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Then he needs to date women who also don't want providers. Literally ask before the date "do you prefer to split the bill or for the man to pay?" If yours answers don't align, walk away
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:04 AM
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I've literally never done that. As I said, people need to date people they are compatible with. If you're a modern man, date a modern woman. As a traditional woman, I date traditional men so our expectations always align
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:52 AM
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I disagree. I am a traditional woman who believes men are providers. If could find a man attractive but if he doesn't pay on the first date, he's not the man for me. A lot dating struggles are because people date people who don't share their values. If you want to go dutch, date women who also feel the same way. But don't ask for a traditional, feminine woman, and the complain when she won't go dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:37 AM
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This is an interesting viewpoint and not something I had considered
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:19 AM
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It's not men's responsibility to meet women's expectations. I have made peace with the fact that i will either meet a man who meets my standards or I will remain single. But I cannot blame men for my being single. I could lower my standards if I wanted to. I don't want to!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:39 AM
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You don't have a legacy, you're not Henry VIII. And having children doesn't guarantee that you will have someone to take care of you in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:02 PM
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Several of my friends have come 'bisexual' overnight and say they much prefer the experience of dating women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:00 AM
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The term divorce rape is so offensive to rape victims. Bare in mind that 1 in 18 men will experience rape in their life!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:54 PM
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That's an interesting point of view. I moved around a lot and it had the opposite effect on me. It made me very social and a good conversationalist because I always had to get to know new people. But I'm a woman...so I wonder if gender effects this somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:01 PM
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Good for you! It's better to wait for the right person than to settle for the wrong person!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:06 PM
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I honestly love that for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:02 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that! Sending a virtual hug!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:25 PM
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Because women being able to work/have money is only a recent thing. For centuries, women were reliant on men so, understandably, they wanted a man with as much money as possible. Yes, that's changed but it takes a looooong time for social/cultural norms to catch up to legal and economic changes. Like how once racial segregation ended legally, it carried on for another 20 years before it stopped being a cultural norm. Maybe women will stop being interested in men's finances one day...but it won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:29 PM
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I'm sorry he violated your boundaries like that. Performing sex acts on someone without their consent is assault. I hope you are doing much better. Sending a virtual hug ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:10 PM
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The phrase "companion they like" is doing a lot of the heavy lifting here. Sure it's great to have a partner. But it's better to be single than to be with someone you don't like. Which is why women are increasingly turning away from men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:01 PM
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As someone who iis very familiar with Continental Europe (born in the UK, now lives in Germany), I disagree. Women here are far less traditional than America. Feminism practically runs through our blood
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:28 AM
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As a woman, can I just say, a pub quiz is a GREAT idea for a first date!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:29 AM
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The same thing anyone can do. You hope to find someone you can date and share a life with. If you do, you do. If you don't, you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:15 PM
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If someone gets the 'ick' because you show emotion that's not someone worth dating. I'm sorry to hear what happened. And please find someone worthy of you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:39 PM
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I was raped when I was 19 and never reported it. There are so many reasons people don't report. Not reporting, doesn't make it a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:18 AM
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I'm literally shocked at the news that women find police attractive. I thought everyone hated the police (women included). Or have things changed in the last year and I missed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:13 PM
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I'm not just talking about you. I'm talking about all men. And honestly there is no solution. Women don't have to date men they don't want to. For two people to date, both of them have to be interested. And if women aren't, well they just aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:11 PM
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Just because you want something doesn't mean you are going to get it. That's life. Please move on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:10 PM
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Fine, but theres no solution. You wasting tome complaining about something you can't do anything about, since you can't force people to like you. Surely, there's other things you can do. Like focus on the women who ARE interested in you (rather than those that aren't).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:08 PM
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Why don't you just date women who DO like you, rather than worrying about the ones who don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:01 PM
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Countires where its easiest to get laid or married, are places where women have few social/economic rights and oppurtunities and therefore must have a man for survival. Simple! Men struggle to date in Western Europe/US/Australia etc because women don't have to be with one. So unless one comes that makes their heart 'jump' they'll just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:26 AM
