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In want what sense? I get cute too, but I'm short as well, so it's often an endearing gesture/pat on the head that affirms I'm nowhere near considered a prospect to them.
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:24 AM
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Could you PM or reply me a list towards Zarathustra? I'd dig knowing the general steps to take to fully absorb what he's conveying.
/r/seduction01/05/16 11:41 AM
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21 here. Lost my card at 19 and haven't much luck since. This Patrice O Neal thing is the best shit I've heard in forever, I love how much it runs in the face of feminist articles in my culture units.
/r/seduction24/04/16 12:33 PM
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You're super young, just approach/talk a tonne with everybody until you're more comfortable. Enjoy the process, learn to laugh at yourself knowing you're improving and learning from mistakes. No, there's no other way.
/r/seduction08/04/16 11:56 AM
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While I understand where you're coming from, this requires a proactive level of know-how/confidence, and would make him more anxious to ask at all. The eye contact thing is so important though. PS: On reddit you just hit enter or shift+enter, no need for html line breaks etc! For more markup info there's a little "formatting help" thing in the bottom right of comment fields.
/r/seduction08/04/16 11:51 AM
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Once, after an offhanded airing of some of my dumb casual grievances, my 65 year old female psych said, point blank, "Girls are fickle. They just are" and it's stuck with me since. For better or worse, it's strangely reassuring, and I don't feel it's sexist either.
/r/seduction30/03/16 06:22 AM
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Not to sound like some teenager, but I think it's more that if you say Hi she's weirded out because when are you ever so bold? Who's this nobody? She says you're creepy to xyz offhandedly but hey, you lose. If it's Mr Popular doing nothing different from you it's all smooth. Context is at play, I think he's asking how to avoid being labeled as such.
/r/seduction24/03/16 08:26 AM
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It's a put down in the same way you see people on reddit being like "aha, fucking reddit, oh typical reddit, why does reddit always do this? Reddit circlejerk". It's just an easy, petulant leg up at the detriment of others. Implication being "I'm not like that inept loser/I'm above this." We all do it to some degree.
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:09 AM
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I'm a procrastinator to my own detriment, so I find myself coming back to this one very often.
/r/seduction11/02/16 01:49 AM
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Woah that's a surprisingly active community. Or not-so surprising? Unexpected. These are the things you don't know or even consider having a place on the internet, but when you see it it makes sense. Like r/deadbedrooms! Latter's particularly morbid though.
/r/seduction05/02/16 01:56 AM
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Pretty appalling, I've asked a few on campus out and at bus stops but yeah, goes nowhere, it's stilted. I went on a cruise at the end of 2015 and had a decent group who'd all hang and flirt every night away. Would totally do it again. I know my problem though. I don't drive, I'm about 15ish hours away from a license so hopefully that'll boost my confidence somewhat. It's more than half a battle convincing non-proactive girls to meet up somewhere, which you'd -think- would be safer than hopping i…
/r/seduction01/02/16 12:19 AM
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The selfie comment hits home. I don't take pictures with my friends, we're not like that. The most we do is embarrassing/stupid videos to eachother on Snapchat. I'm above average looks wise (if a bit campy/cutesy but hey it's 2016). It just shits me, my Facebook is a dead relic from a little after high school that I only use for events and that's all that Tinder let's you pull from. I get why, but Jesus. Not gonna go round forcing a group shot. I get matches, but nothing else beyond a few back a…
/r/seduction31/01/16 01:29 PM
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I'd ram you all fucking night, Tina. sips coffee
/r/seduction23/01/16 03:13 AM
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I don't know if it's the fact that it's a more attractive quality or whether it's just a task they don't want responsibility for, like plumbing or bricklaying. I can't even be bothered to make the glass ceiling analogy, but you understand.
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:01 AM
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Ding ding ding.
/r/seduction14/01/16 01:49 PM
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Things "just happen" to them. They're shit scared of making a day with anyone or anything, and if not, why would they sacrifice plausible deniability? Aggravates me to no end.
/r/seduction14/01/16 11:53 AM
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Lawyer up friend. It's scary to be accused like that, I had a girlfriend that told mates of my mates I was abusive, and told me one of my old friends had raped her. None of it was true, but no one was talking to eachother for months. Luckily she wasn't ballsy enough to lie to cops. Borderline is a hell of a disorder.
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:03 PM
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Assuming you're a decent human being with morals, which you'd have to be to feel someone is too good for you: Before the approach think of all the dirty thoughts every feminist has made you feel guilty thinking about. Imagine the smuttiest porn you'd want to be in with this girl. Look at her. Think about it. Look at her. Think about it. Look at her. Step forward and make it happen.
