ChewedMyWayOutOfThat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	What if men and women halted all support for each other? [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 08:00 AM
–	What if men and women halted all support for each other? MGTOW is part of Black Pill ideology, which advocates for separation of the sexes. I identify with the feminist perspective of this subset, which makes me a Black Pill Woman. I'm not a Blue Pill and l am certainly not a Red Pill. What other fucking colors are left? Leave to a man to mansplain to a woman what she believes in and what she doesn't. Do men ever stop being paternalistic cunts? And with regards to your post, there's tons of men that go about their lives alone and are able to wash dish…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 06:36 AM
1	What's One Thing you Like About the Opposite Sex You're welcome 💙	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 05:48 AM
–	What if men and women halted all support for each other? Women will have to get their own oil Modern rigs are automated now. How hard is it to push a button? Rig pigs are a thing of the past. Only 2 bit, illegal operations need rig pigs to fucking sling chain. Leave it to men to overrate their contributions, while devaluing women's work. Of course men know how to do chores. What kind of question is that? Wait a minute. If men were capable of surgically removing their heads from their asses and doing their fair share of childcare and chores, then why a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 05:27 AM
2	What's One Thing you Like About the Opposite Sex I like men's sociopathy and their ability to have zero regard for anyone but themselves. While women would agonize and lose sleep over the consequences of each action in a moral dilemma, men don't concern themselves with trivial matters. They are exactly the necessary bastards we need to solve the trolley problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 05:06 AM
5	Relying on personality, masculinity, or social dominance is a crutch that will ruin your marriage this guy is a self-admitted narcissist That makes him the only self-aware man on the planet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 04:55 AM
–	What if men and women halted all support for each other? Interesting thought. As much as l would love to segregate men in their own space colony, so they can cannibalize each other and let them die alone miserably like the parasitic fucks that they are, how would this work? I agree with you in theory. But, even if men agreed to be in platonic relationships with other men for companionship and left the women alone, how do they decide which guy gets to be the lazy shithead? In a patriarchy, men benefit from gender roles that allow men to be the lazy sac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 04:48 AM
–	Women can't start having sex on the first date We need a certain number of unplanned pregnancies to sustain the human race. So? If the human race ends, then let it fucking die. Unplanned pregnancies used to lead to shotgun marriages. Now they lead to abortion. Are men trying to babytrap women in unsatisfying and unhappy marriages? It's a privileged take. It's easy to fucking demand children when men aren't the ones who have to split their balls to their assholes shitting out a kid. It's also not fucking women demanding children and delegatin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 03:13 AM
–	Women can't start having sex on the first date Why does pregnancy have to be horrible in a world where the birth rate is below replacement level? Maybe because kids don't drop out of the womb as fully formed adults. Men don't take care of their fucking kids, despite wanting them so much to flatter their fucking egos. How the fuck else would you explain it? A recent fucking survey found that men wanted children 57% vs 48% of women. So do men do 57% of the childcare? No, they fucking don't. They do as little childcare as possible because havin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 03:05 AM
–	Women can't start having sex on the first date A 10% chance of getting an orgasm is reason enough for women to stay the fuck away from hookups with men in general. If men only orgasmed once out of every 10 encounters, there'd be a lot less fucking men badgering women for sex. You'd think that when men are confronted with statistics detailing how shitty they are in bed, they'd gain some fucking insight, stop being such self-absorbed shits and have some fucking consideration for their sexual partners. Nope! Then, if women do endure a night of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 02:55 AM
–	Women would have a more satisfying experience in dating if they approached first. It depends. For RP Men: Absolutely fucking not. Women approaching men is very progressive and subversive of traditional gender standards, whereas RP promotes traditional gender roles that favor the men over the women. Men get privileges (household chores, childcare) in exchange for provisions (protection, courting) as part of the implicit agreement. RP men cannot have it both ways. They can't pick and choose whichever fucking gender roles they want to follow or discard. They either fucking follo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 06:37 AM
2	Do men have an evolutionary deficiency that makes them less sexually lucrative to women? Or does it vary by the times were in? anything to with women being miserable fucks Single women are happier than single men. Married men are happier than single men. ", oh look at me I have a college degree and so oppressed, " Women had to work for everything they had. They didn't have a patriarchy to hand them shit. oh look at me, so fucking sexually repressed that I don't even know how to orgasm When women mastubate, they orgasm 97% of the time, when they have sex with women, they orgasm 88% of the time. and now I will make it eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 06:04 AM
2	Do men have an evolutionary deficiency that makes them less sexually lucrative to women? Or does it vary by the times were in? Do men have an evolutionary deficiency that makes them less sexually lucrative to women? Yes. It's called malignant narcissism, which explains the absurdly high rate of orgasm for men and absurdly low rate of orgasm for women when they have sex with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 03:56 AM
–	Women’s Preferences Should Be Questioned as well as everything else they do. What the fuck preferences are you talking about? Why are good, non-abusive men overlooked This assertion assumes that men believe they deserve women because they are good and non-abusive. They don't. The reward for men for men being good and non-abusive is that they are perceived as good and non-abusive. That's it. End of fucking story. Men are not entitled to women as some sort of fucking prize because they are good and non-abusive. Men are still entitled to shit. Men should aspire to be good a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 03:38 AM
2	Debunking "But men need sex more" argument But how am l projecting, though? Is that the purpose of quoting statistics, that we avoid personal biases and confirmation bias by accounting for all available cases and making a conclusion based on these cases? Only 10% of women orgasm during hookups. I can only conclude that very few men are concerned with women's pleasure, which means that very few men are eating pussy. Whether my particular pussy is being eaten or not is irrelevant because l am not basing my conclusions on my own experiences…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 02:17 AM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Your logic doesn't compute. Your assumption implies that women get men pregnant the same way that men get women pregnant, when women don't. A woman can have as much unprotected sex as she wants, she will never get a man pregnant, whereas a man who has as much unprotected sex as he wants will impregnate many women. Until you can prove that women get men pregnant at the rates that men get women pregnant, you cannot compare the two in the same manner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 02:08 AM
2	Debunking "But men need sex more" argument So? Perhaps women have longer and more intense orgasms, that leave them satisfied for longer. Perhaps women are tired from working and doing their chores and prioritize rest and sleep over sex. None of this absolves men from their lack of concern for a woman's sexual pleasure. If men had the same enthusiasm for eating pussy, as they do with asking for blowjobs, there'd be a lot more sexually satisfied women asking men for sex. Men aren't concerned with women's sexual pleasure and are consequentl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 01:46 AM
1	Debunking "But men need sex more" argument The orgasm gap fully encapsulates what self-absorbed, narcissistic fucktards men are. Men perpetuate the retarded assumption that sex is both a need and pleasurable for both men and women in order to justify pressuring women into sex as soon as possible. But if an activity is theoretically pleasurable for both parties, then both parties should have the same satisfaction rates. But they clearly don't. The orgasm rates skew heavily towards men, where women in hook ups only orgasm 10% of the time, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 10:40 PM
–	Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generation men lost alot of leverage in the dating/relationship market when women got even more financial parity with men So in order to gain back that leverage over women, men have to financially trap a woman in a marriage so she can't fucking leave? Does your solution involve taking away women's earning power to make her destitute and subservient? Women hate doing chores and childcare too, but men would rather forcibly remove women from the workforce than do their own fucking chores and watch their own f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 07:28 AM
8	Why are women so attracted to talent? foot off the brakes (do chores) and press the gas (demonstrate skill) So which step of the DENNIS system are you on? I’ve had to get ultimatums to help around the house, and when I did, sex increased by a lot. What the fuck? Am l reading this right? Your partner had to give you an ultimatum just to motivate you to do your own fucking chores? So if your partner hadn't threatened to leave you, you'd still be a lazy fucking cunt around the house? Weird flex, but ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 06:42 AM
1	CMV: Rejection is hot No. I'm sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 01:26 AM
0	Being single as a man is under rated. If you are a woman who gets sick, you have a 20% chance your husband will divorce you. If you are a man who gets sick, you have a 4% percent chance your wife will leave you. They've been confirmed in studies released in 2009 and 2025. Another (corrected) study of 2015 found that, even accounting for the coding error, women's ill health was a statistically significant predictor of divorce, but not for men. If you want the sources, go through my post history. I've pulled enough sources out of my f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 01:17 AM
7	Guys who complain about “fairness” won’t ask for a hookup because it hurts their victim complex. Forming logical arguments while posting data and statistics to support your claims is a standard only woman are held to on PPD. Men, on the other hand, are allowed to spew garbage pulled out of their fatter asses and it is accepted as fact due to their patriarchal privilege. That is, if they don't turn into a source whore first. "Source? Gotta source for that? Where's your source?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 12:51 AM
0	Being single as a man is under rated. I would probably like men better if fewer of them abandoned their wives when their wives get sick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/26 12:38 AM
3	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 No, it just means that a lot of irresponsible men, who know they're irresponsible, chose to have unprotected sex because they're irresponsible and don't take responsibility for contraception. Other irresponsible men coddle and make excuses on behalf of irresponsible men, instead of holding other irresponsible men accountable. When women irresponsibly deposit their eggs into men and leave, like the irresponsible men are, then we will judge the irresponsible women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 10:48 PM
3	CMV: Rejection is hot Ok, but where did men get the impression that they shouldn't approach women? Did it just pop into their heads? No, it's because women were tired of being interrupted by narcissistic men, who lack social skills, who are focused primarily on their own needs. An ad from a company and some women complaining on Tiktok for content doesn't change any of that. Women still do not want men to approach women in public. Also, Are fucking sure about fucking that? Stop that. I'm not saying you shouldn't swear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 10:22 PM
2	Being single as a man is under rated. When a woman masturbates, she orgasms 97% of the time. When a woman has sex with another woman, 88% of women reported orgasming every time. Men and women ain’t the same Yes. Men are narcissistic sociopaths who have been statistically proven (multiple times) to care about their own comfort and pleasure to the exclusion of everything else. Then, when they are confronted with how much they fucking suck at pleasuring women, they deflect blame and refuse to take collective responsibility. Women aren'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 10:11 PM
-2	Being single as a man is under rated. Only 10% of women orgasm during hookups. Only 49-65% of women in relationships say they orgasm every time. A lot of single men can’t get sex Yeah, because men fucking suck at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 08:00 PM
0	Being single as a man is under rated. Good. So why the fuck don't men stop complaining and shut the fuck up about being single? Maybe because literally every single study released confirms that men's life is markedly improved in relationships and marriage. Marriage alleviates men's depression, but it's the opposite for women. Men live longer and happier lives. But that's the result of being a parasitic cunt that literally sucks the lifeforce out of women by dumping all the chores and childcare on her, while only making half the inco…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 07:28 PM
2	CMV: Rejection is hot "Oh, women now want us to approach after telling us not to approach? Gotcha, feminazis!" Yeah, one fucking slogan on a billboard from a fucking company trying to sell you something doesn't fucking change anything. Men got the impression that men shouldn't approach women because women fucking told them not to approach women. Women still don't want men to approach. Did we fucking stutter?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 06:58 PM
