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| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".You can’t claim you want traditional roles while engaging with prostitute. If it's okay for "non-traditional" women to still expect men to pay for dates, wedding rings and divorce settlements, then men can fuck escorts. isn’t going to change your circumstances with women in the dating market. It's not abut changing male circumstances, it's about changing the female ones. Once men can skip all the approaching, conversations, courtship and just get easy access to sex with nice looking women, the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Dude when have you ever been in any environment that was all dudes and been like “fuck When I'm out going to the movies, gaming, hiking or getting food with my friends? How desperate of a guy do you have to be that your sense of fun is measured by how much easy pussy is in a room? please stop speaking for all men Since morons like you started speaking for men testosterone rates have pummeled. My views and attitudes are much more in tuned with traditionally natural masculine thoughts and values, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:25 AM |
| 8 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".They see all of them, and yet they’d still rather be alone with their cats. Sucks to suck. Outside of sex most men could give a shit about having a female around, If anything it annoys them. Many women even know that most guys tolerate a chicks presence to get to sex. This is because modern, feminized women in comparison to any other women at any other time, bring so little to a relationship that looks is their only selling point. This is why Western women are so looks obsessed and sexual follow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:51 AM |
| 18 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Look at the couples around you shopping. Are you seeing a bunch of Chads with gals you think should be with you? Chad's do not hold hands, go out in pubic or seriously date average or below chicks, they just use them as booty calls and temporary sex. The the fact that its so uncommon to see Chads with average girls only proves OP's point. Young, looks matched couples are the norm. Chubs are with chubs, average is with average, rednecks are with rednecks, hot couples are together, yada yada. If y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:41 AM |
| -1 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?and so will 60% of men lmao. Ohhh nooo!!! You mean 60% of men will no longer have to worry about getting divorce raped or losing their kids in child custody courts??!! Those poor bastards will probably be burdened with all that extra disposable income, many will even have....nice vacations and sex with quality escorts, the horror!! women gatekeep both sex and relationships against average men. Until prostitution is legalized/normalized. Once that's done most men would give a fuck about trying to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:21 AM |
| 9 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?then men need to start bringing more to the table if they want a woman Or women use their heads and realize that logically the vast majority of them are logically not worthy of top quality. top 20% men, and if they do think so they can go on and die alone. They will not be missed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?Hundreds of millions of men aren't just going to wake up one day and say "Hey I should assume self control and stop simping!". If that could happen it would have already. Provide an output for male thirst (legal and safe prostitution) and they wont have any desire to simp as they'd be sexually satisfied. Telling men to stop simping over and over solves nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:36 AM |
| 8 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?will insist on paying for themselves on dates. Keyword paying for themselves. Most men are expected by women to pay for the date in it's entirety. How many women insist for paying for both themselves and the man on a first date?? Like I said if a man even suggested even the most egalitarian women would be repulsed, meanwhile many man will do it without a second thought. Who sounds more entitled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:31 AM |
| 10 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?Women are happier without a husband The least happy people in the country are single women over the age 40. Maybe women are so happy because they make up a majority of antidepressant users which is strange cause they actually attempt suicide 2-3 times more often than men. Who are you fooling? Anyone whose been around single, childless women over 40 knows a lot live empty, miserable lives or devolve to becoming crazy cat ladies. Men would be better off not marrying women and saving themselves fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:27 AM |
| 14 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?To me, "entitled" would imply that they are demanding to be given something, i.e. that it is an obligation for them to be given that thing. Most women would be literally insulted at the idea of having to fully pay for a first date, something that men in this age of "gender equality" do frequently and often. Women are definitely more entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:52 AM |
| 11 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?either men bring more to the table, or they go without a woman. women arent entitled, men are Or women lower their unrealistic, delusional standards. If 80% of women expect the top 20% of men the best case scenario is 60% of women dying alone. Most men would be more than happy with a moderately attractive (6/7 and up) woman who occasionally cooks and clean. Whereas most women expect a man to approach, plan dates, text, pay for dinner, be charismatic, buy a diamond ring, get on one knee and propo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:44 AM |
| 47 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?bunch of thirsty fucks that can't stop simping Legalize and normalize prostitution then. Expecting sexless men not to simp is like expecting starving men not to beg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Is it OK for a man to ask a woman he's dating for emotional support?We're in it together and both rely on each other for emotional support. Yeah this is idealist, sounds-good-on-paper advice but it's not feasible in real life situations. I would be hesitant about suggesting that men rely on women they're dating for emotional support. He should handle his issues with male friends or professionals. If you confide your emotional problems to a woman there's a good chance she'll lose some attraction to you, or give you advice that will do little for your current situ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 06:30 AM |
| 7 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realAny potential guy who wants her to cheat or branch swing would need to be 10x+1 units better than the guy she has. Which becomes less likely the longer they are together. Does anyone actually believe this? You don't have to be "10 units better" for a woman to cheat or branch swing, you just have to be significantly higher status and openly available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 37 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?what I’m trying to get at is that the attractiveness threshold isn’t nearly as high as redpillers try to make it out to be. It’s more about attitude than looks anyway Laughs in Tinder... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Lying about birth month is justified because girls have retarded prejudices about horoscope signsI'm sure that lots of divorces happen because people were lying to themselves and their partners. Actually the number one cause of divorce is job loss. Guess who initiates 70% of divorces? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Lying about birth month is justified because girls have retarded prejudices about horoscope signsIf you have to hide some part of your personality in order for a person to like you, most likely it isn't worth it. Maybe in a perfect, idealistic world but we live in reality. Have you interacted with humans outside of reddit before? When dealing with others socially you should present the best version of yourself, and strive to be that person privately. This isn't "hiding your personality", it's showing the best side of it. Maybe focus on those who have to hide their faces in painted masks or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:44 AM |
| 5 | Lying about birth month is justified because girls have retarded prejudices about horoscope signsDo you really want to get together with a woman who's so deep into this shit that she'd disqualify you over your sign? Might as well say "Do you really want to get together with a woman who's so deep into this shit that she'd disqualify you over your height/income/status/car/social media following?" Bang? Sure. LTR? Probably not. Modern women are as picky as ever and will disqualify a man for something as simple as the timing of a single text, if men decided to avoid women who choose their partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:19 AM |
| 6 | Are high income blue collar men attractive to modern women?A rough looking kind of guy that’s good with his hands. Blue Collar Men fill that niche well, so they can do well. The kind of have an all-American attractiveness to them. I know plenty of "rough looking" blue collar men who wouldn't have women look their way. Have a rugged looking, pot bellied welder, or Steve Buscemi-esque steel hop on Tinder listing job photos and bios and see how much women like blue collar men. What you're imagining is Zac Efron or Ryan Reynolds in blue collar clothing not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Most People Who Complain About the Double Standard When It Comes to Sexual Partners Care More About Being Able to Act Without Consequences Than About Fairness.I believe sex obsessed men are "off". I have male friends with high body counts, while I love them, I do think that it's absolutely disgusting and a sign of psychological instability. I feel the exact same sentiments for women. They usually having some past issues, unresolved traumas, histories of drug use and are also statistically more likely to cheat on their partners as their body count increases. In current times it's even more of a risk as STD rates among women are at record highs and surp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Are high income blue collar men attractive to modern women?I think a lot of women like blue-collar types. On reddit maybe. On reddit females will tell you they love every height/income/status. In real life blue collar jobs are neither a positive or negative. The neither help nor really hurt your chances with women, the only time I've seen women show excitement over blue collar jobs is when the worker in question is already physically attractive. It's like a non-factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 04:00 AM |
| 16 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)Be picky for other men, Don't date men who are abusive, narcissistic assholes since that's all you women seem to complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 05:09 PM |
| 15 | Sick of the gender roles in fashion / beautyThe bar isn’t low for men. If anything it's harder. Ugly men don't get the privilege of slapping paint onto their faces to appear more attractive. Short guys are practically screwed (unlike overweight women) cause 0 can be done with their height. One of the few things men can do, which is work out takes proper dieting, months of routine exercising and countless hours of work...But she want's to talk about unfair standards women have?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 5 | Guys shouldn't reply to rejection textsHonestly you'll probably have a better chance with her if you don't reply. Unless it's only a few words, replying to a rejection text just seems needy. Stop trying to "keep the option open", there's 3.5 billion women on earth, just go find another one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:31 AM |
| 9 | What makes a man " intimidating"It's why CEO and management jobs aren't just given to the most physically imposing man who works for a company. 58% of CEOs of Fortune 500 companies are over 6 feet tall, compared with the general American population in which only 14.5% of men are over 6 feet tall. People really tend to undermine just how important looks are not only in dating but in really anything involving human interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | As a male that went throug all stages of looks (fat, thin, average, bald, handsome) i can pretty much say blackpill is bullsh#t. Women date with only one thing in mind...WTF is up with all these guys expecting women to empathize with their neuroses? Women have for decades happily and readily expected or damn near demanded men emphasize with their own literal neuroses (body dysmorphia, body shaming etc,.) but let men try the same and it's WTF is wrong with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 08:39 PM |
| 13 | As a male that went throug all stages of looks (fat, thin, average, bald, handsome) i can pretty much say blackpill is bullsh#t. Women date with only one thing in mind...Men want hot women. Cool, simple I got your point. Women want a man thats tall, not too masculine, but masculine, rich, high status, that also is not too good looking so that they are the good looking ones, also they want their man to be sensitive, but not to the point of being feminine... the list goes I'll be straight up with you... Even if this was true, nobody has time to be that particular when someone asks them dating advice. You spew that out and they'll leave more confused than they were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 02:00 PM |
| 9 | The "80/20 rule" vs. men's age preferencesEvolution's plan was for male's to accelerate evolution precisely by having the less dominant males ignored and weeded out...the true female answer might be "of course we are. desirable men are the only ones that matter.' If you are fine with women appealing to nature when it comes to disregarding undesirable men then equal freedom should be granted for men of high value to engage in polygamy or enjoy soft harems of women. After all having desirable men occupy multiple serious relationships with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 11 | The "80/20 rule" vs. men's age preferenceswhen many men are only attracted to a narrow age range in women (18-29; if we are being generous), thus making them super picky about women (due to the age a partner is required to have and the vast majority of the female population not qualifying) Huh? Who told you that males are only attracted to women between 18-29? Men will still approach, date or sleep with multitudes of women past than that age range, they just happen to be most physically attracted to the women between those ages. A simpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Why do a significant portion of non-college age men in the manosphere/Redpill sphere SPECIFICALLY prefer 18-year-old women over those 20-26?I can only speak for myself but I can’t imagine females at age 18 being very attractive. That's fine to have your personal preferences but the data shows that most men are attracted to women between 18-26. Aren’t they still a little underdeveloped physically? Most women begin puberty at 11, several years before boys mind you. The vast majority of women are absolutely physically developed by 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Why do a significant portion of non-college age men in the manosphere/Redpill sphere SPECIFICALLY prefer 18-year-old women over those 20-26?Stop making excuses for men chasing little girls I don't think women who are at an age where they are legally able to purchase property, operate a vehicle, consent to sex, take out thousands in loans , invest or enroll in the military in most places on earth can be equated to little girls. Furthermore if I referred to your average 18 year old woman as a little girl, she would probably take some sort of offence. I think that's just moving the goalpost to shame men for being "predatory creeps" bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Why do a significant portion of non-college age men in the manosphere/Redpill sphere SPECIFICALLY prefer 18-year-old women over those 20-26?Could this just be a vocal minority? No most men regardless of age are most attracted to younger women, whereas women tend to be most attracted to men around the same age as them. It may seem like a vocal minority to you because men tend to be scrutinized or considered predatory for expressing sexual interest towards women significantly younger than them, so they're hesitant to be so open. When I see couples out in public there usually - you see it every once in a while - isn’t a noticeable age … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 02:52 PM |