/r/seduction09/06/15 12:19 PM
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All the magic would quickly die if you attained her, because that's the mentality you're coming from. The communication for you is a means to an end. This may seem duplicitous in the quest to get laid, but really, once enough time passes the concept of them is what's attractive, not the person themselves. I could understand your pain if you'd had a deep connection with someone and they'd left for a while, but this isn't the case. This seems parasocial. Move on bud, all the best.
/r/seduction31/05/15 08:12 AM
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I've missed many bus opportunities psyching myself out, I've had very embarrassing opens, too. I've had more success at bus stops for whatever reason. It's all part of the process. Saying anything is better than doing nothing.
/r/seduction31/05/15 06:57 AM
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I can vouch for you! 20 year old here who mid conversation, once it's peaking says "we should hang out" or whatever, and I just have my phone out and ready before they say anything. They'll put their number in. It's not agressive, I don't "shove it" in their face. I think a tonne of pickup is viewed from the setup of a line to a stranger, or an assumed level of zero rapport. There is so much more than a cold action; viewing it in isolation, ofcourse it looks offensive! I do this when there IS mo…
/r/seduction19/05/15 12:32 PM
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Condescending man, fuck this being right bullshit. If it's a shit test of some sort, yeah. If you know she's single and she the context means she hasn't totally made up her mind, you know you have room to work with. We're not working on pure logic here, that's not how social interactions work.
/r/seduction10/05/15 02:02 PM
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Lmfao. Okay. Gauge a non-intrusive question that tests the credibility of her claim politely. Better?
/r/seduction10/05/15 01:36 PM
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Technically -seeing all outcomes- she could, so the blame is as much on you as it is her, and just not tell her boyfriend. You're both shitty people at that point though.
/r/seduction10/05/15 11:44 AM
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Is it a shit test? If so, testing it back: "What's his name? How long you been together?" Otherwise, you respect that and understand your potential role is a mere friend, or politely dismiss yourself. Breaking the tension, "I'd keep him away from me, we'd be making out on the couch and you'd be a third wheel."
/r/seduction10/05/15 10:21 AM
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I lost mine from a Tinder match at 19. She was insane. I do not regret any of the sex. Don a dom and get in there, it doesn't need to be overly special. If they're as accommodating as you it'll always be fun.
/r/seduction02/05/15 07:48 AM
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Self efficacy: 1% Self discipline: 3% Fuck. It's funny, because dutifulness and orderliness were over 60%. I think this explains why I can keep a workout schedule and do things for causes/peopl I believe in, but leave my room and uni work in the dust till the last minute.
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:21 AM
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Speeds up the interaction well. Higher risk, higher reward sitch.
/r/seduction25/03/15 07:43 AM
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I'd also add -being someone who found this place back when it was 60,000 strong- that ideas of game have definitely deviated away from theoretical structures as they're deemed dated or misogynistic. And I totally get that, but the "go out and fail" mantra also falls on the backburner. It's almost like the gimmicky mystery shit was justification enough, framed the idea of proactivity as just that, a game, which made the seeds for progress that much easier to swallow. Other things might be an infl…
/r/seduction23/03/15 10:14 AM
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Those podcasts with his dying mom. "You cry." Holy fuck. AND he beat ball cancer to boot.
/r/seduction06/03/15 02:14 PM
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Yes, I do. Especially with that voice that lacks almost any brevity. He's no Hitchens, and if he took his time I'd dismiss him. It's a prejudice we hold and experience. I'm a short guy with a pseudo-camp voice that needs either strong body language or tone control for respect or attention. Just a reality rather than an insecurity, I'm not complaining. It's all well and good to say we're above that snap judgement in retrospect but I doubt that's the case. Doesn't make us bad people. It's human to…
/r/seduction21/07/14 01:56 AM
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I'm jaded to youtubers talking about nothing, and he hits his target demographic on the head, provocative title for the bored "idle-clicker/watcher" gets slammed with this fast-paced mouthpiece spitting some high concepts rapidly. Might come off as supplicating, but I like it.
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:32 PM
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Exactly this. Once it feels real, that it's not something offhand or for shits and gigs, things can become very intimidating. Especially if intimacy or "a chance" even, is something you're not familiar with.
/r/seduction14/06/14 05:11 PM
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Bit of a catch 22, but I thought the fact that it had to be addressed shows that one does give a fuck. I'd say it's more a pre-emptive rejection of their opinions, which I guess is just as much of a good thing.
/r/seduction14/06/14 07:45 AM
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You're judging these girls based on a blurry 20 x 20 pixel image.
