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| 1 | Man this shit sucksI hear you. I have often asked myself, if I had a Time Machine, what advice would I go back and give myself to have avoided this? Focusing on that has helped me keep myself on a path forward. At this point, I don’t want to say I’ve accepted the affair and everything after, but it’s the life I have now. The only thing I can control now is how i try to grow from it. I was always curious if it’s worse today for you because of the date? I know my unexpected grief comes from locations more than time … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Really happy after divorceI know I’m in the right spot if someone is bringing up selection bias ;-) | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/24 02:34 AM |
| 3 | STBXW expects me to happy and act like divorce is nothing?We have youngish kids, and we are still living together. She has a boyfriend and after just getting back from a week with him, wants to act like our relationship was before she told me. I know how crazy that all sounds after I type it, but it’s complicated…. Though I think there’s a lot of truth in dealing with guilt, as the hurt party- it’s also really easy for me see things only in black and white. Both for me and for her, I think there are a lot of situations where two very opposite feelings … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/24 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Accepting ItI feel this. I think we’re stuck for a year to save for the right housing. I am constantly trying to keep my kids as my North Star and if I can suck it up for a while, it will be easier on them, though I often feel like my life is on pause. The boundaries are hard though and just this week I think I’ve decided to stop wearing my ring. (About 3 months now since she told me she’s in love with someone else). That was a tough one but as many have pointed out-keeping it on felt more like I was foolin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the pain and regret of messing up your family and marriage?I know I have a lot of fault in what led to our separation. I often think back now to what advice I could give my younger self as a way of trying to understand it all. Worse, it’s not like I didn’t see therapists to try to fix things along the way, but what I know now is that I wasn’t ready to learn the hardest lessons. I kept repeating the same mistakes because of shame and the lack of my own courage. I made mistakes but it wasn't from lack of trying. If all of this was easy, there wouldn’t be … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/24 06:15 AM |
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