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Yeah there are a ton of people being scammed as we speak. Male and female. That’s not the topic at hand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:28 PM
1

Ah where you get your statistics from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:47 AM
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This is not breaking news and especially not to the sugar daddies lol I’m inclined to believe no sugar baby is selling exclusivity in those arrangements. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:42 AM
1

That’s the appeal to men who can’t have neither one of those and can’t afford to buy it either. If love and desire could be bought though all of them would be on it like flies on 💩.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:22 AM
2

Who can blame them when the market for it is there. It’s a survival strategy on both sides. The men who can afford it are paying into it by choice. No one is being scammed nor coerced into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:53 AM
1

It’s a pretty funny 😄.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:44 AM
2

Yes- it’s the good ol “focus on yourself” - “glow up” n “self care” all while not looking for it cause that’s when it comes- it’s when you least expected it of course 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:36 AM
0

They’re scared of “potential money” they might acquire lol If they had money to lose they would have already taken care of that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:58 PM
5

He's trying to say he's gonna marry his favorite escort, it's fine anyway it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:16 PM
2

Neither.. just licking the ol wounds but it probably gonna leave a new one🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:03 PM
3

Sad part is they still can't get any. 🥴 This the most pathetic way to lick your wounds. 🙈🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:01 PM
5

Well you’re preaching to choir- the fact that there’s a bunch of people available, doesn’t mean a damm thing because they aren’t an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:39 PM
3

Exactly!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:38 PM
3

Think for the most part it's being sucked up. By now all of those things are being talked about amongst each other. Realistically, nothing prepares one for the culture shock and it's called shock because it's like that heavy. Visiting is one thing.. but once the excitement wears off and some things some things are confirmed and others are busted. I personally was too little to realize I would adjust at some point but I knew here was new this was my home so suck it we all do and even after many y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:37 AM
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What are you trying to say? What are the bad problems immigrants don't want?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:09 AM
4

Realistically only a woman with money to spare would have those choice. Meaning she's a successful independent woman. They have a harder time finding a partner for the same reasons. No 20 somethings are doing this. These are women who feel the clock is ticking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:08 AM
1

Aww poor men, it's the price to pay for getting off and not using a condom "no pull out game" - AND coming up with a disgusting term such as "cum-drop truck" when referring to the women that chose to keep the men's blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:33 AM
2

Because it doesn't grow inside you and it doesn't come out of you... Like how's is that hard to understand. Imagine you have to pass a gallstone... It's my damm gallstone! And I want it in one piece! - how does that make you feel? Yes we know how painful traumatic and possibly even risk of heart attack from how painful it is to pass a tiny stone out of your wee wee hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:25 AM
2

True- both those are subject to change at the drop of hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:57 AM
3

The big issue with modern dating is social media and online dating. Period!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:56 AM
1

Ok, what would you like me to do with that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:58 PM
0

🙊😂 true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:23 AM
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🙊 I didn't we couldn't! You're deflecting! When are men gonna start actually doing something fighting for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:48 AM
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Umm sounds like you'd enjoy that! I'm gooooood!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:26 AM
1

Sooo there wasn't a draft? 🥱 Also WW1 Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:15 AM
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Men won't defend themselves! Where is the movement? I'm not gonna deny men have stood by, but the real movement wasn't them. That credit doesn't go to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:50 PM
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😄😐
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:48 PM
-5

No literally you can't!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:48 PM
0

Umm what about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:47 PM
-1

About?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:46 PM
3

Men gave us rights? Oh the generosity!! 🤮 Women before me fought for everything we have now. MISS ME! With that bullshit, I got 99 problems but dick AIN'T one. I can do bad all by myself!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:45 PM
2

For women? Specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:42 PM
-5

Exactly. Someone in the comments said "Women won't fight for men"- 😑 When the f have men fought for women. Women have made it this far all on their own. Their thought process It's utterly mind boggling. Like whaaat 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:55 PM
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From your story, yes both mom and daughter sound like real assholes. He seems quite generous up until you gave this last bit of information. He is clingy and co-dependent. He went for this exact type of women. He knew deep down the relationship was based on his generosity. He didn't care because he is clingy and co-dependent. He accepted the dynamic and I don't believe he was fooled. I couldn't find the courage to be with a person I am not the least bit attracted to and on top he is clingy and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:26 PM
-5

No incels exist because they took a deep turn into Womenhating Valley.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:30 AM
1

Aaaah! 🙈 pay attention! This is called a pattern - a pattern in this case Means you have a type 😂😂 your type! Lol you see where this is going right. Also relax.. you don't know most women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:23 AM
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Most Women are intellectually stupid? How did you arrive st this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:16 AM
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So in that case those women are on doing mom things about 80-90% of the time. They are single moms and so are the fathers are single men with a child. Your ex is in a good position. The majority aren't. I know women who get 50$ a week and some that get 150$ a week. Plus 0 help from the other parent . So your case isn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:21 AM
1

Your opinion doesn't make it so! Get a babysitter that's slightly different then.. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:32 AM
1

Well you wouldn't need a babysitter and your waisting your time with something you'll never even have to worry about. No marriage no kids no divorce- enjoy your imaginery asset's!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:25 AM
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I can’t confirm or deny. I’ve only ever seen RP men spreading this type of ideology. Withholding marriage is their attempt to start a revolution. No one is pressed to marry or have kids anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:19 AM
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RP - "wifey material" is code for sex on-demand , incubator and free childcare .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:31 AM
4

Okay so for you to have been able to put in the time to get that business up, you needed to dedicated a whole lot of your time and attention to doing what was needed. This means hardly if any of your time and attention went to the kids and partner. That means the stay at home partner was holding down the fort and kids and her own needs to support your business. If you don’t see that as asset then You don’t deserve that type of partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:51 PM
4

It’s not excessive, it’s what’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:39 PM
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Mmkay.. You’d be willing to put a pause on your life and career to be a SAHD if that means you’d take the least amount of effort and risk than? I highly doubt you’d be saying the same thing if the roles were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:13 PM
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Where those women at? They agree to stay home with the children so you can continue to live your life with nothing to show for at end?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:14 PM
1

Post nut-clarity is the reason I don’t participate in random sex.. the emotional hangover sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:04 AM
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That hasn’t been my experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:35 AM
1

If you're girl friend is behaving in a way that makes you question her commitment to you. When you question her, she gets upset. She doesn't do anything to ease your mind. It's clear as day what he should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:18 PM
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Might have been something to consider before commiting to the relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:55 AM
13

So the real issue is going out, period. Those other things are just good excuses to get your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:09 AM
0

Find something that *does fullfil you.. do things that mean something to you. If were gonna be here might as well give it a good go. Whatever makes your life more enjoyable, do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:54 AM
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All I know is I have low sex drive.. for me that looks like 1x per week. Sometimes less. I could do without it for the most part. My partner obviously can't. I have been thinking about seeing a doctor about it. I have pretty much always been about the same way. I did not realize it actually might not be normal until later in life. We had never really been open about sex as we are now. I have no idea what normal really looks like I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:58 AM
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This has more to do with personality thing.. neither is more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:09 PM
1

Okay! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:02 PM
1

Nop, argued for alimony. I'm pretty neutral when it comes to marriage. I don't believe anyone should do it because they have to be it men or women. P
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:45 PM
1

Exactly! Why would you? Lol it's what I've been saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:21 AM
1

Okay but what about pre-nups
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:26 AM
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I don't think I am. Whatever happened to pre-nups? Your insecurities are showing. This laws came to pass for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:34 PM
1

Ah that'll be a HARD pass. Sounds like your breathing from the wound. Sounds like you'll be dying alone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:31 PM
1

Like I said, grass is always greener on the other side. There's positives and negatives for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:31 PM
1

You know nothing about me to even get a clue.. I see my side of the street and you see yours. You know what's selfish to want women to carry birth and then to pause her life to stay home and care for the child essentially eliminating the cost of child care which is easily above 12000 a year for the first 4 years. I know the majority think it's the most comfortable job in the world. When that's done. She has to start all over. How dare she want to come out of that well off. You'd want her to bare…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:37 AM
1

