CharlesPoon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
211	The shame and frustration of a fat wife after red pill awakening.	CharlesPoon	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/12/17 04:54 AM
19	If you're considering an affair.	CharlesPoon	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/12/17 03:18 AM
10	Question on telling wife (fat wife in Dubai update)	CharlesPoon	/r/askMRP	02/02/18 06:56 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Question on telling wife (fat wife in Dubai update) Your mrp thread was excellent and I'm definitely taking pointers from it. No, I'm not planning to go back to the Filipina. I'm slowly releasing the oneitis I had for her, but it was very hard. Lots of reading about how bad oneitis is and I now have 2 Thai plates that give me excellent sex when I need it so that helped.	/r/askMRP	06/02/18 03:07 AM
2	Question on telling wife (fat wife in Dubai update) I'm playing "nice" only to keep her friendly through the process. The post on marriedredpill on how to divorce your wife is very good and gives advice on keeping civility to get a better deal for the man. I'm willing to lose a little bit more if it might keep her from feeling like I'm out to screw her and she turn my kids against me. If she turns feral then I can play hardball, but I'd like to keep my kids from hating their father cause of what mom tells them.	/r/askMRP	03/02/18 12:12 AM
1	Question on telling wife (fat wife in Dubai update) We're both US citizens with assets in the US and not citizens of the UAE. The divorce has to be US based. She may, but I doubt she's thinking that.	/r/askMRP	03/02/18 12:06 AM
3	Question on telling wife (fat wife in Dubai update) Just to clarify. We've been in Dubai 8 years. I was only away 9 months and it was a one time contract in Djibouti. It's just the last several years where her weight has really taken off, but without close friends and without me stopping the weight gain early on I'm at this point.	/r/askMRP	02/02/18 11:29 PM
2	Question on telling wife (fat wife in Dubai update) Being neither Muslim nor an Arab makes that a bit tricky. :)	/r/askMRP	02/02/18 02:34 PM
2	Question on telling wife (fat wife in Dubai update) Covert contracts are over. I don't lift because I hope she'll work out. I don't eat healthy hoping it'll guilt her into eating better. I don't initiate sex hoping she'll reciprocate the next time. I'm learning to do things because I want to do them for me. I want to tell her about the split while she's away so she doesn't disrupt my children and home with hysteria. This is not a covert contract, this is me keeping a lid on my house.	/r/askMRP	02/02/18 02:32 PM
2	She's getting chubby... OP - I've started 2 threads on mrp. Please go find them. One was about my fat wife and the second a oneitis fueled victim puke about about an affair. You do not want to get to where I am - so listen to the advice you are getting from these guys while it's early. If you don't take charge and figure out what you are doing wrong your situation will not improve.	/r/askMRP	28/01/18 12:30 AM
2	If you're considering an affair. You'll see from the previous post about fat wife that I didn't find RP until just recently. All of the exploits with AP occurred prior to me learning about MRP. Had I known about RP before Djibouti, I'd hope I'd have done things differently. This is not me doing MRP wrong, this is about how things can get screwed up when you've never heard about MRP. And reading all of the Posts here, there are plenty of guys who equate Dread 11 with having an affair. Weakandsensitive's 2nd paragraph about Dread…	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/12/17 04:40 AM
2	If you're considering an affair. You clearly didn't read this as I referenced the previous post twice. Paragraph 2 "Refer to my earlier post" and in next to last paragraph "I’m not sure if I can considering the weight issues detailed in my previous post". If you want to be snarky at least be accurate.	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/12/17 03:39 AM
3	The shame and frustration of a fat wife after red pill awakening. So last night I initiated and was shot down for the 3rd time this week. Rejection 1 and 2 I just walked away and went back to reading, (next day hello Thai masseuse) this time I asked what the the problem was. She said she's still pissed and crushed about what came out in counseling and how I ruined our marriage. She feels no closeness to me and we are more like roommates than ever before. "Why aren't you romantic anymore?" "You expect me to just put out when you treat me like a roommate?" I did…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/12/17 08:21 AM
2	The shame and frustration of a fat wife after red pill awakening. Just to be clear...Djibouti was a one time thing. I'm permanent here in Dubai and only went to Djibouti one time.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/12/17 02:56 PM
9	The shame and frustration of a fat wife after red pill awakening. Lunch time here and I can't wait to write later this evening so I banged this out. As I said before, thanks to everyone who replied. Let me respond to some of the points made: Yes, I understand the situation is ultimately my fault. I was raised by a beta father and I took that into my marriage. Not blaming him, but those were the tools I was given to work with. My choice of mate was poor in relation to my SMV potential and probably my SMV at the time, too. I allowed her to get to this point. But…	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/12/17 08:45 AM
3	The shame and frustration of a fat wife after red pill awakening. Guys - I can't thank you enough for the comments. I have read and re-read and I want to let these comments sink in before I reply. Really, really excellent things you guys are saying. It's nearly 9am here so I need to be working, but I will come back with followup at the end of the day here in Dubai.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/12/17 04:52 AM