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I can't wait to see if any of these women who disrupted business and essential functions get fired. The screeching will be glorious and they'll have no one to blame but themselves.
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 09:54 PM
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That's an adorable competition to have :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/16 12:20 AM
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Thank you. This post is great and I'm definitely saving this in case I ever start this habit. For now though if I kept score I'd see how little I do because my boyfriend is my whole support system and he doesn't even act like it's a burden
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 11:34 PM
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She says she needed friends for support when she didn't connect with her husband. Something tells me if they're the single Sex In The City types she seems to want they would've only supported her getting divorced
/r/RedPillWives10/05/16 08:37 PM
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"Doormats and fake alphas" Ah such a typical feminist response. Saying that the men aren't manly enough and the women are too weak. yes things have changed. There is a new mod team but if you want to go back to the old one head over to red pill wives… They will still disagree with you and definitely not approve of you accusing an innocent man.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 03:25 PM
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Is that not sexist? You won't respond to his argument because of his gender but here you are complaining about sexism. Or is it just that you would have preferred this thread to be an echo chamber of women telling you how horrible these men are being and how important your feelings are? You also tell him he has no authority to tell you not to compare race and sex. Well coming from me as a partially black female, race and sex are completely different. Differnces between the sexes can be proven. D…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/16 08:09 PM
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"are generally better off either staying at home or in work roles that are more social" "not necessarily always directed at me" From your own quotes would you say these men believe that ALL women have no aptitude for programming? They do not direct these comments at you, a woman with aptitude for programming and they state that GENERALLY women are more suited to staying at home or more social careers. Are you denying that statistics show that GENERALLY, or in most cases this is true? You can say…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/16 05:02 AM
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I did not ask you to deconstruct why you find it degrading. You simply asked if you were overreacting and my opinion is that you definitely are. Statistically, way less women major in STEM fields and those that do are more likely to drop out. However, a majority of women are in social careers. So no matter whose feelings the statistics hurt, they back up what the men in your office are saying. You can't get upset about known truths. I'm blind and if someone pointed out that majority of blind peo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/16 03:21 AM
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Why does this make you uncomfortable? Like you said they weren't talking to you and made it a point to say no offense. If they said women generally don't have the aptitude for coding and you were hired for that job it apparently doesn't apply to you. I hear stories all the time about women in mostly female settings complaining about husbands and men being generally inept. Do you see a bunch of men whining about sexism to HR? Carry on and prove that what they're saying is wrong instead of censori…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/16 02:38 AM
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This is so cute and requires none of the manipulation of shit tests. Do you think the guys who give in when wrestling also fail shit tests?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/16 11:52 AM
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Lol that sounds awkward for everyone involved. I bet there've been many weird nights cause by that Cosmo article. And thanks for the advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 09:22 PM
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I think you might be right especially since he loves being dominant. I just feel like sometimes he forgets I'm not as experienced as him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 09:21 PM
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Sorry in advance for TMI stuff but how do I learn how to please my boyfriend? Most girls go to Cosmo and other girly magazines but I've heard a couple guys and even my boyfriend say that advice is crap lol I just feel bad because he's pretty amazing and I have no clue what I'm doing. Does it just come with experience or something?
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 01:03 AM
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You're here unlike them which is a start :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 11:30 PM
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If he's committed enough to stay with you even though that kind of job and a relationship will be extremely time-consuming you're really lucky :) and from what I've read of those blogs just to be nosy those "girlfriends" seem really entitled. One was pissed because he ruined HER plans for his birthday lol just don't be like that and you'll be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/16 10:56 PM
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My boyfriend is sending me a gift that he won't tell me anything else about and sent a really sweet text at midnight but we're not going out because he hates crowds which I'm bitter about even though I know it makes me ungrateful
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/16 01:31 PM
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Lol my boyfriend is the one who loves taking pics of us because I hate pictures and don't have many. But on a sidenote I hate the way women say babe nowadays a term of endearment said with total condescension and scorn
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/16 04:03 PM
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I see. And yes part of my reasoning is that it would be responsible and that I'm just being realistic
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 04:25 AM
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Do you think my blindness will affect the level of commitment I can get in the future? Before we started dating I was worried about that
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 02:30 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 12:59 AM
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Hmm makes sense. Also it probably won't ever become an LDR as we're both planning to sty in NYC for college.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 12:21 AM
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Yes. I have VoiceOver which is a text-to-voice processor and that's how I use the Internet. But as for typing I've learned the keyboard well enough to type without it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 11:39 PM
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Thank you :) and by the way I'd like to hear your opinion in particular because your post Marry The Lieutenant on your blog made me think a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 10:59 PM
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Thank you for the advice. And no. I want to be a teacher for the visually impaired because I'm blind and want to help people in my situation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 10:57 PM
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Thank you. And I don't plan to drink because I don't like what it does to people
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 10:27 PM