4	Guys who complain about “fairness” won’t ask for a hookup because it hurts their victim complex. If they were upfront with their intentions and got rejected, then they have nothing to really complain about outside of “I can’t get what I want” and coming off as entitled as feminists suspect they are. What the fuck is up with men's entitlement? It's like men expect to be fucking rewarded because they were honest. But that's when happens when the patriarchy allows and encourages men to be malignant, narcissistic cunts. They expect praise and rewards for doing the bare minimum. "Well, l told he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 06:27 PM
8	We need to go back to our roots, especially women Women these days, don't even want to cook and take care of family and they accuse us of wanting to be "coddled" or we are seeking a mother. Where the fuck are you getting your data from? Statistically, women do double the household chores and childcare than their shithead husbands, even when they have their own full-time jobs. How can women do more than they already are? If cooking and caretaking were so important, why don't the fucking men do more of it? Why do they constantly delegate it, whil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 02:00 AM
2	Do you feel any empathy for men? pretends like “men” in general is one guy who acts the same way and have made the same decisions Men have been statistically proven to generally do less then half the household chores or childcare, even when their wives have their own full-time jobs. They generally don't do any kinkeeping. They generally don't do any eldercare. They generally do less volunteering than women. They generally organize less on behalf of other men. How the fuck else can l describe it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 11:39 PM
2	Do you feel any empathy for men? The problem here is men's resistance and reluctance to organize, campaign and listen to other men. However, you're listing the plight of men in an attempt to elicit sympathy from women by appealing to their sense of compassion, in the hopes that some women will date (and consequently fuck) more men out of pity. How does pressuring women to date and fuck more men solve the underlying problem at hand? It doesn't, because there's no connection between the two, which is why it's fucking manipulative…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 11:25 PM
2	The redpill keeps wanting shallow women but they want to deny it. Women don't critize men by things they can change such as weight, they do critize men by things they can't change such as height or d size. If weight was something that men can change, then why haven't they done that already? Why do they persist to be even fatter cunts than women? Same could be said about women, a minor 2% difference in overweight amount of people doesn't change that the average women is also fat and they are more shallow than the average men. Nope. 77.1% of men in the US popula…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 10:52 PM
3	Do you feel any empathy for men? Those who want empathy, give empathy. Men can fucking start by doing their share of the household chores, childcare, volunteering, kinkeeping, eldercare, community organizating and myriad other unpaid work that men have been statistically proven not to fucking do. There's no invisible forcefield preventing men from doing so except their own laziness and lack of responsibility. Like, women seem to have a very deep “sisterhood” that men are jealous of, and it feels so much harder as a man to get t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 10:08 PM
1	The redpill keeps wanting shallow women but they want to deny it. Women have earned the right to be shallow, as the average man is more likely to be overweight or obese than the average woman. Women aren't as overtly superficial as men, because they have empathy and self-awareness. PPD demographics appear to skew 50-50 men/women, yet there are multiple posts here, all started by men, criticizing women for their weight. I have yet to see a thread started by a woman, criticizing men for their weight. If men want to be shallow, they need to go on a fucking diet a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 09:34 PM
7	The redpill keeps wanting shallow women but they want to deny it. Yes, men are extremely shallow and hypocritical. If men are the more visually-oriented gender, then it stands to reason that men should also hold themselves to the same physical standards they feel entitled to hold women to. They don't, because that takes work, discipline and effort. Despite men's biological and evolutionary advantages in terms of muscle mass and calorie consumption, there are more gelatinous fat fuck men than there are fat fuck women in the US population. But literally every re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 06:02 PM
1	Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the economic feasibility of sex work for the average woman How is that relevant? There's the OF statistic that only fucking 1% of the creators make 99% of the money. The average creator makes like very little and isn't Sophie Rain. Anyway, the issue wasn't how much do sex workers make, it's: "it's easy for women to make money from having sex". No, sex work is not easy for women, because there are abundant fucking occupational hazards. Men actually do have the advantage. They have fewer expenses and a lower chance of encountering violence. If anyone has …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 02:54 AM
1	Hybristophilia contradicts hypergamy I've heard some people say that men also exhibit hybristophilia, but this is false. It's because women don't commit crimes on the scale that men do. You could fill a fucking arena with just male mass killers. Name 2 female serial killers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 11:39 PM
1	Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the economic feasibility of sex work for the average woman "yet another reason why it's so easy being a woman". Yes, men are fucking retarded. In other news, water is wet. More at 11. Back to you, Cathy, for the weather. Men could also be prostitutes for gay men. Why don't they? Lack of attraction isn't a reason. Women aren't attracted to their clients either so why should this excuse be valid for men, but not women? So straight men are entitled to sex and prostitution but gay men aren't? That's discrimination. There's also less of a security risk as me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 10:00 PM
–	Guys will claim "Society generally treat women better than man" and yet never look at other generalizations that could contribute to that. crime statistics based off things like religion or race (the groups, not the crimes) Which specific groups are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 08:32 PM
–	Guys will claim "Society generally treat women better than man" and yet never look at other generalizations that could contribute to that. I'm saying treating someone worse due to their sex is literally the definition of discrimination. But that's not what her argument is, though. It's discrimination to treat women poorly because they haven't committed as much crime as men and display more prosocial behaviors. Women can't commit fewer crimes and display more prosocial behaviors than they already are, yet they are still being treated poorly. Therefore, we attribute their poor treatment due to sexism, because there are no valid cause…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 08:15 PM
2	Nobody is trying to get you to lower your standards, dating is a free market but I don't have to lower my standards either. Yeah, but men lowering their standards requires men to have standards in the first place. Men don't. That's the problem. Men refuse to raise their standards because they're too fucking lazy to do the corresponding work to make themselves appealing. Also, who the fuck is telling men to lower their standards? If anything, society is telling men to raise their standards, like telling women to raise their standards or else they'll end up with shitty hus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 07:37 PM
–	Guys will claim "Society generally treat women better than man" and yet never look at other generalizations that could contribute to that. What are you talking about? I have refuted the logic. No, you haven't. What's wrong with her logic? Her premise is: "why wouldn't you treat the less problematic people in society better?" Meaning that we should reward people who are altruistic and display prosocial behaviors and we shouldn't reward people who display antisocial behaviors. Then she posts data that proves that men are extremely problematic and antisocial. Just because you don't like the conclusion doesn't make it less sound. How i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 07:21 PM
-1	Guys will claim "Society generally treat women better than man" and yet never look at other generalizations that could contribute to that. generalisations It would be great if you learned the meaning of generalizations before you post. Generalizations are general statements obtained by observing a few cases. Statistics count all the cases available and come to a conclusion based on their findings. It's the complete fucking opposite of a generalization. Self awareness level 0 How ironic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:59 PM
0	Guys will claim "Society generally treat women better than man" and yet never look at other generalizations that could contribute to that. Your logic fucking sucks. Black men have been victims of institutionalized racism for hundreds of years and still are. When have white men ever been the victims of systemic oppression that bars them from higher education, job opportunities, land ownership etc.? So why are you trying to equate them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:49 PM
–	Guys will claim "Society generally treat women better than man" and yet never look at other generalizations that could contribute to that. So you can't come up with your own argument to refute her, and you can't come up with competing data to contradict her findings. You're not going to find data that proves that women commit more crimes than men or that men do just as much kinkeeping as women, because it doesn't fucking exist. It's Lilith, we already know the answer lol I'm surprised you haven't tried to ban her. Men will do everything but introspect. Why take responsibility when men can diffuse it and claim that they're the victi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:32 PM
–	Chasing women is actually a waste of time. Then suddenly they've had a drink or a line and are attempting to eat my face off. So they're only interested once they're high on substances that inhibit their judgment, leading to poor choices and risky behavior? Meaning that if they were sober and their mental faculties were intact, they would avoid you like men avoiding the responsibility of household chores? So dating you like is the equivalent of drunk driving.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 05:53 PM
0	Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? Men are pulling women out of the gutter from birth until death. Citation needed. Got a source for that? Wow good job bro you stuck it out with your dying husband for 5 more years here's a fucking cupcake So when you can't defend the men, you devalue the woman's work. Men's cuntiness knows no bounds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 09:24 AM
–	Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? And an earlier 2009 study it built on Let's read that again: "It built on". Meaning the 2015 debunked study has no bearing on the validity of the 2009 study, because the 2015 study took the premise from the 2009 study, not the other way around. So why was the 2015 study debunked? due to a major coding error where participants who dropped out were misidentified as divorces, inflating divorce rates, especially for ill wives Did the 2009 study also suffer from a major fucking coding error? No, it f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 08:26 AM
3	Why should women want relationships with men who don't pull their weight? This is the 2009 study, which is still valid. Only the 2015 study was debunked, and men can't shut the fuck up about that. I wonder why? https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.13077?af=R Here's a more recent 2024 study. How many more studies do l need to pull out of my fucking ass to confirm how much of a narcissistic, literal bloodsucking leech men are to women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 08:09 AM
3	Autistic males are treated worse than autistic females because alot of autistic males dont know how to behave and lack empathy. Women have a higher level of support. Yeah, like this fucking support was bestowed upon her by the social support skyfairy, drowning the women in love and encouragement, while deliberately skipping the men. Was this skyfairy a raging misandric cunt too? https://www.nytimes.com/2024/05/08/well/family/kinkeeping-families.html It couldn't possibly be because she and other women put the fucking work in to build their social support networks, could it? Go and do likewise and stop fucking whining abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:54 AM
3	Masculinity is shamed while femininity is celebrated [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 06:01 AM
–	The rise in single males is caused by women only wanting to date married men. Good, judging from how the moderators let bad faith actors like Lilith and several others here just run rampant, "Bad Faith" might as well be the new name for this subreddit. Learn the meaning of "bad faith" before you fucking post. I can't speak for Lilith, but how the fuck is posting research to prove a point "bad faith"? If my arguments are sound and l have research and data to prove whatever the fuck I'm saying, you should conceed and accept my arguments. That's arguing in good faith, becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 10:39 PM
–	Condoms should be illegal Red Pill Men posting on PPD (or anywhere on the internet) should be illegal. Red Pill proponents advice RP men against telling anyone they are RP. This is why. Not only are their views on women reprehensible, they're also fucking stupid and lack critical thinking skills, which is why these moronic cunts subscribe to RP in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 09:16 PM
–	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. So if men aren't rewarded for basic courtesy, women aren't entitled to basic courtesy from men. That's some nice fucking logic you have going there. More and more, men earn their reputation as the biggest fucking cunts on the planet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 02:00 AM
–	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. Generally, TRP advises men to not inform women that they subscribe to TRP philosophy. I wonder why that is? It couldn't possibly be because RP views on gender politics are fucking reprehensible and any sane woman would run the other way, foiling your plan to trap her in an unsatisfying relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 01:30 AM
13	Why don't women just use a chore chart in the home? If he's already lazy about basic chores, what the fuck will a chore chart accomplish? He's just going to disregard that chart, like he disregards the dishes on his way to the fridge. It just adds more work to the woman to maintain the chart. So she has to go above and beyond what she's already doing, just to get her male partner to do his fair fucking share. The root problem is men's ingrained entitlement. He doesn't think it's his fucking responsibility, even though he made at least half that m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 01:17 AM