That sounds like Ops boyfriend is some how a bad person for not liking the idea of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:50 PM
1

It must be mutually beneficial if they are so willingly setting themselves up to have half their shit stolen. Why then do they then sign up for 18 years of financial responsibility tied to those same women. Clearly you won't be having any of those problems.. I really don't think you'll get very far in any type of relationship because there is no one at your level. If those men aren't making much noise about this why are you do upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:48 PM
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I can't argue with that, I do agree that would be the main reason to marry once the relationship has made stood the test of time. 6 months is not enough to know a person well enough to know if it's actually a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:14 PM
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Maybe when money is involved.. but that also depends on who makes more money. Or who makes the money for that matter- if children are involved then how are the responsibilities shared. Gender roles are not entirely the norm anymore. If one partner works and the other cares for the children then should that person deserves financial security should they split. The decision wasn't made alone now was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:28 PM
3

Two people can depend on each other regardless of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:11 PM
3

You feel personally attacked- I'm simply pointing that out - I don't personally know you so I don't know what your bank account looks like. Now I have an idea though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:05 PM
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I'm not deflecting.. I don't really see marriage as something I want- the only reason I would want to at some point is to be able to make decisions incase of medical emergencies and death. I feel like this is important once you've shared a life with someone that they have the knowledge and ability to make those decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:00 PM
-1

Do you worry about this because you have actual money to lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:34 PM
1

You want someone to sign over their life to you, even when the relationship has gone sour?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:30 PM
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Legal rights to what though? Think we all know that becoming dependent on a man is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:28 PM
3

It's funny that men who think this way have only "potential future assets" that they don't actually posess presently and may not even ever have them. Those who do have them don't worry about this shit because they already have that figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:24 PM
3

What is marriage even for... Now a days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:10 PM
-1

It's funny this entire thread is full of bitter men... Yeah women lose sleep mad about all the undesirables paying sex workers lol Sex workers doing gods work imop
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:23 AM
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Could not have said it better myself!! 👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:13 PM
4

No problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:41 AM
6

Oh come on... because clingy isn't even healthy.. it's not like just wanting to be close or more togetherness. clingy is like hanging from soemoenes's neck all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:35 AM
13

Only if he was being eww and clingy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:28 AM
2

Well yes in a sense I guess that's true. All those things would make me attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:51 AM
5

My enthusiasm has more to do with how I fulfilled and content I am with my partner. I don't even ask for much.. it's the small things. If they can't bother with the little details.. I have 0 motivation or enthusiasm for a blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:25 AM
3

This was back in 2001. It really wasn't called out for what it was. Raised some eyebrows maybe but no one said anything. I also didn't have real parenting going on in my life. Could have turned very different for me. Fortunately it didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:26 AM
3

I did once feel icky about a guy crying- in my defense I was 15 and he was probably mid 20s. I genuinely had so much fun with him and he was really funny. After a while the age difference became apparent. When I wanted to hang out with my friends, (smoking weed in someone’s garage pigging out on Chinese food typically) He’d call a damm search party- knocking on other friend’s houses, even going to mom’s job to ask about me. She did become a bit alarmed and I was clearly smoking weed and didn’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:03 AM
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You are as silly as y'all come! The actual irony of your stupid comment escapes you. No need to come up with insults you fall in line all by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:12 PM
2

Absolutely nothing wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:46 PM
2

Lol ironic you'd say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:25 PM
2

We absolutely care. I am not giving you pointers or alternatives. I'm simply making observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:14 PM
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Whatever gets whatever gets you regular sex dude. Lol Then have the audacity to care about about anyones sexual history. Will you disclose this part of your sexual history to a partner? I really doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:08 PM
2

Yeah.. it's very effective once desperation kicks in full gear. Definitely make your way towards the exit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:48 PM
1

Pretty much.. lol I guess it could be worse.. baby is now a toddler..love her life.. in part it's been an opportunity that many people have.. to see their child develop. I do my best to keep that in mind. Daycare isn't as easily obtainable even with things sorta back to normal. Day cares are still practicing social distancing. I am fully prepared to get back to work asap. It's incredible how fast a space can feel so tight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:10 PM
1

Wow, sounds pretty doable.. My partner did not ever fully grasp the extent of my anxiety and adhd. Couple days in and I was walking on egg shells. Drove an entire wedge into us. I don't really get worked up anymore and he pretends it doesn't bother him but he's passive agressive so there's that. 🤣. I wasn't able to go to back to work because of baby and he never went back to the office. 😩😩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:01 PM
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I was also led on to believe the other person didn't want kids ever.. when was okay with me never wanting kids... Yes people lie in hopes you end up changing your mind.. it's fucked up on so many levels.. once they realize its a firm decision.. they will resort to emotional manipulation such as guilt. Terrible. I don't bla.e you for being skeptical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:54 PM
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Isn't that the exact reason for the honesty.. to give the other person the ability to decide if they want to participate in just sex. Shitty thing to use people that way. Being a sucker for p**sy is also very unattractive. Probably aren't all that great at it if you need to lie to keep your roster of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:49 PM
1

How's all that togetherness working out for you guys? We barely made through the pandemic and it's still very shaky.. other things played a part but the level of togetherness done fd it all the way up. Had not spent that amount of time in each other's presence in all those 6-7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:40 PM
3

Honestly, it's sounds like a wet dream lol I often wonder how far their disdain for women really goes. I think think of one of the top of my head that deserves to end up in the que lol He said he'd enjoy an event where men get to freely shoot at 100 women. He's hoping for the day it happens. Sick mofo.. I bet if a women shows him attention he'd be on it like a fly on shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:34 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:23 PM
0

He can feel whatever he needs to feel I am gonna take a wild guess and say that isn't her proudest moment... She may have done it because she felt it's what she needed to do to be liked and it probably brings up some not so fond memories for her. I would definitely look to compromise with my partner.. I would probably be upset and offended that he would hold that over my head as if that somehow means I am gonna have to yet again feel pressured to do things that make me feel negatively about myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:07 PM
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Yes I agree.. we really could have done just fine with land lines and roll over minutes on a flip phone. I was thinking the other day... How tf did my friends and I manage to find each other to do dumb shit back then lol I think we had an internal calendar where we kept track of each other's schedule and location. We just knew when n where to link up. My house was the go-to. We just don't spend as much time outside either. Modem dating blows my mind.. Why date to find out if you even like them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:14 AM
2

I day dream about a day people decide to get off dating dating apps... War against the machine type thing. A stamped of rebels trying to take back human connection. It really wasn't rocket science like it's made out to be now. O.L.D is counterproductive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:12 AM
1

Back when we had unlimited min nights and weekends and roll over minutes.. people met randomly. Just go about your day and it just happens organically. Much simpler times. we've lost the ability to connect like we use to... I wish it wasn't so. One day to meet someone seems like a lot of pressure and I don't think it's gonna help first impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:50 AM
-1

Pretty sure cops have gotten good at spotting real DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:50 AM
4

Hmmm wait.. I am a firm believer that the only true friendships between men and women are the ones made as young people and I mean teens maybe even early 20s. New opposite sex friendships while in relationships are BULLSHIT!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:02 AM
2

Yeah that threw the whole sceneries off for me Too unrealistic to even entertain the idea. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:05 AM
1

I wasn't correcting. I was just curious, I am not well versed on the lingo either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:01 PM
1

I thought Chads were just physically good looking guys. Never heard any one really having those expiriences. I understood a Chad to have it all when it comes to looks but nothing else really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:33 PM
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Why would Chad end up down in RP? RP men can’t get woman because of all the Chads and woman only want Chads and only sleep with Chads and don’t want the other guys that’s why they made a support group?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:54 AM
1

What are the qualities a man needs to have to qualify as q HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:55 AM
1

