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They had to get to that point somehow.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 10:09 PM
1

Not responding to your exact situation but to the question in the title - I think it's often times pride. Evertyhing has to be perfect and the best way to be perfect is to do nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 10:08 PM
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Ottermode
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 09:54 PM
2

I don't know, I'm a dude and I have a love-hate relationship with being alone.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:50 PM
1

Leave her on read and then after some time continue as if she never sent it. In my experience this is when they start sending them more and more often trying to get a reaction.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:06 PM
1

Ignoring is the best reaction. Like shit, I've found out letting a bitch wonder is the best thing you can do. If she doesn't like you in the first place then it's going to be difficult, but shit's left up to chance if the sparks are there.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:52 PM
2

It’s very subjective. One woman’s back alley drummer is another woman’s oneitis, one man’s oneitis is another man’s plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:39 PM
2

I agree with what's being said here, but I really do wonder how many people who so fondly voice their opinions here actually have note-worthy real life experience.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:56 PM
18

Then I'll just keep spinning right.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 06:53 PM
1

Same, but you and I are in a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:36 AM
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Party girls are hot for a couple hours, but then the alcohol and everything else wear off, you see them in broad daylight together with all their fucked up personalities and you just want to run.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 10:55 PM
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a good looking guy with a good job can easily follow alpha strategy notwithstanding the fact he has enough money to play the Beta game. First he would have to know there's something to follow and how to do it. If you are honestly good looking and got the dough then you will get some chick sooner or later, probably have a kid or two and slave away at medicority for the rest of your life, then maybe get divorced maybe not. There's no incentive to get better in something you are not even aware exis…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 10:47 PM
3

I’m a natural tactician, not a strategist. So staying redpilled is hard since I can just wing it with lots of situations in life and come out on top. There’s no control is such life tho, events and days just happen to you and you don’t know why. However I’m improving.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 06:00 AM
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Yeah, if you are an attractive woman there's always going to be some thirsty guy ready to provide for you. Hell, I'm an attractive guy and women lower in smv pay for my shit all the time, so I can imagine what it's like in this department when you are some dude's oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:18 PM
13

Being drunk is like having impecable Inner game for 2 hours. Do your best to achieve that state while sober.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 11:52 PM
1

Damn, that makes sense. I can see how from her point of view my distance towards the guy could be interpreted as respect. There's only one guy I can think of that would piss me off more, and she would have no chance in hell in getting him to fuck her because he's one of my bros, has a hot gf that's kinda similar looking so no novelty (especially considering he's mostly into arab/mulatto chicks as side pussy), and is so chill of a stoner he wouldn't stand her personality for 10 minutes. If she fu…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:25 PM
2

...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:57 PM
3

There's always going to be some tension in the air until you've seen each other naked and fucked. It makes everything easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:37 PM
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The sooner you fuck the sooner you will be comfortable around each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:23 PM
2

Find a man big enough you don't have to pretend to be smaller.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 04:18 PM
3

I think women where I'm from (Eastern Europe) are more likely to be a bit more aggressive when it comes to pursuing men they like than it is to the west unless they happen to read those women's dating advice books flooding in from, well, the west, so that's probably cultural. Then again I've never lived in a 1st world country so I'm going off on what I read on the internet and saw on youtube and other media, I only know my country's women first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 06:30 PM
1

I don't know how well would it translate when you switch up the genders, but what I did was take two of my girl friends to a club and got physical in front of them with a random woman I met there and later talked with them about it in the same fashion I would to male friends of mine. They didn't freak out or seem upset or anything so from then on I stopped filtering myself because I learned I can be sure they aren't just fronting to be my friends to covertly sneak into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 06:18 PM
2

Men and women can be really good friends from my experience, even if it's rare. Some of my best friends are women and we are very compatible people, but they are just not my type so I simply don't pursue a relationship and it works out fine. Sometimes we make out or have a little drunk fun but I don't think it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 05:32 PM
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I’m from Eastern Europe and I think you can chat 90% of people up pretty easily if you are visibly drunk and having lots of fun.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 02:47 PM
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Love you babe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 12:42 PM
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What does that have to do with this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 07:11 AM
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I love this post man. You hit the nail on the head for me. I admit I even have my list of features too, fuck. And it’s eerily similar to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 01:43 AM
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I can’t articulate it, but some women just get it. They have that feminine presence and can carry themselves in a very damn sexual way without having to twerk on your dick every time you look away to keep the magic going. Not that I mind that, but that’s just not something that’s going to make me call you back. Like some girls are good at building up the tension with me and don’t burst it the second they feel a tingle by doing something dumb, so we can “unload” at the same time and it leads to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 01:00 AM
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Fact - People trying to tell OP he’s doing something wrong are larping theoreticians with no real experience.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 06:02 AM
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White women are the least likely to sleep around outside their race according to statistics, look it up. You are talking about hollywood and blacked porn induced fantasy. White women who become single mothers with mulatto children are pretty much guaranteed to be crazy in some way.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 05:57 AM
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Maybe bc most of us here aren’t native speakers smh
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 05:53 AM
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And foreigners. Bet half of the userbase here is from overseas.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 05:51 AM
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You ahouldn’t have let her move in with you, that’s the problem man. You jumped the gun.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:21 PM
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I think it’s time to move out brah.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:19 PM
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I’m not talkong about gymrat body, for most guys an ottermode would be a giant improvement but their consistency in anything health related is shit usually.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 07:14 PM
1

