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DiscriminationChargeProper/r/MensRights23/05/25 05:47 PM
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masculinityChargeProper/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/24 10:28 AM
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Jesus Christ that is terrible. From what I hear other European countries are getting ready to do the same if the war spreads, that's pretty bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 05:49 AM
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I'm a tall and reasonably fit guy and I rarely see someone that makes me feel physically small or feel like they could definitely physically overpower me; When I do it's an unsettling experience. you've been this way your whole life so naturally you find it unsettling. I'm a short guy, and I don't feel unsettled just because some other guys look big enough to overpower me (I would need more than size to feel uneasy, it would have to show in behavior if the other guy has harmful intent). Basicall…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 11:14 AM
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its not just attention. Victimhood or grievance can get you alot in this day and age, so the incentive is to use it to your advantage. If you wield power through grievance, you have alot to gain by being a crybully. In societies that don't listen to things like that, you see less of this (but of course the opposite of that extreme has its own major problems)
/r/MensRights04/05/26 11:05 AM
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Oh yeah, tribalism is especially bad these days. You see it, with people of any given side of the political divide defending people they have no business defending (ie anyone at all in the Epstein files)
/r/MensRights04/05/26 11:00 AM
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reminds me of some groups where I'm from thinking someone "looks like a witch" because of lighter eye color.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 10:57 AM
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Alot of society has regressed in terms of things like basic maturity so jumping to dramatic conclusions is normal now. Some people are now just taking advantage of this fact to attack people they don't like, it's the classic crybully nonsense I remember from grade school, except it's being tolerated or taken seriously by authorities, or just anyone who can cause trouble for you. I have literally seen clips or been in arguments where people claim aggression when you argue with them and only use t…
/r/MensRights04/05/26 10:55 AM
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Amen bruv, Honestly I think all of us would gladly go above and beyond for someone who would do the same rather than expecting that effort just because.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 02:51 PM
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Jesus, sounds like he might have childhood issues. He'll have to deal with the negative side eventually. I shudder to think what would happen if he married her
/r/MensRights04/11/25 02:49 PM
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Thing is it almost doesn't matter what country you are in, sooner or later, you have to deal with it (I'm black in a black country for example) worse if you're in a "traditional" society, then yeah, it will come up eventually.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 01:54 PM
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Watch what happens if you react to it the same way anyone would react to racist profiling, you'll be the bad guy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 01:39 PM
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Well, some people are looking to be offended. I didn't even check the profile or even see a profile pic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 01:29 PM
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Well society does expect you as a male to earn your right to be in it, by providing utility, something women don't have to deal with (nobody will ever call a woman a coward or less of a woman for refusing to be drafted or to do anything dangerous for example). I do agree with you overall that owing society a debt for no reason is stupid.
/r/MensRights04/11/25 10:02 AM
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You are absolutely right but I don't think that's the question being asked. I would agree with bettering yourself, I just wouldn't agree with taking the gains from all that effort and feeding yourself into an antimale society. You can put it all into your family, and causes you care about, but society at large? It depends on the society itself and how it treats you
/r/MensRights04/11/25 09:58 AM
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Exactly, thank you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/25 07:48 PM
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Like for example your lame, misspelled attempt to call me a woman because I’m trans doesn’t offend me. I don’t care about your opinion of my gender; I already know people like you are out there and you know nothing about my life and my experiences. Wtf are you talking about? I assumed you're a dude and was basically saying you haven't experienced the actual negative side of being assumed to be dangerous for being male. Whatever the case you clearly haven't experienced much if you think being see…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/25 07:43 PM
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The man vs bear argument was basically saying men are naturally violent (never mind the fact that the vast majority of us are not but whatever). If you wanna take "side eye" for being a potential threat, that's you, but you and I both know that guys who treat women the same out of fear of false accusations will absolutely get called misogynistic, and it's mainly because women will never tolerate being treated like potential suspects to accommodate someone else's fears. Also being considered dang…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/25 06:30 AM
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I was gonna point this out. Where does most charity money come from? Large donations from companies owned and run by men
/r/MensRights26/10/25 09:03 AM
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Then they wonder why the menosphere blew up, those boys will get their hands on their own phones at some point, and it's on to the anime and YouTube redpill content, which wouldn't become a problem but as with everything you try to demonise , it goes underground with no content filtering, then the bad stuff happens. Oh well
/r/MensRights22/10/25 01:00 PM
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Ever notice how the group complaining the most about feeling unsafe also has the lowest rate of gun ownership? They wat you to step in to intervene because despite being progressive they still want you to fulfill your masculine gender role, and potentially risk your life to defend them (but they won't do the same for you).