6	It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex. emotional meaning of sex and the mutuality/communication between people. OP says this when women have a 10% chance of orgasming from a one night stand and a 49-65% chance of cumming in relationships with men. complain about men who only want sex With such abysmal numbers, who the fuck wouldn't complain? Do you know what men are communicating with the orgasm gap? That they don't give a fuck about anyone but themselves. Then men dare to be outraged when don't want to have sex with selfish cunt men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 12:40 AM
2	Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself. as if a woman taking time to build trust is some humiliating ordeal for men to endure. Huge red flag if your sense of respect depends on women knowing less about you before sleeping with you The only men who get mad at waiting are cunt sexual predator men. Because if the woman did get to know them, she wouldn't be having sex with them. https://theconversation.com/the-orgasm-gap-and-why-women-climax-less-than-men-208614 In a study of more than 12,000 college students, only 10% of the women said t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 12:38 AM
2	Feminists would rather have two competing groups working towards gender equality than working together with men on the subject Why do they think it’s better to have many groups who only fight for the interests of a sub demographic? If this is true, then why the fuck are groups like the ACLU, CODEPINK and the National Organization of Women trying to end the draft? Aren't these leftist, feminist organizations? https://www.localnewslive.com/2024/08/27/bipartisan-bill-introduced-senate-end-military-draft/ The last bill in Congress to end the draft was introduced by two men and woman. It was defeated, by a male-dominated Con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 10:02 PM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from A lot of women can't even make themselves cum Nah. https://theconversation.com/the-orgasm-gap-and-why-women-climax-less-than-men-208614 At least 92% of women orgasm when pleasuring themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 07:15 AM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from Try again. With women's orgasm rates ranging from 49-65%, why? So she can be disappointed again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 01:44 AM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from Blue Pill that supports a normative lifestyle, right? Yes, l do. Which is exactly why l didn't fucking mention it when DietTyrone was trying to split hairs between RP and Tradwives in an attempt to look less like an asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 12:12 AM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from RP and Trad are the same thing. They aren't Only in the sense that a white nationalist and a Nazi are somehow different. Tradwife ideology centers on women embracing traditional, patriarchal gender roles, prioritizing domesticity (homemaking, cooking, childcare) as a rejection of modern feminism. While: Red pill ideology centers on hyper-masculinity, rejecting feminism, and often promoting misogyny with roots in men's rights activism, pickup artistry, and overlaps with extremist ideologies. No, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 11:16 PM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from Name something a woman wants from a man she can't easily access. An orgasm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 10:26 PM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from So had she accepted the RP role for her, which involves centering men and marrying and getting pregnant as soon as possible to be a SAHM, she would live a happy life? She wouldn't be pregnant with 5 kids, a blown out vagina and stretch marks, a giant gap in her resume, with kids who say "mom" an average of 234 times per day, while her husband comes home from his job on a Friday afternoon, locks himself in his home office to smoke weed, play video games, watch sports and porn and jerk off, the sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 09:47 PM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from Men will fuck homeless women with no teeth in their mouths and a vagina overcome with infections. Men will have no fucking standards. The women not engaging in this are doing so by choice not due to a lack of dick. Then turn around and blame women for having them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 09:32 PM
–	Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming from What the fuck. You posted the same garbage 2 weeks ago. Why are you regurgitating the same talking points? Were there some additional issues you wanted to fucking clarify? The media narrative is juxtaposing the "happily single" woman next to the "seething single male" as evidence of how supposedly women handle singleness better than men. What media narrative? The same media quoting research like this? https://www.artsci.utoronto.ca/news/new-study-finds-single-women-are-happier-single-men That st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 09:20 PM
2	Do men here hate women more than women hate men Why is criticizing women hateful but criticizing men justifiable? Criticism is only warranted when there are reasons. Men don't acknowledge their privilege. Women hate men because men kill, abuse and rape women. Women don't kill, abuse and rape men at the same rates, so men have no real reason to hate women. Men hate women because she won't fucking have them. It seems to me that if you’re going to say these men hate women then you also have to acknowledge that feminists hate men. But are the end…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 07:43 PM
3	For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex. gender differences only “count” when they benefit men’s narrative Or when they try to equate men's and women's culpability and responsibility with regard to unwanted pregnancies as if the circumstances and outcomes are the same, when they clearly aren't. Last time l fucking checked: women don't get men pregnant. We don't irresponsibly deposit our eggs into a man and fuck off, like men do constantly. Also, men don't go through pregnancy and childbirth or abortion. Women do and once she gets pregn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 07:01 PM
–	Why be a single mom? The reason why there are so many single mothers is because men are irresponsible and shiftless. If men were responsible, we would see an equal number of single parent families headed by men and women, but we don't. There are 7.3 million single mothers in the US, compared to 1.9 million single fathers. Women outnumber men 5 to 1 in custodial arrangements. Men seem to think that a relationship breakdown is an excuse to abdicate their parental responsibilities. Until men improve their numbers, men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 04:32 AM
2	Nobody cares about men’s problems. So what exactly did you write? A bunch of RP stock phrases and declarative statements without proving any of them. Then you end with some motivational statement about how men need to take charge of their lives because men are so hard done by, when men are the least oppressed and the most privileged demographic in the history of the planet. Women in contrast have inherent value You're making the assumption that women have value because it was bestowed to them, not something they earned. So how ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 08:24 PM
6	Nobody cares about men’s problems. DEI program to help them The patriarchy is the biggest, longest, ongoing fucking DEI program for men. Women's DEI initiatives have only in been place for about 20 years. Get back to me after about 2000 years. Then we can call it even.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 07:25 AM
4	This man should not be shamed for running away while while girlfriend gets attacked by muggers Saying that it was his role as a man to protect her is just reinforcing gender essentialist stereotypes that harm men. But isn't this due to the patriarchal compact, where men are given primary authority in family, society, and politics, granting them power and privileges in exchange for perceived provision and order? One of the patriarchal privileges that men enjoy is the gendered classification of household chores and childcare as women's work. Men's provision in exchange for this privilege is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 05:41 AM
5	Nobody cares about men’s problems. Yes, it's easy to say you care about women's issues when all the grunt work has been done and you aren't actually expected to do anything. If I saw a woman getting attacked my instinct would be to intervene Then when you are expected to do something, it's an abstract, once in a lifetime scenario that never fucking happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 04:46 AM
-1	Nobody cares about men’s problems. Nobody Men don't care about men’s problems. FTFY. So who exactly gave a fuck about women's issues? They're called other women. Other women did the grassroots campaigning, the leg work and built that shit from the ground up and they did so in spite of men's attempts to hamper their efforts at every turn, calling them cunts under the threat of violence. Men have no such obstacles. No one is threatening men for the mere fact that they are men. No one is calling men cunts (except me). Men are litera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 04:38 AM
2	New demographic Happening but cannot unlearn the faulty logic of being "in charge." Nor their ingrained entitlement to chores and childcare. Since we are never going to have traditional marriages Another issue has arisen from this. Common law and domestic partnerships are a relatively new concept in only a few select jurisdictions. If couples are eschewing traditional marriages, at the very least, they should get a cohabitation agreement. Men are lazy fucking cunts that shirk and devalue unpaid labor, while hogging and o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 03:56 AM
–	Women gaslight men into using sex toys, while shaming male porn usage can't debate my point That's not the reason we can't debate your point. We aren't debating your fucking point because your premise is stupid, that's why. Here's why your premise is fucking faulty: You are making a comparison of 2 issues when the only point they seem have in common is that they relate to sexuality. In order to do that, the circumstances and the outcomes must be same. They fucking aren't and you aren't addressing these deficiencies in your premise. Porn is not sex toys. No one is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 12:53 AM
–	The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion How the fuck is this relevant? Nobody is condoning female teachers raping their students, whereas men are advocating for age gap relationships because men benefit as they are almost always the older party in the relationship. Age gaps where the woman is older is rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/26 12:50 AM
-1	The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion I identify with the Black Pill MGTOW, but from from a women's perspective. I advocate for a female separatism movement as a solution to the patriarchy, where women are systematically oppressed by men. Women must reclaim their autonomy and focus on self-improvement and personal goals, free from traditional societal expectations, particularly those involving relationships with men because men are inherently self-absorbed and exploitative of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 10:12 PM
3	The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion Power imbalances can't exist between people of a similar age? Name them. Do young adult women have no options available to prevent pregnancy? Why is the sole responsibility on the women to prevent pregnancy? Men get women pregnant. Women don't get men pregnant. So why are you trying to equate them? Are older women irresponsibly depositing their eggs into young men and forcing these young men into parenthood? Are young women irresponsibly depositing their eggs into young men and forcing these you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 09:32 PM
6	The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion Age gap relationships would be fine if the relationship ended with no life-long repercussions for both parties, but that's not the case here. You're making a huge fucking assumption that both parties also leave the relationship unscathed. There's a serious fucking power imbalance with adverse effects here, like predatory cunt men getting teenage girls pregnant. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10227344/#:~:text=Results%3A%20Adult%20fathers%2C%20responsible%20for,years%20older%20than%20the%20mothe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 08:53 PM
13	The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion Men suddenly care about women's agency, but only in the context of rationalizing men's exploitation of women. They fully understand the ramifications of the agreement they enter. One of the ramifications is that they are going to be judged for dating someone at the youngest age legally possible. The only thing stopping these men from dating younger is the law.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 08:02 PM
2	Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating men [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/26 01:02 AM
20	The equality women want is actually largely about innate inequality "made right". Nah. It's less about height and more about the systematic subjugation of women by men using the patriarchy. Most of us don't actually a give a fuck about your height, but we do give a fuck if you are a lazy sack of shit who won't do their fair share of parenting and chores, while calling us gold diggers and whores under your breath, after you fuck us poorly. But really, what women wish for is what they perceive to be this largely unfair setup to be mitigated by men out of moral principles, becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 11:56 AM
-2	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. Easy to say as the gender that's born a prize. Women weren't born with a silver spoon in our mouths. We earned that shit through volunteer work, eldercare, kinkeeping and not committing violent crimes. Maybe men don't try so hard to survive because life as a dude kinda sucks. Because it's mainly your own fucking fault. We work to be the prize. Do you think those social support networks built themselves? so why do more than the bare minimum? That's fine. Just fucking stay single and wallow in you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 09:08 AM
