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Question For MenCherryPieAlibi/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:48 PM
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DiscussionCherryPieAlibi/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:35 AM
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Honestly? I think it’s a spectrum but I really don’t know. I think many verbalize rhetoric that sounds good but hides their true thoughts. Like when racists hide their racism by saying “I don’t hate ___ people, I just think they should assimilate to American culture!” But even when said person does, they still hold disdain. And there’s others who’ve probably grown up around a very misogynistic narrative and it’s shaped their perception on the world, and that’s truly what they think. And I have t…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/26 05:43 AM
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Well, I’m glad to hear it doesn’t exist where you are. At least not loudly. And yeah I find with a lot of guys with this mentality are deeply insecure and self deluded. They seek out women with a lower self esteem (who are usually the exact kind of women they claim to not like) and will use and abuse them, and then once they’re built up where they want to be the move on quickly. It’s sad. But because they’re horrible romantic partners, they either remain single or don’t have many long term relat…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 11:26 PM
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You’re not wrong. Here are popular things I’ve heard when I was in the redpill, and from my own dad, to backup your points: “An educated/career driven woman is unattractive to a man.” “Women who’ve been to too many places (restaurants, states, countries, etc) are a red flag, probably whores.” “If a woman is a nurse, lawyer, doctor, has a PHD etc, she’s probably a 304. Red flag.” “Women would be happier if they weren’t as educated, and had more time to focus on child bearing and housekeeping.” “W…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 04:03 AM
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I’ve seen a sizeable amount of redpillers argue that women are children and shouldn’t be seen as legal adults, and should essentially be chained up in their homes/kitchens, forced to birth babies. I’ve seen people arguing against all women’s rights, against educating girls and women, and legalizing pedophilia, rape and domestic violence. Seems pretty woman-hatey to me.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 02:33 AM
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I agree. I joined the red pill when I was maybe 20, and I was struggling with religion, feminism, feeling helpless in this fucked up world. And back then it seemed like these super simple, black & white, concrete answers were just the thing I needed to stop my brain’s constant whirring. Then I got sucked in and started believing all of the crazierrrrr shit because it was easier than research. Very thankful to be out, and to not have made a permanent fool of myself like someone like Pearl Davis
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 02:29 AM
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I didn’t like the one dimensional puppet it was turning me into- overly focused on male validation and turning myself into some trophy doll for a potential husband. I didn’t like what I believed about women and the world, with literally no evidence. Honestly, just googling most of the things red pillers believe would make you realize what bullshit it is (such as the belief that women in general find 80% of men unattractive, or that women are essentially forever children, or that we would be happ…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 02:26 AM
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Ahhh that’ll do it. I lived in a small town (less than 11,000 people) for almost a year. It was quiet and nice but everyone knew everyone else, and also everyone’s business. I also noticed that in a lot of small towns, the population is most elderly/older or families. And there was a lack of job opportunities and definitely a lack of diversity in my opinion (ethnic, background, etc). Not saying you need to live smack dab in the middle of a city but it might help to frequently visit somewhere wit…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/26 12:34 AM
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Firstly, I want to say that I commend you and I’m so proud of you for recognizing this pattern and doing your best to escape this way of thinking. I think that you are following the right path, and seem to be decently self aware. Know that you have been groomed to believe these thoughts, and there’s a way to remove them. Honestly, I would seek out a good therapist who you can talk through these thoughts with. It’s a great way to build skills (especially your emotional toolbox), disrupt that ment…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/26 12:29 AM
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When you say most people, what do you mean? Do you live in a small town? Another good way to meet people is social hobbies, community sports, community events
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 02:32 AM
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People need space to grow, and it doesn’t help to kick them when they’re down
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 02:26 AM
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Because you stopped reacting, maybe he thinks you’re accepting it. I’d honestly dump him…unless he actually makes real and tangible attempts to change, it’s not worth your future sanity
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 02:25 AM
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That’s not really how trauma works. Where are you getting that from?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 02:22 AM
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Most of the stats they feed these young boys and men are totally fabricated or taken way out of context. Like the popular “truth” that 80% of women are only choosing 20% of men. But no one bothers to look it up and realize that it was in reference to Tinder, where 75% of the user base is male…meanwhile 52% of American men are married and 49% of women (2023)
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 02:17 AM
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Establish what your values are, decide what you think your ideal long term relationship should look like and decide what values and traits you’d like to have in a partner (honesty, patience, compassion, empathy, wit, trustworthiness, safe, attractive etc). Along with determining your own values, try to become self aware of your own traits and appreciate the positive ones and see where and how you can improve. Once you find a person who you think might be worth pursuing, observe their behavior ov…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 02:03 AM
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His channel is dead, all he gets now is views under 80K composed of who I can only assume are his most loyal supporters who won’t listen to reason no matter how blatant it is
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 01:52 AM
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He needs to be around normal people. Get involved in some kind of social hobby or sport. You say this kind of stuff around normal guys and they’ll look at you like you’re mentally ill
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 01:49 AM
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More than half of all men in America are married. But it is harder to meet someone when you aren’t involved in spaces that have lots opportunity to meet new people or develop meaningful friendships/connections
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 01:46 AM
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Hey so! I hope this helps but apparently there’s an actual study that is linked to this “80/20” rule. The study was actually conducted on Tinder, not real life. Yes, women only selected about 20% of male users. HOWEVER, about 75% of Tinder users are male so you could see why those numbers seem so drastic. There just are too many men. And women have explained why we don’t like to use Tinder. In actuality, 49% of American women are married, and 52% of American men as of 2023. Personally I only use…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 01:41 AM
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usually you’re not going to hang out with women 1 on 1 platonically. Of course I’m not saying it’s impossible, just improbable. I find that lots of guys end up developing feelings or expect certain things to come out of what was supposed to be a friendship. Idk why you do for a living, but on the job, I would lean into those friendships. Just having normal conversations, getting to know them, listening and understanding. Maybe eventually you can ask more questions, just to begin to have a real w…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 01:37 AM
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Well yes of course, again we’re human beings
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 12:29 AM
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Absolutely not. We are human beings and deserve to choose our own heaven or hell. (I stole that line from Betty Friedman’s “the feminine mystique”)
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 07:24 PM
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I was redpilled by a male cousin actually when I was about 20-21, I was lost and directionless, also feeling like whatever I’d been doing was no longer working. And had just got out of a 2yr relationship. I originally joined thinking that feminism had been a lie, and we were being tricked about what men wanted from us and how to give them that. Shamefully, my thinking devolved even more to thinking that it might actually be better if women didn’t have rights— but I didn’t dwell on that too much.…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 07:19 PM
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If you read my comment, I provided you with numbers and location. Like i said, American men account for over 90% of all violent crime and sex crimes…in America. So yes, I can say that women are being persecuted more than they are persecuting. And on the other hand, men still face more violent crime than women BUT at the hand of other men
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 05:55 PM
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Also considering it had only been 2 months, that’s not even a full talking stage
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 05:28 PM
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Therapy, and getting out into the world. Learn to make connections. It’s harder as an adult to develop social skills but not impossible. A good therapist will be your best friend. Also, get used to rejection (in any form not just romantic). Look up rejection therapy, this can take away a lot of the shame and anxiety
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 05:26 PM
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A litany of these but mostly the people that I once looked to for answers becoming more and more disgusting, violent and heartless in their speech. I remember seeing just pearly things speaking on a grieving mother who was 3 WEEKS postpartum and her boyfriend/husband abandoned her because she asked for more help with the baby and around the house. Pearl immediately said the woman was hysterical and probably pushed him away because she was nagging and not “putting out”. Mind you the baby still ha…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 05:18 PM
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I’d appreciate it if you’d read my comment in full, and try to understand it? I see where you’re coming from. It’s true that there are women who have done these things. But is the rate at which it happens not also important? Men account for 90% of all violent crime, and 92-99% of all sexual crimes just in America. So yes there are some women out here doing this, but do you leave your house in fear that a woman may make it your last day on earth? Also what is your point in saying so? Don’t you th…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 05:11 PM
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Naming the “bad experience” is important here. Never would I think that men don’t have bad experiences with women, as a former red pill I’ve seen thousands of men share their gripes in length. Usually men describe problems with infidelity, rejection, “nagging”, lack of sex, using their children as a bargaining chip, gold digging, divorce. Those kinds of things. But usually when women discuss our bad experiences with men, it involves rape, child sexual assault, forced incest, molestation, being a…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 05:06 PM
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Why do you think that that’s what I’m saying? Also, can you describe “acting bad” here please? With example
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 04:58 PM
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Sorry, but what did you mean by “you can’t act like men are acting without cause”? In this context, what are their actions?
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 04:55 PM
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Yes. I hate when it’s mentioned that they aren’t exactly telling women what they should do, but in the same breath that’s exactly what they want. I too often hear that “feminism has gone too far” or “women are too educated and free” and that the solution is obviously to put women back in the kitchen
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 04:54 PM
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Through the army, we kinda just clicked. Almost 2yrs later and we have a cozy apartment and two sweet cats
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 04:53 PM
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I’m just telling you where this perceived online misandry usually comes from. Do you think it comes from thin air? When I think of incels, I don’t choose to believe they hate women or set out to commit mass shooting for “no reason”. Whether we agree with their reasoning or not is a totally separate matter I mean, if you actually look into what these women are saying you’ll see what I mean.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 04:51 PM
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Stealing this from “The Canadian Dating Coach”: Why body count doesn’t matter— If a man/woman is seeking a long term relationship they will most likely be searching for a partner with a list of trait/values/behaviors (honesty, respect, work ethic, compassion, understanding, attractive, accountable, diligent, generous, funny, patient, etc etc), and they will need to observe that person’s behavior over time to determine whether or not they are who you want to spend your life with. Ask yourself, ca…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 02:54 AM
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True, it’s extremely embarrassing and damning
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 02:46 AM
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Ex red pill woman here, got married to my loving husband (who sees me as a full human being worthy of respect and dignity) this past October after dating for 18 months :)
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 02:45 AM
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Be a virgin, but sleep with me as soon as I want you to. Focus only on marriage and motherhood, but you can’t expect a man to actually marry you. I think that they don’t care that all these rules are obviously arbitrary, they just want women to go back to having no other purpose or way of survival that doesn’t come through a man
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 02:44 AM
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I don’t think they actually think about anything, they don’t sit and ponder on these ideals that they hold or on this new “information” they’re given. It’s easier not to. I say as being formerly redpilled. It’s nothing but extreme hypocrisy. “Women should be virginal and pure if they want to hold value, but if she makes you wait for sex then she doesn’t really like you and you’re wasting your time!” So how do women stay virgins and also give sex to every man they date…? “Women should get married…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 02:37 AM
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Therapy is your best friend. Find a good therapist, and don’t be afraid to “break up” with inattentive, dismissive etc therapists . Be willing to do the homework
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 02:28 AM
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And I’d also add that usually it comes from anger, trauma and frustration. Like how hatred for white people was very high during and post chattel slavery, during the decentralization of Africa and South America, and the genocide of native Americans. We can say that it’s wrong to hate people, but when you’re actively being hurt by said people it becomes easy to hold resentment. Most women have had a plethora of negative experiences with men and even had crimes committed against us, and majority d…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 02:25 AM
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If you believe or experience this, you either have a very off putting personality or are far below average in looks. Because no way more than half of average men (in looks and performance) are married/in long term relationships are getting along fine but YOU are having issues. Maybe you’re just the problem… If a woman is 25+ and never had a boyfriend or any guy be interested in her, the world assumes that she has some major flaw that’s driving men away. But when it’s a man in the same boat, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:04 PM
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And you are just another exhibit of why men (and women) are so sexually unfulfilled. We tell you what’s wrong and you reject our experiences and write them off as something vaguely to do with money. Yes, just explain away all shortcomings by saying “it’s not how she explained, she’s just a gold digger”. Considering most men are married and also most men make less than $70k (in America), you’d think you guys would stop chalking everything up to finances
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:17 AM
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No one is pretending otherwise, I’m saying those are internet people. You go outside no one talks about that. Most ppl don’t care that much. And if you meet the random real life freak who’s spouting this “all men are trash/all women are whores” garbage and they’re dead serious, just run away. We spend all lot of time online so it starts to feel like real life. It’s not. I spend my days talking with strangers from all over America (and other countries), and so far I’ve really only met one woman w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:21 AM
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I think for a lot of women we would prefer to get off but considering we rarely do, we settle. Even if the sex is pretty good, she probably didn’t get off. And that’s also a symptom of why lots of women become disinterested in sex because sometimes it’s like “do I really wanna do all that to not even cum?” Whereas on the other foot, most men cum every time. In fact, the sex pretty much stops when he orgasms. Not always, but that’s typical. Sometimes you just wanna let go and have an enthralling …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:15 AM
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I don’t think you understood my comment. You not being able to get laid in 2024 isn’t comparable to the centuries where women have been repressed sexually and sheltered from all self pleasure. And also adding how most men on this sub claim they want virgins who barely know what sex is, while simultaneously being confused as to why she’s bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:11 AM
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This is a valid response. It makes sense why they care so much. In real life, I haven’t really met a man who cares that much about body count unless she’s like a terrible person and it’s obvious she’s a raging whore. And I don’t mean someone who enjoys sex, like someone who likes to homie hop, steal husbands/boyfriends, and is just generally loose/careless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:08 AM
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I can agree. I just like debating, it’s fun to me. But I do see a lot of people on here, mostly other men, who act like humans are truly just programmable bots
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:05 AM
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As a woman myself, I’d prefer if he was honest. I know some women can’t handle it or will write you off as an asshole. But literally so what? I’ve told guys that I didn’t want to see them anymore because they were terrible in bed. He threatened me, cursed me out. I do not care. It’s one thing if you do care, but I can assure you they will get over it. And if anything, they’re the weirdos too for not respecting your boundary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:19 PM