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Precisely, he's a 17-year-old male who's biological imperative is to reproduce with as many women as possible. Which is why I don't think we'll actually end up together seeing as I'm his first girlfriend. However, I do want to get married young so I don't have years of other relationships complicated things and because I'm in my prime. Because of this, I plan to because a teacher so I'll have a flexible schedule for raising children. My stepdad gave me a talk the other day saying that he thinks …
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 08:55 PM
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My goodness what does she want then? No jewelry, no chocolates and no lingerie? She just nixed all typically romantic gestures :(
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 02:35 AM
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I feel like even if he did text her now something is lost because he's just doing what she tells him to. If he sticks to his guns I think she'll get over it and he'll have a passed shit test under his belt.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 12:06 AM
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LEARN from your mother's mistakes. Every time she does something that dampens your father's mood or makes more work for him take note of it. Remember why these things are bad imagine what you'll do differently when you're married. Make a mental list of all the things you won't do and be super vigilant about doing positive things instead. Men in TRP always say that how a girl's mother treats her father can be a red flag for LTRs so make sure that before your SO meets your parents you have a talk …
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/15 10:07 PM
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You said exactly what I was thinking. Ellen was a great wife even though Gerald wasn't her first love and she was kind all around. I try to emulate her and Melanie in my day to day life but I think I have a bit of Scarlett in me :(
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/15 09:41 PM
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Pretty cool. I definitely have to start that. I can spend hours on this stuff that I could be using to sleep. That's beautiful. I definitely have to try that next time I'm in a relationship. I never thought being supportive could help in that way.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/15 08:09 PM
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Wow. How do you do it? I can't go to sleep without my phone, a book or YouTube. And when it comes to trust and communication how do you improve? Do you have to jump right in or are there baby steps? One of my roadblocks to femininity is even though I'm soft, quiet and submissive I don't trust or open up to anyone and I come off as cold
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/15 12:08 PM
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If OP's boyfriend sees her as damaged goods because of it she dodged a bullet IMO. It's not a good idea to hide something like that though because all secrets come to light eventually and when it does it'll look extremely suspicious. He might think if you hid it maybe your crying rape over a regretted hookup or something less savory than the actual truth.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/15 11:55 AM
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Same with me. I'm in HS so the changes didn't sit well with some but if they love you and want the best for you they'll just accept that you're happier. Zumba is the best workout ever :) have you tried other dance classes though? When you have to dance with a partner RP dynamics come out in full force and even shy girls can break out a bit. I don't think you have to worry about being friend zoned as long as you stay feminine and make sure you're not acting like one of the guys. As for flirting, …
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 08:51 PM
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Distinguish yourself from the other girls without intentionally making them feel bad about it; never let anyone pressure you to have more than 2 drinks, always make sure you go to/leave parties with a group of friends who are going to care about each other's safety, volunteer and join some activities that are interesting to you and wear you have a good probability of meeting guys. If you're shy around guys talking to guys that you already have things in common with helps. Also, it's okay to trea…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 10:26 AM
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Is there a limit for men on how much dread is acceptable? I remember reading somewhere in the manosphere that women couldn't effectively use dread. Part of the reason me and my recent ex decided to split was because he didn't like knowing that guys were after me when he wasn't around. I felt the same way because I knew girls wanted him but it just made me want him more.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 11:47 AM
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What treatment do you use? I've been using coconut oil as well :) it's pretty great.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 11:25 PM
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Awesome :) thanks. I just finished the stage of hating my hair... I hope lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/15 12:20 AM
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Oooh I didn't know stores had personal shoppers. I've only ever seen the salespeople who try to push you to buy anything lol and thanks for the website :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 11:32 PM
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I've been totally blind since birth and I'm 16 now so trying to get all the makeover stuff and having my own style out of the way before I graduated and have more pressing things to focus on. That would actually be great but I don't want to be too out there about it and make it seem like I'm looking of pity. But a deal would be nice lol I go to a school for the blind so a lot of my closest friends are either legally or totally blind.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 10:26 PM
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I've gotten both. Before I met my SO e and a guy who is still in my class now liked each other, over the course of our flirting I started taking a more submissive role and he didn't like it. Now since my SO isn't in the school my feisty and dominant side comes out and he's gained interest again. Maybe the problem is that your friend isn't dominant in any areas at all which can become boring.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/15 06:15 AM
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You made it very simple :) I love seeing recipes that are easy to follow and don't have too much fluff
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 02:45 AM
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Thank you :) this was so helpful I love cornbread and the other recipes sound delicious
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 08:26 PM
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Mmm that sounds delicious. I'm planning to bake quite often especially since I have another month until school starts
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 01:48 AM
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So true. I feel so bad for guys when I hear about them blowing money on first dates.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/15 03:04 PM
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Thanks for the help :) I'll definitely put parchment paper and cutting the recipe in half sounds good :) if they turn out well I'll make them for him next time. My mom and my brother are my test subjects lol
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/15 01:51 PM
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It is pretty humid where I live and my oven is always overly hot. Lol hope that doesn't spell disaster. I'll definitely try chilling the dough and thanks for the help :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/15 02:30 AM
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Love you're username. So fitting. And thanks I probably won't mess with that too much then
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/15 12:53 AM
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Question, I'm planning to make these tomorrow but the recipe makes about 5 dozen. I really don't want to mess these up so do you have any tips for minimizing the recipe to only yield a dozen?