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 04:15 PM
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You're not wrong, I'm not sure why but that demand to intervene comes from women who usually hate and want nothing to do with men in the first place. And if you ask them what life threatening thing they are required to do for men, you will get either nothing or some other nonsense that has nothing to do with the issue.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 04:10 PM
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That's not what I'm trying to do here, I'm not just talking out of my ass either, the femcel groups have been documented as having issues like the incel groups, and alot of their rhetoric gives this away, I'm calling a aspade a spade here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/25 06:19 AM
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I'm not advocating for going after everyone with a mental health issue. I'm saying that with some of this radicalism we're dealing with we need to better recognise what kind of person we're dealing with where it comes from and how best to categorise it. Same thing with any other group. I do think alot if incel groups attract people who are likely to harm themselves and others, because of their beliefs and I think it's the same with alot of femcel groups, it's been studied in the UK already becau…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/25 11:58 AM
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I get profiled for being male and young looking because guys who are male and look to be in their early 20s commit alot of crimes, I'm not fine with it, but that's just life as a man in any society
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/25 11:41 AM
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True
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/25 03:54 PM
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What's that saying, A woman simply is, but a man must become. The explanation you gave was sited as the reason for the saying by Mark Manson
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/25 03:53 PM
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I disagree, we all know Eliot Rodgers and other incels had mental issues. Some of these beliefs attract people with mental health problems, in law enforcement they usually keep a look out for copycats because of it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/25 03:48 PM
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What made them hate men is the men they chose, that they were all warned about, which is even in the song, blaming the rest of us for the actions of their beloved toxic bad boys is precisely why we react that way. Let them carry on, it'll only just get worse as they keep hating the ones who haven't done anything to them
/r/MensRights07/09/25 12:37 PM
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This, I was struggling to find the word, they are bullies
/r/MensRights08/08/25 06:39 AM
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I agree bro, though you're probably way more patient than I am about this issue.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 06:37 AM
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Is her culture in the room with us right now 😂😂😂
/r/MensRights17/07/25 06:18 PM
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Let it be, then their whole system will be a distant memory
/r/MensRights06/07/25 07:20 PM
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There it is, I hadn't thought of that
/r/EverydayMisandry30/06/25 06:01 AM
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That really is a stupid take, what exactly is it men are supposed to be doing so a woman can "tell" who the good ones are and who the bad ones are? You could ask feminist shit like this and you'll never get an actual answer or you'll get an answer to a question you didn't ask. Nobody knows or can tell whose "safe" or not without getting to know them, men don't either unless we are good at reading people and situations, which these women don't want to do, they want to be chased with evidence, and…
/r/EverydayMisandry30/06/25 05:53 AM
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The irony is that they let the tall ones get way with having no emotional intelligence (or respect for them at all) then complain about "men" in general like the rest of us are the same.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/25 01:05 PM
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What the actual f#©k is that advert? What is even the point of having a literal child turn into a man. Little boys are not groomers
/r/MensRights27/06/25 11:47 AM
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There are more male feminists, and they hold way more sway than pick me girls do, especially in the media.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 03:24 PM
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Yup, and it does work in some cases when it's serious enough.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 03:21 PM
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And the response to that is that young boys are turning to Andrew Tate and men like that, or just becoming more conservative in general. It is backfiring for the people pushing g the narrative in many ways.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 03:20 PM
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Well alot of guys just choose to be passive aggressive and just make the women in question madder. Refuse to date them, support the men they hate and laugh at their nonsense, (if you're American you've probably voted for who they hate just to watch the meltdowns). Some guys opt for things like that just to retaliate in some way
/r/MensRights07/06/25 03:18 PM
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One way to deal with it is to listen to music women call misogynistic, which is pretty easy to find, not that you'd be into it (it's probably mostly gangster rap) but it's there
/r/MensRights07/06/25 03:15 PM
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Community noted, right then and there 😂
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/25 03:46 PM
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The analogy was so spot on
/r/MensRights24/05/25 05:47 AM
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Yup,
/r/EverydayMisandry04/05/25 05:49 PM
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Sorry typo I meant male only spaces
/r/MensRights04/05/25 04:38 PM
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Remember that response to the Man or Bear thing that a bunch of guys hit back with? "Would you rather tell your secrets to a woman or a tree?" That's what your response reminds me of, and you are absolutely right.
/r/MensRights03/05/25 02:01 PM
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Thing is, it's been something of a double standard for decades if not centuries. Talking about your trauma is not manly because trauma itself is a psychological wound or damage, and men are supposed to shrug off damage. Things were getting better with people being more accepting of guys expressing our emotions but alot of modern feminist wannabes just use their misandry as an excuse to go right back to those "man up" comments that were more common in years past. I agree, actually dumping your pr…
/r/MensRights03/05/25 01:46 PM
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Tread carefully I think this is bait. She isn't even saying what the compliments are in the first place
/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/25 02:54 PM
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I disagree, calling them out when they think nobody is watching then throwing their nonsense back at them is sometimes necessary. He didn't let them walk away in a good mood.
/r/MensRights22/04/25 07:10 PM
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I don't usually use this word but it's warranted here. BASED!!!