I'm just curious. I'm not saying it's a detriment. Just think that with fame no one has to work that hard to get laid. Why date at that point, especially if it's not quality. Just get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:38 AM
1

Just for the dating part? Or because that means chances of sex are higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:27 AM
1

😳 Couldn't let her out by herself huh..glad she's your ex! It was weird even at the beginning of our relationship.. he’s just not built for dancing 😩😩 To me dancing takes a level of intimacy that I'm not comfortable having with other men being in a relationship. I choose not to because I would not like if he did. I wish he would be more open to it. Any chance I get to dance while he's at least around I take it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:25 AM
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I think people with fame actually avoid the attention that it brings them. Probably isn’t all it’s hyped to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:22 AM
2

Probably won’t have trouble getting dates. Quality dates though, that’s probably still gonna be problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:59 AM
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A homebody- I got more then I bargained for. I miss dancing so much.. I only get to shake my bones at a New Year’s Eve family get together if the stars align. I would like to go dancing every once in a while but it’s not his scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:53 AM
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Irritational? fears hardly. I live close to the town Dulce was abducted.. she hasn't been found and at this she probably never will.. When I was about 12 a 10 year old boy from the neighborhood walked home alone from the fair. Unbeknownst to his mother who was working that night. His body was found later in the river that flows by the park we hung out at. Sxually assaulted. Every fuckin body blamed the mother, how dare she have a job and not look after her child. I'll never forget the look on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:46 AM
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Kids can't be alone because now we know child predators are everywhere.. small children are easily abducted. My worst fear. I couldnt live with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:42 AM
1

🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:52 AM
1

Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:09 PM
1

Sure it goes both ways.. but are men creepy because women are bitchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:03 PM
1

It's easy to ignore on social media but it still leaves us hyper aware in real life. We can't block creepy men in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:59 PM
0

I can't relate so it makes no sense to me 🤷‍♀️ My comment must of hit a nerve huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:52 PM
0

Wtf are you going on about? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:47 PM
1

I didn’t don’- I mean maybe just kind of relax your expectations for the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:41 AM
1

It's true. Also social media has played a part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:46 PM
15

That's sad. I may be too old to comment on this (33F) Saying it was different during my time makes me feel even older. I feel like social media has made us all less sociable. Creepy men on social media make it hard for normal men to approach women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:46 PM
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Being tipsy makes a person most social.. it doesn't mean much. Try meeting someone in a different setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:00 PM
3

Human's naturally desired this setup? What nation are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:06 AM
2

Absolutely reaching at this point. Something for them to blame for their low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:50 PM
1

Okay so where was the father the entire pregnancy? Giving up a child can not be an easy decision and I absolutely believe circumstances had to be extremely hard to see no other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:30 PM
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Which rights remove paternity rights from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:12 PM
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The well being of a child is not guaranteed solely on child support and it hardly even makes a huge difference to a child's well being. Child support goes to cover basic necessities and those are things a child rarely is aware of. Therefore it falls upon the care giver. It can't be a man's decision because a man can neither give birth nor go through the procedure. The day that becomes a possibility then that will be the day a man can make the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:33 PM
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Yeah none of the methods are perfect. By far the easiest is a condom with pretty good chance of preventing a pregnancy. All still carry a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:43 PM
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Will the father be keeping the child after the forced birth? The women would also not be forced to provide financial or child raising responsibility for the child she was forced to birth but never wanted? There would be no baby "dumping" in a world with this laws. this process essentially strips woman's rights btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:23 PM
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I don't understand where you are trying to get at. Honestly. It's a revolving door.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:32 PM
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Don't have sex! End of story. That's the entire point. Consenting to sex is consenting to whatever might come of it. Learn to apply a condom.. or don't. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:14 PM
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A condom used correctly is 98% effective while birth control is 99% when taken perfectly. There isn't much difference in effectiveness. Huge difference in side effects, accessibility and price, all burden falls on the woman. What are you trying to defend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:57 PM
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Right, because abortion is just a walk in the park. Some woman just go around getting pregnant to go have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:47 PM
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You are complaining about child support and being able to have the ability to have a say in becoming a parent or not! Does legal and safe abortion not come in pretty handy at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:45 PM
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All avoidable scenerios. No sperm, no baby! Otherwise, it's really consequences of thinking with a penis rather then a brain. What else could eliminate any of these scenarios?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:43 PM
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Neither is birth control, what is your point"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:37 PM
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You should not be allowed to go near a woman with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:35 PM
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Vasectomy, perfectly reversible and no where near as invasive as any of the things woman are subject to. Also a quality condom works well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:24 PM
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I have personally never experienced women exerting each other to compete for a HVM except for on those corny shows like “the bachelor”. How does hypergamy affect your life? What is “uncontrolled hypergamy”? Is there a way to control it? Do you concider yourself a HVM? What makes one so? If a high value male knows he is high value, why the need to be indifferent? Why not just be? Like just be uninterested if that’s what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:32 PM
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At this point in time, this debate just shows how absolutely self absorbed and willfully uneducated the O.P -Are you aware of how expensive woman’s reproductive health care is? Well it’s necessary for a woman to have available and accesisable so that she may get on birth control. -Are you aware of how expensive proper birth control is? -Are you aware of it’s possible negative side effects? -Are you aware that birth control fails? Can you please list why you are so tired of having to acquire a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:58 PM
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I personally think whoever’s idea it was to go on the date should pay. Also how about just planning a date where no one has to spend money unless they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:41 AM
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It's worth it to you so that's what really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:07 AM
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Ah right, ape brain.. that explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:49 AM
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I just don't understand how that may be pleasureable to a man. You have to know she's faking the entire thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:39 AM
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No one said your standards aren't valid. It's how you put each one to it's own littte box and completely reduced each one's value to.. I guess, you must have the means for this type of transaction. I'm sure there is no shortage of woman who are looking to "comply" with this arrangement at a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:18 AM
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“It’s a gift that comes when the woman’s beauty has significantly diminished” This type of thought process is why men are coming into their 30’s with little to no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:41 AM
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I rather
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:42 PM

Well at least ugly women are good for one thing... But commitment from a gaming and porn addict who depend on their mother's for internet connection means squat!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:46 AM

Lol I know what a "fuck boi" is and my statement still stands. They are blinded by their desperate need for attention. Yeah they seem feel like they are blessing the "fuckbois" with the Kitty Kat n that automatically means earns them a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:30 AM

Also I really think your idea that woman see "fuckbois" as prince charming is a construct of your imagination 😂 it's more accurate that their blinded by their level of "thirst".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:57 AM

Yeah that sounds about right. Quite honestly they themselves admit to having no social skills some spend the majority of their time online gaming and are even unable to hold down a job. also have developed some sort of porn addiction. Yikes. It's very unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:51 AM

Haha it really is exactly like the escort guys! Pretty pathetic and in most cases even the men go easy on those women. Incels tend to be pretty hateful. I do agree that the types you mention are around and I have conversations on the comment section in those forums with a few. They are pretty hard on themselves but refuse to pursue women on their level. They're obsessive about dating a physically attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:32 AM
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"slut" is literally a derogatory term for all in intents and purposes meant to be offensive. Lets be real.. takes no skill to spot a willing participant. No amount of skill can get past a woman on a different wavelength lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:18 AM