After committed 6 months you can look pretty good if you started out as an average guy around 16% bf 180lbs.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:22 PM
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Depends on location. Social media game and it's importance differs from country to country.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:21 PM
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Even though I myself am more inclined towards the purple pill, I fail to see how it is an upgrade from the red pill. Unless children are in the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:12 PM
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What do you think is the next step?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:09 PM
1

You really need to exercise your inner autism more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:07 PM
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Could it be narrowed down to being cooperative just enough to swallow others into your rock-solid frame and presence instead of falling into an already existing one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:56 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:54 PM
1

That's quite a large percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:53 PM
1

What about “Fake it till you make it” rule? Do you consider it deceptive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:48 PM
1

After reading the replies and pondering the subject a bit more, I’ve come to the conclusion of good, red pilled men and women being impossible to describe because good and evil don’t exist in a morally universal form, which is especially noticable when confronting a group prone towards individualism and rejection of social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:45 PM
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“The thing is to follow the reason, not the crowd.“ This is exactly what brings men and women to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:35 PM
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It’s just a bland statement with no real meaning. Every group of people perceives excellence differently. To the mainstream excellent behaviour may mean being extremely agreeable, cooperative, willing to provide and self-depreciating/sacrificing at the cost of being a loser and a doormat, to the red pill on the other hand? Certainly getting laid while being focused on yourself and your purpose, disregarding societal shaming in favour of generating attraction in women and attaining personal succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 06:05 PM
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Yeah, I want my woman to be submissive to me because I’m the man, not just generally towards every random chump with no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 05:10 PM
1

Yeah man, I don’t mean in the context of perceived attractiveness, but red pill morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:25 PM
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Marriage (big commitment) doesn't lead to sex. ​ It used to. But it's no longer 1900's, it's only red pill from now on. Unfortunetly. But a man gotta do what a man gotta do.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:23 PM
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What country are you from dude? I know a guy like that.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 08:13 PM
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I can provide for myself You are 18. Do you mean your parents? If not then share please I need to make cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:35 PM
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Considering how most people in NA came over from Europe I don't know how that cultural quirk of yours developed. We don't smile for no reason while walking or smth, if I saw anyone just randomly doing that I would think they are probably insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:01 PM
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“Son, fuck a rich bitch.” Daaamn, that's what my bro did and now he has the best thing going out of all my friends. On the other hand girls from poorer backgrounds who consider themselves "independant women" etc because they are going to college/whatever care about cash, a lot, even if her parents are still paying for her shit and she works part-time as a babysitter or smth lmao.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 11:33 AM
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As I've said elsewhere, this is your fault. Don't like it? Stop focusing on sex and start being a better man. ... Are you serious? Where did you get this bit from? I'm fine, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 11:15 AM
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You think a woman's greatest value is sex because it's what you want from her. That's exactly why it is a woman's greatest value. That's women's leverage in relationships. If men cared the most about bonding then a woman's time would be her greatest value, but we don't, because if we did we would not care about having a relationship with you in the first place, in that case we could just stay friends. I have girl friends who I don't care to have sex with and keep in touch with just because I enj…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 10:21 AM
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Men's most important resource is our time. Women's sex. You want men to give you their most valuable resource in a relationship based on a possibilty that maybe you'll give them yours. Self-respect shouldn't let a man with options even consider that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 09:23 PM
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Everyone hates that which reminds them of their failures the most. Women : weak dependant (pregnancy) and feminine men. Men: toxic women without motherly instincts who look unfeminine. That's an interesting view. I think I understand more about myself now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 08:06 AM
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Most are larpers, agreed. Tho the few successful ones probably come here to vent and learn when things go bad for them in the same way that women do with dating advice books and women's echo chambers on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 07:54 AM
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I don't hate women and I find TRP strategies extremely effective. I love em and want to be the best, happiest man I can, and that involves having women in my life so I need to be high SMV to have that piece of the puzzle in it. I also disagree with the notion women "are just having fun" and don't harbor resentment towards men, wtf. Have you ever seen or been in a group of ladies having a night out? Hating on men is a constant topic, same with men, talking about how these hoes ain't loyal etc. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 07:29 AM
1

You attract what you are. RP is improving my life quality in its own way. Whether I'm a good person or not is a seperate matter that's going to affect what's in my dating pool, RP techinques will allow me to be effective in this pool of predetermined attracted to me women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 07:23 AM
1

Works both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:17 AM
1

Then every woman who’s not acting against what she perceives as her own interest is broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:01 AM
1

Im Euro trash anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 05:34 PM
2

I like this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:58 PM
2

What do you understand by that? If by that you mean she does what’s best according to women’s nature, yes. Would she leave my dad if he became low value, lost his job, swagger etc? Most definitely. But does she love her children and did her best for us when we were growing up? Absolutely. Do I love my mum? Hell yeah. Still, she is just a human like any other person, and doesn’t innately and unconditionally have the qualities that people here want to look for in a constant form in a quality woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:51 PM
1

