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| 1 | Cold Approach (MIRL) vs. Tinder/Bumble 2: CA is a "cheat code"Who the fuck posted a pic of me... if that’s what happens here I’m out. I don’t need this shit I’m trying to help dudes, but if people are posting pics and DOXing, fuck that. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Once Plates Hit Mid To Late Twenties. They Will Break.Interesting... most of the girls I've been hooking up with via cold approach have been either quite young (25 or younger) or older (35+). What I've noticed is actually both older plates I have currently are cool with it: they know I'm not going to turn into an LTR or a husband, but they don't care. One is a single mom who just wants to be reminded what it feels like to be fucked good every so often, and the other is a professional woman who doesn't have the time for anything more than the occasi… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Why people give you shit and how you should handle itAnother point to remember is that people giving you shit usually has more to do about them than it does about you (shit tests are an example of an exception--in that case she IS most definitely testing YOU... just handle your shit and either escalate, use humor, dodge or reverse it, and ALWAYS maintain the frame that you are a badass Mo Fo). For example, my female cousin has had pretty shitty luck dating and she loves to flip shit at me when I try to give her honest advice (I know, I know--big m… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/BumbleYou're probably right, but like I said, my pictures are still of me--so they can't be that far off... but in the larger scheme of things it seems to me that worrying about exactly what my pics are, crafting the perfect bio, etc. is a waste of time. I'd rather go about my business and cold approach when I have the opportunity. Some jackass was making fun of me for only 15 approaches in a week--I'd like to do more, but some of us have jobs and kids and other shit we need to do and can't cold appro… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/BumbleI assume you’re European, based on your use of km and other linguistic characteristics? If not my apologies. However, I’ll be specific since people are questioning the legitimacy of my results: I live in Portland OR. I’ll concede that maybe things are different elsewhere... but for me, being able to cold approach is invaluable. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/BumbleOK I got you--that's easier than you think. So, what you need to do is set up a premise for hanging out. Like, even just a simple, "you're fun, we should get a drink/coffee sometime" works. But if you can qualify her--as in, what does she like to do for fun in her free time--then you have a window where you have a REASON to hang out. This makes her: A) not feel slutty, and B) be less likely to flake. For example, I like to ski. So if I find out a girl likes to do that, I have a great reason to g… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/BumbleOK, so one thing to remember is that it's almost like baseball or poker--you're going to go through cold streaks and hot streaks. I watched a video on YouTube recently where James Marshall--arguably one of the best in the world at cold approach--said that for three straight weeks every number he got flaked on him. Don't take it personally--it's not personal. She can't possibly know the depths of who you are and bitches are super flaky anyway. Notice how I haven't replied to any of these trolls w… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Is online dating changing or am I?Online dating, or SOD (swipe/online dating) as I call it is horrible for 95% of men. Unless you have phenomenal pics AND are really good looking, matching with a 7 or better is an utter crapshoot. That’s not only my experience, but the numbers bear it out. A recent study showed daters (read: women) tend to swipe on people 25% more attractive than they are on average. Additionally, meta data shows that 80% of women ignore all but the most attractive 20% of men, and if you’re not in the top 5% it’… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Pay to be a cuck...Here's my fucking question: should all women feel shame because so many of them fuck Chad's while in a relationships, whether LTR or marriage? I simply don't understand how it is that such a huge portion of society excuses blatantly immoral behavior on the part of one sex (women), but then wants to criminalize that behavior by the other (men). The reality is that we're all human and everyone does shitty things--but let's stop pretending women don't do some horrible shit to men. I was an unwittin… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Love your failures.Totally agree. Women flake—and let’s face it: make dumb decisions about men. I just today got rejected by a girl after a cold approach. The beauty is that in my experience at least 1/3 give you a number, and then, even though another half of those flake, eventually you end up with some plates. And then you become less needy and more confident and the rejections and flaking happen less frequently. It’s a virtuous cycle that just takes some time to get going. You’re on the right track. Oh and reme… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | TensionThis is so true. Yesterday I bought a beer at the store and the cashier, HB 7/8 who looks 16, asks me for my ID. So as I’m getting it out I ask her, “how old do you think I am?” And she thinks I’m giving her shit for asking when I was honestly just curious. She gets all flustered and starts protesting and I let it go for awhile before explaining, “I just want you to guess.” She says 30. I’m 37. But after that tension her body language changes entirely and she gives me these goo-goo eyes. I’m sti… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | [Dating Apps] Here is how easy it can be...Reading 48 laws of power and pulling 8’s instead of 5’s. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | [Dating Apps] Here is how easy it can be...If you're truly red pill you shouldn't be on dating apps. Unless you're in the top 5% of good looking guys with the top 5% of photos, you're only going to match with lower SMV women--in my experience, significantly lower. I'm probably like a 7-8 and 95% of my matches were 6's or lower. The few times I did match with a 7 or 8, it was impossible to get her attention, because any woman who's a 7 or better has at least 50 or more matches on her various apps. So if you want the hot chicks, it's at be… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | The "Where are all the good men who will treat me right" shit test.Wow. OK, part of the thing I've been working on for tomorrow goes exactly to this point. I'll just copy and paste the part that's relevant: However, understand this ladies: the guy you want--the "good" high-quality man you correctly say there aren't enough of--has options. I think this is difficult for a lot of women to understand because so many guys have so few options that she can fuck around and play games and do whatever she wants and the guy's still going to be there like a puppy dog waiti… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men?Very interesting. I think we may see something similar happen here in the U.S.--we already have the MGTOW movement, but I also see women doing some really weird shit and putting themselves in a horrible position to find a man. One kind of stupid example is not shaving their legs and dressing like weird fucking hippies in a way that is NOT attractive whatsoever. I live in Portland Oregon and I see this all the time. I'm like: "you actually thinks this looks good?" I guess so? But I also think it'… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | FR: Daygame Session #3: I Have A Boyfriend too!One thing you can do is refer to a joke or a hook you laid in the initial interaction. For example, use your shit test reaction: I have a boyfriend too. Perfect. You could text something like: "My boyfriend just broke up with me lol--can I borrow yours?" or something like that. 1) She's going to remember who you are, and 2) The joke increases her buying temperature and she's more likely to respond. To be perfectly honest, I'm learning this shit too. I've been cold approaching women now for about… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | FR: Daygame Session #3: I Have A Boyfriend too!Don't call them the same day--if that's not what you're doing no worries, but that's how it sounds the way you wrote it. I think next day is usually fine, or two days--actually if dudes have a perspective on that I'd be glad to hear it. But you have to make them wait and doubt and chase at least a little bit. That said a lot of cold approach numbers will flake no matter what you do. The thing to remember is it's the same for anything. On Tinder, even if you're incredibly attractive 9/10 girls ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanI would say the exception is if you are showing the woman herself anger. At times, if she behaves in a way that is unacceptable, there is not other alpha response than to express anger at that behavior. Obviously I'm not saying physical anger--but if a woman pisses me off, I tell her so in a calm, controlled way, then dismiss her. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | The Monetization of LonelinessSwipe and online dating (SOD) is the worst fucking thing in the world for relationships. Unless you're in the top 5% of dudes (good looking + pics), hardly any women are swiping on you. These are the fuckbois women like to complain about so much but take no responsibility for the fact they're creating them. Like: why in the fuck, if you're one of those Chads, would you ever stay in a relationship. It's completely irrational. They can fuck girl after girl after girl with no consequences in the ea… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 01:45 AM |
| 3 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Thank you! The fucking reason most of us are here is to talk about sexual strategy regarding women. We have figured out how to get money and survive--but fucking hot chicks is difficult, no? So that's the point. And also understanding how sexual strategy works aka hypergamy etc. I say this as a fucking blue pilled male who devoted his life to his wife expecting the same devotion. What a fucking joke! None of the vows she took mattered, and as soon as she could, she swung to a higher branch. Unde… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Best responses when she says she has a boyfriendSorry guys I figured there were already posts but I was searching on my phone and it didn’t find anything—my bad. Thanks for the references! | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Redpill Success Story: LTR Breakup to Abundance in 2 Months FlatBadass. Love this shit. Good work my man. And thanks for the inspiration. The guy who says she was getting side dick is probably wrong btw. Because of slut shaming and tradcon society, my guess is that a lot fewer women are getting fucked like we think. There was a study published recently on the sub to this effect. Anyway, whatever. Smart, smart, smart. The longer you keep your frame and remain