Incels blame themselves? Wheeere? Incel despise women and some even have some pretty gross things to say about their own mother's. Both sides have one thing in common lack of self-awareness except that incels come off disgustingly agorrant feeling that they somehow feeling like they deserve their fantasy woman. While the unattractive woman are genuinely baffled and painfully unaware of how unattractive and undesirable as a LTR they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:00 AM
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Quite possibly....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:08 PM
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It's been this way for eternity and will probably be beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:59 PM
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I guess but there is no equivalent to slut shaming for men lol It's a double standard and I can't see a way around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:55 PM
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How are men made accountable for the exact same thing? By what measure do you make this a punishable offence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:07 PM
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I had the idea that this common knowledge or common sentiment. Amateur porn is possibly the least harmful to the psyche if at all honestly. Or maybe I'm just a little too confident in men's ability to not be a needy weak mf. Like I was saying it doesn't create unrealistic expectations. Regular people doing regular things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:20 AM
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I will have to look that story up to confirm it causes it sounds crazy to me. I do not personally know anyone that cares what when men are doing honestly. There was a time when marriage was important for reasons other then just love. But those were other times. Marriage maybe some woman’s dream. It is really not Important to others. Clearly you love the idea that woman obsses over MGTOW and their decision not to marry 😂 I can assure you no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:11 AM
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Fear of rejection, sounds problematic in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:10 AM
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Truama probably..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:04 AM
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Wow You must be really good looking. Bet you’re just a joy to be around Your personality really shines through here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:00 AM
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That is absolutely not true!I’ve seen unattractive couples all the time. Sexless man I’ve encountered on Reddit are the most unpleasant individuals. They aren’t just sexless. They can’t make friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:24 AM
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“more appreciative of the options they are left with”. This an appropriate time to make assumptions? 🧐 Seems like a double standard if I ever saw one. Are men appreciative of their options? Wife who doesn’t want to but has to give him sex- that is absolutely disturbing scenario that’s theres laws against none consensual marital sex and that’s the nice name to Can’t the sexless man be appreciative of the options they have left? It’s easy to see sexless men are frustrated because They don’t just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:05 AM
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😑 Your comment sounds absolutely comical, it will NEvER happen! But let’s say it did. Woman going back to the kitchen. Do sexless men magically become attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:13 AM
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A sexless men rioting- to what end? I can understand the motivation but what’s their end game? Maybe I’m not seeing something before I say anything some one please explain to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:25 PM

Ok, so this was coming from her inexperience. Good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:41 PM

Hmmm mommy got issues!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:20 PM