That’s mgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:34 PM
1

It’s a usful term and quite accurate. Your opposite gender parent leaves an imprint on your subconscious by their behavior towards you that you are later on going to look for in your partner and find attractive, whether you consciously agree with it or not. It’s good that you find the idea of fucking your dad repulsive, that’s normal and that’s how it should be, but his way of treating you when you were a child is a part of your psyche now. Also, it’s been proven scientifically as a kid you do f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:28 PM
2

I don’t think quality women exist in the sense people understand it here. They will behave in accordance to their nature no matter what, and it’s men’s role to be aware of it, through their actions creating circumstances that make women act how they want them to behave. Failure of doing this is exemplified in a great way by 1st world men bringing home “quality” women from the 2nd and 3rd world only for them to become exactly the same as local women because of the lack of proper behaviour from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:19 PM
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What is a broken woman? What’s the threshold? All women have the same desires on the biological (or if you rather emotional) level when it comes to choice of partners, whether the woman is currently perceiving you as short-term or long-term partner is the most important difference in how she’ll act towards you (if she’s viewing you as a potential partner at all). This is why TRP behavioral techniques for men work in the first place, there’s a universal pattern to attraction by which women assess…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:06 PM
1

Sorry about that, I’m on mobile and it seems fine, I’ll fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 01:50 PM
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Change my view dude. In my eyes the best course of action is understanding and embracing human ugliness. We are all human, men and women ugly in their own unique way. There’s no ideal, there’s only reality and enjoying and accepting it exactly as it is the key to happiness. Edit: Also, I’m not disagreeing red pill techniques and ideas, I’m focusing on the state of mind. You should not be a simp nor a beta. But being angry about nature is like hitting your head against the wall. If you can’t chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 01:38 PM
3

Yup
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:51 PM
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CMV. I want my statement challenged/my wrongly understood theory corrected by other members of the community if they think I am wrong. Edit: It’s an acronym for Change My View
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:37 PM
2

Yess, love but from a redpill frame. Blue pill men love delusions that they created in their own minds and become angry/sad/confused when real women aren’t the unicorn they thought they are. Real women are ugly without make up, do dumb shit, are goofy, neurotic, love the way you make them feel not you, have extremely stinking diarrhea and first and foremost are sluts who are always looking for a daddy in available men. And as redpilled men we understand their nature and act accordingly without p…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:36 PM
2

Why so? Edit: I think men who are resentful can still be successful in hook ups and one night stands if they learn how to go through the motions of masculine traits and behaviours, so they don’t really have to embrace the natural masculine mindset from which those behaviours really stem. Doubt any of them could do that for too long with a single chick before they run out of script.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:49 AM
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CMV man. This is what I learnt that led me out of the anger phase. I’m still all about sleezballing and fucking em to sleep if you like that, but if you don’t enjoy them for what they are you will always be resentful. Edit: Saw you add that last bit. Redpill and LTR aren’t mutually exclusive, it’s not a mgtow sub.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:36 AM
2

High scoring on narcissism, machiavellianism, and psychopathy
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:12 PM
2

Flirty jokes and playful touch are what I do mostly. As long as everyone’s having fun it’s going to feel right.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:12 AM
1

So this is what scam looks like
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:00 AM
1

Learn to love yourself and control your impulses to do beta shit. Go out more and immerse yourself in your social life. Start meditating and read the sidebar. Improve your style and skin/teeth/hair/beard care. Begin lifting. Get into a mindset of abundance, because right now you are in a scarcity mindset and everytime the girl you are orbiting gives a little bit of attention your brain goes nuts and says “AAAAAAH PUT A BABY IN THAT WOMAN RIGHT NOW, YOU’LL NEVER HAVE A CHANCE TO FUCK SOMEONE SO H…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:57 AM
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Dark triad personality + red pill knowledge + good looking + meditation + going out consistently + lifting + having a purpose that gets cash = Psycho Chad Heartbreaker
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:48 AM
1

I already knew it, but every time I read about this dynamic a miniscule blue pilled simp in my head sheds a tear.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 10:43 AM
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Consider the way you dress and the way you address and talk to the women you fuck. Try to be more of an asshole and don't be afraid of it. Crack a joke or two at their expense. Taunt them. Dominate during sex.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:02 AM
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Why are you in this friend circle? Everybody has a motive for being in a clique, if you don't you are wasting your time. Instead of wasting your time with this drama meet new people, network and build your new social circle.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:58 AM
2

If I were you I would just ask her where she wants the relationship to go after that, what's her end game, neither agreeing nor disagreeing to it. Then I would still bang other chicks while keeping her unsure of her position in my eyes until I get a conclusive answer and evaluate the pros and cons based on that.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:55 AM
2

You are too nice to women. She told you that because you didn't have enough of a short-term strategy vibe.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:50 AM
2

If you are completely sure she isn't banging other dudes at the moment she probably has beta orbiters she doesn't want to lose or has her eyes on a more attractive dude than you for who she will drop you the first chance she has.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:46 AM
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If you ain't hitting it raw I don't even know why you are considering a plate that wants to be exclusive.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:38 AM
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Depends what's more valuable to you - her pussy without a condom or multiple pussies with a condom?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:33 AM
1

I'm so happy I always was too narcissistic and self-centered to be a long term beta orbiter, even before I knew anything about game.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:21 AM
2

