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I’m sorry that our porn sick culture has fooled your bf into thinking he doesn’t have a huge fucking problem with sex that he needs deep therapy for ..... because he does. Run away while you can! Also, people say for fucks sake where I’m from. Maybe it’s because I’m from New England.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:51 PM
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I have been in your place many times over and it is really hard. It feels lonely and like you never know if/when someone truly of value will come into your life. But it is so much better to be alone so you can focus on yourself and your life trajectory than entertain people that bring little to no value to your life. You WILL eventually find people of your caliber that you vibe with. What helped me during my lonely years was to do self-improvement like listening to educational podcasts that were…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:20 PM
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.......and then don’t have sex with him. It’ll just be fun to see his expression when you do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:14 PM
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Ugh.... I wish we could charge men for wasting our time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:47 AM
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Honestly, it takes intent and effort to be this level of shitty. It’s like they are trying to prove how baseless and morally devoid they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:55 PM
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These men are so afraid to take chances because they don’t believe they are worth it. Which actually makes them not worth it. The fearful mindset and unwillingness to take chances is so unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:56 AM
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I went on a first date with a guy that wasn’t super attractive to me but we started chatting in the sprint store when I went to purchase a new phone. He asked me out right there and I appreciated that he was assertive and polite. We went out to sushi and conversation was okay. He drove and said that he wanted to pick something up at his house so we stopped there. I got no creepy vibes from him so I went to his apartment with him. As we reached the door he said, “now there is someone really impor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:19 AM
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I thought she was married to the board member that recently resigned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:08 PM
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Exactly! Plus, I really have no clue what the point of forgiveness is. Emotions are emotions and you are going to feel how you feel and process them in the unique way they present. Even many years after the trauma there may be some days you don’t think of it, some days it doesn’t bother you and others where it comes back vividly and you continue to process it again (for the 1,000th time). I only see how pushing forgiveness would make a survivor feel guilty or lock them into a mind game on the da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:12 PM
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I’ve always thought the whole telling women to forgive their abusers is a crock of shit. Remembering abuse and not forgiving are sometimes the only things that keep you safe from being abused again. By all means heal from your trauma and move on but no need to forgive your abuser just focus on yourself. They are the ones responsible for mending themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:04 PM
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Have you watched Gail Dine’s ted talk? It hits on many points but one of them is how girls don’t have an option to not sexualize themselves because the only other option is to be invisible which conflicts with the developmental drive to be noticed during teen years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:52 PM
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Absolutely. The negative effect doesn’t make any of her points less valid and true. Men need to learn how to be horny and ethical at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:28 PM
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She’s 100% right. I do however feel conflicted about the highly sexual and suggestive nature of social media currently and the effects it has on women. Like what’s the motivation and the net effect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:19 PM
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This shows that LVM know exactly what they are doing. They aren’t abusing you because they don’t know any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:22 PM
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What a loser. “If we meet and I deem you not as hot in real life as in my head, I’m still gonna try to get you drunk and fuck you but you owe me a drink for being ugly and thus less worthy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:52 PM
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Some of the points the guys make are true but I didn’t really like this video as they are laughing when she’s crying and that put me off. Also, they made fun of her in the beginning for falling for his lies but didn’t call his lies out in the same breath. The first cut in the guy on the right says that the first sign of a bad relationship is that you don’t trust each other. I say no, she trusted him more than she should have. Trust is earned. It’s impossible to tell in the beginning how much you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:49 PM
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I really hate when a photo makes a guy look so douchey but you can tell he thinks it makes him look so hot EW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:37 AM
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Not that we need to think about the abuser’s feelings or consider them at all when making a decision but I would like to add that reporting an abuser is best for them as well. It is not compassionate or “nice” to allow an abuser to keep on abusing. It’s best even for their own sake to be stopped and not allowed to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:28 PM
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Oh boy, I used to work with a man that looks JUST like this. 😂- he seemed sweet but had a crush on me when I was 24 and he was 48. Yeah.... that didn’t happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:57 PM
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Exactly! He said 70 to make himself look like less of a jerk when he meant 35
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:46 AM
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It’s funny that she probably had less expectations because of her high body count. It’s easy for women to find sex but not high quality sex from hookups. A 70+ body count means she’s done a good share of hooking up and therefore experienced a lot of mediocre to unenjoyable sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:57 PM
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What a horrifying type of man, I mean the part about babies. How could anyone say such a thing?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:12 AM
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The fucked up part is there is a million ways in which they could be held accountable but the truth is that their superiors did not wish for them to be held accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:37 AM
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So basically he stole more monies worth of lip liner than what it would have cost for a card 😂..... the scrote-dacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 11:44 PM
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Well that’s my dose of gaslighting for the day. This boy right here is trying to write the reality he wants into existence. And by the responses he gets he will be able to choose his best victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 11:39 PM
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..... that serve to benefit rich men on the winning side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:17 PM
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What I don’t understand is how it applies to men but not women.... do women not scream during labor while birthing baby girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:26 PM