alpha, the more inevitable it is you will get pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Freely emoting and zombie platesIt certainly can be, which is what I was trying to explain. Like, if I'm going to fuck her (which I did), I have to find a way to re-engage, but the only way to do so is be upset. If you're an alpha, you don't like or tolerate when people flake. Go back to the tribe mentality: what would happen if someone disappoints me if I'm the alpha? If he's a dude, he's going to get his ass kicked. If she's female, then she's not going to get fucked. I basically told her in so many words: I'm not fucking yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Five lies you were told so other people could feel better about themselves."You're not getting into relationships because you're trying to get into a relationship." This line is complete bullshit as you said, and all you have to do is apply it to other situations. No one says "you're trying to hard" when it comes to studying for school, working out, working a job, trying to find a job, etc. If anything in those pursuits, people say, "you're not trying hard enough." I think people like to trot out that line because they don't want to take responsibility for having agenc… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Love and AmbitionYou basically re-explained what I already explained and then tried to make me feel shitty about it. You’re a fucking loser. Lift weights. Read books. Start a business. Find better shit to do with your time than rehash shit that’s already been hashed. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Love and AmbitionI hope this is cool--it's a response I wrote to another post, but it goes along with what Rollo is saying here so well it seems criminal not to repost... So as a guy who recently went through a divorce and am now seeing my friends get divorced, I've noticed something critical. Conventional society tells us to serve the woman--do what she wants, treat her well, take her out, cook for her, etc. And that's all fine and good to an extent, but here's the dynamic I've noticed that is destroying modern… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Machiavellianism- Why you should read The Prince by Niccolò Machiavelli and make it your Bible if you're having a hard time accepting The Red Pill.Another one along this line--and totally agree btw with reading The Prince--is Ender's Game, by Orson Scott Card. Ender is a student, first at a normalish school on Earth but then he's selected to be trained to be an officer in the military for the world govt. aka Battle School. The book is basically about how Ender realizes that getting into fights is not about the initial battle, but about the final outcome. For example--if he beats someone up, but doesn't utterly humiliate them (or kill them)… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Walking away with frame.So as a guy who recently went through a divorce and am now seeing my friends get divorced, I've noticed something critical. Conventional society tells us to serve the woman--do what she wants, treat her well, take her out, cook for her, etc. And that's all fine and good to an extent, but here's the dynamic I've noticed that is destroying modern relationships: Women will push this as far as they can (yes--AWALT): I want a new house, redesign my kitchen, let's build a huge garden, let's put in woo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Physical attractiveness and its effect on reported sexual outcomes in both genders.Yeah, I think that makes sense. I just also wonder to what extent the survey tries to ensure honesty? Wouldn't you also expect too, that just the sheer number of opportunities hot women have to have sex with hot guys is much, much higher than less attractive women, though? And we're also not taking into account Rollo's point about how the female cycle affects desire. But I do see your point. This probably also reflects the need for women to fit in and conform with society, i.e. hot chick can ban… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 07:59 PM |
| 22 | Physical attractiveness and its effect on reported sexual outcomes in both genders.I'm actually inclined to think this is bullshit. My guess is that the more attractive a woman is, the more likely she is to lie about sex, not have it. Slut shaming is a super powerful thing, and the more attractive a woman is, the more she's going to have experienced that. Unless there's a way to control for honesty I'm not aware of? It says reported partners--my guess is with women we're looking at honesty vs. dishonesty in this survey. Because otherwise, the results don't make sense: hotter w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Frame vs. Shame: Sexual Attraction, Part 2This is all good and correct, but something I've become keenly aware of after taking TRP and now finally spinning some plates is passing the shit tests. Women will constantly shit test you and I realize now that I fucked up some good prospects because I didn't react appropriately. I'm no expert, but here are a few things you'll certainly see once you start dealing with women more frequently: The "Wait/Never Mind" test. I personally fucked this up twice recently, but have at least learned from th… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 07:32 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill JourneySo, I guess this is Reddit and I really shouldn't be surprised, but if you're attacking people with comments on this sub, you're wasting your fucking time--that is the opposite of alpha. And it actually reflects badly on the community. Being an