At the same time all play and no work makes jack a mere toy.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:11 AM
1

ESFP short-term and ESTP long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:09 AM
1

I'm a man and no, I don't. There was only one girl I knew I wanted a relationship with before I had sex with her, it was a terrible period of my life. I'll never repeat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:06 AM
1

Think less and be more present in the moment. You won't be able to keep it up constantly but you can maximalise it. Also, why would you want to be in the mood 24/7? Don't you have a job or something
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:57 AM
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"GIVE ME AIDS CHAD, OHH MY GOOOOOD ALL THIS AIDS FEELS SO GOOD IN MY PUSSY"
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:47 AM
2

Isn't all social interaction like this? We all manipulate each other daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:33 AM
1

ALL WORK AND NO PLAY MAKES JACK A DULL BOY
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:29 AM
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The moment a girl is significant to you is the moment you can't have her. They are all sluts, remember that. You need to understand romance is dead, the hippies killed it back in the 60s. Just go out clubbing more and bust a nut in a drunk hoe in the bathroom stall, it will be a refreshing experience I guarantee.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:28 AM
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Only thing is that I stopped jacking off after I met her. You care way too much, it appears you already caught feelings for her and you haven't even met her in person yet. ​ Like I’ve also been hitting the gym and she’s been calling me cute. She can call a 100 guys cute on a dating app, if she isn't sending nudes and doesn't want to meet up with you it means nothing ​ What would you do? Next her, probably meditate and read the sidebar again (I hope you already did) if I were to catch feelings so…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:25 AM
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TRP is a subculture. When it was more underground only a select few would contribute. Now it's more popular and thus the content has become a bit watered down to fit a wider audience. Also gaslighting and false flagging from people who pretend to be part of the community is definitely taking place as well.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:20 AM
4

So she's given you pretty much nothing bro. So far you've been just utility for her, a steady stream of validation. Do with it what you will.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:12 AM
1

Try to be more precise in what you want to ask.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:09 AM
2

I have female friends and it's usually that I'm more attractive than they are. I know they want to fuck me, so I lead them on a bit, but I'm mostly friends with them because they invite me to parties they throw and this way I can meet their other, potentially more attractive friends and network further. They also validate my ego and support me emotionally like a beta orbiter man would usually do to a girl he likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:06 AM
2

Then what should I do?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:03 AM
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Oh, it's a negative 5. Then they were just poking fun at you, probably treating you more like a cute younger brother than a potential mate.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:01 AM
1

Nudes?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:00 AM
5

Act casual and laid back. Don't say sorry unless you absolutely need to.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:59 PM
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She's milking whatever attention she can get out of you without having to do anything in return.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:57 PM
2

Yeah, if he's a grown man and really 5'3 5/10 is pretty good score.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:53 PM
4

Do just enough of it, the more socially aware you are the better. Prolonged eye contact needs proper context, without it it's creepy as fuck and may make others literally terrified of you as some creepy corpse snatcher.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:51 PM
1

Decrease the amount of attention you give her at a weekly rate. Instead of texing her 4 times a week, do it 3 times, then 2, then 1. Flake on a date or two or don't set up one at all. At this point she'll be probably freaking out. Up to you how you handle that.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:48 PM
1

I approach them differently now, I don't need to catch feelings to want to have sex with them.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:46 PM
0

I don't know how I feel about this.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 11:44 PM
2

I honestly don't know if you are serious or just bragging
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:40 PM
2

Be more charismatic and socially aware so that you know the social norms in the setting you are in. Observe more successful men.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:38 PM
0

I've been struggling with this as well. My mind's humor sucks because it instinctly creates long, elaborate responses with a jaded punchline after a build up which would sound autistic and try-hard if I were to use them instead of fuck-off witty one-liner jabs, I don't know how to re-calibrate it to be more successful in verbal sparring with my competition.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:21 PM
1

Sometimes. Usually it just means I'm not drunk enough yet.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:18 PM
1

Train yourself in the intricacies of social interaction. You are probably holding too much or too little eye contact, or your interaction are too long or you make a boring topic for her drag on for too long. Nuance like this is hard to teach through text, get out there and experiment.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:16 PM
3

Hire an escort because right now you care too much. Once she pops your cherry you'll probably be able to be more laid back about the whole thing.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:14 PM
4

What are you talking about
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:13 PM
3

I don't know, but I remember something about it being scientifically proven that "Don't Stop Me Now" is the most "Feel-Good" song in the world based on some frequencies or some shit.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:12 PM
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I'm a beginner and the longest I held on to a plate was 6 months with periods of me not initiating contact at all and then just swooping in to cash in on that booty. Then I got into a LTR and had to stop.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:11 PM
2

Some are probably beta orbiters, most are probably just fooling around with an attractive girl they work with. Of course they won't do that in your face if they have absolutely any shred of respect for you. She's probably enjoying the attention and is enabling them without thinking anything of it. Assess the alpha out of the guys she works with and unless he has game and fucks her at a party or something I don't think you have anything to worry about.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:07 PM
0

I have a similar problem, but the biggest issue is I live on the absolute outskirts of my city, and it takes about an hour and a half to get from the city center where all the clubs are back to my house and there are no buses/barerly any trams available during night hours. I'm forced to either go to the girl's place, which is not ideal, or to a a house of one my mates who agreed to that before we went out, which is not always an option. There's no way I'll be able to stay in the mood for so long…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:58 PM
4