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There’s a smaller percentage of women who straight up can’t, VS other women who can but you gotta work for it. For many women, and myself, we’ve experienced partners who don’t know how to do foreplay- and often times the arousal is the key to orgasm. If I took two sexual encounters with the same man, but only one where I was actually aroused: I probably wouldn’t achieve during the former, and would most likely orgasm multiple times on the latter, and quickly. And 9/10 he’s orgasming just as quic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:12 PM
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Then it becomes an individual problem. That man would just have to talk with his partner and try to find common ground. And if their intimacy is so bad, then they can decide if it’s worth it to just end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:08 PM
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Those are internet people…people who don’t blast their sexual exploits online don’t normally face backlash from trolls?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:06 PM
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You shouldn’t feel forced to sleep with people based on how whoever you tell will react. It’s not their body, fuck em. But also, you can’t complain about being forced to sleep with nasty women and then say “but my nut tho” I’m sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:05 PM
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This is the one! Some guys want a world of “innocent virgins” but then are confused when a world that can enforce that breeds sexually inept women…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:03 PM
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Have you seen some of the men on this sub who complain that women aren’t pure virgins? Do you really think women have had a long history of having judgment-free sexual experience and education? We just got that shit fr 😂 of course there are still women who don’t know what they like or how to do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:02 PM
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Well, to be fair! That’s what we’ve been taught and shown by men up until now. This is a great question posed, because usually when the man orgasms the sex stops…and men always say they’re just tryna get their nut. And many get bored by foreplay! So I would assume they don’t care the same way as women about all the bells and whistles. But I would still like to know more about what men find “mind blowing” in bed. I always thought it was just a good BJ and an enthusiastic response but maybe it’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:58 PM
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This is a great question. I disagree that the focus is the female orgasm considering we hardly reach that, but men orgasm over 80% of the time. But I’m sure we’ve all had an unsatisfactory masturbation session…. Just because a guy releases doesn’t necessarily mean it was “good”. I’ve never thought of it like that or had to. I’d assume you mean making it more fun, or “wild”? I think it should definitely be something talked about more among couples. The conversation alone could be decent foreplay …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:54 PM
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Well to be fair, roe getting overturned is a good thing for the women who plan to have abortions since it now can’t be outright banned federally. It’s up to the states. And there’s always going to be states that allow it. Only 14 states have bans past 6 weeks so that’s good if it’s something that worries you. And you’re also right about that. Granted we have constitutional protections that prevent tyranny. But obviously America is a business and their profits matter most to them. But in the cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:23 PM
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In terms of what? They don’t have all their rights either?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:21 PM
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That’s fair lol. Most aren’t gonna use that crude of language. But it’s evident for the few when genuinely believe that women are only good for sex, cleaning and food. I don’t think most (American/UK) men don’t think that way. But I’ve definitely heard it enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:48 PM
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And don’t forget that if you are a friendly nice woman, you’ll be seen as a whore and it opens the gates for men to lie on their dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:24 PM
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Everyone has their version of hard, but a woman who’s seen as ugly? Oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:23 PM
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Last time I was kind, friendly and cordial with a male coworker he all but proposed to me in the worst way. Sometimes, it’s too much of a risk to be nice to men outside of your circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:21 PM
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Right. Why should I give two shits about a stranger?? It’s like this guy wants all women to just be mothers/pseudo wives to men we don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:19 PM
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I don’t understand. Are we supposed to treat random men like they’re special? If he isn’t my husband, dad, grandpa or friend- idgaf about some stranger. And the same applies to women I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:17 PM
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Nice, I’m a 68w (pfc). Officer life must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:07 PM
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Do you think these religious traditions were started by women…? Hate to say that this is a man v woman argument, but both of these issues are perpetuated by dudes. And is this a real problem?? I’ve genuinely never heard anyone be upset this outside of Reddit. Most guys I’ve spoke to are glad to be cut, while uncut guys usually either complain or say it’s not as sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:29 PM
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I don’t give a single f about political correctness to be honest. If it’s real, it’s real. In my short military career, I would say I’ve met maybe 5 women who I believe would be just as level headed and composed as men on the battle field. Am I one of those women? No. I won’t lie. Which is why I entered a support role. Most of the women are in support roles I think. But the females who did join infantry or artillery are a different breed for the most part. But also so many of them are so tiny an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:24 PM
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Can you elaborate on that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:10 PM
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Play so you’d rather the women stay and become rape fodder or taken as POWs for what? What exactly does that achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:10 PM
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Heyyy I replied to you already 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:07 PM
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No, and it’s extremely tragic. I think their government is just sending men to their deaths in a fruitless war. It’s sick, really. But if they’re already going to be dealing with decreased male population, do you really think it’s smart to send out the people who can make babies too? I know for a fact less of the women would come back alive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:06 PM
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Ha!!! That’s funny that you think it’s just pulling the trigger😭 I genuinely wish it was, I won’t lie. And it’s not an excuse, it’s just what I see in my line of work. My battalion has 337 soldiers, maybe 100 of us are women. That’s being generous, it’s probably closer to 60. Most of us (when I look around) are 5”0-5”5 and we have to be less than about 140lbs (per regulations). Most of these women walking around are 110-125lbs. So you already know if her weapon jams or she’s disarmed, it’s over.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:04 PM
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Oooooh lmao I read your post wrong, but that’s actually pretty cool to know. The term is from an episode of IASIP. Have you watched it? It’s a great show
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:56 PM
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How is that what you got from that? I was referring to you saying you’ve never seen a woman say “bangmaid”. In not recanting my statements 😂 I’m just referencing the show I got the term from
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:55 PM
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Thats somewhat a relief. Insane though that we should even expect a country to force orphanhood on children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:53 PM
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You guys pull out all these articles and BS, and refuse to listen to what women actually want. But for some reason you guys still think it’s the 666? No buddy. Maybe you just suck. Enjoy solitude I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:52 PM
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It was oversimplified, on purpose. I know it can be deeper than that- but from how most people air their grievances, that’s what it seems to boil down to. And no, 92.8% of the world is not in the same horrible conditions as Saudi Arabia or Iran. In Many countries, women are lucky enough to live a life with rights resembling the 1960s-early 2000s. American women are the most free in the world, but so are our men. And with a lot of their laws being newly enacted, you can imagine there’s still disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:49 PM
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Why would you assume I don’t care about those kids simply because we’re talking about women in third worlds…? Also imagine comparing circumcision to having your clitoris cut off. Most men are glad they were circumcised, and even more are insecure because they weren’t. Would you really rather have it cut when you’re 18?? Why?? No woman in Africa is happy right now with her genitalia actually mutilated. You may not fully understand what a clitoris is but it’s basically the same as a tiny penis hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:43 PM
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Im lucky enough to not experience this and so are many other women. But why do some men think they’re the only ones with complaints? There’s more Peter Griffins’ for husbands walking around than you think. And obviously having children is a big deal and if anyone is gonna be excited for it it’s going to be the woman. But there are so many women who after having a baby feel almost abandoned by their husband. Because he’s tired, he can’t deal with the crying, he’s really gotta go drinking with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:39 PM
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Right? What’s your MOS if you don’t mind me asking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:33 PM
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As a woman in the service, I know I’m a hypocrite, in an active combat situation I think maybe less than 10% will actually be useful. The ones on the medical side, the ones behind the supply and logistics. But for all the combat arms fields. I don’t know. With most of us dying quickly, becoming rape fodder or getting our platoon mates killed. On paper it sounds more fair. But I will say, considering only 7.18% of the entire world has full legal protections for women, Ukraine is lucky to be in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:31 PM
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I didn’t know that. I knew women weren’t subject to the draft, but I guess that makes sense? Women in war are usually just rape fodder. Okay so do you believe that women have just as much of a fighting chance against men as other men do? Also it would at least be fair if single fathers were able to stay. But it’s like that in the US; if you are a single parent (male or female) you either sign your rights over to someone else temporarily or get discharged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:26 PM
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They definitely care. And any sensible man who cares about his family would want them to flee the war torn country. Are they supposed to wait to be bombed, taken prisoner and worse? Be for real. If you’re a wife and your husband gets drafted, are you gonna look at your kids and say “yeah let’s stay here while planes fly overhead”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:05 PM
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And why do we want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:04 PM
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It might be unfair but let’s be real. If one military power on the frontlines has a bunch of women who just got drafted and probably never even been in a fight before while the other is mostly men, is that even a fair fight? It’s like it’s not about fairness, it’s about what makes sense what’s right. I’m a woman in the service myself and while I do my job to the best of my abilities (I’m medical), I know if I got put on the front lines and was in a fight against a man I’d fcking lose. And that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:02 PM
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Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:59 PM
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Sounds like a death sentence for many women and children. Women didn’t flee with their families because they hate they’re husbands, I can assure you. And I’m sure any man would want his woman and children to get out of a war torn country ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:59 PM
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When I told him I was getting married the first things he said was how it’s good I’m getting married young before Im old and used up 😂 tbh I just feel bad for the guy. The woman he’s with now, he insists on paying all the bills….shes a 40yo single mom of 3. Pills are stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:47 PM
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I agree. But historically, humans are really bad at empathy and moderation. So are we really surprised that there’s still only extremes for people online
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:10 AM
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Majority of this isn’t even about sex which feels weird. But that’s really dependent. I feel like you took that one kind of woman and ran with it. Telling men what to do in bed isn’t as easy as you seem to think. Maybe you actually listen and care, but lots don’t. I’ve heard: “Well maybe I’m just bad at sex then…” “We don’t have to do it anymore then if you don’t like it.” “But that’s boring.” “does 2 minutes of lazy and sloppy cunnilingus then going for PIV” All in response to politely being as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:04 AM
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Which is my point, honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:00 AM
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Ayo I just saw your banner, what a coincidence. Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:59 AM
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Taking a 20mins to wash the dishes your mom made for dinner, or an hour to vacuum and do laundry on Sunday beats working 40+ hrs a week and having to pay medical bills
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:58 AM
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Teen life is harder simply for the social aspect. No one gets bullied or has peer pressure like they did as a teen. But adult life comes with taxes, rent, rough choices, mortgage, credit, a full time job, life insurance, actually seeing the medical bills, children, spouses, being profitable etc. I hated high school. But if it wasn’t for the social cruelty, I’d take HS over adulthood any day. Young enough to be barely responsible but old enough that I have free will. Hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:56 AM
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I know, mine is 26 lol. But being close to 30 doesn’t mean anything. There are 40yr olds who still think it’s appropriate to fight in the street. Pushing 30 doesn’t mean rational or mature
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:53 AM
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Maybe the women you’re seeking out. Sometimes I think these issues can be mitigated. You know what they say, you are what you attract
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:50 AM
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Considering so many girls I used to know, and my self, would watch those blow job and riding tutorials 😭😭 and considering men achieve orgasm over 85% of the time (on average) compared to straight women only achieving 61% of the time….i’d risk it and say we’re doing pretty good!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:49 AM
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Well yeah obviously I wish you were right? And it truly depends on the man. My husband listens to me. But I’ve had exes who won’t listen, even had one try to play victim on me and threaten to deny my sexually instead of just using foreplay. I’ve also had a couple girlfriends share similar experiences. Not to mention all the anecdotes you can read online from women. Not every man is as enthusiastic to please as you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:47 AM
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Oooh you’re probably right. Big dick guys should take notes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:45 AM
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Matter fact, you’re probably right. But it happens! My dad is the most IRL red pill person I know (like, scarily so) but he still manages to find women who will take his cheating and abuse for at least a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:44 AM
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I don’t think misogyny or misandry are right or should be normalized. But I understand it. Most women’s qualms with men is that they feel unheard, unknown and abused. Most men’s qualms is that they aren’t “getting” sex or women aren’t acting in a way that is attractive to them. It seems pretty disproportionate. Especially when in the entire world, there’s less than 100 countries that women are totally free in the same way American women are. This is just the general consensus I get from the onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:21 AM
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Yeah, 67% of American men are married, and even college aged men are having sex 1.8x more than college aged women. Saying that 90%+ of men are undesirable to women is so laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:17 AM
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Not true based on what’s actually happening. They’re getting women who can barely speak English, whenever they show off the woman online it’s because she’s cooking or cleaning. OR it’s about how pretty and available for sex she is. They tell other men to not come to the states so their woman will have less rights and opportunities to run away. Lots of these countries are even having issues with “passport bros” because some of them come over and abuse those women. My uncle is a passport bro, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:15 AM
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While many countries are not as extreme as the cultures who cut off little girl’s genitalia or prevent women from getting education, you said it yourself. The first world has the most free women. While these other developing countries are starting to give women rights on paper, it doesn’t mean they actually experience all this freedom in reality. It’s like when women first had the right to vote in 1910. Or in the 1960-1970s when they were legalizing homeownership and bank accounts for women, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:09 AM
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It sounds like women aren’t lying about their preferences but rather you just don’t have those things. And instead of developing a better personality and ability to be a friend, you say “see I knew it was all about the 666!” Meanwhile all the average men with great personalities you said can’t get women are getting laid left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:06 AM
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This is so fuckin funny. The women they’re referring to have the least amount of rights but have the right to have the most hatred for men. But if they got rights tomorrow, and decided to use them freely, they’d be just as dirty and worthless as all us western women. I don’t hate men, but this sub makes me understand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:03 AM
