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| 8 | She has HIVVery likely she cheated since you dismiss the possibility of transfusion, she has never been sick, first born tested negative etc....simple elimination can only lead to this conclusion. But bear in mind she might never own up, in which case you have to rely on what the facts are saying and confront her on that basis and the onus should be on her to disprove those facts...it's highly unlikely she can disprove the facts coz HIV doesn't come out of thin air...you will have to be very tough with her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/24 10:01 AM |
| 11 | Just discovered long affair while on vacationNot worth saving at all. The betrayal runs too deep, you can forgive her, but you have to leave...don't waste more time on her. Mine cheated for a year with multiple guys, blamed it on me....the usual stuff. She tried getting back after divorce...I stuck to my decision and my life is much better without her...though I sometimes miss the family structure we had. My focus is on me and my two kids and we are thriving even in this divorced state | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/24 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on being divorced at 25 without kids?Better than 39 and 2kids, with an ex who refuses to go to work and earn a meaningful income...on account of bpd, yet she used to work and can still work if she wants to | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 07:00 AM |
| 3 | 50/50 is changing to 86/14Exactly like my ex. Uncontrolled bipolar disorder, plus selfishness and high sense of being a victim. I have had to pay therapy costs for her to be well to help her be stable because I feared her issues were going to affect her health....thankfully she cooperated and is better now. She has also slept with multiple men, tries to get back with me but I pushback, also threatened to live in a mobile van which she planned to buy with divorce money instead of paying her debt and restoring her credit r… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Why are you thinking of imprisoning yourself...even though I am a dad of two toddlers, I go after after single child free women who do not need me financially, even if it's just dating...it's safer | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Her business success affected our marriageYou Sir are very right...I had that mentality of working hard at my physical and mental expense only to have the ex discount my efforts during the divorce....so to all the guys, watch out for yourself and don't be an unwitting slave | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 02:56 PM |
| 0 | Who has gone to a female therapist during divorce and what was your exoerience like?I 💯 percent agree. I tried it after my divorce as well..didn't see the value. My greatest progress came through doing physical stuff, running, weights, gardening, talking to new women etc....basically stuff that boosts your sense of masculinity and vitality....therapy is feminine in nature | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/23 08:29 AM |
| 3 | Not What I Signed Up ForWhile married we had unrestricted access to each other's phones, when things started going downhill she put passwords on her phone...one day she dozed off with her phone still unlocked and I took the opportunity to take it and go through...found evidence of physical and emotional affairs...3 different men. There are two other men (allegedly friends...she claimed she could never be friends with females). When she woke up and we talked ..she could not deny it, because everything was crystal clear | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/23 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Not What I Signed Up ForExactly what I am going through, two kids, 8 and 5years. I have them from Thursday evening till Sunday evenings. They are my world but it's not how I envisioned to raise them.. single...I miss the team effort, adult conversations in the presence of our kids etc. It is difficult to get one on one time with each child as well....it's sad, lonely but that's the hand we have been dealt with. Wife simply decided marriage was not for her, 8years later, but she had been cheating as far as I know for a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/23 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Will I regret deciding to never get married?Have children, but don't get married. Have a good relationship with your kids...this is a better bet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/23 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Tell Me To Let Go AlreadyI was like that at the beginning...same scenario as yours, except she cheated with three men I discovered.. there were possibly more. Also have two kids 7 and 5 years. As I type this, I will be moving out in 3hours from the house we sold to an apartment Divorced two months ago. It is getting better, the kids seem to be taking it well.. I am a better dad without her definitely....you will adapt, kids will adapt...focus on yourself first and the kids. Forget about the idea of family that includes … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Did anyone else’s ex become a “strong independent woman”?My ex as of 30 May went through the exact same thing...went as far as learning how to service her car, change tyres etc...but seems to still need me for emotional support when life gets the better of her.... | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/23 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How many of your all’s marriages were savable? But your wife refused to work with you.Same here...she wanted me to be the one to end it. I didn't. So she cheated multiple times knowing I would find out...Two weeks to go before divorce is finalised | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/23 06:38 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I now hate womenMe too. Excited about my impending future as a divorced dad...peace at last, my conscience is clear as I am not the cause ( I wasn't perfect, but she cheated multiple times and I found out)...even though I am losing money...I am much happier than I have been in years, though I still have some bad days when I miss being married and her company even...but I know I am healing. Am 38 years old, have a daughter aged 8 and son aged 5. 50/50 custody agreed | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/23 10:19 AM |
| 2 | STBX wants divorce. Married for 4 years. No kidsMove on. Don't waste your time. I wasted 3-4 years, currently going through divorce. Wife told me she "not in love " with me anymore but still loves me 3-4years back...i basically spent last 3-4years try to be someone she could be in love with...only for her to put the nail on the coffin by cheating with at least two guys (confirmed) and others ( suspected)....and we have two toddlers together...she chose to break the family in pursuit of that elusive feeling of happiness.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/23 08:49 PM |
| 18 | Tell me it comes back aroundAm in the exact same position. She has a new dude. Our youngest of two kids cries for her as she leaves at night for sleepovers at the new dude's house. Yes it eats me up and have been given sleeping tablets due to inability to sleep thinking of this...but I can say I am improving in accepting the new reality....I believe it will get better. Focusing on myself and our two kids (8 and 5years old) | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/23 03:35 PM |
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