-3	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. I don't have the luxury of sitting back on my ass unless I look like chat with Bozeman or Michael B Jordan. The only thing Chadwick Bozeman, Michael B Jordan and women have in common is that all 3 are the prize. Men are fucking parasites. Why would a host approach a parasite? Has a prize ever searched for a contestant? You aren't the prize, so you have to approach. Either stop fucking whining about it or stay single forever. So anybody who's using their fuel to say I am doing this just for the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 06:18 AM
9	Women in today’s society use motherhood as an excuse to let themselves go The Obesity Epidemic in the US: https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity More than 1 in 3 men (34.1%) and more than 1 in 4 women (27.5%) are overweight. The percentage of men who are overweight (34.1%) is higher than the percentage of women who are overweight (27.5%). This proportion also applies to obesity: 43% of men are obese, compared to 41.9% of women. Add those percentages together and it comes out to: 77.1% of men are overweight or obese vs. 69.4% …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 12:14 AM
1	The tenets of masculinity™️ overlap with conservatism which is why the ideology appeals to more males than females If you don't want to engage with me, then why the fuck are you posting this shit? That's not how fucking debate works. This is PPD, not PP Validate Me Male privilege in a nutshell. Gee, l wish l could post garbage and have everyone agree with me. Even the slightest opposition is like a metaphorical sack tap. One dissenting opinion and you go down faster than a hooker at a cop convention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 11:02 PM
2	The tenets of masculinity™️ overlap with conservatism which is why the ideology appeals to more males than females Conservative mindset = achieving things. Like fucking ending no fault divorce, ending safe access to abortion, promoting a lifestyle that entrenches income disparity between husbands and wives, putting wives in significant financial disadvantage, with a religious community and social support system that heavily discourages divorce? And then somehow attributing and equating those barriers to divorce to marriage commitment? If Republican marriages were so fucking awesome, why they fuck are they tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 10:46 PM
1	The tenets of masculinity™️ overlap with conservatism which is why the ideology appeals to more males than females Conservatives report higher relationship satisfaction Because you're confusing commitment with of lack of options for leaving. Just because someone can't leave the relationship, doesn't necessarily mean they're happy in the relationship. They are also more likely to be married and have children, which are factors that impede people leaving bad relationships. By your rationale, since India has the fewest divorces, they must be the happiest couples in the world with the best life quality. It's the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 10:20 PM
2	It's All Prostitution Fuck off. Gold digging women don't exist. The research does not fucking support you. Women generally pull their weight in all relationships. If they don't, you need to fucking post evidence proving that they work significantly less hours than their sole male breadwinner husbands or else shut the fuck up about it. seeking "provider men" By working 61.2 hours? That's an odd way of seeking "provider" men. If women truly were gold diggers seeking a lifestyle they didn't truly earn, they'd work 28 fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 06:32 PM
1	Men shouldn't take dating advice from women (on the internet) Women are not a monolith. The women who complain on Tiktok are hardly representative of women at large and they are milking the topic for views and engagement. They couldn't give less of a shit about being approached. Can't you see the grift? If they actually did care, they would approach men instead. So why don't they? They don't because this is not a real issue. The fact that enough women complained about unwanted attention to the point where men actually listened and stopped approaching women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 03:21 AM
8	Getting/ finding "better/ new hobbies" is advice for rich men, deadbeats or older men with stable careers. I spend 6 hours in med school and 4 hours on my part time job every day...I make €500 a month from my job 4 hours x 5 days a week x 4 weeks is 80 hours per month. €500 (after taxes) ÷ 80 hours = €6.25 per hour Unless you live in Slovenia or Bulgaria, where the average minimum wage is around €4, you need to get a better fucking job because you're being ripped off. You're in fucking med school?! Great, that's what we need. Future doctors that can't fucking add or make up a more believeble story be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 02:12 AM
-2	Men shouldn't take dating advice from women (on the internet) The debate encapsulates men's selfishness in a nutshell. She will likely feel burdened or annoyed at having to deal with unwanted romantic attention and these emotions will often bleed into the advice they give to men, telling them that cold approaching at all is wrong or always inappropriate She was harassed and bothered on a nice night out with her friends and she can imagine other women in her position being harassed and bothered and wants to prevent that from happening by dissuading men from…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 01:35 AM
1	How often do you have to communicate what you want during sex? The fact that when women have sex with other women, 88% of women surveyed said they orgasmed everytime throws all your bullshit theories out the window. (Note: this is also why women more often volunteer blowjobs than guys volunteer cunnilingus). What the fuck is this? Don't tell me you just blamed women for men's selfishness. Women volunteer blowjobs because they care about the sexual pleasure of men. Men don't offer to eat pussy because it's work and they're too selfish and narcissistic cunts.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 09:07 PM
1	Women objectify and reduce men to metrics but in a different way. Domestic chores and dealing with kids are not traditionally male roles Is there some invisible forcefield preventing men from doing them? You think women love cleaning toilets and watching whiny kids all day because it's so fun? No, they bite the fucking bullet and do it because they can't leave it for the nearest woman like men do all the time. Men prioritize themselves above all else because they are lazy and narcissistic. That's why men don't do this grunt shit work. Working for money was als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 06:53 PM
0	Women objectify and reduce men to metrics but in a different way. It's called quoting studies and statistics. Do you think l pulled these numbers out of my fucking ass? Just because men say stupid shit all the time without verifying it doesn't mean that l do it too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 09:00 PM
–	Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassion Men need to stop delegating the unpaid care work to women. It takes empathy, a willingness to listen and put someone else's needs ahead of their own. Men don't do any of this because they are preoccupied only with getting their own needs met. Men don't listen to women and they don't even give women the chance to finish their train of thought before they are already interrupting them. Then men wonder why nobody fucking likes them. Men have done literally nothing to improve their lives. Women do p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 08:58 PM
6	I think men’s desired # of kids is higher than women’s desired # of kids Yeah, no fucking shit men want children. They benefit the most, while doing as little work as possible. They get to have unprotected sex, which they'll do gladly. Then they get to fuck off and do nothing else. The women takes all the risks. Men don't deal with the irreversible life-altering effects, a busted vagina or have to abstain from recreational drugs or alcohol. Men won't even fucking attend the medical appointments for emotional support. The people who accompany women to appointments are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 08:39 PM
-2	Women objectify and reduce men to metrics but in a different way. Many women also objectify men as status objects and utility providers. Women have to be ruthless, because once the relationship progresses past the dating stage, men are lazy, childcare- and chore-digging cunts that don't pull their weight in relationships. social proof Men don't do any kinkeeping work and they've been proven to have fewer social networks then women as a result. If a man doesn't have any friends, then he's most likely going to invade her social group like a fucking parasite or c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 03:15 AM
12	Ladies, "Formal connection" is just code for using sex as a bargaining chip, and it's a total passion killer. Mutual Pleasure vs. Performance: It moves sex away from being a shared experience of mutual pleasure and turns it into a milestone to be "earned." Mutual pleasure? Where the fuck did you get this from? Only 65% of women reported orgasming every time they have sex. When they have sex with other women, that jumps to 88% of women who report orgasming everytime they have sex. And these are woman having sex with men who are supposed to care about them. If men care so little about the pleasure about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:46 AM
2	The Manosphere Preys on Immaturity, Not Misogyny or Entitlement Because women's problems are due to the patriarchy and institionalized sexism for thousands of years, whereas men's problems are self-inflicted due to their laziness, selfishness and entitlement. It's almost as if the circumstances and solutions for both are entirely fucking different. For example, men commit 92% of violent crime. Your solution is to blame the women for being victims as if that's the problem, while ignoring men being malignant narcissists and sociopaths. But that's what your stu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 01:49 AM
8	If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean? Men are not a monolith But they all benefit from the patriarchy. l don't exactly see men tripping over their own balls to dismantle it, do we? Pump and dump (to get my money’s worth back. I usually don’t). Yes, I'm sure shelling out for that Big Mac combo was a real hardship for you. Gotta recoop the money somehow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 10:58 PM
9	If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean? It means you can't fuck her and then call her a slut the next morning, like men tend to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 10:20 PM
3	Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetrator Because this isn't r/askmen. This is a debate forum, not somewhere where men get their smegma-encrusted foreskin tongued by mods and other posters with their RP rhetoric unchallenged. My posts are well-informed and sourced. I actually do the research and read the studies to dismantle shit OP posts like these, line-by- line. If l didn't, l would have been fucking banned months ago. But that takes unpaid work and what do men do with unpaid work? Refuse to do it and delegate it to the nearest woman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 12:58 AM
3	Why do so many breadwinner women contribute less than their partner in household expenses? some people Men. Men enjoy sex with other people because they benefit the most from it. Only 65% of women surveyed said they orgasmed every time. If it was 65% of men who said they orgasmed every time, there'd be a lot less men harassing women for unsatisfying sex. When women have sex with other women, it jumps to 88% of women surveyed saying they orgasmed every time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 12:43 AM
29	Why do so many breadwinner women contribute less than their partner in household expenses? Did you read the article you linked? 🤣 You pretty much summed up men in general. Wants all the credit and the perception but none of the work. Of course he fucking didn't. Because it's unpaid work. What do men do with unpaid work? Refuse to do it while looking for the nearest woman to delegate it to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 12:35 AM
10	Why do so many breadwinner women contribute less than their partner in household expenses? This is gonna be good. "Hee hee, gotcha feminazis!" But just half of those women breadwinners take the lead on financial responsibilities in their households, compared to 79% of men in the same position Yeah, it doesn't seem right that the sole female breadwinners aren't mirroring their sole male breadwinner counterparts. Oh, wait. It's because they don't get to enjoy all the benefits that the sole male breadwinner enjoys. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-myth-of-the-lazy-father Among respondents …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 12:25 AM
1	People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable woman Yeah, but In subgroup analyses, we found that the associations between being unmarried, widowed, or divorced and risk of death from all causes were modified by sex (Table 3). Positive associations were found among unmarried (P for interaction = .003), widowed (P for interaction =. 049), and divorced (P for interaction = .047) men, but no association was found among women. Lets read that again: Positive associations were found among unmarried, widowed, and divorced men, but no association was fou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 04:04 PM
-1	It's weird to get offended when anyone criticizes shitty people that have nothing to do with you. Lilith, l start off wanting to agree with you but then you veer off into a weird fucking tangent. What the hell are you on about, woman? Case in point: Holding any men accountable for their actions is considered hatred and that I'm condemning all men. Yes, l agree. Men are defensive about how much violent crime they commit and how little childcare and chores they do in egalitarian and female breadwinner relationships. They don't want do the work so that the statistics reflect an equal contributi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 03:20 PM
3	People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable woman People who claim women are "happier single" You mean researchers that conduct studies, like this one? https://www.artsci.utoronto.ca/news/new-study-finds-single-women-are-happier-single-men have never spoken to a truly undesirable woman So had these researchers spoke to an undesirable woman, it would magically invalidate their findings and it would be revealed that the respondents were actually liars who exaggerated their happiness and were miserable. They would then marry men, become happier an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 02:00 PM
–	A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse. Shut the fuck up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 11:06 AM