Your mom really said some idiotic shit like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:27 PM
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Honestly 1
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:00 PM
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Omg it’s you! It’s you! Thanks for proving this shit is alive and wel. Lol thank you for proving this theory correct! Where the fuck is the guy in all this? Aaah busting his ass at work. Sounds like poor career choice. I bet if she didn’t work and handled the home front you’d have something to say about that too. “Some office job” lol can’t win.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:18 AM
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👏👏 team work makes the dream work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:12 AM
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Hmm I think you are inflating this happening. This was brought up a couple times by kids of immigrant parents. One of them was actually the son venting about his father not moving a muscle at home while mom works a more demanding job n still has to all the house work. The other one was a daughter venting about her parents dynamic.. cheating father who needs even glass of water served for him the epitome of machista from the machista capital of the world Mexico. This is the bread n butter in most…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:09 AM
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Well why not? The only thing that maybe far fetched about her expectations is man who hasn’t been super sexually active with high amount of woman, especially if she’s looking in dating apps. Other then that I don’t see why she can’t get her wish list.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:11 AM
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I doubt she was trying to appeal to men she was simply describing herself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:15 AM
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Those girls probably have an awesome personality. Some big girls honestly just have nasty attitudes, over compensating for their weight which makes them repulsive honestly. I new a girl who would pay for everything to keep a man, sadly she was always being used by kept man until they had no more use for her. She would give them cars clothes bail them out jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:28 PM
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Well this takes acceptance and even then your self worth is tested.. it would probably sting a little but there's self awareness and acceptance of my level of beauty based on societys scale. I know I clean up good I know have certain traits that are considered beautiful but as whole I'm not at the top of the scale. I can accept that there's things about me he finds attractive and those make me pretty in his but he can say someone else is actually pretty. I find certain things about him attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:07 PM
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Okay lol
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 04:57 AM
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Must be so sad to believe that.. lol
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 04:50 AM
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She's not quite right in her head for doing all this just for the experience, also dragging this dude into is gotta be the ultimate asshole thing to do.
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 02:37 AM
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You need to go back and read again. Nobody accused youbof anything.. you implied it was a requirement to be a cool n fun for a guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:48 PM
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Wtf is a bomb throwing asshole? He showed enough of it for me to make up my mind. I disagreed with him so I’m a feminist or I’m young? Was that a go at my inteligence for disagreeing. Oh no that’s him being “good guy” doesn’t take a genius to read through bullshit. Interesting? Haha I mean to each their own dude you didn’t point out the fake word.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:07 AM
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It could be both ways.. people who’ve suffered a lot tend to be also empathetic and kind but then there’s the ones who want others to suffer too lol I think honestly he gets it from his father. He’s dad is also like this. He lead by example. Never met a most decent loving man then his father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:54 AM
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He doesn’t even own a good personality let alone me lol Please point me to the fake word?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:44 AM
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Emotional payoff? I’m sure he yeah he feels good he didn’t just walk away when he could have helped if that’s what you mean. Why is that a bad thing? See you’re picking and choosing when to be a good guy lol that’s still valid I do too. I asses the situation and ask myself can I do anything to help and how inconvenienced am I gonna be to each their own. Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:43 AM
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There you are! 🤮 You’re douche bag!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:41 AM
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Real recognize real when fake shows up. I smell 💩 a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:29 AM
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Typical lol full blown RP incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 06:06 AM
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Hella mansplaining on here... your logic is flawed in my opinion... you aren’t a genuinely a nice guy if you want recognition for being a nice guy. You aren’t a genuine anything if you have have to say your anything lol How about just being a good fucking person in general not just to woman. Genuinely nice people don’t even know they are genuinely nice people. For example My SO i had to learn to be patient. example winter storm, I had to get to work I was close enough that I could walk I felt ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:56 AM
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Who? Me? Haha barking up the wrong tree girl.. I’m not a sucker for dick first of all I can do me all by myself lol I’m a female I been through the drug scene who wants to meet a guy to get High with lol high school shit. Do you thought no judgement.. sounds like you may still be in the party scene. You said early 20s so I figured you are closer to 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:05 AM
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Definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:51 PM
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I’ll try to find it.. yeah seems like it started off right but for carried away at some point. I can get with the self love pride in their own life and all that jazzz but then they kinda turn woman into an object to pocess as like a 🏆 I’ve read some really bazaar concepts over there. For example they feel like all this things will get them leverage in a relationship but not the healthy kind. If they check off all those things which are essentially Money, get fit and look like they have a million…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:00 PM
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I’ll google it, I’m interested but not enough to invest in lol TRP is not a good thing in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:47 PM
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Nothing.. I meant to answer someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:27 PM
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If you are bolding and it's very noticeable.. don't go hide it under a hat. Shave it off. Just do it. Balding is unfortunately very unattractive. Own that boldie! Skin Maintenance and grooming are now main priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:58 AM
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“Be that guy” - 👎 high school vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:50 AM
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Yuuup wrong post idk how lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:38 AM
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Thanks for the reminder 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:13 AM
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Really should be a whole support group for the kind.... I mean recovery not incel-ism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:03 AM
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Lol there it is.. boohoo! I get no hugs .. they only wants chads.. I’m a good man, i deserve a hot woman even though I hate myself so I rot in dating apps and play Xbox all fucking day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:00 AM
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Not noble.. you all mistake the reality cause It’s you just can’t fathom it’s all coming from you. You attract what you are:. The 12 steps really would do everyone good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:59 AM
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Lol you neee someone to make you feel validated lo please don’t do it. If she loves you and you are doing her right this would not. Be a topicZz if she was Muslim.. she would be shunned .. not a good like for you.. man don’t get the shit end of the stick. I grew up Like a little animal.. neglected , underestimated yelled at Adhd bipolar low self esteem no sense of home and self love... when people find people like us they do t know what’s up they thing being honest and upfront helps and it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:56 AM
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Link would be cool.. female but so intrigued by all this... all of this is really ruled buy one thing ... carnal attraction... I recently found out I am demisexual... always thought I was just needing female viagra ... nothing physical does anything for me ... I can admire their beauty.. wow but sexual i just don’t see it. Try too hard most dot. Even know sex.. that’s why so many pumped and dumped .. means nothing if at the end of the day youte still empty ... I’ve hard dry periods and I mean ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:49 AM
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Hmmm true ... could be something in their younger genes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:24 AM
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Masculinity is made out of glass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:27 AM
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I can’t relate ... really i don’t understand casual sex.. demisexual is a thing .... good looking “hot” does NOTHING for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:55 AM
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We are still reasonable human beings as hard as that may be for you to believe. in the scenario you presented, I would be calling help for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 11:15 PM
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I realize we’re gonna get caugh up with semantics on this topic and we’re gonna get no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:50 PM
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I was piggybacking off her story, not saying the MMA fighter is a whimp. I’ll try again. in general yeah a woman is not gonna like that a man can’t stand for himself. That is definitely a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:23 PM
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This woman is an MMA fighter! Not a good representation of the general female population lol As far as what she was talking about - yeah, there will no attraction towards a guy who is a whimp. Repulsion thought no that’s extreme. All woman wanna feel security in that sense. Not gonna lie I will be embarrassed if a guy doesn’t stand up for himself. Vulnerability is different though a man in touch with his feelings to a healthy level is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:49 PM
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“Most women would be repulsed” This is FALSE. What leads you to believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:26 PM
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You said it, not me. “Misery loves company” so I’m out!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:19 PM
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Don’t do that, your not very good at sarcasm. you just pulled that shit out of your ass. It wasn’t even funny or remotely relevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:39 PM
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Each state has their own laws and ? So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:24 PM
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100% avoidable by not doing the crime
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:10 PM
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The way I see it is - We agree that men choose to play that role. Come on out of there!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:04 PM
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They get weird? Trying to stab you and running you over is just weird? Oh of course because that means all those expensive things you used to impress them are now Puufff gone. It’s justified lol you both deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:55 PM
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Eeeh unfortunately there’s a clear path that lands man in those places.. yes unfair sentences and all that could have been avoided by not doing the crime in the first place.. they chose to play that roll. “The sink shall remain dish free and clean at all times” -Me last law I passed in my world the only one that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:47 PM
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Men love to generalize.. ALL woman aren’t responsible for how SOME woman behave. Why are you TRPs so focused on those woman, that type of woman isn’t even girlfriend material let alone wife. But you love to try tame those beasts and when it backfires you come here and hate us all lol it’s funny .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:33 PM
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I meant made up by TRP.. it’s not even a social construct. I live in the land of the free.. I do not see them no, I do not see them among woman either, we found our voice a while back. We’ve been taught to be leaders not followers. This doesn’t even apply to work honestly. No one is doing anything they don’t wanna do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:57 PM
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So we’re you implying that because he’s a dad bod then there must be ulterior motives? How about we just simply clicked and there was butterflies fireworks and the whole 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:51 PM
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This alpha beta concept is made up. There’s a hierarchie if you say there is but it only exists over at TRP and for those who choose to accept role a in it. It’s strange to me that anyone would accept to be a follower. There’s no scenario In which another woman is somehow better then me so she tells me what to do and I blindly follow orders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:43 PM
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This is made up. It’s not a social construct. It’s a male construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:26 PM
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I’m not a male so I don’t even have to worry about all this nonsense lol My curiosity led me all the way here. I stumbled unto TRP one day... It’s like an alternate reality over here, a whole new world. Sounds very primitive this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:54 PM
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That’s what I imagined... a leader and his followers. Which one are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:31 PM
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Male hierarchies ? Please explain the concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:05 PM
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Yeahh well we all suggested involving social services and singing like a canary, Apperantly she was giving baby spankings.. why a 3 year old needs a spanking is beyond me. She would have a lot of work to do to prove she is safe to be around that baby. I bet that will scare her straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:26 PM
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Female(s) as in plural? That means you have a type... and it’s toxic... it’s easier to blame an ALL woman then accept responsibility for YOUR bad taste in woman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:12 PM
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Yeah I do too! Like a story on the parenting sub.. It was husband asking for advice on how to proceed- His wife was clearly unstable but was refusing treatment.. there were arguments that were ending up in her putting her hands on him in front of their 3 year old baby girl. He was clearly distraught and was worried for his little girl. That is domestic violence. Then I feel terrible for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:55 AM
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Yikes, did he break up with her though? Cause notice how he said “my girl” and he said with a smirk.. some really do like toxic girls like that otherwise he would have never gotten with an obnoxious loud chick from the get. It’s for sure not ok for a woman to put their hands on man but you can’t even feel for the guy really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:17 AM
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We actually aren’t married yet. Been together for 8 years. 2 kids.. “It’s sex that counts” You sound like a rabid sex crazed maniac honestly get a grip.. what are you 17 years old? Sex is important no doubt but there’s so many more things to worry about that’s your main concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:39 AM
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It’s funny, I run into a lot of that “nobody wants a single mom” rhetoric here. TRP is in the house! I know that you really wanna believe that but There’s never a shortage of interest for the majority of us even for single moms.. I mean even unhealthy obese woman have an entire fetish dedicated to them lol “Being honest for 3 seconds” That’s never come out of her her mouth actually.. that’s my observation from what I’ve seen of ALL her failed relationships.. every single time- the guy ends up be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:02 AM
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I guess that’s the case..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:20 AM
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I thought a dad bod is someone who use to hit the gym but then stopped, so there’s visibles signs that he use to work out but now has a belly lol so that’s how I’d describe my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:16 AM
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Yeah his abdomen is still pretty defined abs.. it’s settled! It’s not a dad bod!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:09 AM
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I just looked it up... that dad bod is up for fucking debate! He grew a beard and stopped waxing his body that’s about it lol that’s not a dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:02 AM
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I mean some woman do lol to each their own. Just like chubby woman have their whole thing going on there’s a whole fetish dedicated to big woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:56 AM
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Yet plenty of man do and they do it real well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:42 AM
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Nooo not chubby God no. Definitely on the leaner side not too much tho still want some meat on there. Don’t need to be a gym rat or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:39 AM
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The correlation was supposed to be it’s hard to be empathetic be close when there is no feelings involved. The only time I can remember this happening to me was one time i was kinda young though but I was already kinda bothered cause he was a bit clingy and then he opened up and nearly cried.. I was immediately put off by him but it wasn’t that I was thinking he was weak or anything it was more like I was uncomfortable by his feelings I couldn’t return I couldn’t be empathetic and didn’t wanna b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:24 AM
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I do not prefer dad bods no, doesn’t mean I would prefer he was fit or wish he would do anything to improve. I’m perfectly content with it. I am fully attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:11 AM
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Ah! I see, well it’s the same way when a guy only wants sex and can’t be bothered cuddling and all that after sex. When he “opens up” she can’t be bothered cause she doesn’t care anymore if she ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:04 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:53 AM
1

I was gonna write this whole thing then realized it’s a waste of time. It’s clear why people are so damm miserable all this rules and social standards to uphold people to impress. Let me just clear up I never claimed I ONLY like dad bods, life is unpredictable that way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:49 AM
2

It’s so pretentious, huge red flag in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:18 AM
20

Can’t possibly be their personality. it’s because we want Chads. I married a dad bod “it’s cause your lazy!!” lol You’d think we were factory made by them.. they have our manuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:15 AM
1

👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:10 AM
0

So does it come with subtitles or something? Lol I’m trying to understand what you mean but I just don’t see it.. I’ve never experienced it so maybe I can’t relate can you tell me what this reaction looks like or how is that you arrive at that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:36 AM
-6

So I had a couple bad experiences with men too, there’s some pretty nasty comments on here too , there’s shit people everywhere.. I still don’t think ALL men are the second coming of the anti christ lol there’s some decent men I know. To each their own, whatever makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:28 AM
-5

sounds like something an ungrateful snobby stuck up little twat would say.. if true.. which honestly I am inclined not to believe it. like I said the majority of us are not thinking or saying shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:08 AM
2

That was fixed when she became a single mother? It’s a mistake is not a death sentence in this case but okay.. to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:41 PM
-7