/r/MensRights22/04/25 07:07 PM
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There's nothing wrong with the fear itself; that feeling is valid Irrational fear spreads and results in things like hate crimes when left unchecked Lynchings, which affected mostly men, black or otherwise "different". Witch hunts (remember Salem, yeah that whole thing happened because religious beliefs were passed into law and people feared "witches") Fear of anyone brown from Asia after 9/11 got people killed who didn't even know who Osama bin Laden was, let's not even get into the war on terr…
/r/MensRights05/04/25 12:57 PM
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Only recently is it statistically safer (which doesn’t mean safe) for women This has never been true, in almost all of history men in any community were required to protect the women in their communities from wild animals and men from rival communities in general, nearly two thirds of men who died died because of violence more so than even diseases and animal attacks. We're less community oriented than we were decades and centuries ago and still the biggest victims of violence and murder are men…
/r/MensRights05/04/25 12:40 PM
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That's the part that surprised me actually
/r/MensRights05/04/25 12:30 PM
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Exactly right
/r/EverydayMisandry04/04/25 10:27 AM
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Yeah, the ones we apparently always get away with 😂
/r/EverydayMisandry03/04/25 05:28 AM
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I agree, we need alot of that generally because feminists have developed the idea that anything men create to try and fix our problems shouldn't exist, especially communities built around calling out how unfairly we are treated in society (or anything else for that matter). I would argue that maybe we need two types one for men only and then a separate one that centres our issues but allows women to join if they want to be involved, this way mothers raising boys can see what their sons will have…
/r/EverydayMisandry03/04/25 05:27 AM
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Ergo focus on the boy as the problem as a way to address the problem? What's the problem being addressed here exactly? All this is gonna do is reinforce the idea that being male is inherently bad, and showing this to schools is just a way to tell that to young boys, to make sure they internalise it. Same demonising tactic as always. That's gonna backfire spectacularly.
/r/MensRights01/04/25 06:29 AM
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Yeah I'm sure that's all it is
/r/MensRights01/04/25 05:35 AM
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Who does it help, in what way and for whose benefit and more specifically who does it point at as the problem?
/r/MensRights31/03/25 07:02 PM
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You can ask for a different doctor or nurse, sure someone might try to claim misogyny or whatever else, but you can ask to speak to a male doctor or male nurse. It's messed up that you're on the shit end of this but sadly that's just how things are now, put your health first, don't feel embarrassed about anything you are dealing with health wise
/r/MensRights18/03/25 04:00 PM
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The sad truth in all this is that it's not an intimidation thing, alot of guys these days won't pick tall women because they think they might be trans. Don't tell that to the women in that sub though, the ego trip might end
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/25 03:59 PM
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The people using blanket statements never think that far
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/25 06:44 PM
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No you don't, these barely get reported, especially when it's violent women using knives or some other object, even if it gets reported they'll say she was defending herself and it'll be framed in an entirely different way.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 08:17 AM
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The hilarious irony of it all is the fact that most women will never pick the H.U.S.B.A.N.D, they don't find them attractive despite creating that archetype
/r/EverydayMisandry22/02/25 04:47 PM
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Well alot of women go back to the crazy boyfriend anyway, also they don't say crazy they just say he was a POS.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/02/25 04:19 AM
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You're not far off at all
/r/EverydayMisandry03/02/25 11:07 AM
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Until some woman ends up in an article about how she stabbed a guy
/r/MensRights03/02/25 11:04 AM
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At night too
/r/MensRights03/02/25 11:02 AM
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No you are not over thinking it, it's a fair question to ask, so ask her and see how she responds
/r/EverydayMisandry03/02/25 10:40 AM
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If the stat of young men no longer approaching women is anything to go by, whoever posted this will be wondering what went wrong in a few years, totally forgetting this post.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/01/25 10:27 AM
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"In which case the guy who hates women because he was abused by his mother is not misogynistic he is just healing" Hit em with that one and see how they respond
/r/EverydayMisandry24/01/25 10:20 AM
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They know they just don't care and want to make it a man's problem. The perpetrator did the deed and they are uncomfortable because they can't defend it so they engage in the whataboutism that they claim to hate. Good on that judge
/r/EverydayMisandry24/01/25 10:09 AM
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Too late
/r/EverydayMisandry23/01/25 02:39 PM
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I get it, but I think the best thing to do is stick together, let them bitch about whatever it is, soon enough the only men that they'll be dealing with or interacting with are the ones that are actually bad, and everybody else will avoid them like the plague
/r/EverydayMisandry21/01/25 07:30 AM
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Most of whom are not guys. But the panels are aiming this at guys anyway
/r/EverydayMisandry20/01/25 07:40 AM
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I remember that crap, what an idiot
/r/EverydayMisandry19/01/25 01:15 PM
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By all means enlighten me on what feminists and their leadership thinks of false accusations (I've heard that they don't really happen, from them, and that if they do its better for someone to get a false conviction if it means more victims get justice).
