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Maybe it effects child support. Or maybe it’s about your family and her not wanting someone in family or friends to know. Super weird. Agree.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 03:12 PM
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Also, call a lawyer ffs
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 01:45 AM
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In Nevada it’s all split 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 01:45 AM
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Yeah. Except you will do it again. lol
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 06:45 PM
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It comes in waves. How long has it been since divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:48 AM
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Yeah. Waking up from a nightmare and remembering you rather be sleeping anyway. Been there. Hang tough. It gets better. Time is only cure
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 08:42 PM
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Exactly.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 04:34 PM
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The legal system is broke. Some juries just pick a verdict because they want to go home.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 06:21 PM
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Value. They will come out and appraise it for you and you can take a loan against the value.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 10:07 PM
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Get a job as fireman and schedule your days off when she is sweet. Work when she is angry.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 05:43 PM
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👊🏼
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 04:42 PM
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For context, my mom gave me the diamond but I wouldn’t say it was one of her prized possessions. She is well off and I am 1 of 6 so she was helping me out, not really handing me down a family heirloom in ceremonial way. So letting it go wasn’t emotional for her or me.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 04:42 PM
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I asked my mother this question when I was going through my divorce. My mom actually passed the diamond on to me which I had put in the ring to give to my now ex. So I asked my mom should I ask for it back or count it in the asset split? Her answer was no. Forget it. So that’s what I did. I guess the ring valued somewhere around 20k was not significant enough in terms of the split of assets to be argued. It’s also possibly a classless move to ask for it back. Every situation is different. But if…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 03:58 AM
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Good to know
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 04:36 AM
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The lawyer will sort you out. Not sure if California is a community property state but you will be ok. Hang tough. Sorry you are going through it. Protect your daughter at all costs.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 04:12 AM
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There are some great utube videos on this.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 03:27 PM
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I think marriage is more for the gays now.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 04:58 AM
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Nope. You seem to be right on point from where I’m standing. You need this on record. If it gets worse you will be able to use this along with other things to remove your kids from that environment. Document everything. Lawyer is completely right.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 09:25 PM
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Spend it!!! You gonna end up giving it to her anyways.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 08:29 PM
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Bro. Once when I was young and having trouble with Mario brothers castle I just couldn’t figure it out. I had a dream and in dream did it first time with new technique. Woke up, played, beat it first time. Dreams are real. Our subconscious knows. Still tho, let it go. Only hurting yourself. Breath. Deep breaths, eyes closed. Imagine a lake at your feet. With each breath you are sucking in the lake. Huge breaths. Now remember, you can only control yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 07:28 PM
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She can change for better also….the comments in here “divorced men” group are biased and jaded. All of these men have been hurt. You are asking a partial jury to make a recommendation. You love her, she loves you, healthy relationship, healthy family. She wants to get married. You aren’t scared of her, you are scared of marriage itself. She sounds perfect for you and supportive. You would feel this sickness with anyone. Not her, it’s just your way of responding to the fear of unknown. It’s gonna…
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 06:33 PM
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Marry her….ignore the physical signs. Warren Buffett says buy when everyone else is throwing up.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 06:20 PM
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Got it. My bad
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 02:21 AM
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Just picture her naked. I heard that’s what public speakers do. Calms the nerves. 🤣😂. Sorry couldn’t help it. Only kidding. Seriously though. Just Enjoy yourself and your time with your daughter. Don’t put too much weight on it. Don’t over do it. Just allow her to be shy and don’t press anything. Soon you will re establish a relationship with her. She is so young she probably adapts quicker. You just want her to be in a safe feeling place when she is with you. Be a good person. First visit of ma…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 07:33 PM
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Yeah the DBT stuff works. It’s a lot of obvious stuff but I learned some great skills for when it was worse days to cope. If you draw a blank there I have a weekly I don’t go to anymore but can send you the email address if you dm me and the guy will get you in. It’s free, you don’t need to talk or even show your camera if you don’t want. It’s never ending circle so you would just start wherever they are and go forward. No judgement or anything. Like an AA meeting pretty much. Also the online da…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 07:26 PM
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Bro. Go on dating sites. Not to date. To chat. It helps a lot. If you end up with a connection that’s a bonus but it helps to talk and light flirt. Also there are free classes online called DBT. Helps deal with stress and teach you ways to stop the spiral. It gets better. You know that. Your job now is to just do the next best thing. Get through this part and limit the damage. Take small steps. It gets better.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 07:00 PM
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Well you my friend are a minority. Many people get married now and get divorced just as easy. It heard to mean something. My Ex wife has had 3 divorces. What a joke right? I was her 3rd. My only divorce. I doubt I will ever marry again because I am sickened by the ease at which people divorce. I would rather work on it forever than fail. Not many like you or me left tho. It’s sickening. When you marry….stay true to yourself. Don’t go to sleep angry. Admit when you are wrong. Walk old ladies acro…
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 05:02 PM
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I really hope this doesn’t insult you or rub you the wrong way but she kind of sounds like a gold digger. My guess is she follows the money. I know from experience…. Ask yourself this….how long would she stay if you didn’t have a good job.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 04:46 PM
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Marriage is no longer a sacred bond. Divorce is more common than staying together and working on it. Sad
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 04:42 PM
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Online dating. Even if you aren’t aggressive or looking to necessarily go out it’s a good way to chat and do some light flirting. It will give you a smile here and there and you will learn to re engage with the opposite sex.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 02:37 AM
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That sucks. I’m sure you feel used. Most likely it was never her intent. But 10 months in after being with her 3.5 years. Little odd. Any chance she thinks she will get some alimony or something? Sounds like money is a key subject in your post. Hopefully she isn’t factoring this into her actions but 10 months into a marriage….I don’t buy the I’m a different person line.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 10:12 PM
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Exactly
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 10:01 PM
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Devils advocate….. My X treated me the exact same way towards the end. Do both care enough to try and fix it or not? It’s simple. If one person has checked out, no matter how hard you try it doesn’t work.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 10:01 PM
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Oh, I misunderstood…sorry. We all support OP and pool together to reinforce that his wife sucks and should be down on her knees even when clearly OP is unhappy and so is she. Got it….
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 09:57 PM
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You titled it “I Hate My Wife”…. Sorry, but purely based on that you seem like the kind of person(know from experience) who must also have said some things to your wife that scars and doesnt disappear the next day. Being intimate with a person who hurts you is not easy(unless you’re into that). My point is, the intimacy is the last thing you should be worried about right now. If things are good, it will come. Is it worth salvaging is the question you want to ask yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:20 PM
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Hinge is best. It’s not bad people on there. Times have changed. This is where people meet.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 04:03 PM
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