You personally heard a woman saying this? While I don’t doubt there are some asshole women m who may thinks this way. I assure you the majority of women are not saying shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:19 PM
6

You mean addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:07 PM
7

Plenty of man who are into that sort of thing, they are usually small and skinny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:05 PM
0

Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:58 PM
3

99.9% of overweight woman are self conscious, they aren’t out there demanding a Chad lol that type of woman only exists in your head honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:56 PM
2

What’s wrong with single moms? My friend has 4 kids, she’s a fucking badass, handles her damm business. Actually I think men are intimidated by her, she’s completely independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:44 PM
7

So marital prospects are a must to not be a loser ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:42 PM
1

I would say a woman like this: needy and slutty “pick-me” personality with no self respect and low self-esteem is a huge loser. Not necessarily bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:34 PM
3

Says a man 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:25 PM
1

Why are single mothers considered losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:21 PM
2

Aren’t shows like the “the bachelor” the perfect time example of hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:41 PM
2

Eeeh it was worth it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:05 AM
5

No it is not.. but this losers had to hear it .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:44 AM
9

https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.pinimg.com%2F474x%2Fd2%2F67%2Ffd%2Fd267fd13fb65fb1442032e8fed0c5345.jpg&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fpin%2F362469470007691935%2F&docid=IzMNjaIdvggzqM&tbnid=Xk5swlGv1RK3MM&vet=1&w=312&h=400&itg=1&hl=en-us&client=safari&bih=635&biw=375&ved=2ahUKEwiFnu6p4pDwAhWRVc0KHU9fCiMQxiAoAXoECAEQHw&iact=c&ictx=1
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:08 AM
7

This are SOME woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:02 AM
16

I was perm banded from askrp today for pointing this out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:00 AM
2

Exactly!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:58 AM
9

Why are you generalizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:28 AM
46

Same for ugly men.. they go above and beyond for woman who are out of their league then they are crying cause they expect those woman to put out just because of their effort. Rational?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:27 AM
3

Nah!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:46 AM
1

You clearly believed him.. his opinion, how is that fact?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:30 PM
1

Jesus you believe this tool? Have you tried asking a woman what they like?? Of course we value a good listener ALOT.. what do you think we wanna talk to a wall?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:17 PM
0

Oh yeah your actions speak for themselves... arrogant!
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:51 PM
4

This is straight bullshit!! Where is this shit coming from?? Isn’t this what you all complain about playing games? What are you 15? Wouldn’t you want an apology if you were wronged?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:22 PM
2

I’ve noticed this too! Lately, This are the ones heading over to the TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:33 PM
5

Too true!! Assholes come in all shapes n forms !
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:32 PM
2

It depends on how individual’s experience. It could have been a better but it all ended very badly so no not anymore. He is the father of my daughter. He got me me pregnant at 17. Bumb father to this day. Truly don’t feel a damm thing for him not even mad not sad not even nothing. I mean I wouldn’t I pee on the man if he was on fire.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:07 AM
1

Apperantly you think Chad is intising! I do not! Have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:32 PM
2

Nah I’m good! You can have him!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:19 PM
2

“I’m only verbalizing the thoughts of the gina” kinda gave it away.. an imaginary one at that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:22 PM
-1

Cause you have one? Cause you like to pretend you have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:00 PM
-1

Lmao okay then! Speak for yourself though!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:53 PM
7

Men are suckers for pussy that’s why it’s become such fucking commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:45 PM
0

You can speak for woman because?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:42 PM
2

I think creepy behavior is creepy regardless who it’s coming from. It really baffles me that some people really can’t get past looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:59 AM
1

I feel like dating apps set a whole new standard of ugly.. where actual true bum fuck ugly people don’t even make the cut. Like actual ugly vegetables at super market they don’t even make it unto the shelfs lol they tried with pushing the commercials about buying ugly vegetables.. they stopped running those adds .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 10:08 AM
2

Yes I do agree with That!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:24 AM
2

Yeah lol that’s real life for the most part everyone for the most part find their equal n have a happy few years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:44 AM
3

Lol i guess. I really don’t like what this apps have done. To dating. All 3 relationships I’ve been in were long term. All started unexpectedly 2 of which was so magical met clicked chemistry butterflies fire works and all that. I can’t imagine meeting another one not in a same way, The first one was kind of forced on me by my old school immigrant parents I was 14. He was coming around but while i kinda liked my gut said no. When my parents saw him around me they immediately demanded he come ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:34 AM
3

Im not even this apps I’ve gathered the same from all the comments I read. ALL men go off based attractive level. Men wanna date woman who are not their equal. Out here in the real world most woman are realistic. That’s not to say that woman don’t but vast majority do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:00 AM
8

What do you mean? This is literally the conclusion based on their data. Conclusive evidence. Not opinión lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:56 AM
2

I don’t know how woman act on dating apps. But that is not what I’m seeing in real life. Especially while I go grocery shopping I check out couples everyone is with their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:43 AM
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Actually there was a whole thing that OKcupid did about what your talking about. The results are actually the opposite of what you are saying. “While woman rated men much harsher and men rated woman kinder. When it came down to choose woman went for the man who they rated as average while men completely ignored the woman they rated kindly and went straight for the attractive unattainable more attractive woman every time. “
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:41 AM
7

Why is it like this? Why can’t each group Stay in their appropriate lane. Attractive people will only ever go for attractive people. That’s it. Why can’t the ugly vegetables mingle amongst each other boom problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:50 AM
1

No, i would actually appreciate that. It’s probably unrealistic as men need sex like they need air to breath. The majority are suckers for cooch. Would be nice to meet a man who can control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 09:14 PM
3

That would be the right thing to do definitely. Anyone who takes advantage of that.. is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:50 PM
2

You don’t sound like a redpiller. How could it possibly make you a better men? A bitter miserable female loathing one maybe. I mean do you see what comes out of their head ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:48 AM
8

Why do you choose to focus on the negativity... your reality is the people you surround yourself with. If you’re experienced this type of behavior simply drop the person.. you can’t generalize n vilify woman in general nore men in general. You sound very unhappy n not a pleasant to be around because all you can do spill your venom every where you go!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:21 AM
5

In both directions? So you can admit that woman experience the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:17 AM
11

Hmm I’ve never done or gone through it so I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:14 AM
17

Haha red/piller? Idk where your getting all this shit from. It’s a matter of communication.. that’s all. Idk what kind of people you hang out with but they sound very toxic!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:08 AM
20

Yeah you made that up... lol she said insecure.. you take it to another level... a man can express this without being possessive and demanding you know.. both genders can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:59 AM
1

Depends, some men can’t handle being friends even if you’ve been friends since children some have ended up confusing friendly with more. I’ve only really been able to keep one male friend close, he just genuinely knows how to be friend. All my other friends I had to drop, I don’t like having to set boundaries at that point it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:55 AM
1

No, It’s weird but to each their own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:46 AM
2

What?? Do you personally know woman who love to her their back blown out by a 20 year old? I highly doubt this. 20 year that can’t even control the motion of the ocean yet.. naaah hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:38 AM
5

Lol he’s older men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:35 AM
6

Let me guess .. divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:57 AM
1

Yeah she lobbied equally for both. Equal rights to both. Women seeking and fit for a VMI quality education cannot be offered anything less, under the State’s obligation to afford them genuinely equal protection,” Ginsburg . “The constitutional violation in this case is the categorical exclusion of women from an extraordinary educational opportunity afforded men." This was for VMI, a school. Not a simple gym. This is the men safe space you are talking about? Couldn’t y’all have formed some type o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:01 AM
1

Really, why do you think that way? What in particular do you not agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:10 PM
1

Good to know! It’s okay I shared it on a men’s commment. I’ll do it for you and delete my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:29 PM
1

Yess I do agree with that! Which is one of the reasons I admire Ruth Bader Ginsberg. She fought for both men and woman to have equal rights. She helped out a single father get some of the same rights single mothers were afforded. Well she had a shit ton more experience then him being nearly 10 years older. I believe you, there is some sneaky evil woman who abuse the law that favors mothers against men for their selfish reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:28 PM
1

