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Field ReportChewbaccafruit/r/seduction07/08/21 09:36 PM
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I don't always have the time to patrol actual places for dates, so I use apps a lot. I cleaned myself up and put effort into good quality pictures and a bio. Now that I get more matches, I neither obsess over them, wonder why any one has stopped talking, nor do I worry about taking risks when talking to them. There's always more.
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:27 PM
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I knew a girl in college whose sex playlist was just the Star Wars Cantina Theme on loop
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:38 PM
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In my experience, there's three possibilities: A lot of women want to 'fix' a guy, so now they are attracted to something they can fix. Can cause problems when you learn to live with it, and she no longer has her project. Daring to show that you're a human with flaws initiates the whole 'I don't need to settle, I know what I'm worth' mindset (translation: selfish) and they run. Or you occasionally get that one person who accepts you and your flaws. You do everything you goddamn can to hold onto …
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:42 PM
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I definitely had the wrong ideas about what success was. I didn't need to be a millionaire, I just wanted to be able to not have to choose between dinner and making bill payments. I started a small business, I learned instruments, I worked out a lot, so I had plenty of hobbies. I've learned more about life since then. I wouldn't necessarily call her exclusively materialistic, but the was very bougie and had expensive tastes. Just something that was her default take on what life should be. Probab…
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:29 PM
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Before things ended with my ex, I felt that I didn't deserve her. I went to college, I'm brilliantly intelligent and have many personal and professional skills, Im a gentleman and I'm good looking. I had a few short relationships but nothing that felt like fireworks until this. I was going to wait of course, but I wanted to marry this girl one day. But I worked retail after losing my job to the pandemic, and had for about a year and a half, unable to find anything else. I made about 30k a year, …
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:58 PM
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"Thanks, so do you."
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:23 PM
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You like what you like. My parents and a lot of my friend's parents are 8-10 years apart in age.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:20 AM
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There's been one or two I'll flirt with at work but not really pursue and I'll call her darling or sunshine or something else that's a pet name of sorts but different enough that it's not overt
/r/seduction26/03/22 11:58 AM
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It feels good to get compliments from strangers and coworkers. I worked a summer job before returning to my winter job last year, and during that time I worked out a ton and ran most days. Got lots of compliments from the office. When I wear my contacts, lots of people compliment my eyes. Guys don't get compliments a lot, so when I do I ride the high for a solid couple days. Just wish it worked more with potential partners 😂
/r/seduction24/03/22 12:55 PM
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I always say that looks are the lure, and personality is the hook. I dated a girl in college that could have been a model. Probably top two or three girls I've dated in terms of looks, and the first one in my life that was an easy ten. But talking to her was like talking to a wooden board. Being beautiful was what made me ask her out, but I couldn't get myself to let it stick because she was BORING. We kept texting and talking after the second date but I am a relationship kind of guy so we had s…
/r/seduction12/03/22 10:15 PM
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Do you approach women you're not interested in? Women can approach but don't have to, so they can have higher standards on an approach.
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:53 AM
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There's two approaches for this: As a man, I've been asked out probably twice. Both were coworkers I was sorta interested in and flirty with, but for reasons I wasn't sure what I would be doing in the immediate future and wasn't sure about making a move. So, in those cases, be friendly and show clear interest and maybe something will happen, but more than likely you'll need to just go for it. In the other cases, go to a nice club with expensive clothes, buy expensive drinks for a bunch of people…
/r/seduction19/02/22 02:34 AM
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When a guy smells good, they'll probably notice. When a guy smells bad, they'll DEFINITELY notice.
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:20 PM
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Fuck no. I don't get these guys who drive for hours, take expensive Ubers, or fly to see a girl. Unless it's someone steady then it's not worth it.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:44 PM
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Better yet, her pupils narrow into slits
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:07 PM
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I think a better way of stating this is to not give her special attention. She is not the reward at the end of a chase, not the object of a pursuit. She's a person. Treat her as if she were someone else you're getting to know, at least when you start talking. Once a conversation gets going you can be more flirty. Humans want what they can't have. If you serve yourself up with no challenge it's no fun for them.
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:37 AM
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Have a hobby, something else to find fulfillment. It took me a long time to stop measuring my self worth by what others thought of me. Once you find fulfillment in other parts of your life, relationships seem to work out that much better.
/r/seduction10/11/21 08:13 PM
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Use condoms, and don't take her at her word when she says he has birth control/IUD. Maybe she does, but take responsibility for contraceptives.
/r/seduction03/09/21 03:36 PM
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If it's a first date, do something else or the movie and then something else. There's no conversation with a movie.
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:08 PM
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I work out a ton, and I've approached a couple girls at the gym with moderate success, but I do so very rarely because it's a place to work out, not flirt. I'm all for chat, but girls typically don't want some guy yakking at them while they're squatting or something. The last thing I want to do is invade someone's space. All that being said, the gym is a place with an extremely high amount of hot people per capita, and I would be elated if a girl I saw there regularly came up to me and asked me …
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:22 PM
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Bring one to every date, but don't plan on using it. Keep them in a drawer at home, NOT in your wallet or car. Mechanical wear and heat/cold can lead to degradation of the latex. Throw one or two into a pocket for the date. I say that sex on a first date is a lot like tipping at Starbucks: always accepted, never expected.
/r/seduction26/08/21 04:14 PM
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Telling a stranger "nice tits" is a good way to get maced, slapped, and/or have cops called on you
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:54 PM
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The way to get out of the friend zone is to grow the hell up and realize that not everyone wants to bang you. If you can surround yourself with beautiful women, just go after one of them instead. Anyone who dances around if they want to give you a shot, acts aloof, or plays hard to get is not worth your time. There are so many other women. Or you could just accept friendship and romantically pursue other people.
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:44 AM
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Don't just say oh I'm busy and keep dodging. That is exactly what guys complain about with women. Just say you thought about it and you don't think you felt a connection. Dancing around it and ghosting is worse than just respecting another person and telling them no.
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:36 AM
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Hey I got ghosted by a girlfriend of six months because she wanted to break up. Who knows why people do what they do?
/r/seduction07/08/21 09:19 PM
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I used to work two jobs, while taking an online class and writing a book on the side. Just work was about 6p hours/week. If I wanted to see someone, I made time and let them know it wouldn't be for a long time. If they care, they'll make time.
/r/seduction02/08/21 11:42 AM
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Just did this myself. Had my eye on a coworker for a while after I got out of a long relationship, finally made the jump. Chatted for a few minutes a couple times and asked her out. She had a boyfriend, but still felt good to know that I could do it. I don't see it as rejection, but practice. I had the whole "don't shit where you eat" mindset for the longest time, but there's a difference between asking someone for coffee and sending dick pics. As long as you keep it clean don't harass someone a…
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:16 PM
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