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| 1 | Does a disabled man have a chance?Then why does it matter if other men desire her or not? | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Does a disabled man have a chance?Show me one woman who isn't desired by at least a few hundred men. Why is other men's desire of her the key deciding factor? Why not focus on if YOU desire her? Are you aware most men will sleep with almost any woman? Male desire is cheap and abundant, and other men's lack of desire is not what you need to worry about. Worry more about the fact that other men will desire her and be your competition. Sounds like what you're really looking for is the approval of other men. | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable with being sexualThe best sexual tension is unspoken sexual tension. You can feel it in the air, you both know it, it's in the way you look at eachother, the way you speak to eachother. Why ruin it by spelling it out? Just let it vibe. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Uncomfortable with being sexualYou 100% should be uncomfortable being sexual on the first meeting, it will creep out 99% of women. Maybe not a prostitute, but then expect to pay. 100% of my friends get the ick when a dude gets all sexual on the first meeting / message. Gives off creep vibes for sure. Build rapport, take her on a few dates, and then perhaps if she also seems to be into it. Don't treat her like a full blown prostitute unless you are sure she is one - but then prepare to pay. And please, resist the urge to send … | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How did you learn to flirt without feeling weird or awkward?I'm assumming you are a woman Julia! For women it's tricky because men will take niceness as flirting a lot. So just being nice is enough to get the "she's flirting" label. I find the best way to flirt is just eye contact, let it linger a little longer, they'll get the hint even if on a subconcious level. Super subtle but quick double eyebrow raise when you see them if you're brave. You don't even have to be nice! So it goes under the radar, they will just naturally start doing the most after th… | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 01:31 PM |
| 6 | Why do some men ghost when everything is going well?People don't ghost when everything is "going well". They are likely trying you out, and deep down they know damn well this isn't going well for them only they won't tell you that because they are non confrontational. It's easier to pretend its a nice date and then ghost. But don't take it too personally it can be so many factors not always about you. They can have other options, they can have an ex they're still in love with, some insecurities they haven't overcome, and it can also be you but ag… | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?Well I must be gorgeous lol! I never chase. I do show interest, but if he's expecting me to chase him, no sir! I'm cute, not saying gorgeous, but still, the dynamic has to be at the very least even. In fact it should be a nice even ping pong kind of dynamic. The weird ugly ones will be the ones chasing and sometimes they do get some success but in my experience it's not the ones you want. So a nice even dynamic is ideal, if someone is chasing control over the other it's already a lost cause. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 01:05 PM |
| -2 | Hitting on women feels exactly as if I was asking a random person for $1000Now imagine being a woman. You are sitting there and random beggars are just approaching you thinking they are entitled to your money. And they stink and give nothing in return. Yet they keep coming, trying it on. It starts becoming offensive. Like seriously dude - what the hell. Get your stinky ugly ass away from me. You need to stop being that smelly beggar and actually come correct and offer something in return. Wild thought, I know. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 12:03 PM |
| 6 | IntuitionThis is more about a friend than a date, but still relevant. You can always tell how someone will treat you by the way they treat others. I had the nagging feeling I will be dealt with in a similar fashion as others, and kept my guard waaaay up. Pikatchu face: I was. Kept giving chances in fear of being too presumptuous, giving benefit of doubt yada yada. Definitely trust that intuition. LOL I am a pickmeisha :D Brutal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 05:16 PM |
| 40 | level up 2020 👏Absolutely true we should lift one another up. I'm fortunate enough to have plenty of lovely female friends. But every now and again a bad apple comes up who is jealous, competitive, negative, toxic. You need to weed that out too queens :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:57 PM |
| 13 | Sharing my pickmeisha story because i want a good laugh and you do tooLol. This story has happened so many times in my group of friends. The winners for us were: A basketball for Xmas (that he ended up using) A Justin Timberlake poster (Xmas) because it was so funny - you can imagine the tears of joy Mouthwash (Birthday) - because babe, I know you have issues with your breath (I think this one wins the game) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:43 PM |
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