Cheeseblockz Archive

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6	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/28/13 It's all in the sub-communication, the conversation is simply a by-product. I first urge you to master the "Be the buyer, not the seller" frame. Once this is internalized, it is simple to get them to actively qualify themselves. You also are in the driver's seat to shift it in any direction, regardless of the topic as you are clearly not putting that person on a pedestal. With that aforementioned frame, you are actively reminding yourself that the power is held in your hands and you won't subcon…	/r/seduction	29/10/13 05:34 PM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/25/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Being confident and being yourself are the two main ingredients for which the rest of self-mastery grows from.	/r/seduction	26/02/13 06:41 PM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/25/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Becoming the life of the party/conversation is grounded in a few fundamental beliefs in my opinion: Emitting an aura of 'value-giving' rather than 'value-seeking' -- which is obtainable by expressing one's unique personality to positively influence others. If you come from this frame, others will be attracted to you as if you were the second coming of christ. In a way, you will have that heavenly glow about you that is noticed by everyone in attendance. Another extremely important paradigm to co…	/r/seduction	26/02/13 06:21 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/1/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Simplest way I can put it: Confidence = True to your core, expressing yourself genuinely; aloof from societal expectations and viewpoints. The word 'confidence' practically dissolves at this point and becomes meaningless. 'Confidence' is who you REALLY are and the uniqueness that is displayed as a result. Cockiness = Disingenuously calibrating your thoughts/actions to societies stereotypes. Essentially, not being your true self; misaligned with the aforementioned core values. It is a sad attempt…	/r/seduction	01/02/13 07:14 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/8/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) The one weakness I view is that you aren't putting enough emphasis on initial logistics. (her situation most importantly, and yours) Julien from RSD is pretty much the master at this in my eyes. Before things get quite hot and heavy, he has already screened for logistics extensively. (Who are you here with? Where do you live? Plans tomorrow? etc. etc.) This lets him know if the potential girl he is investing time in, has the potential for an f-close. He will then calibrate his approach to leap o…	/r/seduction	09/01/13 10:47 PM
6	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/8/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) I have a feeling you are putting this girl on a pedestal, coupled with a lack of formidable self-confidence, while exuding an aura of scarcity. She is a normal human being and shouldn't be approached like some exotic, extinct animal in the rain forest. When is the best time? The next time you see her. MAKE IT HAPPEN. There are plenty of ways to approach her and you damn well know each and every one of them because they are OBVIOUS. You clearly lack the amount of self-confidence needed to approac…	/r/seduction	09/01/13 10:29 PM
4	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/8/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) I've always believed that if you can't remember the girls name, she wasn't worth your time. Meaning that you would dedicate whatever memory space needed to remember it because she was polarizing to you in some manner. The generic answer goes back to the Mike Baker example: If you meet a Mike Baker and think nothing of it rather than another name, it can be easy to forget. If you meet a Mike Baker, and think internally of a 'Baker' who bakes cakes, pies, pastries, etc., you can easily remember hi…	/r/seduction	08/01/13 10:57 PM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/8/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) This situation is tricky as it appears she has passed on you a couple times. I'm not sure if you are big on patience but I'd personally have her proactively contact me when she wants to hang out next. If she is as into you as you thought she was, she will reach out to you. If not, who cares? There are many other women out there that would cherish your attention and affection. Err*** on the side of a 'walk-away' mentality and more girls will be attracted to you than you would ever imagine. edit: …	/r/seduction	08/01/13 10:47 PM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/8/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) After generating a copious amount of attraction in our initial interaction and insinuating that I'm planning to take her on a date verbally, I will inquire via text what her schedule looks like: Me: "Hey, dick gremlin, This is Cheeseblockz. What's