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:49 AM
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If it wasn't they wouldn't tell falsely accused men to just say they are guilty so it doesn't make people doubt accusations.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:09 AM
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Exactly
/r/EverydayMisandry01/01/25 05:27 PM
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Not a single one of them talked about helping men with their issues but they expect this guy to help everyone else. If that's how it is, then fine, I'm not helping any of them, only the people in my life get my help, the feminists can help themselves, while calling me a what was it "individualised self serving piece of shit". Yeah okay cool
/r/EverydayMisandry01/01/25 08:33 AM
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My mother was just as protective, because she didn't see danger from just men, she saw it in women who also were up to no good. You have every right to want to protect your kids no matter who you think is dangerous
/r/MensRights31/12/24 03:00 PM
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I understand the context as I know some American history. I probably should've prefaced my response by saying that I'm from a black country with a colonial past (Zimbabwe), so I am looking at the world as someone who grew up in a black country. Race relations are contextually different on the ground here which does affect people's preferences. I have relatives who married white people and many more who never would, and the contexts differ depending on if the relative in question grew up in Brita…
/r/EverydayMisandry31/12/24 02:47 PM
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I get how you got there, but I'd have to ask, am I supposed to call out black guys I know who don't date white women because the skin colour just does do it for them? Coz I'm not supporting racism, I can't exactly make exceptions only for my fellow black man
/r/EverydayMisandry29/12/24 01:38 PM
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She's the one who thought guys avoiding women at work after metoo was proof that the patriarchy was punishing women for speaking up about being assaulted, I'm not even kidding
/r/MensRights28/12/24 12:20 PM
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That's what it is because the numbers are not just bogus but alot of them are not even experiencing stuff like this.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 12:12 PM
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Are the same people men or women? Genuine question
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 12:10 PM
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I agree with you but it can depend on what a racist reason is in that context (I'm black btw). Is the reasoning some judge of character that has no basis in anything but skin colour (ie, "he looks like "thug"", even though he's dressed like an office clerk and he isn't acting like a thug), Or is she just not into the guy's features? Some guys do try to use the racism angle as a coercive tool, or to get away with foul behaviour,
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 11:45 AM
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Bingo, "You don't value a woman unless you find her f#ckable"
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 11:37 AM
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Like the liberal women who date conservative men because they don't find liberal men attractive? Yeah I've heard of those, super progressive until Elon Musk looks her way, (clears throat, Grimes & Amber Heard)
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 11:36 AM
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Yeah you can but to play devil's advocate, it's gonna bring up the question of why she won't date bi men, in which case she's gonna have to answer with the truth of what she feels. Of course if you're asking to figure out what type of person she is then that's fine
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 11:34 AM
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This whole chain is hilarious, because these women will claim to be liberal😂😂😂
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 11:31 AM
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It's not really a generalisation, if you use their logic ie "if it doesn't apply to you and you get mad, you're part of the problem"
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 06:12 AM
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Not to be a downer but I don't think you'll get a response, I haven't seen a woman who wasn't some type of conservative acknowledging misandry as being real, I'm not a woman
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 05:55 AM
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Funny because they like the cheaters, the ones who don't cheat are "boring"
/r/EverydayMisandry26/12/24 06:08 PM
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Another "because men do it" to excuse bad behaviour. Yup you can go to the same hell as the men who "do it all the time"
/r/EverydayMisandry26/12/24 06:02 PM
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This
/r/EverydayMisandry26/12/24 06:00 PM
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Jesus Christ, I would've been furious
/r/EverydayMisandry26/11/24 07:16 AM
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I wonder if she is actively holding women accountable for dating bad boy abusers, or if she even hold herself accountable for any of what she is talking about.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/11/24 05:55 PM
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Jesus Christ,
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/24 07:06 PM
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I'm not saying I'm okay with the scenario, I hate being seen as a threat for no reason, I'm just saying that he may need to protect himself if things go sideways for him Also, evidence doesn't always work and given that he's a man, things looking bad rather than actually being bad could give him real problems
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 08:42 PM
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Another guy is less likely to be taken seriously if he calls the police about a strange man who jogs around at night, following other men around, If a woman makes the same call, the context changes entirely Not saying I'm okay with internalized misandry, I'm not, but this could be more than that.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 01:49 PM
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Slowdown there. I think its more than just that. Given his situation of literal screams coming from women, he's in a potential mine field. Say one of these women calls the cops about a guy who "frequents her jogging routes at night stalking women", how is he supposed to prove that he isn't a predator stalking these women or looking for victims? That is a legit reason to want to know how not to scare female strangers while jogging because it could land him in trouble (since he used the word bloke…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/11/24 01:46 PM
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Bidden had sexual assault allegations against him in 2020 but because people hated trump and because he picked a female running mate, they were willing to look the other way, They were even willing to vote for him again. (victim's name was Tara Reade)
/r/MensRights11/11/24 07:10 AM
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Fine. We’ll keep voting GOP in 2028. And 2032. And 2036. And 2040. Until you feminists keep your wretched rhetoric towards men in check. Or we’ll just choose not to vote at all There it is right there. Whether they learn what their mistake was or not, there's no negotiating or convincing anyone anymore, because they won't listen
/r/MensRights11/11/24 06:58 AM
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Since George Bush, any sentence that starts with CNN raises red flags for me, Ill watch the clip and see if I'm just being paranoid. Edit: I watched it, stunned to be honest that they were even willing to go that far with it,
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 05:19 AM
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I gathered as much from the clips, given how much these misandrists who vote blue want to redefine what things mean to justify being horrible, I know for a fact that they think that way (if youve seen the meltdowns on social media that's exactly where their minds have gone)
/r/MensRights11/11/24 05:04 AM
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"Your body, our choice" is in reference to the people who voted against kamala in the US because she was pushing "my body, my choice". The poison being mentioned was used to get away from abusive husbands when it was created (in the 1700s), and these women are delusional enough to think that if you voted against "my body, my choice" you are abusive. The way I see it, it just a part of the tantrum throwing of kamala fans who lost and blame men for it, the abuse isn't shown in those clips because …
