CharmingSama Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	hook ups, fwb and long term dating...	Question For Women	CharmingSama	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 09:01 AM

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0	Shouldn’t we have evolved to be able to naturally do this shit? i mean you recognize when something is edible or not right? yet you still have cravings..	/r/seduction	03/09/25 12:57 PM
0	Shouldn’t we have evolved to be able to naturally do this shit? Yeah.. but that didn't mean your ancestors didn't pass on their genes too.. not everyone was chief.. head honcho.. great shaman etc.. regular cave dudes slept with regular cave dudets.and those cave dudes knew that beauty was a double edge bronze blade	/r/seduction	03/09/25 12:19 AM
-1	Shouldn’t we have evolved to be able to naturally do this shit? that fear is part of the evolution.. back in the day, it kept you safe from the man she was with, hunting you and turning you into prey with out you ever knowing until you feel an arrow stick out your back. or a club hits the back of your head.	/r/seduction	02/09/25 09:29 PM
1	“Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist” In my view, accountability is proof of loyalty, its the foundation of trust. its when words are in alignment with actions. it's when feelings are calibrated to reality not validated according to fantasy. its when one examines, weighs and measures their choices.. not in isolation but as they concern another. its being responsible not just for oneself but in how ones choices and words impact another. I Dunno what the red pill says about accountability, but in my view, not relying on fallacies to d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 05:06 PM
0	“Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist” Holding women to a higher standard, are you suggesting to hold women accountable? lmao have you ever tried to pick soap up off the floor with just your feet? somethings are just impossible lmao that was funny actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 04:54 PM
1	A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the power feminism is the patriarchy today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 08:11 PM
2	Cheating is equally immoral no matter who does it, BUT men stand to suffer more when cheated on i just think that when a man gets cheated on.. he loses way more than if a woman gets cheated on. sure she looses the time she spent in the relationship, time/opportunities she will never get back. how ever that's the same for the men in relationships. the difference being that men carry the fiscal cost of a relationship, which is something women do not normally do. they wont date in the first place unless in rare circumstances. so he looses not only on his time, opportunities and effort, just l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 09:05 PM
2	If You Were A Woman, How Would You Date? id date women tbh.. i dont see myself dating men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 08:59 PM
4	No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups. That only sounds like it makes sense when you consider that emotive reasoning re interprets reality through feelings.. so what ever is felt, is glorified as truth.. especially when validation of feelings is applied. And here's the thing, emotive reasoning blunts cognitive reasoning. It warps intelligence too.. she sees arrogance as confidence, hears lust as affection, smells control as desire.. she reinteprets reality to fit into the frame work of what she is feeling.. there by validating her fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 08:41 PM
1	Men committing majority of violent crimes consumes more tax payer money that single moms yeah, and? the majority of those men are also the product of single mother house holds.. and by the way, women do not fare any better from single mother house holds either. my view is that women who lose the father of the child to death, deserve sympathy and help.. or if they were cheated on or left an abusive relationship. yet the women who are the problem get the same treatment as the victims of the men who are the problem. and men who are victims of women, too get treated as the men who are t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 11:01 AM
1	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere the red pill really is an antidote to romantic media in my opinion, that is the true source of many relationship problems, both platonic and romantic relationships between men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 04:00 PM
1	A lot of men who women otherwise love as friends, but never see them “that way” just like men sometimes think with their dick.. women too can think with their clit.. this is not something that is gender specific.. its human. and thats the thing.. she can have feelings in her heart.. know in her brain.. and still choose to follow her clit.. just like a man and his dick. edit, its about value system.. people act on that and form habits with repeated acts that develop their mindset.. my advice is to not even consider them for ltr.. they have not developed them selves to be any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 12:47 PM
1	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce and what are the cost of said trade offs to your mental healthy? to your physical well being? to those who are connected to you? because your choices sound selfish.. not considerate. and no one can take you to task, like they do with men. duties, obligations, responsibilities are not something alot of women are concerned with because they are not held equally accountable in society.. and men can choose to reject duties, obligations and responsibilities yet they are still held to account, even ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 03:31 PM
0	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women If one does not practice accountability, they will be blind to it as well. and accountability is proof of loyalty.. but women do not value accountability, when it is them being held to account, therefore they also do not value loyalty too.. when its them who have to sacrifice their independence for loyalty. and loyalty is needed for fidelity, for trust to be held. and i do not mean every woman, but from my view, this is the general sentiment I observe. My view is that women grow up on romance th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 01:45 PM