| 0 | [Q4M] Why do a significant portion of non-college age men in the manosphere/Redpill sphere SPECIFICALLY prefer 18-year-old women over those 20-26?My thoughts: 18 year old girls are easy to manipulate 18 year olds seemingly have less sex experience The assumption that every 18 year old vagina is pure You're overthinking. Men are attracted to younger women because men are attracted to beauty and both genders (not just women) are at their peak physical attractiveness (fitness, metabolism, hair and skin) between the ages of 18-26. Men like hot girls and seek to bang the hottest, which is right in that age range.. All that other mumbo jumbo yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 02:36 PM |
| 5 | if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women.he very often has to spend a fortune on the young woman for her to sleep with him. Fuck no, any middle to upper class older guy can find moderate to high class, attractive escorts in their 20's and smash relatively easily. Older men ahve 0 desire to even be around younger women outside of sex, they don't reach out to them for their personality. Cristiano Ronaldo who makes every red piller look like trash, and he still spends tens and tens of thousands of dollars on his woman, on the hourly Ten's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 09:33 AM |
| 11 | What is it that makes “ bad boys” so fun?For hundreds of thousands of years humans live in hunter gather societies where tribal warfare was a constant, inevitable reality of life. Women who were naturally attracted to harsh, combative, violent and aggressive men were both more likely to survive in the case of a invasion or court with the new captors in the case of occupation. Weaker more passive men were less likely to defend their women or tribe effectively and were a bad match. The same cycle would repeat itself thousands of thousand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 06:40 AM |
| 3 | if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women.Young women don't care about money nearly as much as men here are deluded into thinking they do. Let any man show up to a date with a young woman in a nice sports car and you'll see how much they care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 05:07 AM |
| 2 | if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women.Most old men don’t have an option to date young women though Older men do not want to date or hang out with younger women, they only deal with younger women for their unaged looks. A lot of older guys are banging younger women on the low. A ton of youthful college age women engage in sugar sites and the main takers are older men, the most common consumer of prostitution services are older married men. This is why a lot of them usually operate professionally and away from public eyes for privacy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:58 AM |
| 9 | if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women.then you can’t complain about how “shallow” and “immature” and “slutty” gen Z and young millennial These attributes are not exclusive to younger Gen Z or millennial women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelOr maybe it's all the slut-shaming you kids seem to be doing nowadays? It's funny cause from older people I often hear them complain about how were not shaming "sluts" enough and instead endorsing their lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelAt least if you dont simp, regardless of where you stand in the market you keep some respect. Men in an environment where sex is at it's most restrictive will always simp. No amount of pep talks or criticism will stop this. This would be like expecting starved peasants to not eat crumbs off the ground when the opportunity arises. In the current dating market where a third of young men are sexually inactive there will always be an abundance of horny simps. We could call them stupid day and night … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Men should never allow SIMPS to take them down to their levelTalking about this is pointless. Men will Simp as long as sex is restricted from them, there is no other alternative. In the US (Simp Headquarters) prostitution is illegal in almost every state, the ONLY way for horny men to get sex is by trying to court or seduce women, so women have all the power in this dynamic. When men are desperate towards women it inflates the female ego, which causes women to be pickier and more restrictive with who they sleep with, which causes men to in turn become mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 10:35 AM |
| 6 | Women have more diverse tastes than men, and it makes little sense to try to appeal to some made-up universal standardThere's like 5 different definitions of what comprises such a person Physically Fit Tall Strong or Attractive Facial Symmetry Fashionable Nice Hair Almost every Chad or hot guy is a reiteration of 3 or more of these characteristics but women are superrrrr diverse. If you want this myth debunked just look at the differences in porn preferences between men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 4 | What makes a woman high value?Doesn't want kids. What does this have to do with being high-value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketYour studies just prove that you need money to buy pussy regularly. Sure, if you live in the states where prostitution is illegal and any quality escort will cost you significantly more than almost any other country on earth. But you could be making over 100k and you are still low SMV due to being ugly, old, fat, bald, wrinkly etc. I don't get your point. You're SMV means fuck all as a man if you are rich and successful, you can still smash escort or not. I think Travis $cott has low SMV, that h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 07:49 AM |
| 43 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Absolutely but grant men the same leverage when they proclaim that they have no interest in dating promiscuous, obese, or hairy women/single mothers. Seems like any man that says this publicly gets called out for being misogonystic, fat phobic or sexist. I mean women can regularly list their minimum height requirements for men on dating apps, can you imagine how much shit guys would get if we constantly had maximum weight requirements for women in out bios? When women have preferences it' called… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketThere can be no destigmatization because everybody knows that paying for sex by and large is a low SMV people's game Star athletes, billionaires, CEO's, Movie/film execs, Platinum selling artists, award-winning actors, literal royalty and reputable politicians have all been caught engaging in frequent prostitution, while illegal mind you. Most studies conclude that a majority of men who engage in prostitution are high earners ($100,000+ annually) who are already in a relationship or married to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketAnybody that thinks women or sexworkers are safer with deregulated, illegal and underground prostitution is lying to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 12 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketBut anyway, he have "incels" like any other western country and the modern problems about dating are the same. Incels are everywhere and have always existed in every generation. However I'm convinced the highest concentration of these men are in Western countries where men will frequently turn regular looking cam-girls into overnight millionaires, follow any 7 with Photoshop skills by the masses and pay women thousands to essentially breathe on twitch. The simping in the West is an epidemic, it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 01:06 PM |
| 10 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketand treat it like a normal job? Funny enough I've seen more women propagate the belief that sex workers should be seen as no different than any other job. And yes, safe and regulated prostitution should be destigmatized if not for men then for women. The stigma helps keep prostitution illegal, leaving millions of women in the business at the mercy of violent, abusive sex-traffickers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 9 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketA real change will only happen when the internet is fully shut down and things happen locally. Or have prostitution legalized, regulated and destigmatized amongst men. In terms of casual sex, right now in the states the only way to obtain it is through seducing modern women who have an incentive to string you along. Obviously men will simp as they have no other sexual output, prostitution would put the power of sexual satisfaction back into the mans hands. Chicks would get less likes, comment, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 12:06 PM |
| 2 | The problem isn't men or women. The problem is manipulative time-wastersNaive women are innocent women. Yeah, in your words that's not the main women they go after, they mainly go after insecure, toxic and manipulative women. Just like non fucked-up men develop negative views of women after bouncing one FDS vampire after Nope a lot of men went toxic after experiences with your average women today. Average, non-FDS women will regularly: put you in the friend zone for being too nice, use you for free dates validation and attention, divorce you over job loss etc. The w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | The problem isn't men or women. The problem is manipulative time-wastersMainly If it mainly affects negative women why are you implying that they're taking their rage out on innocent women? If anything they're dating FDS-esque women like you suggested earlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | The problem isn't men or women. The problem is manipulative time-wastersWomen who Aren't Like That are getting manipulated, pumped and dumped I thought TRP only works on insecure, manipulative, and toxic women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | What is concerning about much younger woman/much older man age-gap relationships?So you can’t be mad when women look at men the same way. Conversely you can't be mad when men look at women that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 0 | What is concerning about much younger woman/much older man age-gap relationships?So looking at a woman as a nothing but a walking fuckhole is somehow.. not predatory? Is that the hill you really want to die on? Seriously? I think it's life. Was there a point in time when I thought it was predatory? Sure. Until I realized that billions of women are looking at men as walking ATM's or social ladders to climb, then I said fuck it. If something is predatory there has to be the assumption of a prey. Once the prey in question is just another predator then it's just a battle of inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:00 PM |
| 3 | What is concerning about much younger woman/much older man age-gap relationships?For both. There's literally a "when i see a cute guy standing behind me" trend on Tiktok with thousands of women admitting they make their asses more visible in the presence of attractive men. But guys are the predatory ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What is concerning about much younger woman/much older man age-gap relationships?Most women don’t like predatory sexuality and male thirst. I can somewhat agree on predatory sexuality but if women didn't desire male thirst there wouldn't be so many cam-girls, thirst-trapping IG models or scantily clad women out nowadays. I don't care what anybody says a lot of women feed off or even make a living off of male thirst, you're not fooling anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What is concerning about much younger woman/much older man age-gap relationships?That's a predatory way of looking at another person, period. Get out of here, everything a man does is predatory to you women. Is it predatory when women says she want's a rich guy to spoil her, what about big dick energy or washboard abs? You do the same exact shit as men. I don't care what men "reduce a women to" women do this same exact shit why pretend? Women will reduce a man to his height/income/penis size and then act offended at "New fresh pussy". I can't think of a single young woman wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Why do a lot of women only care about money?Women should have something to bring to the table in a relationship just like men. If they don't and get one anyway, that's on the person who chose them. Whenever a man collectively request women bring something to the table (be thin, attractive, submissive, motherly, nurturing, kind etc.), girls cry sexism or misogyny. Nowadays saying you'd never date a girl with hairy armpits could get you cancelled meanwhile women regularly list height requirements in their dating bio's. They constantly disco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapSo then you'd agree that slut-shaming would make no sense here, right? You should ask this to the women who preach about how women should have control or no shame over their own sexuality, and then go around and talk shit or slut-shame girls who they don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 25 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapSo like.. which one is it? If you encourage men to have casual sex with women, you are encouraging men to contribute to ruining society according to the manosphere's own words. They are encouraging men to prioritize their own interests and desires over that of a society that doesn't give a shit about them. It's part of the whole "enjoy the decline" mentality. For generations men have been feminized, witnessed their sperm count and testosterone levels drop dramatically, been influenced to become … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill does not work, CMV.TRP works with shitty, mentally broken women. Most women/people are mentally broken or shitty in some way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 12:46 PM |
| 11 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapI agree that the dating market is not suited or designed to benefit average men, however I disagree that men should just opt out by finding a high quality woman and leaving. If men are struggling to achieve causal sex in the modern dating market, then they'll have an even harder time finding quality women. The best option is to stop relying on modern women to determine whether or not you get laid, they will always use this power to control and manipulate men (tease, string along, validation, cam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 12:42 PM |
| 8 | Are women just hotter these days?Women judge their attractiveness on their most dolled up, best angled, photoshopped. dressed up, caked up photo, not how they look without cosmetics and sweatpants (AKA their most natural look). That's why a 5 will think she's a 10 cause she goes through her IG and see's a gallery of photos of her looking her best and men drawn to this validating her belief. In actuality, face to face she looks no different than any other girl. It's like the scrawny guy who thinks he's jacked cause he's always f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:00 AM |