3	Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetrator Not even close. In 55-70% of households men are the primary or sole breadwinner. Stop pulling shit out of your ass and claiming it's true. Post your source. Because my source says that 23% are sole male breadwinners and 32% are primary male breadwinners. The remaining 45% are egalitarian, primary female breadwinner or sole female breadwinner. 50 minutes a day? Oh the horror. The average American woman shoves a frozen pizza into the oven and calls it "cooking". Only men are that selfish to profit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 07:07 AM
–	Should couples who don't have kids and don't want to ever have them do 50/50 by default? Why is your source your own post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 04:57 AM
–	Should couples who don't have kids and don't want to ever have them do 50/50 by default? Tell me the percentage of male primary/sole breadwinners Absolutely. Here. Someone (you among others) keeps bringing up the 32% of families with primary male breadwinner statistic. They don't specify exactly what a primary breadwinner's income is and they try to lump in a primary male breadwinner with sole male breadwinners, hence the 55% statistic. I wonder why. Well: Husband is the primary breadwinner: The husband earns more than 60% of the couple’s combined earnings (and the wife has earnings…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 12:52 AM
–	Should couples who don't have kids and don't want to ever have them do 50/50 by default? Fix your formatting because your post is hard to read. I take pains to present my information in a clear and concise manner for the reader to follow. We may be political adversaries, but l expect a certain level of intellectual respect while debating. Men post their information in the easiest, laziest and sloppiest way possible, which reflects how little they think of others. about 15 more hours of work than their wives. No, they dont. I've already addressed this. One hour. 62 hours for breadwin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 10:17 PM
–	Should couples who don't have kids and don't want to ever have them do 50/50 by default? Among the remaining 77% of prime-age married women, around a third are not employed full-time No. You need to post your source. You can't just say it and assume it to be true. Literally everything I've said has been backed up by a source. I expect the same level of research from your response. Because my source says this. https://www.americanprogress.org/article/fact-sheet-the-state-of-women-in-the-labor-market-in-2023/ Today, 84 percent of employed, prime-age women work full time. Again, how is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 09:44 PM
–	Should couples who don't have kids and don't want to ever have them do 50/50 by default? How much more hours do they work than their wives if you add up the paid work, childcare, and housework? One fucking hour. 62 hours for the sole male breadwinner vs 61.2 hours for his SAHM. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-myth-of-the-lazy-father Among respondents who work full-time and have a spouse who is out of the labor force and non-disabled, dads work 62 hours to moms’ 61.2 In the flipside scenario, where a non-disabled respondent is out of the workforce and has a full-time-working spouse, d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 09:16 PM
6	Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetrator shows you shouldn't be trusted to interpret anything honestly. The data is wrong because it's wrong. Also, it makes men look terrible. Therefore it's wrong. Also, nothing means anything. Physically demanding paid work is more stressful than housework or childcare and men do the great majority of that. How does this excuse SAHDs working 28 fewer hours than SAHMs? Also, women are making at least half the family income. So these men are working all day at strenuous jobs but they don't make very muc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 06:18 AM
1	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable My sources says otherwise. https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/the-stress-of-marriage-shortens-your-life-by-a-year-if-you-re-the-wife-5335547.html Marriage helps husbands to an extra 1.7 years, but it knocks 1.4 years off the average wife's lifespan, according to the study of more than 100,000 people across Europe. Here's another bigger, longer, harder source that confirms what the fuck I'm saying: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 05:29 AM
1	Should couples who don't have kids and don't want to ever have them do 50/50 by default? Wow, l am so owned. Someone quoted your post to discredit me. Please allow me to respond. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-myth-of-the-lazy-father And l fucking quote: Among respondents who work full-time and have a spouse who is out of the labor force and non-disabled, dads work 62 hours to moms’ 61.2 In the flipside scenario, where a non-disabled respondent is out of the workforce and has a full-time-working spouse, dads work just 33 hours to moms’ 46. That’s a gap of about two hours a day! Yike…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 03:37 AM
-3	Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetrator How? Here. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-myth-of-the-lazy-father And l fucking quote: Among respondents who work full-time and have a spouse who is out of the labor force and non-disabled, dads work 62 hours to moms’ 61.2 In the flipside scenario, where a non-disabled respondent is out of the workforce and has a full-time-working spouse, dads work just 33 hours to moms’ 46. That’s a gap of about two hours a day! Yikes. Holy shit, it's even worse than l expected. 61 - 33 = SAHDs actually work 28…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 03:27 AM
0	Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetrator Is that what you take issue with my post? The profanity? Not OP's horribly informed, poorly written rant that has zero to no basis in reality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 01:29 AM
–	You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better You don't know what a double standard is (nor irony, for that matter). Women think that when men have issues with how women perceive them its up to the man to change himself to change that perception Yes. Because men are responsible for committing 92% violent crime. Reverse the genders. If women committed 92% of violent crime and men pointed that out every chance they get, are women entitled to get angry? No, they aren't. Women need to shut the fuck up about "unfair assumptions" and commit less …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:38 PM
-4	Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetrator Fuck all of this post. Jesus Fucking Christ, do some fucking research before you post. Are men always this fucking lazy? You need to prove your assertions with data and statistics before you go on an unhinged rant. Like this: A no-contest divorce? At least learn about no-fault divorces before you fucking post. You won't actually do any research on it to inform yourself but you also won't shut the fuck up about it either. The reason why no-fault divorce exists is because once the marriage is over…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:00 PM
9	Why is slut shaming wrong? whereas a girl doesn’t have to do much just open her legs So? Then the onus is on men to raise their standards, not slutshame women. Just because men have no standards where literally any pussy will do doesn't imply that men are somehow justified in upholding this double standard. Where is the rational connection between men fucking anyone who is willing and men being entitled to slutshame women? Again, men are jerking off with one hand, while judging women with the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:57 AM
8	Why is slut shaming wrong? That's the patriarchy for you. Men will claim privileges for themselves while twisting themselves into pretzels engaging in mental gymnastics to rationalize and excuse their hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:52 AM
9	Why is slut shaming wrong? Hypocrisy. The answer is hypocrisy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:42 AM
1	Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptable doesn’t feel like love or commitment, it feels like being interchangeable. Because that's exactly what it is. Men see women as an interchangeable wife appliance that dispenses chores, invisible labor, childcare and sex, while bringing home half the income. Men aren't looking for life partners, they are looking for an unpaid employee to fill a vacancy in their life. Why the fuck do you think men dump their chores and childcare on women, while stealing as much leisure time as possible off the back…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:30 AM
2	You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better But I think to suggest men in general are oftentimes violent and abusive is an unfair characterization If men feel that they are being unfairly generalized, then they are welcome to explore the reasons why this is so. The responsibility is on men to curtail their behavior to change the perception. The onus isn't on women to ignore scientific data and research on the violent nature of men and calling them misandric assumptions and generations is dismissive. You don't get credit for shit you haven…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:07 AM
0	The red pill is delusional about single mom dating options Because this story is made up and never happened. The math ain't mathing. Presumably, she's at least 30. If she's dating a guy 3 years younger, that must mean he's at least 27. So how is a 27 year old a teen looking guy who barely looks like a man? Liars never get the details right and the story falls apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 10:50 AM
9	Why is slut shaming wrong? call short women hypocritical What exactly are you saying here? That if women want men to stop slutshaming women, short women must date short men and if short women refuse to date short men, then women must accept men slutshaming women? Women not wanting to be called sluts by hypocritical men who engage in the same activity is about basic respect that everyone deserves. Short men whining about how short women won't date them is short men's entitlement to relationships. We are all entitled to the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 04:59 AM
0	You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better Yes, but how else would men be able to lord themselves over women by constantly emphasizising their physical strength and then subjugate women through violence or the threat of violence? If I've learned anything about men on PPD, it's that they're gracious, compassionate, humble and always do their fair share of childcare and chores. It sure as fuck isn't women picking fights with children but it sure as fuck is men picking fights with women, because that's the only way they'll win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 02:20 AM
7	Should couples who don't have kids and don't want to ever have them do 50/50 by default? If men contribute more This is an assumption and generalization. There's your first mistake, because the statistics are telling us that it's the complete fucking opposite. How the fuck do men contribute more? 23% of families are sole breadwinners who work 52 hours a week, while their SAHMs work 51 hours. 16% are sole female breadwinners who work 46 hours, while their SAHDs work 33 hours. So SAHD working 13 fucking hours less than their breadwinner wives and 18 fucking hours less that the typical…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 01:57 AM
-2	You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better No it doesn’t Holy shit, why didn't anyone tell me?! That's some informed reasoning there. I'm convinced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 01:21 AM
22	Why is slut shaming wrong? The double standard exists for men and women for a reason. No, it isn't. It's sexism and an example of patriarchial privilege. It's the hypocrisy we object to. If you are a man who wants a chaste woman, then it stands to reason that you should be a chaste man. But men are fucking cake eaters. Men want all the sexual freedom without judgment, but they don't want women to have the same privilege. So how do they do that without sounding like a hypocrite? By saying stupid shit like this: For the ave…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 01:02 AM
–	Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring. manosphere was the least attractive No fucking shit. Women hate patriarchial relationships that adhere to strict gender roles that benefit men at the cost of women and codify all the unpaid work as women's work? Patriarchy is DEI for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:27 AM
-2	You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better You need a man All research points the other way. Marriages alleviate men's depression, but it's the opposite for women. Marriage adds 1.7 years to a man's life, but it shortens a women's life by 1.4 years. Single women do less chores than married women. The only thing men provide women are more chores to do and a lackluster sex life. Men want to be needed because women are forced to put up with him and can't leave the relationship. Men don't want a relationship where they are wanted, because th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:19 AM
–	Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring. How the fuck is this generalizing? Women have been statistically proven to spend double the time on household chores and childcare than their husbands, despite having her own full-time job bringing home half the family income. It's the exact opposite of a generalization. Assuming that men do their fair share at home when we have statistical proof they fucking don't is an actual generalization. You don't get credit for shit you haven't done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:07 AM
–	Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring. Nah. It's more about lazy men who want a family but shirk their chores and childcare in favor of gaming all day. That work doesn't just fucking disappear when they put on their headsets. It just gets dumped onto the wives, which is what these women are trying to avoid in the first place. men are expected to always be productive and be in the ambitious mindset of making as much money as possible to be rich No, they aren't. As they only make half the family income, they are expected to do more hou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 11:58 PM
–	Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring. women treating men who play video games as an automatic “no,” almost as if it were a red flag by itself Women hate video games for the same reason they hate sports: men neglecting their chores and children and dumping that unpaid work on their wives while they game and gamble on sports betting sites all day. It's perfectly fine to smoke weed, play video games and watch sports all weekend. Just don't have any fucking kids because they don't deserve to have a father that priortizes everything else…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 11:33 PM
