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When people have one negative experience, for example, if you get bit by a dog and it was traumatic, you might want to avoid dogs in general because it's a trauma response, or be very careful around them even if they're harmless. That's what it could feel like for some women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:08 AM
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Yea, I get you. I come back every now and then, and honestly it's quite depressing. The truth is, the world outside is quite nuanced, a lot of people like to make black or white generalizations- which is not a smart thing to do. I've definitely decided to take a break from this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:49 PM
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You made a whole post about female dating though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:20 PM
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Yes and no. There's definitely subjective behavior and behavior that's objectively creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:09 PM
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Done in Colombia and Tanzania lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:56 PM
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But I thought the higher success rates in relationships are the ones where the couple is closest to their age difference- there's a reason for that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:25 PM
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Even jordan peterson mentioned that life gets tougher for women once they hit puberty because they become physically weaker than men especially as sexual beings. That sense of self protection is something men don't understand or care to understand. We have to walk around with a fear that we don't get raped. As women, we want to caution each other, not because we see other women as children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:23 PM
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I think the real problem is: men see other women as childish in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:34 PM
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Men definitely have a physical advantage in case anything goes wrong. Women don't. There's a power dynamic. You're trying to make the issue women vs women when the real issue is creepy old people trying to prey on vulnerable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:31 PM
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I think any older person can see how immature and vulnerable a younger person can be because they're just starting out. I don't go out of my way to protect anyone but older women can detect predatory behavior better than a younger woman would because we've been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:26 PM
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Average people have average dates, none of this 5 star non sense. Yall live in this bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:57 AM
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true, it has highly swayed my attraction towards women even more (I'm a woman) because I've been able to explore more emotional nuances without feeling like "they just want to get in my pants". The feeling of talking to someone and having a conversation that you both enjoy and have it be rewarding just by being in their company is priceless imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:51 PM
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I fortunately didn't even though I thought I wanted to when I was 20 because I was raised in a religion that taught that. I live in utah so its very common to see people marry at 20-21 years old. It's basically all around me. Most often than not, girls marry guys within their own age bracket too. Young people are taught that having sex before marriage is a big sin too, so it's like living within a whole different cultural bubble than what the rest of society deals with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:49 PM
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I grew up in a conservative culture. A lot of the women I knew who got married young regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:57 AM
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I think most guys in this sub are in their early 20s. From the way they talk I can tell right away why they're struggling to find dates. I get the impression that a lot of guys here are incompetent in knowing how to connect to people in a real way. I have seen some men who do seem genuine though but they're in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:11 AM
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Perv
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:37 AM
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Shouldn't be more than 50 bucks. You should not spend more on someone unless you're sure that they like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:15 AM
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I've never had sex with a guy, but by the way men refer to women, I get the impression that sex with men is focused on physical rather than the actual emotional intimacy part which I think a woman another woman would provide a lot easier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:34 AM
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Male authority? Really? Ugh, I'm sure girls in America could see right through your bullshit 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:51 AM
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You nailed it. Doing volunteer work, getting involved will help think outside of yourself generally. I think most people can learn to view others as people and not be obsessed by dating and body count. People are more than just sex. There are so many layers to a person, and if you have the ability to see others with depth, people will somehow be attracted to that. If only we could try and expand ourselves, we can bring so much to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:45 AM
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Sex robots will probably breed more selfishness, because they dont have feelings or preferences. They'll do and be how you want them to. That's completely opposite of how real relationships work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:49 PM
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I don't like to be approached by strangers in general, especially if they want to go on a date without absolutely knowing nothing about me, only by my looks. If I was having small talk (ex. Groceryline) and it was natural, and then they asked for my number then yea that feels a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:47 PM
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That sounds like he wants a child or something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:52 PM
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It's nice to see other men view women as more than their bodies but also what she could bring intellectually. It's refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:50 PM
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Incentivize young men to go to college and make it more accessible?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:48 PM
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I think you need therapy, I'm not saying this to be demeaning. The lens in which you view society are depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:26 PM
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Yep, absolutely they do it. They have a serious lack of self reflection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:13 PM
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They say they're not shallow, because at this point, they fuck anything that walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:11 PM
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This would be the collapse of society, esp. when so many people are talking about sex robots
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:03 AM
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My circle could be a little outlier since I live in utah which is a religious state, meaning most of young people are getting married and they're only 20/21. Single adult churches are very popular and marriage and family is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:48 PM
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Before reading this much, I had no idea about men struggling with this issue as most men in my life are dating or married. Even the normal looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:27 PM
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The looking deep inside part is what's hard for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:25 PM
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I'd add the emotional labor in families is mostly done by women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:33 PM