| 5 | In regards to mutable physical attraction women are more attractive than men because they have more leeway to be attractiveThe students were rated by their teachers? Yeah this study already seems a bit biased. Also even in the study you referenced the difference in attractiveness is minuscule (Girls are only more attractive by 2.4%,less attractive by under 1%) . Also little girls will by their own will or by way of their mothers often dress in clothes, hairstyles or accessories to make them look more attractive, whereas for young boys there is much less if not 0 emphasis on them to appear more attractive,. For examp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 08:48 PM |
| 71 | People who inherently view the opposite sex negatively will always have trouble in relationships.Facts. Almost all the guys I witness getting played, used for dinner dates, friend zoned, marrying single mothers, losing half their stuff in divorce etc. usually have a BP, idealist "women are innocent" view of the world. A RP ideology at worst might leave you single, worst case scenario for a BP ideology is middle aged, dead broke and suicidal from divorce rape and custody battles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat does it says about you that when criticizing a dude who is saying horrible things your first thought is to go after the supposed women who sleep with guys like this? What does it says about you that when criticizing a dude who is saying horrible things your first thought is to go after men as a gender, when women themselves are the ones choosing to sleep with these men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 01:13 AM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReason number 101 why men are fucking terrifying. Says a lot more about women that they've happily slept with men like this honestly. Women will merrily and readily select and sleep with amoral, corrupt and evil men. They've been empirically shown to be attracted to dark and negative traits which explains why so many of them write to serial killers, enjoy 50 shades of gray are get impregnated by deadbeats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Where do men get motherly love from after their mother dies?the woman makes more money and doesn't want kids Even in the most liberal open-minded countries that is an overwhelming small percent of relationships proving that despite social pressure most women still prefer dating and settling with a man who is more successful and better than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 11 | Why do redpillers separate people in low and high quality?Because the Red Pill is an ideology that grounds itself in acknowledging uncomfortable truths about dating and human relations as a way to understand and better one's experience. It's nice and sweet if you feel like "the person you're in love with is a high quality person to you", and in a perfect world this would work but unfortunately we do not live in a perfect world, and you're not helping anyone by pretending we do. Men who seek to improve themselves must understand that in dating, like eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyI dont know these terms you are using. Maybe you are american? Idk if things are different over there. Yeah this explains a lot. If you don't know what a jock is then we have completely different highshcool experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Where exactly are women "being blamed" for having negative interactions with men, and why is the solution to "treat all men as potential ______?"The “whole batch is poisoned until proven otherwise” theory has saved me from being abused. Women being skeptical of all men until proven otherwise is self preservation. Awesome, I agree if that is the standard we're setting but if that's the case why do men get labeled sexist by women (who have free reign to label many of us as potential rapists) for simply saying be wary or do not date 1. Promiscuous women 2. Gold Diggers 3. Single Mothers. I don't mind women making generalizations on men regu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategyHighly disagree. Every bully gets away with it due to social status. Yeah a nerd or loser is an outcast with very little social status, even a burnout with regular social status will be able to getaway with bullying them. Wherever i studied, any kid with no backup/support who tried to bully someone got jumped. Burnouts hung out with other burnouts, also listen to what are you saying? Where did you go to school? Jocks usually had a positive rep with teachers, parents and coaches, they would talk … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:42 AM |
| 40 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategytheyre masculine. Why is it surprising women are attracted to masculine traits? Because you've told us for the past several decades that these are the very traits you're not attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:37 AM |
| 29 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategylow inhib = more promiscuous and less thinking about others feelings/consequences of actions You would think to any normal human being this would be a clear turnoff, but in reality it's an objective turn-on to billions of women, which says a lot. Growing up you're literally taught by women that acting this way would never work only to look around and find these same women happily sleeping with said men. And yet they still wonder why guys don't bother listening to what they have to say about thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Bullying in boys is not a result of maladaptive development but a result of it being a very succesful sexual strategywould argue this is more so because women like high status men, and bullies tend to be high status...I think its the social status that draws them in. Girls like popular guys, in college and in hs, regardless of if they are dicks or not. Bullshit lmao, most of the bullies are the burnouts, punks and trouble makers. They weren't outright social outcasts but they certainly weren't "the popular kids". The popular kids at least for men are almost always jocks/athletes, who while not known for being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?Choosing neither is not an option, there are only 2 answers and you haven't chose any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?You didn't explain why you think it's bad for women to have the same opinion/mentality as males. I don't think it's bad at all. I just think that if you're going to have the same mentality as males you need to stop yelling misogyny or sexism when men openly express that very mentality. It's women who think male prioritization of attraction is bad but those same women simultaneously do the same exact thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?I'm honestly confused since the males here act like dating an unattractive fat woman is worse than death itself. Several have clearly stated "Why would I date someone I'm not attracted to?" Difference is we get labeled as sexist for expressing that we're not into fat, ugly, flat-chest, or hairy chicks. Remember men have like 15 times more testosterone coursing though them than women so we are a lot more sexually driven, despite this women have no problem calling men assholes or dogs for stating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?Way to remove all context out of the question, to avoid actually answering a very straight-forward question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:34 PM |
| -5 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?This thread is essentially women saying neither (not an option) or taking all context out of a hypothetical question, and spinning it so that they can still smash an Alpha, minus the baby lmao. So in a way guys, they've answered the question without answering it at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?Why can't women just answer the damn question. I mean c'mon, it's hypothetical situation which option would you choose, let's hear an answer and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:09 PM |
| -2 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?I'm convinced that there are enough average-looking men, who aren't boring, bad in bed and who I can find physically attractive. I don't mind that. It is the fact that you would consider a man with generally positive traits (good income, great father, faithful partner) to be as shitty as a heartless (albeit stunning) deadbeat who will leave you to birth and raise a child on government assistance, simply because one happens to be boring and not turn you on, is what I find funny. I can understand … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather raise the child of a hot alpha man as a single mother, or raise the child of an average looking beta man as a 2-parent household?Why do men always provide 2 terrible options in posts like this? This is the most involuntarily hilarious thing I've seen in this sub in a while. The fact that women consider dating an average looking, faithful man, with a good income to be just as bad as being a single mother to a deadbeat, just because she does not find him physically attractive tells you everything you need to know. And this is a from a PPD woman, who is a lot less likely to express herself in a way stereotypical to to RP'ers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Some people on this sub are completely delusional about what sex is all aboutTalk to any woman and they'll tell you stories about great looking guys who treat them like shit. The fact that so many women allow great looking guys to treat them like shit further proves the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 09:59 AM |
| 1 | I find it kinda sad that so many women are not aware of their worth or their value and believe it entirely stems from their sexual appeal more than the type of person they are.How many men have old fashioned masculinity to bring to the table in exchange for femininity from women? Most men are expected to approach first, most men are expected to plan dates, most men are expected to pay for dinners, most men are expected to buy engagement rings, most men are expected to get down on one knee and propose, most men are expected to check for the bump in the night, most men are expected to handle most household expenses, most men are expected to pay alimony and child support… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Does being 'Alpha' affect a woman's chances of orgasming from intercourse?If you haven't realized already I'm saying that sex and dating is a tradeoff. A man goes out of his way to please women in the courting process (approaching, planning dates, paying for dinners), and by the time they are in bed will choose to prioritize his own pleasure for once. It is a tradeoff. If women want men to show more effort in bed they should take their own advice and show more effort in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Some people on this sub are completely delusional about what sex is all aboutbut none of that** compares to the amount of attraction conversation skills brings. Women will literally not converse with you if you do not reach a looks threshold. They do not give a shit about your personality if you don't first suffice their standards for physical attractiveness. If you're 5'6, balding and scrawny/fat 90% of women will not even give you a chance to express you're personality, conversely if you're 6'3, handsome and chiseled you could say almost anything and succeed. The girl … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 09:32 AM |
| 0 | Does being 'Alpha' affect a woman's chances of orgasming from intercourse?Thirdly, a lot of men don’t make efforts to make sure the woman cums first and just have sex and think that’s good enough. A lot of women don't make efforts in conversation, scheduling or dating in general and just show up and think that's good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 09:23 AM |
| 0 | Some people on this sub are completely delusional about what sex is all aboutGo outside. Meet people. Don't try to fuck every girl that moves. Just make friends. What???!?!! Noooo wayyy bro, damn what a revolutionary, groundbreaking discovery. If only the hundreds of millions of young men struggling with dating we're exposed to this knowledge earlier. With all due respect man, you can't use a random hook-up you had with a girl to excuse the observable truths in modern dating. For the most part I trust data and studies over anecdotal, biased experiences in any field or su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 09:18 AM |
| 6 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").attractive for LTR and not the promiscuity itself. Looks, wealth and status will make a man more attractive in any sense, promiscuous or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:53 AM |
| 3 | I find it kinda sad that so many women are not aware of their worth or their value and believe it entirely stems from their sexual appeal more than the type of person they are.From the other hand, we have lots of male users here who claim that women bring nothing, so I appreciate your efforts. What do women offer men in modern dating that men do not conversely offer back? Love, compassion, loyalty etc. are not qualities exclusive to sex and are expected to be provided by both genders. Wealth and security are things that men are still expected to provide to women. Meanwhile most women have proudly abandoned their gender roles, most are not willing to cook/clean or be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:48 AM |
| 6 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").That's cause they have other qualities. So do literally any other promiscuous men. Women will not sleep with you en masse unless you have some intrinsically attractive qualities (looks, wealth, status, charisma etc.), so promiscuous men are seen as valuable in a way to women. A women can be just as promiscuous without possessing any of those features so it's seen as completely different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:36 AM |
| 10 | No, women don't prefer "pre-selected" men (aka male "sluts").I agree with you that both genders view promiscuity negatively for long term relationships. I don't know last time I heard Ronaldo, Drake and Leonardo DiCaprio were all pretty promiscuous and they've literally got millions of women literally trying to get in long-term relationships with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:04 AM |
| 4 | Online dating really is for a small pool of menDo you choose the worst one? You choose who is best for you and not simply who is the best looking, highest earning or tallest. 70-80% of women all selecting for the best 10% will result in the vast majority being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 05:57 AM |
| 9 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodMind you these are just your chances to run into or meet these types of men, not to consider successfully dating or settling down with them. Really sets in the unavoidable reality that's awaiting a lot of these folks with crazy standards. We'll probably witness more single people than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Unattractive people are unaware of their (un)attractivenessI think it explains pretty much everything about so-called "average" men in the manosphere struggling with dating. I mean women honestly cannot talk in this regard. The amount of medically obese or older females who expect to date men objectively out of their leagues would be in the very least as much of a contributor to modern dating struggles. A lot of "average" looking women are able to engage in light, casual sex with above-average looking men and sincerely believe that they are on the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 01:52 PM |
| 21 | Online dating really is for a small pool of menof course the girls are going to pick the best ones. If there were 2 guys to choose from they will always pick the best ones. Quantity is irrelevant, women will always do this because they're hypergamous not because "we'll they only have so many men to choose from!!!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 01:38 PM |
| 9 | Do men want traditional relationships anymore?TRP-types want traditionalism from her but they don't want to pay up their half of the deal. If women conformed to their traditional homes and became stay at home moms, then the empty space in the workplace would certainly be enough to compensate for a traditional lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 05:13 AM |
