CharmingPass Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Hi ladies, I don’t have any female friends so I would really appreciate some advice He doesn't see you as a prize, he sees you as a liability, a burden, because he knows that you are not independent, that you depend on him for your papers and livelihood. You are no longer a challenge, he knows he doesn't need to court you, because you are the one who needs him. This kills attraction. Men are hunters, if a deer puts itself at their feet, they will not take it. Men are not stupid. Why would he go through the pain of sponsoring your papers and support you, when he can find a woman…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 07:59 AM
20	I need help, throw away account If I were you, I'd start by having a legitimate relationship with myself first. Love and take care of yourself first. It sounds as if you're looking for other people to do what you ought to do for yourself. If you don't, you'll end up with a predator guy who will use you and leave you in worst shape. Read "Full catastrophe living" and "The Untethered Soul" to be more mindful and aware of your true self and become who you really are. For family, relationship issues, read "Not nice" by Dr Aziz Gaz…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/19 06:40 AM
5	How do I accept being childless Who is the one saying that needs to have children? Read "The Untethered Soul", and you will see that being childfree is not a problem, you are already whole, joyful, and perfect, you don't need anything nor anyone else to be happy or complete. It may sound as mental gymnastics to sour-grape your desires, and talk yourself out of wanting something you can't have, but really is not. Read it, give it a try and see for yourself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/19 06:24 AM
8	PUA advice reimagined for women Awesome, comment to find later	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/19 02:22 AM
11	Boyfriend doesn’t introduce me to anyone He ain't your boyfriend, babygirl	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/19 11:03 PM
7	Is he (28m) stringing me (29f) along? Not sure what to do Stop making excuses for him. If you were wife material for him, he already had plans cos he is afraid to lose you. 1 year is more than enough to know if he sees you as his wife. A hvm man I know, dated a girl for 6 months got engaged and married in less than 1 year total, cos he knew she was a great catch and if he didn't, then easily another man will come and steal her away from him. He seems to want to wait until he is established to see if he can get someone better than you, but he doesn't wa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/19 04:55 PM
15	the guy who has been texting me for weeks is married and hided it. feelin disgusted, blocked Please forward the texts to the wife. If I were her, I would want to know what kind of POS I'm married to. Wouldn't you want to know if you were her?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 08:55 PM
10	Question - single motherhood I might be desperately wanting to try cocaine, but as a rational being I forecast the consequences so I choose not to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/19 05:16 AM
8	How does FDS work for single women with children? partypancakesbacon is right, this is how FDS work, even if you don't like it and are condescending to her. You have to become a High Value Woman to attract a High Value Man. HVM don't care how long you have been "disconnected" from a male, he will only see a woman who doesnt have her shit together, and is dating as an easy way to be saved or to escape her dire reality. You will only find a LVM and you will take it because you're desperate and the cycle will repeat itself, now with baby #3. HVW s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 11:44 PM
14	Potential quality guy wants to fly me out to meet This is how people get trafficked. Do not let him buy the ticket with your personal data (he might steal your identity). He might cancel the return ticket and leave you stranded. If you must go (btw I would never submit myself to a risk like this with a stranger I dont know anything certain about), he has to give you the money, and you buy your ticket and you do your hotel bookings. SO many things can go wrong if he has the upper hand: oopsie the hotel cancelled your reservation by accident, you…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 04:28 AM
1	Let me play a sad song for you on the world’s smallest violin :( Right? I bet he is testing the waters to see if he can turn any of these new "female friends" into something more, to then dump the gf. Then if caught, he plays it off as I just needed validation, I was never gonna meet anyone IRL. But the gf is the crazy one, yeah right, bastard.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/19 01:44 AM
19	Disney princesses of the past taught girls to be desperate to have ANY man in your life. Glad they are shaking things up a bit with Elsa! LOLZ, I'm dead, so true	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/19 12:06 AM
22	Thoughts on how to answer “how many people have you slept with”? If she does this, and then in the future he finds out it's not true, then she will look like a liar, lose trust, and cause issues in the relationship. Guys know about the "mythical 3 lovers" response. Even if he doesnt know, what if his number is 2? He will resent her. It's best not to say anything, it's none of his business. Just stare at him blankly, do not honor such awful question with a response. He will get the message. if he insists, you might want to re-consider dating him, cos if that k…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/19 03:34 AM
22	Help me understand what was going on here? Yes, either that or he's been talking to someone else he likes more, and now she just agreed to meet him, so he ditched you for her. That's why it's best to be talking to several guys, so you always have a backup, just like he did.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/19 08:48 PM