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One of the main issues in this sub criticizes women's preferences though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:53 AM
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Oh man, I've rarely seen attractive men with ugly woman. More often than not it's the other way around, but for the most part I see people who are pretty much in their league looks wise. It's always been like that, are times changing or what? Haha Forgot to mention there are way more movies with ugly dudes with the hot girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:30 AM
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Giving my sexual/emotional energy to one person just feels better? I think it feels like a stronger bond? . Depends on what the values you have around sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:17 PM
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Tbh, and I'm only talking for myself here. While I have decent communication skills and can talk to strangers, I do get anxious if a random person suddenly came up to me especially showing interest because they know nothing about me. They're only going by my looks. It's kinda weird. If I were to have a casual interaction with someone and then they ask for my number that feels a lot different. It's like I'm easing into interacting with that person and feeling more comfortable. There has to be rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:12 PM
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Or just do tech
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:11 PM
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Shows some form of initiative?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:44 PM
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I wonder how it is with women who have high paying careers that don't require "masculine" traits. As there are a lot of high paying jobs where you dont have to be the ceo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:43 PM
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Ahh that sounds so scary 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:55 PM
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Somewhat relevant, but I work at a gym and a 16 year old girl came up to us shaken because she told a dude who was standing in front of her staring at her boobs threatened her because she told him to get lost. My male co worker had to walk her to her car. Not the first time this happens. So yea, i was thinking how that negative experience starts young. How being approached by a guy can feel threatening, even if the guy is well meaning. It's definitely not the first time something like this happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:42 AM
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They don't care how much she makes until she makes more than him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:31 PM
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Or needing someone to make less money than you to date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:37 PM
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Sure. They can do whatever they want to do in their tough circumstance. I wouldn't date someone mentally disabled, or even physically disabled although I don't know if I'd be attracted to a physically disabled person in the future. I'm talking about normal people without disabilities. There's nothing hypocritical about my statement unless we have different definitions. It would be hypocritical of me if I also paid for sex and didn't want someone who did the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:18 PM
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I think you're confusing the "sex is important to me " with I like to go out and have lots of sex. That's not what I'm trying to convey, but more like I've been holding out for someone that I care about and have deep feelings for. It's a really hard thing to do especially when people have offered to have sex with me. And no, I'm not trying to be self righteous but I think it further proves my point of it being a big mismatch of the meaning we both hold for it. Different values surrounding it. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:08 PM
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You're just making a lot of assumptions about me that aren't true, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:07 PM
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That would actually be a dream if these men didn't care about women. I'd feel a lot safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:55 AM
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https://psychcentral.com/blog/relationship-corner/2018/01/female-vs-male-friendships-10-key-differences#2 "Not surprisingly, female friendships tend to be more dependent on face-to-face contact, are more emotional, include the sharing of thoughts and feelings, and include more support. Friendships between males tend to be more side-to-side rather than face-to-face. Males tend to value relationships that include shared activities, are less intimate, and transactional. There are also gender differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:36 AM
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Andrew tate is the worst possible role model. It's concerning that many men see him as a role model. He brags about the most shallow things. It's actually scary when I see people think he's the shit or the definition of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:45 AM
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I'm a woman who loves to play and watch sports. Yea, only some of my friends liked doing that, let alone get together on the weekend. My guess is that for men, sports is a huge way to bond and socialize with other men, while women already do it in other ways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:54 AM
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Yep, there has to be a sense of deeper connection and that takes effort, not just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:30 AM
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Sleep vs looking for a long term partner is very different. I don't see myself being interested in any partner with a high n count just because we wouldn't have shared values. Including men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:33 PM
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Your probably jealous of doing something that many men here wish they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:27 PM
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Yea, for sure. I wish people of both genders respected each other and remembered why they're together in the first place, or just be honest and break off the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:20 PM
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According to the comments, looks like it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:44 PM
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Nope, sex is important to me, so if they're paying someone we wouldn't match on our values.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:10 PM
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Yea, that sucks, I'm sorry you've dealt with so much of that pain. 😕.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:29 PM
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You're right. I shouldn't have said "turn on/off". I wasn't using it as a sexual reference of "I'm hot, sexual, so I'm turned on." But, yea I get how most people use it that way, and how it comes off in a sexual way. As the other guy pointed out, the frustration comes in having to deal with same heartbreak over and over again. I just wanna understand that. As far as your last paragraph, I'm more emotionally attracted to women so what men could find valuable in me hasn't been my problem in the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:24 PM
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Most men in this subreddit already have their opinions on how awful women are or how good they have it. They're set in their ways. Ironically, as a woman, if I saw their comments, it would be a huge turn off to see that kind of attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:26 PM
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Unless you're kpop vibes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:18 PM
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That's true. I myself have switched to strength training and do a bit of cardio. For a woman to look manly just by doing strength training would take a LOT of working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:09 PM
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It's a lot easier for men to lose fat and gain muscle. Women have a higher percent body fat by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:36 PM
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You're spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:53 AM
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