Chatargoon Archive

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1	Best ways of cold approaching While I'm not giving any advice as I'm the last person that should. Mike Mehlman who used to be a PUA that put out content focused on doing mass day time approaches said that he found after doing thousands and thousands of approaches that things like eye contact are really not good indicators of a female being willing to give you her number or 'hook up'. You can talk to a lady who seems really into you and she doesn't give you her number. You can talk to a lady that doesn't seem that interested …	/r/seduction	03/05/25 06:00 AM
2	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches He's simply a person that has posted tons of content and has hooked up with thousands of women and has done tens of thousands of approaches. It's like someone discussing basketball fundamentals mentioning Kobe Bryant and someone accusing that person of shilling. His advice is very similar to OP. Being direct and persistent from the beginning reveals whether she will hook up, not your needy rapport building tactics which is essentially fear of rejection. You are simply advocating that you can get…	/r/seduction	14/03/24 04:22 AM
4	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches Being direct and persistent immediately reveals whether the female is in the state to hook up. Your idea that perceived rapport is what makes the female hook up is the novice mistake that Mike constantly discusses.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 04:16 AM
2	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches The idea that your going to convince every female through rapport and vibing to like you is stupid. You are simply afraid of rejection. You are the one assuming a number of things he never even said. As I said, Mike Mehlman has found through his macro approach volume that a girls level of perceived interest means nothing. So no one is ejecting because the person doesn't appear interested, the person is ejecting because after being direct and persistent, the female still refuses. That's okay move…	/r/seduction	14/03/24 04:11 AM
2	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches The thing is I'm not advocating myself, I'm mentioning a person that has actually hooked up with hundreds time more woman than you have lol A guy that actually produces content showing his success and has helped many guys. You are advocating yourself yet have zero proof of any success. Once again are you telling me that in a busy street where there are a hundred attractive ladies and you walk up to approach every one of them, that you are going to hook up with more than 20 of them? That's where …	/r/seduction	14/03/24 03:46 AM
2	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches He's being direct and persistent immediately. Shit tests usually occur at the beginning of the convo and the frame battle is in every conversation. That's why being direct is the key. Most positive outcomes are going to require perseverance in cold approach. He never said it doesn't. The person who is going to persevere the longest is the person most willing to be rejected. Mike Mehlman found with his macro approach volume that a girls initial reaction to him didn't play a factor in whether she …	/r/seduction	14/03/24 03:31 AM
2	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches If your fine with staying in your comfort zone that's you. But if a guy wants to get to a point where he's able to approach any woman he finds attractive at any point of the day, he's going to incur rejection.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 03:14 AM
4	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches Your are advocating your neediness by your fear of rejection. So Mike racking up 80 contacts in a day with maybe 5 to 10 of those girls hooking up is pathetic? And your doing more than that lol normal guys are not doing that. He could easily stop and just hook up with the hundreds of girls he's been with. But as I said, he's also missing out on 99.9 percent of the woman out there. Are we to believe you approach any woman you see and she naturally hooks up with you. That's what we call crap lol	/r/seduction	14/03/24 03:02 AM
2	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches What's the problem? Your making something that isn't a problem into one.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 02:37 AM
3	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches Unfortunately Mike Mehlman deleted his blog and YouTube page. You can still find some of his content here. https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/mikemehlmannet-mike-mehlman-5GfrISnJDY2/?sort=recent_first Mike has actually approached tens of thousands of woman over a decade. He did sometimes over 300 approaches in a day and get over 80 contacts. He advocates persistence in interaction as well. His experience based on a macro volume that you will never match is that rejection is the norm. I'm going…	/r/seduction	14/03/24 02:30 AM
2	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches Where did he say that he was unwilling to do anything you said? Where did he say he was going after the easiest girls when he's theoretically approaching any women he finds attractive lol His advice is similar to Mike Mehlman.Once you start approaching any given day or at night at a club, you will develop after a few approaches what Mike calls situational audacity or what RSD calls sacrificing the lamb, where after that boost or warm up you will naturally do all the things you listed. Another th…	/r/seduction	14/03/24 02:08 AM
1	How has your anxiety towards approaching in public (day game) changed over time? So first of all, I'm not anything. But Mike Mehlman is a great resource but he's taken down all of his content for some reason. He's the day game expert who has answered this question. I've noticed that people on this sub hate on his principles for some reason yet no one has done has many approaches as he has. Guy literally does hundreds of approaches everyday for 8 years or so. His answer is its like muscle, you don't use, you lose. So yes according to him, you would reset back to normal state.…	/r/seduction	01/03/24 11:06 PM