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Do you really think that women who had their clitoris cut off before age 12 or are beaten for showing their hair wouldn’t have hatred for men once they’re liberated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:02 AM
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But in practice, Indian women still experience second class treatment. They may be getting more rights on paper but this is still all extremely new.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:01 AM
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And American men are the pinnacle of stoicism, loyalty and humility…? Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:59 AM
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I don’t think using women who aren’t allowed to speak, have their own wants or opinions, get education, have clitorises, leave home without a man etc is a good way to prove this point. Of course if you take women who’ve been beaten, abused (physically and sexually) by men their entire life and give them freedom and basic human rights, they’re going to become free and full of hatred for men. For most of human history, women have been second class citizens. The present day USA is pretty much the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:57 AM
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I think they did have a space, but those got overrun with unhinged incels and black pillers. And they kinda made everyone saying anything similar look bad. Reddit, 4chan, kik and rumble- even YouTube. Seem to be outlets for men still. Also nothing wrong with venting to your friends too. Even your dad, uncles. A therapist. Get some advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:51 AM
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I didn’t mean to reply to you at all, this is embarrassing lol. I was looking at a whole different comment when I was typing that’s my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:50 AM
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I’ve never really heard that. The mindset I see is always “I’m not doing wifey shit for a boyfriend” or “if he wants me to play housewife he better play husband”. As in, if he expects me to cook and clean all the time then he better do his stereotypical male part. The woman who’s saying “I want to lay here and do nothing while he showers me like a queen” is either being facetious or is actually unhinged, not to be taken serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:46 AM
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Equality doesn’t equal congruency. Women just wanted to stop being second class citizens. Which we got fully by 1990-2005. There’s something called moderation. Wanting women to have no rights in order for you to be a “traditional man” is no different than 5th wave feminists who want (idk what they want, insert something insane).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:44 AM
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I don’t know who’s actually having this issue. Most women I know somewhat split bills, or their man wants to pay. I legit only hear this being an issue if the man doesn’t want to wear the pants. Who’s ever even fully 50/50? Typically, one person makes more money and it’s usually the man. I think you can want to have human rights while also wearing the skirt. There’s like 6 waves of feminism, and lots of people checked out after 3. I don’t even know what they want right now, but I’m pretty sure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:42 AM
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I don’t think it’s that perplexing. Yes I want my man to wear the pants while I wear the skirt, and I prefer having basic human rights? You guys forget there’s different waves of feminism. Most of us are just happy that we have the ability to own a bank account, a home, have a job, and not be marriage/sex fodder. The ones with sense don’t care about whatever the movement is about now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:36 AM
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You can be a feminist without being of the same modern mindset of a toxic radfem who’s mostly just a hypocrite. I wouldn’t consider myself a feminist today, but yeah I like having human rights. And personally, I’ve only seen men who don’t want to wear the pants share this qualm. My husband pays for lots of things even though I’m recognized as an equal citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:34 AM
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Is this not what everyone’s already doing? Thought this was just common sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:29 AM
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Well I wouldn’t necessarily say that. Yes you’re right but also wrong. We don’t have issues with the maintaining a convo as much (unless we don’t click, then me personally I’ll become nonverbal), but autistic women are more vulnerable to relational abuse. Autistic men have an issue getting in the door while autistic women experience getting trapped inside more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:25 AM
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Hey don’t feel bad. ADHD/ASD woman here and it’s just hard. Im surprised I even was able to get married, but I’m still working on earning friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:22 AM
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This would be great if people weren’t liars. I can see a lot of disgruntled exes slandering a past lover
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:22 AM
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Purple pill woman I’d say I’m pretty mixed on this. I always take pride in my appearance; it’s how I was raised. I rarely go out looking disheveled unless it’s one of those days, and I always regret it. I wouldn’t say that I was doing it for men, but I was taught that the world only treats you as well as you treat yourself. You never know who you’re gonna see, so always look your best. Or at least presentable. I’m married now and still adhere to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:19 AM
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But I thought men hated makeup, implants, surgery, skin and bones, etc? I mean that’s what I hear. But women keep dressing how they want and getting wifed up so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:15 AM
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I don’t hate men and I like to dress from the eras of 1940-1970. Most men don’t find it hot lol. I don’t really understand this question fully though. How would women look? Are we supposed to become blank slates? I feel like if men find you attractive, it doesn’t mean you’re adhering to their standards. I mean, all the the beauty trends men say they hate (lashes, long nails, long weave, BBLs, fake boobs), those women are still getting into relationships and marriages soooooo? I think most women …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:11 AM
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I’d probably worry about all the actually pressing issues rather than whatever the fuck this is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:07 AM
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I wouldn’t say above average. Average and above is more accurate. Even medium ugly. To be honest, a man who’s like “too hot” is a turn off, ironically enough. But yeah considering most people are average, most average women are with average men. Average isn’t a bad thing. Personally, I find at least 65% of men to be attractive (and like 80% of women).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:05 AM
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He’ll get noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:03 AM
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I thought it was just me lol. If I see a man who’s unreasonably attractive and is very arrogant, all that’s going through my head is “fck boy, wandering eye, doesn’t know shit, run away, cheater”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:02 AM
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The only personality traits that are dealbreakers for me are arrogance, over confidence and extreme pessimism. Shy men are adorable, and in my experience unintentionally very sexy. I like a man who doesn’t flaunt himself and doesn’t seem “well traveled”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:01 AM
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Kinda implied it tho? Your question is basically from a pov that women are useless in relationships, but get the world. And “the world” was gifts and dates
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:58 AM
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Yeah but you’re a fully thinking adult. I’ve almost never encountered a hard core red pill/radfeminist in real life that I would consider dating. And if I did, I’d simply dismiss them. I promise you, ppl say a lot of BS online and the weird ones who say all this stuff are not in the gym or a coffee shop hoping to be approached by her potential partner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:53 AM
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Hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:51 AM
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My dad kinda says the same. Unfortunately he’s regressed to scary levels of red pill and has regressed in his thinking. But when he was raising me he would always cook and was very clean and neat and took pride in it. Which I’m glad for because while I can accept a man who doesn’t cook that often, I can’t accept a dirty/messy man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:51 AM
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Very relatable. Mine is the same way, expect I do it back. No one is safe to bend over lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:49 AM
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Honestly a weird question. Understandable if you’ve never had a good relationship though. My husband and I have a good friendship. We have a lot in common, and generally the same sense of humor. He’s trying to teach me WOW and MTG, and I’m trying to remain enthused (I’m bad at math ). We like to cook together, but I think he benefits because I cook more. And I do more of the chores. Also go “half” on dates. It’s a mixed bag of 50/50, 60/40, and 70/30. We’re both chill homebodies, so never have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:46 AM
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If only 1% of men knew about taxes and what not, I feel like more of you would be homeless or in prison 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:41 AM
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Well you should def fix that. I’m 23 and just filed my taxes for the first time this year. I’m still learning how it all works so I get you. But there’s tons of YouTube videos out there where you can get these answers easily. Hell, use chatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:40 AM
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My husband is frugal, and smart with his money. He makes more money than me even though we’re in the same field because he has 2yrs on me. These are important values to me because I don’t want to worry down the line about eviction, debt or bankruptcy. On dates we generally split it. We’re in a position where we can’t use our car so a date typically looks like: I buy the movie tickets, he buys the dinner, and we split the Ubers or one of us buys the Ubers. And it usually gets mixed up. Sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:39 AM
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I just like it’s always sunny in Philadelphia. It’s a good show, Joe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:58 AM
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I know. I guess for some it’s really hard to be empathetic to others plight but it’s perplexing how they still expect all the empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:18 AM
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This feels like very teen who talks about how hard their life is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:30 AM
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Considering a lot of red pillers preaches how women should be more understanding to men and give them a break, you’d think they’d give women a break after transforming their body to have a baby. It’s like “compassion for me and none for thee”. And I don’t even wanna hear anyone get upset here about shaming language when i constantly see comments on here about how women are either bang maids or soulless whores lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:29 AM
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Well if it was that easy, the majority of women wouldn’t still be orgasm-less lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:40 AM
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Well you were talking about how gross you found penises. I didn’t understand why you as a guy would be worried about dicks if you weren’t gay, and you wouldn’t find them gross unless you weren’t a big fan of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:59 PM
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In over 62% of households, couples split the bills…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:37 PM
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You should finish reading that study. And also date better women. I’d say my marriage is technically more “traditional”; I do more of the house chores and I cook more. But when we go on dates and what not we pay about an equal amount. And bills are split, with him pay a bit more because he makes more. The way our career tracks are going, I’ll most likely be making more money than him. And no I’m not going to divorce him because I got a raise wth 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:37 PM
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We all suffer until death…? Who, how many and from where? Where is your proof. And you’re telling me that Muslim women, the women who are not allowed to speak amongst themselves, sing, dance, drive, work, leave home without a man, enjoy a sexless childhood etc, are not oppressed? You know lady, I used to think like you too over a year ago. I’ve lost all respect and no care to attempt to help you understand now that I know you’re a woman. Just pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:28 PM
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Okay well then have your potential partner get tested before you have sex. Considering all the judgement you were throwing down earlier, I would assume you don’t engage in hookups or one night stands (which is cool, I don’t think it’s all that great for people anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:24 PM
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Disingenuous people exist, and in high quantities. I envy that you’ve only have genuine people around you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:17 PM
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So then don’t meet people online? Seems like a real simple solution lol if you’re personally convinced you’re gonna get it. Ive only met up with someone from a dating app once and it turned into a 2yr relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:15 PM
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Yeah that is on those women. Maybe some don’t feel like they have time to teach a guy how to have sex. It can be exhausting honestly and some women would just rather not. On the other hand, she might not have the language and/or experience to effectively communicate about sex. I know this was a learning curve for me, one I’m still on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:07 PM
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It is hard making friends and connections with people. I’m sorry that you struggle with that. I have issues with it too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:03 PM
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If you have hip dips, or generally a smaller frame you’re not gonna grow these wide birthing hips. No matter how many hip abductors you do and potatoes you eat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:56 PM
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That peace of mind can simply be had by mutually getting tested…we do live in the 21st century
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:52 PM
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Yeah I wouldn’t pin this insane thinking on all men. Most men really don’t care if it’s not a problem. Who outside of a high school teenager is out here asking “so what’s your body count?” On a first date? Seriously, what in the YouTube street interviews are we doing? Just be normal. As if you’d even be able to tell that a woman has had however many experiences you think is too much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:51 PM
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Grow up. Idk how old you are but after any age it’s really weird to fixate so much on purity and innocence. We are not children. And if men are so concerned and appalled that women enjoy sex, maybe you yourselves can become abstinent so we have no one to have sex with. If you’re so worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:47 PM
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So are you asexual but attracted to men? Most people enjoy sex, some more than others. If you personally don’t enjoy penis that’s okay. But lots of people do!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:44 PM
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Is that why you racked up a high body count? Or did you just wanna have fun. What the hell kinda question 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:42 PM
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Well in this instance, he’s not asking genuinely. It reads more like “I don’t want to try to understand, just tell me exactly what to do so i can go auto pilot”. And in my experience, they’ll try and do what ever it is for a short time only to say “well this is no fun”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:40 PM
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Going to the gym so we can last longer in bed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:35 PM
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Yeah you pretty much got all of it lol. The worse is definitely feeling you have to constantly be performing for them; your pleasure is never the goal. Especially if he’s not getting mutual pleasure from it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:29 PM
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This is the one. They don’t expect you to complain during a blow job, but God forbid you ask for even 10 minutes of sensual touch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:27 PM
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Well that’s not at all what I’m suggesting. But during those times you’ve had sexual encounters (no matter how far they went), you should reflect on them. And when you have any in the future, remember to be vocal and ask questions. Also there’s tons of videos online of women explaining how the female body works. And if you really want to, there are actually educational pornos out there. I’ve watched a few where it is legitimately porn but she’s walking you through it and being…thorough Also, thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:23 PM
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Wider hips? And do you suggest we grow out bones, doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:09 PM
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Same. If you like rougher sex, average guys win
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:53 AM
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Foreplay is oh so important. She honestly should be leaking before there’s any insertion. It’ll play out better for both of you, and make the orgasm easier to get to especially for her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:42 AM
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I notice that when a lot of women give him, the goal is orgasm for him. But when the role is reversed, it feels like either “make her physically wet so I can start” or “here’s my obligatory 88 seconds of unenthused petting”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:39 AM
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In terms of sex, having productive experiences and learning the right info definitely can make you better at it. If the person you’re sleeping with is telling and showing you how to please them, and you’re still bad at it…idk at that point. I don’t want to say they weren’t really trying hard but I don’t see how hard it is to follow directions then learn from them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:37 AM
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Yeah I think that mindset is too common. Especially because of porn and sexualized advertisements. Whenever a woman is portrayed being in orgasmic bliss, it’s not her bliss she’s experiencing. It’s his
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:34 AM
