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| 1 | Getting girls is easyHmm, well, some of these guys smash with whoever, some do not smash with any of them. You ask a very good question, 'what is meant by calibre'. As for differences, I like the explanation that women have more to consider as biologically they potentially will carry a child for 9 months, then have the actual baby. That requires a certain man choice. Guys biologically can just inseminate girl after girl every night pretty much endlessly. So women will generally be pickier, where men's standards can … | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Getting girls is easyOk I had to take a few moments to really laugh, but in short I'd say definately yes. A few details though: First, be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. Along with a whole bunch of other stuff that can't be taken back. By that I mean a lot of emotional stuff you don't expect will generally appear on both sides, but the one that will be blown away emotionally will be you. Not that that warning would stop anybody, ha ha. But yeah. I'd say in a bar scene, gym/sports scene, house party… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls is easyThat's how I see it happening, it might be different for you. I have seen many approaches on my GQ guy friends, and in zero instances were any of the approachers as pretty, or to the calibre that my friends either currently had, or typically had. Not saying my freinds didn't sleep with any of them, they definately did. Bro | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Getting girls is easyYes I agree. I have friends that girls come up to consistently out of nowwhere, and blatantly take a shot. These girls literally just like vaporize into existence right there somehow. But. imho, generally (say 90% of time) these are not quality females though. They either want a ride (i.e. get laid), a good story or experience, or they legit are shooting out of their league, imho. We also now know that the top 10% of Chads on Tinder literally match with 80% of the females on Tinder. Something li… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 10 | Getting girls is easyYou mean eye contact that looks attractive, like seductive, valentino eyes. This I do not know. Actually I am quite unpretty and not seductive looking at all. But I can tell you this: imho the key to eye contact is a.) you are actually a guy that can maintain strong eye contact (it's rarer than you might think), and b.) when you draw her in with strong eye contact you create a small world where it's just you and her, and women just really like that sort of thing. At the minimum it's more natural… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Getting girls is easyok so consider this: the classical pua stuff, dhv, negs, push pull, teasing, escalation, frame control, logistics etc., is really just a toolbox. I can market a toolbox to say, build a creative plane, or build one of many kinds of small rockets that you could put a camera on, and anyone in to that can buy that toolkit, have fun, and build a wide variety of planes or rockets that can fly. Yeah ok bear with me it's best analogy I can think of right now. Either way you'll use a screwdriver here and… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Did my first cold approach todayCongrats! I'm super proud of you! Yeah, I auto-bailed probably my first 5 or 10 approaches. Because it's nerve racking as h3ll right? I must tell you that staying-in is incredibly easy to me now, and I am presently seriously working on escalation. The fact you stayed in the cut for 3 hours! and then STILL managed to approach says a lot of good things about you. That's a long time to be in your head, so good job for staying on your goal for sure. Very important. She asked you to sit down! That's … | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 4 | A Simple Way to Build Attraction from ScratchYes these are some classics. I've run into girls lately that get irritaed by direct push pull. last week some chick literally said "your push pull shtt doesn't work on me". Boom, I had to totally and I mean totally change the direction of that conversation like super fast. I have also noticed that you are kind of push pulling each other the entire time anyway. It seems like. They pull away and then you pull away slightly. That draws them back in, and then you deliver more goodies (attention humo… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | So confused by how this interaction panned outI'd play this one a bit casual now, and maybe text the next time you both are likely to go out (soon like this weekend). I like Visions Mr. Perfect line. Since you have nothing to lose, you could experiement here. Always refer to yourself as Mr. Perfect for a while. I'd probably throw a line about fate and you two meeting. Say stuff like hey we just might be soul mates. I'd say stuff like come out before someone steals Mr. Perfect heart away from you, stuff like that and etc. We just don't know … | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Being a woman destroyed my chance for happiness and made me in a permanently depressive state.Real world is quite different from what is portrayed on the interwebs. On the net you have to sift through 95% garbage before you find any useful or truthful thoughts. Most of the time people are ranting through their emotional states having little to do with actual flesh and blood experiences and interactions with others. Go forth and love men! I mean be careful, but definately don't let the stuff you read out here drag down your emotional state, most of these people are locked to their keyboar… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | First cold approach got freindzoned.this girl was being flirty and fun, and your banter was on point. you are too young for me is a good one, you needed something there but all good. friend zone this early not a problem, can keep flirting-- | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 10:02 AM |
