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| 15 | I thought r/men was a neutral sub for men. But they’re as censorious as men’s lib.The left and progressives think they can censor the world into agreeing with them. It has backfired on them horribly, they are in retreat and loosing across the Western world. Yet they won't change their censorious ways. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/02/25 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Strategic disinvestment from masculinity linked to poor psychosocial outcomesYou look at what people do, not what they say. Women are the biggest enforcers of patriarchal norms. They can go on about toxic masculinity and liberating men till the end of time. If they are only interested in men who conform to the traditional male ideal, everything they say is meaningless. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/25 07:39 AM |
| 4 | Strategic disinvestment from masculinity linked to poor psychosocial outcomesThe answer is economics. It is deeply politically incorrect to say this but for women sex is isn't just about sex, it is a form of currency. Before women had property rights and the ability to forge their own careers. Every women traded sex for a breadwinner. Even as female economic power grew, that model still lingered. Women may have wanted the tall dominant masculine ideal but being single was not option in the past. They took what was available. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 03:27 PM |
| 23 | Strategic disinvestment from masculinity linked to poor psychosocial outcomesAh the classic gaslighter appears, ironically using patronising language that looks very much like classic mansplaining. The cherry on the top is ad hominem attack at the end. Laughable stuff. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How can we find Patriarchy so that we can take it down?Patriarchy is enforced by women, which is why it is hypocritical for feminists to condemn it. Any man who doesn't meet the patriarchal ideal will be rejected by women. My point is, words mean nothings, actions are what count. The patriarchy can't end unless women change their behaviour. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/25 08:47 AM |
| 26 | Strategic disinvestment from masculinity linked to poor psychosocial outcomesThe issue, in my opinion, is the disconnect between the pressures the modern feminist society places on men and the expectations of women. Modern feminist society tells men that the old fashioned ideas of masculinity are toxic. Men shouldn't try to be dominant, fight for success at work or value any of the old fashioned masculine ideals. Yet when you look at what women want in the dating marketplace, it is the complete opposite. That want men who are more masculine than in the past. They want ta… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/25 08:44 AM |
| 33 | For the feminist guests in the audienceFeminism has nothing to offer because it stopped being a rational movement decades ago. It is now a hate group/cult, spreading propaganda and lies. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 11:15 AM |
| 21 | Subreddits that breed ''male guilt'' type of people, is incredibly sad to see.Reddit is laughably biased, feminists can post the most toxic hate filled sh*t without censor. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 12:36 AM |
| 8 | Presumption of innocence regarding crimes against women is pretty much dead.In the UK we have a similar situation and it has reached an insane level. Which I can illustrate with two cases. In one a man was found not guilty after his accusers phone was released to the defence. Which contained messages that showed she had made up the allegation of rape. The response of feminists was to demand such evidence be banned, even though it had saved an innocent man. In another case, two footballers were found guilty of rape, when they had drunken sex with a woman. Till a third pa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/24 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular Take: The excuse "girls are more compliant, mature and hardworking than boys in school" argument doesn't make the prejudice against boys in the education system any more justifiableToo many who control our education systems, have no experience of government or state education. Boys need discipline to learn. Not a politically correct position but it is the truth. Take that discipline away and you are setting them up to fail. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/24 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Are you Men’s Rights or Men’s Liberation?My position is more nuanced than that. I find nothing objectionable about feminism in theory. Equality between the sexes, women liberated, all great stuff. In the same way communism, with everyone equal and rational collective planning of the economy is great in theory. That is my objection to feminism, in the real world it simply doesn't work, the same way communism doesn't work. It leads to collapsing fertility rates, lonely demotivated men and the economic benefits are dubious. Even after dec… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/24 08:48 AM |
| 5 | Are you Men’s Rights or Men’s Liberation?Liberation from what? It is a serious question because I am a realist. Evolutionary psychology, rightfully, gets a bad wrap because of some of dubious science. They are however right about one thing, we are animals and much of our behaviour is shaped by instincts and the way we evolved. In the case of men, it has shaped us to compete with other men for the attention of women. Any society that tries to organise itself in a way which denies that reality is doom to fail. In the past, via marriage, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/12/24 08:44 AM |
| 0 | CBS Report on Male LonelinessWhich won't work because the last thing a man who feels like a failure wants to do is hang out with other men. No guy wants to be the dateless loser in a room full of more successful men and as politically incorrect as it is to say. When you feel like a loser, you don't feel like hanging around with other losers either. Male friendships and the company of other men is something men seek out when they feel like a success. That reality might depress, you might dislike but trying to change the fund… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/12/24 09:40 PM |
| 7 | CBS Report on Male LonelinessThe problem with such reports is they can never get to the real problem because to do so is considered politcally incorrect. They ignore sex and it is amazing that something that has become a fundamental identity for everyone else. Straight women, gay women and gay men. Is suddenly just treated as if it is trivial if you're talking about straight men. Meetup groups are pointless for men who are lonely, if their loneliness is due to a lack of women in their lives. A poster on a previous thread na… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/12/24 03:58 PM |
| 16 | The hatred for both male celibacy and men use of porn is a Venn diagram. And that is because society hates male neutrality towards women more than anything.Sex is a currency for women, a form of power. Once you understand that, much of modern feminism makes far more sense. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/12/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Lily Phillips situation/reaction is grossI didn't say men don't, I said that women do it more because women who enjoy strings free sex are a threat to the sexual value of other women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Are Moving Right: They Are Being Sacrificed at the Altar of Women's LiberationFor me the problem with all these discussions is how sex and relationships are ignored. In many ways the modern left has become like an old fashioned puritanical religion out to oppress and condemn male sexuality. While at the same time gaslighting anyone who attacks their new puritanism, by claiming to pro-sex. Citing stuff like being pro-choice. Yet the reality is, it is impossible for men to obey the new puritanical rules that the modern left imposes on them. Any man who attempted to do so wo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/24 03:34 AM |
| 79 | Lily Phillips situation/reaction is grossThe truth about slut shamming, is the biggest slut shamers are women. I knew a woman at uni who had loads of one night stands and you should have heard the abuse she got from other women at the university. Oh many would try to pretend they were trying to help her but that was a lie. I realised that they hated her because she gave away sex too cheaply. That for women sex is a currency and women who are sexually liberated reduce the power of other women in the sexual marketplace. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/24 10:12 PM |
| 2 | "Because gender roles are becoming obsolete, men feel like they don't have a purpose" How true is this statement really?The politically incorrect truth you are not allowed to say? Most men want a sex life and most men want a family life. When they are denied that they do feel pointless and adrift. A life of being an unacknowledged worker drone is not very appealing. Western society offers a minority of men absolutely nothing other than a lonely and pointless existence. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/24 12:15 AM |
| 4 | „The one thing I didn't prepare for was how lonely it is to be a man.“I think the writer is deluding themselves about safety. Unless they started out as an exceptionally large woman, they are unlikely to be that big and strong now. The stats are clear, men are more likely to the be victims of violence and it is socially more acceptable to pick a fight with a man. Unless the writer of this article wises up, they could be in for a nasty shock. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/24 12:12 AM |
| 52 | DID I JUST GET RED PILLED?The truth is feminism can never be about freeing men from gender roles and sexual equality because of, well, sex. Women are sexually attracted to masculine men and they desire men who are higher status/more successful than them. A generalisation, not true of all women but true enough of most. Which means the feminist message effectively becomes, men don't have to conform to gender norms, as long as they don't care about having a sex life. That men should be willing to give up their careers to be… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/24 12:05 AM |
| 19 | Society has a Schrödinger's view of Incels. Where Incels are these terminally online weirdos and dangerous people at the same time.You're right, for example it is estimated that 40% of mass shooters are in financial distress but no-one would make the claim that those in debt, poverty and unemployed are all terrorist monsters. So it is equally absurd to make such claims about incels. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/12/24 09:58 AM |
| 21 | Society has a Schrödinger's view of Incels. Where Incels are these terminally online weirdos and dangerous people at the same time.Our attitude to incels is completely irrational. A tiny number of mentally ill individuals, in countries were it is easy to access guns, have committed horrific acts of violence. A tiny number compared to the number of incel men in the world and men who don't identify as incels but who are lonely and unable to get a partner. The truth is, the majority of lonely men are decent law abiding human beings. They hold jobs, they volunteer for charities, they pay their taxes and don't do any harm. If in… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/12/24 09:55 AM |