-2	Why do we have a generation of "weak" men? Could it have possibly been all the raping and sexual abuse of women and children committed by men as 92.1% of sexual abuse offenders were men? We know from statistics on time use that men ignore children because childcare is unpaid work and the only time men pay attention to children is when they're molesting them. Reverse the genders. If 92.1% of abusers were women, this conversation would be different and a lot more men would be scolding women about their selfishness and extreme lack of empat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 11:23 PM
4	Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enough Of course, he needs to date someone 10 years younger, who doesn't know any better. It's the same reason men fight women: they need an advantage or else they'll lose in a fair fight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 10:59 PM
1	Many women see men as just a means to an end. This is pure projection. Whose asshole did you pull this shit from? I love how every single one of your points is the complete opposite of reality (also the complete opposite of what the data and statistics tell us). Men do the least work but pretend they do the most work in order to steal even more unpaid labor from women. Patriarchy, give me the confidence of a mediocre male. This is why many women (probably most) are basically obsessed with the idea of a man "providing" for them Nope. If most…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 12:13 AM
2	The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single" Show me the data, women are murdered every other day by their partner You could've done your own research to confirm what I'm saying but you're too much of a lazy shit, but not too fucking lazy to ask for a source. I post my source, and you'll still disregard my source and my post. Fucking source whore. You better fucking read it. https://shelterfromthestorm.com/facts/fact-sheet/ In California, an average of 124 women per year are murdered at the hands of an intimate partner. 124 women ÷ 365 day…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 12:55 AM
0	The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single" When women masturbate, 97% say they orgasm everytime. When women have sex with other women, 88% say they orgasm all the time. It is totally a men's issue that they don't care about the sexual pleasure of their partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 12:17 AM
–	The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single" Women couldn't leave men alone. There is no reason not to return this favor. We did leave men alone collectively, because they contribute so little, while generating a ton of work and chores they can't delegate to someone else. Men responded well, because that's what men love: taking initiative, admitting fault, being empathetic and introspective. No, wait. They rationalize, justify, diffuse responsibility and blame everyone else but themselves. It turns out "both sides" doesn't actually fucking…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 02:17 AM
1	The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single" The orgasm gap is a microcosm that truly encapsulates the self-absorbed, "Fuck you (poorly), got mine" mentality that most men have, in a nutshell. Would men ever accept only 65% of them saying they orgasm every time they have sex? They have no problems asking for blowjobs but they'll hesitate to eat pussy. Making a woman orgasm is unpaid work. What do men do with unpaid work? They either weaponize their incompetence or they try to delegate it to someone else. If men care that little about the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 01:52 AM
12	The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single" Wow, it's almost as if there's a difference between happily single women and miserably single women. Also, was this supposed to shame single women in general? Women, if you don't give that wooden dildo of a man who works but does nothing at home a chance, you'll end up alone for the holidays. You too can work full-time, do all the shopping, the planning and decorating, deal all the stress and the work for the holidays, while your dildo sits on the couch watching you. The only thing he got you th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 01:26 AM
0	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. Why wouldn't a man be responsible and use contraception if he isn't interested in being a father? The guy knows himself the most and knows he's probably going to be a neglectful father. Why are we expecting women to be clairvoyant, be able to read minds and predict neglectful fathers? If men aren't mind readers, then neither are women. It seems like you think men are entitled to unfettered orgasms and have zero responsibility for birth control and parenting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:43 PM
-1	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. Yes, they are strong and independent. Single parent families comprise of 33% of all families. 80% headed by mothers and about 10-11% are headed by fathers. The remaining percentage are probably from grandparents. Women outnumber men in custodial arrangements 5 to 1. Since 83% of women in the US have their own full-time jobs, she is most likely to be a single parent working her 36 hours and comes home to do all the parenting the father has neglected. The deadbeat father, on the other hand, works …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:35 PM
7	My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbands So a husband is excused from childcare because he rotated the tires 6 months ago?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 03:47 AM
0	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Few men have horror stories of women's hygiene. Many women have horror stories about men's hygiene. In dating profiles, men list their hygiene habits as if this is a quality to be admired and given credit for, and not just basic fucking hygiene standards we should expect from everyone. This is also why boys are more likely to be need to be paid to brush their teeth and take a bath, or else they won't fucking do it. Not the girls though, because it's just expected that a girl isn't a lazy slob. S…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 03:31 AM
0	Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wing Yes, Conservative men need to suck their own cocks but that raises another issue: why are Conservative men even pursuing Liberal women in the first place? Why aren't they dating Conservative women? For all men complain about having to pay for dates, wouldn't it be more efficient to stick to a dating pool that most likely has someone with common values? I think Conservative women have a moral duty to fuck Conservative men. Why aren't they?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:21 AM
12	Who gives more and who takes more: men vs women But they also take an extra 3.5 hours of leisure time per week on top of what they have, so those 4 hours of work are negated. Women work 36 hours and get rewarded with an extra 4.5 hours of chores and childcare on top of what she already does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:44 AM
15	Who gives more and who takes more: men vs women The statistics have shown that: Women volunteer more than men. They are also more likely to do the majority of childcare and chores, even when they have their own full time jobs. They are also more likely to care for their elderly parents than their brothers. They do all the invisible labor and the kinkeeping, scheduling, cooking and cleaning of Christmases, birthdays, anniversaries. Every single present under the tree was wrapped by her. But nobody wrapped any presents for her. She does all the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:03 AM
6	My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbands Yes, theoretically, a woman would save time by having her non-working partner do the majority of chores and chores. If a sole breadwinner male feels entitled to do zero chores and childcare, then a sole female breadwinner should enjoy the same privileges However, the reality is that this isn't fucking so. SAHDs still only do half the chores and childcare expected of a typical SAHM and they work 13 hours less than their breadwinning wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 12:14 AM
5	My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbands Because men don't hold up their end of the fucking bargain like women do. Even when the women are busting their asses out there making all the income, men will still try to take advantage and screw women over by trying to shirk responsibility for their share of the household chores and childcare. Men's entitlement is ingrained due to the patriarchy. How the fuck else would you explain it? So how do we know this? Well, when men are the breadwinners, they do jack fucking shit at home. https://www.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 11:40 PM
1	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Because men are dirty, lazy fucks that stink and need to be told to brush their teeth, shower, do their laundry and clean their homes. Women need to explicitly write these things down because, otherwise, men wouldn't fucking do it. Men don't need to write a similar list for women because women generally do brush their teeth and shower and women aren't entitled enough to neglect their chores and expect a man to magically do their chores for them. An above-average man is just a below-average woman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 10:56 PM
–	CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with dating He rapes, but then he saves. And he saves a lot more than he rapes. Once you have to mention men's achievements to excuse all the horrible things they do, you've already lost the argument, because you're trying to distract and diffuse responsibility. We aren't fucking talking about men's and women's achievements, we are talking about how much danger the average man is to the average woman, to the point that a woman would rather encounter a fucking bear than a man in the wilderness. No one has to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 09:43 PM
-6	Men who dont get dates and relationships biggest problem with women Women are reading these statistics and posting them to warn other women that if she gets into a heterosexual relationship, she will spend double the time as her husband on chores and childcare because men love leaving that grunt shit work for women to do, even when she has her own full-time job. This is why women are avoiding relationships with men, as they should. Men, knowing that they should do more chores and childcare refuse to because they're parasites who would rather fuck an inanimate ob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 03:44 AM
-3	Forgiveness for past sins in dating Richard Cooper The same asshole who grows a beard as if it compensates for his shitty bald head (it doesn't), who denigrates single moms, while being a single dad himself? That asshole?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 02:28 AM
1	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse compared to male breadwinner relationships which make up 55% of relationships. So you didn't fucking say this? I could take a screenshot and post it too, if you don't believe me. Of course, you neglected to mention that this 55% refers to primary and sole male breadwinner and the percentage of sole male breadwinners is actually 23%. So why the fuck didn't you say: compared to male breadwinner relationships which make up 23% of relationships. Because the 55% of men toiling away for 60 hours at th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 02:19 AM
1	CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with dating Im a man who has absolutely no desire to kill, rape or abuse anyone and yet Good for you. You want a fucking cookie for that? You do realize that this is basic human decency we should expect from everyone, right? Im expected to lash myself in penitence for eternity for being born with a penis Are you out there in the men's subs, scolding other men for making men look bad? No, you're in here, scolding women for complaining about it. You don't give a fuck about women, but you only give a fuck when…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 02:03 AM
0	CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with dating Like, I really want to be on your side but holy shit do you people make it fucking hard. So it's women's fucking fault that they are killed, raped and abused by men and it's also women's fucking fault for complaining about that fact? "I'd be a lot more sympathetic to women if women would just shut the fuck up about all the violence and abuse they endure because it makes men look bad when they complain about it."	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 01:33 AM
-1	CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with dating Yep, tit-for-tat, both sides. Like women kill, rape and abuse men at the same rates that men do to women. Oh wait, women fucking don't kill, rape and abuse men at the same rates, which is why this hypothetical exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 01:26 AM
-10	Men who dont get dates and relationships biggest problem with women On a recent thread a women said that men are ok with relationships with robots instead of women. I tried explaining like countless men before that those men usually dont have a choice That wasn't the fucking point at all. Her point was the men preferred robot relationships than improve their relationships with women because that's the easiest, laziest possible action a man can take. They would rather have sex with an inanimate object than lift a finger and do any unpaid work to be better husband…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 01:01 AM
1	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse THE EXACT % OF SOLE AND PRIMARY BREADWINNERS IN MY POST. No, you didn't. You quoted the 55% as if it was a sole breadwinner, therefore excusing all men from all the chores and childcare they don't do. Or else, why the fuck else would you quote it? Had you actually read the article, that percentage drops to 23%, which means that the resulting 45-77% of husbands are lazy and entitled as shit. These men now have half the responsibility and pressure for providing for the household, but they do not r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 12:08 AM
-2	CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with dating I fucking love how the "Man vs. Bear" has gotten under men's skin because men's response is to immediately get defensive, try to nitpick and be pedantic about details in a hypothetical situation than acknowledge and accept responsibility for how fucking awful men generally are to women. Are men fucking accountable for anything? "Well, there are so many men and so few bears around. There's bound to be a few dead women around. Nothing we can do about that but don't you dare fucking generalize and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 11:05 PM
3	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care Giving alimony to grown ass women (and rarely men) in their 20’s and 30’s who have a job This doesn't make any fucking sense. Why the fuck would a woman who works claim alimony? Alimony is awarded to women who sacrificed their careers to care for children. They don't give it out willy-nilly like candy. You have to fucking claim it and a judge awards it based on the work circumstances. Also, here's a simple way to avoid alimony: take care of your fucking kids, the ones you wanted so fucking much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 12:40 AM
