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CharCanDo/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 06:30 PM
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CharCanDo/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:25 PM
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We should be patient with ourselves in getting out of that, and not aggravate it with autistic rage at ourselves. We aren’t only fighting the force of habit in our over analyzing, we’re simultaneously fighting the conditioning that guided us to that habit in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 08:10 PM
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You used he word kids multiple times. Remember that. Remember what it feels like. Why you said kids instead of people. Then remember that you are of the half of the equation that emotionally grows past this stage of development. This won’t matter to you soon if you’re on your path.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 06:48 AM
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Men are already trapped in today’s world with its lack of physical demands or true requirements for masculine action - so they lean on their one strongly innate trait to express their masculine drive, their system generation and theorizing. Alone, it is paralyzing.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 08:30 PM
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I agree with the sentiment and it is something I can learn from. However, I think some things are situational. I feel this only applies if you delay your approach or escalation based on your own anxiety. Even then, frame recovery and hamsters are forced of nature. There are women I know who don’t remember me being skinny, despite knowing me as such for longer than when I was muscular. Ie if your frame in approaching is “getting over your nervousness” then you lost that game already. Wait for eve…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 08:21 PM
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I’ve experienced moderate psychic success with among other things separating awareness of judgment. The larger the gulf between the two, the greater both one’s compassion and power becomes.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 05:57 PM
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That was a really good brain stretch. Thanks for being “that thread” when I checked the forum today. The most successful I’ve been at clicking into the kind of social proof you’re getting at here is projecting good intentions. Invest your surroundings and environment, including the people, with your intentions to see, make, support, whatever, the best you can of it. Then people see you’re the kind of man around whom interesting things happen. Most of them don’t understand why or think you just a…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 04:05 AM
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She called you gay because you weren’t attracted to her, she like many men tried to increase her value in relation to you by lowering yours. If a woman I was interested in called me gay I’d probably take it as an IOI.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 11:55 PM
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Get a concrete “fun guy” frame. Be able to be the life of the party without saying anything, and without having to prove it. Then you set the social tone for how the remarks are received, because the momentum of the situation is within your frame. Whatever you do, do not let the remarks slow you down whatever mentally.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 11:49 PM
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Sounds more like a manic little shit head lol. Are you closer to 15 than 30?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 11:32 PM
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Well, you tell me what appeals more to the female biological imperative. Acting like a scoundrel and physically engaging a threat to your tribe, or sitting back patiently and quietly waiting for the right time and permission to act so as not to interfere with the gold star from teacher. Stop applying your logic to female sexuality, you’re trying to negotiate. “Oy vey, he didn’t consider all his options and try to de escalate!! N-n-no alpha points from meee!!”
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 01:08 AM
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Some would say if you think you can meditate wrong then you meditate wrong. It depends on your perspective. Intent and awareness are two integral components of our being that many seek to marry in meditation - and “intent” necessitates an end goal while “awareness” necessitates yes or no, positive or negative, correct or incorrect in terms of judgment. I personally don’t see any utility in chasing after some ultra pure meditation unicorn that “isn’t” any of the things that all of the people who’…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 11:14 PM
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Really, anything that you get from someone else in a pursuit like this is a bastardized form of insight. What I hope I communicated was the feeling of gaining the particular insights that I described about myself. An important aspect of it is that active and even strenuous use of the mind can be picked up and used in daily life outside of meditation to solve problems in more dimensions than probably many are aware of.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 07:27 PM
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Immediate downvote from faux internet Chad who found the daddy he needs in Peterson.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 07:19 PM
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See Ben Shapiro’s defense of James Gunn. A lot of these famous “red pill traditionalists” currently collecting on their payday are really just intellectual cowards playing he centrist game. They sit firmly in the middle of the Overton window and petulantly smirk at whatever corner is currently getting the most unfavorable attention. They have a slightly more multidimensional feel of the pulse of public consciousness than over-40s who rely on Fox News to satiate their rebel instinct. And whatever…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 06:43 PM