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I think they are saying that dating is not a solution to men's happiness because you can't guarantee someone will want to date you. Instead, men should find happiness OUTSIDE of romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:52 PM
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But maybe an autistic woman would like to date an autistic man because they have a shared understanding? Could make dating easier for them both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:50 PM
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I can't tell if this is sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:21 AM
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As a woman, I will admit that we aren't exactly 'winning' in this situation either. Most women do want a life partner. It's just that social changes mean we can't find one that meets our needs. So we are suffering too. We are just cooking with it better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:07 AM
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Historically, most men didn't marry/have children. It's just that those men were typically killed off (by war, illness etc). But now most people live to old age, there's a surplus of men (and women tbf) who would have been undesirable at any point in human history
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:04 AM
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I agree. I think it's because women have closer and more intimate friendships than men. I think if it became more acceptable for men to share their feelings, cuddle ect they would need women less too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:21 AM
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I don't know why so much time is dedicated to age differences. Most people on here can't get any relationship, let alone with a 20yo when they are 40+ It's a non issue!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:08 AM
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This one singular case is not reflective of the human population at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:13 AM
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I've heard the saying "If you want to do nothing it's easier to be a woman. If you want to do something it's easier to be a man"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:14 PM
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Are we talking about Internet dating specifically? Or the internet in general? Because the internet is an amazing source of information and a great medium of communication and accessibility. Surely you think it's had a net benefit on the world
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:12 PM
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Also, men are less picky about the women they date than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:29 AM
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As a woman I agree with you. Sure in many countries (like the Middle East, West Africa and South Asia) women's sexuality is shamed more than men's. But here, I think that men are ridiculed for being a virgin/sexless, than women are for having casual sex/a lot of sexual partners. And the reason is that men are just less picky than women. Despite what they say online, men still date, marry and start families with women who have "slept around". Women can always find a man to accept them, because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:29 AM
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Your problem is that you think because men have X standards that women should also have Y standards. But that's not how the world works. Everyone is free to want what they want. And it's NOT entitlement. Entitlement would be forcing someone to lower their standards to date you because you think you deserve someone. All women are saying is "this is what I want, and if I can't have it I will stay single". We have every right to do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:17 AM
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Two responses: A) I don't agree, I don't believe it's a judgement. But for the sake of argument, let's say it is. Well no matter how hurtful it is there's still nothing you can do, people have the right to reject you. I can't force those men to date me without violating their right to autonomy. The best thing to do is to be my best self and hope to find someone who does like me. And honestly, if no one in the world is interested in me...then tough! People have the right not to want me and I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:31 AM
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Are you joking? I've been rejected plenty of times. And of course it was disappointing. But the person rejecting me wasn't saying "I'm too good for you" they were just saying "I'm not attracted to you" or "I don't think we'd make a good couple" or "I don't enjoy your company". It's got nothing to do with being better than someone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:56 AM
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Rejection isn't a judgement against someone, it's a judgement against my interest in someone. I'm not saying "I think I'm too good for you" I'm saying "I'm not interested in you in a romantic capacity"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:50 AM
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You know how some people find random quirks attractive like birthmarks or moles, but they don't know why. It's because attractiveness can't be explained. I don't know why I don't find the average man attractive. I just don't. I don't know what's so hard about that to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:31 AM
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I never said that average men are "boring or worthless" you are putting words in my mouth. I am just not attracted to them. Are you attracted to women weigh 600lbs or women over 70? Can you help that? No!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:21 AM
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I don't know why I'm not attracted to average men. I'm just not. I can't control attraction anymore than men can. If everyone could control attraction of course I would date an average man because it'd be easier. But it's literally not in my control
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:15 AM
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So, women would rather be "anxious, depressed and lonely" than be with a man they don't want. Doesn't that tell you more about men, than about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:09 AM
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Not wanting to date someone doesn't mean I "I think I'm better than them". I'm just not attracted to them. Just like I'm not attracted to men with beards, but that doesn't mean I think a man with a beard is beneath me. I'm not spoiled and I don't think I'm the best. I just like what I like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:07 AM
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But I don't care that my dating pool is less than 1% of the population. You are missing the point. I would rather be single than with someone I don't like. So if I don't meet anyone it's fine. I'm not going to date someone I'm not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:05 AM