| 24 | National Review: The Democrats Have a Woman Problem"What men heard from the right was: you’ve got problems, we don’t have solutions. What they heard from the left is: you don’t have problems, you are the problem." This pretty much sums up why the left lose. They use men as a punching bag and then are baffled why they can't get their votes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/12/24 06:50 AM |
| 3 | The Misatopia, Misogny, And Misandry, As The Left Grapples With Their QAnon Lunacy That Is Patriarchal Realism In The Post-Election FalloutThey aren't going to confront their QAnon moment because they have a strangle hold over the cultural debate. To object to the cultural agenda of the mad modern left is to risk your job and your reputation; so people keep their heads down. The mad modern left interpret that as them having mass support. Which is why they are constantly shocked when they get a kicking in election after election. They don't realise their thought police agenda is worthless in the anonymous polling booth. Which is why… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/11/24 07:52 AM |
| 34 | Reasons why we should stop using terms like "toxic masculinity"Modern feminists are bigots but somehow their bigotry has become acceptable. You can see it on reddit, this site is awash with vile feminist hate speech and nothing is ever done about it. The backlash at the polls should come as a surprise to no-one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/11/24 11:15 AM |
| 5 | Debunking the "gender pay gap" mythYou can pretty much safely assume that most feminist stats are a load of sh*te. To be fair sometimes this is accidental because your average feminist academic, would struggle to count to 10, if they couldn't look at their hands. Maths really isn't their thing. A good example is UK paygap stats ignore higher male unemployment. So one of the most effective ways of eliminating the feminist paygap, would be to sack one woman at a time, starting with the lowest paid, till the paygap disappeared. The … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/11/24 09:21 AM |
| 2 | How can we mitigate the current political divide between Young Men and Women; except not misandristic in content.That's the spirit, if nothing else, a complete inability to stare reality in the face will see us through. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/11/24 02:17 AM |
| 3 | How can we mitigate the current political divide between Young Men and Women; except not misandristic in content.If reddit wasn't laughably bias, r/AskFeminists would have been banned years ago. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 05:45 PM |
| 8 | How can we mitigate the current political divide between Young Men and Women; except not misandristic in content.The difference is people like Tate acknowledge the problem and offer solutions. OK their solutions are snake oil, they basically tell lonely desperate men that they can all become successful alpha types. Oh and by the way, here some stuff they can buy along the way. The problem is, all the left offer is gaslighting, they deny there is any problem. I once heard a leftwinger say that the solution to the problems of young men was more feminism. I almost burst out laughing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 05:43 PM |
| 3 | How can we mitigate the current political divide between Young Men and Women; except not misandristic in content.It wouldn't work because women date up. When women get more successful, they tend to want to date men who more successful than them. That is why all the desperate attempts by the left to fix the problem won't work. Sex and desire aren't rational, there is nothing really moral about such things and the left can't handle it. As for the right, they tap into male loneliness and desperation but they have no more solution than the modern left. As I have said, there really isn't a solution. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 05:04 PM |
| 2 | I Hate The StigmaFor me the problem is the inability of people to separate economic and cultural issues. Economically I am on the left but when it comes to culture; I think most of what the modern left spouts is horsesh*t. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I Finally Understand EdgelordsAn edge what? I still don't understand what all those pill colours are suppose to mean; now we have more made up stuff. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 04:25 PM |
| 5 | How can we mitigate the current political divide between Young Men and Women; except not misandristic in content.You can't mitigate the divide. Young women want careers, they want to go university, they want their independence and many are not that interested in sex/relationships. Those that are want to sleep with the most attractive and desirable men. Lets be honest, there is nothing irrational or unreasonable about all of that. Hell if I was a young woman, I would do the same. The problem is, that leaves many men as obsolete. Despite all the men going there own way stuff, most men aren't happy without a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 04:23 PM |
| 13 | Systematic tackling of the male loneliness epidemic?This is the point I am trying to make and why I think solutions offered here are patronising and pointless. Too many here are acting like, any mention of sexual loneliness means you are suggesting the government hires lingerie models to spend time with lonely men. No, all lonely men want is a social setting in which there is a possibility of meeting women and that potentially leading to dating. They don't want to hang out in groups for pensioners and other lonely guys like themselves. I know tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Systematic tackling of the male loneliness epidemic?Except plenty of men have tried your advice and it has not worked. They go to the meetups, they take up hobbies and try to build a life. They still go home alone and don't have partner. I know, people like you don't think that matters but it does. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Feminist therapist takes apart feminism and explores men's issuesAh yes, the sort of judgemental self righteousness which has helped the left dominate politics across the world and crush the right. The reality is, advocacy and campaigns are often driven by anger, poverty and injustice. You don't think those who fought for better pay and worker's rights were angry and often bitter? How about feminists? Don't think any of them were angry and bitter? Much of male anger and the men's rights movement is driven by lonely men, men in sexual poverty, who feel bitter … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Andrew Malkinson's three-year wait for compensation after 17 years in prison falsely accused.What is infuriating about this, is feminists still want to take away defendant's rights in rape trials. They still won't acknowledge that some men accused of rape are innocent. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 08:43 PM |
| 3 | “Your body my choice”Honestly, I have never heard this phrase and I have no idea what it means. Just sounds like more culture war non-sense, that ordinary people don't give two sh*ts about. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Looking for an (article? reddit post? tumblr reblog?)Real feminists? That old evasion and cope? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Systematic tackling of the male loneliness epidemic?Sigh, you will never get it will you? Your solutions will not work, you can't force men to behave in the politically correct way you want them to behave. Short of drafting them, forcing them to go your community groups, they are not going to go. Now I am not claiming I have a solution; certainly not your mad idea of state issued girlfriends. I am saying that any plan that ignores sex, dating and relationships is a none starter. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Is The Left Dangerously Out Of Touch?Yes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Systematic tackling of the male loneliness epidemic?I am sorry but your post is the sort of shaming bullsh*t I am talking about. There is nothing wrong with men wanting a sexual relationship. our whole society is built around such relationships and the future of our society depends on such relationships. What you're not getting is one aspects of a guys life feeds into another part of his life. The left might not be comfortable with the competitive nature of men but that is how men are. A man with a healthy sex life, who has a decent job feels lik… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 07:59 PM |
| 21 | Systematic tackling of the male loneliness epidemic?Suggestions for tackling male loneliness are generally worthless because it is a complete taboo to talk about women and sexual relationships. Even on a sub as open minded as this, you cause outrage bringing it up. With posters huffing, that male loneliness has nothing to with being unable to get a girlfriend and why are you bringing up sex? Alas any solution that ignores that elephant in the room is worthless. Most men want a sex life, they want to spend time with women and long term they want t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 8 | Is The Left Dangerously Out Of Touch?Gender studies was proved to be utter woo when they tried to do a feminist critique of science. They had managed to do the intellectual equivalent of take a wrecking ball to arts and humanities subjects. Then they took on sciences and the wheels came off. Especially when feminists decided to attack physics. There was nothing more hilarious, then watching people who would struggle to count to ten, without being able to see their hands. Attempt to attack a subject based on advanced maths. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 06:10 PM |
| -1 | Is The Left Dangerously Out Of Touch?Yes but there is nothing new in that: The first thing that must strike any outside observer is that Socialism, in its developed form is a theory confined entirely to the middle classes. The typical Socialist is not, as tremulous old ladies imagine, a ferocious-looking working man with greasy overalls and a raucous voice. He is either a youthful snob-Bolshevik who in five years time will quite probably have made a wealthy marriage and been converted to Roman Catholicism; or, still more typically,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 06:06 PM |
| 4 | The problem with nordic model of prostitution and how swiss model does a better job of preventing human traffickingThe source is the Guardian, which is one of the most feminist papers in Britain. If they are calling feminist claims horsesh*t, you can guarantee that they are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 09:59 PM |
| 12 | The problem with nordic model of prostitution and how swiss model does a better job of preventing human traffickingbro? https://www.nber.org/papers/w20281?utm_campaign=ntw&utm_medium=email&utm_source=ntw https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2009/oct/20/government-trafficking-enquiry-fails | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 09:57 PM |