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/15 12:50 AM
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Well you could not give sex easily and show your other qualities as I detailed in my other comment. That's partially how I got to trusting my SO as I've always had trust issues. Hold out hope :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 11:00 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex...Be open to dating and as long as you don't give that up to early and show you have more to offer the guys who just want sex will get the hint and the guys who are interested in sex and More will stay :) makes it much easier to pick who to trust
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 10:11 PM
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You're comment reminded me of something I've been thinking about for a long time. Do you think that AWALT and AMALT are somewhat self-fulfilling prophecies? Women don't want betas so they shit test and shit test and with most women doing that men think they should give in to the test and become more beta. Men want sex and RP encourages men to dump "plates" if they don't put out after 3 dates which could mean they only keep women with a propensity for sluttiness. Please correct me if I'm misunder…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 10:05 PM
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Baking and pastry arts sounds like so much fun :) I got the recipe from foodesscom and thanks for the tip. I'm looking into stocking up on cookbooks now. I found one more online recipe I must try though because it sounds delicious lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 09:17 PM
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My oven is very strong so they were cooked well... But they were spongelike and tasted like coffee and buttermilk pancakes.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 07:54 PM
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Thank you :) do you know if I can use milk and butter instead of water and oil in the cake?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 12:55 PM
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Ewww lol goat cheese frosting. Thanks for the tip and yeah I'm just gonna keep it simple for now
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 12:51 PM
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I've always wanted to make bread :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 12:50 PM
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Yum! Lol they're job sounds fun... Thank you I'll definitely check them out.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 04:04 AM
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Oooh :) thanks I love cookbooks
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 01:36 AM
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I love chewy cookies... Are they usually soft and gooey though? That's my weakness lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 09:38 PM
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Awesome! Me and my SO love chocolate cake. Since I can use butter and milk how much do you recommend and do you recommend substituting certain ingredients with them?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 09:36 PM
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The recipe called for buttermilk and coffee. I hate coffee but the author said you couldn't taste it. The cupcakes came out tasting like coffee and buttermilk pancakes
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 09:34 PM
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I swear by an all organic diet and natural hair/skin products. If you're looking to stay or get thin it really helps.For my face I love African black soap to get rid of blackheads and at night I use a mix of rosewater and tea tree oil as astringent. For skin and hair coconut oil works wonders and if you have dry scalp or dandruff tea tree oil definitely helps. Now I definitely want to try essential oils since perfume is too strong for me. Does the scent wear of easily though?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/15 09:57 AM
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Your friend was a very good businesswoman then. :) and very true about college. My other option is physical therapy but I don't want to go to school for years, get married and have wasted all that time when I'm a Sahm. Giving massages on the side sounds like a great plan in that case. Thank you so much for the advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 05:14 PM
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Awesome... I was afraid I'd have to move from a big city like NY to be able to survive on a trade school salary. My mother is also flipping out now that I gently hinted that I might not go to college. Also I think you have to get a Masters for most degrees to be worth anything. Is massage therapy very physically demanding? That's one of the only complaints I've found while researching.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 08:43 AM
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You're welcome :) I had to be pretty obvious with my SO but eventually he asked me to be his girlfriend lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 02:17 AM
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As long as my man is masculine I'm happy with something homey and comfy and plus the more rooms the more I have to clean lol thank you so much for the help. I'm definitely looking into UTMI :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 01:31 AM
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Wear pretty work-appropriate dresses/skirts, show of your hair, maybe if you can get away with it wear something unique that he can't help but compliment. Compliment him, find reasons to be physically close to him, ask him for help with something manly lol. If you can cook and know what he likes make him a little something one day and innocently tell him you needed to try out a new recipe. Up the flirting as the end of your internship comes closer. Finally if you and him like something in common…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 01:14 AM
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Earlier someone in this thread mentioned that no high value man would go for a girl who hadn't been to college. Would anyone go for a girl who went to trade school? And yeah that's my problem I want to either go into physical therapy or massage therapy. For one I would have to get a Bachelors Of Science and then go for a masters or Doctor of PT. Massage therapy I could go to a trade school for 2 years for. So confusing... And thanks for the advice. I'd love to write a zombie apocalypse story and…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 12:58 AM
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I'll be in the same boat soon. The problem I'm noticing while researching colleges/majors is that majority of the degrees lead to low paying jobs while still necessitating payment of your debts. So what degrees/majors are relatively safe?