/r/MensRights11/11/24 05:02 AM
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What are you talking about, watch the clip again, none of those women are being abused
/r/MensRights10/11/24 08:47 PM
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Not likely to work given how the language that they use in that regard is just about winning the next election. They don't want to do anything about issues affecting men, because they think you are the problem anyway, and their supporters would gut them for it if they even suggested the idea
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 07:41 PM
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Sorry mate, that's just how it is with toxic feminism, and just bitterness in general. Have you seen the tiktoks of black women hoping black men get m#rdered by cops despite the fact that they voted 78 percent for Kamala? They are not specifying at all they are just speaking in blanket terms, talking about how they are alone and they will organise among themselves without men, because men hate women at their core. So yeah, they don't care about blaming everyone for the actions of the few at this…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 07:39 PM
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At some point I didn't believe that people talked like this and it usually came from dudes who actually hated women, but as thebyears have gone by there have been more and more women talking like this outloud on any platform that allowed it (ie probably all of them)
/r/MensRights06/11/24 07:34 AM
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Haven't you heard, if a woman assaults a man sexually its still a man's fault somehow
/r/MensRights31/10/24 04:48 PM
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Hadn't looked at it that way before, but its the same way they refuse to acknowledge that toxic feminism is a thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/10/24 01:25 PM
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What else is new 😒
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 08:45 AM
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Is this a bunch of women going full Andrew Tate/Matt Walsh?! If so I'm amused, not surprised but amused.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/10/24 10:47 PM
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Haven't gone through the article yet but yes it is hurting us and we do need our own spaces.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 05:17 PM
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Salute
/r/MensRights13/10/24 05:12 PM
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See this guy gets it becauuse he's been through it so he can tell us what he wished he'd looked out for https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1g1zskz/my_experience_with_domestic_abuse_as_a_male_an/
/r/MensRights12/10/24 05:29 PM
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Thank you for this, and don't let anyone try to gaslight or minimise your situation, especially certain fem extremist groups.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 05:24 PM
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Again still not saying anything here. Is there a way to keep safe from the malicious ones or are you just gonna go with, "stop being paranoid"?
/r/MensRights12/10/24 05:21 PM
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Well seeing as your main threat as man in my experience is going to be other men I know, and there's plenty of resources for dealing with the dangerous ones, and I've had to deal with that type of danger, got scars to go with it. But the other type of human you speak of, isn't the same type of dangerous. If there are no ways to deal with the dangerous ones other than cross your fingers and hope, then just say that, "don't worry about it, doesn't answer the question at all.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 05:06 PM
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So you keep safe from women, by getting a girlfriend....?!
/r/MensRights12/10/24 04:48 PM
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Does that stop them from treating us as threats, does that stop cops from assuming we're the agressor at any given crime scene? Sure they're wrong but that doesn't remove the threat, so talk about dealing with the threat
/r/MensRights12/10/24 04:43 PM
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Nobody wants such a life, but you still have to avoid walking around at night and leaving your door unlocked now don't you.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 04:40 PM
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Sure it isn't just like its not all men, so how do we keep safe from the bad ones, that was the question.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 04:35 PM
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Sooo you don't have any tips on how to keep safe from anyone? Got it, thanks for nothing.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 04:32 PM
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WTF! The question was How can men keep safe from women? You didn't tell him anything you basically said its not a big deal, get therapy so you can get over it
/r/MensRights12/10/24 04:31 PM
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What exactly does that look like on a practical level
/r/MensRights12/10/24 04:25 PM
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You're not entirely wrong, but I think the disappointment factor is the same the other way round. I know black men who choose white women because they have issues within themselves (usually self esteem issues) and expected to find a particular stereotype within that woman, that ended up not being there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/24 06:23 AM
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It's also a way to control the dating market through shame. Notice how women who call it a fetish are usually trying keep men of their race from "dating out"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/24 06:15 AM
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Black man here. I'm not in the US, but I do have something similar in my country. I hear you, it especially comes as part of people's insecurities. Talk to a white girl for any reason and endure the scowling and judgement from women who you don't know you and who had no interest in you what so ever. Then ofcourse there's the classic "all men cheat" "men are dogs", had a relative tell me not to judge men who cheat so harshly because I'm likely to do so at some point since for men it's probably na…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/24 06:12 AM
1

Then in that case we are in agreement. Especially about being part of a larger group when its becomeing more toxic. And things have been getting more toxic for us as guys in fandoms we basically built. The ones who speak up get kicked out, and some Ive noticed will downplay whats going on or bury their heads in the sand because they don't want to be ostarsized or deal with the fact that it is happening. More guys are becoming less willing to bury their heads in the sand, which is a good thing, b…
/r/MensRights20/09/24 04:21 PM
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I'm not a Starwars fan but definitely a geek fanboy. This idea you have about detaching is overblown. You should not be codependent on things like fandom to an unhealthy degree, I agree with that but there is no reason not to want to be part of a larger culture, atleast by nature, its why identity matters, its all key to how we survive as humans. Identifying with something that makes you part of a larger group of similar people, is a survival mechanism. It's why we are tribal by nature as humans…
/r/MensRights20/09/24 11:19 AM
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This logic is so stupid. The"what about your brother, husband, father " argument is a strawman she set up. The vast majority of men have never committed a violent crime least of all against women. That is how you dismantle the "all men" argument. Nobody can stand by the "all men" argument, there is no statistic at all that supports all, or even most men being violent at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/09/24 10:38 AM
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Pure projection, because its the other way around language and everything
/r/EverydayMisandry16/09/24 08:16 AM
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So by the responder's logic taylor swift shouldve been fine with being groped as a woman of means because her security detail wouldve stopped it before it escalated, thus she shouldn't have bothered even reacting to it. Right? RIGHT?!