| 25 | Men's issues in society being self-inflictedThe bigotry of the modern left and yet they can't work out why the voters keep rejecting them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 06:40 PM |
| 51 | The problem with nordic model of prostitution and how swiss model does a better job of preventing human traffickingWant the politically incorrect truth about sex work, instead of the feminist propaganda? The first bit of evidence comes from my country, Britain. A decade and half ago we had a huge moral panic about sex trafficking. Apparently 20000 women were being trafficked into sex slavery, in the UK, every year. The story was heaven for feminists, the ultimate argument for their anti-sex agenda. Alas one of their own wrecked the party. The Labour government had a feminist home secretary, Jacqui Smith, who… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 06:39 PM |
| 27 | What does being "left wing" mean to you in regards to male issues and advocacy?Being British, the left is deeply rooted in class and economic injustice. The problem is, the modern left hate that because the modern left has been taken over by the rich. People who went to elite private schools and elite universities. Traditional leftwing politics calls such people privileged because they are. Worse it says their wealth comes from that privileged, so it is justified to tax and redistribute it. So what we have now is the fake woke left. It is telling that Harris's campaign in … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/24 10:56 PM |
| 102 | As leftist neurodivergent men, do you feel unwelcomed in leftist spaces or rejected in dating even with your best foot forward?The left isn't welcoming for men in the first place. The left and especially the feminist left despises men. Until they change their attitude, things like Trump will keep happening. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/24 10:48 PM |
| 3 | the abolishment of men's gender roles.Feminists can't abolish traditional gender roles because such roles are shaped by sex and sexual desire. That is the truth that no feminist will ever admit; that her sexual choices are the most effective way of enforcing the patriarchy ever devised. One thing keeps appearing in statistics, when it comes to relationships between men and women. Often accidentally because to research it and admit it is deeply politically incorrect. Women judge men based on wealth and status. Put it this way, a succ… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/24 09:30 PM |
| 10 | The Guardian/Richard Reeves on why Democrats lost young menThat is the massive hypocrisy at the heart of feminism. As you say, women, including feminists, enforce the very patriarchy they claim to despise, with their dating choices. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/24 04:24 PM |
| 0 | CNN explores the context of the phenomena of young male votes siding with Trump's political campaign.But I think there is more to men problems than not getting a date You're displaying the same dismissive attitude that cost Harris the election. It is far more than not "getting a date", as you dismissively put it. Family and sexual relationships are at the heart of how most societies are organised. To be excluded from that is a massive deal, which you can't fix with copes like offering counselling sessions or social clubs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/24 04:21 PM |
| 19 | CNN explores the context of the phenomena of young male votes siding with Trump's political campaign.Which won't fix the issue which we too often aren't allowed to talk about. It politically incorrect to say it but for many men the solutions you advocate are meaningless because their problem is women are not interested in them. The reason why it is so taboo to say that, is because there is no practical solution. The brutal reality is, many men are finding themselves effectively obsolete. Third spaces, support, clubs? None of that means anything to such men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/11/24 10:58 PM |
| 31 | CNN explores the context of the phenomena of young male votes siding with Trump's political campaign.The problem is, the left don't offer a solution to the woes suffered by young men because they can't. Women have been liberated and a unfortunate side effect of that, is many young men find themselves obsolete. They are part of generation swipe left, competing with vast numbers of men for the attention of women. Finding that far from liberating them, feminism is placed them in an economic arms race they can't win. With women still expecting men to out earn and be higher status than them. Does th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/11/24 10:33 PM |
| 2 | "Men's issues" are essentially just effects of capitalism and that will never be addressed by any of the two parties in USThis is the politically cope used by the men on the left. Alas like most copes it simply isn't true. Yes the way the economy has changed has hurt men but male issues go beyond the economic. Feminism has had unintended consequences which have affected the lives of men. You only have to look at the fertility crisis and male loneliness crisis to see that. Alas feminism is a sacred cow on the left and cannot be criticised. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Why Does Reddit Allow Subs (the one with 15 Million women and others) That Promote Open Misandry?They are hypocrites, they don't oppose bigotry, as long as they agree with it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 09:38 AM |
| 112 | The Guardian/Richard Reeves on why Democrats lost young menEspecially with young men, when increasingly the big issue is they don't have a woman in their life. Feminism told them that feminism was good because it would break down gender roles. Men no longer had to be viewed as success objects or aggressively compete with each other; if that wasn't in their nature. Many men are finding the reality is very different. Not only are they being left behind economically, they are finding the demands women place on them, in this new feminist utopia; are greater… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 09:37 AM |
| 31 | The Guardian/Richard Reeves on why Democrats lost young menThe Guardian is weird one. Much of their comment output is little more than worthless propaganda, as fake as the fake news they condemn. Except from a feminist perspective. Yet among the dross there is the occasional gem. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 09:33 AM |
| 85 | Wellness check: how're you coping with the fallout?This should be a massive wake up call for progressives and the left. They have dismissed, demonised and treated half the population like sh*t. They are suppose to be the ones who represent those in poverty, who are left behind and ignored by society. Yet they ignored the huge numbers of men who are struggling in America; they offered them nothing. Now they are paying the price for their arrogance. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Men have a biological clock as wellAh yes the standard feminist cope and it is just that, a cope, Yes male fertility declines with age but it isn't like with women, were fertility goes off a cliff and women become completely infertile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 01:48 AM |
| -1 | q4a: is sex a need?I have already explained it. If sex is not a basic need and people can suppress they sexual desires. Then we don't need abortion. All women have to do is not have sex unless they want children. As for hostile, my argument was perfectly reasonably argued. I assume by hostile you mean anyone who disagrees with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 05:56 PM |
| -1 | q4a: is sex a need?If sex isn't a need, why do women need abortion rights? If sex isn't a basic human need, women who don't want children can simply abstain from sex. Oh that is an outrageous argument, it is completely unreasonable to ask women to be celibate if they don't want kids. Ok, so why is it anymore reasonable for women to deny men have sexual needs and for women to demand men should be happy with celibacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:46 PM |
| 6 | "Human trafficking isn’t just about children and women… men are trafficked too. It’s not about your gender, it’s about slavery and control."You have to careful with trafficking, at least when it comes to the sex industry. In the UK, feminists claimed that women were being trafficked into sex slavery on an industrial scale. 10's of thousands of women every year being enslaved. This message was widely believed and every thing was going well for them. Then one of their own, Jacqui Smith became Home Secretary (UK Justice minister). She ordered the police to find all these women and free them. The operation was called Pentameter and then… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/10/24 07:59 AM |
| 10 | Why do feminists feel the need to overinflate rape statistics? What's the real number?Sorry, wrong again: "Another caveat has to do with definitions. “Sexual assault”–an incredibly loaded term–can mean a lot of different things in different contexts. In this survey, it means “nonconsensual sexual contact involving [either] sexual penetration [or] sexual touching.” “Sexual touching” includes “kissing” as well as “rubbing against the other in a sexual way, even if the touching is over the other’s clothes.” (I’ll say more about this wording later on.) What about “nonconsensual”? Thi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/24 02:51 AM |
| 14 | Why do feminists feel the need to overinflate rape statistics? What's the real number?You stat has been discredited and is an example of feminist propaganda: " They go on to highlight that only 19.3 percent of students who were contacted actually responded to the survey, despite incentives–a low response rate for these kinds of surveys–and that even they were not likely to be representative of the student body within their own schools. Specifically: “An analysis of … non-response bias found [that] estimates may be too high because non-victims may have been less likely to particip… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/24 02:51 AM |