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The biggest downside to aging as a woman is that you become less attractive/visible to men. But I don't care how attractive men find me so aging has never bothered me. Once you divest from the male gaze and male validation you won't care about aging. It's very freeing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:14 AM
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Women (and men) are allowed to have whatever standards they like. Wanting a man who is 6''+ and earns 6 figures makes your dating pool smaller, but it's better to be single than to be with someone you don't like. Unfortunately, men would rather be with a woman they don't like than be single. But that's YOUR problem. Stop trying to make it ours
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:08 AM
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I'm a single 26 yo woman and I haven't had sex in 18 months. We do exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:07 PM
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Fresh and Fit are grifters. Fresh said that "family is the cornerstone of society" yet he's dodging fatherhood. He said "women over 25+ are over the hill" yet Daisy is in her early 30s. Like Pearl, they say what lonely, desperate young men want to hear because a fool and his money is easily parted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:34 PM
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You should be kind to women, treat them respectfully etc. You just also need to be attractive to them. It's the same for men. A woman could cook, clean and take care of you. If you are not attracted to her, you won't be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:39 AM
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Be honest. How many women do you know who encourage girls to start Only Fans when they turn 18? Are they also sex workers? Because I can't think of anyone I know in real life, who would encourage a teenager to undertake sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:07 PM
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A male celebrity for sure! Not only is the quantity higher, but the quality of potential partners is also greater!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:49 PM
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I'll be dead by the time the collapse comes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:43 PM
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Why don't men sacrifice men for society's needs? Men could drop out of the workforce to become stay at home dads. Sure, they'd be totally reliant on women for financial security...but who cares! It's for the good of society ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:57 PM
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So what's your solution? Other than to remove women's right to education and force us outside of the workplace? What else are you trying to imply with your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:39 PM
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No, but I would herald a guess that the majority of women feel the same way I do. If they didn't you would see swathes of women, abandoning their education and careers to push out babies. And yet that's not happening. My view is reflective of society!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:56 PM
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Great explanation! And sorry to hear about your assault. The same thing happened to me when I went on my first date at 19. Standing in solidarity with you ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:53 PM
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If men are lonely, they should focus on building friendships with other men. Clearly, begging women to date them isn't working. Try something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:50 PM
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The falling birth rate is only an issue because the 'boomer' generation is usually large and can't be supported by the generations coming after it. Once the boomers are dead, the population issues will calm down. Also - I don't give a shit if it's causing population collapse. I'm not going to forfeit an education, abandon my career and settle down with a man I'm not attracted too to "sAvE" SOciETy".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:49 PM
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Honestly there is no 'key' to success in dating. Dating is a game of trial and error with winners and losers. You can do everything right and still lose. Like everything else in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:36 AM
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Yeah, I bought my first home with my sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:08 AM
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"Subjected"? Women don't owe you their company. If a boy at school didn't want to play with you, would you feel entitled to their time and attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:20 PM
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There are benefits to being in a relationship. But I always say, I don't know hear of anyone who died because they were single, but I hear of many women who were murdered by a partner. I guess it's just a cost v benefits issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:03 PM
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When my cousin was 23 she started dating a 44 year old man. No one flipped out more than her father (my uncle)! He literally forced her to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:09 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, women couldn't commit to a 'sex strike' after Roe v Wade was overturned. So we're just as useless too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:57 PM
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That's incredible! Thank you for making a difference! And I'm not doing anything for the boys around me as I'm a woman. But I'm doing plenty for the women and girls around me
/r/MensRights27/03/24 06:16 AM
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Okay, well in that case if the woman was interested wouldn't she "present" herself to the guy again later. But somehow that never seems to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:19 PM
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Women are not passive when they are interested in a man. Doesn't everyone on this sub say that women will literally murder each other to get to the top 20% of men. You guys contradict yourselves all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:42 PM
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I think less people are getting married in the first place, leading to less divorces. But relationships still break down more. Which is why we have more single parent homes than ever, but less divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:39 PM
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How??? Are they physically restraining her or something? If she wanted to talk to you she would
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:46 PM
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Well yeah no one is attracted to weakness. More news at 6
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:43 PM
