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| 266 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M. | Field Report | Chester1212 | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Every other time I go out I get “you look familiar” or “where do I know you from?” from men and women. What does this mean and how could I use this to pull? | Fundamentals | Chester1212 | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 10:11 PM |
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| 3 | What training MMA taught me about success in datingVery great take. Many noobs in mma gyms who are big or even have training get shit on when they go to mma gyms for the first time or try a new discipline(wrestling to boxing for example). Similarly my friend whos 6’4 w decent success w women would stutter like a hoe if he ever actually approached a woman at a bar or social setting and didn’t rely on friend groups | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Getting a new GF as a 21 year oldMay join u on this. Would you stop if cold approach #3 for example turns into something? | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.How do you know if you fit her preference if you don’t talk to her? | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.I said milf, not old lady didn’t I? Personality-wise she was just a weirdo and it gave me the ick | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.“Could be taken, have high standards, or lots of options.” Yes but they could also be into you, like something about your fit, or maybe you happen to fall into their type. Try giving yourself a chance maybe? Cuz if you don’t nobody else will | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Had it | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.How do ya usually meet em then? | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 11:45 AM |
| 5 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Something ive used before w success if a girl is alone is something along the lines of “hey you look bored, come dance😁” or “hey u look bored whats ur name?” 2nd one is what i used w her pretty sure. Its simple and to the point. Nobody goes to a bar/club to scroll on tiktok and text their ex lmao. Then i awkwardly complimented her fit but it turned into a whole ass convo about cosplay and her going off about hobbies so it ended up working out haha | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.🖐️ | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.So to explain better what i did and how it went, we were sitting outside, moved inside cuz outside closed and I put my hand on her back and she didn’t pull away and THATS when i knew she fw me a bit. Then i held her hand pretty sure(i was drunk so details fuzzy) and thennn i asked to sit once we were inside so we didn’t have to stand again. Thats when i put my arm around her. I didn’t wanna make the story longer than it was but the hand on the back was the sign she was cool w touch. Arm around w… | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Alright so white air forces, levi’s(dont ask which idk), grey long sleeve, and a black colombia puffer jacket open. Nothing too crazy but winter doesn’t usually get this cold where im at so im bringing out whatever i usually cant. Im built a little funny ngl so the puffer jacket helps make me look bigger. Matched w my facial hair and it was a more masc look for sure. Oh and silver chain too😁 | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Lol im just messing w ya | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 09:53 PM |
| 6 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.I was telling my best friend whos got almost 50 bodies about this and he said that i had more balls than him. The idea of going to a bar alone annnd going up to a random girl is scary af to him. Hes a super confident guy so to hear that from him was dope af haha | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Heyyy i wouldn’t say average AT BEST lol. Im aight | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Very true, initial approach and their reaction is the biggest challenge. I will say her smile looked like she was waiting for someone to approach her and she really started yapping after, i just kept up with her in convo. Also helps that we both worked in sales😁. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 02:09 PM |
| 27 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.This was friday and still feel like a champ lmao | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 07:13 AM |
| 14 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Kanye once said “most people are held back by their perception OF THEMSELVES!” Magine that😮💨 | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:53 AM |
| 8 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.10/10. They’re just normal people but better looking lol | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:42 AM |
| 59 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Huge part of me feels like this was luck, as far as things in my control from that night that weren’t luck ill say this. DO NOT THINK YOURE NOT ENOUGH. Do not assume that shes too hot cuz thats literally how i felt until i entered that bar and got approached by the first lady. Other than that, physical grooming goes a long way, and dressing well does too. Had i been more bummy looking she may not have been as receptive | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:11 AM |
| 5 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Lol i promise it wasn’t a dream. Feels like it cuz of how lucky it felt but how it is ig | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Is it weird to approach milfs in your mid 20sDefinitely feel this. The judgement of talking to someone “mom aged” while you feel like a 14 year old boy trying to live his porn fantasies and also feeling judged. I made out w a milf at a bar not long ago who honestly wasn’t all that and felt judged too but was too drunk and into it to care. Glad im not alone here tho | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Every other time I go out I get “you look familiar” or “where do I know you from?” from men and women. What does this mean and how could I use this to pull?Noted | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Every other time I go out I get “you look familiar” or “where do I know you from?” from men and women. What does this mean and how could I use this to pull?Well it’s when im introduced to people. Not randoms coming up to me, more like “this is my friend” and then that’s when people swear theyve met me lol | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Every other time I go out I get “you look familiar” or “where do I know you from?” from men and women. What does this mean and how could I use this to pull?Lmao | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 10:53 PM |
| 5 | I slept with her on our first night hanging out. Thankful for this sub.Ages? | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman?lol go panthers? | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | First approach! How did I do?Making girls uncomfortable especially w day game is inevitable however my only limit is w work really. Going up to them in the street or grocery store is wayyy different than when they work which is all i was saying. And I didn’t say the word “bad” i just said what I’ve been saying which is that work should stay off limits | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | First approach! How did I do?1000% agree, if she’s bored or starts convo w u then talk w her and then based off the vibe ask for a number or leave w/o it making her feel good about the interaction yet curious as to what you’re like since for all she knows it’s your guys’ last interaction | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | First approach! How did I do?Like girls get hit on all the time so i feel like worse should be a safe place for them, hope that makes sense | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | First approach! How did I do?U asked for advice on the interaction, i said don’t try to have that kind of interaction w people while they work. I’m saying this as someone who’s considered doing it myself only to realize how bad it comes off to them. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:04 AM |
| 0 | First approach! How did I do?I agree w the compliment idea, just a lil sum sum while they’re working to plant the seed for the future. But being forward and going straight to asking for a number is a different thing. I’ve worked w women in retail and such and I’ve seen it happen and literally all anyone’s ever focused on is when the next break is | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | First approach! How did I do?Lol stop insisting, u asked for advice | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 09:54 AM |
| 2 | First approach! How did I do?I promise u they wouldn’t | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 09:41 AM |
| 2 | First approach! How did I do?It’s great u did that, but u typically shouldn’t put a girl in that kinda situation in the first place. Ofc you’re still learning as we all are but going forward I wouldn’t hit on anyone working cuz they don’t wanna be bothered | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 05:15 AM |
| 5 | First approach! How did I do?Because she’s just trying to do her job and doesn’t wanna be hit on. You might make her uncomfortable which u likely did in this situation | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 04:44 AM |
| 10 | First approach! How did I do?Don’t hit on a girl while she’s working | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best US City for a single man?Does this apply to black and brown people tho? | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Getting off with girls but not having sex with them..Ironically this is the really easy part, which I couldn’t say a few years ago. But taking em back home is the seemingly impossible part haha | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:03 AM |
| 63 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.How does that help us then | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 6 | Just got a text from the cashier I gave my number to earlier... feeling great!Biggest thing holding me back lol | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Thank youFucking awesome dude! U got this I hope it all works out for u man | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 02:53 PM |
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