Cheap-Resource-114 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-6	Who are perfect role models for men according to you guys? Conor McGregor, work hard and your dreams can come true	/r/MensRights	08/04/25 11:01 PM
2	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. Women are simply not that interested in most men for this to work. The solution for incels is to prevent women from working and therefore achieving financial independence. They then become reliant on men. Whilst that may sound terrible, what's ironic is that most people in the world (and reading this) exist because that was true for their ancestor's. If women had choice and freedom thousands of years ago we would be nearly extinct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 12:02 AM
0	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? Girls like obnoxious guys..	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 09:07 AM
-2	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? Girls love a big loud exhaust on a BMW M3	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 09:02 AM
6	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? Enjoy your drying machine	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 07:33 AM
8	How much do you think your car matters for dating as a man? Tesla's are not a panty wetter. It screams tech geek beta provider Musk worshipper. A manual BMW M3 would slay way more	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 07:01 AM
1	You're wasting your time chasing party girls There’s just no need to make one your gf, you can make them your main f buddy, but no need to commit to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 10:10 PM
-1	Women in American society are poor prospects. This isn’t a gender war. Both genders are slaves to their biology just in different ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 12:52 AM
-7	Women in American society are poor prospects. It’s due to the difference in reproductive imperatives. The female reproductive imperative is to find the highest quality mate, whereas the male reproductive imperative is to have access to multiple mates. This means men must compete more in order to fulfil their reproductive imperative. This also explains why men cheat more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 07:52 PM
-3	Women in American society are poor prospects. The difference is throughout history that selfishness has been a desirable trait in men, whereas it has never really been a desirable trait in women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 03:34 PM
5	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. They want to bang 10/10 pussy bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:00 PM
5	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. They want to be like him	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:50 PM
7	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. Chris Brown is key example. Despicable human being, yet women flock to him because he’s rich, famous, hot and hung.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 09:05 PM
11	A bus load of Ukranian men trying to evade conscription by escaping to Romania get caught Facts. I’ve banged 2 Ukrainians who both fled and they seemed pretty happy to be in UK. They both said they don’t want to go back (don’t blame them!)	/r/MensRights	10/03/24 08:49 PM
10	A bus load of Ukranian men trying to evade conscription by escaping to Romania get caught So brave	/r/MensRights	10/03/24 08:48 PM
5	How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships? It’s fantastic for women because the gender ratios are completely skewed. Lots of young men coming over. Hence why women are usually pro-immigration. If we only brought in hot young women from Asia, Europe and South America then there might be different attitudes towards mass immigration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 01:15 AM
3	How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships? Yeah so many Ukrainian women are available now. It’s kinda sad when you think their partner is fighting in a ditch, at risk of losing their life, yet their gf/wife has fled and moved on. No way I would fight in a war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 01:10 AM
53	The Blue Pill didn't lie to you Bluepill had guys believe they could get their looksmatch, based on the premise that women don’t want to share high value men. Redpill shows women will share high value men rather than settle for their looksmatch. It also says social status, money, leadership skills, social media presence and abundance mentality play a bigger role in dating. I’m convinced a lot of guys that are angry with women are guys who aren’t bad looking, maybe average and yet they wonder why they can only attract landwhale…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 06:47 PM
7	“Extreme male brain is autism and extreme female brain is BPD” Exactly but black and white thinking can be helpful in certain areas such as mathematics and coding where it is underpinned by logic. It is either right or wrong, so having black and white (matter of fact) thinking is helpful for them areas. It’s the same reason a lot of guys that study those subjects tend to struggle with women. Because we can’t apply logic to women and even lots of other parts of life. We need to understand emotions, how to display emotions, how to create the right emotions et…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 05:18 PM
8	Avoiding the Coming Demographic Collapse Stop! Can we please just focus on the poor women that have to go through some discomfort in order to produce life’s greatest gift.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/23 08:47 PM
3	Chasing women is a huge waste of time. This is key. If you say ‘This is stressing me out, but this is what I will do about it’ or ‘this thing really troubled me but this is what I did about it’, women like that. It shows you taking the lead, solving problems and managing your emotions. What women don’t want is a guy that is worried and looking to her for answers. Women don’t want to solve your problems, they have enough of their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 06:34 PM