So what you are trying to do is get my comment deleted? Just asking, I gotta go and read the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:24 PM
1

Nooo. She values him so she is trying to be right for him. The concept that men don’t take women seriously if they have sex to quick becomes overpowering because she cares what he thinks. I still believe people using this logic.. well you did it before why not for me. This person is clearly selfish and is out for their own gain only. I would ghost that immature troll ASAP! Huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:22 PM
1

I don’t think that Is the likeliest reason as to why. I wouldn’t concider your cousin to have walked away if he really intended to be a father but crazy baby mom prevented him from doing so. I’m not saying I don’t believe you.. I’ve seen some pretty crazy baby momma drama. I just think Your cousin could have went about it a different way. Why not record her crazy behavior.. keep records of their interactions, he knew what she was capable of. It’s just i don’t think he is as innocent as you are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:59 PM
1

Oooh I did not realize the flair my Bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:59 PM
1

What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:48 PM
0

1 in every 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:24 PM
2

All those scenarios are fucked up. Not gonna excuse that behavior. Men do get to choose to be fathers or not all the time and overwhelming amount choose not to be and walk away. Woman Almost always end up picking up the slack and are 90% of the time the main care takers always bear the biggest burden when raising children not to mention growing a human being in your stomach for 9 months. Leaving a huge impact on our bodies. Until it’s men making those sacrifices they don’t have a say when to cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:23 PM
2

Oh yeah I don’t doubt this happens often.. we have the Maury show as proof. I don’t really know what the reasoning for doing such a thing. I definitely don’t agree with it at all. I think it all ends up getting away from them so they wanna take the easy road and just lie. It takes a certain type of person to go through with such behavior. This should definitely be punishable. On the other hand men are can easily just walk away from a child they helped create. They can get away with giving 50$ of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:46 PM
1

Oh ok, yeah sounded like you were really putting in work on the dating apps. I am in the good ol USA. I have you are not. It’s definitely okay for a woman to choose who they find attractivel and so do men. Yet It’s something that cannot be forced, either there is a connection or there isn’t. Looks Maybe the first impression but It’s the entire package that ultimately matters. Someone could be really good looking and their attitude make them totally unattractive, do you settle just because they l…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:10 PM
3

That’s the entire concept that has got this men lothing woman physically attractive men and men of value somehow have become linked like one cannot exist without the other. Dating apps have come to reinforce this for them. I have encountered one of them who did not directly insult women but did try to convince me woman are treason for the high amount of bastard children who are also the product of infidelity and passed off as their husbands biological child but in reality are not. Woman are gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:55 PM
1

Ooh no you’re going based off what you are pulling on tinder. Tinder is killing men. I’ve recently noticed a fleet of men on the mental health with suicidal ideation because of tinder lol like “ooh I’m 5’7 I’m so short I can’t live on” that is not short lol and listen my brother is shorter then me I’m 5’1 and his girl is like 5’5 lol she puts her arm around him lol she’s real pretty. All this standards on tinder are a whole new trend are completely unrealistic. Attractive woman are not going for…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:24 PM
2

Yes and I was willing to let him go.. in no way was it a selfish decision. I come from dysfunction and being a a very single young mother, I learned my lesson and did want to keep reproducing all Willy Nilly. He accepted it and then a few years into it he’s suddenly recenting me and making me feel guilty. Opening up the wound and throwing salt on it. I made a huge mistake for which my daughter had to pay consequences for. I did not appreciate the huge pressure and burden he put on me over this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:16 PM
2

No that’s your opinion that I don’t know lol we have been together 8 years now and it has never come up lol it’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:43 PM
2

I mean it’s been 8 years and he has never asked lol Let’s just agree to disagree. Obviously this works for us but doesn’t mean it works for everyone: I am not opposed to telling if he wanted to know but we both never asked about those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:40 PM
2

Also if he was interested he would have asked lol we actually see eye to eye on this. I don’t need details to his previous relationships at all and neither does he. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:32 PM
1

You’re telling me he could have changed his mind about me if he knew it was an abusive relationship yet he chose to stay for an addict?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:31 PM
1

Gaslighting? Lol
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:26 PM
3

In no way does my previous relationship effect him so why does he need to know details? What would he do with that information? Also you’d have to lack some serious self awareness to not be able to discern what Will affect someone else:
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:22 PM
1

Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:19 PM
2

You keep skipping the part where I said “as long as it does not affect them in any way shape or form. Im gonna give you the clearest example of how I handled this... I have a history of drug abuse. When I met my current partner I was exactly an entire year clean and deep in recovery. I was in the best place in my life. Exactly how long do you think it took me to inform him of this very important fact. Seeing as though we were heading in a good direction, I met him for coffee on our 3rd date and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:06 PM
2

Also your business how you approach woman! This has worked out just fine for us. I have bare minimum details on his past relationships, none on his past sexual tendencies. I don’t need to know as long as it doesn’t affect me:. I expect him to be able to discern what’s important and what is not. Otherwise we are destined for doom and that’s on him. You come off quiet controlling needing to know every detail. The past as long as it stays the past is irrelevant in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:56 PM
3

“As long as it doesn’t affect them in any way shape or form” What other truths could possibly be so damm important? For example I don’t need information on his previous relationships or sexual behaviors AS LONG AS IT DOESN’T AFFECT ME and vice versa. Understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:53 PM
1

😆😆😆
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:15 PM
1

Boom 💥 right on your saggy bum OP!
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:57 AM
1

You beat me to it!! I was gonna say exactly that.. hide your daughters! I mean not even granny is safe.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:54 AM
1

Nah I can’t relate! You're still coming off quite pathetic and plenty of people get the feeling you're a predator. Goofy as mf!
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:52 AM
1

Low key gives off pedo vibes. Absolute looser!
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:46 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:26 AM
1

You definitely don’t wanna be unhealthy or unkept! Don’t stress over it but definitely show some interest in your health. Maybe do the gym together! She will love the attention! I would still recommend you hit the gym if that makes you feel better just definitely don’t do it out of pressure. I believe any man can be attractive if they come off secure in themselves and a good attitude just treat her well and also make sure you are being reciprocated.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:16 AM
1

I prefer my man chubby myself! He’s tall and has a bit of muffin top.. I can confirm , men with a belly got the motion of ocean down packed!
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:03 AM
2

Hoping to move to a house soon! That helps me sleep at night. I’ve also been doing work on my backyard so I can relax all day with my kids outside now that it’s getting nice out. Planning on getting some lights and some furniture and just camp out 😆😆 we also started family therapy recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:00 AM
1

Mf i look better 10 years older then i did in my 20s. I’m also NOT a sucker for dick! You sound wack AF! Power of seduction lmao 😂 your a damm sucker!! You may just have pull with those silly young things. 🤢🤮 fuck outta here with all that bullshittery! You talking to a grown ass woman not a child. I’m not impressed. This must be why you don’t want to date in your age group. You better be really good looking talking all that smack!! Seeing as though you’re seeking advice I’d say no!
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:52 AM
2

Yes a 15 year old and 2 year old. 😱😭 I haven’t worked in 2 years. First time had the baby and we decided I stop my work to stay with baby until we could get her into day care. Then the pandemic hit. He began working remotely and we barely ever spend any time away from each other now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:29 AM
2

En it’s not really a struggle, truly has more to do with the pandemic and all of us being stuck in a now wAay too small apartment for the entirety of this mess. Lol it was all fun and games at first now we’re all just sick of each other 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:16 AM
1

It’s your reflection you weirdo! Mf I am a female in a 8 year long relationship with 2 kids. You’re doing exactly what an incel would do- looking for advice on how to have sex with 20 year olds 😆😆 barely adults.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:05 AM
1

I’m willing to bet I’m younger then you. My age and gender doesn’t make the statement untrue.. sorry to burst your bubble. Anything under 25 for nearly 40 old guy is just disgusting.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:57 AM
1