your schedule like this coming week? Let's grab some coffee/drinks/something inexpensive and get to know each other better." Her: GENERALLY she will straight up tell you the days she is free; if not, she will provide a weekly schedule of when she works…	/r/seduction	08/01/13 10:41 PM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/8/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) As weird as this may sound initially: Even though it's her birthday, you should be 'the party'. Take a page out of Tim's book and just come bringing positive emotions, adding to the atmosphere juxtaposed to the needy person looking for something out of her. If you want the girl, you have to be able to let her go; don't worry so much about vocalizing your need for her at the end of the night, that will only drive her away. Once your state becomes impregnable, the rest will honestly fall into plac…	/r/seduction	08/01/13 10:30 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/8/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) Easy. Stop even referring to being 'that guy' and start giving less of a fuck. The main problem: you are putting too much emphasis on what people think of you when in actuality, the paradox of that thought process is that people are so concerned with others opinions of them that there are in actuality no individuals pointing out and saying: "Oh, there's 'that guy'." They simply don't exist, it is a self-created thought caused by inane social paranoia. The quicker you bleach your brain from that …	/r/seduction	08/01/13 10:05 PM
5	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/8/2013 (please upvote - zero karma) If you are properly exuding a ONS frame, your whole sub-communicative body language should be 100% congruent to that(through kino, eye contact, basically any and all body language that screams: "I WANT TO FUCK YOU"), the entire length of the interaction. Words are irrelevant at that point because it is so painstakingly obvious what you want and you are clearly not sending mixed signals in any way. --- In regards to the day 2 attempt at a ONS --- This gets discussed a lot here how women's emotion…	/r/seduction	08/01/13 09:50 PM
1	:) ;) :P ;P These four emoticons are one the great mysteries to men in this community. Discuss. (; <--- next level sexual implications .....ORRRR just cut to the chase with: ()()======D~~~~ \|(')\|	/r/seduction	01/08/12 07:07 PM
6	Kino while sitting Though you may not be resourceful, I'll help you anyway. Just last night I had a date with a dime breezy at a chill bar. When you are in a bar normally you will be sitting side by side on presumably bar stools. What does this give you immediate access to? IMPORTANT TO NOTE If you are planning on escalating, take an aggressive sitting stance, ie. body opened up to her, facing her, sit INITIALLY close, don't fucking start out far and do the awkward stool scoot all the way to her and make those wre…	/r/seduction	01/08/12 02:40 PM
11	Show of hands, who has actually gone out and approached solo? So I've been doing this a little while in Dallas while just recently getting over some seemingly chronic one-itus. Granted it has only been three or so weekends, here is what I have to report: Club scene: Honestly, probably the easiest for me to go solo mainly because of the plethora of drunk women in the sluttiest attire seeking validation from any man with a pulse. If you are even remotely attractive, you can approach quite aggressively (in a sexual manner) and escalate quickly. By making some…	/r/seduction	31/07/12 03:36 PM
108	Things to whisper into girl's ears at bars. "Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?"	/r/seduction	27/07/12 01:32 AM
2	Should I feel bad about this situation, even though I got rejected? Sort-of friend? Sounds like there is no substance there at all. Keep acting on how you feel and not be so concerned with a scrub who is merely a roadblock. Props for getting after it regardless.	/r/seduction	26/07/12 08:14 PM
2	Going to Padre this weekend, any tips? Louie's backyard FOR SURE. Fuck Club Chaos if that shit is even open right now. It may be just on the weekends. Louie's will be the ONLY place you will find attractive women at in the nighttime aside from combing the street parallel with all of the beachside condos/beach houses. I also hear the beach is a great place to meet girls ;) Build a fucking sand beer pong table with cups filled with water and be amazed at the amount of vagina that shit attracts. GG	/r/seduction	26/07/12 08:01 PM
2	Men of Reddit, what type of women are you most attracted to? I'm looking for an improper fraction. Fuck 8/10, 9/10, 10/10. I want those 12/10's; the ones that are too good for me even though I will never admit to it. She has to have the rump of a goddess. If the girl doesn't have an ass, I frankly can't have an intense sexual attraction to her. I particularly only gun for exotic girls, olive --> yellow bone range in skin color and light eyes (either variants of blue or green). Body needs to be TIGHT and she can't have mosquito bite titties. I need to be a…	/r/seduction	26/07/12 07:50 PM