| 4 | Sex and gender issues are easier to understand if you're willing to adapt a few concepts from microeconomics, eg: utility surface and diminishing marginal utilityIt's actually the lack of causal sex that causes more demand for pussy. The men who are most desperate for casual sex are the ones who are not getting any. The guys attending PUA workshops, paying for camgirls or flooding the comments of IG models are not guys who have had generally normal amounts of sex, they are guys who don't get laid which is why they resort to said options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 7 | What is everyone's opinions on "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" (the book)?they they need a book to tell them how to say “lol no” To describe the book as this clearly disingenuous. Perhaps you should do more research on the book before making such statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 02:53 PM |
| -1 | How can you expect "casual sex" in non-casual or non-sexually-charged situations/environments? How can you expect a sexual outcome when you yourself aren't sexy?Nah that comparison doesn’t check. Craziness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 01:53 AM |
| -2 | How can you expect "casual sex" in non-casual or non-sexually-charged situations/environments? How can you expect a sexual outcome when you yourself aren't sexy?Facts. Men (here) really expect casual sex to just “happen”. It’s baffling. Women (here) really expect a happy, loving marriage with a High Value, high-earning, high status man to just "happen". It's baffilng Incoming "well for (Input: female celebrity) it just happens!!" Um, she's significantly more famous, younger and more attractive than you. Also men don't expect sex to just happen, we just don't want to be a perfect conversationalists, arrange and pay for dates, and go out of our or spend a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Importance of sexAnybody that says sex isn't important or doesn't matter should stick by their word and have no issues, with their spouse or partner sleeping with someone else since it's no big deal. Anyone that pretends that one of the most fundamental, important and principled biological desires is not important is not worth listening to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 12:41 AM |
| 13 | Women want to be valued for more than sex, but they are unwilling to do things that make them valued for more than sexi pay for half our dates, Notice how she personalized the answer to her own unique experience as opposed to actually using statistics or offering ways in which women could increase value outside of sex. Your personal experience does not excuse or dispute arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:24 AM |
| 5 | Study claims that the decline in alcohol consumption among young people explains the decline in casual sexIt’s not. Another user broke this down, people are equating meeting online with meeting on dating apps. I never said dating apps I said OLD, which includes dating apps and social media and yes it is in fact the most common way heterosexual couples meet now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 05:31 AM |
| 6 | People and overestimating their SMV/RMV?The average person tacks 2 points onto their self rating Average women maybe. Ugly men are usually aware of their physical attractiveness (or lack thereof) and will frequently have jokes or stories to back it up. Heck with the rise of the male dominated BlackPill I'd argue that your more likely to see men underrating their looks than boasting, whereas one can frequently encounter overweight/obese women rating themselves 7 and up nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 05:08 AM |
| 7 | I get this sense that modern women not only want men to "man up" but to level-up and provide even more than before. Am I wrong in this assumption?So refuse Men should use the same answer whenever women protest about their issues with body image, sexual assault or wage gaps. But when we do we get labeled as sexists. Funny they always demand men call out other men to help with their issues but when men have problems they say you're on your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 05:02 AM |
| 13 | Study claims that the decline in alcohol consumption among young people explains the decline in casual sexIt seems a lot people on here believe that most casual sex encounters involve these completely sober women getting seduced by these incredibly handsome hunks. Well that's because in modern times it certainly does. OLD is by far the most common way heterosexual couples meet. A lot of Tinder or Hinge dates, may involve alcohol maybe for a dinner or pub but a lot of the times alcohol isn't a huge factor. I mean a lot of guys are already cautious of banging drunk chicks thanks to #Metoo and issues w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 04:55 AM |
| 3 | More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalrymany women spend hours getting ready for a date. I thought women didn't dress the way they do for men?? Ohh that's right now they claim they do when there's a free dinner on the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 8 | More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalryShe shows investment in the guy by showing up her best. Wow she dressed appropriately for a date, what a huge investment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 12:09 AM |
| 10 | More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalryGoing Dutch signals that he's not invested in her, VS the men who would gladly pay. How about women start seeing going dutch as a signal that she's invested in the guy? The mental gymnastics modern women do to avoid splitting a even dinner shows you that they have no real interest in true equality and more so favoritism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Would you be supportive of your boyfriend getting a hair transplant or would you tell him to shave it off?That's the ideal answer, however it will not work in this world which is not ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Would you be supportive of your boyfriend getting a hair transplant or would you tell him to shave it off?Men too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:59 PM |
| 3 | US Nationwide Research (using a stratified sample of 334 women) finds only 16% of women 18 – 24 report finding bald men attractive, versus only 44% of women 35 – 44.There are (a lot) of men who are bald one part of their head, usually top, but still maintain hair around and on the side of their scalps. Also seeing as you're an internet nerd yourself you should be able to answer that question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:57 PM |
| 6 | US Nationwide Research (using a stratified sample of 334 women) finds only 16% of women 18 – 24 report finding bald men attractive, versus only 44% of women 35 – 44.Maybe you're another man trying to make me feel better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:52 PM |
| 15 | Would you be supportive of your boyfriend getting a hair transplant or would you tell him to shave it off?Men this is why you should never take female dating advice. Despite an earlier thread posted right before this showing that almost 50% of young women consider bald women to be unattractive, girls will still parade the same "self-assuring" feel good, lies so as to not appear shallow. I mean look at the though process, "I'll tell him to go bald cause I watched some Smallville reruns years ago in gradeschool and the show's villain was bald too!" Lol what? The correct answer is to get a hair transpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:19 PM |
| 9 | US Nationwide Research (using a stratified sample of 334 women) finds only 16% of women 18 – 24 report finding bald men attractive, versus only 44% of women 35 – 44.Or the women who said that were just older Most redditors are between the ages of 18-29 don’t have as much of a dislike for it as women under 35. Even at that almost half of the women under 35 consider bald men to be unattractive, there was only a 6% difference in taste between them and 18-24 year olds. You'd think such disdain would be readily expressed in various platforms but it's almost as if women will sugarcoat their preferences and turn-offs in order to save face at the cost of giving hon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:11 PM |
| 33 | US Nationwide Research (using a stratified sample of 334 women) finds only 16% of women 18 – 24 report finding bald men attractive, versus only 44% of women 35 – 44.Here is a graph of some of the data they gathered. Additionally, for finding balding men unattractive, 47% of women 18 – 24 reported finding bald men unattractive, 41% of women 25 – 34, and 19% of women 35 to 44. What!!??? Now way!!?? All the ladies on Reddit told me they like guys with bald hair, cause they viewed it as a sign of maturity and confidence! Maybe jussttt maybe most of the women on this site have a poor gage of the objective, uncomfortable and superficial nature of the modern femal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 11:46 AM |
| -4 | When did you stop trusting men?Decent dads and brothers usually warn their daughters and sisters about men. To be fair most women outside of those raised in the gynocentric, feminized West warn their sons and brothers about other women too. Plenty of my foreign friends mom's were always in there ears telling them to watch out of gold-diggers, trashy women or single mothers and setting them up with women they see as marriage material. It's only in the West where women are so deep into feminism that they will turn a blind eye a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:47 PM |
| – | Guys care about height way more than they perpetuate their so called indifference to itSorry you think this is the oppression olympics and nobody else can POSSIBLY have it harder because you have it the hardest. The irony of a woman stating this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 06:56 AM |
| 12 | [Q4ALL] How do you think women should vet for men who only plan on using them?He'll want to spend time with you any chance he gets. He doesn't play games, he replies to messages timely and in full sentences. He's interested in knowing you and asking questions. That's how you end up getting curved or taken for granted lol. Women don't like when "a guy who makes her his life.". The key is to do enough but no too much or too little. From my experience women tend to be very surface level with their analysis of men. They think men who genuinely care about them are desperate, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 01:57 PM |
| 11 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.And by far the top reason is the sex was awkward or the whole thing was awkward. No, I think the real reason men ghost is cause of the unfair courting process. For women romance is something that they just have happen to them, for men it is literal work from approaching, planning dates, appearing witty or charismatic etc. Usually when a guy ghosts it's because the chick he's pursuing who seems fine is not putting in any effort or is not worth the effort he's putting in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 01:26 AM |
| 10 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?they'd rather spend the rest of their lives alone and celibate rather than date down. Or so they say. It's very easy to say this as a young, vibrant women in her 20's whose still getting male attention and options everywhere. I really don't think a lot of women of this generation truly comprehend what it means to be perpetually single for the next 50 -60 years. Shit even older generations of women didn't handle it well and their standards were half of what women expect now and their antidepressa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:14 PM |
| 10 | Why blame women for hypergamy?Hypergamy is just an excuse TRPers use to blame women instead of accepting that they are well below u hiaverage What?? RP'ers don't blame women for being hypergamous, they attribute it to the nature of the game. If anything the RP blames men for being BP, simps and staying low value which is why it's so big on self improvement, as it's not only important for a mans development but also for their dating life. If you're looking for an ideology that blames a gender for their lack of relationship pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:00 AM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Learn the difference between things that should happen and reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.This is the only reason a woman should ever fuck a guy. Yeah! Let's just conveniently ignore the waves upon waves of women willing to fuck ugly guys who have a lot of money, status or success. Also common sense dictates that the hotter the guy the more sexual pleasure a woman will get. A tall, jacked, dreamy eyed-Chad is just someone she'll sleep with purely for sexual pleasure, personality and social skills aside, a 7 will have to "work" to arouse her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 52 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.There doesn't even have to be a strategy behind it. 90% of times there is. Most women will not make Chad wait and if they do it won't be nearly as long, because he's already physically arousing so they'll fuck him for their own sexual pleasure. Only when she's dating an average joe does all the time and comfort come in. Then you have to earn the chance to get sex through a series of one-sided conversations, paid dates and shit tests. I've actually heard women say they make good guys wait longer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Shared observational bias among women created the false "men only want sex" narrative.And yet that seems to be the only women that guys here surround yourselves with, but I know a large array of women. It's not who guys surround ourselves with it is who we are surrounded by. When you grow up being taught that you're the princess, you're the prize and that any man should be lucky to have you, you grow up to be self-centered and entitled. So conceited that while preaching for equality you literally get offended at the suggestion of paying for a guys dinner on the first date. Most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 11:05 AM |
| 7 | Shared observational bias among women created the false "men only want sex" narrative.Dude, they literally say that they do not care about a woman's personality, career, ambitions, hobbies, etc. You're wrong about everything except career. Men specifically say they don't care about a women's career to say that being a doctor or lawyer is not going to compensate if you're an unattractive, masculine older lady. Plenty of guys wish they had a girl who was into the same things or hobbies they liked or who was down to earth, that they could talk to honestly or possibly be vulnerable w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:57 AM |
| 9 | Shared observational bias among women created the false "men only want sex" narrative.The issue is that modern society see love as a game, a battlefield. Pretty much, I expected love and dating to be an spontaneous, impulsive occurrence that would transpire naturally unforced or without much intention. In actuality everything from the first text to sexual foreplay is like a game of mind-reading, premeditated chess where doing or saying one seemingly irrelevant small thing will ensure you never speak to that person again. After a while you just get jaded and indifferent, very soon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:12 AM |
| 6 | Shared observational bias among women created the false "men only want sex" narrative.....many men here (including one particularly infamous longterm poster) explicitly say they only want sex. Men only want sex when sex is the only thing a woman can offer. If you're a conceited, boring, shallow, woman who doesn't cook, clean or even offer to split a meal, then what else is there to you from a relationship standpoint? I find it so funny that women who constantly post proactive photos online, wear intentionally revealing clothing and use sex as something to dangle in front of men s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:58 AM |
