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So simple. So elegant. I’m clearly still overthinking - thank you brother
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:40 PM
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Thanks man. I have no intention to give up my freedom and I’m not going to. I know that much. It’s the sudden shock of seeing all the pieces finally start falling into place that’s giving me the kid with dynamite feeling. I just don’t want to blow up my game. My favorite line I got was - “there’s something about you that makes me want to break my rules” I can finally see behind the curtains but the light is blinding and unexpected
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:16 PM
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OYS 2/14 I haven’t posted an OYS update in a few months because it’s been a rocky year - Long story short for the year: * the wife and I decided to make the split * Sold our house * I got downsized at work * Got a new job after about a month, better salary * Got my own place, finally getting settled * ex gets diagnosed with MS * Kids are 50/50 * Get along with the ex better than ever now that we’re not living together * Been working out/ eating better down about 30lbs * I feel better about how I…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/19 07:34 PM
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Hey, thanks for taking the time to reply. I just read a great post the other day that mention resetting every day, (or was it in a book) oh well I think that is something I definitely need to make a conscious effort to do. You're right it is difficult, but I am definitely going to start focusing on that. Good to know its a useful tool to exit her frame
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 08:58 PM
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OYS May 30 - almost 2 months in Reading List: NMMNG - Done WISNIFG - Done TRM: Y1 - Done 12R4L - Done Models - Done TRM:PM - In Progress Hitting the Gym Hard - 4-5/wk 5’10” - 245lbs - BP:135 - SQ:250 - DL:235 The gym is starting to become my sanctuary, I purchased most of the reading list as audiobooks and listen to them as I lift. I attribute my speed at killing the Reading list to this fact. I’m going to re-listen to several I’ve been hitting the sidebar hard as you can see and every book, I l…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 04:21 PM
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How do I get you to represent me?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/18 02:30 PM
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Thanks for the reply man, that was definitely one of my victories this month. There have been a couple others and they're coming more frequently. Another was def handling the flat tire remotely, I kinda felt a mild out of body experience in handling that because I could see that way that BP me would have reacted with panic too and been like "shit I'll pack up the kids I'll be there to change it in 3 hours." Which is neither rational nor helpful. It's a signal to me that putting forth the effort …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/18 05:43 PM
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OYS - May 24 A lot has gone on in recent weeks and as a result I haven’t been posting on the OYS threads. But I have been journalling on my own. And spending more time with male friends unpacking my journey and interactions with my wife as I go along, Its been helpful enough. But I know that OYS is a keystone of the journey so here I am. *TL;DR Updates: * Sold the house Meeting with a divorce attorney next Friday so I can be prepared if it comes to that Having more Sex with the wife Am ready to …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/18 03:34 AM
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"If you shave your beard for a woman, you don't deserve either one" I remember this whenever my wife bitches about my beard getting too long.
/r/askMRP03/05/18 03:37 PM
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Thanks. I have stopped fapping and for the first time dont feel the urger to anymore, and haven't picked up a controller in weeks, I spend the time normally used for gaming at the gym, then am too tired when I get home, and don't really care. Edit: added a line
/r/askMRP02/05/18 02:13 PM
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I want to be able to respect myself for once in my life.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 01:12 PM
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Yeah that is something I did. It was really one of the first times I’ve been honest about my problems with myself let alone anyone else. I know I’m the lowest of the low and have been a bitch and am stuck in a childish mindset. I’m working through it and dealing with how I got here. we bought the house before she was SAHM, she has a therapy practice and was working at the local hospital before our second child. And doing the math for daycare we found her income from the hospital would be more th…
/r/askMRP01/05/18 10:41 PM
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I have already started viewing homes to purchase. Been looking at available rentals as well and yes schools and safety are a consideration in that search. As well as price and value.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 10:33 PM
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Thanks for this response it’s completely accurate. I do use YNAB and have been asserting more control over the decision making with re to where the money goes than previously. And yes she has been carrying the bulk of the weight in the relationship because I have been a pussy. I’ve come to acknowledge my shortcomings and am concentrating and making positive changes in those areas. Thanks for taking the time.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:57 PM
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Drunk captain for like 9 years
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:35 PM
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After thinking honestly about it, I’m not that worried about selling the house. I like the idea of the profit we stand to gain, and the house is 110 years old on a big lot and is a lot of work to maintain that I don’t really want to devote all my time to doing.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:24 PM
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Thanks for this and yeah, I don’t have a map in hand. I’m definitely hitting the gym after work to try to clear my head about it. I know some things I DONT want, a few things I do. I WANT my kids to be happy, healthy and well adjusted, unlike how my parents prepared me for life. I DON’T want to get divorced - but ultimately I acknowledge the fact that this is likely the result of Oneitis I WANT to be outcome independent and establish and maintain frame. I WANT to stop DEERing and get on with jus…
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:14 PM
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That’s a fair point, I hadn’t considered that.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 06:18 PM
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Thanks for the input I’ll keep that in mind. I think I was winking from a mindset that the confusion is good. I’ll assess and adjust. I guess I also was just thinking about how I actually did have shit I wanted to get done before work.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 01:17 PM
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Don't get so busy with your mission that you miss the forest for the trees. Clearly she was initiating. Whether you want it or not with all the bullshit she's pulling is another matter. You're right and its a good point. While she WAS initiating though, I thought it was a good opportunity to try to withholding affection (a month ago I'd have fallen over myself to say yes, but I also would have been waiting up by the front door for her when she got home) I'm explicitly trying to do the opposite o…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 07:58 PM
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OYS #2.5 - forgot last week - no one to blame but me Last week I forgot to post an OYS - because I wasn’t owning my shit. Was home alone with the kids most of the week while she was out of town at her grandparents place, let myself slide into my bad habits. Saw a direct correlation in how my week(end) went when I wasn’t owning my shit. Doubled down on the reading, hit the gym hard, and focusing on STFU Running on a bit of a mRP high this morning from seeing first hand RP behaviors working in my …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 03:30 PM
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I know I'm a couple days late, but here: OYS #1 - Just getting started Based on my initial sidebar reading, I am a struggling career beta. I’m just getting started with the lifestyle, been lurking for a while but haven’t had the balls to start yet. I’ve finally gotten the kick in the ass from a couple sources. 1) The state of my marriage is not where I want it to be (more on that below), and as such I’m SICK AND TIRED of being in this bullshit societally conditioned role of whipping boy and door…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/18 07:48 PM
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