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This is very true. I also found that men with normal sized penises tend to care more about pleasing you. Maybe because of societal reasons? Big dick dudes think that because they have one they’ll be a hit in the bedroom. But most women don’t wanna deal with all the pain and risk that comes with it in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:32 AM
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Well considering the female orgasm wasn’t even considered, or was considered a myth for a very long time, and we figured it out…i think you guys can too. I mean, there’s so many resources out there. Your own sexual experiences. Idk why it’s so hard to learn. I know it’s not as easy as dealing with a penis but female pleasure isn’t as confusing as you think it is. Just stop thinking like dudes when you’re asking yourself what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:30 AM
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This. Also as I get older I notice that how good sex is can really depend on where you are in your cycle. Way easier to orgasm and have crazy pleasure near ovulation, meanwhile during my luteal phase I don’t even wanna think about a penis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:25 AM
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This is from my personal experience and from women I know. Typically have trouble finding the clit when they try to finger you or eat you out. They rub next to it, never actually on it. Or worse they find it but mash it hard and make you feel like you’re pissing with a UTI. Even worse, because they don’t know how to touch it they lift the hood and touch the bare clit which ofc feels like being stabbed. Foreplay. Some men don’t understand the concept. Others won’t even attempt to engage in forepl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:11 AM
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Depends on your personality and the kind of personality you like in others. In my opinion, long term successful relationships that end in marriage don’t often start in bars anymore. But there’s many exceptions to every rule. Great place for casual dating/hookups I assume. Also probably a great place to pick up STDs, tbh. If you like going to bars anyway, you should definitely chat up the women who are there. Whether you actually have success or not, you’ll still get good experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:50 AM
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So did you move to a blue state so you can get with a woman who’d let you beat her? I highly doubt it lol. But thanks for the laugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:36 AM
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I’m not telling you how to act or what to think. I asked a broad question. You are simply choosing to not answer the question and instead dance around something we’re not even discussing. And you aren’t even playing semantics correctly. If you can’t comprehend the question “what do you respect about the women in your life?” Then I can only assume you’re being obtuse on purpose. Have a good night young man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:34 AM
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Thank you! That’s very insightful. I did give examples in the first few lines of the question, “you mother, sisters, cousins, aunts, wife, gf, friends etc”. I tried to make it obvious that you could answer the question about any woman or women of your choosing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:31 AM
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Okay! Say you’re right and most women on dating apps just want pedos and woman beaters. Wouldn’t that signify it’s time to develop better social skills and get off the apps so you can attract someone in real life? Or maybe ask women what makes them want to meet a man they saw on a dating app? There are more solutions than hating women or just deciding it’s hopeless. Dating apps, much like the rest of the internet, is a disgusting cesspool. Also relying on the internet further hinders you sociall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:24 AM
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Well yes of course but the question isn’t what you like about them because they’re a woman, the question is simply about the women in your life. I’m trying to gauge the viability of a common stereotype that some men are not capable of separating the women in their life from the roles of wife, mom and sex toy. If they’re able to see the women around them as individuals and recognize them for their personhood by verbalizing what they appreciate about them. What they see in them. Like if I asked yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:03 AM
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Sure but we’re not talking about things? I’m asking you what you think of the people in your life. Can you understand that? You don’t need to be a woman to gather opinions or judgements about other humans. And I resent the idea that men are inherently apathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:00 AM
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Okay but again, your experiments are fruitless. Most women open a dating profile and it will have hundreds if not thousands of matches within 2-4 days. That legit means nothing. Most of them don’t even read the profile. And there’s also an alarming amounts of bots and scammers on these apps. And besides the scammers who will swipe on anyway if it means there’s a chance to get money, none of these “real and sane” women are actually trying to meet up with these obviously fake accounts, despite the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:49 AM
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You’re right. Thanks for talking with me about this! I love when we can actually talk and come to a mutual standing on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:47 AM
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Before I respond, I wanted to apologize for coming off with any hostility and trying to make your point more extreme than it was. It was late, and I’d been debating in this sub a little too long that day and was admittedly on edge 😅 I’ll say I used to subscribe to this idea when I was a red pill taker. But I’ve gotten a bit older, talked to more men from many different states, backgrounds and beliefs. As well as getting married. I find that this is not a blanket truth for all men and women. I fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:42 AM
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Yeah. It was kind of a learning curve to not take everything a man jokes about at face value, while still checking in from time to time to gauge how serious he is. Also going to be weird transitioning back into civilian life and not being able to say whatever we want with no raised eyebrows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:31 AM
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What are you talking about? Did you mean to reply here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:29 AM
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I’m very sure your average guy is getting laid more than you think. I used to think that too, but then I joined a male dominated field (Army). But also most of these guys aren’t getting most of their dates/relationships/hookups from dating apps. A lot of them I’ve talked to stay away from apps, and usually just go out to a bar/lounge/club and chat someone up. Granted they seldom get full blown relationships from those encounters, just hookups or experience chatting up women. And are these experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:28 AM
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You’ve talked to thousands of women about this? And we don’t discriminate against what? In this case, aren’t you saying we’re all very discriminatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:22 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:21 AM
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Agreed!! I’m in the army, and one of my platoon mates was really anxious and rattled about personal mental stuff, and the therapist basically said he might be a danger to himself and others and flagged him for weapon usage. It was wild because he didn’t even say anything crazy, but because he was “excitable” she basically stopped the session and said she was afraid for her safety. I know this kid, and he’s not a dangerous person. Also from being in the military, I know majority of the men joke a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:19 AM
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Yeah I agree. Dating apps suck, and is truly not a sustainable way to make lasting friendships or relationships. And you’re right, I have no perspective from a man’s POV on getting into relationships. In fact, I’ve only pursued a man once
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:15 AM
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Ahhhh a kink. Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:12 AM
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I’m sure in the moment there would be some embarrassment, maybe hurt feelings but I’d respect his decision and move on. Rather quickly, too. Typically, for me, intimacy occurs in about 1-3 weeks with someone I see potential in. So if it’s the first time, I’m sure there’d really be no hard feelings or lasting soreness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:11 AM
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Nah my husband sees me as a whole person! I know it might be hard to wrap your head around but he doesn’t view me as a “role”. And we don’t have flings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:07 AM
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Idk how many people and from where you mean “most” but I doubt this highly. Also I’m not a car lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:47 AM
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This made me smile, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:46 AM
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Thank you for your perspective :) although I wish I had some of that social intuition
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:45 AM
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Well I don’t believe women generally say this and there’s no way to statistically gauge that. This is just a short clip from one woman. I would say most women want to be treated well, because who doesn’t? If someone truly enjoys toxicity, they are experiencing some kind of mental disorder and/or extensive trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:39 AM
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The question is more so geared about the woman. What you appreciate about the women in your life. Less about yourself. Just trying to gauge perspective on how women are viewed by my counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:37 AM
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Thank you very much for your insight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:32 AM
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Thanks for your response. Sounds like your sisters have a brother who truly sees them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:32 AM
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Thank you for your insight!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:31 AM
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I appreciate you sharing your perspective. However you didn’t really answer the question. What do you like about these women in your life, not the things they do for you. I’m trying to gauge how some men feel about the women around them; I’m trying to see how common it is here that men can separate a woman from the things she can do for him or give to him. Basically how well he can view her as an individual with full personhood. Much like you see the men in your life; those you appreciate, respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:29 AM
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Are you potentially someone who experiences apathy quite frequently? That would explain this disregard for the people in your life. I genuinely can’t believe you have friends, a father, brothers etc and you don’t like anything about them. Unless they abused you, or you’re totally estranged, how can you not like anything about them? And of course if these other guys are your friends, why are you friends with people you don’t enjoy being around or look at with appreciation/admiration? That’s stran…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:22 AM
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Nicely put!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:17 AM
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The point of the question was to determine how men feel about women, and hopefully getting away from this mindset of only “getting things” from women or only knowing them for what they can do for you. Thankfully, most people under this post see the women in their lives as individuals, and having full personhood :) (this person does not)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:15 AM
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If you live in a first world country, there is something called law enforcement. And if you push people around too much because they’re smaller than you, you’ll find your bigger bad in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:13 AM
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Thanks for sharing your insight and experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:12 AM
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Oof being catfished is never fun. I’m sorry you haven’t had great success, and I can see how it can be easy to feel defeated (I say that because you said of course). I can’t tell you that you’ll magically find your one, although I do hope you do. Maybe there is some self reflection you can do to see why women aren’t interested. Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:11 AM
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Well the question wasn’t posed to create exceptions for women. I’m trying to gauge what some men truly think of and admire about the women in their life, outside of what that woman can do for them. Something totally specific to her personhood. I’ve noticed in this chat, and in real life, it can be hard for some men to think about women as individuals instead of wives and moms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:08 AM
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Thank you for responding :) sounds like you have a healthy marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:06 AM
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Thank you for your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:05 AM
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Well considering vaginismus in layman’s terms is an extremely tight vaginal opening that makes sex kind of impossible, I don’t think it plays. But a “loose vagina” is usually caused by childbirth or a weak pelvic floor (also age and hormonal changes). Can mostly be fixed by pelvic floor exercises. I used to believe that it would never be like when you were 18 again, but then I didn’t have sex for a year and it went back that lol, not to be TMI
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:36 AM
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So women who aren’t virgins are worthless and not viable for LTR, but as men it’s okay to continue deflowering these girls until there’s no more “pure innocents” left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:20 AM
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Why do you guys think women are always thinking about their exes? I’ve heard many women say they had men from years ago still messaging them, thinking about them. Mind you they don’t think about those guys at all. I used to subscribe to this weird belief. I was scared to be in a relationship again because I truly believed I wouldn’t be able to have a fulfilling relationship since I’ve had them before. Even though I didn’t really think about my exes at all, except when reflecting on my past faili…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:18 AM
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How did she discriminate against gays?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:11 AM
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Right but If women (and men) are directly opposing your boxes for them by existing, why be resentful? Why not just accept the new information?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:08 AM
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I don’t know. There are over a dozen YouTube channels where 70% of the content is berating child free single women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:07 AM
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Wouldn’t it tho? Aren’t incels the most upset because they can’t get into relationships? This guy already found his forever. I’d definitely listen to his insight on how. And “just be normal” is pretty good advice for people who treat other humans like bots
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:05 AM
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That’s one man. Idk what kind of women he’s into, but most well adjusted women don’t prefer to be seen/treated like children or sex maids. Maybe you should check up on all those women. There are specific kinds of women who are very good candidates for emotional and psychological abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:03 AM
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And did they meet this catfish in real life and did chicka chicka happen? Or was that just a handful of weirdos who swiped yes, and maybe even a smaller few who liked accidentally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:37 AM
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That’s a good point. I think many men still feel uncomfortable being vulnerable and addressing their feelings; historically they have been discouraged to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:36 AM
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Are you saying that I’m being patronizing or that your ex is patronizing? Or your current partner? Also thanks for your response. But why do you say “of course” you don’t have a significant other?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:33 AM
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Thank you for your response. You give me hope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:32 AM
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At the very top unedited portion I gave examples of who you could talk about: mother wife, girlfriend, sister, aunt, cousins, friends etc. Okay let me pose a slightly different question to see if it clicks. What do you like or admire about the men in your life? Men being your father, uncles, brother, cousins, friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:31 AM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:28 AM
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The first steps would have to be being open to empathy and compassion. I think we spend too much time at each other’s throats and because of that it’s easy to vilify the opposite sex. Also just aiming to be more self aware and offering understanding, as well as accepting that we will never truly understand what the opposite sex experiences. People also need to learn not to attribute their past relationship experiences to all women/men. Therapy should also be more normalized. Most people don’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:25 AM
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Considering most of us are average people, aren’t we already doing this like everyday? I’m an average woman married to an average man, and all my exes have been average. I had one who was above average and considered to be the “top 20-30%” but he was absolutely terrible for me and almost the worst one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:16 AM
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Or maybe women don’t see a reason to swipe on no bio, no pics and “hookups only” dudes. I mean I really only see men complaining about this. Idk any women who genuinely get into lasting relationships from tinder. It’s oversaturated with men who just wanna fck and don’t even look at a profile, which is why women have hundreds of useless likes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:13 AM
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This is very true. The few times I used apps in the past, 80% of the men either didn’t have a bio, or it was so vague that there no point in swiping yes. Or they had no pics/terrible pics. And if you did match most are just looking for sex, and don’t even have tact when trying. I also had over 800 likes in the first couple days. I’ve heard tons of men say that they barely even look at the profiles they just swipe on every female. It’s just overall a lousy experience and I resolved to just meet p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:10 AM
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Are you willing to read the entire question? All of your questions are already answered
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:03 AM
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That’s beautiful. Also very self aware of you. I hope you find another like her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:58 PM