3	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce you use the word able, yet for many men, that's the only way to be relevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 01:30 PM
2	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce truth is stranger than feelings can identify with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 11:58 AM
1	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce Nonsense, its because society doesnt acknowledge the sacrifice men make to take care of a woman.. her rent is covered, her food is covered, her health costs are covered.. all her basic needs are covered in the relationship, at cost to him along side all the other bills due.. but is that ever counted in the divorce? no, that sacrifice he makes for the relationship is just brushed over like it didnt even matter.. because the products of his labor belong to the family, and the products of her labor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 11:57 AM
1	Most women are terrible at giving dating advice for men. The RedPill is needed. buyers will always have terrible advice for sellers, especially in a buyers market. this is not ground breaking news.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 11:36 PM
1	The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual data his point is a man's single and a woman's single are not the same single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 07:57 AM
0	Women cant complain when men dont care for them an unscripted tv show is nothing like the Kardashian and their team of creative writers.. the tv crew was around as observers. only intervening if someone's life was at risk. the misery was real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 04:35 PM
-4	Women cant complain when men dont care for them men were not raised to be strong and independent.. for as much as people talk about humans being social.. many women hold on to strong and independent as their defining identity. its been baked into the female psyche since childhood, repeatedly.. which makes women who hold onto that narrative as their core identity, disloyal, untrust worthy and unaccountable to all but themselves. that asymmetry is impossible for men to partner with because it makes women controlling, and manipulative in living …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 03:47 PM
2	Modern Dating Isn’t Natural Selection It’s Sexual Selection Gone Mad. most men can't compete with being everything. And women do? That's the thing about romance.. it's been influencing how women and men view relationships often since childhood.. but romance is written primarily for female wishfulment fantasies and creates female centric expectations in both women and men ( edit. That had little to no relevance in real dating ). It's holds the potential to be as harmful as porn.. but gets a free pass.. as most female centric things do regardless of how toxic it might be to society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 01:32 PM
4	Modern Dating Isn’t Natural Selection It’s Sexual Selection Gone Mad. most men can't compete with being everything. i blame romantic media.. its done to relationships what porn has done to sex. poison the well with unrealistic wish fulfilment desires and the disappointment of unspoken expectations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 11:35 AM
5	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy "if you aren’t considered beautiful in the US it’s unlikely that’s true elsewhere. " nope, I want to disagree with that, because one woman's trash is another woman's treasure.. the same way women look at average dudes they familiar with, is the same way women other places look at average dudes in their area.. if those dudes relocated, its a high chance the dudes migrating will be perceived as exotic to the local women. novelty is a major factor when it comes to attraction.. average dudes in fran…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 09:53 AM
16	Despite its history, women are the major winners of polygamy and average men are the losers. im from south africa, where polygyny is still apart of every day life.. there is so much competition between those women, and their children pay the price.. the jealousy and envy over a different wife being favored gets the kids of that wife targeted.. and even in history.. it wasn't uncommon for rivalries to form between the children of different wives all fueled by their mothers. rivalries that turn bloody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 05:52 PM
-1	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) having read the actual pick up artist book, i would disagree, their method relies heavily on theater. they even dress in costume. to look the part.. something they recognize appeals to the feminine eye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 09:28 AM
0	If society doesn't owe men wives, men don't owe society our labour, taxes and blood the problem lies with men.. they want to negotiate desire.. this for that.. not accepting the fact, that you need desire first to negotiate. I agree with you that men are not being valued as a whole.. thats why i say men need to leave the cities and move back to the country side.. there is so much empty land thats sparsely populated..	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 04:50 PM
–	Women should accept the fact that they're all dating the same terrible men. nah fam, its the women that are complaining with the same catch phrases, and buzzwords, that fit that bill.. there are plenty of women who it doesnt impact because they dont wear those shoes, who are quiet and being about their business. they may seem like all women, only because they are the loudest.. and on social media, if you the type to watch men also talk about the same kind of women, the algo's are going to put that kind of content in your feed for your engagement with the platforms you a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 12:58 AM