Clearly. Why do you wanna have sex with extremely young woman?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:45 AM
1

I think ideally, a man being 3-5 years older is perfect. I’m talking about female being 25 year olds at least, if you are looking for a serious relationship. I just don’t see what commenalities are even possible between a man in his 40s with a 20 year old? It’s low key predatory.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:41 AM
-1

This is that ol head in the club trying real hard to stay relevant with the young snobby little twats in the club but End up taking home the left overs. TAKE THIS GUY’S ADVICE IF YOU WANNA BE FOREVER ALONE
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:32 AM
0

Wow a 30 year old sleeping with 20 year olds. Yuck!
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:19 AM
1

Well as long as this surgery is because your jaw bothers you more then you value other’s opinion of your jaw. I am saying there is someone who will find you attractive. Unless you are aiming for woman who are out of your league, I don’t see why surgery will change that. I think you are hanging out with the wrong people.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:13 AM
1

He recently had a baby girl.. about 3 months old. He still a bum though.. he was trying to re-kindle something in us while the new mom had just barely giving birth. Needless to say, I shot that shit down QUICK and gave him a piece of my mind. I’m NOT the one! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:10 AM
1

I don’t know if I agree that we are setting the standards. It’s a whole waive of reasons why men behave this way now. All I can do is teach my daughter what wasn’t taught to me. My home life wasn’t great which contributed to me making this mistake. Luckily at some point I gained self awareness and realized I was bound to repeat history if I did not cut the dysfunction out of my life and that needed to start by not bringing any more children into a broken home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:42 AM
1

I understand what your saying but I was 17, it’s not that the jackass was worth it and he wasn’t.. I made a mistake so by him saying this to me I felt like it was him throwing salt in the wound. Funding was never required, I was not looking for a father to my child. I took it all very slow. We didn’t move in my daughter until 4 years later. I was doing what was best for me n my kid and he was free to go about his life as usual if he didn’t feel like I had enough to offer. I’m glad I did it this …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:24 AM
1

Expected or required to provide for my daughter from a previous relationship? Is that what you mean? Of course, he clearly had a choice to accept me with a child and with my decision not to have children anytime soon. I mean clearly I was not about to be in a relationship with a man who would not awknoledge my child. lol He agreed to it all.. so much so that we are still together and finally have a 2 year old. Took me 6 years to make sure I wasn’t gonna make the same mistake again. He started gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:05 AM
3

My youthful mistake, was becoming pregnant and having a baby at 17 years old. I waited 13 years to have another baby. 8 of which I spent with my current partner. He gave me hell for not being able to commit to having a baby early on. Made me feel guilty on many occasions. I needed to be sure I could trust the next man to be a good father because I actually didn’t even want more children. Which I made real clear and was very vocal about while we were starting to date. He chose not to believe me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:37 AM
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This is why you keep your past to yourself, as long as it doesn’t affect them in any shape or form they need not know because some will use it against you. If anyone is using this logic, I would have to wonder about their mental stability. I don’t want anyone doing for me what they’ve done for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:30 AM
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Someone once questioned me as to why I gave a kid to a man who didn’t appreciate it or took care of his offspring and why I couldn’t do the same for them even though “I am good guy and deserve to have the same thing because I would take care of the baby” I don’t know why I actually felt guilty. I never even thought about it this way. I had no words to his demand. Now I wish I would have told him I didn’t owe him shit!! I realized after becoming a mom at 17 years old I didn’t have anymore childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:26 AM
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I’m basing it off the dating apps trend, according to okcupid , woman rate males very harshly. He looks Good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 01:28 AM
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Oh yeah definitely! I guess that really depends on what each individual finds attractive. I would say based on the current rating trend, my SO would be considered below average. I'm really not sure lol but I find him attractive, it's been 8 years and I still find him attractive. He's tall if he wasn't, I would not have given him a second glance honestly. It's really nothing ever set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:28 PM
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Personality takes a big turn when you feel good about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:41 PM
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I do remember my psych asking me if there was a reason for my anxiety or did it come on without triggers. Which leads me to believe CBT maybe helpful if it's triggered anxiety. For me I just had anxiety all the time! There was nothing I could CBT for. Coping is not acceptable for Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:39 PM
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Did it work for you? You are completely rid of anxiety through CBT?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:34 PM
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Nothing but medication can stop anxiety.. CBT it's a slow repetitive process for temporary relief . Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:31 PM
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In my opinion, hot guys aren't automatically attractive in all sense of the word, yes they are good looking but if they don't have the attitude they aren't really attractive! Not to me anyway. An average guy with great personality 😃attraction initiated! None of which guarantees a connection. Too much emphasize in the superficial.. "hot" people don't stay hot forever..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:22 PM
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We were discussing this the other day. We used the OkCupid study Basically this was the conclusion of the study While woman rate men harsher, when it comes down to choosing they went for average guys. While men rated woman more kindly, the majority went for the attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:10 PM
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Really, I wonder if it’s all an act. what people perceive as “hot” does automagically mean attractive.. it’s the package as whole to determine how attractive a person is. I can’t for the life of me understand random sex.. no connection no hanky panky. I would like to have casual sex but I don’t even get turned on never enjoy it. I always wonder how it is for people that can turn it on at will.. so foreign for me. I need more then to get stimulated
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:05 AM
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It’s so funny, men describíng what woman want 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:49 PM
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Girls really are demanding this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:37 PM
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Yes, in Latin America unfortunately it’s common, the type of men who cat call are undesirable though. It never leads to dating. It’s becoming less and less tolerated. It’s really bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 09:10 PM
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I’ve never witnessed such oddity. I’m talking God honest ugly woman with a hot a guy? Liiiies I think there’s just a whole new standard of ugly woman has been created by the dating apps. Where God-honest ugly woman don’t even have a rating—- the unfuckables. Plain old discarded from the dating world. Say the ugly vegetables, human version 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:38 PM
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Get with their equal!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:26 PM
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Idk maybe there is something wrong with me.. do women really get aroused from just looking at a man, like men do? It’s never happened to me. Then again it’s all about the connection for me -im Sooo confused lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:22 PM
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I have one really good amazing relationship male friend. He has a family and so do I, we don’t hang out like we used in our 20s because well aren’t teenagers anymore. We both have families now. We don’t speak daily. Well catch every couple or sometimes months. When we do it’s great! We share about each other’s families kids struggles we work through some relationship issues together. He always gives me great advice and brings so much positivity to our conversations . Other’s have not been able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:44 AM
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A pattern to me seems like you picked all similar personalities.. cocky! Looking for a hook up only didn’t even want even try to impress or waist time.. straight to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:08 AM
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Damm well o now there’s gonna be a ton of dude’s with fake personalities trying to keep up this high maintenance life style they aren’t accustomed to.. some may actually make the entire life style change but many will eventually revert back to their original version. This is gonna be interesting. An expensive suit for a first impression? Just go get plastic surgery, it’s more permanent solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:23 PM
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So you are looking to find an LTR exclusively with someone who is more attractive? Why do think this has such relevance to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:08 AM
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This is all on a dating app? Sounds brutal. I am not on a dating app just curious.. the dating app world is so interesting lol but not my scene I don’t think sounds superficial and finding a true connection is next to impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:59 AM
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Have you met this woman irl? How are you arriving at the conclusion that they aren’t your type? What’s your type? I have so many questions .. I’ve never been on a dating app and probably will never be it’s not my scene. It’s obviously very superficial and I am more about a deeper connection .. I’ve never had random sex .. I did have someone who I would regularly see at one point it was weird, there was no connection, we would have sex but neither one of us ever reached the promise land lol like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:53 AM
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I have a feeling under rating yourself. You’d have to be cocked eyed and serious hair loss problem to that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:45 AM
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I have a great male friend. We don’t talk often but when we do we catch up on the latest we encourage each other, share things about our kids and our families. We do this every couple of months. We’ve been able to help each other through some tough times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 03:39 PM
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