| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 115 | I have an approach anxiety problem and I don't know how to fix it | Cheap_Sack_Of_Shitv2 | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 05:11 PM | |
| 51 | Intimidation | Rant/Venting | Cheap_Sack_Of_Shitv2 | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/23 12:25 AM |
| 37 | Any former fat guys that have gotten through it? | Inner Game | Cheap_Sack_Of_Shitv2 | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Can someone explain the benefit of indirect game to me? | Fundamentals | Cheap_Sack_Of_Shitv2 | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 11:24 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Speech Autisim Person, How to start conversation with a girl who is Jogging, or Walking? Need OpenerYeah, don't do this. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 08:49 PM |
| 5 | When did women gain so much leverage?Do you want sex and companionship or not, dude? | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 02:18 AM |
| 9 | Any former fat guys that have gotten through it?Yeah, I've learned that now. It's just...frustrating that it feels like I'm going to be on the sidelines for 3-6 months until my looks start to reflect any weight loss. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Solo bar tipsThere's nothing wrong with just not liking going out to bars and clubs alone. It's okay to make those group activities only. You should be going out to enjoy yourself. If you aren't enjoying yourself then you're wasting time and doing yourself harm. I would look into ways to put yourself in areas that women frequent other days of the week, and then your solo adventures on the weekends aren't as high of stakes because you're already meeting women. | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?Oh boy. Imagine for a second what the average man goes through. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Not Texting Between Dates is Killing My GameYou game is bad, your sex is bad, or both. I don't think this is a texting issue. After sex, if you pull away and drop communication, that should be when the girl's alarm bells go off that she might have taken some evolutionary risk (sex) for nothing and she might lose you. If these girls are okay with that, then something is missing in how you make them feel. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with late bloomer tax?I don't mean to be a dick, but you need to check yourself. You're 23, and I know shit is hard, but if you want an abundant dating life, you need to work on flying solo and getting your own place. There are a lot of girls that would have you over to their place, but why have that extra roadblock? It will get easier when you have your own place to bring people to. Also, ED issues at 23 is concerning. Get to a doctor and get your T checked to figure out what's going on. ED issues at 23 is not norma… | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?I live in a smaller, ruralish area (100k in my county, but probably 80k+ of them in the "core" part of the county) an hour south of Chicago and some of the reactions from women would have you thinking they forgot men can talk. The read I've gotten is that by just approaching, you're leapfrogging the line and in the top echelon of men based on your perceived confidence alone. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 05:54 PM |
| 19 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?Definitely an SSRI thing. You can see it in the eyes. They're dead and empty. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 02, 2024You can rethink that line of thinking from "punishing" your women to "I don't like that behavior/treatment, and I don't want to stick around unenjoyable behavior/situations". That's free of a covert contract. This covert contract is the hardest to break, and I'm guilty of it myself. We come here, almost to the man, hoping to find ways to control other people's behavior. We can never do that. We can only control ourselves and incentivize better behavior from others. At the end of the day, others … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 02, 2024how do we know when focusing attention and energy elsewhere is a covert contract versus something one does for oneself? Are "things you do" and "things you want" the same thing? There you go. Edit: Also, yes, dread is just the process of learning to not allow yourself to be taken for granted, in Rian Stone's words. If you're not willing to leave, then it's a big covert contract. You improve yourself for you, and hopefully your options improve from there. If not, you're at least better than you w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/24 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Had 8 year long redpill relationship with highschool sweetheart. Maintained frame like a boss until I didn't. Would like to know your thoughts.You say you have a solid frame, but look at how many "she"s are in your post. Look at how the second she acted different, you lost your shit. You have zero frame, and are bullshitting yourself. You need to break up with this women in your mind. Do not suggest breaking up if you don't mean it (you clearly don't). What the hell are you doing? Do what you say, and say what you mean. If you're going to bring up separating, it should be final. Don't be a wishy washy pussy. Go about your business and … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/23 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Are Women Sexually Aroused By Drama?Extremely divorced dad rizz | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/23 03:37 PM |
| 10 | IntimidationI've all but acknowledged the fact that this is bitch behavior in my post. I'm aware of the problem. The issue is I continue to do it despite my best efforts not to. You can poke fun, sure. But I'm trying to be better. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/23 01:02 AM |
| 12 | Why being in a relationship or accidentally impregnating a black women is a terrible ideaAnd yet they continue to learn not a single thing so yes, we will blame the women for fumbling the bag with their own bodies. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/23 05:24 PM |
| 3 | I have an approach anxiety problem and I don't know how to fix itCan you explain the difference between day game and cold approaching? It probably doesn't really matter, but I had assumed they were kind of one and the same. At least for me...I'm usually working M-F when the sun is out (I've got a second side hustle I do on top of my full time job), so my opportunities to meet women are limited to the evenings running errands, the nights when I go out, the weekends, and online. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 07:48 PM |
| 3 | I have an approach anxiety problem and I don't know how to fix itDoes it ever go away completely or is it always there? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 07:18 PM |
| 2 | I have an approach anxiety problem and I don't know how to fix itUnfortunately not. Live about an hour south of Chicago, county has about 100,000 people in it, but it's a suburb so it skews older. I just pulled up the demographics and it's like 40% either under 18 or over 65, so it's not a great area. My issue is that I make over $100k in this area, so I'm really going to miss that income if I move anywhere else. The position I'm in now was a big step up for me in my career and I want to be here for another five years or so to build my resume. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 07:18 PM |
| 11 | I have an approach anxiety problem and I don't know how to fix itYeah, I agree with this completely. I sat and just thought for a few minutes after I hit submit on this post, and really felt angry and fed up with myself. I'm fucking sick of constantly having a dry phone and feeling scarcity every time I bring a woman into my life, so this is the only way until I get three or four decent pictures of myself for online dating. Thank you for the comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 07:15 PM |
| 3 | The Girlfriend Experience is for sale - The Boyfriend Experience is not.Dig into that sense of emptiness if you haven't already because it's likely your subconscious begging you to reconsider. Men don't have a biological clock, but it's no fun changing your mind at 50 and saying hi to your infant grandkids on your way out. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/21 03:34 PM |
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