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| 3 | To youngins struggling- it gets way easier in your mid to late 20s if you look after yourself in your early 20sFACTS! Not to brag, but I always felt invisible and avg, but once I left college, moved to the city, got a good job… it really changed overnight. I would go out and girls would ask me for my number. TLDR move to DC lol | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: First time EVER doing cold approach. Complete beginner DISASTER with wingmen.Small piece of advice — talk to dudes when you’re out too. It eases anxiety and makes you seem chill | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I developed strong stoicism in fieldYou’re making this sound like a villain origin story 😂. It’s not that serious. Happens to the best of us. If someone makes out with you, it’s kinda safe too be slightly more forward to end up in the same bed. You can move way quicker at that point | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Push pulled… now dead 🤷🏼♂️You seem like an unbelievable dougebag. It’s not an excuse if she says we just met. Most people don’t sleep with people on the first date. If you just want some pxssy, find someone who just wants dick. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:17 AM |
| 2 | what's best area of focus?You have (should have) no control on getting laid if she doesn’t want to. You have more control over the vibe than getting laid. Also, if you’re not feeling the vibe, be ok ending the conversation. But a guy trying to get laid is so goofy. A guy trying to vibe seems cool | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Dumped, back to square oneShe said you don’t listen. Learn how to listen and all questions. Be thoughtful. Randomly ask about the things she says. But yeah, wrong group | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Need masters adviceOk Frank 🤣 | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Questions about the basicsYou can, but not when you meet her. Maybe at the end of date 2 Her arms around your need and yours under hers around her mid -lower back When cuddling, try to make eye contact and give a compliment like “i’ve had such a great time with you tonight.” Holding eye contact, move close slightly and see how she responds. Idk you have to feel the vibe. Maybe start caressing her shoulder if that’s how you’re holding her. You really need to pay attention to what she seems interested in I wouldn’t bring i… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Engaging a girl on Instagram?Bro?? I think you know the answer | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:40 AM |
| 0 | Girl contacted me through insta, fastest way to hit it?Take her to a bar where you might be able to dance. Get close. Go home | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Pick upIrl | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Any older guys (35+) look super young for their age?Just moved to NY. I’m 34 and the oldest someone has guessed I am is 24. I don’t care about age and talk to whomever looks attractive and at least 25. For some it’s a big deal, but I don’t think it matters that much here. Only chick that walked away after hearing my age was 25 and from London | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How to salvage the situation after coming in too strongSounds a bit like you didn’t spend time listening much. Might be a loss. Maybe call/text and ask her some semi deep questions (favorite experiences in the city…things that get her talking more and at length) | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I primed my space for sex?Yes make sure your spot is spotless. TBH in my experience, if a girl comes back with you, there’s very little you can do to f that up. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Approach Bringing A Woman Home From A Bar or Club?You can go out alone. If you do, resist the urge to sit on your phone. Talk to bartenders, talk to other dudes. It limbers the conversation muscle. Don’t linger too long without talking. If you make eye contact twice, go say hi and break conversation. Eventually pay her a compliment. Order another drink for yourself and all of she wants something. It’s a lot easier if you stay with them until closing. Ask what she’s up to next. Her answer determines what happens next. You can go grab a late nigh… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:24 AM |
| 1 | how does a guy build an emotional connection with a woman?If you want to talk about something deep, just ask. I do this and women and men are initially taken aback, but i just say if it’s too personal you don’t have to answer. Just don’t be creepy lol. It really is ok to be awkward and weird sometimes. It’s part of the human experience | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | My Limiting Belief: Girls Don't Want Me to Approach ThemNo, don’t watch YouTube day game videos. Just talk to people when you’re out. Talk to guys and talk to girls. Maybe you’ll realize you just need to get comfortable talking to people, then talk to women how you’d talk to guys | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Exhausted from RejectionWhat is your desired outcome? To hookup with 10 out of 20? To find a girls friend? Being brutally honest — you might be a douche and not realize it. Take a genuine interest in those you’re interested in. When I spoke to women and approached wanting to genuinely understand their life experience, the “numbers went up.” But do it because it’s fun to get to know people, not to get laid more | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:09 AM |
| 1 | I feel resentful towards women?Be the best and coolest version of YOURSELF. Most girls probably won’t be interested, but you don’t need most. You should be kind, easy going — basically just be a good person. Become a good person and go meet people | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:04 AM |
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