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Yeah of course that can happen I'm not denying that. Women have the freedom to pick their partners, so now they are selecting who they want and when they want them. If someone better comes along, the woman might leave. I'm not saying it's right...I'm just saying that's what happens now (and it didn't happen before because women didn't have any rights)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:38 AM
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For most of human history men were "given" women. They didn't have to put in effort, all they had to do was exist and a woman (who couldn't feed or house herself without a man) would marry them. Now men have to prove their worth to women, and they can't seem to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:12 AM
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Err, the census will tell you that it's not working. Spending on public services and maternity/post-maternity Cass has gone up since 1977 but the birth rate has steadily gone down
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:03 PM
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I love in Germany and funding social services doesn't encourage women to have children. They are literally THROWING money at women to have babies and it's not working. In my team at work there are 9 women aged 25-48 and not one of us has a child. Its not a money thing, it's a cultural thing. Truth is when offered a choice, not as many women want kids as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:52 PM
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Yeah, they are raised believing it's their duty to "replace those lost to the Holocaust". Once upon a time, Western women were also ingrained to believe it was their duty to reproduce but that's gone now. And that's why birth rates are falling because the social pressure is gone. Anyone saying it's because it's "too expensive" is lying to themselves, some of the poorest people have the most kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:45 PM
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Oh totally agree! My parents were happily (at least I think so) married and my dad just decided he wanted someone else. Very selfish!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:10 PM
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Do you have any data to back that up? Or is that something you've just pulled out your arse? Because I've never heard anyone say a single parent household is better than a healthy, two parent household.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:08 PM
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Wow! I'm sorry you went through that! I hope you and your mother are away from him. And wishing you both peace and healing ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:07 PM
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Everyone knows a 2 parent family is best for a child. My mother knew it, my father knew it. But that didn't stop him walking out when I was 8 to start a new family with another woman. People don't always do what's best for their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:31 AM
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For centuries, men stood in the way of femininsm. Women were imprisoned, lobotomized and even outcasted for advocating for gender justice. What's men excuse? And genuine question...but what are you doing to help men? Because whenever I ask men this question they say "nothing". They don't volunteer, they don't donate money, they don't mentor. Meanwhile every woman I know is involved in something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:04 AM
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I live in Germany and you couldn't be more wrong. European women (particularly, Germans, Swedes, Danish and Dutch) are far from feminine and subservient. Feminism is practically interwoven into the culture here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:54 AM
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Feminism is about freeing women from gender based oppression. The manosphere is about helping men get laid. Don't ever don't compare them! Ironically, there is a need for a movement addressing male inequality i.e. homelessness, high prison population, mental health/suicide rates. But unlike women, men won't bother. They'd rather moan about women online than do things to help themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:37 AM
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"Women you have spoken to" is hardly an accurate dataset. Look at the U.S census. The majority of women are employed (across races, religions, age groups).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:15 PM
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That isn't true. More women go to university than men now. Do you think women are studying for 3-5 years just be a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:59 AM
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Dating is a game of survival of the fittest. It's fine that some men (and women tbh) ill never find a partner or reproduce. It's been like that throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:54 AM
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Men should always offer to pay for dates. If she's happy to split the bill, then offering doesn't hurt your chances. But if she's not, then you are still in the game! So always offer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:51 AM
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Well I'm certainly not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:51 PM
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I think I am one. And that's enough. Others might not agree but that doesn't bother me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:50 PM
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Yeah, thats fine for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:00 PM
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I think I am. But you (and many other men) might disagree and that's fine. Regardless of whether I am 'average' I will not settle. I would sooner stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:27 AM
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Honestly, I don't care if the wall is real or not. I'm not settling down with an average or below average man in my 20s just in case I "hit the wall". Who cares if men like me less in 10 or 20 years? As long as I like myself that's all that matters. Ladies, don't worry about the wall. Single is better than settling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:49 PM
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You can't get married and date around. Unless you have a reallyyyy open minded husband... and in that case go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:43 PM
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Yeah I get that it's better fertility wise, but it's worse by every other measurable standard. Also, you don't have to conceive and carry a child to term to start a family. IVF, surrogacy and adoption all exist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:42 PM
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Honestly, I'd be unhappy if one of my friends got married in their early 20s - and not out of jealousy. To me your 20s are for enjoying life, building your career, travelling, dating around NOT for marriage and/or children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:40 PM