| 8 | Why do feminists feel the need to overinflate rape statistics? What's the real number?Feminism had a problem, it was too successful. A world in which women have the vote, equal pay at work, equal access to education and reproductive rights was a disaster for the movement. An entire industry was in danger of becoming obsolete; so feminists had to manufacturer outrage. Hence the endless manipulation of stats. A classic example were the claims about violence against women on the London Underground. At first the stats seemed horrific, till you spotted they had classified men staring … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/24 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueSo? I could tell you the moon is made of cheese, it doesn't make it true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueYes and then he will strap himself into his harrier Jumpjet and fly out of there. The problem with modern dating and the reason so many women are so bitter. Is they don't live the real world. The handsome guy with the three 6's, who will have a one night stand with them, is never going to marry them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in datingI haven't met one women who has struggled to date, not one. So unless I have spent my life surrounded by lingerie models, the op is talking non-sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Most women who meet casual sex partners through friends and at bars are not hooking up with “chads” or men out of their leagueOf course they are, why else would they do it? A one night stand is all about sexual pleasure, they are hardly going to sleep with a 5'2" overweight guy. The problem isn't that, the problem is too many women are not as comfortable with casual sex as they say they are. They expect the one night stand guy to be their boyfriend or even marry them. It distorts their reality, they can't accept that the guy they can get long term isn't going to be as good looking as one night stand guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?The irony is, women who demand agency are desperately trying to deny their agency and power when it comes to sex/relationships. The problem with being empowered is you become responsible for your own actions and choices. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?You sum up why the left is loosing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?You're right, this is why so many men are turning away from liberals and the left. They aren't stupid, they can tell when they are being gaslit and given useless advice. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?Then society has no future. This is no longer just about men struggling with dating, it has become a fertility crisis. We are not having enough children. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?Sigh. I know not a helpful response but I find discussions around this in leftwing circles so frustrating. The left has had a problem with free expression and a tendency to reach for the censorship button. When it comes to male loneliness, an honest discussion is virtually impossible but I will try and contribute to one. The first big problem with the modern left, is how anti-sex they are or at least anti-sex when it comes to straight men. This is bizarre when you consider the fact that the left… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/24 03:48 AM |
| 1 | True Cause of the Rise in Male Loneliness (and Loneliness in general)Sigh, your response sums up the problem. I am not making any moral judgements, I am just saying that the combination of female sexual and economic liberation was bad for some men. It shouldn't be taboo to say something so obvious. Alas we can't a rational debate because someone always gets outraged. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/10/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | True Cause of the Rise in Male Loneliness (and Loneliness in general)You want the politically incorrect truth? Male loneliness is a results of the empowerment of women. Up until 1976 a women couldn't sign for her own mortgage without a male guarantor and women were routinely paid less than men. My point is, in living memory going it alone wasn't an option for women. They needed a man as a breadwinner and allot of men whose looks and social skills weren't desirable, could find partners because women had no other options. Now such men face rejection because women h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/10/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Both male feminists and conservatives are terrible at addressing men issues.It is very difficult to address men's issues because the harsh reality is, women's liberation has hurt a great number of men. Men use to be breadwinners and women had little choice but to find a partner. Now that is no longer the case, which is objectively great but it has suddenly made a great deal of men obsolete. They can't measure up to what modern women want. Maybe they are short, autistic, poor or just have bland personalities. In the past such things weren't a big deal, as long as a man h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/24 09:17 AM |
| 5 | The Toxicity of “Positive Masculinity”The problem with positivity masculinity is men are shaped by the desires of women, what women want. If women want old fashioned toxic men, that is who men will try to be. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/24 09:11 AM |
| 8 | The "more men/boys are becoming conservative" narrative is started to be a problem.It isn't pure BS when you look at who men vote for. Frankly it is hardly surprising, when men open up about their problems, the way they are encouraged to by progressives. They meet a tidal wave of abuse and attacks. Male issues are not taken seriously by the left and men are told they are toxic for even raising them. In many ways, the modern left's attitude to the struggles men face, is similar to the worst of brutal rightwing economics. When you cut through the feminist speak, it boils down to… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/24 09:09 AM |
| 5 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.Yes, obviously true. Men are held to a much higher standard than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 09:16 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about "men like woman more than the other way around"?It is true, in dating women hold all the power and men have to chase after them. Of course there is a nasty sting in the tail for women. They hit the menopause, lose their looks and suddenly become painfully away how reliant they have been on objectifying themselves for all those years. That is one of the reasons feminism has failed, women have it too easy. They can cruise through life using their looks and sex appeal. Why smash glass ceilings when you live life on the easy setting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 09:14 AM |
| -3 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usYou will get massive outrage but you're right. For marriage to work for men they need to know that their partner isn't going to dead bedroom them, let themselves go and become obese. They need to know that they will be financially secure and have secure access to their kids. Western marriages don't guarantee any of those things, a man effectively becomes a powerless hostage. He knows that the law is absurdly rigged against him and in favour of his wife. She can work part or not work at all, wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 09:06 AM |
| – | The Struggles of Gen Z Men: Facing Economic and Relationship Realities in the Modern WorldThe aim of the Party was not merely to prevent men and women from forming loyalties which it might not be able to control. Its real, undeclared purpose was to remove all pleasure from the sexual act. Not love so much as eroticism was the enemy, inside marriage as well as outside it. All marriages between Party members had to be approved by a committee appointed for the purpose, and -- though the principle was never clearly stated -- permission was always refused if the couple concerned gave the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Men that complain about "asshole dark triad" are just mad they cannot be assholes, manipulate women, and still get laidI am not sure that a society of selfish arseholes would be a good thing but each to their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:27 AM |
| 4 | 'Looksmaxing' can't push your attractiveness much above your baseline level.Oh dear, your arguments are laughable. The problem with what your saying is you're rigging the sample. It would be like a drug company claiming their drug worked, after limiting the sample to patients who improved. Sure some people can succeed coming from toxic backgrounds but unless you look at everyone who comes from toxic backgrounds, that proves nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:26 AM |
| 3 | 'Looksmaxing' can't push your attractiveness much above your baseline level.Of course it is partially genetic, ultimately it depends on your brain and what it is capable of. Which is down to your genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:23 AM |
| 6 | 'Looksmaxing' can't push your attractiveness much above your baseline level.Part of the problem, for men, is women now have lubricous standards for what they find attractive. Some women at work were drooling over men with superhero bods, complaining about how most men couldn't be bothered to put the effort in. If only they worked out, they could all be that attractive. After all men expected them to go on diets and keep the weight off. It was hilarious how clueless they were. I did hit the gym for a few years, before injury and I definitely got more toned and defined bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Anti-feminists unfairly Misrepresent surveys which show ''1/5 women are Sexually Assaulted'' (or other similar studies)They are still influence by a gender studies and feminist world view. The result is decided in advance and the survey rigged to get the right numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 09:00 AM |
| – | Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older?Sometimes the hypocrisy is laughable, it is so blatant. I remember a group of middle aged women getting outraged that a famous man divorced his wife and dated a younger woman. Then there was another story about an older woman who had got divorced and now had a toy boy. They all said it was empowering and it was completely unfair to judge her. You're right, terror of hitting the wall causes such behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Anti-feminists unfairly Misrepresent surveys which show ''1/5 women are Sexually Assaulted'' (or other similar studies)The problem with such research, is when you dive into detail you find that the questions have been rigged to get the largest number possible. Gender studies isn't a real academic subject, with proper academic standards. It is basically a cult in which you have to produce the right answers to be part of the group. It is ridiculously easy for real academics to destroy research coming out of gender studies departments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?So you can't make a real argument, fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 08:38 PM |
| 0 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?Then you should have no problem explaining why. Alas it seems you have no actual arguments and grownup debate is beyond your abilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 08:17 AM |
| 0 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?You call a post dumb which is obviously beyond your limited understanding? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?I disagree, I think you're trying to solve a social problem using economics. Women have a relatively small fertile window when they are relatively young to have children. To have a replacement level fertility rate, each woman needs to have an average of just over 2 children. For that to happen women need to start having children in their mid twenties at the latest. That simply isn't compatible with the current feminist model of women competing equally with men in education and the workplace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:38 AM |