| 16 | If we accept that looks are the most important thing when it comes to attraction for both men and women, then why do we look down on plastic surgery?Same reason we look down on make-up, steroids, or wigs/toupees's, people don't like "cheaters". In a way folks feel that people have cheated their way into good looks and avoided either the work involved in looking good naturally or the privilege of being born attractive. A woman who had no ass but went to the gym and squatted for a booty would catch a lot less shit than one who just paid for an ass job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 04:34 AM |
| 2 | In what ways is masculinity demonized by modern society?The last 100 years of feminism have all been about dismantling traditional femininity Yeah still waiting for them to "dismatle" men paying for first dates, women frequently receiving alimony, female favoritism in child custody battles, male only mandatory draft system, lack of female representation in male dominated labor jobs, significantly reduced prison sentencing for women etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | In what ways is masculinity demonized by modern society?Almost everybody else in Springfield--man Oh yeah Krusty the Clown, Chief Wiggum, Barney Gumble and Groundskeeper Willie were perfectly competent and responsible men. Are you serious? For every irresponsible, lazy or stupid female character on the show there was about 5 male ones. Also Homer was literally the main character and father figure on the show, he got more screentime than all those other characters combined. Even amongst the boys Bart was seen as an misbehaving, annoying little shit (w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 11:00 PM |
| 15 | I don’t think “bad boys” are attractive at all. They’re attractive to immature insecure women but not mature onesBad boys have firmness, nothing else. Hundreds of thousands of years of tribal warfare and brutal conquests have conditioned women to seek strong, tough and cruel men as they were better equipped to fight back and protect them physically. It was better evolutionary strategy to mate with the abusive warlord who will keep you alive than to be massacred alongside the peaceful peasant. Badboys embody the ideal image of past conquerors moreso than nice guys so girls will flock to them despite social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?Women are expected to be nice Everyone is. Those are basic social standards. Men are encouraged to open doors, pay for dinners, buy engagement rings, plan proposals, approach, pay alimoney/child support, put their wives first, protect women, save single mothers etc. Women aren't even taught to cook and clean but poor women, people would like for them to be NICE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 05:10 AM |
| – | FDS women's overlap with mental health subreddits (and other interesting subs)Reality, its a Reddit sub. LOL Reddit tends to attract more 'weirdos'. Not really, I know a lot of men friends/no friends, rich/poor ,ugly/handsome who lurk or use Reddit from time to time. Most women don't even know what a subreddit is lol. The type of women who uses reddit, probably has less in common with your average woman than you can say for men. That's why I don't take the advice or anecdotes from most women on Reddit seriously, the fact that they have an active reddit account means they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread. Someone on Twitter suggested everyone then had more T-levels. Thoughts? Yup male testosterone has been plunging for decades. On top of that add the frequency of teen smoking, drinking, lack of insight on skincare/sunscreen and you'll tend to look older quicker. Also the fact that the highschoolers are wearing suits help too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 12:58 AM |
| 43 | I don’t think FDS is that bad and I don’t understand why they get so much hateand FDS will have significantly more active disparaging threads about the opposite sex. Yeah, to be honest TRP always had critical threads about the opposite sex but it frequently placed a lot of blame on men, encouraging personal responsibility. There was also a big focus on male self improvement, whether it be through conversational skills, reading, career growth, or body building. Anyone who says TRP was just about men bitching knows little about the sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 12:51 AM |
| – | FDS women's overlap with mental health subreddits (and other interesting subs)The funniest is seeing the overlap between r/datingoverthirty and r/datingoverforty with FDS. Most of it's users are single, miserable older women which perfectly aligns with RP theory and the wall. Younger women don't have to subscribe to dating subs on subreddits to get a man because their beauty is still valued, a lot of these women have hit the wall and rather than acknowledge the reality they are using the forum more so as a way to project and vent their bitterness of a phenomenon that men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.Maybe go and study plastic surgery rates and see who is most oppressed by beauty standards. And? My whole point is, stop moaning about beauty? Everyone has a preference. If women are oppressed by beauty standards they have no one to blame but themselves. Illogical female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Women need men for survival?Also, women were held back by men, we were suppoused to give birth and submit. In Poland women couldn't study, that's why Maria Skłodowska-Curie had to move to France. Yeah all those male inventions, medical discoveries and ingenuity, sure held women back all these years. I mean even before enlightenment era's women would have been walking food had there been no men to fight, protect, die and hunt for them. The female body was not designed for that task as much as feminism would like you to beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 04:52 PM |
| 14 | Vigorously avoiding risk and discomfort is the source of many modern problems, including dating problemsThey won't kill you. Yeah they'll just use you for free dinners, cheat on you, falsely accuse you of rape/sexual assault, use you for your finances, make you go broke though alimony and divorce settlements or keep your children from you. What's so bad about that guys? Man up boys! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.This thread is about men bitching Men bitch in online threads, women protest on public streets but you're telling guys to get over it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 19 | Only women's dating problems are solvableUntil gene editing can make us all into 10/10s at least. This will solve nothing. Hypergamy is a relative concept, it's never about women getting with a hot guy, it's about women getting with the top guy. Look at peacocks. All males are naturally beautiful with vibrant, charming feathers yet this has made no difference to the female in their mate selection process, their only concern is to mate with the beautiful peacock. I mean almost all men are already taller/stronger than you're average woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.And? My whole point is, stop moaning about height? Everyone has a preference, women and men. Get over it? Unlike girls, I don't give a shit or mind if the opposite sex has preferences! I just want women to keep their mouths shut and not bitch, complain or cry whenever a guy says he's not into chubby/hairy/flat-chested chicks. You're telling guys we need to grow a pair? You broads have literally protested against mannequins and barbie dolls, you need to grow tf up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.Men judge women on being too tall, too flat chested, too hairy, flat butt. They even make disgusting comments about how “tight” they are Women will judge you for being a an inch below average height, having too little followers on social media, not saying the exact right think at the exact right time, having an astrology sign she doesn't like, being TOO NICE, having a small dick, not being able to read their minds etc. Women literally don't find a majority of men attractive, I don't know how any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 11:34 AM |
| 0 | OLD highlights how men are neglecting their skinIdk a lot of women definitely take a hit when it comes to wrinkles in their 30's, the wall exists for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 10:30 AM |
| -4 | OLD highlights how men are neglecting their skinI have hardly ever met a man my age with skin like mine Most women without makeup look like they haven't slept in a week. Make up definitely has some side effects on your skin. Maybe for the rare cases of women who don't use it but if you go 100% bare faced, most men would have the same or better skin than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Men with genetic disadvantages and personal defects should stop dating and pursuing women.Ugly men exist today because their ugly fathers didn’t ACCEPT extinction While us men appreciate the praise we cannot selfishly take all the spoils and flattery, let's please give credit to the generations of obese, hook nosed, hairy women who for eons ensured the paternity of both male and female uggos. Unfortunately ugly men are not relentless as the patriarchy has programmed to believe, after all we have twice as many female descendants, we can no longer ignore the timeless contributions made… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 06:38 AM |
| 7 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.That's why our species as evolved to where we are today. No, for most of history men selected over who reproduced either by brute force or though diplomatically arranged marriages usually contrived between the male heads of houses. It's only within the last several decades that women now have full control over their reproductive rights and what immediately followed was legions of fatherless kids who are statistically more susceptible to failing in life. Where we are today is influenced more by m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 06:13 AM |
| – | Why do you think "straight" women strongly lean lesbian in comparison to men?Also, I do think that Jeremy meeks being a criminal did contribute to his attractiveness. So women aren't physically attracted to men but moreso to how many innocent people a man can rob/assault/shoot? Probably explains why so many female CO's sleep with literal convicts or why serial killers get flooded with letters from single women. I mean if your insinuating that women are attracted to literal criminals that says a lot about them as a group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 6 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.That really sucks. I truly wouldn’t have thought 5’7 would be a dealbreaker. If there's one thing I've learned when it comes to dating it's never underestimate the superficiality of modern women. Stuff that you'd never expect "sweet, caring women" to genuinely care about like being a few inches below average, not having much of a social media presence, being generally polite/non-confrontational, making an average income are flat out deal-breakers to most women. It makes sense that all they smash… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 04:38 AM |
| 16 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.Realistically, if a guy is funny... even half funny...he can easily get laid. ...Not really. I know plenty of sociable, overweight or ugly dudes that tend to barely get about as much as your average guy. On the other hand I know conventionally attractive guys with boring or even antisocial personalities (violent, selfish, bullies) who have can't keep girls off them. You'd be surprised how much women overlook, good and bad traits alike when you throw looks into the mix. I notice that women laugh … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | (Discussion): Settling (both genders)Being friendless or jobless is fuckin awful, whereas being single is really not a big deal. Yeah being single for maybe 5-10 years is manageable but being single your entire adult life and missing out on one of the most significant emotional bonds a person can develop is gut wrenching. I'd rather settle for a girl who may not be as hot as I'd like or who sucks at cooking then spend the rest of my life alone pointlessly waiting for some dream girl that will probably never come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 03:26 AM |
| 7 | (Discussion): Settling (both genders)Settling is mediocre Life is mediocre. This is just objective reality for most humans. People settle everyday for both major and minor decisions. As kids most folks wanted to be the President, Gold Medal Athletes or Astronauts, part of aging and maturing is settling for something more realistic and reasonable. Settling is nothing more than understanding your current situation and selecting for the best possible outcome. To never settle is terrible advice in most cases. imposes bottomless misery … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 01:07 AM |
| 15 | Why aren't folks having sex?That could also explain why a lot of men who aren't having sex are instead turning to OF and Twitch to satisfy their need for female validation. They aren's having sex because online dating has become the most common way heterosexual couples meet and for your average men it is horrible as most women will just abide by hypergamy and flock to the most attractive men ignoring the rest. Also men would not have to rely on OF and Twtich for sex if prostitution was not banned in most US states. The typ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think "straight" women strongly lean lesbian in comparison to men?Some might, many don't, according to lesbian friends. Damn, with a source that credible you must be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think "straight" women strongly lean lesbian in comparison to men?Don't mistake lesbian porn for reality. Lesbians do this outside of porn... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think "straight" women strongly lean lesbian in comparison to men?Women are not really attracted to men themselves Lesbians literally strap themselves with giant, plastic penises to fornicate with other lesbians but yeah naked men definitely do not trigger any sexual desire in women lmao. but men have to put in work to be desirable. Yeah Jeremy Meeks who has millions of primarily women followers, totally had to put in work to be desirable. I mean those women are really just into to all those felonies, debts and criminal charges he has, it's not like girls are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 14 | How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public?And every single time it was a very unwelcome and horrible experience...Most women that I know, aren’t comfortable with men coming up to you randomly on the street. I never understand women, sometimes I legitimately think they want ugly/unattractive men to stop reproducing. What do you want men to do? If a man sucks at Tinder they say "well approach in person". A man approaches in person they say "don't do that it's terrifying harassment". A man goes to the club to approach they say "I have a bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | This idea that it’s only men who “pump-and-dump” women only applies to women below a certain looks threshold.If all a guy wants is casual sex, that's fine. He just shouldn't delude himself into thinking the women value him more than men they'd actually want to see on a regular basis. Trust me girl, he's not lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Why is it taboo to admit you are not considered attractive by society?Their feelings have zero to do with the fact that the option exists, which means physical attractiveness is within the realm of possibility for most people. Where is this attitude when women who have a plethora of contraceptives at their disposal (condoms, Plan B, birth control, IUD's) start protesting because they can no longer get third trimester abortions? Using this logic why even have abortion, contraceptive exist, either take them or don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Women cheating is way worse than men cheatingI feel like OP’s argument was basically men are hornier so it’s OK if they cheat. Which really just makes men seem like animals. I don't understand why people give men so much shit about the fact that we're naturally, significantly hornier than women. It's easy for someone with a fraction of your libido to call you a pervert, just like it's easy for someone with a fraction of your estrogen to call you a bitch. If I say "women are significantly both mentally and physically weaker then men, which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 09:31 PM |
| – | Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be?Yeah I wasn't referring to her, she's fine I mean the women who agreed or upvoted in the thread primarily for women. Most women on this sub are Blue or Purplepilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 05:21 AM |
| 56 | Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be?Moneymaxx and go to Asia. Possibly hire a gold digger in the meantime. It's crazy how quick relatively Blue or Purple pilled women will transition into more Red or Black pill dating strategies when they have to consider existing as a relatively unattractive man. Then these same women will still criticize men with those actual issues for adopting the very same ideologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 08:56 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women are attracted to masculine energy more than anythingThis masculine energy is exactly what most women want in their men (barring money, of course). It's crazy cause growing up as a man you're taught the opposite, women would like you to think that they'd love to date the beta, emotionally available, feminist when in actuality they would love the exact opposite of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Modern women and modern men are not compatibleNo it won't. Paying women to pretend they like you only makes loneliness worse. You don't pay a prostitute to pretend to like you, that's what you pay a twitch streamer or sugar baby for. You pay a prostitute to bang you, which can't be worse than paying to watch another guy bang a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Modern women and modern men are not compatibleHow do we reconcile that and produce a dating strategy that satisfies both sides? We probably don’t. Allow access to regulated, legal prostitution and the issue will solve itself. This will be the male equivalent of OLD and most men won't be as driven to simp and inflate the egos of women in a pointless pursuit of sexual satisfaction. The tens of millions of guys currently paying for cam-girls, online porn or fucking twitch streamers would transition to escorts and the Simp culture would fall on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:50 PM |
| 13 | "Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott Adamsactually means women we are aiming to date are less interested in that cash money Absolutely not. These women still (and always will) seek a partner with high earning potential, the issue with the Only Fans simps and sugar daddies is that all they can offer these women is money. These men are typically not attractive, high-status or popular. Women still care more about money than ever just ask them, most will flat out tell you that they are not interested in men who earn less than them, it's jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Male sexuality as destructiveIt is utterly defiling, The female orgasm is literally maniacal urination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:46 AM |
| 12 | What are some signs a man is 'settling' for a woman?Usually a guy who has no other options with women and married the first girl that reciprocated interest with him has settled. Men with plenty of choices with women don't settle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:42 AM |
| 11 | Aside from single-parents-by-choice, why is it that there's so much hatred for single mothers but complete adoration for single fathers?the mothers ultimately can choose to terminate Exactly, 100% choice calls for 100% responsibility. All that talk about "A man has 0 say over what a woman chooses to do with her body!!1!" is fine but just don't complain about your decision when it's said and done. There's more sympathy for deadbeat dads because a lot of them genuinely had no interest or desire to bring a kid in this world, but had to based off someone else's decision. It would be smarter to advocate for male financial abortion so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 72 | How Come Men Are Not Pushing For Plus Size Models? [Serious Question]Men moreso than women appreciate blunt, straightforward honesty that's beneficial as opposed to the sugarcoated, feel-good lie that will get you no where. That's why guys like David Goggins or Jocko Willink are huge among men but no equivalent can be found in female demographics. Deep down men know plus size male models do not be help us, as they will propagate the idea that it's okay to be overweight and unhealthy and will make men do worse in the dating market. We'd rather strive to resemble a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 18 | Is the growth of someone like Kevin Samuels indicative of the growth of TRP and its entry into the Mainstream?Oh without a shadow of a doubt. Yup, you can't expect 1/3 of men to be sexually inactive and still adhere to BP ideologies. When a third of young men are literal incels, they won't just go on believing gynocentric fairytales anymore. At that point the masses have seen too much truth behind the scenes about the realities of female nature and dating, and will in turn gravitate towards a more observable belief system. Keep in mind Redpill Channels like Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit, Rollo Tomassi ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 02:03 PM |
| -1 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionWhat makes you think remarks like this are better than the stuff that comes out of FD$? It's based on reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 11:12 AM |
| 6 | Any reason women seem to care about some forms of status more than othersOh so that's why women were telling Donald Trump To be fair Donald Trump is like the least "political" politician you could name lol if anything he was more recognizable as a celebrity especially around the times he was saying that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 06:50 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men should stop simping for any woman they any get.You definitely don’t get that kind of honest comment when the OP is addressing how “men are more capable of unconditional love than women.” The fact that men frequently love women who bring nothing to the table besides "their hole" and massive financial liabilities, shows that when a man does love a women he loves them sincerely and unconditionally as their conditions are generally negative. On the other hand women have a long list of literal conditions that a man must have (1. Make more money t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 12:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should stop simping for any woman they any get.At the end of the day the fact that theres more male than female simps proves women are the prize, If the prize is a annoying, talkative, self-centered broad who doesn't cook or clean and has a 50% chance of extracting half of your wealth and belongings, then it's a prize I'd rather not have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 12:09 AM |
| 5 | What is your opinion on men who hate other men or have trouble getting along with them?There is this assumption that if you are into masculine hobbies and enjoy them then people will assume that you’re a douchebag with a small penis. More BP brainwashing. A lot of men were taught by our BP, feminized society that guys who are traditionally masculine bold, muscular, self-seeking and outgoing are toxic douchebags. For example Johnny Bravo will lead you to believe a that acting like a personified Chad is the path to inceldom. In actuality it's the opposite, the dudes hating are usual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should stop simping for any woman they any get.yet men still have an overwhelming desire to be in a relationship/be around women. We have an overwhelming desire to sleep with women, don't get it misconstrued. Most men can't stand being around women and will only tolerate you as a means to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 11:29 PM |
| 15 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionWhich is why you still want a HVM who at least the same as or is better than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 11:23 PM |
| 37 | The top men aren't getting laid now more than ever beforeGSS data from different birth cohorts, number of sex partners The study you linked doesn't contain data from the 2010's, 2000's or even the 90's and it's most recent sample size (back in the 80's) is derived from 156 individuals, plus the number of participants in the study varied significantly for each generation. To try and draw your modern conclusions from this of this type of study is outright misleading. https://gssdataexplorer.norc.org/projects/102402/crosstabs/162878 This link is inaccess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should stop simping for any woman they any get.Men are the catch because they have to be, men frequently improve a woman's lifestyle, while women frequently destroy a mans. Men simp, only because they are sex starved , no other generation of men in modern history has less sex than the men of today, specifically American ones. In actuality, women of today are not the catch. They do not cook, clean and are much less feminine and maternal. Basically they intrinsically offer nothing to the relationship and in fact are a massive financial liabili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 38 | Men who have higher standarts, are more attractiveStandards matter only when a man has several options to choose from Exactly if it was skinny, short, pimply faced Billy Beta who was picky, these women would be telling him that he deserves to be single cause his standards are too high lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionBut of all the men that have some sort of porn issue OR addiction OR anger issues is probably pretty high. It's not an issue, only when it's looked through a woman lenses. Regardless I'm still willing to accept you're AMALT preface so long as you're willing to acknowledge that to men AWALT, meaning they may be innately illogical, over-emotional, weak and deceptive free loaders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 09:28 PM |
| 11 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionThat's why me and other women are happy to be single unless we happen to meet our rare HVM. Stay single. A woman's MO is to latch on to their host and extract their status, money or resources. That is their purpose and the reason why you even want a HVM. A man can change a woman's life overnight, outside of sex women offer literally nothing to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 09:18 PM |
| 28 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?The biggest mistake modern men make in dating is believing that 1.Looks don't matter or 2. Looks cannot be changed significantly, which are both flat out lies. I've never seen a guy who dresses very well have issues attracting women. A sharp dresser amongst men really stands out too since so many guys don't put much effort into clothing. Men need to realize that OLD and Social Media have changed the dating game, this isn't 2012 anymore, looks aren't a preference they are a prerequisite. Women ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 12 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?Not to average woman though. A third of women reported to going on dates with men only so they could get a free meal. This doesn't even include public approaches, online followers, Tinder matches etc. your average girl can garner. Simp culture benefits every woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?Unfortunately we already have countries like Germany Yeah but compare Germany to U.S. the women are wayyy less entitled, superficial and egotistical. There's also way less guys who will pay for camgirls or twitch streamers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?prostitution has been legal since cam sites existed Prostitution is legal in almost every US state. Most prostitutes here are toothless, anorexic, STD ridden heroin addicts who may rob you, obviously no man in their right mind would bother but if it was like Amsterdam, simps would decrease astronomically. US is the headquarters and birthplace for the simp economy, no other men simp harder. Legalize prostitution and watch it collapse, if you're thirsty enough to pay for cam-girls, you're thirsty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:57 PM |
| 23 | Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men?Yup with women success or status is more neutral and balanced, with men you're either a winner or loser, which is why they take more risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:17 PM |
| 8 | Who is more invisible to society, broke unattractive women or broke unattractive men?Do you think low income unattractive women are truly respected? Do you think a low income, unattractive man is? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:15 PM |
| 62 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?No, I don't think it would tbh. Women will just be like "lol okay, fine with me" becuase they only have eyes for the most attractive men anyway. False. Unattractive men that women aren't into follow them by the millions, fund their expenses, tip on their twitch streams and give them free, easy validation. Look at Tinder, a "hook-up" app where a sizeable portion of chicks only download it to get instant validation from the amount of matches they can get with no actual desire to smash. Women, like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?This coming from a group of women who walk around publically with their ass, tits and cameltoe visible for all to see, sell their nudes for a couple bucks and abort human fetuses by the millions. You should take your own advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:41 PM |
| 17 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?If women have so many options, it’s because of men. The male equivalent to dating apps is safe, legal and regulated prostitution. It would give men enough options and an easy avenue to what they really want - Sex. The rise of Simp culture (men paying for porn, giving money to twitch thots for existing, following any girl with a nice ass on IG by the millions) arrived right at the time where we witnessed historical rises in male sexual inactivity. If all these guys paying money to these e-thots h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?If you expect hundreds of millions of young, red-blooded men to ignore one of their strongest biological impulses and go most of their lives without having any sort of physical sex, you know nothing about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Are women progressively dressing skimpier by personal choice or by social influence?Because there are definitely changes in menswear that are sexual These changes are incomparable to the sexuality of women's clothing. If a man wore leggings he would be publically videotaped or mocked. Women wear leggings with their freaking camel toe showing and if a man dares to look, they are the ones who get scrutinized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Would men having higher standards actually *work*?Men making themselves less available and being more comfortable with being single and having less sex would "work". So pretty much regulated and legal prostitution. If by work you mean that men and women would have equally hard times getting sex. If prostitution was legalized and regulated men by definition would not have any issues obtaining sex. Women would be less desired, sought after and would have to offer more to a relationship than simply sex. It's no surprise that the most cucked men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 14 | If hypergamy is a thing, are liberal women less hypergamous?No they are even more hypergamous. Liberal women actually have little concern in reference for male equality, and often use feminism specifically as a means of garnering advantages over men, so they feel little to no pressure on being fair for both sides. If they did you'd see them march for more female sewer workers, waste collectors or roofers as opposed to just CEO's or you'd have them protest how sexist having a man pay for dates is. In fact liberal women are even more hypergamous than conse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Did men who felt "lied to by the media" miss the media that was right in front of them?still didn’t need anyone to spoon feed me the truth about either gender when it was right in front of my face every day Not buying it. Maybe you're an anomaly but to sit here and pretend that women in general don't follow damn near every other trend placed infront of them on TV or social media is delusional. Their juvenile ideals of prince charming, the love of "6-packs", seeking a man whose exactly 6-feet and higher, having a gay bestie, boyband obsession, believing they are all beautiful and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy and Equality are incompatible in the Dating Market100%. Best not to put 50% of your wealth on the line over some deluded, gynocentric illusion of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy and Equality are incompatible in the Dating MarketGo get an escort if all you think women offer is sexual pleasure? It's illegal in the states, genius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 05:07 AM |