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Meditation isnt passive, or just a relaxation exercise. Think about your biggest insecurity. Meditate on it. Follow it to its logical conclusion, as if the worst were true about it. Let it defeat you internally - as an exercise. Feel where in your brain is inflamed. Find where the burning coal is. Then, muster the will to extinguish it. You can do so completely - for a short time and with enough focus. As you practice the concerted effort required will diminish. Further, observe where your brain…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 06:14 AM
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Edited to add a useful bit at the bottom for some context.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 11:34 PM
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My best suggestion off the top of my head would be to focus intently on something that is real. Many suggest breathing or feelings or some other self perception - since you are the “real” you’re trying to find. Pick a spot on the wall. Focus on it. Your “minds eye” will falter before your actual gaze - keep yourself mentally focused on the object you are staring at. You will feel yourself fighting your focus back into proper frame. This is what began it for me.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 08:36 AM
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I notice that the most natural and attractive reaction to excessive and superficial emotion is stoicism and observation. Follow it down the roots of normal conversation. Know a way to “set her down softly” if you need to move on and do something else, or distract her with another matter of emotional significance one to two levels more “happy” if she tries determinedly to bring you down emotionally. Her favorite character died on game of thrones? Yes I see you’re upset. That character was the one…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 07:36 PM
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I could actually see that working hahahaha
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:33 PM
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PM me because this thread is probably about to get locked, askTRP is the forum you wanted.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:11 AM
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I’m actually here because I wanted camaraderie of men that weren’t a bunch of Vincent Fagots so I know what worthwhile competition feels like.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:28 PM
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I do think eating more should also be mentioned. I’m doing pretty well with my schedule with the physique management, and I generally bulk when I’m always hungry and do intermittent fasting when I don’t feel like eating. Well fed (for a variety of reasons) and low body fat is the winning combination in my experience. I experience about a 20-30% uptick in general IOIs when I just start a bulk cycle. Linear progression is also hell if you’re cutting at the same time. For me at least. Ive always ho…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:18 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking. I think the real test here would be holding frame in the transition between “sets.” If she sees it’s no big deal for you to go from one conversation with an interested competitor to another, it communicates that it’s a common occurrence. When I nail that one, both of them usually start chasing validation and doing what they can do pump up my interactions with them - everyone’s literally happier for it. Men pitting women against each other intentionally lowers…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 03:03 AM
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What’s the general red pill attitude as it pertains to sharing struggles that you’ve already conquered? Ie “One time a guy spit in my face at a bar, it made me feel pretty bummed out for a lot of the night. But I washed my face, walked right back and fucked his girl in the bathroom. Lol it was a wild night.” Weird very specific example, but you see what I mean. Can you share about difficulties if you’ve already fully calibrated since then and gotten back around to DGAF?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 05:57 PM
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I am having a lot of success resonating with the teachings of Zen Buddhism, but I would like to know if there are any sources wherein Zen masters speak frankly and honestly about women. Obviously a google search turned up only pages of links explaining how Buddha was fallible and that women can be Zen masters, but if anyone has a realistic discussion on the matter of Zen and women I would be much obliged.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 06:49 PM
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If that were the case then de escalating would have been the wrong thing to do when he did it, no?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 09:13 PM
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This is very helpful, but I don’t think it is a unifying theory of game. It would be nice if it were that simple, but upon thinking about it there are some “problems” that are state driven, or mentality based. Until you understand AWALT, it can seem like a problem to be fixed. All the “features, not bugs” type stuff would be a sticking point to the spergs (like me) who still need to get a greater appreciation of natural gender roles and dichotomy and how to embrace it. I do like it though, and I…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 07:55 PM
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Bodybuilders cut to get to naturally unattainably low levels of body fat and they have the aid of AAS to do it. They can cut at an extreme deficit without any ill effects - like the guy several posts below cutting at 1700 cals at 205 pounds and not losing weight. We’ve heard that a lot. Sub 2k calorie cuts with guys who should be able to cut easily and they’re not losing anything. You think it’s because at 205 pounds and 6’3 his body just doesn’t naturally burn more than 1700 calories a day? Gtf…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 05:02 PM
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Actually you can’t say that, because you would not have been able to write this post a year ago. In the subject of depreciation of self and the need for personal maintenance, today you would consider year ago you an idiot. Just bite the dang bullet.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 04:38 PM