| 6 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?The human race isn't in danger, more conservative societies, with oppressive attitudes towards woman have fertility rates above the replacement level. The threat is to the existence of feminism and Western style societies. Moral arguments are irrelevant here. This is a question of mathematics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 06:12 PM |
| 6 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?You're making the mistake of viewing this as a moral question, it isn't. It is a question of mathematics. If a feminist society has a fertility rate below the replacement level, feminism dies. I concede the moral argument to you but that doesn't save feminism. Unless feminism can square its worldview with women having more babies, feminists can win every moral argument. It won't save the movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 06:10 PM |
| 14 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?Not a hope because Western style societies can't face upto the politically incorrect reasons for their low birth rates. I include South Korea and Japan in the wide Western world. The standard politically correct and feminist explanation for the low birth rate is lack of equality in the workplace, childcare care which is unaffordable and lack of equality in the home. However if that explanation were true, then you would expect countries with cheaper child care, more equal workplaces, cheaper hous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Do women have a wall for men but they are too embarrassed to admit it?Biology is king. Men are fertile for longer than women. Let the down voting commence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Redpill is the result of failing the blue oneCan I clarify something? Can anyone launch a pill colour or do I need to submit my ideas to a committee for approval? Plus what happens when all the colours run out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 02:01 PM |
| – | Can guys please get over themselvesThe problem is women want it both ways. They get outraged when men call out their shallowness but want the right to condemn men for shallow behaviour. You're right that if sex/relationships is based on biology, women will only want the best genes. Tall, strong, attractive, socially successful men. The problem is the reverse is also true. If we reduce things to biology, men only want young, fit and fertile women. What women need to remember, who take a brutal attitude to dating, is you won't be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 01:59 PM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on settling? How many people do you think settle? Do you have an experience settling or being settled for?It is a terrible idea, all you have to do is look at the dead bedroom sub to see that. The men there thought their wives found them attractive and truly desired them. Only to find that they had been lied to. The results are brutal and best avoided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Women will deny this is the case because in their minds they only have a problem with "creeps". Man who deserve not only a brutal rejection but reporting to HR, the manager of a club or the authorities for their approach. Basically women dehumanise men to justify their irrational behaviour. When many of the man who get the creep label have committed no other offence than being too ugly or poor for such a woman to be interested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 03:20 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on settling? How many people do you think settle? Do you have an experience settling or being settled for?I can only write from a male perspective. The first problem I see with settling is ethical. No woman is going to want you if you tell her the truth. That you don't really find her attractive, don't really want her and you are only pursuing her because she is the best you can hope for. So you would have to lie to her, tell her you found her beautiful, that you desired her and loved her. How would the women here feel if they discovered a man lied to her like that? The second is more practical. A l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?It isn't that simple. The big difference between men and women is there is a massive pressure on men to succeed. You see this in the most trivial things, for example, in amateur sports like tennis. For women it is more of a social event, one woman player I know despairingly called them ladies that lunch. Who spent more time chatting at the net than playing. With men, they want to win. Even their social interactions tend to be banter, trying to put other players off and turn the whole thing into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.The problem with that argument is feminists aren't trying to sell their ideas to more conservative immigrant communities, the communities with high fertility rates in Western societies. In fact bizarrely, feminists are often doing the opposite. Defending identity destroying oppressive dress for women and religious/cultural beliefs that oppress women. Feminism has fallen into a progressive trap. Too many modern feminists are so terrified of being called racist or having a colonial mindset, they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.Really? Name one feminist society with a high fertility rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 03:38 AM |
| 4 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?Sigh, you just don't get it do you? Not having a high sex drive isn't the issue, as long as you're honest about it from the start. The problem is women who pretend the opposite, who pretend to be really into sex, adventurous and who desire their partner. Then only reveal the truth when they have a ring on the guys finger. Which is nothing more than scam. Still if you think such behaviour is OK, fair enough. Doesn't say much about your character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.The solution is the end of feminism, it won't be killed by its opponents but by cold mathematics. Feminists don't have children, therefore the movement will die of old age. All opponents of feminism have to do is wait. It is feminists who have to come up with a solution and none of them have one. So their movement is doomed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.You will cause outrage by posting this because the levels of denial about this issue are epic. Western societies are facing demographic collapse and it is being ignored. When it is mentioned, the solutions offered are always more feminism. A bit like a quack doctor offering a dying patient more leeches, after the first lot failed. It is easy to see more feminism isn't going to work, all you have to do is look at Nordic countries. Most feminist countries on earth, with levels of gender equality t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:55 PM |
| 7 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?Oh dear, the replies from women are laughable. The problem is the ladies can never conceive of a situation in which woman are behaving unreasonably. I mean what do you expect the guy to say? You appear to enjoy sex darling but are you faking it to con me into marriage? The only solution to the problem is fairer divorce laws. Basically you get what you bring and put into a marriage. That way there would be no point scamming a guy because his bank account would be off limits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:49 PM |
| 4 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?Oh dear, you just don't get it do you? These men think they are marrying a woman who enjoys sex and finds them attractive. They don't realise that for her sex is an annoying chore she has to put up with till she has him trapped. As far as they are concerned, they are marrying a sex positive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:44 PM |
| 1 | There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victimsI had an interesting conversation with a married women in which she admitted that she basically married her husband because he was a good provider and potential father. The sort of guys she really wanted were dangerous bad boys. However she had been sensible enough to realise such a man would make a lousy husband/long term partner. The problem is most women don't have that level of common-sense, hence the reason why so many end up in toxic relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Do most women really dislike being approached in general?The answer is no, a hot guy's approach is always welcome. Claims about inappropriate approaches are bullshit, women have no rules. The only rule is be hot or be rich, it is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:59 PM |
| 13 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?It is easy to mock men in this situation but how could they have reasonably avoided it? Some average guy meets a woman who seems to be into him. They have sex virtually every day, she makes all the right noises, wears lingerie and goes down on him. The guy is in heaven. Then something odd happens, he gets married and looks forward to a sex filled honeymoon. Yet suddenly there is no lingerie, her sex drive is gone and she has no interest in pleasuring him. What the f*ck just happened? The sex lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Birth rates are going to keep plummetingIn the long run your arguments are irrelevant. You may as well go to your nearest beach and rant at the sea, telling it not to come in. It doesn't matter how compelling, how eloquent and morally righteous your case is. The sea will come in and your feet will get wet. You can't win an argument with nature. In this case you're trying to argue against mathematics. You can go on about chores and pay checks till you're blue in the face. It doesn't matter, feminism is doomed. It is doomed because fewe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Birth rates are going to keep plummetingMost women have more power in the sexual marketplace than men. The majority of women get can sex relatively easily, can find a partner relatively easily. Men pursue women, men have to impress women and men trade wealth for relationships. In our society an increasing minority of men can no longer do that. Women don't need men as a breadwinner, so are either opting out of relationships or are only interesting in high status guys. Which is fair enough, except on a societal level it just doesn't wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something.Yes in the same way someone who is persuaded to hand over their life savings to a Nigerian prince is manipulated. The fact they were manipulated doesn't stop them being a delusional idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Birth rates are going to keep plummetingFeminist societies don't work, it is really that simple. The economic argument is bulls**t, otherwise more equal Nordic countries, with more equal pay, parenting and excellent childcare; would have high fertility rates and they don't. Societies only work when men and women have different roles. When men have more economic power to balance out female sexual power. Note I am not saying such societies are better or in anyway fair. They are not, they are just societies that have long term futures be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something.They are deceiving themselves. Do they really think Mr six foot plus and handsome has any interest in someone like her long term? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something.That complaint comes from women who are delusional about the sort of guy they can get long term. They swipe left on a hundred guys, swiping right on the hot hunk. They suddenly expect hot hunk to want to marry them and have babies with her. When hot hunk is only interested in casual sex and eventually leaves her. She comes to a place like this and rants about how all men are evil and shallow. While not seeing the irony of that complaint, when she literally rejected hundreds of men before choosin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?The answer sadly, is everywhere. Take my workplace, the number of women who are now divorced, leaving toxic husbands is astonishing. Why so men women are in denial about this is beyond me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I don't want single women to be miserable but judging by all the angry bitter posts from single women here, they aren't exactly happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:46 PM |