1	If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punished And I'm here to tell you exactly how and why your analogy fucking sucks and why I'm not convinced. You're abusing the concept of equity, while ignoring the circumstances and consequences of each party involved. If deception about contraception voids consent in one direction, should it in the other Why? Because women get laws that criminalize men for removing condoms during sex, does it logically entail that men automatically get laws that criminalize women for lying about birth control? How the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 11:53 PM
1	If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punished The only thing your two examples seem to have in common is the fact that there was deception and pregnancy involved, but the circumstances and consequences are markedly different. Where is the rational connection between a man taking off his condom and a woman lying to a man about birth control? The only way your analogy would work is if a woman deposited her unwanted eggs into men by deception, like how men are depositing their uncondomed cock and sperm in women by deception. But that's not the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 10:49 PM
1	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse What the fuck. 55% have a primary or sole male breadwinner Operative word: sole. It doesn't say that 55% families comprise of a sole male breadwinner, does it? If it did, it would have fucking said it. So what is the percentage of sole male breadwinner? It's hidden all the way at the bottom of the article. Far fewer husbands are the sole breadwinner in their marriage these days. The share of marriages where the husband is the primary or sole breadwinner has fallen steadily in recent decades, dri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 09:33 PM
1	If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punished law should treat cases where someone lies about using birth control So your argument is premised on the fact that since stealthing is criminalized for men, women who lie about birth control, having IUDs inserted and get pregnant should also have laws along those lines. Since the children were conceived by deception, men aren't responsible for their children. Absolutely. It's only fair, right? If women get laws criminalizing men who remove their condom during sex, then men should get laws crimina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 08:10 PM
1	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse study given that they make up 45%, compared to male breadwinner relationships which make up 55% of relationships Somehow, l don't believe you. If this were true, then how the hell do you reconcile this with the fact that 84% of employed, prime-age women were fucking working full-time in 2023? https://www.americanprogress.org/article/fact-sheet-the-state-of-women-in-the-labor-market-in-2023/ And this one: https://www.thebalancemoney.com/what-is-the-average-hours-per-week-worked-in-the-us-2060631 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 06:55 PM
0	"Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of. >Don't sleep with a man hoping he will have a relationship with you, make him have a relationship with you first. If he doesn't do that, then don't sleep with him. But women don't have any self control and just can't resist sleeping with the "totally hawt guy". Learn to have some accountability in the choices you make. Absolutely. If a guy says he only wants a one night stand and she still sleeps with him, hoping to change his mind, that's her fucking problem. > Is that why divorce is initiated …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 10:48 PM
0	"Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of. > Who said the man dangled a relationship in order to have sex? Last paragraph of OP: > women need to recognize they are not entitled to relationships just because they had sex with a man who didn't promise her anything for sex. Didn't OP just fucking say this shit? Is there some sort of fucked up 3rd option outside of "one night stand" and "relationship" that just opened up? Like a situationship? Oh yeah, that's much better. Obviously, she wanted a relationship. What other fucking possibilities…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 09:56 PM
0	"Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of. The reason why this whole "both sides" "wimmin r bad too, therefore men's awful behavior is justified" doesn't actually work is the same fucking reason bringing up women's crime rates to excuse men's crime rates doesn't work: women simply don't commit crimes at the same rates at men. Fellas how many times have you been texting a chick for a day or 2 and she "suddenly" has a bill that she needs paid and you just so happen to be the perfect person to ask? What happens when you say "no thanks pay y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 08:58 PM
0	The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument. None of your fucking studies prove any of your assertions. Post the entire study. But l did see this: Nevertheless, sex differences in helping were extremely inconsistent across studies and were successfully predicted by various attributes of the studies and the helping behaviors. I honestly don't know what the bystander abstract proved. The criticism isn’t “men must die for women,” it’s that men are shamed even when they explicitly reject the protector role, which means the expectation exists r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 01:43 AM
0	The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument. "How dare you not risk your life to protect women, men are actually fake protectors, they are not about that life". We actually don't give a shit if men lay their lives down for us. In fact, I'd prefer we end the cultural myth that men are protectors because statistically, your intimate partner is more likely to fucking kill you than save you. In 2021, 34% of female murder victims were killed by an intimate partner, compared to about 6% of male murder victims. You are 5 times more likely to be k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 12:09 AM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women Men: Its gonna be fun watching you struggle. Also men: Deaths of despair You're putting the cart before the horse here. Before you can organize and steal resources by overpowering women, you need to keep other men from blowing off their own heads first. Or at the very least, shut the fuck up and stop whining about it. Men will do anything but go to therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 09:32 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women The “Male Loneliness Crisis” is society telling men to fuck right off with their laziness and entitlement, in the most ethical way possible. It's the societal equivalent of grey rocking. Women are close by and still around. But we don't have to engage with you if we don't want to anymore. Why would women chose to engage with men if they had the choice? We'd literally choose a fucking bear over you. Men are finally gagging on the cock of natural consequences and they're futility trying to spit on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 07:24 PM
8	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse Yeah, no shit. Men don't do any fucking kinkeeping, the shit that keeps relationships alive and connections going. Because it's work they can't delegate to another women. https://www.nytimes.com/2024/05/08/well/family/kinkeeping-families.html Men also don't do any of the eldercare either. Just leave it to the women. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4804270/ Men are too busy spending an extra 3.5 hours jerking off on the couch, watching sports, smoking weed and playing video games at the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 02:19 AM
13	(CMV): A Far-Right / Socially Conservative Backlash Is Inevitable Given the Current State of the Western Sexual Marketplace So you threaten violence and subjugation of women instead of doing the work to be full and equal husbands and fathers, thereby proving the feminists right in arguing that men have zero redeeming qualities? Just FYI: you're entitled to shit, just so we're all clear on that. If only you would internalize this, instead of externalizing all your personal moral failures. Validates male grievance • Challenges sexual liberalism • Reasserts hierarchy, discipline, and constraint Men gravitate towards the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:49 PM
6	Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commit Socially and legally women aren't held to account for breaking their commitment to a man Socially and legally, men aren't held to account for abusing and raping women at worst, or just refusing to do their share of household chores or childcare at best. Even when women bring home half or all of the fucking money, men are still lazy shitheads who refuse to do their fair share of childcare and chores. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 10:21 PM
11	The Grim Future of Men and Dating? Oh shit, it's almost as if men are feeling the natural consequence of their laziness and entitlement. They were propped up and enabled for millennia by the patriarchy but now that DEI for men is ending, they now know how it feels for the rest of us, for thousands of years. "Sources? Where are your sources? I'll ask for sources like a sealioning asshole but l won't fucking read them." They're falling behind in college graduation rates Boys and men are selfish and lack self-control. They're more l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 03:32 AM
0	"Nice Guys" are basically an urban legend (1) a guy is careful to be kind and considerate towards women with the hopes that it will improve his romantic prospects That's the problem. Men are kind and considerate because they hope that it will improve his romantic chances, rather than being kind and considerate because it's the right thing to do. If men need external rewards to motivate them to be kind, then they weren't kind to begin with at all and women are correct to regard all of them with suspicion. Men act like mercenaries and are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 12:07 AM
–	People who claim “That word’s been so misused that it lost meaning” just dont like being criticized. Does anyone have any original thought? Or is Reddit just copying other people's comments. You saw that l hadn't responded yet to the other guy, so therefore, I'm making this shit up. Then you thought you could dogpile on, didn't you? Because you lack cognitive function and can't come up with any original thoughts on your own, ever. Well, here you go, motherfucker. You better fucking read them or don't ask for sources next time. https://theweek.com/culture-life/men-women-housework-unequal#:~:text…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 10:22 PM
–	People who claim “That word’s been so misused that it lost meaning” just dont like being criticized. Not a single link you've posted accounts for men's greater time investment in paid labor Did you actually read them? Or even your own source? When men work, women spend just as much time as them working and they report spending double the time on household chores and childcare than their husbands. 81 % of women have full-time jobs. You said: Women, even earning higher incomes than their male partners, still typically spend less time doing paid labor. Not true. Even your own fucking research says…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 10:18 PM
1	Women and pick and choose when the universal appropriate places are appropriate for men to approach them. You have you get your formatting and your sarcasm right. I can't read what you are trying to say. I was reading the first half of your post and agreeing with it. Then l realized: This is all the shit that l wrote and you're just regurgitating it to sound like a decent human being. Ah yes, classic projection from men who refuse to take responsibility Yes. Glad we agree. Men are expected to treat women like people, sure, Yes, because treating women as people is such a fucking hardship for men. but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 09:37 PM
–	People who claim “That word’s been so misused that it lost meaning” just dont like being criticized. Source? Got a source? Where are your sources? Here. Are you actually gonna fucking read them, sealion? I don't make shit up. https://theweek.com/culture-life/men-women-housework-unequal#:~:text=Some%20of%20this%20can%20be,their%20responsibility%2C%22%20Lowrey%20said. https://www.nytimes.com/2024/05/08/well/family/kinkeeping-families.html https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/women-housework-division-labour-1.7426763 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12058002/ https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/28/w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 06:47 PM
-2	Women and pick and choose when the universal appropriate places are appropriate for men to approach them. This is the worst fucking post ever and your reasoning is shitty. Here's why it's shitty: My favorite one is when the same women say No fucking woman is saying this shit. Stop making it up. Step 1: Stop being a paranoid in*el. Men can approach women via social hobbies. No woman is saying this shit. Stop approaching women forever. Step 2: It's very creepy for men to pursue women, by having the same hobbies as them. I actually agree with this but what women are saying is to develop genuine interes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 05:51 PM
0	Women and pick and choose when the universal appropriate places are appropriate for men to approach them. Yeah, but that would require men using their brain and being empathetic and considerate of someone else for a change instead of always focusing on themselves and putting their needs ahead of everyone else. Men ask out every woman in a 5 block radius even if the women clearly aren't interested for the same reason they swipe right on every profile: it's the easiest and laziest way to get what they want and they don't care if they bother other people. They're self-absorbed and selfish (not to menti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 04:55 PM
–	Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement? How is this over the top? Men do so much drive-by posting where they want to respond but they're too lazy and lacking in critical thinking skills to compose anything of substance to refute what I'm saying but they must say something in their impotent rage. If l don't like a post and l don't have anything to add, l just scroll past it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 04:06 AM
5	Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement? men never listen to women Men don't listen to women. They are more likely to interrupt women and talk over them. Whenever a woman needs support, it usually from other women, not men. So where are the women that listen to men? Women do listen to men. They are the only ones who listen to men. The problem is that men don't reciprocate and women are tired of it. If women don't listen to men, then why don't men turn to other men for support?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 04:04 AM