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That’s great, I’m glad you have good familial relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:57 PM
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The question is “what do you like about the women in your life?” My aim in asking such a question is to see how men (and boys) view the women around them outside of what they can do for them. It’s hard to take ourselves out of our own bubble, and it’s somewhat evident by your answer only being related to how they help you and do things for you. For you, I’m basically asking what do you like about your mother and sister? What is it about them (not what they provide for you) that makes you admire/…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:55 PM
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Okay, then Sara. Sara slept with him easily and frequently. according to the red pill, you can only be sure of a woman’s desire for you if she sleeps with you immediately and “gives” you sex frequently. And since he kept coming back to her, and probably still thinks about her when he takes his mandatory sex from the wife prop, I can assume he does in fact respect and value Sara more. Even if they were sluts together. The man in this scenario actually cares to give the gf a name and even thinks s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:52 PM
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You’ve had a wife for 10 years? So does that mean Sara is real?? And your real wife still didn’t get a name? So you love Sara and your wife is just a prop. And she knows this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:49 PM
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Not loaded or vague. I can’t tell you how to answer so the question is simple and straightforward. What do you like about the women in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:39 PM
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What does this mean? Is the only things you like about your lovers sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:38 PM
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I would assume wearing tight spandex would be pretty uncomfortable when you have frank and beans. As a woman tho, it feels more comfortable for it to be tight and supportive so your boobs don’t get sore and you don’t have the feeling of leaking/sweating from down there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:05 PM
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I don’t understand why this post was removed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:49 PM
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You didn’t know that? Every American woman keeps a secret recipe book that only spawns on her 16th birthday. The book can’t be opened until her Prince Charming finally arrives and she can fulfill her duties as handmaiden
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:46 PM
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Was she supposed to get on her knees and grovel??? Being the man of someone’s dreams doesn’t mean that I’m now his servant. In fact, if a man knew I was truly in love with him and decided to use that against me to turn me into some bang maid, he would no longer be the MOMD and would be getting an uber home or I would
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:44 PM
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Right? Idk about others but having a stranger in your bed is already weird. Now you wake up and they’re messing around in your kitchen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:43 PM
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I have the man of my dreams and we often switch. We never eat breakfast (really tho, who eats as soon as they wake up??), usually only lunch and dinner. He’ll cook, or I’ll cook, or we DoorDash. You know, normal human stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:41 PM
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It’s a trick question, he just wants you to say that the bang maid is more important than the worthless whore because one is more slave like while the other is a person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:39 PM
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While I have great disdain for this guys verbiage and view of women, Sara definitely exists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:39 PM
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You’re using a time when women couldn’t work, have bank accounts or own homes as a source??? Yeah of course she abandoned him- her options were stay and die with him in the cold, or move on. Women today split the bills with their men and are quickly starting to make the same or more income
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:37 PM
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My husband and I just laughed together about this. I’m about to take him out to dinner. Or should I keep him home and make him build something since I’m not supposed to care about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:36 PM
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B-b-but it’s so different because men are allowed to have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:34 PM
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You’re so real for this. I never thought about it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:33 PM
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So you don’t have thoughts, feelings or a personality outside of your career? In that case, you and this hypothetical wife are not people, but robots/slaves to each other. Seems wildly unfulfilling and a recipe for failure. I’m very happy most people don’t view their relationships in such an empty way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:31 PM
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Words of a man who will never know a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:24 PM
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I didn’t spin you just can’t handle having your childlike worldview opened up 😂 “wait what do you mean women are more than sex toys and cleaning bots??”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:23 PM
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Hey the dating scene isn’t a slave auction. You don’t just get to go up to a woman and decide the treatment she’s worth based on your opinion. You can try, and she has the right to tell you to fuck off. People are entitled to boundaries and deciding how they want to be valued
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:21 PM
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They either live in a town of less than 10k or they pulled that from a porn trope, you know “girl next door who lets all the boys come over when dad’s at work”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:20 PM
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A man that the wife would be interested in wouldn’t view women in this black and white way. She’d be more interested in a man who actually knows her, not just “she cooks and cleans after me but the hoe I was banging doesn’t.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:16 PM
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With the given scenario of an attractive man who could get said woman into the bedroom, I doubt she’d care at that point that he’s a virgin. And may even be surprised thus intrigued, and oblige him. Personally, I’ve never met a male virgin outside of high school, or I wasn’t told that he was one. I did years later find out that I took one of my exes virginity but I wouldn’t have known because it was only my 2nd time having sex. If she got to know him and he remains normal I don’t think it would …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:13 PM
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I don’t know how many men have a micro penis but there situation is unfortunate. But it’s not disgusting that women want to have sex that actually feels like sex. I also don’t know how many women are out here with broken vaginas that are no longer elastic, that seems like a medical emergency that I’ve never personally heard about or encountered
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:03 PM
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The thing is, if a guys dick is too small for a most women she will just leave. If that’s the thing that matters, or she’ll find compromises without hurting his feelings. But typically you’d know if the sex is incompatible before things get too serious. So leaving is a valid option which most women will just take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:01 PM
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You know that most men have “small” dicks…right? Average is barely 5 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:59 PM
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That’s a weird argument because I can say the same thing in reverse. Men saying xyz in a subreddit full of women who disagree will be downvoted. Women saying xyz in a subreddit full of men who disagree will be downvoted. Matter fact, the chick will get downvoted no matter what she says if there’s really no women in the room. I frequently ask normal questions in the army subreddit and every single one gets downvoted or disgustingly rude comments unprovoked. I always end up deleting my questions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:57 PM
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Probably not? I mean women say variations of this quite often considering a vast majority of women don’t experience orgasm with male partners. There’s so many straight women who have never experienced orgasm and it’s sad. And it’s not a woman issue because lesbians bust nutsssss
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:55 PM
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That is so strange. I’ve never heard of this outside of boys poking fun at girls. Because unless she like just had a baby, that’s not how vaginas work. I’ve heard of penises being too big, too small. But vaginas are very elastic and typically shape to the penis, when properly aroused
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:53 PM
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Yeah that’s fair. I wonder if this actually happens to people? Personally I’ve only ever known of this to happen if his penis was below average. Which was fine in those cases because they made it work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:51 PM
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Never experienced this or known any woman to experience this. Not unless his penis was well below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:50 PM
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I’m not deflecting now, you are. I already told you what my husband said. If he ever asked me to isolate myself, I could divorce him. Now, why don’t you ask your wife this question. I wonder what her response would be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:49 PM
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Sure buddy 😂 why don’t you ask your wife? Or is she tied up in your basement at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:47 PM
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That’s life tho. For example, I work with a guy. Decently handsome, kind, funny and chivalrous. He had a girlfriend for a while. Then they broke up. He hasn’t been with anyone since and that was about 4 months ago. But he’s not upset about drawing the short straw or pitying himself because it didn’t work out. Most men, most people, fall in and out of relationships and have dry spells. My longest dry spell was a year before I met my now husband. His was only 3 months. It truly is just life, and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:47 PM
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Just what in the fresh hell is going on here. I..I don’t even know how to approach this dumpster fire but no. Just, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:43 PM
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Also try to take with you, most women aren’t seriously using dating apps. Which is why they have hundreds of swipes they didn’t even know about and men are wondering why they barely can get 5. From what women have told me, they use dating apps: A.) for a sense of personal validation, basically seeing if they still got it. B.) because they were bored, not serious. C.) were hoping to maybe find a guy on there worth seeing in person, and either giving up or forgetting all about the app. D.) hookups…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:11 PM
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And why isn’t that happening then? Why are the men and women you deem undesirable getting exactly what they want? I see fat women with handsome men, I see short men with gorgeous women. Seems like all you guys are doing is chatting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:08 PM
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Me too, so you’re anywhere from 16-25. Get offline. Get off dating apps. If it gives you any consolation, the few women who actually use dating apps (and don’t just have a dead profile up) only use it for personal validation or don’t often meet with guys from there. If she’s sensible (or not naive), she most likely won’t be looking for relationships online because that’s how you meet a psycho killer lol. I don’t know why you personally are seeking women out, whether it’s genuine or not, but when…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:04 PM
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I think more realistically, since women couldn’t own homes, have bank accounts, (also sometimes couldn’t work, or have meaningful jobs) and being without a man in the home was dangerous, more women were marrying for security or because they were forced to. Not to say no women back then were falling in love and what not, but it was done more quickly and just choosing the best option available (if she even had that luxury to pick a man she at least thought was handsome and kind). But back then wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:00 PM
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Omg bro that’s not what we’re on. It’s just not. In the given scenario, you would tie your home and finances to a woman who is frivolous with her money. Assuming that she no longer has any money of her own, and you don’t care about that, she’s going to run up your credit cards and put you in debt. You can be “broke” and still have a good job that makes a lot of money. My dad used to make $10k a month but was still somehow always broke because he was frivolous. That’s what we’re talking about her…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:55 PM
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Ehhhh you’re probably right? Like obviously the hair is natural and there for a reason. But without proper upkeep, the BO can get pretty nasty. I think it’s all rolled into one. Having an “everything” shower. I don’t shave my body religiously, but I keep it trimmed and personally I find this helps me prevent BO, outside of a shower ofc. And my husband trims his when it’s gets to a point of being too wild. I mean, I feel like have armpit hair so long that it shows even when your arms are down is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:53 PM
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I wouldn’t have to because my husband isn’t a psychopath? He himself told me that if he ever tried to cut me off from the world, my friends, family that I should immediately divorce him. Also I force my husband to look at the things I post (mostly weight loss content, career planning, and healthy meals) and he hates every second of it 😂 but yeah no we just trust each other like normal people. I wouldn’t ask him to delete his TikTok and all his online games. I’m not a crazy person lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:49 PM
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We are specifically discussing women who are ambitionless, not driven and accumulate massive amounts of debt. At this point you’re just choosing to ignore that and I don’t know why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:47 PM
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No, but you’re calling bullshit on something that’s always been talked about. Obviously I can’t give every anecdotal of a local situation. But there’s plenty of “unattractive” men with beautiful or very pretty women. My favorite example is Adam Sandler. Granted Adam Sandler was a very sexy man not too long ago, but weight and age can take a toll but he still has a pretty wife. Or JayZ and Beyoncé. JayZ isn’t the ugliest man in the world but he’s not cute. Even Brooke Shields’ husband! Less than …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:46 PM
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“Friendzoned” There it is 😂 thank you, sir. You just proved my, and many women’s, point with that word alone. You guys refuse to actually listen to women after screaming that you don’t know what we want. And when we tell you, you don’t believe us. Because despite the millions of average height, average build, average looking men out there in successful loving relationships, you guys choose to ignore them or call them simps, and yell at women about how “nuh uh you just want a guy who’s 7ft tall w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:36 PM
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I also have both soooooo I guess we’re just two unicorns farting in the wind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:30 PM
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Did you mean to reply to me? Your reply has nothing to do with what I said. If a man is with a woman who only asks to go on dates and always makes him pay (and that’s not their arrangement), after a while he’s just a fool for not picking up on it. Everything else you said is common sense. Don’t go for gold diggers and you won’t get one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:30 PM
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Well I don’t know what they actually said to you, but I doubt a vast majority of women are marrying/dating men they aren’t attracted to. Seems like more cope from men who just want cheap sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:27 PM
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And the KKK has some pretty popular opinions too amongst themselves. Doesn’t make them right. My point is if your opinions about women are strictly from chronically online users, that’s pretty small minded. Also, what is your age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:24 PM
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Not at all true, my point is that if your frame of reference is idiot feminists online and teenage girls you’re just as stupid as them. Or just sheltered and impressionable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:22 PM
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The fact that the context here is you going out and cheating on her but she’s the selfish one. You’ve never been in a real relationship ever, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:17 PM
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Have you guys ever thought that maybe ever since a woman could have a job, a bank account, human rights, the ability to say no to marriage and sex maybe women just aren’t settling for whatever. You guys put all the blame on women and claim we’re all just naive, stupid and superficial while on the same foot saying the only things you need women for are food, cleaning, children and sex. Who’s really superficial? Women tell you guys over and over that if want them you need to develop a personality,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:01 PM
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That kind of makes sense though. If there’s a man you see as special and important, and you respect him and want him to respect you, it makes sense to do the whole tradition of 3 dates before sex. Because if you actually like the guy, why would you immediately sleep with him and risk getting your heart broken? If you’re the type to hookup, that’s just sex. Maybe a sexy friendship, but sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:52 PM
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2000 years ago…? When women would get stoned in the streets for being loose in some regions? No matter the time period, in different places being a whore either meant you were a slave, a woman of low moral character, working in a government sanctioned brothel, or marked for death. I can agree that the “marked for death” aspect ramped up in the puritanical age but doesn’t change what was still going on around the rest of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:50 PM
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Yeah, that’s what women mean when they say “him being too nice is uncomfortable”. Being too nice can come from so many different places. For me, I’m autistic and have some childhood trauma so I do struggle with people pleasing and being “too nice”. I understand why it’s off putting to people and makes it hard to grow deeper friendships. On the other hand I’ve seen people who act super nice all the time and it’s scary because you don’t know what ticks them off, and when this unknown button was pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:47 PM