/r/EverydayMisandry01/09/24 06:06 PM
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I am black, ofcourse I'd use an example I'm familiar with, what's your point?
/r/EverydayMisandry26/08/24 12:41 PM
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This is a stupid question. I was specific with my language and I wasn't broad. I said misandrists, not women. Also would a few bad experiences with black people qualify you to treat each one you don't know like a potential threat? Stop mischaracterising what I said.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/08/24 02:07 PM
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Atleast we don't have to sit with insufferable misandrists. Glass half full?
/r/EverydayMisandry19/08/24 07:42 PM
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It's also a type of exemption from bad relationship choices. You don't have to examine why you're attracted to toxic men if you just convince yourself that all men are bad in some way. And since allot of women are on the same page about it, they can just carry on repeating the cycle, and having feminism validate their misandry
/r/EverydayMisandry04/08/24 05:45 PM
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Funny last I checked, the actions of violent men made women treat me like a potential threat, not someone to be praised for anything. Maybe it's just me.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/08/24 04:44 PM
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It does have that negative connotation, which I've been trying to unlearn myself. Weshould have spaces for ourselves, to congregate with like minded people, its healthy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 07:25 PM
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They believe that if a woman does its still somehow a man's fault
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/24 07:21 AM
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🙄 I guess my mother will have to stop knitting altogether then.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 07:33 PM
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You're not wrong, but it's as you said, the crown is likely to use this to persecute men, well see if they enforce it when a woman is the perp
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 06:28 PM
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Jesus Christ knitting?! We're bringing political drama into knitting now? Haven't clicked the link yet but I'll guess the word patriarchy was thrown around.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 06:09 PM
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I call it, it's sexist. The implication is that we are problematic and angry on any platform we dominate (true in some cases I'll admit, but the language is dubious).
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 06:07 PM
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Can't really get into it but I appreciate you for sharing this and I appreciate everyone else in this sub for keeping this healthy. Reading some of this is comforting and heartbreaking at the same time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/24 06:04 PM
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Jeez that sounds unusually involved, the laws I mean. It's almost as if they've run out of things to do so they are just coming up with ways to make people miserable.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 05:58 PM
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Probably an unpopular opinion but does this list apply to gender identity
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 08:29 AM
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As long as the same energy is kept for single mothers, I see no issue
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/24 08:27 AM
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Ugh this guy again, here we go.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 02:17 AM
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I refuse to do harm to anyone else for my own positioning There it is, the angry feminists rhetoric has subconsciously seeped in. What harm are you talking about? How do you harm someone by talking about your issues with people like you who have the same issues, without attacking anyone who has done you no wrong. That's the idea behind this sub isn't it, talk about our issues and leave out the groups that think we are harmful by default. You are excluding people who are not like you and who don'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 06:15 PM
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You wouldn't have much luck going into a football sub and demanding that they talk about wrestling 25% of the time, just so wrestling fans don't feel hated by omission, would you? That would be absurd. No sane person would think that's a reasonable expectation, they'd tell you to go to a wrestling sub instead, rightly so, because that's the right place for that subject, not the football sub. I'll do you one better, try religious groups, especially the ones with long historical conflicts, let's s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 06:05 PM
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We can't properly address men's issues if we insist that women can't be negatively impacted by our efforts Feminists are an example of people who were hurt by some guy, who now want to take it out on all the other guys (at least the ones who won't fight back because they wouldn't dare to after the guys they complain about, whose probably her ex anyway who knows) You sound like them based on the fact that what you say is rooted in the idea that we (men) are dangerous by nature, that advocating fo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 05:59 PM
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Basically be the bigger man even if the other guy won't be? Why, to what end, you think they'll change their minds about us and see the value in what we go through? Gimme a break
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 05:48 PM
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What he said ☝
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 05:46 PM
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Well said, you've given me allot to think about, but you are right about allot, maybe we just need to recharge or batteries a bit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/24 08:57 PM
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God I miss the days of Obama, nothing to do with race but mainly because extremism hadn't taken hold of this entire conversation,i t seemed like things were more logical back then, and OP I also wish feminists were generally like you (or should I say feminist leadership, in the spirit of not generalising), but it feels nearly futile to remain objective about a group that seems largely un-objective (probably not a word, I'm sorry) about us. Why bother being objective at all, we have no chance of …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/24 04:09 PM
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men choosing to avoid interacting with women if they don't have to is somehow sexual harassment WTF, harassment is unwanted attention, so not getting any attention is also unwanted attention? What the hell is wrong with these people?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 05:43 PM
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That isn't to say that benevolence can't ever be a serious problem It can when you go against the narrative that you are supposed to go along with. At that point you are vilified rather than coddled.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 05:22 PM
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You have a point but I think it's a bit more complex than that. Here's what I mean, If you recieve special treatment because of someone's benevolent racism, they aren't treating you well simply because of skin colour, they are being condescending, they think you aren't smart enough to think for yourself or do anything for yourself, so they "help" you. But once you do something to show that you are not like that, they turn bay and the gravy train stops right then and there. Whatever ego boost the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 05:20 PM