Women need to be unsure of their position in your eyes so they can continually work to get your validation and wonder about you. If you are too straightforward in speech the dynamic is ruined. Be straightforward in action, build sexual tension and lead the relationship this way. Let her wonder what all that meant to you afterwards, so she becomes emotionally invested in you.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:52 PM
1

I remember a similar situation in a very openly christian friend circle of mine. The guy with "player" reputation was thought to have no chances with the girls by other guys, but surprise surprise, they all talked about him all the time and he ended up in a LTR with one of the hottest ones. Such is life, AWALT. Also another friend's gf who he met in a church youth group of some sort broke up with him over a chad who she met during travelling after like a year of a seemingly great relationship. I…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:48 PM
1

Act like you don't care and have a shit tonne of girls you hook up with all the time. It doesn't have to be true, act like it.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:42 PM
3

Good to know. I would rather steer clear of ED pills for now since I don't know if they can fuck my erection up long term.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:39 PM
7

Make it a habit to flirt and display interest casually to and with every girl. They will just see it as part of your personality then and if you are a charismatic, popular guy as def. not creepy. That's what I always did in college and it worked great, made the girls want me and at the same time they attachted no ulterior motive to my actions other than being playful.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:09 PM
2

You can get regular sex and financial support from her for 5 years tops, dump her after that, she'll start getting old most likely from that point on. I still wouldn't prefer that over pulling chicks my age, but it's up to you, if you really like her so much. Just don't become resentful when it ends, thinking you wasted so much time with a milf instead of pulling young chicks.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:58 PM
2

Yup, I can see the potential in sex parties but there's no way in hell I would do that with a girl I caught feelings for. Same for OP most likely.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:31 PM
2

It may be a sexual thing.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 09:28 PM
37

Trying to lock you down, don't fall for it. Stay alpha.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:26 PM
2

Wouldn't that impair your progress in being socially apt and general people skills?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:28 PM
1

All women shit test. Your mum too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 06:47 PM
2

They give away freely men's most important resources in the sexual market - their time, attention and validation (and sometimes even money!) to a girl they want to fuck, constantly rewarding her for just existing and acknowledging them in some way hoping to get laid some day. They are pretty much the reason the red pill exists, because now women have so much reach with social media/pubs/clubs/dating apps/travelling/etc it's extremely easy to have a steady supply of beta orbiters, who over time i…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:30 PM
1

Most smart people in the western world think it’s not worth going to jail over something like this so there’s not enough empirical data to answer this question conclusively, tho one can speculate based on prison dynamics or third world societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 06:03 PM
1

Oh shit, I have to remember this one
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:52 PM
13

That's amazing lmao, I have to do that
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:48 PM
5

Been there. You can try to make it work, but it's an exhausting LTR. The fact she keeps and enables so many beta orbiters means she needs constanst, and I meant fucking CONSTANT ego validation because she has some major self-image issues. She will value you as a guy "that's just different", until you'll get tired of her shit and slip up in your game, then she will most likely devalue you and become resentful as shit towards you. Your choice man, just don't whatever you do don't catch feelings. T…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:35 PM
1

It reminds me of a situation I remember from high school - I was waiting for a bus with a friend of mine and we were talking about a party he was throwing. When I asked him why X isn’t getting invited even tho he’s going to class with us, he just said “Because he’s ugly” lmao
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:44 AM
2

No problem man, that’s why I’m here.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:38 AM
2

HOTWFIP What's the acronym for? Googling it only gives me results of "hot wife" porn videos.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:20 AM
9

Breaking someone's frame is not talking smack about your mate to his girlfriend. That's textbook beta orbiter behaviour.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:57 PM
1

They are acting on what's happening in the present and what emotionally feels right to them at the moment, it's not really rocket science and still is pretty straightforward in my view.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:26 PM
9

I really don't understand how can so many men reject the idea of even just reading the red pill materials, considering they know about it. Everyone constantly bitches that their relationships/dating lifes suck, then why the hell aren't you trying to learn something new that might fix your shit
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 11:13 PM
1

True. Real 7-8s will have women constatly peeking at them in pubs, hallways, malls etc and will get messaged on social media out of the blue by women who are 6s or below. It's quite easy to spot a man who's a 7+ in public. Edit: Also undue favours from women you just met. That's a big one.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:40 PM
1

The "it just feels right" trance. I get it.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:27 PM
1

A male with a 10 face can become a 7 or less with bad enough energy/aura. With a bad enough aura you can turn from a 10 even into a fucking 4, doesn't work the other way around tho. I met so many good looking guys who killed their chance to fuck the moment they opened their mouths or let their weird body language out.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:16 PM
1

Yeah, I'm 5'11 and never had any girl comment on my height.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:13 PM
2

Just break up, if she really is crazy and starts begging you to come back to her in a school hallway and you'll reject her it will make other girls want you more. It's more likely she'll just start spreading lots, and I mean lots of rumors and negative gossip about you to make you look like a psychopath who beat and abused her (had something like this happen in high school). Other girls will most definietly still find you attractive and will just become more interested in you, so no worries. The…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:01 PM
2