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Yeah who exactly are you interacting with in real life who speaks like a red pill bot? I’ve unfortunately met men, and even very few women, who subscribe to this rhetoric but they are seldom in happy relationships, if in one at all. I’m so serious, when have you gone on a date with a normal well adjusted person and they were asking you your penis size and all these crazy things to ask someone flat out? And who is Chad??? Why do you guys think that if you shower, go to the gym, have a career and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:44 PM
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Considering there’s a plethora of men 30-40 on here saying the same things as you or are still actively dating, or just got married- those people still count. And what I’m trying to get at is maybe it’s not a “modern dating scene” issue. Maybe you have personal flaws you can try to work on and work to become more self aware if you’re having issues attracting women. And figure out why you even want a woman besides sex… Because all of the men the red pill describes as unworthy of a “modern woman” …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:41 PM
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Well not exactly. There’d probably be a small increase in infection and debris getting into sensitive areas, and lots of people would get more scalp sunburns and be more susceptible to heat stroke
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:37 PM
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😂😂😂 omg this genuinely made me laugh out loud. I just know you’re the type, if you do ever get to bed a woman, to give her the ole 6 minute missionary. Forget earning her orgasm, she’s going to be giving them to herself for the entirety of the relationship. Unless she follows your lead and finds a man on the side who has no trouble having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:30 PM
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Riiiightttt because women are degenerates for not accepting a cheating husband. I love the updated definition because best believe if my husband was ever unfaithful I’d leave him. I hope you’re as dumb as OP and any woman who might’ve been interested will run far
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:28 PM
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Id do it for my husband but I can understand how needing round the clock care can be really emotionally taxing and stressful, especially if you have children and a full time job so I understand if a spouse puts them in a nurse home
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:25 PM
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What is your definition of being treated well? Because as a woman, who isn’t traumatized by toxic love, there is a such thing as too nice. I say this with a husband who is very respectful and caring, while still being able to poke fun at me and be upset when he needs to be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:35 AM
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To be completely fair, it’s a 6 second clip with no context and she didn’t get to finish the point. I’m 99% sure she didn’t mean “when people treat me with love and respect it makes me uncomfortable”. From the text above, she’s probably talking about the “nice” guy. Not necessarily the incel, but the greeting card personality. Someone who seemingly has a mask of kindness up at all times and you can’t possibly believe they’re this nice, unbiased and agreeable 100% of the time because no one is. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:31 AM
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I think some men are too black and white in their thinking. “You’re either a nice guy or a bad boy”. No, most women are not out here looking for the next big dicked Chad who’s going to black their eye. But it doesn’t make them shallow or fickle if they aren’t turned on by the guy who does nothing but shower them with compliments and niceties. It’s like the person at the office who’s got a greeting card personality. Very surface level sweet, it’s nice to see them, but the friendship will never go…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:26 AM
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Is this not the same as when men have their fair share of hot girls and women they don’t bring home to mom, before settling down with the homegrown modest type…? If women shouldn’t have their fun dating when they’re young, who are you guys going to date when you’re young?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:22 AM
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Okay this settles it, you’re definitely a child typing this out cuz ain’t no way. This is some family guy cutaway logic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:19 AM
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This one. Cheating should never be an option, especially not the first option before discussion and divorce. I know a familial married couple who haven’t had sex since their first year of marriage and it’s going on 25yrs (his decision). Lemme tell you the resentment is palpable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:18 AM
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Do you know what a marriage contract entails? You’re kinda just giving her all the proof she needs against you for divorce court. Not a smart play. If you actually cared about this hypothetical woman you would have a conversation with her before marriage about your mutual sexual needs. And when it became a problem in the marriage, you would have a discussion about it before deciding to break your vows. How would you feel if a wife posed the same question here? “My husband and I haven’t been inti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:15 AM
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Eeugghh this reads as “I’ve never given a woman an orgasm and I don’t care to”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:12 AM
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If sex is very important to you, enough to ruin any relationship you’re in, then these should be discussions before you decide to marry her. And if not having sex even a little bit of time is impossible to handle, maybe you aren’t built for longevity like marriage. There are many things that can arise over the course of a lifetime relationship. Including bouts of low libido. People get on and off medication, women have children, men get ED, grief events happen, menopause and sometimes one party …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:09 AM
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Why is your basis on what women think sourced from TikTok…? An app mostly populated by teenagers and young chronically online people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:02 AM
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So in your ideal world, if a woman is overweight (mind you 73% of all Americans are overweight) she should just take any man who’ll have her no matter his morals, values or ethics as a person. Well clearly the fat ho’s have more legs to stand on than you because that’s just not how it’s going
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:00 AM
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No you’re not getting it. Women need to get it out of their silly little heads that they can “choose what they want from a partner” and these crazy expectations of being loved and unharmed. Ludicrous. It all started when women started getting those things called rights and weren’t almost forced to take any man who’d have them lest they be burned as a witch and a spinster
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:58 AM
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67% of American men and 68% of American women are married, while 78% of couples split the bills. Average man is 5”9, out of shape, and makes $65k a year. Average woman is 5”5, out of shape and makes $53k a year. Yeah….but we’re all just lined up and waiting for our Morris Chestnut
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:55 AM
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Are you describing yourself? Because I know more than several men who fit that description and are happily married. And if 67% of American men and 68% of women are married, where is this vast majority of women who are demanding 6ft and 6 figures when that’s not your average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:51 AM
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Funny you should say that I just saw a couple posts on here of men being very upset that women find “ugly men” very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:48 AM
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Who is most? Where is this statistic from and for what demographic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:47 AM
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Where are you guys finding all these women who just post long laundry lists of demands from men? And why do you want them??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:47 AM
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I think you have really high expectations of women from the 70s-2000s tbh. They were also having casual sex. Whether we see it as good or bad, women enjoy sex just as much as men do and even more so, romance. So if there’s a connection and she’s willing, you guys might share an evening. And it’s true the societal pressures and expectations on women were much higher prior to the 1970s and for all of time. But aside from being raised much more modestly, women’s reputation was their one true mode o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:43 AM
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Right but your point is that the person who’s not a fan is shallow or fickle. Which is crazy especially considering so many people are too busy taking care of family or progressing in their career to become a “real fan” of something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:31 AM
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I can assure you that no real human woman has said any of that lmao. Maybe a chronic internet user who’s truly never been in a real or stable relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:23 AM
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If left is no, I disagree whole heartedly. Robert thee Pattinson?? The heartthrob of the 2010s???? You’re joking omg. I definitely find him 10x more attractive than Ryan, although I never found him extremely attractive in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:14 AM
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To be fair, I think everyone has the capacity to be very attractive once they get in physical shape and have a hairstyle that suits them. I think all the men he called freaks are utterly beautiful. Now if you added about 150lbs to them, not so much. But definitely need more than physical fitness. There’s more reasons why women find these men attractive; their personalities. For different reasons but in my opinion I can say a few of them (except Pete) appear to have warm personalities and emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:09 AM
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Beautifully put
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:07 AM
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Yeah but you already disproved yourself. Women, many women, find these attractive men to be, well, attractive. So it seems like you’re just mad that women aren’t attracted to the same men you are maybe…?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:05 AM
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Well women think he’s hot. What men do you think are more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:03 AM
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Women attracted to conventionally attractive guy OMG ALL THESE SLUTS ONLY CARE ABOUT HOW HOT AND TALL A MAN IS!! women attracted to unconventionally attractive/unattractive man HOW CAN THESE DUMB BROADS BE ATTRACTED TO THESE UGLY FREAKS???? maybe just take a step into the sunlight, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:00 AM
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Agreed. I’m willing to bet people who think like this are either teenagers who spend too much time online, sheltered adults who spend too much time online, or generally folks who can’t or have never held onto a relationship. I took a break from social media for about a year after falling into a red pill pipeline. It served me well. Normal people don’t care about any of these stuff and they do just fine in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:48 AM
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Hey man you need to go outside. Like fr. The only people who talk like this are either teenagers who haven’t met a lot of well adjusted adults yet, or chronically only folks who get all their perspective on how people think from internet comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:46 AM
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Yes they do. The same way there’s a hundred red pill channels and all this content about becoming “the ultimate alpha chad bro”, there’s just as much pink pill content for women about becoming his subservient docile proverbs 31 housewife. It’s just that the loudest complainers (men who can’t get sex, and women who can’t get men to stick around) are maybe just the bottom of the barrel people and need to work on their inner appearance before they throw themselves back on the market. Too many of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:44 AM
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Tell me, why are you trying to hook up with developmentally stunted women who can’t tell fiction from reality in the first place? It sounds like you need to get off of the dating apps and leave the thirst traps alone and go meet real people!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:42 AM
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Okay so if the average man isn’t good enough for the average woman, why are 67% of them married..?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:40 AM
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I know several men who you would find unattractive who have beautiful wives who love them dearly. Operative word here being love. Maybe if you guys stopped acting like women were such programmable bots, you’d become self aware and realize you are what you accuse us of being
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:39 AM
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Typically when I see women asking men to do better, it’s in regards to things like trying to understand her, caring about the things she cares about, being willing to learn how to please her sexually, and generally learning how to be emotionally available and intelligent. But of course, some of you always take it back to finances and your looks. Is that really all you can (or can’t) provide a woman?? Is that really all you think a woman worth something wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:36 AM
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Why do you guys assume the men we marry aren’t attractive to us? Is that what your wife told you? For most women I know, and myself, the overly attractive cocky Casanova type is a complete turnoff for the long term. Those men typically scream man whore. Gross. Doesn’t matter how hot he thinks he is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:33 AM
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Well yeah I’m sure by now every woman who has TikTok or instagram has seen the few SAHM who posts, and there are so many women who would loooooveeeee that life. But we’re all adults and not going to abandon our responsibilities and go broke because we saw a TikTok. The vast majority of American households have split breadwinners. We don’t have the economic standing to go back to a majority single income household nation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:31 AM
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Yeah a cute TikTok trend doesn’t change the fact that 78% of couples split the bills. Women joking along, or being somewhat serious, saying they wish they could be a SAHM doesn’t change the fact they still have careers and pay their portion of the bills. And this cute trend is not going to play in society because very few can actually afford that, no matter how nice it would be to be a homemaker. It’s just not very realistic for the average American family
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:29 AM
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If you’re going by Disney standards, the earliest fairytale princess movie came out in 1935. But these relational issues seem to be a modern issue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:26 AM
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Well put
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:24 AM
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When I was 5 years old I could go up to any kid on the playground and we’d be best friends for the day. Thicker than thieves. Also being 5 years old, I watched cartoons like Cinderella. Having no real concept of long term relationships, I watched a cartoon where a pretty girl fell in love with a handsome prince. When I got older and started dating, and then even older and started dating seriously, I never once had it in my mind that it was going to play out like Snow White or like Sleeping Beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:17 AM
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Seems very strange. I will admit when I was a teen girl I ghosted a guy once. I did like him, but we’d only been talking for a few days and I was too immature to break it off, didn’t wanna hurt his feelings. But obviously I know now that I probably hurt him worse by not saying anything. But I was 16. I could never imagine entertaining a man I wasn’t attracted to. That just sounds weird and gross. Also a recipe for bad blood
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:11 AM
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So what I’m hearing is you think 1000 people in a different country is a good representation of almost 100 million people. And you also like to date women you think are hoes…and choose to hang around sleazebag men who hang around women hoping for pity or rebound pussy. That tracks! Hope you grow a back bone one day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:07 AM
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Please show me the source that proves FIFTY percent of American women, which is almost 94 million women, have affairs on the side. And no your source cannot be fresh&fit, legion of men or any of those podcasters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:03 AM
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Sir all you’ve done here is prove you personally don’t stimulate the local economy of small businesses and only follow OF models. As a woman myself with private socials, I follow tons of women who use their social media to promote their business. Majority of them being salon/suite owners or women who make and sell clothes. Just today I got my hair done in a salon, which I found through instagram! Who would have thunk that in 2024 people use social media instead of newspapers to promote their bus…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:00 AM
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This gave me a good laugh 😂 do your anime waifu a favor and break up with her. For her own safety
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:54 AM
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You hit it on the nose. The men who pose these questions are likely the ones who follow tons of OF girls or just women who seek romantic attention online. Because those are the women they lust after and interact with, they either assume that’s how all women are or are so delusional to think they will be able to trap and muzzle one of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:52 AM
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I’ve never dated a man who was so controlling lol. I just asked my husband what he thinks about this question after reading the whole thing to him: “that just seems abusive.” Also my confusion with the question is are you implying she’s already using all her socials to emotionally cheat or saying that she can’t use social media at all to prevent the possibility? And follow-up question, if you don’t want a woman who’s an internet hoe, why did you get with her..? Sounds like the real goal here is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:47 AM
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Not a flex but ok. You just proved her point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:41 AM
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While I agree that male genitalia and secondary sex organs (breasts) are not the same, I still view breasts as what they are. Sex organs. And as such I feel like they’re special and should be protected. I never really understood the whole “well if men can do it we should be able to too!” Just seems like a childish argument. It honestly seems really uncomfortable to have your breasts out. Especially if you have to run or bounce or something. With no support? Ouch. I get that boobs aren’t inherent…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:39 AM