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That low of a deficit for an extended period.. honestly, my energy and T would crash hard if I didn’t have periods of refeeding. If you can’t lose weight at 2500 cals a day, then IMO you’re already “skinny” enough and should focus on putting on some muscle to increase your calorie expenditure. As it is for me now, I lean out fast if I eat just under 3000 cals a day, and I don’t even have an exemplary or impressive build for what many guys here would consider to be ideal.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 01:10 AM
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Not only am I sure you failed whatever shit test you’re talking about, I can also tell you from your writing multiple paragraphs about this one aspect of one girl that you are currently engaged in enthusiastically rubbing shit on your own face.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 05:23 PM
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I’ve recently started digesting TRP. Doing activities and hobbies and getting in better shape. I’ve also started gaming more. Working on being bold and unapologetic. Yesterday, for instance, I parked downtown and just approached pretty girls and started conversation. The last one, however, made me notice something. I recognized internally “this convo feels over,” then a few seconds later she said “alright well see ya!” She was receptive and such, and it was enough time that it didn’t seem like s…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 09:13 PM
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Also important, I feel, is to avoid this comparison you seem to be making. It’s not about “who would you rather be.” In many ways, life and this RP stuff I am also just getting into is about “here’s your role, here’s the job, do it or don’t. Consequences are yours.” Even if I can SUCCESSFULLY prove that my role and job are the most unfair and burdensome in the whole universe for any human, I still suck if I don’t do them well and consistently. If I proved it even, all I’d get is a collective “wh…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 06:42 PM
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Didn’t even have the courtesy to shoehorn in some parody lyrics, just straight copypasta lol
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:46 PM
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I get what you’re saying. I am of the type you speak of. Here is what I have learned so far. If those ideas that occupy your mind are really so exceptional as to qualify you as an “idealist,” shouldn’t they be leading to exceptional actions? Don’t skip the simple stuff, and find something to do always. Always strive. Thinking about stuff for the feels is for women.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 02:44 AM
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I have a question about a certain competitive drive. I am majorly competitive. I’ve learned to suppress it in every way, such that instead of being an integrated part of my personality it’s kindof been dispersed and comes out at inappropriate times. I am helping to focus his with combat sports and lifting, but I need help to hone it in a social context. In life in general, who is my enemy? What deserves all of my ire? Should it be the part of me that wants me to be comfortable and stagnant? Shou…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:55 PM
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It is not natural for men to be disposed to behavior like that, it only makes sense that people wouldn’t respect it. In a sense, his sobbing and crying weren’t even about her. It was a catharsis of sorts for his general frustration from unfulfilled masculinity. He wasn’t crying for HER, obviously. He was crying because of the fantasy of the man he thought she made him. So in this sense I don’t even find her reaction cruel. Just more emotionally intelligent. If you have a drunk ass friend hanging…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:11 PM
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I did, but it was mostly bullshit fucking around. And it was years in the past. You can’t waste your “noob gains.” It has nothing to do with time since you touched a bar. It is a period of rapid improvement given maximal beneficial circumstances nutritionally, training wise, and rest wise. 20lbs in two months sounds great, especially if you haven’t noticed much fat increase. My physique is really coming into line after coming on a year of serious lifting. I was leanish beforehand (no abs but in …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 05:30 AM
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IMO better phrase would have been that no girl wants to THINK they are a fuck toy. They are fine with feeling like it because they can enjoy feelings without context.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 05:21 AM
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Reading through: in the “oversystemizing and underempathizing” section, I have an observation. This may be why women express genuine interest at first when you are just “figuring out” the SMP and then fall off. Because that empathy, or emotional connection from a genuinely worthy man is a hard thing to obtain as it must be deserved. In a way, seeing women as “vaginas” in general is kind of an internalization of AWALT. I mean this in the most figurative possible sense, essentially a good man does…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 05:19 AM
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Backslid in a couple ways. Missed an MMA class because I was gaming a chick I cold approached. Felt like crap about it. Made the conscious decision to keep plans over pussy at all costs. Speaking of game, I have been getting out and talking to every broad I can. Opening with a tease, starting conversations, sometimes just waving, it’s going really well here. One aspect I can improve on is holding frame in extended interactions. She’s not “caught” until she’s in my bed. I’ve been enjoying this a …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 02:44 PM
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I do have a pretty strong caffeine addiction. I’ll work on that. Taper off with 5 hour energy, then go without and just drink water.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 03:01 PM