| 6 | What is an effective pick up line or opener that you have used successfully to meet women?make a comment about her or the situation happening at the moment my last three that led to phone numbers yesterday: "you waiting for a lyft, where are you going" "i'm not sitting here, no worries" "you guys know whats happening next door?" yep, these are not impressive! but they worked very easily. the lyft one was literally by a lyft sign at an airport, but since we both were waiting for a rides this was an easy one. the conversation went really well and i asked for her contact info after she … | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 09:35 AM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Second Continued: But lessons from bar #2 are: Get through the open and just keep going: In many ways it doesn't matter what you say, the action is all the other stuff. Say normal conversation items for the situation, dont say anything weird or stupid (like "you look pretty", "do you come here often", or any cheezy line, "you look so hot" No, No and No). Just be in the range of normal (if not slightly edgy or outrageous) here. Be aware that girls ALWAYS notice you first, and they are formulating… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Continued: Example: On a three bar run, my wing and I approach bar number #2. Outside there, milling about, were several people, but I see 3 semi-attractive females smoking. They were perfectly ok, but not upper shelf. No big deal you never know. Without skipping a beat I ask for a cigarette from the one closest to me. All three girls react with great suspicion and literally retract back slightly, with somewhat concerned faces. Oops, i just f*cked up. You don't roll up to girls and just ask for … | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.You watched the vid! You are 100% correct: Spinning through both of those vids or other Denmo's there were actually only a couple/few of girls giving back what I would consider workable responses in terms of romance, you are correct there, and he doesn't show us his bombs, and I am sure there were at least a few. As for cringe he does admit it! Then again these are rando lines people suggest in his comments or whatever and he just throws them. This is also day game here as opposed to night game.… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:11 PM |
| 3 | How do I approach a group of girls.this kind of reminds me of Jack Denmo's stuff accuser open: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XDzsNOQEYjQ&t=311s rolling in rando with just ask me out already: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onzfc7exUDM&t=129s I could probably find more but I seriously gotta run | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a group of girls.nah this would work as an opener easy. I wouldn't bring up the word "approach" per se, not like this, but I would make up a reason why I broke in and then accuse someone of something | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Love it | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a group of girls.I like approaching groups of girls quite a bit. This is because once you break open their little girl-sphere there is so much going on. The high intensity multiple action is just plain fun. I probably use The_Pierrminator's style the most. I barrel in without a target, hit the entire group with my eyes, that is each girl directly in their eyes in some way, then measure how each girl is responding to me and how. But while you do this you need to be saying something! Ha ha examples below. I do lik… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 08:57 PM |
| 2 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.It was really fun. Not all were lay closes, only 2, 4 girls gave me O.S., I returned the favor to 1 ha ha. 2 was just messing around kissing or teasing in some way, and the another 2, well for those 2 turns out we were better off as friends! Craziest one was a girl living with her parents still, and I had to tip toe in after every one was alseep. Wood floors, bedroom doors right across from each other, brother in the next room, all doors wide open! We had to be so, so quiet. Super exciting and f… | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Any tips to help me lose my virginity in a few months?I'd say don't drink that night at all, just water or whatever, but since you have a few months yet, start working up small, private flirtations with all the girls you like. Like roll up and say "hey that outfit/color/whatever looks great on you! get more like that!" or any type of of positive casual observation you notice. The idea is to build up fun and playful vibes with everyone so when the party happens everyone knows your fun and will have already been thinking about you either some or a lo… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:12 PM |
| 3 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.seems like when you first learn how to do it and are getting better and better, it's a lot of fun. After a while you get to higher levels as a person though right. No need to go run a 10 right now, still OP's and comments helped me with some of my slight stickings points, no doubt-- | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.love it! gotta give back what a journey right | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:45 PM |
| 4 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.I appreciate your views on this. It's a bit extreme I agree, but in our 20's and early 30's guys have the motivation to date quite a bit if they know how to do it. Most guys just don't know how. Girls in their early 20's date a lot more than this though, because they can double and triple stack dates routinely, where seems to me guys plan one date and then can go out later if nothing happens. The difference imo is that guys are generally open to something happening on one date, so it's harder to… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 4 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.The post sounds incredible, but that said I went ten days in a row sleeping in different girls beds, with the rule that I could not sleep in the same girl's bed on consecutive nights. Since I had to leave each day, I came back to my place and wrote the highlights on a calender. But to do this you do have to work up to it. At first I'd did this two or three nights just on a fluke. After a few times of that, I broke 5 nights once, and just decided to try to see how many nights I could go until I w… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:28 PM |
| 3 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youI was just seeing if realhuman would answer this. So you usually can tell when a girl is attracted to you, with you as a beginner, from their eyes. Later you will pick up on other cues. But if they open their eyes up a bit wider than a normal look when looking at you, they like you. If they have the look like they just drew in a breath, and are wanting to say something, and with their eyes wide open, they like you. The other one, as a beginner to look for is if they come around you. Youre doing … | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youinner game, outer, game, simple approaches in everyday sitautions with everyone. Start see what you do right and wrong. After several chats you will start to see it. Make it to that point and you'll know you can make it home. I love game! | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | This sub is probably cock-blocking yougotta learn how to recognize when a girl is attracted to you though. Dude said he was bad a reading emotions. How should we