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I haven’t checked in a while, but posting your stats used to be a requirement of asking for advice on here. So he might just be following the posting guidelines.
/r/askMRP21/06/25 02:54 PM
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Ask her to dance with you.
/r/seduction13/05/25 09:40 PM
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Definitely file a police report.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 05:56 PM
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I think it’s probably significantly easy than that to be a top 20% male.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:25 PM
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You don’t necessarily have to be “obvious with your intentions.” You can just casually say “wanna go watch a movie at my place” with an innocent smile. Don’t be thinking about sex when you say it, just be thinking about watching a movie. It’s less likely to come off like you’re trying to trick her into sex. It gives her subconscious plausible deniability. But I don’t think being creepy is your problem. I think you’re probably being too much of a cub (given your being a virgin, and what you share…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:05 PM
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Where people go wrong is they get that life is meaningless, but then they make that mean something and get depressed. Then they miss out on the freedom. Life is meaningless. And it’s meaningless that it’s meaningless. So as @VasiliyZaitzev said, Congratulations. (If you missed it the first time) You are now free.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 06:47 PM
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Haha, yeah. I think something actually changes when you make a commitment to being in an LTR/marriage. The kind of childish incel side of RP has to go away or it’s not going to work. Almost all the people “giving advice” on there are married themselves, and the advice/philosophy there is actually quite distinct from RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:14 PM
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Probably No Bad Kids. The books are really a convenience because all of the content came from articles on her website. Her website is actually an amazing resource. I bought the audiobooks because I can’t listen to her website. Her podcast is also great. Each episode is basically just a response to a question she received from a parent.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/20 05:07 PM
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Crying and wanting her mom is totally normal and means nothing about you as a father. Kids are really smart and just want to feel safe. When she cries just hold her and make her feel heard and understood. Mirror back what she’s saying in an empathetic voice. “I hear that you want mommy,” or “you really want mommy.” Otherwise just hold her and stfu. If you want to say something you can say “it’s ok to cry,” or “it’s ok to have big feelings.” She might say something else too as she gets deeper int…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/20 07:11 AM
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Have you spent much time on r/MarriedRedPill? I actually think it strikes this balance pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:00 AM
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Just a quick parenting book plug. Check out Janet Lansbury. She has two great books, and a podcast. She doesn’t use the word frame, but her whole approach to parenting is basically about holding frame, and it’s super good, and surprisingly RP. As for what to do with your daughter. It’s great that you’re telling her it’s ok to feel sad. I’d try giving her the opportunity to just cry, rather than distract. You can just be with her. My daughters behavior improved significantly when I gave her the s…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/20 12:19 AM
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I think the point is just that sometimes girls will say "I have a boyfriend" as a polite form of rejection, and those instances are reduced when the man is more attractive. Note I don't just mean physical attractiveness. In this case, being able to hold an interesting conversation, or be funny, or charming, etc. seems like the limiting factor.
/r/seduction19/09/19 09:09 PM
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Rule 4, my man. "Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today." Highly recommend JBPs 12 rules for life. After reading it I wrote them down as a recurring to-do in Things (best todo list app, btw) And every week a read them and take a moment to evaluate how I'm doing in each one.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:07 AM
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I really like Sam Harris's "Waking Up" meditation app. I appreciate his non-spiritual, neuroscience approach to meditation. I've tried the free trial on all of them, and Waking Up is by far my favorite.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/19 03:00 PM
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+1 for Models!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 05:46 PM
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Stay=leave means what you plan to do with your life is the same with or without LTR. You are the captain of your life, and she is coming along for the ride, not the other way around. Thats just my summary, read about it. Also read the MRP side bar, not just TRP sidebar. MRP's is better. Look up dread game and the 12 levels of dread for some ideas of what game can look like in a relationship. Basically, passing shit tests and comfort tests, using kino, using inuendo, holding frame, being a leader…
/r/askMRP11/05/19 08:24 PM
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There's never a point in a relationship where you get to stop gaming your LTR. Game is a necessary part of maintaining attraction. That being said, you don't have to pretend you don't care. Woman want to know their man cares about them. It's important they feel cared for, BUT you must show you care without being needy! When you start to really like her, you can enjoy that feeling, but you don't have to tell her about. I don't think "pretending not to care" is the right way to put it. A better wa…
/r/askMRP11/05/19 02:42 PM
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Yeah, also, always have a condom with you. Then anywhere can be a safe space. :D
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:53 PM
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🤦‍♂️ ok, first of all, you need to start living in the mindset of "how do I solve the problem," not "this is the problem." The obstacle is the way my friend. This is one of the deepest core principals of RP. It goes hand in hand with "take responsibility for yourself." We are men, we get things done. Including finding suitable locations. Second, LIFT AND READ. In that order. Third, do what u/TheHyperHuman said. Those are all good ideas. PS. In the meantime use the Texas Tuck. ;)
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:51 PM
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Anywhere where you're unlikely to be interrupted for a few minutes (it sounds like) is a good first choice. Anywhere else would be a good next choice.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 06:46 AM
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Full disclosure: I have always been an athlete. I have never watched sports. There's a difference between a tribe and a pretend-tribe. A tribe is a group of people who share a common identity and intention. You might call red pill a tribe, or MRP a tribe. Prefix as you please; it is still deeply engrained and a source of joy and fulfillment. Especially a pretend-tribe that exists to fleece you of money. You whine like a socialist. Adults can spend their money wherever they damn well please. And …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/19 06:12 AM
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Yeah, I can see how it's ambiguously worded, but he definitely meant: "men who don't have permission, and therefore don't act." The opposite would be: "men who don't need permission."