/r/seduction01/05/14 02:17 PM
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Nigs caaaaan't take dat ebony flavoured 'booty. I'm in hysterics. Sorry.
/r/seduction27/04/14 09:24 AM
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I don't think it's in women's 'nature' to hurt men. I can see men getting angry at women more from that, or just angry in general because that's 'just how it is.' Call it beta all you want, that's the reality of it. Feminism flips and twists gender roles even more, so who really knows. Point is, there's people out there that have a base level of common sense with others instead of some alternative set of rules for either gender, and I think it's disingenuous and unhealthy -even a beta mindset- t…
/r/seduction26/02/14 10:29 PM
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This question is specifically geared towards my social standing at the moment rather than random cold approaches etc. I've been mildly depressed for the past few months and am just getting back on my feet. I don't have a job, am not studying currently, and can't drive. I am doing something about it, but it's a slow process. All my old school friends and acquaintances seem so far away, and I feel inferior to them merely because they have some standing, some sense of progress in their lives. They …
/r/seduction09/09/13 01:15 PM
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This comment helped me quite recently. Really needed to hear/read something like that.
/r/seduction28/08/13 11:22 PM
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I totally get you, being self amused can be detrimental in so many environments, but not having your game face on is just not the image you want to portray there? That's what I took from it, and I'm not sure there's a real solution to it. What I'd do is make a distinction between what I'm doing for game and what I'm doing for me, and me alone (therefore you're not looking to maintain face and judgment is irrelevant, as for class you're there to learn). If someone cute does invade you in the non-…
/r/seduction25/08/13 02:01 PM
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Doesn't sound like she hung onto it. It's fine, but the negs did seem a little frequent. She calls him on it after shit-test style and he amplifies, I reckon they're running pretty smooth game. Better than where most of us are currently for sure.
/r/seduction20/08/13 01:02 PM
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Amy Cuddy, heyooooo!
/r/seduction02/08/13 04:45 AM
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...if they admit it can be much more fluid than they believe, and risk "failing" at something. (you can't risk failing at being your current self, but you can fail to change) This is exactly what I needed to hear for personal reasons. Seriously, thanks.
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:46 PM
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Oath.
/r/seduction29/07/13 01:03 PM
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Boasting all seduction secrets like nobody's business (It's probably a good 50% of the read, marketing it) and defines girls as more or less 8 different types, and what one has to cover to get with whichever once you've categorized them. Di'Carlo's a disingenuous sleaze too. I suggest reading what the RSD guys recommend, "Outliers" by Gladwell and "War Of Art" by Pressfield, particularly fascinating. Anything directly PUA, maybe "Magic Bullets"? Heaps of content in the side-bar! :)
/r/seduction29/07/13 01:03 PM
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Oh dude, I did have fun. Great party! However, if you knew this kid, you'd be a facepalm machine! Very nice guy, hospitable and friendly, but he gets on the entire group's nerves quite often. Admittedly, once I posted I went "Woah, typed way more than I thought I did." The passion came from seeing him take it all so seriously, him feeling compelled to save face that much only draws more attention. In reflection, it gets frustrating is all. Think of it like, someone on crutches trying to run a ma…
/r/seduction29/07/13 12:49 PM
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This wasn't so much a rejection, but more a backfire. I'm at this party, and it's lacking girls I'd personally hook in with, but there's 2 I'd consider. I take interest in the hotter one (let's call her M) by facepainting her (it was a UV light/rave type houseparty with glow in the dark paint etc, woo introductory kino!) and her tubbier friend (let's call her T) is making it so abundantly clear she wants me, forcing it by "playfully" poking me with a paintbrush, over the top laughing, to the poi…
/r/seduction29/07/13 05:15 AM
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Displaying abundance with a freedom from outcome, yet unwavering in the act of trying. You're going places.
/r/seduction24/07/13 11:57 AM
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Thanks, felt the same, and I really didn't want to have to be the guy to correct him.
/r/seduction13/07/13 02:11 PM
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A tidbit to add that's worked for me: If the man in question is a hired waiter and whatnot, you can disqualify them completely. "Wow, yeah holy shit. Let's talk dirty to him, he's paid to flirt back, guaranteed." "Do you reckon he gets paid more than the others to look that good? I'd sure hope so. Smashes all the puss." Subtext, of-course - in the immediate sense - Everything he is, is for money.
/r/seduction05/07/13 03:31 AM
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Nice site, I'm legit impressed by it's minimalist layout. I may end up reading all of these because of that alone. I love how it's in steps, kinda what draws me to reading Tofu Tofu's "Above the Game" guide in the side-bar, all there in some rounded and grounded density. Having something behind the curtain, for some I reckon that's the hardest part. They go clubbing and see friends, but otherwise laze around at home in some well of complacency, as if going out to go out isn't reason enough! I ha…
/r/seduction22/06/13 03:12 AM
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Was the e-book offer not good enough? Ahahah, all good man. Hope this all works out, signed onto launchrock, can't wait!