1	Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anything This. Whilst we can improve our social skills marginally (independent of any status or value), we are all born with a particular innate skill set. Some people are just not funny and never will be. No matter how much they try, they look dull and sound dull. You could hand them a professional comedians script, and they would never be able to make anyone laugh because their appearance/voice doesn’t allow it. The only way this person improves their social standing is by being useful to society. If t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 07:44 PM
2	Do Red Pill men try to eat their cake and keep it too with the: "Modern women are sluts... Women today have so high standers."? Red pill is full of hypocrisy: don’t date a girl who has bad parents don’t marry a girl So what kind of good parents will encourage their daughter to have a baby out of wedlock? Red Pill comes up with ideas that kind of make sense in isolation but don’t consider wider context, nuance and aren’t realistic. For example they say not to marry a girl with a high n count. Maybe that was realistic advice before dating apps. Now any girl who has been on OLD will have notched up at least 10 guys. So you’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 10:11 AM
4	So, what is the solution, in your humble opinion? Date someone you are not attracted to? This. It’s too easy just to rely on dating apps as your only source of interaction with women. I’m thankfully a good looking guy so I do well on the apps, but I would do even better in person if I put myself out more. The average guy should not be using dating apps. Very few women will swipe on average when they know they can match and take a chance with a hot guy. It’s not women displaying ‘harem mentality’. It’s a human being wanting the best for themselves. If men had the same power we would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 04:05 PM
1	More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgiving Most women check out other women more than they do men. This should tell you enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 01:20 AM
6	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. Definitely. One thing I realised is you have to acknowledge the exceptions to the rule, even though I would assume it’s obvious that no theory applies to ALL of a certain group. This is really important to women. If you say, ‘women don’t like Computer Science’ you will often be met with ‘I know a girl that studies Computer Science so that disproves your point’. If you don’t clearly state that exceptions to the rule exist, then they will use the exception to try to disprove the rule. It happens a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 07:14 PM
-2	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. Hahahaha yes, it’s pretty much that. As long as he’s smiling thinking he’s playing then that’s all that matters!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:50 PM
1	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. Yeah, some people actually don’t like debating. They find it too confrontational. My sister is like that so I have to try to be more careful when she presents an opinion, whereas when I was younger I would just shut it down with logic which probably didn’t make her feel too good	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:44 PM
4	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. The best way to debate (if you really want to) is to act as if you aren’t particularly subscribed to any one theory. You’re open minded. You say ‘I know what you mean but some people would argue this…’ To her she thinks okay my partner isn’t necessarily disagreeing with me, but he is pointing out the other side. Basically playing devils advocate. As soon as you start digging your feet into the ground to defend a position (or to ‘win’ a logical debate) is when it becomes heated and then you’ve me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:14 PM
17	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. As a guy you should never find yourself in a position where you’re having a heated logical debate with a woman. It shows a clear lack of understanding of female psychology and they resent you for putting them in a position where they’re made to feel dumb or uncomfortable. Winning the logical argument doesn’t do anything for you, it’s like trying to have a logical argument with a 9 year old, even though you’re right it just comes across bad. Guys are better at having logical debates and understan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:34 PM
2	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women Yeah girls love dumb chat, it’s less intense for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 04:12 PM
1	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women Sort of, but also acting dumber and saying dumber shit. Before I would think ‘if I say this people will think I’m dumb’ whereas now I don’t care. I still say smart stuff when I need to, but I can happily say dumb stuff and not worry what people will think of me	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 04:12 PM
0	CMV : young men today should spare themselves torment by not getting emotionally invested in one day becoming a father Lol it’s so easy to get someone pregnant. Have some money and find a 30 year old woman who’s desperate for kids. No guy (other than incels) are complaining that they can’t find a womb to create a legacy. The bigger issue is finding a womb attached to a woman you can tolerate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:03 AM
8	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women This is it. It took me until around 22 to figure out how to switch my ‘smart’ brain off and just go based on feel. I found once I did and said enough dumb stuff, I learnt to accept being comfortable not being smart/right all the time. Now I just say loads of mad shit and it works way better. 18 year old me would’ve cringed	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 06:50 PM
0	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past So because you have different preferences in the bedroom that makes you incompatible? So you’re going to dump this girl who is otherwise great just because she won’t let you put it up her bum?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:56 PM