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This one drives me up the wall, The idea that is only racism if a power dynamic is involved, I live in Zimbabwe, white people are a minority here with no systemic power to speak of, but you will encounter poor white people who are infact racist, same goes for all the other races in the country, with our without systemic power
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 05:14 PM
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I think I can speak to benevolent racism, which usually comes from people who call themselves, "allies". It's basically the bigotry of low expectations, the idea that someone is helping you not because you are a fellow human being who needs help, but because you are an uneducated invalid who needs taking care of. There was this video I watched on YouTube by Patience Dina who talked specifically about why she was sceptical of people who called themselves allies. She shows a group of Americans who…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 05:09 PM
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But haven't you heard, it doesn't matter how warm the hugs are on the other side, if you join them, you were never truly one of us and you were right wing the entire time. I'm paraphrasing something i read a guy say once.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 05:59 PM
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If any other group was treated that way, the person treating them that way would be called out, and excommunicated for being racist or whatever else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 05:54 PM
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Including the ones who yell black lives matter while destroying infrastructure that actual black people need to use? I guess so if you say so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 05:46 PM
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I'm not advocating for the right, not sure what gave you that idea, the far rights concept of masculinity comes from the Bible (which is infuriating in its own way because I live in a Christian country), but yeah, the left is not equal to positive masculinity, not since it became the far left
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 07:31 AM
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Thank you for saying this, I feel exactly the same way, but what can be done in such a situation. Right now masculinity of any kind is being eradicated, so it's either unhealthy (Andrew Tate) or its self flagellation (take your pick)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 07:08 AM
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Nah theyre just telling them the "right" thing, get it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 07:04 AM
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Then why act like China then (ie ideological authoritarian gangsters)? Back when Obama was President the left was actually welcoming, accepting and logical, Now... Have you seen young people and the way they act in university. All you have to do is bring up an issue they don't agree with (eg men's rights issues for example) and they think authoritarian silencing and even attacks are justified.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 06:50 AM
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Not sure why they have nothing to feel good about, they have the loudest megaphone between the two extremes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 06:43 AM
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Funny men's lib will insist that they don't agree with everything feminists say, then you read their thread on any given day. Self flagellation like you said
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 06:40 AM
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non-toxic, effective way What does that mean, what does that look like, and whose supposed to be listening to any of it, because as far as I can tell, people who have problems with men, don't listen
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 06:37 AM
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I disagree The left talks to boys and men "your kind it's responsible for all this pain and suffering, so only act in atonement for things you didn't do, and speak up when I tell you to okay".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 06:34 AM
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Why is it that the main people sticking up for men and for equality, are the same ones that chastise men who don’t conform to their outdated ideals of masculinity, who berate women who don’t conform to their outdated ideals of femininity Because the silent majority stays silent leaving only left and right wing extremists in charge of the narrative Because feminists have taught everyone on the left that speaking about men's issues is an attack on feminism Because no man on the left wants to rock …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 06:31 AM
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Funniest part is the part where non of them answer the question, is just "men do it worse"
/r/EverydayMisandry30/01/24 06:10 AM
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"Look to your left, look to your right one of those men will rape you" Given the way these people think it's not surprising, seriously wtf
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 07:09 AM
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Most men are not rapists or criminals, most men are also the vast majority of crime victims. I'm not a rapist, the odds of me attacking anyone are zero, so I'd say she has nothing to worry about for the most part, it's almost like a guy afraid of false accusations, the likely hood of that according to statistics is very very low, so should guys worry about it, probably not. If the fear is that bad for her, she should take initiative and buy herself a fire arm, do as a man would do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 06:37 AM
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Oh yeah, what percentage of men have committed any of those horrible crimes, is it the vast majority of the male population , spoiler alert, it isn't, otherwise that 20% and 5% would be 80 and 95, but they aren't. The vast majority of us have no reason to show that we are not criminals, because we aren't, we have our own safety to worry about anyway. Your family is your duty to protect, not the rest of us. I'm curious, how many of these women you're crossing the street for are willing to do anyt…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 06:23 AM
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Yeah but these things have a way of getting public real quick if internet clips are anything to go by (gym tiktok anyone)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 05:51 AM
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Agreed, but I understand where he's coming from.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 05:49 AM
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Nothing wrong with you man. It's the same where I'm from (Zimbabwe) you should offer help if you see someone struggling. Obviously people have been taken advantage of and robbed in some cases so you can't always be helpful. In your case I wouldn't bother, unless you wanna be labeled a creep in one of those viral feminist tiktok videos. You're not wrong for wanting to help, you're not wrong for feeling bad about not helping, but you also not wrong for walking (in this case driving) away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 05:48 AM
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It's a safety thing, from what some of them claim, because if a women is already there, it means the guy is safe and possibly even desirable. It already that's what I've heard, is that while wing man thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/24 06:07 PM
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Not a chance, this isn't about equal rights between the serves, it's about owning some sort of spotlight of victim hood and yelling insults at men who haven't done you any wrong, as if the rest of us are responsible for whatever happened to you. Living as a man is dangerous and hard, I have enough to worry about without worrying about the problems of someone who demands my support but would never support me, and on top of that wants me to "sit with the discomfort" and apologise for things i had …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/24 05:57 PM
