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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 39 | Best way to approach a woman in public? | Escalation & Calibration | Chew_512 | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 01:24 PM |
| 22 | It went too fast for me | Field Report | Chew_512 | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 09:53 AM |
| 0 | Unique situation, grow a pair or use an unorthodox approach | Resources | Chew_512 | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 04:10 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | My dating life recentlyShe tells you she likes sushi, you research where to take her and assert that she’ll love the place you choose for her. She tells you she likes martinis or trying beer on tap. You take her to a bar that you choose and you know she’ll enjoy | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Why are you in a situation where cold approach is your primary way to meet potential partners?Moved to a new city where I dont know anyone. Picked up a barista on a cold approach, now we’re dating | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 10:54 AM |
| 3 | For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you?I used to a lot, 5’7 slim fit build speaking 4 languages easy to make casual conversation made it easy | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Instagram or Phone Number?Start a conversation on instagram, then switch to number | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?Dancing bachata every other dance | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Dating appsGo social dancing. Its basically real life tinder | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | "Attract, don't chase." I wonder where that has taken you in life. Are there exceptions to chase assertively?Since my (M25) last breakup in October 2023 I made this my case. Yes I would meet girls and I was in a really good place financially, mentally, emotionally, etc. Girls would come and go and if you show 0 desperation and make yourself interesting they stick around and when things dont work out and they see you can live your life without them they ALWAYS come back. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Best way to recover/ avoid hangover?Stick to one liquor and make sure its quality | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 09:56 AM |
| 1 | How did your last approach go?I did a post a while on my experience but here it is with more detail: I went to a cafe last Thursday and the barista had the most beautiful green eyes ever. I placed my order and when she brought my capuccino I asked here where she was from and how long she had been working at the cafe. She responded and asked about me so I knew she was interested (she was also giggling nervously). I went back the next day, again she brought my capuccino so I asked for her name and if she could give me her IG. … | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 11:58 PM |
| 1 | It went too fast for meI doubt it to a certain extent because I thought about it too. For context she moved a year and a half ago and upon arriving she worked a shitty graveyard-shift job. Her current job is over an hour commute for her both ways with only a day off a week. Her social life is pretty much non existent, not to mention she’s weird as shit (as am I). | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 11:37 PM |
| 1 | It went too fast for meShe was into me because when she brought my cappuccino I just asked where she was from and her whole face lit up and was laughing nervously. Next day I caught her by herself not as busy and she gave me her IG when I asked | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 09:47 PM |
| 1 | It went too fast for meNot necessarily. On our first date we didn’t fuck but I saw potential to date her. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 09:46 PM |
| 5 | It went too fast for meRizz up more cute baristas | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 11:12 AM |
| -4 | It went too fast for meNot her name | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 11:12 AM |
| 153 | Hardest and easiest country to get lucky or game in your experience?Easiest Dominican Republic and Colombia. DR I used tinder and fucked a 10 the first night. Colombia did day/night game dance clubs cold approach and got countless. Hardest was Bulgaria. Women didnt look twice at me. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs?Learn to dance reggaeton and go to Medellin. You’ll never see nightclubs the same again | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Escalating with shy/inexperienced girlShe sounds really sweet, but it also depends what you’re looking for with her (casual, serious relationship, etc). Are you the one paying for these dates or splitting? If you’re splitting you can put up with it a bit more, but if its just you paying then its a problem. If she wants something serious I think its worth waiting. If not, invite her over to your place and offer her wine, make sure you’re going level with her. It’ll loosen her up , not enough to get drunk but to loose some of the shyn… | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Guys that never got girls in a club setting, what changes did you make to get lucky?Go to Medellin, learn to dance and hide any foreign accent and you’ll make it happen | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Men, how the hell do I know when to make a move while on a date with a woman?Make an innocent compliment and see how she takes it (something like omg you look so cute when you smile) that way she knows you’re feeling her | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 05:38 AM |
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