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If you are lucky enough to have found a good partner, bought a house and have an etablished career so you can afford childcare in your 20s CONGRATULATIONS HAVE A KID. But for most ppl that's unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:33 PM
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If it helps, being sleep deprived at any age sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:44 PM
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But what's wrong this having different rules for Chad (aside for Chris Brown ofc, abuse is never acceptable)? Of course you'll be more open minded if the man is good looking. Men do the same to women. They ignore a woman's red flags because she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:05 PM
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For arguments sake, let's say attraction can be controlled and is influenced by the things you have suggested. Even then, why blame women for their attraction? They don't control the media, they don't control how much attention they get from 'Chad'. So why are men angry at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:02 PM
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I understand that. My question is why do men blame women for this occurrence when attraction is out of our control?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:25 PM
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I'm not lonely. I'm surrounded by people who love me. If men are lonely as a result of women choosing to stay single, then they need to invest in their friendships with other men. Just like I invested in my friendships with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:23 AM
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That may very well be the case. But I'm happy to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:54 PM
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I'm not competing with anyone. I'm just choosing to stay single until the right man comes along. If that means I'm single forever. So be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:23 AM
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I don't think you should change your politics for a relationship. But as politics becomes more and more adversarial, men who aren't progressive/liberal will find themselves with a smaller dating pool. So you can stand your ground on your beliefs, just be aware of the consequences for your dating/sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:33 AM
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Mass immigration will give desirable men and women more dating options. This is because dating is a numbers game and the more people available to you, the greater chance you have of finding a match. However, if you are an incel/femcel it will have no impact on you whatsoever. Immigrants who have the freedom to date freely will be attracted to the Chads/Beckys like everyone else. And immigrants from more conservative cultures will marry via arranged marriages just like their culture dictates to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:14 PM
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Yes! But if a man believes he's the father he's supporting the child (not the government). Paternity testing would lead to thousands more children needing support than we currently have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:16 AM
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I've said this before but the government will never introduce mandatory paternity tests at birth. Why? Because the government would rather a man believe he's the father and financially support a child...than for the government to have to financially support the child. You are all flogging a dead horse. It will never happen!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:31 PM
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I've always said this. If anything my mother would love me to settle down with a responsible and successful older man. But the thought of dating anyone over 30 makes me want to vomit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:33 PM
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Danny Masteron was found guilty after a fair trial. Physical evidence and eye witness testimony was used to convict him. Nobody just "took the victims word" he had a trial during which he was found GUILTY
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:39 AM
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There's a HUGE WGTOW movement in South Korea called the 4B movement. 4B literally means "the four no's" and members do not take part in dating, sex, childrearing or marriage. But unlike men who bitterly sit around and complain about women, the 4B women are just enjoying their lives... travelling, developing their careers, building friendships etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:32 AM
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Firstly, what does demanding to be treated like a 10 mean??? You shouldn't be treating people based on their looks. All people deserve to be treated with equal levels of respect Secondly, it's not our fault that men value themselves different to us. Instead of encouraging women to think less of themselves, maybe you should encourage men to think more of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:41 PM
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But what's the problem with women thinking they are a 10?I understand you might not think I am a 10 (everyone is entitled to their opinion) but if I think I am, how does that effect you in any way? Whats the problem???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:34 PM
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They can test for disabilities before the baby is born now. And if she's too old for have babies biologically, adoption exists
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:35 AM
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Why do you NEED women to admit this so badly though??? You already know it's true. So what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:32 AM
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I would tell her not to prioritize dating in her teens and 20s. Instead, I'd encourage her to focus on her career and education, and to do things that make you a well rounded person like travel. Any dating in her 20s should be 'casual' and treated more like an opportunity to discover what she likes and what she doesn't like in a man. I wouldn't encourage her to pursue marriage and children until her 30s (if that's what she wants). And I would suggest she date men in her economic and education br…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:20 AM
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You mention that you get a lot of "hate DMs" but can I just say I've seen a few of your posts on here and they are always so intelligent, balanced and well researched. So F the haters! I really respect and enjoy your comments. (26 Female btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:06 PM
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Yes, I don't think we should shame people for not having friends. I have a great social life now, but growing up I struggled to have friends because we were always moving for my dad's job (I went to 8 different schools growing up). Not everyone who lacks friends is "weird"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:00 PM