| 5 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?Get off your high horse, men are not intimidated by educated women, they just don't go out of their way to date them. There's a difference. This is like saying men are intimidated by morbidly obese or hairy chicks. Men don't select for educated women because dealing with the ego, entitlement and solipsism of uneducated thots is hard enough. Listen, educated, high-earning women offer men little, these women are not going to splurge their money on us, we do not get higher status from dating them. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 12:58 PM |
| -6 | Hypergamy and Equality are incompatible in the Dating Marketthat doesn’t mean she’s not giving something of equal value to him: femininity, warmth, kindness, etc. Femininity is not of much use to a man, and even then you a good portion of modern women don't even know how to use it to please a man. Warmth and kindness are traits that are abundant in a just about any dog, and they have an added bonus of not leaving you when you lose your job or taking half your assets. You guys think I'm joking, outside of sexual pleasure women offer men nothing in a relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 12:46 PM |
| -1 | ARE IMMODEST WOMEN RESPONSIBLE FOR CAUSING MEN TO LUST?I sure do hope all the beta males out there don't think women dress attractively for them. Oh yeah all those push up bras, butt shots, breast augmentations are totally done for women, and with 0 intention of getting male attention. I mean why do you think women dress hot before they go to a club filled with single, young men? Obviously to let them know how much they don't want their attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 08:35 AM |
| 30 | The 80/20 rule and raising a sonHaving a mother give their son dating advice is a recipe for disaster. Funnily enough these women are unwittingly ensuring that their lineage will end with their sons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 06:22 AM |
| -1 | In nearly all sexual relationships and encounters, men's role is active; women's role is reactive.Years ago women basically weren't allowed to ask out men, and now that happens, Yeah but those women actually cooked, cleaned, were thinner, more submissive, more feminine and less egotistical/argumentative than women of today. Women are now able to dismiss all their pressures for being a good partner for men while still expecting guys to adhere strongly to their gender roles. Men need to have their fun with sex tourism or escorts and call it a day. Once you factor in the frustrating courting pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 15 | Why don't more men try to pleasure women in bed?What's in it for them? Exactly. Why don't talk about the gender gap in who purchases engagement rings or dinners? Women tend to use sex as something men must earn and work to get as opposed to something equally mutually beneficial for both parties. If you had to solely do all this work (approaching, scheduling dates, funding dinners, being interesting) to get sex, your not going to be in much of a giving mood when it's actually time smash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 12:43 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Only men can change the messed up dating market by having higher standardsMale thirst is too strong. What do you expect to happen when a red-blooded, young males only option for obtaining sex is having to court modern women? If the only avenue from physical sex is through the dating market women have an easy avenue to manipulate male thirst. Allow legal, safe and regulated prostitution and women no longer have power over these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Women are sexually attracted to Masculine Men only. The Red Pill is true because it explains this dynamic.I've dated effeminate-ish men. Anomalies exist. There are plenty of men who like being dominated or are into BDSM, that doesn't excuse the fact that a majority of men on average prefer feminine, petite and gentle women. For some reason women always point to personal, anecdotal life experiences as debating points without realizing that it doesn't really dispute OP's claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleSome Chads do. If it wasn't already clear, I am referring to Chads as a group, they are not a group responsible for progressing humanity. They are not notorious for being genius', their intelligence on a scale of averages varies little from the intelligence of any other random arbitrary group of males, yet the fact that they should be hailed as a beacon of genetic superiority simply because "they're so hawt" at the expense of dismissing generations of actually intelligent, productive "nerds" is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 07:18 AM |
| 19 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleWhy should the bottom 80% breed? Why should we be encouraging the proliferation of inferior DNA? Chads do not discover medical cures, revolutionize science or concoct world changing inventions. They stand there a look pretty. Many of the "inferiors" in the bottom 80% of dating will contribute more to society than any Chad. Intelligence has a negative correlation with male dating success. If this is what you consider "proliferation of inferior DNA" then perhaps you should take your own advice and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleI had to make up for the lack of reason or sense in your original post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:45 AM |
| 6 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleNot always, and I do always read bios. No bio? Instant left bin. I'm not going to structure my tinder profile around uncertain anomalies, hoping that despite enduring hundreds of left swipes, I'll come across a girl somewhere who reads bios regardless of looks. That's a losing strategy. Any intelligent person will choose the option that has the greatest likelihood of success, better to have hundreds of right swipes and not match with the one girl who does read bios, than the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:30 AM |
| 52 | Someone has to say it...men your OLD profiles are overwhelmingly terribleWomen are so out of touch with even the most basic and obvious realities of male dating, that they sound like trust fund, inheritance babies complaining about the work ethic of working class laborers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy frequency and cause: Potential theoriesYeah you may not see it on your own personal, anecdotal level but on a larger scale countries where prostitution is legal have lower usage of OLD. Compare any country where prostitution is legal to the states where simping is encouraged and men regularly pay for cam girls. I guarantee women in Amsterdam are less uptight and stuck up than American chicks because there's far less thirsty, sex starved guys giving them constant attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Hypergamy frequency and cause: Potential theoriesNordic model is the biggest bullshit ever ( see : Canada) where selling sex is legal but buying it is illegal. I mean moreso like Amsterdam. If every Western country had a system like that modern women would have almost no power over the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 09:14 AM |
| 11 | Discussion about sexually successful deadbeatsAnd that’s related to employment and student status. 100% Lie. The unemployment rate is relatively stable, especially when compared to previous years and yet the number of sexually inactive young men has more than doubled in under a decade. Note, unlike "employment and student status" this is not a phenomenon that young women are experiencing, they still have about the same amount of sex as they did in the past, this is distinctly an issue young men are dealing with. People like you would rather… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 08:50 AM |
| 0 | Hypergamy frequency and cause: Potential theoriesProstitution is illegal for most of the world. Bullshit. Many western countries allow some sort of legal prostitution and even the countries where it is "banned" (China, Russia, Thailand) have some of the most rampant sex work industries on the planet, where prostitution is actively encouraged as opposed to legally enforced and seen as nothing more than a boys night out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 08:36 AM |
| 17 | Discussion about sexually successful deadbeatsReally anyone who isn’t a hermit and/or with disproportionately high standards can find someone, or multiple someones, for sex and relationships. The 80/20 rule is bull in real life. Nearly 1/3 of young men are sexually inactive. This isn't a "just in your head" problem or something than only socially challenged hermits experience. This is a major change in intersexual and relationship dynamics that has never before been witnessed in modern times. When a third of men at their physical peaks can'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:34 AM |
| 13 | Discussion about sexually successful deadbeatsOdds are it's a LVW and a LVM. Most single mothers are Low Value primarily because they are, well, single mothers. I know a lot of single mothers who used to be hot shit back in the day and got knocked up by a popular bad boy. Now in the present of course a broke deadbeat and a past-her-prime single mom will be low value but a decent amount were attractive/desired/popular people prior to having a kid they weren't ready for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy frequency and cause: Potential theoriesso all there is left to negotiate over is sex, which men want way more than women. Just pay an escort, if you want meaningless, pleasure-seeking sex and boom women have instantly lost like 80-90% of the bargaining power in a relationship. Unless you live in a country where prostitution is illegal (like US), you got no real excuse to not be having great sex with a lot of women. The dumbest things men do is shame other men for fucking escorts, I find it more shameful to become a simping lapdog to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] What’s your opinion on the rising popularity of “Red Pill” ideas among men (particularly young men) today?Exactly when men are denied traditional masculinity though decades of single mother households, feminized education systems and gynocentric anti-man propaganda ofcourse they will be drawn to any movement that embraces masculinity in one way or another. If society is worried about men joining the RedPill they should provide them with more options to adopt manhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadDo people actually listen to porm dialogue? Who gives a fuck? Lmao who watches porn for the dialogue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega Threadwhy not pay a hooker?! Because it's illegal, extremely sketchy and most of the women are strung out, untested and hideous junkies. No man in their right mind would pay $100-200 to sleep with an STD ridden, 90 pound heroin addict with a decent chance of getting robbed and or charged/arrested. Fuck that. If prostitution was safe, legalized and regulated like what may be seen in Amsterdam Onlyfans would go out of business overnight, men would be more sexually satisfied/less thirsty and modern women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 08:34 PM |
| 9 | Male desire objectifies, female desire personifiesI rarely hear men talk about women as being hot because she is mysterious, outgoing, etc (character traits). Because men don't bullshit and are unintentionally blunt and straight-forward. Men don't need to assign character traits or reasons for why they find a girl attractive, if you ask a man 9/10 times they'll just say "She has a nice ass/tits/face". In reality women are the exact same when they see your stereotypical Chad 6-feet up, chiseled, tan, dreamy eyes they think "hot" but as they're m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 04:17 PM |
| 31 | Male desire objectifies, female desire personifiesVersus when women lust over men, I feel like they project a character onto him, That projection is about as much of an objectification as the males desires are. For example if the tall, attractive guy is quiet he's mysterious, if the ugly, short fat guy is quiet he's creepy. If the attractive guy is bold he's confident, if the ugly guy is then he's annoying. etc. Also speaking about deconstructions it's not uncommon for women to literally list height requirements (like a roller-coaster ride!) on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 03:10 PM |
| 9 | A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favorNot really...a good chunk of women only download the app to get validation from the amount of matches they can get, with no real interest in actually hooking up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 0 | A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favorThere are sex less incel men in countries with legal prostitution. They don't want them. There are sexless men in every country on earth. There are just a lot less sexless men in countries with legal prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 0 | What would you choose to do or not do if there were no gender roles? How would your life be different and how would it be the same?Men are already behaving like women these days. That's the feminist MO, turn men into women and women into men. Ban masculinity, rough-housing, feminize boys, punish them for being boisterous and if that doesn't work prescribe them with stimulants so the gynocentric education system can have an easier time teaching them while they're still young. Then when they grow up the women reward the feminized ones by using them as an emotional tampon while they fuck the most traditionally masculine man th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 10:20 AM |
| 10 | A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favormen aren't robots, we also want to be cared for and loved. Yeah but if you have a hard time getting sex, then you'll have an even harder time finding care and genuine love. This isn't the 1950's, we live in a world where a good chunk of men will never get married, date or settle. Men can accept this but when you tell 1/3+ of men that they should not even expect sex and be sexually inactive for most of their lives then it's time to fuck off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 10:10 AM |
| 5 | A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favorMost men aren't engaging in those activities(besides dating apps). It doesn't have to be most men. Even if it's 20% that is still a massive deal. 1/3 of young men are sexually inactive even though that's not most it is still an astounding number. 'My post was aimed primarily at the "regular" young man struggling to get a date and enter a committed relationship, not a sperg paying for onlyfans or following 10,000 IG booty models. The same men struggling to get a date with a women are the ones who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 10:03 AM |
