seduction01/08/19 04:39 PM
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Ya but I’m not into being friends. This is someone I’m kind of interested in. Just seems inauthentic to her and myself to be friends if that’s not what I essentially want.
/r/seduction01/08/19 03:22 PM
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Honestly it’s just put a mental block in my head. Like oh she’s not even into my like that. Would you just state oh well I’m into you so if you change your mind you know where to find me. And just leave it at that?
/r/seduction01/08/19 03:16 PM
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Some women see this as extremely cheap and you won’t get a second date if you do this. But it’s not really bad, cause you wanna weed those ones out.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:58 PM
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Yeah i just did 5 hours later and made a point not to ask any questions or keep the conversation going as an extra alright whatever haha.
/r/seduction30/07/19 02:12 AM
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Yeah that's what i did. That is honestly the best approach i think in these situations. That way you're not playing their games by waiting a day too, but they are also losing priority status on your end.
/r/seduction30/07/19 01:34 AM
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Oh I don’t. Just mid conversation she went mia then texted back the next day like she didn’t just disappear. And the thing is. I know ppl get busy but when it’s a girl I’m interested in that does this to me. I feel like if I text back pretty fast like I normally do with everyone then I look needy cause she texted a day later. And if I wait a day it looks like it got to me and I’m only waiting a day cause it took her a day. In my opinion doing the same thing back almost looks more needy perhaps?
/r/seduction30/07/19 12:37 AM
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Yeah she actually got back to me today. I was just thrown off why she took a day when she doesn’t normally but you guys are right. She was probably just processing things.
/r/seduction29/07/19 09:23 PM
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I just care about her. Guys are logical. We had a good night so it’s hard to not be in my own head a bit. I won’t actually contact her ever again until she reaches out to me first because I have too much pride over ppl ignoring me. That kind of works in my favour I suppose. If she does contact me again tho, which she probably will at some point. I’m just wondering how/what to do. How do I hint that I still want her back without actually saying anything about relationships.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:28 PM
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Turns out it was just a shit test. She was all over me. Take this as a prime example not to read into things to much. Thanks everyone 🙏
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:06 PM
1

Yeah honestly, I'm just going in with the mindset that she can't resist me and is using stuff like that because shes shy haha
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:01 PM
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Well we're hanging out tonight 100%, and that's why she threw that buddy line in there. I feel like she wants it, but since i'm an ex she feels like she shouldn't want it... Even though she's been texting a lot lately. (Always her texting me first) It's literally hard not to be thrown off by this type of behaviour.
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:40 PM
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To be honest man, i never really got over her. We have good chemistry together. I wanna just keep hanging out and having fun, but i literally can't help being pretty flirty with her in person and it makes me feel like i have some ulterior motive now that she said that. It just sits weird with me.
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:35 PM
10

This is the mindstate to have haha.
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:17 PM
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Yeah that's what it feels like she's trying to do. It's just strange cause i could tell she was into me when we did hangout. All my friends that were there also confirmed that it looked like she was into me. She brought a friend that night (Guy) He was all over her and i could tell she didn't really want anything to do with him.
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:16 PM
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Yeah I'm aware you should always go with actions and it seems like she really wants to hangout. I just don't understand why you would even throw that in there to purposely throw me off. I'm still going to be flirty with her tonight, but i'm almost taking it as.. HEY DON'T BE FLIRTY WITH ME TONIGHT.
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:04 PM
1

Yeah that’s a good idea :) I just hate feeling like I’m so dependant on booze to feel normal.
/r/seduction25/07/19 05:20 PM
1

Why does she send me random message from time to time and is super engaged in the convo when she sends the message? That's what's throwing me off.
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:31 AM
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Yeah i am talking to other girls so it's not killing me or anything, but i do like this girl more than the rest. She will message me randomly sometimes, and we always have a good chat so it's not like it's just me pursuing. I just don't understand the week long gaps, it's really strange to me.
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:23 AM
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