1	The types of men who would be successful dating 100 years ago are not the same as those successful today I once read a study that spoke about how ovulation cycles influence what women found attractive.. and even going off birth control too, affected attraction for different kinds of men. the golden retriever type that you described, was the kind of man, women in the study found most attractive when she wasn't ovulating.. how ever that shifted during her ovulation cycle. her mate preference during that time when her body was in baby making mode, describes the kind of guys you say are not successful …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 11:21 PM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? yeah, thats messed up! was thinking that every time iv been groped or experienced something against my consent, its been a woman.. when I was a kid, an older woman would force me to grab her breasts.. when i was older, its women grabbing my junk, or slapping my ass.. touching my face etc.. thats why i cant stand that not all men but always a man quote thats been circulating.. i wouldnt be suprised to find out women have experience of other women touching them too with out consent too	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 12:20 PM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? and dogs.. as chris rock said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 11:40 AM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? so what? you telling me you will eat a green banana just because its starting to ripen? nah people like that have weird tastes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 11:34 AM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? thats because it takes alot more effort for a man to mature into what women find attractive.. at pubity, boys become squires while girls become princesses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 11:33 AM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? that shit doesnt just happen to young girls.. it happens to young boys too, by grown women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 11:31 AM
7	Why do so many conservative men try to get with liberal women and change them? Why not just pursue conservative women from the jump ? because most women are slanted towards being liberal? its like truly conservative women are the exception to the norm.. but damb are they not a fresh open window on a stuffy bus ride.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/25 04:00 PM
2	economy profits from male loneliness and benefits when men stay single eh im just thinking, based on what you said, how society has shifted from one person per home being all thats needed to generate an income, and one person only needed to spend said income, to two people needed to generate an income per home, and now its two people, living separately, spending their individual incomes, over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 10:43 AM
3	TRP’s “just lift bro” was never meant to mean “lift and literally do nothing else” yup, instead of focusing that energy into action, the venting functions like puncturing a tire.. and their car goes nowhere.. its a spiral of self-defeat. there's a saying I once came across that really resonated with me. " never complain about yourself or your life. the warrior with in you listens and is lessened by it. "	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 06:33 PM
1	Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocrites hell is the destination on a road full of good intentions.. doesn't matter how much a narrative is reframed, if the narrative warps truth ( accuracy ) then the outcome will always be deceptive. and all war fare is based on deception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 01:22 PM
–	Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocrites second wave feminism is based on the works of a man child in karl marx, so is it any wonder so many leftist women are petulant by default?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 01:20 PM
1	How are ugly couples sexually attracted too each other? sexuality runs deeper than just skin... they could be sexually attracted for a number of reasons.. genetics is just one of the reasons people fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 11:50 AM
3	This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men. I was a teenager when I realized what women say and what women mean, are more often than not, not the same thing. that they speak indirectly and therefore listen indirectly too. so yeah, when they directly say something about men, its what they are indirectly saying, that is what they really mean, but they just wont say it.. like its obvious or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 10:44 PM
1	If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs. My thing is look at home men live single.. and then look at how women live single.. correct me if I'm wrong yet generally speaking.. men live alone more spartan than women do.. as women's spaces is just fiiilllleeeedddd with things. Now when the two move in together.. it's mainly her stuff that's being washed and cleaned.. again speaking generally.. and if that's true.. when she mad about cleaning.. it's her stuff that the majority of the labor goes towards in upkeep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 08:06 PM
1	The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removed nah, they should just leave the cities. organize a mass exodus back to the country side like the succession of the plebs, and set up new towns and businesses.. but with tech and knowledge to make life easier than it was that caused everyone to move to the cities during the industrial revolution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 06:17 PM
12	If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs. facts, was just thinking this too... when I was in college, I got a spot at a housing for students in a building that had both male and females segregated by floor, and hot damb, did the ladies floor stay a mess! I genuinely felt bad for the cleaning staff.. though to be honest, I also took advantage, as the women would throw away a messy pot rather than clean it, and then ask for money from daddy to buy new ones. so I use to get alot of free stuff that way out by the trash.. even text books tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 06:14 PM
2	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards that gave me a good laugh, thank you for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 11:12 AM
