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really give you applicable advice since we don't know what type of relationship u have with them. Its up to you to make the call whether their real friends or not, if u feel like their not ur real friends then ghost them. lol Cartman "omg i got ass burgers!" ​ and "artist" is autist.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:18 AM
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I hope the part of calling 911 was omitted from the story of true events.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 02:33 PM
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Irresponsibility is her forte. It’s just what she does. Just like getting pregnant at that age. She was irresponsible to let a buster nut inside her. She’s irresponsible to introduce the little girl to many guys. Something tells me she’s irresponsible for many other things.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 08:21 PM
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This. If they’re not showing something, they’re hiding it. No one that has a nice body hides it from view.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 08:17 PM
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When they list all their problems on why I should give money to them, I think “not my monkeys, not my circus”. Especially if I get the “well I’m a single mother”. Yeah, you have 7 kids. That wasn’t an accident.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/19 05:16 PM
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This is why I don’t help so much anymore. Not the “nice guy” I used to be. The reason they’re broke needs to be worked on first, not that you “just need $10”. Giving them the $10 is just enabling their current behavior.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/19 04:52 PM
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Give me evidence where you say you’re lucky to live past 60 in this case. Sounds like anecdotal evidence in your example.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 04:54 AM
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I get the point but if I had 2 billion, from then on would be the best 28 years of life.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 02:27 AM
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Never mind. My crew played me. They knew the trap. How do I delete this post on mobile? I can’t get to a computer for a few days.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:43 AM
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I’m trying to use her/him as a launchpad.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:31 AM
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This is basically what the sub is turning into. No one wants to put in work, just want quick answers. I really hope for people to resize that getting a quick answer over and over without putting in work to actually read is detrimental to self development. Short term answer: how do I do this? Long term learning: Where can I go to learn about this?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:55 PM
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Did you meet her in a club or in your parents kitchen?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:23 PM
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Because when I make a point it doesn’t have to include every possible outcome.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/08/19 02:33 AM
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If he was a priest he would be forgiven and given early retirement 🙏 🙏
/r/PussyPassDenied23/08/19 01:53 AM
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Do you think that people that fuck thousands of women are actually happy? They’re not. When you get to extremes like that, the very thing you’re doing many many times over only keeps you feeling happy for a very short while. Kind of like taking drugs over and over makes you feel happy but once you stop you’re life is in the dumps. Drugs are required for that person to feel happy which is not good. To another extreme, being a total intel can feel bad. But to get a woman you can’t be desperate bec…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:09 PM
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Exactly. Psychical things make changes to ones “mind”. If something is different physically that translates into changes in someone’s mind. Are you screaming because you chopped your leg off and are in hellish pain? That pain is literally only in the persons mind, but people wouldn’t just tell them to “suck it up it’s only in your mind”. Yet it really is real.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:59 PM
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This is dead wrong. Nothing “requires” a woman in life for a man in life except kids. If you’re life isn’t fulfilling without a woman, it will never be fulfilling with a woman.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:55 PM
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Yes. In a way it has always been. If someone fully gets The Red Pill, they would be out doing their own thing instead of being on a forum like this. The people that truly are whom this forum is made to ask are not around. With a few exceptions, The only people around answering are people that are asking too. There isn’t a panel of red pill wizards standing by to answer your questions. Even teenagers feel “alpha” so they given”alpha” advice from their point of view. As the age of a person increas…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:17 PM
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Seriously. This is the truth. Forces drive you to “feel” or think in a certain way until you get whatever that goal is, then that feeling drops. This is why they say jerk off before meeting a potential LTR, if you’re into that. After you cum, you will Be more logical.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:38 AM
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Lol I just looked up “I was in the pool”. Pretty much played out like that. It’s like deja vu
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:37 PM
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Seinfeld? Is that a new or a pilot one now?
/r/askTRP09/08/19 10:45 PM
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Dude, no. To be witty you can’t say shit like that. It has to be clear and easy to understand,
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:24 AM
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I think this is true for most people at many stages of life. The friends you have now and spend the most time with reflect where you are in life. Very few of those people are headed in the same direction that you want to go. If you want to go into business, you will naturally find yourself hanging around more business oriented people/groups. You will naturally spend less time with those whom are a couch potatoes, in turn making them less of friends. Never underestimate the effect people around y…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:07 AM
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The strategy is a moral but when you cheat, it goes against you. I think you’re trying to find an avenue to justify cheating. When you have an LTR, you are giving your word that it is exclusive. Right now you are not a man of your word. That is not very “redpill” or alpha. Going behind someone’s back is a very non-alpha thing to do.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:48 AM
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Can you just call the police?