indicate to dude how to recognize when a girls is attracted? | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youI feel ya. I went though a stage where I skipped the teases and straight said mean things to girls when I didn't get the response I wanted. I couldn't beleieve it when the hottest girl in the venue got super hurt by what I said, and just stared at me all night. The second time, the prettiest girl in the venue of the whole evening for everybody stared at me all night, all the way until 2 a.m. close outside the bar. During the night she even came up multiple times and started explaining why she wa… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youI have trouble remembering every detail on the fly. Once I confirm each idea or concept in the field it becomes automatic though. Getting through that period where you are matching the concepts to what is happening in real time can be daunting, but what is already working is so fun you can't wait to do it again. I agree a lot of the stuff on this sub is that early stage "get out there you can do it" level stuff. I know a few naturals to, it's fun to see what they do naturally versus what is taug… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youI must agree. And fighting is a good comparison. We think we can fight like a m.f. , we study it and talk about it until someone tells us to get up in that ring. Then we go all out-of-body until we get punched, then we are like oh shtt! I gotta start throwing now! So I agree, to learn how to fight, you gotta get in the ring. To learn how to approach, you gotta approach. Before you get good, you're gonna take a few hits, no doubt, right in front of everybody. But after several fights you're prett… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 03:15 PM |
| 2 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youI'm at the stage of working specific gambits. What's strange is when I am in the middle of a technique and the girl bust my shtt and throws me off and I have to quickly dig myself out of a mess. Super tough right now because half the time the girl straight jets! Remembering the material for all the situations on the fly still takes me a minute. Guess I better get back out there and work on it. Working daily tasks right now though... | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youYes I have about 15% of the stuff here is useable, a lot is just repeated with attitude. Anyone want to save a lot of time (months and months) and you got a few grand, you can always hook up with the PUA guys. I'm just sayin'. I studied for a couple years as well, read The Game and the whole bit, but NOTHING compared to just getting out 'in the field' as they say. Didn't know at the time The Field is anything out your front door! Gottta love it | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 3 | This sub is probably cock-blocking youIMHO there is a large chasm between the written material and approaching. A lot in this sub is just repeated info and it's easy to tell who is actually making progress out there. 10%-15% of the stuff here is useful though, and sometimes you can't get in the field, so hey I agree it works for me sometimes too-- | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doSorry about that cool girl. Why is love so risky! | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:12 PM |
| 6 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?well that's true, but that's a small pool of girls to select from, plus the girl to guy ratio does not help they guys. But what you are saying is very true, don't get me wrong | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Actually that's not true, but I understand what you are saying, and where you are coming from | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 6 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?I tried all 3. Money eventually made me a target and I had to start dodging money grubbers. Drugs. Ok drugs were fun. A lot of fun. But all those people literally got pregnant unmarried multiple times, got thrown in jail multiple times, or died. Fast cars, still like those, but for girls first a show them my old beat up truck! Ha ha I love doing that. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:29 PM |
| 5 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Dude, you are a badass. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doIMPRESSIVE. any particular section or just around? | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:13 PM |
| 13 | Feel intimidated by attractive women, not sure how to fix it.How do you change your mindset, hmm. Ok how about this: A pretty girl has a lot of problems too. She gets creeped on and hit on all day long every day when she is not covering up in a wide varety of cool and uncool ways. Ultimately, for interactions she likely prefers people to just be normal and to be cool. Pretty much like we all do, more or less. If it's specifically extremely attractive women that intimidate you, first recognize that's a bit shallow, on your part. It's perfectly fine don't g… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to doI feel like I'm following you around your own thread. I forgot to say GYMS!!! Definately the gym. You can take a slower place because you start to see some of people more and more often... | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to doMeeting people in the library huh, haven't tried that yet. You really think so though? | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to doI agree "hooked up" is kind of vague | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:16 AM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doI'm catching downvotes here. It's probably just as well, all my stuff definately works and I live it, but I agree not everyone should know it | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to doYes if you have the chance, travel around, and either way get better with being in unfamilar, slightly challenging situations. After you do many things a bit out of your comfort zones, you will come up with an overall way of carrying yourself that expresses confidence no matter where you might be. This comes in quite handy because in social situations you can always be observed, and so you will naturally develop a confident persona | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doFamily is always tricky so finger crossed, thanks for this. Yeah we'll see about that burger ha ha | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:41 AM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to dothat's so wild! I know in the midwest there are secret clubs that are huge open rooms and various other rooms where anyone can bone out in full view. Group, couple, whatever. I have a buddy who loves to do this, my boy likes the group thing. Apparently you can just watch, or if all is consented bone out with whoever! | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to dokpop does bring up one valid point to consider here. If you are walking around bending over checking out wasted girls, with no drink in hand and perfectly alert, that might draw a certain attention and interpretation of what you are doing. Although it's fine to stand by your values and represent them, we are in a social environment and we can consider going with some of the flow if we everyone is just trying to have a good time. i didnt down vote this, I do not down vote any comments from anyo… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to doWell I dont think Sunshine is saying to stay sober and find a wasted chick. But I agree that it may look that way if you have nothing in your hands and you are just walking around talking to wasted girls. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to doImho just do what feels comfortable to you. I don't think girls or anyone would suddenly called you a beta liar just because you were drinking a soda water. There is also no great need to declare your manliness by stating you don't drink to appear alpha. If you want the do cheers with people with your coke or soda water to pump up the party vibe than do it. You want to state you don't drink, do that. Either way, this is not a major point to worry about imho. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 12:26 AM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doI havent met a girl like this yet, but I would certainly take shot ha ha | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doWhoa, that actually helps me quite a bit. I'm gald you said this. I've been like "well... when he is ready..." like I've been waiting for him to make the first move. I definately need to try to see what up with him overall right quick and work it through with him... Yes this definately helps | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doYes all true statements. When you learn approach, you start to see that most girls have this weird almost like checklist to do their screenouts. After you learn them you just avoid those behaviors in yourself, then you are the one doing the selecting. It's hard to believe but after you do it so many times youre like "hmm. maybe its true, this seems to work". But after do this with the hottest possible girls in the entire city at night, girls that have played a starring roles in countess, endless… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to doI have met the coolest girls in bookstores. I talk loud, so I had to dial down my voice, but sometimes even the book or section the girl is checking out is great info. If you like Christian girls you can tell that, or artzy chicks, or interior designers etc etc. Plus it's easy to play off why you are talking to them so it doesn't look like as much of an "approach" per se. Even the book store workers have put a hit on me a time or two. Alcohol can loosen inhibitions, but being 100% un-inebriated … | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 08:10 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doVery nice drink list, so thanks bigtime for that. I agree that bar/clubs are likely the best if you only had one just because most people are specifically there to be social. The quality level of girl is not top rank at clubs/bars sometimes though, and at the clubs the girls get tired of being hit on so you have to add an extra step or two in, and lastly the enviroment is harsher. And, the big clubs have pricey covers. So there are trades. Personally I had to mix day game with night game just be… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 08:01 PM |
| 5 | I literally i have no idea what to doI see the other side of this for sure. Dating can be weird if you get wrapped up with the wrong girls. If you do it well you can date a few girls and just pick one. Around age 25 girls start to get more serious about settling down. From 18-23 they are a bit all over the place. That's not a long time though. Not every night is fun and rainbows every second, but its mostly excellent almost the entire time. Every night out is fun after you learn this stuff actually because girls are just going with… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doGirls have many many options to hook up. A 23-year old, decent looking female still gets hit on in some creepy way every single day, multiple times a day, from guys aged 16 to 65. To be a hookup-only guy you probably have to master all the scenes, or go straight to Mode One (ha ha, book by Alan Curire, amazon or it's on the web) and just do that until it works for you. Also if you are a local porn star, male escort, or super kinky group sex person something. All of these require at least some so… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I literally i have no idea what to doDamn dude this is dark. At least you know how to date! You can focus on other stuff in your life until you want to date again! | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:12 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doI almost always just drink water at bars and nightclubs. Especially later, the girls don't like drunk guys hitting on them (not unless they are drunk too) Not specifically a dating place but bookstores, inside malls, outside malls are all good. Stabucks is ok, but better after you get good. A restruant bar in a mall is ok too. Any nice or decent restruant with a bar, especially theme nights like cinco de mayo, st patricks, or during games... | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doBurn out at 30, I don't think so. You're still jizzing like a racehorse at 30. Other stuff going on with RegretsNothing folks. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I literally i have no idea what to doHey no probs. yeah my nephew, he isn't biting just yet but I'm going to illuminate the trail and if he wants to take it it will be there for him. Ha ha, cool, yeah Jordon Peterson is one of the good ones. You hear him and you're like "why isn't everyone doing this?" Hey never know I might take you up on treat, but glad to be a help ----- | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:01 PM |
| 7 | I literally i have no idea what to doWell at 26 you have plenty of time so let just start brick by brick. My approach for you imho would be start with these 5 steps. By the way my nephew is just like you so I learned pick up and seduction just to teach him. He still hasn't taken me up on the offer yet, but when/if he does I will be saying exactly this: Your five steps right now, containing baby steps in each one: physical (you're doing this) internal (inner game as they say, you have this actually) fashion and style (should sound l… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:58 PM |
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