8	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards yeah, that feminine energy behind the words just hits different in the compliment. makes you want to go clean her yard or something as a thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:30 PM
19	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards yeah, as a straight guy.. that feels alot like cannibalism in a weird way.. going after my own kind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 01:54 PM
4	Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standards sound like you tryna say women are not heterosexual, but a specific-sexual or something like that. and your reaction is to treat her like she is some how discriminating against you for not choosing you. fam, your attention is way too cheap to be giving it away for free like this to something that aint worth your time. why dont you try dating women you are not attracted to, yet are attracted to you? because thats really what going on.. you dont even need to start playing for the other team.. ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 01:52 PM
3	Looking through the wrong lense: Which issues do men and women get wrong because they assume the other sex thinks like them? Rip. Patrice O'Neal, its wild to think how what talked about in the 2000s is still relevant today nearly 15 years later post his death. man ahead of the times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:50 AM
2	Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not There I honestly think that men and women in general, may have different definitions of good when speaking about each other. and that word, is mutilated by expectations and desires that warp perception of what is good with regards to a partner. I personally hold romantic media as the main culprit, as it may be as destructive as porn addiction is to society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 08:53 PM
2	Some guys really need to sexualize interactions with women more yup, unless you present yourself as a sexual being, and risk being labeled a creep, in the hope of creating a connection with a fellow sexual being, you will be treated to the other persons definition of fair. which is to say, you will be treated as a fellow girlfriend in all but name, which can be deeply emasculating when you observe other men being recognized as sexual beings. while you are treated as an emotional tampon. but I dont blame guys who experience this. I blame romantic media that w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 11:49 AM
1	The “Nice guy” is a loser to most men. Yup.. toothless is as useful as ruthless.. the nice guy and the bad guy are two sides of the same unbalanced extreme. They lack refinement honed on consideration which makes them toxic to themselves in the case of toothless, and toxic to others in the case of ruthless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 12:30 PM
1	How to change my mindset around men’s emotions? in my view, that relates the concept of boys do not cry, aka boys don't show emotion. in my opinion, that saying holds a perverted intention, that has nothing to do with its original intention. much like the saying a jack of all trades yet a master of none, implies a view to look towards specialization, its a twist from the original saying that included a second part, yet often time is better than a master of one, which illudes to taking in a view towards being adaptable... while I believe the s…	/r/MensRights	16/04/25 01:43 PM
7	How to change my mindset around men’s emotions? you need to learn to look past him being a man and see that he is as human as you are... in this gendered world, thats something that is often overlooked. think about all the emotions you experience and consider how those emotions are not just female emotions being felt, but human emotions being felt. there's a difference between experiencing emotion and expressing emotion. what we focus on in the moment often takes the main position of what we consider, so if you focus on how you feel about a m…	/r/MensRights	13/04/25 02:46 PM
4	Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to. this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 08:15 PM
3	How do you respond to "men will only listen to other men"? the fact that I as a man, am listening to you, despite the fallacies laced in your arguments, should be proof that your argument, at its core, is false. honestly, there's a willful conflation that takes place by representing the lack of eagerness to accept bull at face value, for not wanting to listen. like no lady, I can listen to you without agreeing with you, and not agreeing with you doesn't make me or any man that doesn't follow the path of your logic, sexist. you know perhaps that propagan…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/04/25 09:16 AM
1	There's a narrative out there that someone who has never been in a relationship is undateable because they "don't know how to be in a relationship". What are some examples of this? in my view, its people who come from households that were unhealthy to their development that struggle the most with relationships in general, and not just romantic ones. and not having previous romantic partnership experience is a poor measurement of discernment to guestimate future partner potential. yeah, its better to judge a book by the content than the cover with this one, as getting to know someone for who they are and what they are about is better than listening to what one feels and ass…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 08:57 PM
1	Men are tired with the games personally, I blame romantic media for creating the same problems in relationships that pornographic media does when it comes to setting up false expectations. just like how women are devalued for the sake of male lust in pornographic media, men are devalued for the sake of female love in romantic media, yet unlike porn, that comes with an age restriction and heavy taboo, romantic media starts its installation at a young age within the minds of many future women and men. leading many women to ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 10:19 AM
2	As a gay male how do I cope? not a gay male, yet in my opinion.. perhaps focus on your humanity rather than your sexuality? see your self as a human being and show yourself as a human being, rather than as a sexual being primarily. I mean if you identify as gay, before you identify as male, then the first thing other males interact with is that you are gay... straight guys dont engage each other on that level. its weird and uncomfortable (to the point of being repulsive). im not saying hide that you are same sex attracted, …	/r/MensRights	07/04/25 09:29 AM
