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Well, then, I can vouch for at least one white woman happily married to a South Asian man. So at least you know the deck isn't totally stacked, ethnicity-wise.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 09:16 PM
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You'll be okay, but definitely move somewhere with higher quality and nore diverse people. Also, I hate to give this advice, but most antidepressants will lower your sex drive and make things easier to cope with, if you need something to get you through the next few years.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 09:14 PM
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My husband is average with an average chin. I'm not trying to tell you life can be awesome if you're ugly. I'm just saying at the moment, your choices are ugly, boring/whiney and miserable, or ugly, interesting/pleasant, and somewhat less miserable.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 09:09 PM
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Yeah, it sucks to have the whole world saying you can only be sexy if you're a white dude. I live in a Bengali neighborhood, though, and see a lot of couples, including some where the woman isn't south asian. I have a friend who is married to a Bengali man, but she's really fat, so I don't know if you would accept her as an example.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 09:07 PM
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How long have you lived around mostly white people? I think it can really mess with your self image, when you're only comparing yourself to people who don't look anything like you.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 09:01 PM
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I'm not saying you're going to talk to these white girls and they're going to magically start dating you. You are doing a lot of black and white thinking. It's not like either you never speak to a woman or you instantly have a girlfriend. You need to get to the middle ground where you can talk to and hang out with both men and women. Not as a step to getting sex, but as part of being a functional adult. Learn to talk to people. Make friends. Find some joy in life. If you don't do those things, e…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:58 PM
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Good.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:45 PM
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What did you try other than just thinking "I'm gonna be happy"?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:45 PM
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I was once, many many years ago a white cute American girl, and yes, I was shallow as fuck and wanted to date guys who looked like Chris Hemsworth. But I definitely talked to guys who were awkward and "ethnic." Since it's not a level playing field, you're going to have to be more nice and charming than a hot white guy, but unfortunately the only way to get there is to practice and potentially have people be rude and shitty to you. I was socially awkward as a teenager, in spite of my cute whitene…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:44 PM
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Not if you blow off studying, and then spend your minimum wage salary on jaw surgery, you won't.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:35 PM
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I don't think Russia is very popular right now, so maybe. No, obviously America is super-racist, and it's much easier to do anything if you are a hot person. But that doesn't mean you have to live in utter aloneness and misery if you're not hot. That's just black and white thinking. It's totally legit to try to improve your appearance to get what you want. But it is also possible to be a reasonably happy ugly man in the meantime. There's a grey area where you don't have a great face and body, bu…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:34 PM
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My man, please speak to some girls before you shrivel up in despair. Even if you make a total fool of yourself the first 100 times, that's the only way you're going to get where you want to be. Strong-jawline homeless man is going to find it easier to get laid if he is capable of basic conversation.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:28 PM
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I'm guessing English is also not your first language - could that have something to do with it?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:24 PM
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Yikes. Good luck with your future hot homeless existence, I guess.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:23 PM
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You could talk to and flirt with a girl tomorrow if you wanted to. That is not at all the same as "having a girlfriend."
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:22 PM
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None of this is correct. I'm guessing you're from a pretty conservative family/country? Or is this just internet nonsense someone has been telling you? Masturbating is absolutely normal. People who are having sex also masturbate. Doctors advise masturbation for your health. Anyone who tells you otherwise is either very religious, on a power trip, or does not have your best interests at heart.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:21 PM
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Maybe where you are, people "usually" get girlfriends at 14-15; definitely not true everywhere. Make a list of all the kids you know, and count how many are in relationships and how many aren't. No cheating; every single kid. Not just the "hot" ones.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:19 PM
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People generally date people of the same attractiveness as themselves. If you only want to date someone much more good looking than you, than yeah, gym, plastic surgery, etc. Is the way. (But then be willing to date women who are also very concerned with their looks, get surgery, wear makeup, etc.) But again, total facial overhaul is not an option at the moment, so what are you going to do right now? Multiple choice: A. Whine on the internet and be angry at attractive people and people in relati…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:16 PM
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I do not see how any of this is going to get you a girlfriend.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:08 PM
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I'm talking about the incel community of people who use specific language to talk about things and obsess about their jawline getting them laid. May or may not be misogynist, but definitely sound a little ridiculous to everyone else.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:07 PM
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Oh, also, I get that you can't talk about offing yourself on some reddit boards, hence the "rope" thing, but what is the point of changing words like "coping" to mean something else? When there's already a perfectly good word for it. It seems like just a way to make it harder to talk to other people, which is convenient if you want to keep people in your group.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:05 PM
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But as you said, you can't do that right now. So are you going to sulk around the internet for 4 years, or are you going to do something more interesting/productive/pleasant? Which would be pretty much anything, tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:03 PM
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In American English "get laid" means having sex, and the average age is 17.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:02 PM
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Quit incelling. Everyone who isn't an incel (which is the majority of people), thinks it's absolutely ridiculous. That alone seems like a good reason to do something else.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:01 PM
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Oh, okay. Well, to me, coping means accepting that you don't always get everything you want and trying to have a good time anyway. Sulking and obsessing definitely won't get you laid, and you'll be miserable. Making the best of things might get you laid, and will also be more pleasant. Why choose the option that definitely sucks over the one that might turn out okay?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:00 PM
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Lol, again, I apologize. I am a teacher, but I only speak one language (embarrassingly). In English you would say "hang himself." "Commit rope" doesn't really mean anything. I can see how it would make sense in another language, though! Anyway, I think you're purely catastrophizing. Worry about what's happening right now, not what the future might or might not hold.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:57 PM
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Oh, lolll...I apologize for totally misreading that word. I don't know what you mean, though!