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Given your example I could see how you might think it's about education levels, but at other times like in the case I mentioned, it came from the sort of grudging acceptance that comes after bitterness, almost like the individual has had the same bad experience "time and time again" (no mention of ignoring the same red flags over and over again) to the point where a conclusion is drawn (in this case, "men are just natural cheaters") then it's passed on whether or not it's true, and often times w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/24 05:40 PM
1

Send like the cautionary tale of David and Solomon feel on deaf ear for stone (rather conveniently)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/24 05:31 PM
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Oh I've seen the conflict between what is said and what they do, my issue becomes the whole blaming the rest of us with that "you know how men are, they all cheat" when those are the dudes theyre into. It gets so deep, you'll get grown @ss women treating little boys who aren't even thinking about girls yet, like potential threats prone to the fellony that is cheating (or something adjacent like alcohol), like the racial profiling that Americans talk about, but it's just for the boys no matter ho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/24 10:57 AM
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I have no idea where people got this idea that men who cheat are praised or encouraged, I grew up in a country full of Christians, cheating is considered a sin and they hammer that into you beginning in grade school (cautionary tale of David and Solomon), the guys who do it anyway are the ones who don't care about being seen as good. What I think honestly (seen this in my own family) us that "all men cheat" is a shield for both men who do it and a lot of the women who complain about it. For the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/24 07:51 PM
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Yeah you've lost me here I'm not sure what you're trying to say Edit, found two X chromosomes, I see what you mean
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 08:35 PM
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Anything dangerous (like what theyre expecting) or is it just "raising awareness"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 08:33 PM
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Sorry I think i misread your reply, I thought you were responding with a question (why not report to both) so I was clearing it up that I don't actually know how the process goes on this platform in general, coz I've never had to enter with it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 07:20 PM
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The benevolent sexism argument drives me up the wall, protect or defend a woman in public = toxic masculinity, Next day, why aren't men calling out bad behaviour among their peers? how do we engage men to help fight for womens rights?! Yeah no, I'm only helping out people close to me or people I actually like and after with, you want to be helpful with some of these people and then get told you're not doing enough, or you're bad for doing so. Smh
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 07:14 PM
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Oh no I was genuinely asking, I'm not quite sure how that goes coz I've never reported anyone
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 06:16 PM
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Exactly, it makes no sense if you both get hurt in the process
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 06:14 PM
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It's always been there, and it starts when you are young. I was like 14 when i said I wasn't ever going be a cheater, and had a female relative say, to me, with a straight face that it's natural for me to do so because I'm male (she'd been cheated on, same with her mother), so I shouldn't be quick to declare or something like that. So yeah linking me directly to heartbreak and betrayal before I've even done anything felt pretty harsh back then (PS, I made good on my declaration that was nearly t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 05:02 PM
1

Tone of voice, and body language, it's how they communicate with each other, especially dogs and big cats
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 04:55 PM
1

Wait it's different if you report to a mod than to reddit itself?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 04:53 PM
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Nice work, and thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 04:51 PM
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It's not too harsh, and you don't have to care. This is literally a version of the incel, hateful and bitter, and it's everyone else's fault but theirs. They deserve just as much ridicule IMO
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 04:50 PM
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That's always been discouraged, it already until recently, note it's just rampant, especially among people who talk "power dynamics". You kind of hear it in that Amber Heard tape, that whole it's not a big deal that I was hitting you, you're fine, your fine. Because you can't really hurt someone "privileged, and powerful" can you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 04:48 PM
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You're absolutely right, but it's hard not to just withdraw and completely shut people out when experiences with a certain group are constantly negative, at which point you avoid all of <insert group> because you don't know whose bad and who isn't. Not saying it's okay to do, it isn't, is just a tough thing that needs to be managed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 04:45 PM
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Wait wait wait, cat ladies? Makes sense now
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 04:40 PM
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Sorry about that, it's right after the intro https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7rlP_O9uFOI&t=20s&pp=2AEUkAIB
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 04:09 PM
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"like a human being", sounds like talk to me the way you would talk to your guy friends, nope, theres a reason why we meet away from women, not because of any weird sexist stuff, but its simply so we don't get judged.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 01:41 PM
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It also explains why we so easily end up in “not all men” type discussions. Because there is this collectivisation mindset Well said. Funny how the same people who think in collectives also hate being generalized,
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 01:34 PM
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Not to sound redpill or whatever but alot of black women are more blatant about the double standard and try to play the race card, when it comes to this. It stops being about equality and it becomes an us against white people thing "black men, protect us because our lives matter, it doesn't matter if she's not related to you or if you're not in a relationship, you should stick your neck out for us " The video I'm referring to was way more antagonistic and entitled than I made that sound but you …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 01:28 PM
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Thanks for having me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 12:10 PM
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Wow where has this sub been all my life, I thought lefties where basically all crazy and far left (I'm not right wing or left wing, where I'm from my culture doesn't work that way). This post is so real and true you've almost got me tearing up, I hadn't looked at this way when I first watched the movie but it captures the feeling so accurately.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/24 09:36 PM
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preach
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/24 09:29 PM
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