2	What's a good response or 'comeback' to the pick me girl insult? thats a common tactic to switch a conversation of reason, to a conversation of emotion, switching facts to feelings. most often deployed when reality is not working to make one feel right so they switch to fiction.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/04/25 10:20 AM
1	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? in my view, there is usually an activity at the heart of male friendships, that doesnt seem to always be present with female friendships.. men are usually doing something together, with communication being a by product of said activity, where as from my observation, communication is the focus of interaction with women... especially emotional connection/sharing to revel in the feelings being experienced. you dont see guys typically talking with out some activity they are either actively or passiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:40 PM
-1	Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards? nah, and I also don't think things were better or worse for men in marriages back then, they faced different sets of problems/challenges. feminism focus's on how women struggled back in the day, and after learning more about Mary Wollstonecraft, I can sympathize. yet what I cant respect, is framing the narrative that women suffered only, because life had challenges for everyone, regardless of age, gender or class. I think what modern men find nostalgic, is that men had a purpose, they had a plac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 07:15 AM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. only solution I see is to leave the big cities, and move to the smaller towns, and make the work that is missing for them to grow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 03:16 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. iv been wanting to ask that question, what stage of universe 52, do you see society in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 02:34 PM
-1	The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased. by that logic, you dont need to have a uterus to comment on women's issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 07:59 AM
-2	The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased. edit, reported to cheat. alot of the same behavior, some women accuse men of, just do not get reported to the same degree, if ever. because if something affects men, and its women that are the cause, who actually care right? men either deserve what happened to them or its men's fault because they are men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 07:57 AM
9	I hate the narrative that only sexist men care about men issues, because they are afraid of feminism, and losing male privilege and power. unpopular opinion, but saying men suffer because of the patriarchy, is saying men suffer because they are men. it over looks internalized misandry that is really at the root of men's suffering, and the only solution offered, is to be who we say you should be, do as we say you should do and have what we say you should have. while many feminist say one thing with their mouth, they use their hands to push an agenda ( with actions ) that go in the opposite directions to their words.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/08/24 09:03 AM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. if men are expected to support a woman who is suffering postpartum depression( edit. lets be honest, women can and do call men everything but a child of God ), its the least she can do to give him peace of mind, or does only her mental health, or support her when she is suffering under the lack there of, matter in a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 07:34 PM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. what about his feelings on the matter? who is considering his feelings when you want him to consider your feelings, and you too consider your feelings on the matter? no body is considering his feelings according to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 07:11 PM
0	I hate the pressure society puts on men to have "game". game is about state of mind. confidence is born out of competence in my opinion, and rizz is the air of one's competence spoken through body language. these things are real.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/24 01:28 PM
–	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? we got to question is something is truly progressive just because its modern. iv hardly ever heard a debate on, if some reform is regressive or not. its always assumed to be progressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 07:12 PM
27	Young women are the most progressive group in American history. Young men are checked out. (Young men are increasingly voting conservative and as a Young man myself I’m not surprised, lots of male issues are ignored, invalidated and scoffed at. The left need to fix this) yup, thats why if I want to look up something controversial, I dont use google, I use duckduckgo.com	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/24 02:22 PM
6	Young women are the most progressive group in American history. Young men are checked out. (Young men are increasingly voting conservative and as a Young man myself I’m not surprised, lots of male issues are ignored, invalidated and scoffed at. The left need to fix this) im starting to consider, that just because something is reformed by reformists, doesn't mean its inherently progressive. because to call all reform progressive, is to deny the possibility of reforming something and labeling ( rugs sweeping ) it progressive when it is really regressive.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/24 02:21 PM
19	People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naive the road to hell, is full of good intentions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 12:17 AM
79	I don’t think I want to call myself a feminist anymore and yet, said harassment is a behavior problem, not a gender one. one, which ironically, women are culpable of too. people laugh when I mention being groped, or having my butt slapped by random women at a bar who have had a bit much to drink.	/r/MensRights	22/08/24 09:06 AM
