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| 4 | Indicator of interestThe double look. Or suddenly she’s standing near you for no apparent reason. | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Attraction happens when you're NOT trying...What you’re really describing is not being desperate, which IS attractive. Think of it like getting a new job. You still need to search for, apply, and interview for the job. If you already have a job; however, you won’t come off as desperate. It’s the perception of not being desperate that is attractive, as opposed to not actually trying. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | It’s not a numbers game, it’s a game of probabilitySeduction is being a sexual guy who evokes emotion in women, is socially calibrated, and gets women aroused and invested. If you focus on these skills you will improve the probability significantly more than focusing on going to the gym or self improvement alone. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | "Excuse me, can I get your number?" opener success rate?Can I get your number is not an opener. You get her contact info once she’s agreed to see you again for coffee or drinks. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you’re in the receiving end of simmering (pre ghosted)In the seduction community guys will often say she’s not yours until you’ve slept with her. This also works in the reverse too. If he hasn’t slept with you after a month then he’s not your lover. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel afraid to ask for a number, not out of fear of getting rejected, but out of fear of appearing creepy, annoying or overbearingThen ask her to grab a coffee or a drink instead | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Men, what is your go-to openers for women who seem to want casual sex on dating apps ?Are you open to something casual? 8/10 she’ll say sure. The other 2 will say what do you mean exactly? | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 05:31 PM |
| 0 | I just made my self look desperateWhy are you following her on insta? All her orbiters follower her on insta. Text or call her and get her out. You’ll be better off than the other 99% of her insta followers. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Do women like validation more than sex?It’s most likely your approach to setting up the meet. Most women are open to meeting if you play your cards right. We’d need to see how your going about it to be sure. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning.There’s the other half of the attraction equation — take the same two guys in your example and the unfit, unkempt guy can get her over the fit social guy. The guy who approached her, made her feel an emotional connection, and got her sexually aroused gets the girl. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 01:01 AM |
| 22 | Witnessed a successful approachNever ask a woman for advice on picking up women | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 12:41 AM |
| 3 | r/relationships says cold approaching in college doesn’t work out 99% of the time and is creepy… what y’all think?The more important fact to consider when cold approaching are, of the girls you approached, what number of them were already in a committed relationship? When you subtract that number from your total approaches, then the percentage of girls that are receptive to your cold approaching looks much more compelling. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Guys who are cold approaching during the day time, what's your approach to close ratio?Approach 10 women 1/2 will give you a phone number - 5 1/2 will respond to your text - 2.5 1/2 will agree to meet up - 1.5 1/2 will close - .625 This is a scientifically proven fact lol. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Are you transparent about wanting casual sex?There’s no need to state it. If she’s willing to be isolated with you alone at your place , then she’s willing to have sex. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 6 | I’m too nervous to kiss a girl until the very end of the date and ask to kiss them how do I stop being so scared?There’s a natural progression (escalation) to kissing. You can skip steps and kiss her within the first few minutes, but if it’s not congruent with your interaction it will seem forced and out of place. make sure you are isolated from other people and you two are alone. Then place your index finger under her chin and guide her in for a kiss. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 12:02 AM |
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