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 01:41 AM
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That's a wonderful experience. Your insight about the different countries was interesting. Especially since in the manosphere/red pill community men often talk about how submissive Japanese women are I was a bit surprised they'd be offended at the title.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 02:56 AM
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Awwww thanks :) an adorable story to go along with the recipe. Your daughter sounds so cute. I was worried about my 6 year old brother wanting to help but now that might not be a problem ;)
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 02:51 AM
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Another long story. My mom raised me alone with the intervention of a few boyfriends who I loved like fathers even though they never stayed. Because of this I have tons of trust and abandonment issues so my mom took the opportunity to teach me to never trust men and to use them. I've always been the soft, quiet submissive type though and even though I tried the FWB stuff and being the boss in a relationship it never worked out. Finally after searching around online I found Return Of Kings, found…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/15 09:38 AM
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I would soon love this!!! Please start with beginners like able to make eggs )not so much pasta) and does anyone know how to bake a good chocolate cake? It's almost my BF and my one year anniversary and it's his favorite :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 10:46 PM
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That's so true. Thank you for clarifying this :) and he probably cheated you're not being harsh I just think OP may not have wanted to see that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 10:24 PM
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I love the Surrendered Single :) I think I'm a bit too young for the Surrendered Wife but I'm going to read it anyway lol what has helped you learn so much in these last 14 years? Certain books certain mindsets. Im looking for anything to help me improve.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 09:59 PM
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Seriously. He's probably around a bunch of pretty nurses who could actually be nurturing all day.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 11:10 PM
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Uggggggh please don't get me started. The trailer sickened me. I love how if you listen carefully you can tell that she's lying to herself about being happy. For one she's drunk all the time and if she was happy she wouldn't feel the need to yell at every one about how great her life is. And as for not wanting monogamy? Pfffffft until the end when the sports doctor comes around and hypergamy is unleashed. Train wreck indeed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 10:50 PM
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Do you mean that the action of letting "Matt" stay over at her house would bother you or that her using that hypothetically if you had done the same thing to voice her discomfort would bother you? Sorry if my question doesn't make sense I'm trying to be less accusatory when voicing things to my BF and I think this would help.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 05:20 PM
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I've been wearing dresses/skirts more often. It's way easier to dress pretty now that it's warm. This summer I'm also going to learn to knit and I'm super excited :) what I've learned is that there's always a way to be more feminine and attractive. As soon as I find someone honest enough I'm going to ask them how I can do/improve my makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/15 06:07 AM
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Awww it sounds like a great relationship. Haha I'm pretty insecure too and I don't even have a boyfriend yet. Trust issues and all. And what do you mean by growing pains?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 01:03 AM
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Wow so you've been in a committed relationship since 14? That's amazing :) I'd love to have that. How has it been working out? And what were some of the complications when you first got together and now if you don't mind my asking?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 10:57 PM
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I'm 16 and in the same boat as you. I was actually going to make a post the other day. This girl I know has been with a perfect guy for a year now and they're already planning a life together. He's extremely muscular, intelligent, charming and confident. She's almost obese, dresses skimpily even when he complains, compliments other guys and I heard her yell at him to give her the f**king straw out of his milkshake because she didn't want to get up, curse him out and make him sit with her friends…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 10:47 PM
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These are all great. My first SO and I are still in high school so teasing is big. I try to always insert a compliment into the teasing/flirting. he'll take of his shirt or do manual labor and I'll come cuddle up to him, look around and say hmmm I wonder how many girls are giving me dirty looks right now and I can hear the smile in his voice, also if he's being very direct or cocky but playful I'll lick my lips, giggle and tell him he's so mean or the worst. I also love bragging about him while …
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 07:24 PM
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Lol I'm such a late0-comer but glad to find someone about my age; I'm sixteen. I'm in my first relationship now and because of strict parents and school we only see each other about once a week. I try to be feminine and a first mate to make up for it but that's a challenge sometimes too :p
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 06:33 AM
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Hi :) been lurking for a while but just thought I'd give my opinion. From what I've read this doesn't seem like a very RP relationship, you should be extremely attracted to your captain. Speaking of this maybe you should show him TRP in hopes that he'll understand how to be attractive to you and how important weight is. If not, find someone who suits you better while you're still relatively young ;)
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 02:29 AM
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