3	I don’t think I want to call myself a feminist anymore my advice is to expand your world view... take a look at authors that feminism criticizes and does its best to cancel their voice. sure there are some that are due cancellation, how ever, there are many that aren't. and get a different perspective, especially from other women who dont support feminism.	/r/MensRights	22/08/24 09:03 AM
0	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... " You guys really think the only thing we’re good for is sex " and no, I dont think the majority of men think that, I personally dont, how ever sex is important to a man, as is feeling desired sexually... something alot of men dont experience outside of hook ups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 06:38 PM
0	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... " Men have plenty of standards for wives they don’t have for women they just want to screw. " care to elaborate on your perspective please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 06:35 PM
3	Misogyny is terrorism, so says the misandrists. I predict the east and africa are going have a sudden growth spurt, as more men just give up on the west and move to find work and build a life else where. is living in the west as a man even worth the effort? posts like these tell me its not.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/08/24 09:12 AM
1	Men don't care about loyalty or faithfulness your type of man wont appreciate or value you no matter what kind of woman you are if they are innate pieces of shit... at some point you have to either accept that you are a dung beetle, or go to therapy and heal from the trauma that muddies your value system to value trash as treasure.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/24 07:48 PM
4	What are single men doing wrong? how would you feel if a guy got with you because he saw a smattering of a resemblance to a pornstar?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 05:03 PM
15	What are single men doing wrong? the status as popstar certainly has nothing to do with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 10:54 AM
8	how do i tell if a guy is truly traditional and family oriented or just sexist wanting an unpaid cook/maid? consideration. its the basis of respect, a traditional man will show you consideration. a chauvinist, wont be considerate beyond themselves.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/24 03:52 PM
0	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals facts haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 08:52 PM
2	What is the answer to wrongful rape convictions? "But in that scenario he wouldn't have been convicted in the first place." nope, with corrupt officers, and prosecutors more interested in using cases to advance their careers over making sure justice is delivered, that's sadly not always the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 08:58 AM
14	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior because billies investment into Jane is way hire than Chad's, while Chad's investment into Jane is close to nothing in comparison to billy.. in fact for the little that Chad invested of himself to experience Jane, Chad experienced far more of Jane, than Billy could ever hope for... and has to continuously work to experience a glimpse of the Jane, that Chad experienced off the bat. edit. men want to experience lust, not just love... and commenting that he is marriage material and not hook up or f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 07:51 PM
10	Engagement/wedding ring listen, its your wedding and your marriage... when it comes to supposing, that's between you and your boyfriend/fiance/husband... its you two that should suppose things for your relationship... everything else is just opinions. I say use it as a opportunity to bond further, create happy memories as you two grow together... all the best.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/24 06:33 PM
8	Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection? yup, I second this... in my view everyone experiences emotions as the norm, how ever the expression of emotions are different. men's expressions are heavily policed... from unreliable at best, to unstable at worst... how ever women are given cart blanch when it comes to emotional expression. as a woman, ask your male friends and family members what it has been like for them to express their emotions in front of other women. it is often a negative experience for men to open up to women, far more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 12:32 PM
1	How do I explain male disposability to my son when he has a sister? tell him his life is as valuable as he makes it. that life is unfair to everyone, regardless of gender. that he can always do the best with what he has, and if he does his best, he can have no regrets. regardless he will always have his family behind his back to help him as best they can when he cant do any more. that he should value who shows him that they value him, consider those who considers him, and learn from those he admires. to think about what kind of man he wants to be, and get to wor…	/r/MensRights	12/08/24 10:44 AM
13	The poor guy :( . The defination of I am okay with settling down imagine if you want to go to college. everyone else had to pay an amount from low ( fwb ) to free ( hook ups ) to enter and get the full college experience ( intimacy ), but not you... because the college views you as unworthy of any sponsorships or scholarships, you don't get the fwb scholarship and you definitely don't get the hook up sponsorship, no you have to pay the full amount that the college waived away for everyone else that entered because the college never cared about them graduating…	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 01:07 PM
31	The poor guy :( . The defination of I am okay with settling down no different than a man telling a woman, I wouldn't marry you, id just want sex, maybe fwb... but definitely not a relationship that's long term, let alone marriage. and meaning it as a compliment... man, I felt the slap across that man's self worth right there in that back handed compliment. he should be thankful for small mercies and not find out while he is married in the deep end with kids. at least he learned to be on the look out for women like her in the future an just nope out before eve…	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 12:50 PM
