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Pretty sure the waiting a year thing is for a relationship not casual sex. I say go for it, so long as you use protection. I’ve found that every woman I’ve been with since my wife left has had ulterior motives. Don’t need kids to a one night stand. I don’t care what contraceptive you claim to use I’m wearing a rubber!
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 07:11 AM
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Hey mate, keep your chin up and fight the good fight. Have you looked into team sports in your free time? 5 aside footy, running club, darts, snooker.... the list goes on. I take things personally on social media when I’m in a bad head space, maybe a digital detox may be in order. You should also go to your GP about your suicidal thoughts, biggest killer of men aged 18-45!! Good luck brother.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 09:07 AM
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Besides the usual advice of exercise, exercise and more exercise I like to watch shitty films on an evening. TV shows take up too much time and quality films require concentration. Watching complete tosh is perfect for me when the feelings kick in. 2 months in is still very early days. Give it time
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 11:21 AM
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Hey mate, you got an Andysmanclub near you? Hit them up if you do. Plenty of blokes have felt like you. It’s ok to talk!
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 05:50 PM
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Delete her before she updates her profile. It’ll hurt like a mother fucker. You don’t need that.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 07:20 AM
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I kept the family home when she moved in with AP. I’ve pretty much redecorates the entire house and made it a wonderful home for me and my son. Divorce sucks but life goes on.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/23 08:08 AM
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I'm a year into it at 41. For the first 6 months I went to the gym, ran and cried. 2nd 6 months I learnt to be content being on my own. Still sucks but I'm in a far better place than I was.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/23 11:29 AM
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If there’s one thing I’ve learned about women through my own divorce it’s that actions speak louder than words. If divorce has already been mentioned then you should start the process before the affair gig wears off and she changes her tune.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/23 07:57 AM
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She’s monkey branching my friend. You need to consult a lawyer ASAP and divorce her. When a woman says her feelings have changed it’s not something new, she’s been feeling this way for a long time. Concentrate on your son and hit the gym. Keep checking in here there’s some solid wisdom floating about. Good luck brother
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/23 07:32 AM
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That’s why I’m glad I filed for divorce. She didn’t want to but I needed to maintain some dignity. Once that ball was rolling feelings no longer play a part. Indifference sounds nice.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 12:55 PM
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I can relate to the Stockholm syndrome comment. She cheated on me and ripped up the family but I still worry that she’ll struggle with out me. Once the divorce is finalised I really need to look into that one...
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 06:50 AM
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Stay strong man! You can get through this.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 09:22 AM
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That’s useful 👍
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 10:16 AM
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You’ve literally described my current standpoint. Must be part of the process. Stay single and see how it goes.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 09:09 AM
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I’ve found that too. Women put no effort in on dating sites. I’m not chasing either!
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 05:47 PM
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Hit up the .gov website. It explains the new process for divorce in the Uk. It’s 20 weeks after she filed that the divorce starts. Gives you time to get everything in order.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 11:40 AM
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It a 20 week 'Reconciliation' period from filing for divorce till the process actually starts. I've got 9 weeks left. She left me under the same guise. Didn't take long till I found out about the other guy. Start the process now its a long wait. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/22 03:41 PM
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Everyone deals with it differently. Pretty sure the 1 year rule is to stop people rushing their recovery. That said are you working on yourself? Hitting the gym, pounding the pavement? Working on your mindset and finances? Put some quality time into you and your kid and everything will eventually fall into place.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 10:19 AM
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Inspiring 👍
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 08:51 AM
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There's a lot of us here who trusted our spouses. Asking you to move out straight away is rather suspicious. Trust your gut and start digging.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 07:11 PM
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It shows you care mate. You can have good times again just gotta ride out the storm.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 01:29 PM
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Yep. I kept the house she rented. Said I could go round whenever I wanted. First time I went round AP was there.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 10:11 AM
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Yeah, lookings not a good idea. I didn’t find this sub till 2 months after I caught her cheating. Would have stopped me doing plenty of stupid things.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/22 05:18 AM
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My situation is different as my STBXW had an affair and left me. For the first couple of months I talked to anybody and everybody that would listen, even those that didn’t want to. The amount of people that had been thorough something similar was astounding. Keep your chin up, good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/22 06:24 PM
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That’s fantastic mate. I filed a week ago. She’s too busy running around with AP to both doing it. Still struggling emotionally but I see snippets of my future, it looks good.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/22 11:57 AM
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