/r/askTRP03/08/19 01:33 AM
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Exactly. People do this because they feel like someone is trying to control them and discounting what they feel.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:42 PM
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It’s some crap she picked up in church. Whatever they talked about gave her “feels”, and is testing that bullshit in reality. If you give in, you will fall into her trap/frame. I’d personally not go next weekend. Say you have something you want to do with the boys. Maybe even add in something like you haven’t seen them in a while and want to rekindle the connection between you and your boys. It will 1.) show her that you don’t give a shit about her trying to test you about going sexless(which a …
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:55 PM
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Give watered down advice. They’re usually looking for something to feel better about, not hard unfiltered advice that may actually launch them in the right direction.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 10:33 PM
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It’s ok. Fuck those people that down vote me. It’s fake internet points anyways. But if you meet people on asktrp, I guarantee most will be weird too. But it’s a good starting point if there is no starting point for clubs.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:53 PM
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Meetup.com is a good starting point if no clubs are known.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 10:09 PM
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This is the answer. If you’re open for whenever, it means you won’t be doing shit. That’s very unattractive. It may feel good to the person saying it but the perception is that they have no life.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 09:26 PM
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some help bro?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 04:27 PM
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“Ex plate added me on Facebook”. Learn to explain things correctly.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:40 AM
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She can’t add you without you accepting it. You accepted her friend request if she added you.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 11:59 PM
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I think sometimes it’s slower than that. The question about working out is more of a confrontation than an genuine question. I am thinking more of questions to first understand where their mind actually is then slowly work toward a different direction. Always try to seem genuine and that you understand where they’re coming from. It works if you make them feel understood, especially if you have been there...or they think you do. People usually take advice from people who have been in their positi…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:54 AM
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You can’t make someone change or want to change. The closest I’ve come to doing this is by asking them questions, but not too many questions. Just enough to spark thoughts inside their head. All you can do is plant a seed (thoughts). It’s up to them to water it and make it grow. If you had a friend that really reallllly wanted a beautiful garden, you could help them plant a seed but you wouldn’t go there every day and tend to their garden: make sure the weeds are taken care of, that the plants a…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:27 PM
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No one makes you be sympathetic to people or fake empathy. If you don’t like them and think they’re stupid for their proble,s just stop being around them. You are the average of 5 people that you are around the most. If people don’t want to improve their life, sometimes you just gotta drop them from your life. You’re putting your mind into their situation as if you are them...as if they had your mind. Through that perspective, of course they would want to hear what you have to say. The solution …
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:22 PM
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Father Charles?
/r/askTRP15/07/19 12:30 PM
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Mid 30s?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:53 PM
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I always remember that no one cares more about you than yourself. And you teach others how to treat you. All the people that I know that aren’t going anywhere in life are the types to talk about successful people being assholes and “they only care for themselves”, all while praying for someone to save them from their bad situation. You will always be an asshole to someone so you might as well be the asshole that gets what they want.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:33 PM
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He Sounds pretty young.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 03:28 PM
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I don’t think this is even AskTRP anymore since, as you said, the people that started this are long gone. Much of it is asking people that are looking for answers themselves. Many that are inside their heads most of the time but haven’t applied much.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 12:43 AM
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That’s the problem with this sub: so many are nicels and neckbeards that are always in their heads for most of their day. Hats off to those that are using this sub to internalize truths to make their lives better, but we all know much of this sub is full of keyboard warriors; they speak truths to feel superior without any actual application. And SPEAKING IN ALL CAPS makes them feel more powerful. I hope this helps. Gtg, my mommy is making spaghetti tonight :) and she will be mad if I don’t come …
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:48 PM
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That’s one of the most beta things I’ve seen on here: You seriously had to send a pic to validate yourself? In case that isn’t you and just someone’s random picture, I won’t point out the multiple negative things I see, other than what you claimed to be true but shows to be false.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 08:03 PM
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Do you have that weak of frame that you can’t control yourself? You can’t just walk away from them? If people you chose to hang out with talk shit and you move to fight, that just means you’re easily triggered and need a stronger frame.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:46 AM
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Something else is going on mentally if that is what comes up every time and you feel bad about it when you’re with a hot girl.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 03:34 PM
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Well? Where’s the pic?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 12:01 AM
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“Eat as much as you want” then you will not be like him. No one said annexing yourself to death. Dieting doesn’t equal starving. Dieting means watch what you eat and eat correctly. You have the view of a 600lb person dieting. You can never out train a bad diet. Clearly you aren’t like him nor have you tried to get down to his shape if you don’t know what “brutal” we all refer to. And it’s. It just an American thing that some are fat.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:14 PM
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And have more to do with diet than the gym. Gym workout are important but if You have a layer of fat on them, they will never show. Getting that lean can be brutal.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:23 PM
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I’m planning on it. She’s coming to visit me in person. She said she’s going to take a bus into town. Her name is LaFawnda. I’ll have to hold a sign out for her when she arrives, like in the airport.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:55 PM
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This is very true. People aren’t against you (for the most part) but they are for themselves. This is why you have to be for yourself. it may “feel bad” for the inexperienced but get this: most people don’t give a fuck about you and if it’s either them or you, they will pick themselves 100% of the time. People may call others assholes but it’s not the successful persons responsibility to make sure the nice person gets what they need also.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:30 PM
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This is right. The comment before yours was shit. In this case op can’t make her an orbiter.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 01:15 AM
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Are you trolling us, OP? If not you’re a fucking grape.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 03:40 PM
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I’d suggest doing other methods of reducing anxiety. Depending on alcohol to curb anxiety is a recipe for making it even worse.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:09 AM
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Exactly. It’s still a dude even if they cop their penis off. Or even just by dressing like a woman. There were people saying that people are sexist and transphobic because the other person wouldn’t date or sleep with the trans person.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 09:05 PM
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Idk man, I think there’s something more to it than that. No one could do anything to make me want to suck a dick or be romantic with a guy. If I felt lonely, thr last thing I’d think about is “man, a cock in my mouth/butt would really hit the spot right now.”