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Not long time here, but I put on 20 pounds of muscle and 10 pounds of fat in 2 months - 162 lbs to 192 at 6’. Incredibly dirty bulk and I had just started lifting again. Eight months after that point, I weight about the same (maybe less than 5 pounds less) but I am down about 4-5 bf%. This is considerable progress in less than a year with minimal to moderate, but consistent commitment. I’m still making great progress naturally and I have gotten good at taking compliments about my physique. More …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 03:00 PM
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Loud clown type here. I’m just starting to understand game. Like, it is an actual -game- kind of. Like pinball or volleyball - just keep the ball going, stay on your toes and go for the spike if you get set up for it. For me too I think about staying in the bounds. With my frame, voice, and physical stature I give off a very masculine impression by practicing some restraint in how much I say and at what volume. Right? I feel like I also got what amused mastery is. I’ve been gaming women, I’ve ma…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 02:51 PM
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I start to lose my shine around 4-5pm, since I get a good morning in most days. How do you make sure you’re “on” for those hours? Cold shower, that it?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:12 PM
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Men do have a biological imperative to produce offspring, and a continued involvement with one woman is an ideal circumstance for that. It’s something to think about, no?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:09 PM
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I didn’t see a reason not to deadlift. Subbing back extensions for deadlifts is kinda gay too.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 03:33 PM
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I doubt if nature is the enemy. Nature is the enemy to the lazy farm hand who allows the crop to become overgrown with thickets and useless. It is the friend of the fastidious farmhand who plows and sows the field so that it may receive the rain and sun to greatest effect. Nature is only the enemy of you refuse to participate. Then you are treated as a useless appendage to be rid of.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 02:59 PM
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Positive: Exercise and diet are in check and on point, I am seeing great results and getting a lot of head turns and comments. My mental game is stronger and getting more flexible. I am holding myself accountable to all of my rules pretty well. There are some state of mind type rules I mess up on, but it’s less and less one to get back to a solid “me” frame. I am dressing and carrying myself better. I think I am actually producing more natural testosterone with the work I am doing. I’ve been up …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 08:02 PM
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Pepper spray and tasers are a spergy female strategy for warding off or incapacitating men, who are physically superior. Your financial and surveillance measures are similarly spergy demands to ward off financial threats from the de facto legal and social superiors, women. Its not good or bad. It just is. I see justification and inconvenience in both, and both are a reflection and commentary on the degeneracy of today. What I’m not saying is that you’re the kind of man women carry tasers for, I’…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 04:15 PM
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In a way, all of these measures might be more of a comment on the sickness and danger associated with making a woman a legally and or emotionally equal beneficiary to your life. Sort of like “Ha, SURE, but here’s what I’d need” It’s sort of the corollary to women carrying pepper spray and tasers.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 02:47 PM
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I’m recovering from actual misogyny. I’ve been aware of it for a while. Mommy issues. Thanks for the white pill. I’m kicking ass so far otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:11 PM
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On RP philosophy: Tell me impressions of my impression. The only thing I sacrifice for is self improvement, things that add value. Look for opportunities to test my frame physically and mentally, and opt into hardship. Women are a net drain on personal value, and subconsciously they know and respect this. Be inclusive and welcoming into the parts of my life and with the types of women where and with whom I have learned to mitigate this value drain, but cut them loose and show no patience or suff…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 05:14 PM
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I think I’m insecure on some level of the immediate attraction. It happens for me, but it’s almost like I need her to have my exact escalation script in mind to pull smoothly. I’m of a slightly autistic bend too, so when I see a firm IOI I don’t respect the need to diffuse ASD or LMR or anything, I offer little to help her hamster because my brain is just like “so.. I mean why aren’t you just following me?” I should get over whatever part of me keeps me from going for a kiss in public. I can thi…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 02:38 AM
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Bam nailed it. Appreciate it. Should I have any expectation whether or not she will be, or should it be scrutiny for her and self amusement for me? I suppose the line or “crack” in the frame at that tact would be if the amusement ever genuinely came at her expense.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:45 PM
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Cognitive dissonance on one part of game. Approach, and outcome independence. One seems to invalidate the other, trying to reconcile leads to situational discomfort. I suspect the answer has something to do with baiting her out with harmless surface level comment, while maintaining “I’m the one to fuck here” frame. Any comments from people who get it appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:42 PM
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More specifically, schizotypal personality disorder.
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