| – | why do people act like it’s so hard to sexually please women?Want you like the feminist lie or the politically incorrect truth? Oh you would like the truth? Women use sex and their sex appeal as currency. Plenty of women don't enjoy sex and many who do are with partners they are not attracted to. This seems mad to men but when you understand women use to sex to buy what they want, it makes sense. They want a breadwinner, father for their children and a companion. Sex is just an annoying down payment they have to make for such things and they know that a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | " If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert." this is worst attempt at equalizing men and women's issues in datingThe two are not mutually exclusive. The bitter whine from women on reddit, is men pump and dump them. Yet it never occurs to them, that the 6 foot plus hunk who pulled them with very little effort can get a dozen other women just as easily. He might might fuck below his league but that isn't the sort of woman he is going to marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:04 PM |
| 5 | why do people act like it’s so hard to sexually please women?Or more likely, you can't spot when women are faking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:14 AM |
| 6 | why do people act like it’s so hard to sexually please women?The numbers are all over place but they suggest that vast numbers of women rarely or never have an orgasm. A large minority of women don't really enjoy sex. Yet these same women lie to their partners, pretending they like sex and pretending they enjoy it. Pop over the dead bedroom sub if you want to the see the results of this. With large numbers of men trapped in loveless marriages because they didn't realise that sex was little more than an annoying chore for their partner. A way of getting a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:13 AM |
| 0 | Women have a tendency to victimize themselves by framing past relationships that didn't work out as involving "manipulation" or "abuse"Look the problem is women chase after men out of their league and are drawn to bad boys. Pretty much every woman has the option of a long term relationship but that would involve her having realistic standards and dating men who she considers a bit dull/boring. So to pretend she isn't responsible for her own dire dating life, she creates a world in which all men are evil. Whereas in reality she has full control of her dating life and could fix the problem anytime she wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:08 AM |
| 11 | " If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert." this is worst attempt at equalizing men and women's issues in datingThe reality of the dating market is virtually every woman has options and can get a long term partner anytime they want. Women hate having this pointed out to them because it reveals the truth, that the reason they fail is they chase men who are out of their league. Men who they can get as fuck buddies or for one night stands but who are never going to commit to them. Instead of accepting the reality they can never get these men long term, they allow themselves to be endlessly pumped and dumped,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:06 AM |
| – | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenWhat laughable rubbish. You seriously think that all women get into relationships based on such cold calculations? Hate to break it to you, a large percentage of educated women turn their brains off when it comes to dating. Why this reality outrages and upsets you so much is beyond me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenYou really don't understand human nature do you? The heart starts to race, the pussy gets wet and the brain turns off. When it comes to sex, people are morons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenYou're not buying the idea that large numbers of women like toxic men? You don't get out much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 10:25 PM |
| 4 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.A lot of the resentment directed towards women is unwarranted. Women have just started living in society as “full” people (still don’t have bodily autonomy). We barely got the right to open a bank account 49 years ago in 1974. Many women were raised to work AND take care of the household, husband and kids. This isn’t accepted today in wider young adult society. Relationships are more focused on equivalent exchange/ reciprocity. If that isn’t found then being single living alone or with friend is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 10:55 AM |
| – | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessNice strawman, not what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginI don't think rejecting a single mother means someone is voluntarily celibate. Getting emotionally and financially involved in the life of someone else kid is a big ask and could get awfully messy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:01 PM |
| 4 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginYes but that becomes self fulfilling. Any incel guy who asks for advice in the mainstream, is in for a world of unpleasant abuse. However feminist, tolerant and reasonable the guy is. For most, the only people who accept that a lack of a sex life is a problem, are the fringe communities. If incels are driven to the extreme, it is because that is the only place they have left to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 05:02 PM |
| 2 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginOf course there has to be common-sense. As you say the existence of paid sex doesn't mean a man is celibate by choice, if he decides not to pay for sex. I would also argue that a young man rejecting a 70 year old woman or a 300 pound woman doesn't make his celibacy voluntary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginFeminists are massive hypocrites when it comes to this kind of thing. I called some out for them using terms like small man and little man as terms of abuse. I pointed out that their movement was meant to be about body acceptance and tolerance. So it was deeply hypocritical for them to use appearance based abuse. It was hilarious watching them desperately tying themselves in knots, trying to justify what they said. It is the same with sexual insults. Feminists would get outraged if terms like sl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableOh you're posting riddles? What do I get if I solve it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableNope, no idea what that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableThe problem is this goes both ways. Women complain that a man's love shouldn't be based on her maintaining her figure and staying sexy. Yet those same women demand that their man is a good provider. Well you can't have it both ways. If you don't want to loved based on your body, you can't base your love on the size of his wallet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Does this subreddit actually help anyone?It isn't that simple. I guarantee that pretty much every super hero body you see on TV and in the movies is built using steroids. Most of those actors won't have health problems, However, that is because they will have a team of doctors taking blood samples and monitoring what it going on in the background. Which is very different to getting some sh*t off the net or from somebody in a gym. In which case you have no idea what you're buying, the quality could be bad, the dose wrong. Worse, the ave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Does this subreddit actually help anyone?No subreddit helps anything, at the end of the day it is a bunch of odd people talking on the internet. 95% of the population couldn't give two sh*ts about reddit and what happens here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women?Prostitution simply proves that their is a supply and demand imbalance. In some ways it is the sexual marketplace reduce to its most basic. Women selling sex and men buying it. Which is a pattern which is replicated from hookups to marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Would a lower male libido pill solve most male dating problems?Oh it would be because most younger women don't realise quite how much they rely on their sex appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeYou have privilege as a woman, the same way men have privilege. One of my privilege is I can walk alone in relative safety, ultimately I don't have to fear sexual assault and potential rape the way a lone woman does. Your privilege is, your gender makes dating and socialising much easier. You can enter any space and men will approach you. Men chase and pursue you. You will never be seen as a creep or a threat in a social setting That is you privilege. The reason why men like me find your advice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeIt clearly matters to you, otherwise you wouldn't keep responding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeI think the socially delayed person here is the person who thinks it is acceptable to use the term autistic as an insult. There’s a huge difference between talking to women and learning what actual interest is versus sexually harassing people you autist I quoted it to stop you deleting it. It is clear you're using the term autist as an insult. Which makes you a bigot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeThe fact that you think autist is an insult shows that you're an arsehole. You also seem to struggle with comprehension. These men politely enquired whether a female colleague would be interested in a date and were pulled up by HR and given a warning. They weren't harassing anybody. Modern workplaces are so terrified of legal actions, that many overreact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeNope, no idea what you're on about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeI can appreciate that men are struggling with dating. But don’t give me that “womensplaining” bullshit. It is not bullshit because it is clear you haven't got a clue. A British song (Common People) sums it up, from the group Pulp: Rent a flat above a shop Cut your hair and get a job Smoke some fags and play some pool Pretend you never went to school But still you'll never get it right 'Cause when you're laid in bed at night Watching roaches climb the wall If you called your dad he could stop it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:01 PM |
