CherokeeStarbright Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	What to consider when dating a divorcee with a young child	ADVICE	CherokeeStarbright	/r/RedPillWives	25/08/16 01:46 AM
6	Defining the Relationship: how and when?	ADVICE	CherokeeStarbright	/r/RedPillWomen	27/07/16 03:26 PM

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1	High SMV guys and N-counts. What is your ideal #? Eh... Obviously I'm speaking anecdotally, and I'd be very interested to hear some other ladies chime in on this one because I imagine it varies quite a bit from person to person. But the sex is never that great the first time, regardless of how experienced the man is. I'm not saying it's never good, I'm saying it's never "omg, that was the best sex I've ever had" great. I just can't get wild and freaky with a guy until a couple of times in, I'm wound a bit too tight for that. So I'd argue a guy …	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/16 04:19 AM
5	High SMV guys and N-counts. What is your ideal #? I might be a bit of an outlier here, but the lower the better in my opinion. But I can be forgiving up until probably 20 ish partners. If I knew a guy I was dating had more than 20 sexual partners I would hard next him. For this reason I don't ask guys about partner count. I don't want to know because a ridiculously high partner count is just something I can't look past, and I don't want to potentially miss out on an otherwise great guy because he tomcatted around for a few years (and that's unf…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/16 03:58 AM
1	Niche Dating: Just Don't Okay, thank you!	/r/RedPillWives	04/09/16 03:34 AM
2	Niche Dating: Just Don't Okay, thank you! That makes perfect sense to me :) I feel like I might be niche dating, but I'm pretty sure I'm not because all of my "criteria" are value and lifestyle based. For example: I hate cities, I do not want to ever live in a city or suburb. The close neighbors, the noise, the traffic, I want nothing to do with it. So I don't date guys who love living in a city or want to live in a city. And then you add in that I don't want to have kids, and it's starting to look a little niche... I f…	/r/RedPillWives	04/09/16 03:34 AM
6	Niche Dating: Just Don't Okay, at what point is it considered a niche as opposed to a lifestyle choice? For example, only dating guys who attend church because your faith is important to you and you want to be with someone who shares your religious views? Is that niche dating?	/r/RedPillWives	02/09/16 08:49 PM
2	What to consider when dating a divorcee with a young child You know what else would be frustrating? Looking for an igloo in the middle of Death Valley. Dating isn't the problem, your environment however... This has really shifted my paradigm regarding the situation, in 2 years at the longest I will be moving for sure to hopefully pursue my first "career- style" job, I recently started a career- pathways internship with the Department of Natural Resources while I finish my bachelors degree. My, still fairly new job, is how I met this guy in the first pla…	/r/RedPillWives	25/08/16 03:28 PM
1	What to consider when dating a divorcee with a young child I've read that guide a lot. I've studied it, and overall I've been really good about it, this was something I simply hadn't considered before. Which was pretty dumb of me. It's just he's the first person near my age range I've met who had a kid within wedlock. To me it's such foreign concept, because every other person I know near my age range with a child usually has 2 or more with different partners and has so many other red flags I would never consider dating them. I guess I never considered …	/r/RedPillWives	25/08/16 06:14 AM
2	What to consider when dating a divorcee with a young child Thank you for such a detailed post Phantom! You've definitely given me a lot to consider, and I have a sinking feeling that you're probably right. To me having a kid is at LEAST a yellow flag, and I think my own anecdotal experience is clouding my judgement. So, I'm going to tell you a little bit about myself so you might understand where I'm coming from a little better, and then I'm going to comment about the bullet points. It's not my intention to come off argumentative, I just want to discuss…	/r/RedPillWives	25/08/16 05:58 AM
5	What to consider when dating a divorcee with a young child He ghosted when I wouldn't have sex with him after only knowing him for 6 weeks... I like it when a man weeds himself out	/r/RedPillWives	25/08/16 04:32 AM
1	[DISCUSSION] Let's share our housekeeping routines! This guide is an absolute life saver!! Thanks for posting it :)	/r/RedPillWives	24/08/16 08:40 PM
2	Guide to First Dates And Setting Yourself Up For Success You hit the nail on the head! I also don't allow men to pick me up on the first date for safety reasons. I don't want someone I barely know to know where I live...	/r/RedPillWives	24/08/16 08:23 PM
2	Defining the Relationship: how and when? The topic came up organically while we were playing Risk with some of his friends, so asking him about it after words seemed much more natural. And we are absolutely on the same page. :) Thank you for the advice!	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/16 08:37 PM
3	Defining the Relationship: how and when? Everyone here gave some great input. Lucky me, it got taken out of my hands at board game night with his friends when one of his friends referred to him as my boyfriend. It made bringing it up much more natural, and we're both definitely on the same page, which is great! :)	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/16 08:20 PM