I consider applying my red pill knowledge in a thread like this a great opportunity to revise what I already learnt and expose my statements to critique from other, more advanced members of the community, allowing me to polish whatever area I may be lacking in and improve my future instinctual behaviour and the way I read people. It just depends what your goals of coming on here are I guess.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:54 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:50 PM
6

They just need to look pretty and act feminine Unless the guy is not a high status, redpilled (consciously or not) alpha male with lots of options, I disagree. They need to give their man reason to keep interested and stay with her in a relationship. Otherwise, why would he not dump her? Avoiding being only a pump and dump for an alpha and making him stick around is what game for women really is about. It's not hard to get and keep a man, it's hard to get the man.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:48 PM
1

It's interesting from a more psychological point of view. Of course people don't make conscious choices when they do stuff like that, so it's fun to play Freud with their behaviours and reason why their subconscious made them do what they did. Edit: Also, the more you analyze and understand now by reading and learning, the more you will instinctually grasp and react accordingly later on.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:37 PM
1

Really now? I'm dark blonde and green eyed, my wingman is light blonde and blue eyed. I never associated any of it with our success in pulls. Edit: Mostly because I never saw any darker looking mates (still white) struggle with it if they have game. Edit2: Actually I believe you, after giving it some thought it's most likely true.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:29 PM
1

If you ever stop gaming her you might loser her. Been there. Red pill allowed me to game my oneitis but as soon as I extrenalized the blue pill I hid inside me and thought "Well fuck it, everything worked out in the end" it was over. Game is non-negotiable.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:26 PM
1

It's probably based on location. Where are you from? For example, I'm from the colder part of Europe and around here blonde hair/blue eyes give you very little advantage at best because every girl takes light pigmentation for granted. I imagine it's different everywhere else tho.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:18 PM
2

Women will try to do all that for a man they find attractive without any advice needed, besides the pink part, it's a weird one. I just get a resentful vibe from all that, no surprise he gets hated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:13 PM
2

A 7 or 8 is hot - hella hot, like you pretty much get IOIs every single time you go out in public. Girls will orbit you if you even look / smile at them. First one is true, second one is meh, unless they have no interest in girl game at all and never read a single women's dating advice book, which is rare, atleast where I'm from most attractive women read that bullshit. I would say they will stalk you big time after you just looking at them, probably talk about you to their girlfriends and do th…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:10 PM
1

People always criticize the leader behind his back. Always. And for ~some~ reason they stay in your clique. All it means is that the women are thinking about you and other guys are beta followers who need you because without you they can't get the women's attention - of course their instinct is to talk shit about you to try make themselves look better in comparison. Women are smarter than that tho, they ain't giving 'em no crumb of pussy any time soon. If your girlfriend is in the group you can …
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:59 PM
50

You are in a LTR, her ego was on the line. If people make jokes of her man, then he's not respected, thus people think he's' a loser, which means she's dating a loser, and that means she had to settle for a low status loser because she can't do better. The guy was most likely beta as fuck too, because like what alpha male does that. If she didn't defend you people would take her silence for agreement, which would mean she is aware of dating a loser but does nothing about it. ​ Edit: Summing up, …
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:24 PM
3

AWALT, always
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:38 PM
2

There’s nothing to disagree about, your energy/aura/vibe is a fancy word for how others perceive you based on gestures, tone of voice, way you move, your posture, how you dress, what you talk about etc
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:47 AM
2

I emphasize improving your style and general clothing awareness.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:42 PM
2

What were your expectations? It’s an awesome, supportive community.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:38 PM
5

I notice the only times women ever are passive aggressive towards men is when we pull some blue pill shit or they want to indirectly prove something to us. Or both at the same time.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:35 PM
6

Soon
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:26 PM
1

That’s alright, I agree with what you wrote and the general sentiment in it. And I do notice that the most physically attractive men I meet usually grew up in the upper echelons of the society in one way or another. I did not observe a similar effect in women, however, atleast in terms of pure physical desirability.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:56 PM
5

That’s true I guess. It’s just that the blue pill mindset’s emotional ups and downs were like heroin to me, when I sometimes got lucky I was the happiest man in the world, but chasing those trips and coming down from them was destroying my life pretty much. TRP, on the other hand, took my drug away and gave me a job, if I’m to paint it simply.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:35 PM
5

I agree being attractive is a huge boon in life, but even a very attractive guy can get to a point at which it’s hard for him to get laid or be social at all, like childhood trauma/extreme poverty growing up/shitty parenting etc and lead him to rediscovering his powers through the red pill. Edit: Such circumstances are much more common than most people who grew up in good homes think.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:26 PM
4

They use women’s common sense, which is pretty straightforward once you understand it. It’s of course different than what men operate on. Hypergamy and shit.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:06 PM
1

Is it tho?
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:28 PM
1

Of course it’s “sexist”, doesn’t mean it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 08:12 PM
1

I noticed the same thing, being a very attractive man makes a lot “girl problems” run into you and changes your behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:24 PM
2

Shit’s insightful as fuck, still though, different areas, differrent sort of effort
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:15 PM
1

Being naively loyal to groups/people/ideas/partners/religion (or lack of thereof)/belief or value systems/etc until reality hits em in the face. And then again. Then again. I believe mature men simply become naively loyal to themselves, first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:03 PM
1