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This is the type of man that loves to hear is own voice but is incapable of listening to anyone else. He’s desperately trying to distracted you from the fact that he’s mostly composed of Cheeto farts and stale air 🌬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:38 AM
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And THAT is the reason you always take a woman out for a nice dinner BEFORE trying to mate with her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:21 PM
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....... or possibly two men.... maybe three 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:41 AM
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So she’s saying the child porn upload was okayed by human mods at porn hub before it was uploaded?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:40 PM
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How does this creep even think this is a good deal!? It’s not even a whole apartment, it’s a room- so he thinks someone who is willing to prostitute themselves wants to live with their John 24/7? And sex weekly? Couldn’t a prostitute have sex once a week and afford a place of her own without having to live with the guy? The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:23 AM
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Wait.... hold up..... so women have to change their behavior and standards to fit that of a porn using man so they won’t end up alone but men’s porn usage is so immutable that they cannot possibly change even if it means they’ll end up alone? Something isn’t quite adding up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:46 PM
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I’ve seen this a couple times and I always assumed she meant he’s cheap when he only lets you order water to drink, not water in replace of a whole meal. I suspect she ordered a burger and fries but wanted the strawberry lemonade too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:49 AM
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I didn’t realize what I was seeing until it was too late and I had already stared deeply into his eyes..... and then I felt terror in my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:14 PM
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This is a tragic situation but once there is a baby involved your feelings are no longer the #1 priority. This will have huge and negative impact on his child and wife. He is immature. Don’t throw away the health of your marriage and family for someone even if you do love them. I can guarantee that the most helpful thing the the poor woman who was trafficked will be therapy and time to heal. I don’t see this ending well for any party involved. If he was truly a mature man he could support her fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:52 PM
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It’s almost like men don’t understand that the women in porn are REAL people with whole lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:49 PM
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I had the copper IUD for about 6 months because I wanted to avoid the side effects of hormonal birth control. I had a similar experience to you where I felt off, unlike myself, my emotions didn’t feel quite right but it was many subtle things hard to explain. It makes total sense if we think about the womb in a spiritual sense, it’s a place of ultimate creative force in a woman’s body, you can grow a baby there! When you aren’t growing a baby that creative force can be used in other areas of you…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 12:10 PM
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It depends what you want from your life. I think the reason people say this to young women is that when most people look back at their late teens and early twenties they realize they they didn’t know what they wanted at the time and it can be harder to establish yourself if you get pregnant and have a child early. Will you live with your parents or partner? Will you have enough money? Will you be able to complete school and afford good quality child care? However waiting until the last possible …
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 11:14 PM
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The only evidence I have ever found of something like this is while walking through the Mayan ruins at Coba, Mexico. It was a state in the Mayan civilization ran by women and you can see many stone carvings of men on their hands and knees with women riding in their backs. The feeling I got there was that there was and in some ways still is no other way to become dominant within a patriarchal system. You must conform to the same tools that the patriarchy uses against women to be allowed to have e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:50 PM
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That woman in the front is NOT playing around 😆 I applaud these women, strength in numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:58 PM
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He needs to know that this is NOT acceptable behavior. He can find someone attractive but that does NOT mean it’s appropriate to say anything to this person, treat them differently or try to make it that person’s problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:57 PM
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I think this is an older trope, it started when there was more pressure on women to be pure and reject sex. I think the tables have turned now that women are shamed less for wanting intimacy but many men are pornsick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:32 PM
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How old is he? He sounds like he’s immature and doesn’t know what he wants yet. I know that this may feel devastating in the moment but I’m sure it will work out for the best. You will be much happier with someone that knows what he wants and realizes how head over heels he is for you. Also, someone that isn’t afraid to say “I love you” and mean it because he’s not confused.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 04:21 PM
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What types of things do you want him to be vulnerable about? How he feels at his job? His relationship with you? Usually I start by calmly telling a story about myself or explain how I’m feeling about something and then ask him how he feels about the subject. Sometimes I will ask him if he’s open to answer some curiosities I have and if he says yes then I have a few well thought out and deep questions to ask. You could even start with a question like, “how do feel about being vulnerable?” or “wh…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 02:31 AM
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This reminds me so much of a person I used to know, the type of man that uses the word “cuck” wayyy too much in normal conversation. Once you catch onto their game I find this type of man to be the easiest to manipulate. They think they are being sneaky but the truth is they are want to feel worthy so badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:35 PM
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I’ve never understood how men can have high n counts but want women with low n counts..... who are they sleeping with if not women!? However, I do agree. I want someone with a moderate to low number.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 03:53 PM
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I don’t think Mark is high value. A high value man would know his own value and be able to spot the mess that Jessica is and want to avoid that. I get very needy and codependent vibes from Mark. He’s a male pickmesha if there ever was one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:05 AM
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The concept that doesn’t make sense to me about modern feminism is that it doesn’t value woman’s nature and the feminine side of things as high as men’s nature and masculinity. For feminism to create an environment where men and women are truly valued equally it would need to value traditional women’s work and men’s work equally. It wouldn’t ask women to become more like men to achieve equality. We would see women as a pillar and foundation of the family, of nurturing and refining raw product, a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 06:17 PM
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