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When you say the majority of women assert this, what majority and from what demographic are you speaking…? Because it kinda sounds like your source is 100% teenage girls, internet strangers, and potential lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:16 AM
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If it’s a hookup, isn’t it implied that there’s no waiting? Why would there be waiting if the relationship is purely sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:13 AM
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Because it was a questioned posed to women. I think maybe that’s why she explained
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:12 AM
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I think men try too hard to apply their own rationale to women’s. I’ve only ever seen this in the reverse: men have women they take home to momma and women they make leave through the back. Most women are not looking for hookups and one night stands. And I think a lot of men in the subreddit prove this when they assert that they can’t get sex and women are too stingy with our bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:10 AM
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Considering 68% of American women and 67% of American men are married, and 78% of couples split the bills, I’d say those assertions are not as common among women as the red pill will have you believe. The red pill will adamantly try to prove that most women only want men who are 6ft+ and filthy rich. Looking at the actual world, regular people tend to get with regular people. That’s not to say there aren’t gold diggers and womanizers out there, but it’s foolish to believe that that’s what the av…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:07 AM
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What women are you talking to? She sounds more like a leaf in the wind or a teenager rather than a woman. I can assure you women don’t view men the same way men view women. There’s more to a man than hot or not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:04 AM
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Why would I be talking with “the fb”? Why waste your time talking to any man you don’t take seriously..?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:02 AM
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The difference being having a job where I need to compete. Most normal women do not care that some other woman has gotten a boyfriend. Especially not one she rejected. If she does, she herself has issues and it’s not indicative of every woman’s personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:01 AM
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It shows how bad the question is. Having anecdotal experiences doesn’t paint a general picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:59 AM
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She was a shitty person. Seems like an obvious answer and not a good reason to assume all women or that women generally do this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:58 AM
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That’s fair enough but still doesn’t make much sense. Most people are not registered nurses or even EMT certified. To expect a civilian to provide round the clock care for a seriously and permanently injured patient is unrealistic. Even if that person wanted to give up their life and own career to do it. Because then who provides for them? That insurance policy will run out fast. And the disabled person is more at risk having a civilian act as a medical caregiver
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:55 AM
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And what do you have to say for the men who leave their disabled wives or come back from war with a new woman…? It’s not a gendered issue. A tragic event like war? You can’t be sure what happens after
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:52 AM
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Considering I’m dual military, with a deployment around the corner, it’s always in my head that one of these days we might be in a combat zone and may come home disabled or not at all. Even the thought of my husband dying of natural causes brings me to tears- I couldn’t bear to leave him after tragedy. He’s my last. If anything were to happen to him, God forbid, I’d pridefully live out my days as a widow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:49 AM
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I agree with this whole heartedly. It truly is on parents to set aside their own embarrassment and give their kids the facts and tools they need, appropriate to age obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:33 AM
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Not going to lie, your suggestion healed me a little bit (as a woman who’s had issues speaking up during sex in the past)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:32 AM
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My husband and I have had this issue, it being my fault. In my experience, I want to talk more about sex and how to do it. But honestly I get embarrassed. I’m sure many women feel this way. And maybe aren’t experienced enough or confident enough to say exactly what they want and teach a man how to touch them. It is silly, but for some reason it feels easier to go along and let it happen than advocate for yourself. This might also go back to how girls are even taught about sex. When does your mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:29 AM
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And I’m sure every man who went into a LTR with this thought are the same ones who come out divorced and broke calling all women gold diggers 😂 can’t be mad at a snake for biting you when you invited it into your bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:23 AM
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Whores existed long before the church, so it maintains its definition. Also whore still means prostitute, even in the Bible/Torah/Quran. But if you are not very puritanical in your views, maybe it’s time for men to be the “whore” considering women rarely have fully satisfying sex with male partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:14 AM
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So…you want a Lois Griffin to your Peter Griffin. Well I can assure you, in real life she’s not gonna wanna fuck you after she cleans the streaks from your drawers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:11 AM
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I’ve found that any many of woman who judges people by stating their “value” is usually of low moral character themselves. So just don’t date people you aren’t compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:06 AM
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Women often don’t value sex as highly as men do. And also majority of women do not experience, or seldom experience, orgasms with male partners. So it makes sense that if she’s going to risk it for a one night stand it would be with a very attractive hard to attain man. I’m trying to find the proper way to word this so forgive me if it comes out bad. The man you described being very attractive, probably amazing in bed etc is a man that a lot of women don’t actually see themselves with. Me person…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:04 AM
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Never that I would be rejected because I’m a generally girly/bubbly person. But there was one time where I had a little too much to drink, felt slighted by a man, and went off in a very unladylike way. I regret embarrassing myself, but they weren’t men I was interested in and they were disrespectful. I think it’s more so the feeling of knowing I could’ve told them off in a more classy way and not embarrassed myself. But that’s when I was a late teen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:44 AM
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Thank you. I think a lot of men just genuinely don’t know or understand how women think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:37 AM
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Since I’m not a teenager, or one of those people who can’t make a personal decision without asking the internet hordes or their friends, I’ve never considered what others might think. If I like him, I like him. Also I’ve never experienced any woman who was vocally adamant about not dating short men. Considering the average height for American men is 5”9, most women are dating men around that height with no issue. Height really only becomes a factor for most women if it signifies a little man com…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:34 AM
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That I can’t argue 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:31 AM
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My position? So you didn’t read OPs question before you responded? This is the exact definition of “broke” we’re discussing. I’m not sure what your point was about female hypergamy but i don’t think it fits here. And you still proved my point because if she let herself completely run out of money she obviously had to be doing things for that to happen. I.e, being a deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:23 AM
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Not to be that person, but women are leading in high education and women are pretty much neck and neck in the average American salary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:20 AM
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No, being broke means the person is ambition-less and has no drive to get out of their situation. They’re okay being a deadbeat. Working a stable job and making the national average is not being broke. And to your statement about what women think, I can assure you only impressionable teens, chronically online individuals, and “IG baddies” think that way typically. If you’re talking about average everyday women, more than half of them are married to the average man who makes $40k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:17 AM
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The question isn’t can she provide for you. The question is can you join your life with a woman who is habitually broke, meaning she has all the attributes of a broke person. If she cannot manage to have goals, have any sort of drive or ambition, but manages to go into crazy debt, what do you think she will teach your children and do to your household? Your reply reads as though you’ve never had to share a home in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:14 AM
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That’s not necessarily answering the question. If someone is “broke” this typically means they have no drive, ambition, goals or ability to prioritize themselves. This bleeds into everything about their personality not just their pockets. So if you decide to share your life with a directionless woman, how do you expect her to take care of anything if she can’t manage a career
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:11 AM
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I think this is because we live in a first world. The more free a society is, the more we get away from gender roles. You look in other countries that are still developing, they still adhere to the roles. If America/UK was thrust into a threat that completely regressed our current way of living, we would definitely go back to the standard gender roles. But I can somewhat agree with your point about men still being forced into these roles. It truly depends on their job and social role though. As …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:08 AM
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That’s fair. I’m not arguing that having hair is gross, it’s just that it can raise your grooming standards. Having more hair anywhere increases the trapping of odors and sweat. But no, I don’t think it makes someone gross to grow hair that’s crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:51 AM
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My husband and I are committed to one another so I’m not worried about him cheating on me. To answer your question tho it doesn’t bother me that he’s dated men in the past the same way he doesn’t mind that I’ve been with women Also the way you wrote that seems like a fantasy of yours, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:24 AM
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That’s fair :/ some women have told me they even find it sexy, like a hairy chest. But if you don’t like it you could ask if he’d be willing to trim it, or not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:23 AM
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Eh I don’t think it’s gay to be well groomed, but my husband and I are both bisexual so you win this time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:15 AM
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The definition of unhygienic is not clean or sanitary. Or as you put it, gross. It’s unsightly and it smells bad! Im sorry lol. To be fair I’ve never met a woman who grows her armpit hair out to long lengths so I wouldn’t know how bad it can get, but on men it’s gag worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:12 AM
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Idk man 🥲 maybe I’m biased since I’m in the army, but some of these dudes bathe and they still smell after
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:10 AM
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Well maybe because it was just becoming common to bathe regularly. It definitely becomes a problem once it becomes more common in society to regularly bath and keep your mouth clean, for instance. Have you ever been around someone with bad BO? Also there are health issues that can arise from uncleanliness like abscesses
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:09 AM
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Damn that’s rough. Unless you don’t mind it. Me personally I think it’s unsightly on anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:08 AM
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My bad, had to fact check myself. I always lumped armpit hairs in with pubic hairs (hair you grow after puberty). But I still put them in the same boat tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:45 PM
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As someone who is unfortunately living with a roommate who only likes to shower once a week, I can tell you body odor is not a myth. And I think he means unhygienic in the sense that more odors are trapped. It’s no different from a man who is un groomed and you can tell because he stinks. You don’t have to groom yourself but there are societal expectations to look presentable and smell at least somewhat clean. Granted you can definitely have unkept pubic hairs and smell clean, especially as a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:19 PM
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I can almost guarantee if you keep your same fitness level and leave your pubic hairs totally unkempt and unruly you’d notice more trapped odors. The hair is natural of course, but it’s normal to groom it. The same way men are expected to keep clean faces and hair cuts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:15 PM
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The hair traps the odors which can make the smell more lasting and pungent. And deodorant doesn’t seem to work as well when you’re just coating the hair in it. I think most people at least groom it. Although it’s natural, I think most people agree that it’s unsightly. I’m a straight woman so I don’t mind the hair as much, but when it’s completely unkempt and nasty- definitely a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:13 PM
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I know so many who trim it. They don’t do it as religiously as women bcz they don’t care about the aesthetic as much, but they definitely give themselves a regular trim. From the men I’ve talked to, they usually trim more regularly when they’re in a relationship/married. My husband does it often enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:11 PM
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Not necessarily. Clean men generally keep their pubic hairs trimmed. Even if they don’t shave it bald, a regular trim is in order. Now the ones who are less hygienic and you can tell, I’m 99.9% sure their bits have never seen a razor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:09 PM
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It depends on who you talk to. I like my man to be hygienic and at least somewhat groomed. My exes in general didn’t shave their armpits as much as me but a regular trim, irregular full shave. Personally I feel like a man who has a ton of armpit and pubic hair is somewhat gross. Most clean men at least trim it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:07 PM
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I am 22 and said woman. Yall need to go outside and experience real people. Living in these bubbles of thought distorts your perception of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:26 PM
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Maybe you’re right but relatively speaking, it’s still at an all time high. But thankfully I think most of the “Hoe phase craze” from 2016-2022 is died down
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:47 PM
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Idk every woman in America and I don’t base how I interact with people off of general percentages. That’s exhausting. I just talk to people. In real life. And if we are like minded, we typically continue a friendship. Personally tho, I’m not a feminist and know maybe 3-4 women personally who also are not. At least not in the extreme/radical sense. Of course they believe in certain women’s rights and that we are also people with feelings/wants
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:17 PM
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I did, and I don’t disagree with OP. My comment isn’t about him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:12 PM
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Yeah? Pretty damn sure lol. I’m speaking in the broadness of human history and for this quote I’m speaking for the era of the 1980s to now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:12 PM
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Disagree. This is how the world has worked forever, and still does in most places. You guys gotta pick one…it’s like some of yall want women to be more traditionally minded but you still want her to play daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:15 PM
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That’s not even a little bit true. I think most women will sacrifice more foreplay time to get to the penetration. But if her man was willing to go the distance?? I almost guarantee most women would love to be teased, played with and caressed. See the difference between us is that you see foreplay as a chore or as just getting ready for real sex. For women, foreplay is sex. With proper foreplay, I find that vaginal lubrication lasts a lot longer and you don’t have that dry spell after only 25min…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:10 PM
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So maybe get offline or don’t surround yourself with extreme leftist views? Idk what to tell you. Seems like a really easy thing to steer clear of (offline). But by no means does that mean include anti feminism in your gab when trying to talk to women. Instant Sahara
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:03 PM
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Porque
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:23 PM
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Not at all hard to understand or accept, and that’s not even what we were talking about. I was responding to your comment that men are essentially emotionless animals. As a married woman, and a woman who’s not oblivious to reality, of course I know anyone would settle for “the one”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:22 PM
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Mmm I see that makes sense. If you’re talking about on dating apps, I would say yes because otherwise the ball wouldn’t get rolling. Granted I think most times if you actually match, the man will have already sent a DM so there isn’t always that much opportunity to text first
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:29 PM
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My bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:27 PM
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It depends on if the person will act out on when they get the chance or if they’ll come to their senses. Innocent until guilty. But I’m not sure the OP was even saying he wanted to be promiscuous. I think he’s just voicing how a lot of men feel when it comes to know that most women have a high body count than most men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:26 PM
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I did that’s why I was even more confused