1	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past Christ, clearly them projecting their insecurities	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:37 PM
0	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past I think this is a very skewed sample of jealous incels who haven’t had much sexual success with women so they get angry when they feel like they’re being robbed of anything. Any normal person would understand we change as we get older and what we enjoyed (or was willing to try) 10 years ago we might not anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:29 PM
0	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past I don’t get why anyone would think it’s a Dealbreaker? Clearly I’m the one that doesn’t understand. Why is it such a big deal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:21 PM
-1	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past Well that answers your question. Maybe they felt comfortable doing it with someone else (a random maybe) but they don’t want to do it with the person they want to marry and have kids with. That perfectly understandable. It could also be an age thing, they felt comfortable back then when they were young and risk seeking, but now it doesn’t appeal to them? How is this hard to understand? It’s like drugs. Sure when we’re 21 drugs sound fun. At 31, not so much. We grow and things we are comfortable …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:16 PM
-1	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past What if they tried anal and didn't like it? Do they have to try again just because 'another guy tried it once'? This is lame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 05:53 PM
1	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? I am a Chad, I have a gazillion stories I can tell you. My fb's tell me most things because they know I don't care and won't judge them. Even the good girls who 'aren't like that' love the D. It's normal. Women love sex but for years had to supress it in fear of judgement. Times have changed and they're free to do what they want now. I can't tell you how to live your life, and I wish you all the success in finding what you want, but I do worry that you're wanting something that just isn't there.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 03:20 PM
0	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? I agree that college educated girls are more promiscuous, simply because they were able to get away from the home at a young age (18) and have as much casual sex as they want without parents watching over them. It's harder to bring guys back to your parents house. Also college educated girls end up in big cities where casual sex is easier to have without suffering reputational damage. But all girls are promiscuous in this day and age, excluding a small section of religious girls. It really makes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 02:03 PM
–	Q4M: what are the benefits of marriage you are willing to acknowledge? Very few guys marry for sex. It’s well known sex declines as we age/get married. Stop listening to Rich Cooper. People marry because they know it’s the right thing to do for kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 08:28 AM
4	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? Non college educated girls lose their V before college educated. A lot do it whilst they’re at school prior to 18. Give up on this virgin fantasy, it’s not happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 08:25 AM
17	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? This. Virgin guys older than 20 need to accept the window has pretty much closed, outside of finding a religious girl. It doesn't matter though. Whilst guys get worried that a woman will compare him to her past partners, what I've found is that we tend to prefer the person we're having sex with in the moment. I've had sex with some incredible girls but I'm never thinking about them previous girls when I'm having sex with a new girl. The girl I'm with in the moment is the best and it's a similar …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 07:12 PM
–	Q4M: what are the benefits of marriage you are willing to acknowledge? Pretty much everything: - Access to the best women (no top tier wife-material woman will accept no marriage) - You maximise the chance of the relationship working - You provide your kids with the best start in life - You gain social status and are seen as more trustworthy, which can do wonders for your career - Other guys see you as less of a threat because they know you're hitched for good - Tax benefits (although this isn't as important) The trick is to find a quality woman who is well educate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 06:58 PM
–	Q4M: what are the benefits of marriage you are willing to acknowledge? That's where a lot of this RP content doesn't make sense. They say not to marry, but then they also say to find a quality woman. No quality woman will have kids with a guy that won't marry her. They say find a girl with good parents, well what type of parents would advise their daughter to have kids out of wedlock? Especially with a guy who is similar age to her Dad. If a guy wants to have kids, his best strategy is to find an educated woman with her own income who hasn't been married before and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 06:51 PM
0	Men over-estimate their attractiveness? Exactly and this is what I mean about not truly believing it. They like to think they’re above average because it’s good for the ego (which men have a lot of) and it helps them feel confident which is important. In reality they know they probably aren’t the best looking but it doesn’t do them any good to not believe it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 06:47 PM
1	Men over-estimate their attractiveness? Self-rated scores don’t matter too much. Thinking you’re attractive should give you more confidence, which in theory should help. However, true confidence comes from experienced success. Most people will rank themselves a 6 or a 7. They don’t apply a normal distribution and calculate which percentile they’re in for both the sex market and the relationship market. Also some guys will say they’re a 8/9 when in reality they know it’s not true, they just want to appear confident and don’t want to be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 06:18 PM