/r/seduction17/05/13 05:34 AM
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I'll collate it all into an ebook friendly pdf if you guys like! (When it's done ofcourse.)
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:52 AM
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Half expected this to go nowhere besides attention, then the nonchalant, "and we slept together" just tacked on the end made it all okay.
/r/seduction27/03/13 12:07 PM
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That's the spirit! I'm 18 and fresh out of high school, so in the work week of the holidays (when parents are out) I got a girl over to mine, but I had to stop her from taking my v-card, because she's a friend of another girl I had a pathetic fling (in her mind, it was really nothing) with, and she'd feel like a bad friend later. She texted me later saying how she shouldn't have kissed me anywhere. Hah. Go figure. POINT IS: Make hay while the sun shines! If your situation isn't ideal, make it as…
/r/seduction11/02/13 10:45 AM
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What is, and more specifically, defines a shit test? Don't just give me examples, a furthered explanation would be lovely. Also, I have an idea of what frame is, and how to use it, but if someone could add some clarity to that, it'd be great, too.
/r/seduction18/12/12 03:46 AM
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You better have been quoting 500 Days of Summer there.
/r/seduction01/11/12 09:27 AM
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Right there with you man! I'm relatively lovable, attractive and have a fuck-tonne of acquaintances that are absolutely without a doubt fond of me, but I'm not in any position to be invited anywhere. Like you said ahah, there's no depth. Heghk. I hate it.
/r/seduction28/10/12 03:17 AM
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I back bashfulpanda up on this. The majority of girls in my grade have lost theirs as early as 14, and now that everyone's beginning to graduate, (everyone's about 17 now) I see the stragglers following suit, riding along with the mother hens, and it's so obvious too, leaching off her presence. Most men that aren't the inherent alpha jock type, unfortunately, including me, are yet to use their V cards.
/r/seduction23/10/12 07:10 AM
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DUDE, http://youtu.be/Ks-_Mh1QhMc Watch all of it, and pay attention to what you said, and what Cuddy says from 17.50 or so onwards about "Not belonging". FUCK, THE RELEVANCE IS AMAZING.
/r/seduction13/10/12 07:19 AM
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Vin DiCarlo's marketing is sooo shady, but that specific book does have some merit. When I align girls I know with the types, I find it's surprisingly accurate.
/r/seduction11/10/12 02:52 AM
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Gonna throw some modesty out the window for this: I remember somehow managing to get a girl talking up my wang over fb, and my reply was "I've dug myself a big hole here..." pause "IN YOUR VAGINA." Albeit immature, I spent the next 3 miniutes literally rofling at the fact that I said it, and that she went with it, not put off at all. Lmao.
/r/seduction11/10/12 12:16 AM
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Read everything above this last reply, and I have to say, (as an aspiring newbie with slight inklings of success) from what I've read here, that's a spot on analogy. Hopefully, I'll be well and truly satisfied and off the public playing field before this predicted and unwanted fate becomes too much of a reality. Edit: My friend posed this though, using that analogy: Ah, but how many people have an interest in baseball? And if all, or the majority must try play at some point, how many get good en…
/r/seduction06/07/12 09:51 AM
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The influx of useless content (to me, being kinda blunt) from users like this is actually making me a bit anxious, in a nonchalant "I don't want Seddit to die in this manner" type way.
/r/seduction06/07/12 09:07 AM
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Oh, hello r/relationships, what're you doing here?
/r/seduction06/07/12 08:46 AM
2

Someone on here once said "smile with your eyes" for seeming more genuine. That's worked for me!
/r/seduction28/06/12 07:12 AM
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Fucking Mitch Hedberg <3 "A severed foot is the ultimate stocking stuffer."
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:56 PM
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I understand the idea of "natural game" and coming up with your own original content etc, BUT places such as Seddit may become plagued with dumb-ass wannabe's from the 'mainstream' (not to be hipster in using such a word) making forums and access to legitimately useful content difficult. It's like how the dubstep culture was very chill and more about quality and production over "the drop" or "tha phat bass", ( Exaggerated example: http://goo.gl/nz5f7 ) so you can kind of see where my fear lies i…
/r/seduction03/04/12 01:32 AM
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I always thought you were to be the prize and not seem like you're chasing them. Your frame can be completely different to what you're actually doing, as it's assumed context. Frame feels to be an ambiguous area unfortunately.
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:45 AM
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