| 5 | A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favorWomen would love it if you removed 90% of the men on the apps bud. No they wouldn't, they like the gratification they receive from thousands of men on dating apps, as it reiterates their desirability. Some women only download dating apps for said validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 09:47 AM |
| 9 | A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favorGood for you. Most men are not like you and will not bang a chick for the sake of cuddling after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 09:44 AM |
| 26 | A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favorThis would help but it's not feasible in free modern countries, if anything dating apps will and have become more widespread and accessible. The only solution is to legalize, regulate and destigmatize prostitution, it would be the male equivalent of dating apps. Once men can get sex regularly and easily from a wide array of females they will no longer have the thirst or incentive to follow every 7 on Instagram, download useless dating apps in hopes of casual sex, pay for e-girls, or pay brainles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 08:51 AM |
| 5 | Why do people insist that only women postpone having kids when many women risk becoming single mothers to have kids?Not by me he would not. But by the vast majority of women he would. I am a high earning female and most of my friends would love to have a man that would be a stay at home Dad. C'mon. The vast majority of high earning females are absolutely not looking to date and marry men who want to spend their lives as Stay at Home Dad's. Most high earning women are specifically looking for men who earn at minimum their own salary or higher. FYI most of the people making fun of the men who are stay at home a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 13 | Why do people insist that only women postpone having kids when many women risk becoming single mothers to have kids?It’s just that waiting to have kids is socially acceptable for men. And women being lower class is acceptable by society. The term loser is usually specifically in reference to men. A man would catch shit for being a cosmetologist, stay at home dad, secretary, daycare worker etc. Double standards exist for both genders, always have and always will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 4 | What is your greatest difficulty in dating?a man who likes me for who i am, more likely than not, also finds me attractive. so obviously, that’s the “both.” this man is much more likely to commit to me. How many people, men or women included genuinely like or love people with no consideration of appearance? There is no person on earth that does not factor someones looks when it comes to a romantic interest, otherwise sexual orientations would no longer be a thing. There are an endless supply of legitimate studies confirming the importanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 08:58 PM |
| 9 | What is your greatest difficulty in dating?what guys actually liked me for who i am and what guys liked me for my looks ...Why not both? I struggle to comprehend how women who claim they cannot date short, fat, ugly or unkempt men, still believe that men are disingenuine for not being able to "look past their looks". I mean do you look past a mans looks when a 5'5 guy comes and approaches you at a bar? What about that balding gentleman at the night club, or the hundreds of Tinder profiles you swipe left on? No? Okay so why do you expect … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.so do what other men have done for decades: dust yourself off and keep trying to get better. most dudes eventually see results; and you should too, as long as you’re not actually creepy. The men who have "done this for decades" would never even bother with the women of today. They grew up in an era where women actually had gender roles and hypergamy was not anywhere as relevant. How about women do what they had done for decades and cook, clean or bring something to the table besides love handles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 07:46 AM |
| 2 | NPR - women matching (and young women outpacing) men in drinkingYes it does, the prevalence of OLD in countries where prostitution is legal is significantly less and there are less simps in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:40 AM |
| 21 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?I'm. Not saying it's easy. It isn't. But that's the true facts. A lot of it is lick and maximising your social skills Or you know do old and hope you're attractive enough. Ding, ding, ding. Basically if you are not hot enough don't approach women at all, stay home. Atleast you've somewhat acknowledged female nature. I just wish most women would actually admit their superficiality and say "If you're not a hot guy, don't bother approaching" as oppose to shifting blame on men for having poor social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:43 AM |
| 12 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Then WTH do you do? Just wait and settle? You go follow them on IG, swipe right on tinder, like and comment on their pictures and buy their cam girl service then leave em alone. The women still love and feed off all the male attention, money and validation they get. Honestly your best bet is to look as good as possible, take world class photos and pay for Tinder or Hinge. The dating market sucks for men now but that's only because women want it to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:23 AM |
| 7 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.just because a woman calls you creepy for existing as a male doesn’t mean it’s true, ffs. Doesn't matter, it's a shitty label to have, regardless of whether or not it's true it can still be damaging to you're reputation or confidence when approaching women. i mean really, does this need to be said? do men take everyone who says stupid shit to them so seriously? Like women don't? You guys protest every time a guy makes a joke about chubby chicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:41 AM |
| 25 | Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?Maybe do that? You don't get what OP is saying. The Question is "Where are you supposed to get sex as a male if so many situations are frowned upon?" The answer is you're not. Women literally do not want any low-value or unattractive men approaching them. Full stop, end of sentence. They just say don't approach me at _____, _____, _____ because they're not blunt enough to say don't approach me at all. Especially now when they can just pre-select for hot guys on OLD they find 0 use in average or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:33 AM |
| 18 | Is Porn a Cause of, or a Symptom of, the Rising Number of Virgin/Sexless Men?Symptom. No desirable man with options, who has access to casual sex with multiple women will choose masturbating to other people having sex over actually having sex. Men have an overreliance on porn because it's a cheap replacement. Most men that are obsessed or enamored with pornography are low value, unpopular and unattractive. They substitute pornography for sex, cam-girls for girlfriends and online gaming crews for social circles. As OLD and Social Media make having sex more difficult than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 7 | NPR - women matching (and young women outpacing) men in drinkingI think this is probably a result of the sexlessness many men are facing today. What's the point of going out to a bar and drinking if the women there won't give you the time of day? Same reason why the generation of men with record breaking amounts of sexlessness are the biggest simps on earth and overpay/obsess over twitch streamers, cam girls and IG influencers. On a subconscious level the men have completely checked out of dating as a means of obtaining sex or a partner and are now utilizing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:30 PM |
| 14 | NPR - women matching (and young women outpacing) men in drinkingMen are less social than women naturally Speaking to most women is like conversing with a brick wall. At least in dating men have to be more social because the burden of performance is on them, most women just have to show up, look pretty and talk, and they barely do that half of the time They tend to be more self centered and will use the conversationalist as an emotional tampon or interviewer to feed their own ego as opposed to actually having an interesting discussion. Same reason why female … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?You probably haven't met much men, over 1/3 of young men are sexually inactive and growing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:58 PM |
| 12 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.that is creepy, not what you’re saying. I've literally seen women call men creepy for simply walking behind them on a public street too long, sitting next to them on a crowded bus, glancing at them "weirdly", saying hello, complimenting them, or approaching them in a crowded nightclub. A lot of these same women will date physically or mentally abusive men/drug dealers, readily smash Jeremy Meeks if they got the chance and consider Ted Bundy to be sexy. Let's be real creepiness is heavily correla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?How about you present a statistics to actually prove your nonsensical claim? Sure, this took literally took me a few seconds to collect. Notice how the young people in the 1950's were having more sex than kids in the 80's, the youth of today have significantly less sex than both generations and actually have some of least sexual partners on record. Now that I've presented evidence for my "nonsensical claim" where's your evidence to dispute it, genius? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:27 PM |
| -2 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Find me a statistic to dispute the claim then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:34 AM |
| 0 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Blame hookup culture. It's made sex on the first or second date the norm. Sex on the first date was always norm. The well-mannered, conservative, suburban youth you see in black and white 1950's clips were having significantly more sex than the liberal, tattooed, street wear rocking kids raised in "hook up culture" it just wasn't promoted and done discreetly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?I just don't like the idea of having to "work" or "prove myself" for sex. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't but it's not something I'm going to go through a series of test to get, you can keep your virginity lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:58 AM |
| 16 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Men want the virgin who just can't help but fuck with them because they're so special. Literally never met a man in my life that wanted a virgin. Who wants to date a prude, who will likely have them wait years just to "gift" them with bloody, awkward, uncomfortable virginity sex? Most men (outside of incel chatrooms) don't want virgins, what really they want is Low-N count women (preferably below 5), there's a big difference and one is far more reasonable than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:55 AM |
| 2 | It actually makes sense that the guy should pay for the first dates in hetero dating...How many women have said this to you? About a handful of the ones I know face to face, additionally I've heard these sentiments echoed multiple time on media platforms, TV shows, and online sites. Do you really believe it's only for a free meal? That and the attention, validation and power that comes with it. Have you considered that she may be dressing her best to make herself feel more confident, appealing and sexy, not only for herself but for her date too? She can do all this and still split… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:50 AM |
| 19 | Why do single moms raise your hackles? Do you think single dads should be relationship pariahs too?It’s viscerally disgusting to be a cuckold for a psychologically healthy man It's a spit in the face honestly. Not only did you irresponsibly date and get impregnated by a bum who didn't value you or your kid enough to stick around, you now expect a more moral, responsible man whom you previously ignored to come in with a cape and play (or pay) step daddy just to date a post-wall, less attractive, single mother. Any self-respecting man with options would never marry or take a single mother serio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:20 AM |
| 14 | It actually makes sense that the guy should pay for the first dates in hetero dating...It may be a surprise for you but men also spend a lot of time preparing for occasions, we also have to shave and dress well. I never got this, women always say "I don't wear make up for any man, I wear make up and dress up for myself because I like it!!1!" but all of this goes out the window to justify a free dinner lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingYeah...what do you expect in a completely deregulated market when the act is illegal, you will attract scum. If prostitution was legalized and regulated there would be obvious laws enacted protecting them from this. Nobody would benefit from legalized and regulated prostitution more than sex workers. Less male on female violence, rape, STD's, homelessness, murder etc. but women would rather feign ignorance so they don't lose the benefits of a market where men can only obtain sex from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Attempting to Destigmatize Male Virginity Will Achieve NothingDestigmatize prostitution, and have escorts available through apps and men will never bother with most women again or simp for e-girls or influencers. A woman's only power over a man comes through sex, it is the main reason why men give women compliments, attention, money, likes, follows, swipes dates etc. Take this power away from women and put it in the hands of men and they have nothing over men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: Risk/reward tradeoff overallre’s a big difference between being careful because you don’t want to encounter a situation where you can be harmed, and going around saying “all men are murderers and rapists” or “all women are goldiggers”. When you make multiple safety precautions and steps in your first interaction with a man you're doing so because you intrinsically believe that there is a possibility that the man may potentially harm you. If you genuinely did not think this then you would not waste time and energy making sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?Women can't get mad at guys for not looking past their physical appearance when they boldly reject dudes who are practically the same height as them. If women are silent when it comes to females stringing guys along on dates for free food and attention they should also keep quiet when men smash and dash. Users get used, business as usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: Risk/reward tradeoff overallFor example, back when I was hooking up with various strangers, questions back in my mind were like “will he murder or rob me” No issues with this but I've always wondered if it's okay for women to consider most men to be potential rapists/murderers why is it then sexist for men to initially assume most women are gold-diggers/foodies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, female subjugation & male sexlesness.future generations of children will be born taller, more attractive, and healthier? Yeah at the cost of intelligence and IQ. Almost any social study conducted on the matter shows that having a high IQ puts you at a significant disadvantage in the modern dating market as female hypergamy values is less drawn to intelligence than other traits like attractiveness,confidence or height. Smarter men are shown to lose their virginities later, have less sexual partners and are more likely to become ince… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 09:25 PM |
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