1	Am I the problem? I think he is being unreasonable. the cost of loyalty is accountability, and if he is not willing to take in account your financial contribution, he is not showing you loyalty, he is being too proud and only thinking of himself. he is being unfair, and is the cause of the tension. no I would say, when words are not in alignment with actions, that is a red flag for deception. he wants you to trust him, while not reciprocating trust in you. asking him how does what he is doing live up to his marri…	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 10:23 AM
3	What are your thoughts on the “mental load” debate? what amuses me, is seeing how most single men live in comparison to how most single women, live and observing how most single women create homes that require far more work for up keep than men do... and im not even speaking about single moms with kids in the home. its why I carry a torch for frugal women as they are so underrate in my opinion.	/r/MensRights	04/08/24 08:02 PM
9	Why is there is not a MaleAdvocates subreddit? why the only MaleAdvocates subreddit has "LeftWing" in it? I agree with letting people being open to speak... harmful ideas don't go away when the mind that is harboring them is denied the voice to speak them. its only when bad ideas are challenge in the forge of discourse perhaps... that the harmful part of an idea can be treated and sanitized with accuracy ( truth ). in my observation, iv seen discourse on the left just result in shutting down the speaker, with shame and humiliation etc... silence opposition rather than weed out fallacies.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/07/24 10:42 PM
9	False rape accusations always being about "discrediting real victims" the irony is that, denying that false allegations happen, or minimizing that they happen, is in itself, also discrediting real victims. its hypocritical to the core.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/07/24 01:41 PM
5	How to be the “goddess of fun and light” when it’s not your personality? my grand ma used to say, that boring is an insult to intelligence... that's what your story reminds me of, your husband wants you to entertain him like you are some circus performer or something. he is not right in the head. it sounds like he wants to act single while being married to you. entitlement has over shadowed gratitude in your marriage in my opinion, and until that is addressed, trust that time is not going to fix anything.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/24 10:05 AM
2	Woman friends "I would try to take the high road" you know, sometimes being the bigger person, just makes you a bigger target. its important to call bullshit as you see it. establish you boundaries and be firm. you don't have to a jerk about it, yet you also don't have to be limp either... in my observation people ( not just women ) are guided to have the respect for you that you demonstrate to have for yourself. and by respect, I mean consideration... I see too many men become inconsiderate towards themselve…	/r/MensRights	29/07/24 08:59 PM
3	I fully, 100%, believe in a woman's right to choose. I also believe in a man's right to choose. Why is this a crazy take? that same argument could apply to women in dv situations. but we don't make that argument because it is inherently insensitive. not to mention a direct distraction to the problem of abuse.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/24 10:37 AM
7	I fully, 100%, believe in a woman's right to choose. I also believe in a man's right to choose. Why is this a crazy take? The 13th Amendment to the United States Constitution provides that "Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction." iv often wondered how forcing men into a 18 year contract, that strips him of his freedom to choose whether to be a father or not, just like the choice women have to choose to be a mother or not, does not constitute indentu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/24 10:30 AM
1	How’s life once check out of dating? one can not have reproduction, with out there first being production.	/r/MensRights	27/07/24 09:11 AM
3	Where do men find community/ belonging? perhaps the disconnect is attempting to socialize in the work place with the same manner you do in the private space? your time belongs to the place you work for, thats what they pay you for, your time and effort... attempting to go beyond that professional line, does not sound like it benefits you, so why make the effort? regardless, personally I advocate for more men to pick up a martial art, as not only is it a chance for men to bond... its also a path to self discovery/reflection. I usually …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/07/24 07:05 PM
1	How do women manipulate men into not getting a prenup? SIMPle, I think the reason, is based in the saying a man shouldn't cry... in my opinion, it has nothing to do with not expressing emotions, rather its about being emotionally accountable, being disciplined in practicing emotional self control... not giving into feelings and acting on them, but being aware of them as another source of information, much like seeing or hearing... when a man cant allow all his senses to align something up, he is more prone to miss important pieces of information tha…	/r/MensRights	10/07/24 01:07 PM
1	Now that I'm getting divorced, I'm remembering all those years where I was completely alone with no support and it was rough google martial art or boxing gyms in your area, get up and go pay a visit... sign up and get involved... what you need is less thought and more action... you been sitting in your feelings soaking in negative emotions, some may even be valid, but let me ask you, how does that serve you? how does that improve your life? from the sounds of it, you have been working to serve others, working to improve others lives... when were you fair to yourself last? go do something that gets your blood pumping, …	/r/MensRights	08/07/24 05:27 PM
1	How to let it go when I think he's wrong. focus on whats right, not who is right.. that who is right, thought process is a distraction to whats right..	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/23 06:55 AM