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:41 PM
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If you wouldn't rape someone, what makes you think your friend would? It doesn't sound like you're a very good friend to him.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:35 PM
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Wait, are the only two choices coping and obsessing? If so, why is coping bad?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:34 PM
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Everyone wants to have sex at 17, but being weird and obsessive about it is a problem.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:32 PM
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I'm worried that you think everyone is cheating and raping. They're not. It's not normal. Don't do those things.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:31 PM
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"Madam we are planning to save money until 21-22 and get surgeries." Good plan. Because at 21, you're going to look in the mirror, laugh about this conversation, and spend that money taking girls out to dinner. " his name is Ranjeet?" Lol, what?
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:18 PM
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We clearly have different definitions of "get laid." You're choosing to be an unhappy, negative, sex-obsessed weirdo. No one is going to be attracted to that. Chill out, enjoy porn, do fun things. You may not get laid, but at least you won't be miserable and not getting laid.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:17 PM
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Do you plan to start raping people if you don't get everything you want by age 25? Anyway, yes, leave him alone. Don't try to control other people.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:14 PM
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I see mostly 12 year old Black kids, but I'm not a pedophile, so I don't really have an opinion about how they look. All I can tell you is I knew a real skinny gawky looking Indian kid in high school, and he 1. Dated in high school and 2. Looked massively different about 5 years later. He is now a very attractive middle-aged attorney with a gorgeous doctor wife. And definitely didn't have plastic surgery after high school, because that was not a thing for young men in the 90s.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:13 PM
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"I know I can't be handsome as hell, but I want to be more desireable." You do you, but leave your friends alone. I know several girls who have had plastic surgery and are very happy about it. But if they tried to tell me I was ugly and needed it? We'd be done. It's an epic dick move, and your friend deserves better.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:06 PM
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You really need to study more, especially in math. If the average is 17, it is very very unlikely that "most people" are having sex at 14-15. They are LYING. People lie. Teenagers lie a lot. Teen boys lie about sex constantly. It's ridiculous.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:04 PM
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Inaccurate, as you can see if you look around with your eyes.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:02 PM
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I assure you as an adult woman who has seen many people grow up, people's appearances change drastically from 16 to 20. Here's some science. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2309666/ (since you're in high school and apparently not big on studying, I'll sum up: mens jaws keep growing between 16 and 20.) Also, I don't know any women or girls (I'm a teacher and have teenaged kids) who would be attracted to a man who had had plastic surgery. So vain. Huge turnoff. If you want women to laugh at you an…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:01 PM
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This is one of the sexiest things a woman could hear a man say. Ambition is sexy. Hard work is sexy. Babies whining about not getting laid is very not sexy.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 06:54 PM
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Where do you live? The average man in the US loses his virginity at age 17. "Lots of dudes" lie their asses off about having sex, though.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 06:52 PM
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Your jaw (and your friend's jaw) will keep growing until your early 20s. It would be super-irresponsible to encourage him to get surgery now, not knowing how he's going to look in a few years. As a woman, I don't really understand the jawline obsession - yes, it's attractive, but it's only one of many body parts. It's like a woman being obsessed with having a perfect collarbone or something. But even if a strong jawline is something he really wants (Note, I said 'something HE really wants', beca…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 06:46 PM
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