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/19 02:48 AM
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I'm actually a bit surprised by the reaction to "we." Is that really what you allow yourself to be bothered by? Humans are tribal. This community knows enough about evolutionary psychology to know that's powerful. Even if that reason isn't persuasive, and you don't wanna use "we" to describe whatever group you affiliate to (fanhood or otherwise), can't you find something better to complain about? I expect more of you. ...Men who judge. ...Men who complain.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/19 02:43 AM
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Confirmation. That's a good one. I usually just say test, but I also like distinguishing comfort tests. How about "comfort test" and "poop test."
/r/askTRP06/04/19 09:55 PM
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...one car sooner.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/19 08:22 AM
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Yeah, but what's the lay word for shit test? That one what's gets me.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 08:01 AM
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Even if you're not looking for an LTR, the ideas here are better.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 07:54 PM
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No prob. You've come to the right place though. MRP is like RP for grown ups.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 07:53 PM
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This belongs in askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 07:49 PM
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I'm intrigued. Care to explain to someone not familiar with the Texas Two Step?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 06:05 AM
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Week 1 - Lifting Continue to follow Bony to Beastly program MWF until complete. Then do War Chest. Follow MWF schedule without fail until I'm at 180lbs <12% BF (currently at 165lbs ~12%, started at 145lbs ~7%. I'm 6'.) Then switch to lifting once per week, BJJ once per week, climb or ultimate once per week. Pair down mobility routine to 5 minutes, and do it everyday. Week 2 - Diet Start every day with a nutritient dense smoothie. Prepare bulking foods on Sunday. Make it a planned family activity…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 05:36 AM
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Yeah, because thoughtful people make sure to caveat jokes. I thought it was funny, btw. Imagine if some noob did try to put on two condoms because some girl was gross, haha: Guy: starts putting on second condom Girl: "um, what are you doing?" Guy: "huh? Oh, um, you can never be too careful." Stupid grin.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:17 PM
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In case any uninformed people read this, using multiple condoms at the same time make them more likely to break, it's less effective than just one.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:59 PM
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Hahaha
/r/askTRP20/02/19 03:56 PM
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PS. Befriend people by being genuinely nice, smiling a lot, and showing genuine interest in them as people. Not by gossip, or creating separation from others.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:56 AM
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Damn, I was hoping you'd answer every question the other way around. Maybe tell him to think about dealing with bullies as a game. The object is do be more socially dominant. Befriend people as much as you can one by one. The more they like you the less they'll participate actively or passively in bullying. Practice being witty and not getting ruffled by insults. Especially the latter. And lastly stand up for yourself, but that is lastly. You have to do it while not being ruffled and with a leas…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:53 AM
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Is he redpilled? Do you just think he's being bullied or are you pretty sure that what's going on? I used to work at a wilderness therapy place and there's a lot of stuff that could be going on 3 weeks in. Is he used to camping or at all outdoorsy?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:36 AM
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First of all, you don't need to drink alcohol when you go to a bar. You could ask for sparkling water with a lime in it if you want to appear like you're drinking, or just drink water and own it. Second, you don't need to escalate to sex to practice pick up, the name of the game is generating attraction, just practice making girls more attracted to you, everywhere, not just in bars. Be charming, make women like you, make them intrigued by you, make then want you to ask for their number, you'll k…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/19 08:33 AM
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Would someone mind explaining or pointing me in the direction of why guys are so scared of women who have been raped? When I read this post I was like "I don't get the question, she's great in all these different ways, and open about her past, isn't that a good thing?" But I clearly don't know something you guys know. Care to enlighten me?
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:11 AM
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