Things I think are extremely attractive - Ability to micromanage and notice stuff that I don’t. I prefer to look at the bigger picture and focus on my purpose, so there are things I sometimes don’t pay attention to that should be noticed. Also good manners (being able to show up somewhere with her and know she won’t act out of place is amazing), taste in style, good perfumes, capability for sophisticated speech without being a smartass and a strong sense of emphaty (I can’t explain the last one,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 01:25 PM
2

Beta males are fucking creepy when they pursue a woman even if they are good looking/rich. Being an alpha is non-negotiable. Even if a woman settles for a beta sexual chemistry is dead and it’s based on a logical, thought through choice and lack of better competition at the given time, not one based on attraction and emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:58 PM
15

I don’t see how this statement renders anything she said false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:54 AM
3

Nice work here. I emphatise with the idea of "going through the motions" of the red pill instead of really embracing it until you get the girl you want and, surprise surprise, go back to being a bitch until reality hits you in the face again. It took me close to a year to get over a single broken relationship and I think I made every mistake in the book along the way, the ultimate lesson here is that it was all my fault and now I can only go forward, improve and conciously take advantage of what…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 08:51 PM
1

How is he not? If he leaves she takes the kids and half his shit. He's her bitch.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:57 PM
0

True, but I don‘t really see how a modern man could remain alpha while in a commited, exclusive long term relationship. She no longer needs to chase his validation, he‘s pretty much owned by her which screws with her hypergamy, and after some time if he’s not an abusive/cheating guy and she’s not codependant with no self-esteem (couples like this stay together the longest from what I notice, not saying it’s healthy) then when the novelty wears off he‘s going to become boring and not stimulating …
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:22 PM
1

If they are talking about you, they are thinking about you, which is great social proof to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:24 AM
1

6 male friends according to your criteria, and 5 female friends (I could list more of both, but I personally wouldn't feel comfortable with them coming over to my place even though they would agree) No. I wish I had more. Atleast 10 of each gender Yes. I soft-cut contact because I didn't enjoy hanging out with them anymore. Not that much. Work, college etc. I spend it on pubs, parties, hanging out, dates, clubs, and when I'm feeling terrible I'm surfing the internet or working out. Yes. Absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:54 PM
1

He's very religious himself, so it works just fine.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:48 PM
1

I see them falling for guys with some muscle and like 18% bf. They are alpha as fuck and have access to drugs usually tho.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:41 PM
3

Go out more. Make more friends. Meet more people. Get back in touch with people who you lost contact with over the years. Meet up with them. Meet their friends. And then their friends' friends. Update your social media. Take up a hobby that puts you with other people in the room.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 03:31 PM
19

I agree. Don't be afraid to be shitty and accept responsibilty. Fear of making mistakes is what fucked with my behaviour for so long and made me stay on the sidelines.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 03:23 PM
1

I don't think there's a true objective scale. There are some things that can be generally considered attractive across all continents and cultures, such as facial symmetry etc. but otherwise it's all personal and cultural.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:21 PM
1

It depends on what you value more. Your free time, your status, or the goal of the project? I know girls like that, and they are usually very nice, good people.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:11 PM
20

Try to develop your responsible and goal oriented side more. Try to take on more of a father figure role to your friends. Be honest and start taking yourself a little bit more seriously. You are not a dancing monkey. You are a man. And if you want to appear as someone who's worth a nine months long investment, grow a spine and react when you should. Doesn't mean you can't take a joke, but know the difference between a joke and outright disrespect.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:07 PM
3

Go down to atleast 16%. That should help slim down you face and make you appear longer.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 03:03 PM
1

I know women who can act alpha as fuck. Maybe not in a social hierarchy leader kind of way, but when they have some team goal in mind, they can make it happen.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:56 PM
2

I'm doing my best to be that person as well. It makes me very happy.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:52 PM
3

That's probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 02:50 PM
1

If you are a good leader you don't have to vilify *everyone*. When you perceive someone as a danger then yeah, sure, but otherwise no.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:48 PM
4

My mate goes to church youth gatherings to meet girls. He's pretty successful and happy.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:46 PM
3

It's an american thing then. I'm from Eastern Europe and class divide is pretty invisible here up until you are in your 30s. Then people socialise less with unfamiliar people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 02:36 PM
1

Every man thinks he can win a fight, pull a girl and apparently that he's an alpha. Can't really blame 'em.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:32 PM
5

Anything below 7 in attraction is a failing score. Nobody goes out of their way to fuck someone they perceive as a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 02:27 PM
7

I don't think security, roid rage and gay connotations more like. I'm not hating on bodybuilding, I really enjoy the sport and admire people who compete, but it's just not the best chick magnet. Unless you are Arnold.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:25 PM
2

Was the experience extraordinary to you in some way? Did she put extra effort in and went out of her way to please you? If yes, then reward that behaviour. The thing is to not reward appropiate behaviour because it will make her lazy, def. not look past bad behaviour because it will make her resentful, and to reward excellence. This one time doesn't matter, but keep in mind this advice so you don't fall into a bad pattern in all this.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:23 PM
1

Obv. ripped aesthetics. Your looks are you brand, they tell a woman what to expect of you. What do you think an average woman expects of someone like Phil Heath when she sees him?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:18 PM
2