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:53 AM
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Finding a reason doesn’t matter in the end if finding a reason is only used for mental masturbation and nothing is done.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 06:21 AM
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The goal is to just stop drinking, sure, but What can help is figure out why you’re drinking and focus on that.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 02:07 AM
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Im not bothered at all, it’s just puzzling how on here people would downvote facts. I actively encourage anyone to downvote me because I give zero fucks about my “karma” every few months I get a new username to rid myself of any reddit score like karma that people seem to get so addicted to. I don’t comment for reddit karma like a lot of people do.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 09:13 PM
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I’ve member seem antisemitism on here. The only thing close I’ve ever seen is a few people talking about what they do to little baby boys when they’re born, and what the rabbi does with his mouth after, but no “down with the Jews!” Talk. I think OP wants to feel authoritative.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 06:05 PM
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He’s a fuckin grape
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:25 AM
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Ronda Rousey could whip 99% of males. Not all males are mma fighters.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:42 PM
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If you think of areas that have inbreeding, their facial features and other things can be messed up which make us think they’re ugly.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:20 AM
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May have to do with the smaller tribes that stay isolated from the outside world, and the small genetic pool. Maybe not directly inbreeding but with a small pool, if a genetic issue pops up, it can spread quickly.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:17 AM
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Exactly. Anything other than this advice is providing fake comfort. Break up. You teach others how to treat you.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:04 AM
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She’s probably already cheating.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 12:23 PM
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Why wait for it to get really bad? If you see it going south now it’s better to break up now. The worse things the crazier the other person may get. Use the energy now to set things up (something like a new apartment, move out while she’s away...etc.) so you can make a clean break. No need to waste more of your time
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:28 AM
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I question the tip well. Do you want to be friends with people because of money? Be interested in them first.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:18 AM
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If he had abundance in his life, he wouldn’t give a shit about this/her
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:38 PM
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No one is making you text back to them. Just don’t do it.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:40 PM
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This is true. It makes you wonder why others get remarried after they get divorced. They’re more than likely going to get divorced again (75-80% do in remarriages)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 02:12 AM
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Not sure if this is helpful also but one thing for nasal issues bow to clean them out with a salt water solution. I use the NeilMed bottle from Walmart or almost any store. I don’t like the Netipot so I use the bottle. Let’s you vary the pressure if needed.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 12:18 AM
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One thing I noticed when I talk is I slightly close the airway between my nose cavity and throat when I talk. That lets less air resonate inside my sinuses, I’m guessing.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 11:14 PM
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Are you a timid type of person naturally? I find if I use less air and less/no core strength to move air when I talk, I hear more of a fry. When I move more air when I talk that is controlled more with me chest and stomach, the fry goes away. If you’re timid, you may tend to not use enough air. After I typed the above, I found this video which said the same thing: https://youtu.be/S0HCEEHvV7s. I haven’t watched the whole thing but not enough air was one of the first things they mentioned
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 11:09 PM
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A fry is when your voice has distortion and not smooth, caused by hearing the vocal cords vibrate individually or in rapid pulses instead of smooth sound.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 03:10 PM
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I’ll get with the mods to make sure this subreddit tailors exactly to what you need.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 05:22 PM
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Winnipeg
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 04:41 PM
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The biggest thing in the book for most people is the idea of “covert contracts”. This is a core problem with Nice Guys. This is mostly due to the fact that they don’t have very good communication skills so they do things for others that they are good at, then expect their needs to be met by the people they helped. These are needs that they are most likely things they have trouble with.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:08 PM
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I saw that I had covert contracts with most friends. When I saw that and stopped, they weren’t friends long. Nothing bad happened but I had no attention for them anymore so they faded away.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:06 PM
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No More Mr Nice Guy was the best first book of this type that I read. Learning of The idea of the “covert contract” was a game changer for me. Changed my life literally over night for the better. This was very noticeable to others as well. All of the sudden I was taking care of my own needs first and being at peace with that. I also had a very easy time telling others no.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:39 PM
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Starting out, I think the first book people here should read is No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:33 PM
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