1	Men over-estimate their attractiveness? It’s easier for men to understand where they are in the casual sex market because women tend to have a clear set of preferences for short term flings (to name a few - muscular, tall, tanned skin, tattoos, extrovert, large thick penis). The more of those a guy has, the easier casual sex is to obtain. However in the relationship market it’s much harder for guys to work out where they stand because there are so many other factors at play and it depends what the woman values. Does she prioritise you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 05:37 PM
0	Men should just refuse to get married Oh it probably doesn’t happen then if you haven’t seen it	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 08:45 PM
0	Men should just refuse to get married So why do women push so heavily for it? And even go as far as threatening to leave the guy they ‘love’ if he doesn’t go through with it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 07:57 PM
2	Why Are You Single? You need to create a social circle then. Join a club of some sort!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:12 AM
7	You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guy 24-32 year olds don’t care about Insta. OP forgot to mention this only applies to 16-21 year old girls who still only care about which guy is the most popular	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 11:34 AM
2	How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays? You’re missing out on social proof. It doesn’t matter if you’re average or even below average looking, if you have social status within a certain group, and a woman can see it, you become instantly more attractive to her. Any guy who is under 6ft and average looking should focus on maximising social status. Become a somebody within a certain social group. The issue with Reddit is we have a disproportionate amount of below average looking guys who dislike socialising and want to hide behind their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 12:15 AM
–	Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular women People do get fit but only off their own accord. You can’t go into a relationship hoping to change someone. The majority of fat people stay fat, so if you want to take that risk then that’s on you, but what will you do if she doesn’t lose weight? Dump her? Or put up with her fat ass?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/23 07:43 PM
6	Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular women So many men of this generation are sex starved, they will take a fatty over nothing. Whereas 50 years ago, that guy would’ve met his looksmatch at 18-21 who was most likely slim and feminine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 10:22 PM
0	Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular women You can’t change a girl. If she’s a fatty, she’s a fatty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 10:18 PM
10	Change my View : Men have a way more calculated and performance oriented Dating Strategy then Women. Women are ruled more by feelings/emotion as opposed to logic. They don’t date the ‘bad boy’ because they have strategised and think this guy will make the best long term option. They just go with him because he’s fun. He’s exciting and creates some drama which women love. Even most men don’t strategise, they just take the first girl they get quite often. It’s mainly the logical guys, who are disproportionally represented on here, who try to optimise all aspects of their life	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 04:39 PM
3	It is OBVIOUS why there is not a body positivity movement for both genders Hamstering. Women are experts at it. Same way they manage to convince themselves their ex was ‘emotionally abusive’ and ‘toxic’. Women naturally don’t like to take responsibility for their actions, so they reshape reality to something that makes them feel more comfortable (which often means playing the victim). Men have to be more realistic because everyone demands results from us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 09:11 AM
7	My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win. Why am I shitty because I don’t want to sacrifice my life? I don’t owe this country my life. I live here, I pay taxes, I don’t break any laws. That’s my job done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 06:17 PM
24	My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win. Well women do the same so why can’t I? Why should I be expected to defend my land just because I’m a man? I don’t really care about this land, it’s just where I happen to live at this moment in time. If it gets invaded there’s plenty of other places on the planet I can set up and live happily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 01:29 PM
33	My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win. And my point is, why not set up a home elsewhere? Like the women/kids are doing. Let’s say Ukrainian men successfully defend their land, what good is it when it’s blown to bits and it’s unrecognisable? What about when there’s 10 guys for every female because all the women left? Do you really think all the Ukrainian women will go back to a wasteland after living in Europe for a few years? Western society has showed many times it doesn’t care about men. We are ridiculed, ignored and vilified. We t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 12:55 PM
61	My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win. That’s why I would never fight in a war. I would just flee the moment there seems to be any danger. Why should I sacrifice my life and cuck myself for some government that doesn’t care about me and women who will just flee and settle abroad? I don’t have enough of an ego to make winning a war meaningful enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 10:25 AM
1	Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers. Half of all kids born in early 2000’s have not lived with both biological parents throughout their entire childhood. I find that truly shocking and sad. In 20 years time, I imagine 70% of the kids born today will have been raised by a single parent	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 08:56 PM