asshole for no good reason is the sign of a beta faggot spinning his wheels online instead of lifting, meeting women, and being a man. Fuck off with the negativity. This brother is just sharing his experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Every man must face a huge crash to learn and strive for a better future - a lesson on AWALT, family law, and the hamster.Love it man. I just now have realized my wife left me because of hypergamy--because I had become a schmuck in her eyes and she saw a prospect with whom she could do better. Luckily, life is better now--for me. Thanks to TRP, I'm meeting beautiful women, getting my shit together, and working on things that are important to me. But yeah, AWALT is fucking real and you have to be aware of it. I ran game on this poor beta's girl the other day just to see if I could and afterward I was almost broken f… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Big FishYes. I have to second this. It's crazy. Once you take TRP you can't untake it. You see the world with such clarity it's impossible to ignore. I used to think married women wouldn't generally cheat, but that's clearly not true now that I'm experiencing this view of the world. Thanks Rollo! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Day and night: I took the red pill and it changed my life in 2 weeks.Allow me to give more context. Call me a pickup guy if you want—I definitely use strategies from The Game frequently. Because they work. But I’ve also employed a lot of the other stuff I’ve read from Rollo, City Bachelor, and others. I’m trying to learn and I was just trying to share my experience. I’ve lost 60lbs in the last year, had some shot, got divorced, and held it together. Is that so fucking awful? Here’s what I don’t get: why are y’all so fucking sensitive? It’s so ironic that all the … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 07:46 AM |
| 1 | We (Men) Played ourselves.YES! You're a bad ass Asa. I've had a similar thought recently, but it goes to the political leanings of red pill guys, which is mainly conservative. Anyway, what I respect most about this community is how rational and logical you guys are--willing to experiment, use science and data, understand social dynamics and psychology, and encourage generally good practices, such as lifting, working out, eating healthy, not drinking to excess, reading, and other matters of self improvement. Given that ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Get IOI's, #'s, but then ghost town--what's the deal?Good points. Again thank you. I haven’t had a chance to redeem myself until tonight. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Get IOI's, #'s, but then ghost town--what's the deal?Probably true about the dick—not a great thought, but likely the case. Thank you for the advice—striking is alpha. And I get it: not like rushed and frenetic but confident and smooth, but not wanting to put up with bullshit because better is available. Did this happen to you guys? Where you thought you got it but then it’s crazier every fucking step you go further? My mind is fucking blown right now. Field report coming ASAP. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Get IOI's, #'s, but then ghost town--what's the deal?But dude, thank you for just clearing that up. I think you’re 100% right it’s the kid. These crazy bitches ;) | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Get IOI's, #'s, but then ghost town--what's the deal?I have to say I disagree. Appreciate your perspective, but isn’t the whole point of this shit not to get tied down? In which case why not deceive? I don’t owe anyone information about me that they’re going to use against me—especially if it’s irrational. The reason women might balk at my having a kid is some goddamn notion they have that everything has to look like the Princess fairytale, when that’s not really what they want, and it’s certainly not something I’m going to provide them. And to be… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Get IOI's, #'s, but then ghost town--what's the deal?Interesting. That's kinda what I though. Delete FB? Become unsearchable? I'm not abandoning my son lol, but I'd still like to get laid (long story is: I have, but not by the kinds of girls I'd like to be getting--fucking swipe dating sucks). | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Get IOI's, #'s, but then ghost town--what's the deal?Hmmm... let's see. Me two days after: hey, how's your Tuesday so far? Getting to enjoy this great weather? Her (after waiting a couple hours): Heck yeah (sunshine emoji) Me (after waiting a couple hours): sweet! I'm hitting a patio later on with some friends (beer emoji) Her: (sad face) I'm stuck at work Me (the next day): hey so want to grab some tacos Thursday or Friday (taco emoji) Her: Ghost town. At that point I didn't fuck up like most Beta's but I never heard from her again. Do I text her… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | June 08 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadPositives: I've gotten really good at cold approaching women, flirting, and getting IOI's. I upgraded my blog, ordered copies of my book which I'm trying to get into local book stores, and was able to fast for 48 hours this week--that's the longest I've done so far. I'm using porn less, not masturbating as much, etc., which I've noticed gives me an edge I didn't used to have. Negatives: So even though I've gotten good at talking with women and getting IOI's, I have a hard time number closing. In… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 08:59 PM |
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