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:24 PM
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Oop my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:22 PM
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Ugh you’re impossible. You want to be single forever go ahead. Clearly that’s what you want. I’m married. My man is 5”9, and sure you could say he’s the epitome of basic white guy. Sexiest guy in my eyes. I know over a dozen married women. Majority of them are married to men their same height and who don’t look like Ryan Gosling. You need to get off line and speak to real women. And real men too! I’m being so for real GO OUTSIDE. So someone can show you what the world actually looks like and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:29 AM
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Oh no I totally agree I could never, but most women get older and don’t feel the same. As a young woman, we are rarely truly lonely. But there will be a time when no one is checking for us lol and a lot of women fear that and would rather have their fun then settle later
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:25 AM
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And this is what I mean by vagina repellent. Some of you guys refuse to believe that maybe it’s not how tall you are or how normal you look and it’s how bad your personality is. But then you still get surprised when a man you deem as short and ugly gets with a 10….you do realize that 67% of all men in the US are married and that makes up men with an average look and an average height of 5”9…right? You do realize that average just describes most people. Stop looking at what onlyfans whores or ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:22 AM
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And how do some of yall ever expect to get there while being vagina repellent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:18 AM
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Because of all of this. Almost all the posts I’ve seen are men angry that women aren’t giving up tail easily or are giving up tail easily but not to them 😂 this whole section is about how men find dating so unfair because women don’t put out or don’t give them a chance. And almost all of you talk about dating as if you’re playing the lottery. And yeah this is the best I’m willing to give, because I wanna have discourse but I’m not gonna write a dissertation for someone who doesn’t want help or w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:17 AM
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It’s not. Like I’m so serious. Maybe yall will have more luck with women if this isn’t how you acted. Do you genuinely think talking to women like this is gonna make them hot for you? Much less want to marry you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:05 AM
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So what? Its literally just a name it’s not like this girl can put you in jail cuz you called her a name lmao 😂 a (crazy) guy in my platoon literally lied to our boss telling him the whole platoon raped him and it was unfounded. I know that’s a random and outlandish comparison, but you shouldn’t be afraid to truthfully tell someone what you think if they’re having a dialogue with you. I mean, do you mean she’s not romantic with you or?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:04 AM
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Who exactly are you talking about? If this lady is really offending you with that, maybe you should tell her about herself. Pop her bubble don’t be scared
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:53 AM
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No, admiration and sexual attraction are two different things. The bland man I described in my comment? That’s literally my husband 😂 quite literally!! I am sexually attracted to men. But just because I find pretty/well dressed women more interesting to look at doesn’t mean I’m sexually attracted to them. I can understand if this is a barrier between male and female gazes! My husband actually says the same thing as you. I’m completely straight but he always calls me gay because I appreciate wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:52 AM
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Not every man wants the most beautiful girl in the world. But using your example: if an average looking man or even an ugly man manages to bag a prime Megan Fox or someone, that’s considered outstanding for him. Men desire beauty. But on the flip side women desire security, financial and physical. So why would it be weird if this extremely beautiful seemingly unattainable woman wanted a rich man? A man can ask for insane levels of ethereal beauty and she can’t want a man who makes good money?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:30 AM
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To be fair, there’s only been like 10-15 years in all of human history where you’re right (obviously the last 10-15yrs). Don’t forget that being considered a lonely spinster has always been a bad thing. Especially since if you’re a deadbeat man, you can change your life around if you work at it and aren’t decrepit. But as a woman, you really only have until 42 to have your own kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:26 AM
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Oh how I wish you were right 🥲 my dad who is painfully redpilled congratulated me on my engagement by spiraling into a rant about how women over a certain age and with kids have far less options and need to settle for what they can get. Also my cousin who can barely stand to see women outside of binary code. Or my uncle who married a woman from Mexico because was younger and barely spoke English
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:24 AM
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Or! Hear me out, you guys could try and have fun and not scare women away with all your calculating the likelihood of her sleeping with you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:17 AM
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Thank you!!! You can see why the men who asks some of these questions aren’t not getting girlfriends just by how they talk about women and dating as if they’re just putting a dollar in the scratch off machine hoping to get the right combination of symbols to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:14 AM
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I hear you but that still shows an “unfairness” just by thinking we’re a lottery system rigged against you. There’s no secret society of women keeping men from Marriage. I mean, 67% of all American men are married. As I’m typing this I realized yall are probably talking about casual sex…anyways. This isn’t a system. It’s a simple biological difference. On average, men will be more accepting of a woman’s sexual advances than the reversed role. And if women were more accepting of random sexual adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:12 AM
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Yo what is this 😂is this cope or something what is goin on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:08 AM
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I don’t think most women have to? That’s just a lot for what. I know not all, but many passport bros just want a woman who’s extremely traditional (nothing wrong with that if you can match her) and can’t speak English well. I’m not interested in a man I can’t communicate with well. And as stats show, women don’t have as hard a time finding men. Men to actually marry is a different story however. But good men are everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:05 AM
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Depends on the woman greatly. I could never date/marry an extremely extroverted man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:56 AM
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Because you’re talking about teenage girls online who post cute activism quotes on instagram lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:56 AM
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I genuinely don’t understand your comment. Who is the every day Nancy you know getting abused by a bill gates or Michael B Jordan 😭 most of them are dating unattractive/undesirable men, you just may not see it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:54 AM
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I agree but I don’t really see any women (in real life) laughing at men who are late virgins. I usually only see this when a guy is complaining about women not fcking him or generally having a sleazy attitude. Then it usually turns into a free for all of disses. Like with anything, there’s always bullies and mean people. But I think it’s safe to say your average normal woman is not going to shame some poor guy for no reason just because he bloomed late
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:52 AM
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W h o is women???? This is the first I’m hearing of this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:43 AM
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What’s been proven, guy? That some red pill content creator used your emotions against you to convince you that only men who make $400k + can get married? Because that’s a huge lie. More than half of the US male population is married and the average income is $64k. Now if you are more concerned that you aren’t getting all kinds of cheap ass, then your bitter comment makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:41 AM
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Why are yall so obsessed with the money aspect? You exampled a guy who hits women but think I should be worried that he makes the average amount of money?? That really shows where your priorities lie and how much you live online. How about you look at the average percentages of married men and compare them to the average salary. Actually, here: Average married male population (US): 67.8% Average male annual income (US): $64k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:39 AM
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Girl you definitely shouldn’t be single based on 4 hypothetical men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:35 AM
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Definitely Adam. Had me at wants to be a farmer and is a construction worker
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:35 AM
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You need to find a new woman. Maybe one who is a feminist and believes in 50/50. Not every woman went with the fad. Lots of us still believe in mostly traditional roles. But gifting has always been a two way street. I always spoil my husband but even when I offer he hates to make me pay for things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:33 AM
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I think that may lie in an issue with pornography and the over sexualization of women. But cmon now. I like a strong back and broad shoulders on a man like any girl, but there’s something so NON sexually mesmerizing about a skinny waist or perfect boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:28 AM
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It simply doesn’t tho for obvious reasons. Most men have the same/similar hairstyle, wear the same straight leg jeans and a cotton striped shirt. Maybe a hoodie. While women put so much effort into looking pretty. Of course my eyes are gonna gravitate to the living Barbie doll. And how I know it’s not homosexuality, on the rare occasion I see a man wearing a nice outfit and really tried with his hair and such, you’re damn skippy I’m walking up to give him a compliment. Be for real. Are you admir…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:26 AM
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I don’t think majority of normal women hold that belief but as a woman, of course I would prefer to hang out with women! We can actually relate to one another. As a woman who has always had an easier time befriending boys due to mother issues, the army has surely fixed that. Being around 95% males at all times has made me so desperately miss being in female spaces. Or just having girlfriends to be girls with. And about the looks things, I think women are just the fairer sex. I mean, look at them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:22 AM
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Damn 😂 now that’s a real serious question. I think it makes sense if a woman is trying to change her ways, and decides to wait until she knows his true intentions. VS a woman who “settles” for a man who she knows will take care of her despite her past, and she’s not sexually attracted to him at all but needed a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:19 AM
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It’s not hard to misunderstand. They realized they can’t roam the streets forever and they scooped up the best choice that would actually take them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:18 AM
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That’s not at all a rare example. Not even in the slightest. Most women have not or do not frequently experience orgasm with their male partner. Some men even get upset when you ask for foreplay. Personally, I had an ex who would literally pout/stop engaging in sex when I asked him to actually get me ready for it. A lot of men just expect you to be ready as quick as they are. Maybe you’re the rare breed who will spend the 10-30mins to warm up the oven but that’s not most women’s experience unfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:17 AM
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Please remember that just because someone is your spouse, friend, family member does not inherently absolve them from all flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:14 AM
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Exactly. Women like sex just as much as men. The difference is that it takes a lot more to please us or even just turn us on. Unfortunately I think a lot of men would rather bypass all the genie lamp rubbing and have us be on their timing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:12 AM
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It’s about enthusiasm and desire. I’ve even done this with my husband and he rejected me 😂 he might be in the mood, and I’m not but I’ll go along with it, but as soon as he seems I’m not fully engaged he wants to wait until I’m actually excited. Sex is more fun when both parties are enthusiastic and ready to make the other O
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:11 AM
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Maybe it’s your perspective? While I agree men on average are more likely to have sexual encounter if offered, but I don’t choose to believe that men are just emotionless animals who sniff around for any meat thrown at them. Sure that’s some men, and even few women. But I know so many men who will not sleep with a woman if they don’t think she has substance or if they don’t think it will turn into a relationship. Granted, most of these men are 23+ and have already had a serious relationship. I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:04 AM
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That’s fair lol. I just gave a list of general/common sense things a man can do to be more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:00 AM
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I don’t know your friends so here’s a common sense/basic list that any man can use to try and become more attractive. This list is also almost fully gender neutral: Develop your social skills Develop your character and personality Go to the gym Shave your fucking balls Learn how to please a woman, know where the clit and Gspot is Learn how to listen to women Develop your own hobbies/become active in your hobbies Have career goals that you work toward frequently Find a way to gain more self confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:59 AM
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How you gonna downvote my comment when we’re saying the same thing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:48 AM
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Every man I’ve dated is a gamer. It’s a pretty common male interest. I don’t dislike it I’m just not interested in it. The same way my fiancé isn’t very interested when I show him hair/makeup/outfits. I can see how it can be unattractive for active women. Because it’s not like most guys like for like an hour. No, usually they’re on there for 4+ hours. Like a part time shift or more on the game. And I think it makes someone women subconsciously think “deadbeat/lazy man”. And that’s unattractive t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:32 AM
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I realizing by reading this thread that a lot of you are boys who simply cannot fathom a woman wanting any form of pleasure or sexual gratification. And if she does it’s because she’s selfish and an evil bitch all because she read a book that centers a woman’s pleasure….but there’s nothing wrong with men watching porn where every woman finds him irresistible and cums just looking at him. Grow up guys. Women want pleasure too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:27 AM
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And what’s the difference with a man watching a porno titled “hot babysitter sucks my cock while my wife sleeps” ? Yall can fantasize but we can’t…? At least yall cum usually during sex. Do you know how many women have never gotten an orgasm from their husband? Why do yall hate seeing us pleasured
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:25 AM
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Yeah it’s ✨fantasy✨. It’s unrealistic. Most women are unfulfilled sexually/romantically so excuse me if I want to read a steamy book where the man of my dreams speaks to me nicely and works to make me feel good while I flick my bean. Men watch porn. Women read romance books. So what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:23 AM
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Because it’s fantasy. It rarely matches real life obviously and it’s nice to fantasize. Especially considering many women are unfulfilled sexually, we have to do it ourselves. You don’t know how many women in these subreddits have issues with husbands who refuse to even try and make them cum (I do see the same amount of posts for men about their wives but this post is about women)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:21 AM
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Is high value code for handsome or good in bed? Because I think for ppl who sleep around that’s all you can really know about the person for sure, especially if you’re throwing yourself at them after a hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:13 AM
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I wish you’d actually read his comment and at least try to understand before bashing :/ he’s not actually talking about cheating men, he’s reversing the roles of what actually is. On average, women have more past sexual partners than men. Usually only the men deemed attractive by society have higher body counts. When usually any woman can have a high body count regardless of looks. And promiscuity has ruinous effects on men AND women. He’s basically trying to put us in the average man’s shoes an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:30 AM
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I don’t think that’s his point at all tho. He’s simply trying to get some women to understand a lot of men’s apprehension with dating a woman with an extremely high body count. He flipped the roles to see if we would take that deal. Promiscuity has ruinous effects on the minds and bodies of both males and females. He used this reversal because obviously it’s way easier for women to sleep with many many sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:26 AM
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I mean, I don’t think celibacy is wrong. It would definitely solve a lot of issues surrounding male and female promiscuity. But the way a lot of people are repressed into it is not good. I feel like the idea should be less centered around shame and more around delayed gratification. That your body is special and unique and deserves to be honored and shared with someone who truly loves and appreciates you. That sex is so beautiful, it should be a scarce commodity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:25 AM
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I think it’s a little different depending on the situation. But I agree that it should at least be equal. Men will always still be held to certain gender standards for obvious reasons, but because of that true fact of nature, women should also learn that there are some standards as women we should respect as well. Unfortunately, the more free a society gets (and therefore safer for women) the more gender roles are relaxed. But of course who is still expected to be the man when shit goes down…so …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:15 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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