I guess it depends on your priorities. I think it can be really fulfilling for some people. And gets you quality girls.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:15 PM
1

Well, that's true. And it works, doesn't it?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:52 PM
1

By average I mean a 7 physically, if you are a disgusting fatass with a repulsing face who looks like he smells bad then yeah, you are probably fucked and will have to date desperate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:22 PM
2

I disagree too. It's usually on the internet that you hear advice like this. It's as if parents try to marry off their daughters to the first good looking guy that's nice to her. When you are a teen it makes you needy and drives the guy away, which sucks I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:03 PM
1

Maybe if they are not interested in the girl she won't be the one to intitate, but if she got one's attention at a party/whatever she would fall for an attractive dude that knows what he's doing 9 out of 10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:02 PM
2

I disagree. I notice a lot of fat women who would be very beautiful if they lost weight. Their fatness still grosses me out, but there's a hot chick buried somewhere there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:51 PM
1

Yeah, it's subjective. An 8 to one girl will be a 9 or a 6 to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:50 PM
1

I improved my social awarness a million times over, my style, swagger, social status and confidence. People pay for my shit all the time and share whatever it is they have. Drinks, shots, cigs, drugs, kebabs even. They fight for my attention, gossip about me, go out of their way to get in touch with me, invite me pretty much everywhere etc. When someone I know enters a room I'm in, they will walk up to me first and greet me. If I'm the one entering the room, they will drop whatever they are doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:48 PM
3

I was ripped as fuck as a kid, if you have the genes for it it's not that hard. I looked better than I do now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:39 PM
6

Two guys. One is good looking as fuck but has no game, takes a shitty picture and get matches from a meh amount of women who looked past it. The other one is average but has appropriate, amazing shots on his profile and a socially aware, witty desc. The second one will get more matches, it's not even a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:37 PM
1

Exactly. Being the alpha male of the group is all you need for women to fawn over you. You can still fuck this up, but it's an amazing starting point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:31 PM
5

I wonder if there‘s a biological compatibility aspect to oneitis that‘s being perceived by the male brain.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 10:24 AM
3

Still though, it’s a shitty state to be in. You get success but none of the mid and long term enjoyment because you are stuck thinking about your tumor of a oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 02:56 PM
3

She doesn’t even have to be hot, I caught oneitis for a meh 7, and I know I’m still struggling with it a year later. In the meantime I pulled much hotter chicks but I don’t care about them a quarter as much. Something like „There are many like it but this one is mine”, you feel me?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 02:47 PM
1

I disagree. Getting laid and being a succesful man are two different things, you can get laid as a unemployed slob if you play your cards right. Probably won't be fucking around with 9/10 insta models you picked up at Vegas, but you sure can get a codependant, submissive 7 to fuck, have kids with and marry you.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 12:20 AM
1

I don't think he means the blue-pill idea of feel good bullets, rather the red pill ones, which involve red pill behaviours.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 12:07 AM
1

Congratulations on your story, it's inspiring as hell. I had the exact same thing going on, but I fucked it up by being so happy I thought "Fuck I love life so damn much everything will work out regardless" and reverted to the blue pill for a moment which killed the whole thing. I still hate the part of me that's done it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 11:55 PM
2

I'm by no means an expert, but what I noticed, if we are talking about parties and other social situations, know when not to give eye contact and just let her stare at you. Make her fight for your attention. Important Edit: Forgot to add it only applies if you are AMOG at the time, if you are not then what the fuck are you doing
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 11:44 PM
3

Body language is the fucking master trick.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 11:42 PM
3

that women do notice masculine men and they put themselves in the situation where you can open the interaction. ​ Very true. They also give you that stare. I really like it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 11:40 PM
2

It's good you had enough self-awarness to realise the fact you are good looking and a "good guy" are not enough to get the girl, so to speak. I used to be in the exact same spot.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 11:37 PM
2

Extremely important tip. This is why you are better off pursuing chicks from outside your friend group since this way they are way more likely to even consider fucking you. Unless she sees you as a total alpha male there's very little chance you'll tap that and (in her eyes) have the chance to let the word spread. It's a reputation killer for a woman.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 11:34 PM
7

The most successful guys I know usually have oneitis for some girl with who they failed hard, but in the meantime they spin plates with other girls who they don't really give a shit about. They get continously rejected by this one girl while the harem side-bitches adore them. It's really crazy.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 10:54 PM
2

Not only women, it's typical beta behaviour too. It's easier to avoid responsibilty this way and get what you want.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 10:50 PM
4

Yup. If she thinks you are an alpha with provider capabilities she gon' chase your ass like there's no tomorrow. But better don't EVER get caught slipping in your game in the first couple of months or she'll become enraged when her DNA tells her she got fooled by an undercover beta.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 10:46 PM
1

I don't believe most soymen raise their own kids, so alpha genes should prevail.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 10:34 PM
2

You should have let him make that mistake and learn on his own. I've done a very similar thing as he did, but the girl atleast was a solid 7. I'm an attractive guy, so my game was shit because I thought a girl will find me on her own, and when I did really catch feelings it took me close to a year to get over it. It's out of your control, self-help can't be forced and it's progress is extremely personal.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 10:28 PM
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