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Guys it's Christmas. Take a day off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:59 PM
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Exactly! Most rapes take place without any witnesses and DNA only proves that sex took place - not whether or not it was consensual. So it's very hard to prove rape despite the fact that only 2-6% of reported rapes are likely to be false
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:23 PM
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She's right! Less than 1% of reported rapes leads to a conviction https://www.city.ac.uk/news-and-events/news/2022/04/new-scorecards-show-under-1-of-reported-rapes-lead-to-conviction-criminologist-explains-why-englands-justice-system-continues-to-fail
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:14 PM
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Somewhere I wonder where you guys live because I live between two big European capital cities (London and Berlin) and that's far from the case. Not only is no one in their late 20s/early 30s married, but most of them are still single. And this isn't just my friends.. this goes for my family members, colleagues literally everyone I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:07 PM
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The government will never support financial abortion because if the father doesn't pay for the child...the government will have to. And they aren't having that! It's a lost cause!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:14 PM
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I read that less than 2% of the U.S population have ever engaged in sex work. Suprise, suprise...most women are not on Only fans!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:58 AM
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Neither. I'm from the Carribbean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:44 PM
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A poor man can still work so he would still be an option for a poor woman. A poor woman's only other option would be starvation. Obviously, women could choose to stay single and go hungry...but whose going to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:00 PM
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Poor women still had to marry because they couldn't provide for themselves as women couldn't work. So if you wanted food and a roof over your head you had to marry. Obviously, when food and shelter is on line you'll be willing to take a short man with a thinning hairline and buck teeth. Now not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:55 PM
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Hit the nail of the head. There have always been undesirable men who never married or fathered children (that's why we have more female ancestors than male ancestors). But in the past these men were used as canon fodder and killed in war. I read that Napoleons wars alone were responsible for killing 6 million men. But now these men live to old age and want a partner like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:53 PM
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Then men possess no empathy for men either. How many of you volunteer at homeless shelters, suicide chatlines, or big brothers programmes? How many of you write to your state or Parliamentary representative to raise awareness of men's issues? How many of you regularly donate to male charities? How many of you invest time in male younger members of your family, giving them guidance and advice? I do all the female equivalent things to help women because I'm a woman. I don't know any men who do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:47 PM
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Most women want to date within their age bracket (the last UK census said the most common age difference was 1-3 years). So yes it's hard to find young woman interested in older men. It's not impossible. But it's certainly hard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:41 PM
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No. But my great grandma was married off at 18 (to an older man) and had 6 children by 25. My great grandfather beat her throughout their marriage. Luckily he fell of roof and died at 40 (he was a builder). But she couldn't leave him because it wasn't the done thing. I'm glad that's not my life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:38 PM
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Men have always been dangerous so that's nothing new. I'm not going to date men I'm not attracted to just in case men might turn violent
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:33 PM
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The problem isn't apps. Women have always been attracted to good looking men, because attractive people attract people. I don't use apps and I still won't date a man I don't find attractive because I don't have to!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:31 PM
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I'm much happier now that I can choose my partner, even if I never end up with a partner as a result. I'd much prefer to be single forever then marry a man I don't like or am not sexually attracted to because I'm socially or economically required to do so. So yes, it feels like a glorious emancipation to me. And I'd bet my life a lot of women agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:29 PM
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I will obey mmy husband if he pays me £65,000 annually (my current income) gives me 28 days annual leave, sick leave and only requires me to obey him from 9-5. If he can do all that, then I'm open to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:06 PM
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A full time working women does not get alimony. That is not true!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:00 PM
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For the first time in human history, women are CHOOSING their partners rather than marrying them because they are socially or economically required to do so. It's not that women's desires have changed, it's that they can finally act on their desires. Even if we fix issues like our economic problems and encourage people to be more sociable, many men (and also women) will still be left out of the dating market. Because marriage is no longer a requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:59 PM
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But how is refusing to date someone/rejecting them "wronging them" (as long as you go about it politely)?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:34 PM
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Yup! My parents are 5 years apart but it doesn't matter because they met in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:45 PM
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And so can you. The gay sex industry is HUGE. There's nothing stopping you from bending over for a rich or lonely man either. But you won't do it, will you? Because you know that sex work is not nearly as easy as you are making out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:45 AM
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A lot of men would die in wars and that helped reduce the number of men who would remain single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:46 PM
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