| 7 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeYou're right but the problem is toxic feminism. In the old days it was accepted men had to pursue women and would often fuck up and look like idiots as a result. Especially shy guys, less confident men and men on the spectrum. Now when a guy fucks and does it with the wrong woman, the consequences can be brutal. Men have had their careers destroyed and reputations ruined because they made an honest mistake. If women expect men to do the chasing and make the rules of the chase vague and changeabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeThe other issue, is women don't seem to understand how men socialise. In fact I would say women have a condescending and patronising view of male relationships. Male friendships have been described as side by side friendships. Men have shared interests or hobbies. So male socialisation might be based on guys they going fishing with, play football with, game with. They based around those activities. The problem is women expect those relationships to be a substitute for lonely men having a sexual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:52 PM |
| 7 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeIt is also a good place to get fired for sexual harassment. This isn't me being paranoid, several guys at my work have been pulled in by the HR Stasi and given warnings. When all they did was politely ask a colleague out. Toxic feminism has made workplace romances potentially dangerous for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeAll of my relationships started out as friendships. I was friends with my husband for two years before we began dating. What women don’t like is if you befriend them with the sole intention of dating. If you genuinely enjoy their company and things naturally progress, nobody is going to criticize that. Sorry but that is just a get out. Unless you're a telepath you don't know that the guys you decided to date didn't befriend with that sole intention. What you actually mean, is women don't like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:46 PM |
| 4 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeHow would you know as a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:41 PM |
| 11 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeAh yes, good old womansplaining. I mean how would you know? You date on the easy setting. Of course you think college is a great place to meet the opposite sex because if you're on a stem course, with lots of guys, you have plenty of options. If you're on an all female course, you can go out with your classmates and pull. Doesn't work that way for men. Bars are terrible. You probably didn't notice, while guy after guy queued up to pay your bar bill. Most bars have more men than women in them. Pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Being in a position where you can pursue women is a privilegeThe usual response from the smug patronising clueless, who don't struggle with these issues, is build your social group. Which is useless advice because the kind of man who can break into the kind of social group with lots of available women, doesn't generally struggle with women. Even if by some miracle you manage to get into that social circle, it doesn't mean you will have any success. I use to play tennis with a guy who was in that kind of social circle, friends with loads of single women an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menTo be honest, I don't think most of them know what it means. They are also the go to bad guys for lazy movie and TV producers/showrunners. It use to be black men but thankfully that was called racists. Then for a whiled it was anyone from the Middle East, now it is incel guys. Except it obvious the people making these shows don't get incel mean involuntary celibate. For example the otherwise excellent Bosch had two patrol cops as incels bullying a female police lieutenant. We will skip over the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenThis is just getting a bit sad now. I am talking about guys who were petty criminals, who had assault charges to their names or even assaulted their previous partners. I don't understand why people like you are in denial about this. Allot of undamaged, well education women are attracted to terrible men. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:23 PM |
| 7 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menWell you could stop describing men who are rejected by women as toxic, terrorists, sexist, bigots and generally stop attacking them. The evidence that feminist attacks on incels are unmerited comes from feminists themselves. Feminists produce the stats which say that the men women are attracted to are far more likely to hurt them than any incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menYes, the source for this isn't tinfoil pill nutter types, it comes from feminists: Meanwhile, an estimated 1.6 million women aged 16 to 74 experienced domestic abuse in England and Wales in the 12 months to November 2021. Ok this is a feminist stat, so it is probably wrong but my point is. Feminists own stats show that the men women are attracted to are infinitely more likely to hurt them than any incel. 99% of whom are completely harmless. Alas trying to have a rational debate with a feminist, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenYeah because all those women writing love letters to murderers are criminals themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenExcept that isn't true, many of the women I knew in uni dated vile toxic men. They were drawn to bad boys and criminals. These women weren't criminals, they hadn't been abused and they hadn't come from broken homes. They were well educated middle class women, who were simply found bad boys a turn on. Why women have a problem admitting something which is blatantly obviously true, is beyond me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:06 PM |
| 7 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenYes and this is a very important point. Lonely men are a in a fragile state and when they ask for advice from the mainstream, including feminists, they are told they are toxic human beings. They are told that they are sexist, entitled, bigoted and women can sense that. That message is incredibly dangerous and incredibly toxic in itself. It is telling men that they are effectively sub-human if women don't find them attractive. Not exactly going to help anyone's mental health. It is also not true;… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?Some people have beat deafness, it is rare but it exists. You could devote the entire budget of Nasa to training such a person, hiring all the best trainers and dedicate a year to teaching them. They would still never be able to dance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?You arrogance is the assumption that if you can do something, everyone else can do it. Some people will never be able to dance, in the same way they will never be great at maths or be able to drive a race car. It isn't a difficult concept to gasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?When in hole, stop digging. People have different skills and talents. Your arrogance is to assume everyone is like you and if they can't do what you can do, it is down to laziness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?Ah yes the arrogant assumption that if you can do something, everyone else must be able to do it. I have a degree in Physics, I find maths easy. That doesn't mean someone who failed highschool maths is going to be able to learn quantum mechanics and special relativity. For some people, such a goal would be impossible. It is the same way things like dancing. Not everyone can dance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?Tried it, doesn't work. The first problem is you actually have to be able to dance, women aren't interested in the guy with two left feet. Women also find it creepy if men pursue them in dance classes because they are there to learn to dance, not to be hit on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?The supremely arrogant stance of someone who doesn't have such problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?It is another shaming tactic used to get at lonely guys and put the blame on them. Look there is nothing wrong with getting out more, doing new things and meeting people. However it is not very likely to lead to you finding a girlfriend and a sex life. The problem is there is a lack of single women at the kind of events and groups lonely men can join. How can I put this? They tend to draw a certain type, which is other lonely people and those people tend to be men. Which if anything actively put… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?How would you know? If you're not deluded and really a milf, you have cruised along using your sex appeal your whole life. You probably aren't aware how dependent you are on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality?The answer is no, those who claim to have done so certainly aren't on the spectrum or genuinely shy. The problem for the shy guy who doesn't have looks to compensate, is if he tries to use humour and social skills to attract women. Is he is immediately labelled as a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 09:27 AM |
| 13 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?It won't work, the flaw is obvious. If you exclude Chad, who loves to pump and dump. The 6 foot handsome guys who these girls thirst after won't be on the app. So women will have a choice between facing reality and actually accepting their long term look match. Which they won't do. Or deserting the app back to apps were Chad pump and dump hits upon them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 09:13 AM |
| 14 | If the majority of men get no matches on dating apps, how do the majority of couples meet using apps, and how to the majority of people still get married?80/20 is optimistic for dating apps. It is telling getting stats out of such companies is like getting blood out of a stone. There was a leak from one, I think it was one that claimed to organise affairs. What was telling was what a sausage fest the place was and the scam tactics they used to keep the suckers paying up. I doubt the mainstream apps are any different. The ratio between men and women is horrific on most of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:29 PM |
| 16 | If the majority of men get no matches on dating apps, how do the majority of couples meet using apps, and how to the majority of people still get married?As of 2022, Pew Research Center found, 30 percent of U.S. adults are neither married, living with a partner nor engaged in a committed relationship. Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men. Not surprisingly, the decline in relationships marches astride with a decline in sex. The share of sexually active Americans stands at a 30-year low. Around 30 percent of young men reported in 2019 that they had no sex in the past year, compared to abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:24 PM |
