Check_your_6 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Divorce Effect The evil tik tok (really only suitable for the under 20’s!!) Divorce Effect Glow Up. How divisory can you get…misandristic to say the least. Only took me 5 months and lost 6 inches off waist, rebuilt my business that she nearly destroyed, actually this was good as it meant I had on paper only debt at time of split. New property which is much more me, new car faster than the one she drove off in and dating again. This is fun!!! 51 and haven’t felt this good in two decades… Have to admit I was luc…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/26 04:39 PM
3	Told her last night I feel you, I too went through 6 years of heavy pain and disability for my ex to finally chuck in the towel, I tried so hard to make it safe, loving, secure despite my issues…irony is that three weeks after separation (she had checked out a long while before though) I finally had the spinal operation that transformed me back to who I was before…if somethings dead it’s dead sadly.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/26 09:12 PM
5	Does anyone else feel like "a looser" despite "winning" at most things in life? We live in a world that lays a out a standard path for us, despite being an outsider for all of my life, we feel like we have to have to “fit in”. Get married, have kids, retire and sit on the beach together… 16 years ending in a text for me…yes it’s easy to feel shame, failure, like a loser…and yes like you I can’t see what comes next but then I never did before I met her…I struggle with it still and again like you I do alright, better physical shape, money, business, car etc. (not that any of …	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/26 09:00 PM
5	Men who got divorced, did you lose a lot of friends? I lost a lot, two very close friends, one brother and another close family friend plus loads of “friends” where I lived. Hard as fuxk, in fact this almost hurt as much as losing my marriage - however if they ain’t sticking around to help or support the they weren’t friends to begin with…I know she went out of her way to villainise me but there are two sides to every story and if people aren’t prepared to listen to both then they ain’t worth being in your life - cold but true. Truth is a man alon…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 06:42 PM
3	The treatment for divorce that worked for me Absolutely - did all of this and whilst I’m awake it’s no issue, if only my goddamn mind would switch off when I sleep !!! I didn’t do it due to advice but just something that came naturally - followed my gut but rawdogging this shit is by far and away the best advice - great post 👍	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 06:36 PM
2	Wife Leans Narcissist I completely agree, the saddest part I found was how much support women get for divorce and yet almost no support for men. Try typing in divorce support for men on Google and see what predictive text brings up!!! Shocking.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 06:33 PM
2	Wife Leans Narcissist This hits hard, same age ish and same shit just different day, we can psycho analyse all we want - sad truth is we just have to get on with our lives and be prepared for the fallout. Mine is / was dismissive avoidant and heavy issues with menopause - resulting in some fairly heavy narcissistic behaviours. At one point she admitted that was her problem ( I mean we all carry shit forward from our childhood past etc) - I happened to be waiting for back surgery so “I was weak, a burden, not a man et…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 06:31 PM
1	Finding purpose after divorce? Feel ya dude, I spent 16 years with an avoidant narcissist and yet only 5 months later I’m the best version of myself I have been in years…support from people I haven’t seen in years and no support from others, total clarity there then !!! Somehow it’s totally fucking liberating and I know I still have the final legal stuff to do but I don’t care - she can’t hurt me now - walk through fire and get tempered 👊	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 05:43 PM
6	Finding purpose after divorce? I’m early 50’s - after only a few months I finally realise there is peace in being one. No compromise 🤙 I’m lucky I love my job and this will always give me purpose but in terms of what to do…anything !!! You will be ok brother 😎	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 04:42 PM
2	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week Very nice summation… two people at a low can’t fix each other.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/25 07:30 AM
7	Wife started calling me "weak" and talking about divorce after I had a rough couple of days this week She’s already checking out pal, sorry. Situations like this are her finding the excuse she needs to back up feelings she already has. Either find a way to talk through it or get ready to separate…although it sounds like both of you are not happy. Good luck whatever comes of it	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/25 07:28 AM