| 12 | Feminists and People like Tate,Myron and Pearl are two sides of the same coinModern feminism has become a crazy puritanical cult. They are even turning on older feminists. they can be safely ignored. As for the likes of Tate, they spotted a market opportunity. Lonely vulnerable people have always been catnip for scammers and con-artists. To be fair to lonely men, you can't really blame them for falling for such scammers. When the mainstream, including feminists, tells lonely men they are toxic, sexist and deserve to be lonely. It is hardly a surprise that they have more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:22 PM |
| 3 | The men here fail because they refuse to take any risksI am not sure that someone with a timid personality is suddenly going to attract women if they decide to basejump off the nearest high building. I also suspect there is a good chance they might not survive the experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 05:43 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partnersOh dear, another fool posting rubbish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbandsThey have too many options. Imagine having hundred or even thousands of people hitting on you. Imagine you are attracted to dozens or more of those people. All you have to do to pick them up is swipe right. Imagine that you can get into any social event or party you look without money, charm or a sense of humour. Your social life is fabulous, with zero effort on your part. Are you going to give all that up to spend the rest of your life with one flawed man? The problem for such women, is the gra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:06 PM |
| 4 | CMV: You can't expect women to believe that men are being falsely accused of being creepy without evidence.Can't be bother to read that because life is too short to bother with incoherent rubbish. Oh sorry is that creepy? I was going for condescending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Being alone is often worse than a boring or unloving relationshipNot sure about that, a quick glance at the dead bedroom's forum shows me that there are worse things than being alone. Being trapped with a woman who destroys your self esteem by refusing to have sex with you, while at the same time having the power to financially rape you if you so much look at another women; via the divorce courts. Sounds much worse than not being in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 03:59 PM |
| 3 | The men here fail because they refuse to take any risksIn a way you're right but your message is the complete reverse of the standard feminist narrative. Which says to act in anyway masculine is toxic and what lonely men should actually do is memorize the gender studies section of their local bookshop and apologise for existing to every women within 5 miles. The problem with your solution is, you can't fake what you aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessSo that would be a no then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessCan you translate that from woo to English please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessNo the reason we are here is we have given a bunch of irrational crazy feminist woo merchants far too much power and respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessNah that is just some non-sense Orwellian feminist new speak, to hide the fact feminists have become a bunch of judgemental puritan killjoys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessCould you imagine what would happen if you put gender studies graduates in charge of a nuclear power station? They would spend their whole time arguing about gender neutral corporate language policy, before inviting all the staff to consent classes. After sacking all but one of the male technical staff, they will accuse the last remaining guy of mansplaining when he points out the reactor is going to blow. After covering the surrounding areas in a radioactive cloud, they would blame it all on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:46 PM |
| 8 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessOh please, men are judged based on their appearance, by women all the time. The same behaviour coming from a handsome 6'2" guy is treated differently to it coming from a 5'2" ugly guy. It is frankly hypocritical for women to complain about objectification, when do exactly the same to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:41 PM |
| 8 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessYes that is just commonsense. Women are just as shallow as men and enjoy attention from hot/high status guys more than unattractive ones. In the same way women are perfectly capable of exploiting their sexuality to get what they want. The feminists at my uni had no problem going out when they had no money. Using their sex appeal to get free drinks. No doubt the OP feminist would claim that is empowering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:39 PM |
| 11 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessIgnore the annoying new puritans bleating on about objectification. It is a meaningless non-sense feminist shaming term. The same women who endlessly complain about objectification, judge men based on their looks and appearance. My rule is to regard puritans with well deserved contempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:34 PM |
| 12 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessThe metoo culture and feminism has become so toxic that many women are now experiencing the reverse. I work with a woman who is attractive and likes to wear sexy outfits. High heels, short skirts, low cut tops. Which makes my working day a bit more pleasant. She came in one day ecstatic that a man had given her compliment about her legs. Now the guy who did this was no woman's idea of desirable, so it wasn't that she fancied him. It was the fact that men are so conditioned to view anything sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:32 PM |
| 24 | Many Men don't seem to understand the difference between sexualization and sexynessThis is a long winded way of saying you want the advantages of sexualising yourself without the downsides. Sexualising is very tempting for women because it is an easy shortcut. For example, getting your boss to notice the quality of your work is hard and laborious. Putting on a sexy low cut outfit to get the attention of a male boss is easy. I am not condemning that because we all like shortcuts and we all use what we have. The problem is women don't want to be judged for doing that by men or o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Would a lower male libido pill solve most male dating problems?You will get allot of deluded answers to this because most people don't want admit how much their biological urges shape them. The reality is, if such a pill could be made without side effects, it would be as big a revolution as the pill in the 1960's. Most men would at first reject it but then they might find a time they want to use it. They could be in a dead bedroom marriage, need to study for an exam without distractions, travelling and don't want to be tempted to cheat on a partner or a var… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Would a lower male libido pill solve most male dating problems?How very PC and Disney of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Loneliness is not the problem for Men, but lack of romantic love and sexTo be honest I am finding the condemnation of men for having natural sexual desires extremely tiresome. It mainly seems to be coming from women who are bitter men are sleeping with them and leaving them. Which has absolutely nothing to do with the lonely men they swiped left on before they choose that guy. Lonely men just seem to be an easy punchbag for people who are bitter and angry; who want a socially acceptable target to abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Men do appreciate female friendship, but they often avoid it because it is costlyBeing friends with women in relationships or married women is frankly a bit pointless. It isn't politically correct to admit it but no husband/boyfriend is going to want their wife/girlfriend to be hanging out with a single guy. Group meetups yes but that means that such a woman can only really be a causal acquaintance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness is not the problem for Men, but lack of romantic love and sexI think you have it the wrong round, in my experience men most want friends and interactions with other men when they are successful. Men are competitive, there is allot of banter in male interactions. Men want to be the funniest, smartest and most successful guy in the room. My brother in law is a great example of this. Tons of friends till he graduated from uni and then he couldn't find a job. This is the sort of time women would reach out to their friends, he actively avoided his because he c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness is not the problem for Men, but lack of romantic love and sexNot in my experience, if anything it is the reverse, women tend to avoid such spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness is not the problem for Men, but lack of romantic love and sexThe thing is, there are male spaces, plenty of them. I can join meetups, hobby groups, sporting teams. In fact these are things I do but that isn't were I seek emotional intimacy. Say I have played at a tennis event, I have probably had a good time, chatted to the other guys but I feel no desire to invite any them out for a drink or contact them afterwards. I mean if I bump into them at another event great but if I don't see them again, it doesn't particularly bother me. I am not sure I am that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Loneliness is not the problem for Men, but lack of romantic love and sexThe problem is the mainstream media womansplain, for want of a better term. Nobody actually bothers to talk to men and if they do, they don't bother to listen to what they say. I have no desire for close male friendships. That doesn't mean I want to cut off interactions with other men. It is just I like activity based relationships, I have guys I work with, guys I play sports with or share a hobby with. When we talk it is about that activity or we don't talk and just play the sport or do the act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel online dating is alienating the sexes more?Online dating is a disaster for men because it reduces everything to the physical. Before phones and the internet less attractive men had a chance. They could make up for their physicals disadvantages with humour, intelligence and charm. Now women swipe left and reject the majority of men, they are never given a chance. This of course sounds great for women, they all get to sleep with 6 foot plus handsome hunks. So you would imagine that women are all very happy and contented. Yet what is striki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:48 AM |
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