7	Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement? Women don't set up their male friends with any of their female friends, even the ones willing to be a WingWoman are terrible at it. Why would a woman subject any of her friends to men? So men can make her friends' lives miserable too by expecting her to do the majority of chores and childcare and all the invisible labor of household management, even has her own full time job? Women wont get into fights with us and aren't willing to end up in a wheelchair for us. I speak for most men when I say t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 02:45 AM
15	Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement? Men love to come up with these hypothetical hero scenarios because it's the easiest way to claim credit as a "protector", while they're sitting on the couch doing jack shit, because we know for damn sure they don't do their chores or take care of their children. You know, the tangible shit that needs to be done everyday. Pretending they provide security is literally the least that can men do, because they can't do any less work if they tried. "Why don't you cook and clean for me everyday until o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 02:12 AM
-1	People who claim “That word’s been so misused that it lost meaning” just dont like being criticized. hateful generalizations How are they categorized as hateful, though? How it is hateful to document exactly how little work men do and how little men contribute to women's lives using data and statistics? If men feel they're being unfairly generalized, the responsibility is on them to change the perception by doing more household chores, more childcare, more invisible labor, more kinkeeping so that the data supports your claim that men are full and present partners. Right now, the research suppor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 12:43 AM
-3	People who claim “That word’s been so misused that it lost meaning” just dont like being criticized. No one gets called a misandrist more than me. It's the easiest way to dismiss criticism without having to respond to it, because that's also work. What have we learned about men and unpaid work? They either don't do it or they try to delegate it to the nearest woman. Even when men are trying to troll and argue with strangers on the internet, they're still fucking lazy. Men won't do the household chores, or the administrative (like booking appointments, filling out paperwork) or invisible (having…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 12:17 AM
1	What’s the common preference in modern dating for women , traditional roles or equal partnership? Well, l did respond to your post with a quote of your post. Obviously, I'm responding to u/xXxpussyslayer69xXx	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 09:56 PM
4	Men are lonely because women are changed. Wallets The man with no gold fears the woman who does not intend to shovel. Is the gold in the room with us? 81% of women have full-time jobs. The ones who don't are SAHMs. Just because their work isn't paid, doesn't mean it has no value. In your eyes, does only paid work count? Appliances Despite having their own full-time jobs bringing in half the household income, women report spending double the time on household chores and childcare than their husbands. Married men have more leisure time th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 09:41 PM
2	What’s the common preference in modern dating for women , traditional roles or equal partnership? women typically always show a preference for more egalitarian relationships No fucking way. You mean women don't want relationships where the man works but does jack shit around the house. He'll protect you from imaginary dragons, but if you end up dead or missing, according to statistics, he's the one who most likely killed you. If you try to leave this type of relationship, it's almost impossible to do so without outside help from family and friends because he hoards his money like a ghoul, be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 09:13 PM
3	What’s the common preference in modern dating for women , traditional roles or equal partnership? The vast majority of victims in these intimate partner shootings—84% in all—were female. Stranger attacks are rare. In the majority of cases, the women was killed by someone she knew. The only people men use guns on is women. Men are more likely to use the gun to kill their intimate partner than protect them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 08:30 PM
1	Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationship Feminists have made their entire agenda about policing what others do, except for women Yes, because men rape, kill, harass and sexually abuse women. Women simply don't rape, kill, harass and murder men at the same rates. Why would they need policing? They already know how to act like human beings. It's the men who need to be policed and segregated from society, because if they weren't, they'd rape, kill, harass and sexually abuse even more women. manipulate men into changing society to benefit …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 07:58 PM
-7	Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with men then stop being their friend after their rejected is betrayal If you got rejected, you never should have asked her out in the first place. Obviously, she didn't want a relationship with you. Because if she did, she would have accepted a date. But she didn't. So why did you assume she did? understand not wanting to be friends anymore If you befriend women with the sole purpose of trying to date them, not for the purpose of getting to know them as people, you were never a friend. Had l know it was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 07:20 PM
4	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. men want to put their energy into paid work, which benefits them first and foremost I was wondering why that article tried to equate paid work with unpaid work. Then l realized, the distinction is important because it illustrates how selfish and self-centered men are. Men hog the paid work and dump all the shitty, unpaid work on women because the paid work furthers the man's career at great cost to the woman's. Let's pretend that a man is working 2 hours overtime and his wife has to pick up thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 09:19 AM
0	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. their children are the most important thing in their lives Yeah, it's why men do less than half the childcare, despite his wife having her own full-time job. It's also why women outnumber men 5 to 1 in custodial arrangements. It's also why men can't renew their hunting licenses in certain states unless their child support is up to date. It's also why the average male breadwinner does about 15 mins of chores per day and zero childcare on top of that, because he worked all day and he's tired. Men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 08:42 AM
-1	Men are lonely because women are changed. We aren't objectifying men. We are insulting them using statistics and pointing out their shitty behavior. If we were objectifying men, we would be judging men by their attractiveness (like men do to women all the time). We haven't done that at all, but the pot does like to call the kettle black when it's sitting on the couch watching sports and ignoring their kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 04:13 AM
0	Men are lonely because women are changed. I find it rather frightening how little many men care at all about the personality or interests of the woman by their side. The "I don't care about her job" is not the flex many think it is. Yes, men literally see women as objects and a means to an end. We are literally interchangable wife appliances for men to delegate the unpaid grunt work that they don't want to do. Any pussy will do. Which explains why there is a 20% chance that a husband will divorce his wife when she gets sick and immediat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 12:26 AM
7	Men are lonely because women are changed. but when some women want to choose to be housewives, they freak out and say it’s internalized misogyny We don't give a fuck about that. If a woman wants to be dependant on a man to her own detriment, that's her fucking problem. What we object to is men and misogynistic women promoting and advertising this lifestyle to other women deceptively, without advising them of the major disadvantages of this lifestyle to women. Why? Because no woman would be a fucking housewife if they were totally honest…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 12:08 AM
–	The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by society Yes, they do want women to be dependent. The number 1 barrier to women leaving shitty relationships is lack of finances, second is children. Imagine trying to leave a relationship where you have no money, there is a gap in your resume because you've been a SAHM for the past 5 years and you have two small children shackled to you at all times. Without significant help from family and friends, this is nearly impossible to accomplish and it's designed that way. Men aren't sympathetic because they l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:49 PM
2	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Lowered expectations. When so many men are neglectful of their children, even going from 0 to 1 is an improvement. But guess what? 0 x 1 is still 0. Stop posting fucking garbage from IFS. Wow, a conservative organization releasing bullshit articles to gaslight women? I love this bit: If you don't like the division of labor in your household, talk to your spouse about it Have you tried cOMmunIcaTing? Have you spent time and effort to formulate an argument to convince him of the imbalance of unpai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:08 PM
1	Why don’t women like passport bros? You're right. And I know that. I still ask dudes to see what their answers are. Most of them can't figure out how to answer me it seems. It's silly to me. They know, they just don't want to say it because the answer is reprehensible. They want the equivalent of a modern day slave and they are too self-centered to think about what that means for the other person who has to be that slave. The system protects abusers. Not victims. I learned this first hand. Yes, abusive men (and their equally shitt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 09:24 PM
–	The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by society You have everything fucking backwards. women CHOSE to also pursue careers, now they also have to juggle their traditional gender roles (being a wife and mother). Women choose to have jobs for the same reason men have jobs, so they don't end up homeless and poor. We like having food and heat and clothes and we don't want to be dependent on men because the first thing men do when they have the financial advantage over women is to be abusive shitheads. They're mad at men for not accommodating them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 08:41 PM
5	Why don’t women like passport bros? They don't want to be wanted because that implies that the women have a choice and can leave the relationship if he sucks. They wanted to be needed because that means they can be as shitty as they want and the woman can't leave. They want to trap her, because everyone who can leave, has already left. Also, I was thinking about your comment from yesterday about the shotgun. So this motherfucker actually had to die before you were truly free of him? What the fuck?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 08:09 PM
-4	Why don’t women like passport bros? Because in the recent past, we can still imagine ourselves in the same situation, forced to date and marry someone who will most likely be abusive at worst, or lazy and do no chores and childcare at best. Oh, these women are half-way around the world and I'll never meet them, but I can still put myself in their situation and imagine what they have to go through? Yeah, it's called empathy. Men lack empathy. That's why they're sociopaths who try to exploit women, instead understanding the plight o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:50 PM
1	Guys should be a bit gayer if they wanna get laid Very high social status. For example you are Arnold and she's a maid. You cannot ask him to do labor around the house, because he's a king and you are just a maid easily No, they aren't. Some of these men don't even have jobs. When women are unemployed, they tend to contribute by cooking and cleaning. Men are lazy and entitled and believe cooking and cleaning are beneath them. So when they are unemployed, they don't contribute by cooking and cleaning because they would be lowering themselves to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:26 PM
–	Women Demand Men To "Be Independent" and "Focus On Themselves" Then Throw Tantrums When Men Do Things They Don't Like On Their Own Volition Women: you need to improve your life by reaching out, meeting new people, joining an organization. Men: joins a far right paramilitary group. Women: no, not like that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 03:53 AM
3	Guys should be a bit gayer if they wanna get laid The reason why the average man looks like shit compared to the average woman is because of toxic masculinity. It takes work to groom themselves, shop for a nice wardrobe and research and use skin care products. Men are lazy as shit and feel entitled to beautiful women, while trying to expend as little effort as possible. They have no idea how much work it takes to look presentable, and they certainly don't appreciate it because they don't do any of it. There's also sexism and homophobia. They do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 02:42 AM
1	The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy. You are aware that there is a war in Ukraine right now, right? And that women and children are free to leave the country, but men are forced to be drafted, fight, and die Again. Is this you? Are you being drafted? No. But here men are, defending patriarchy and claiming privileges as if they are. It's ridiculous as women refusing to do chores and childcare because some women elsewhere in the world are being mutilated due to FGM. portraying men in the worst light possible? I'm pretty sure it's men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 01:25 AM
1	The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy. I'm sure the men drafted to fight and die in the trenches of WW1 would be happy to hear that. Talk about cumming with another dick. Are they still being drafted and dying in the trenches? Because a bunch of men died around a hundred years ago, men are still justified in sticking the women with the majority of chores and childcare. But now women have to work a full-time job on top of that. At least come up with an example applicable to this century. I have one. An migrant ship off the coast of Gr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 11:49 PM
7	If women cant admit needing protection, how can their opinions be trusted on whats good for a country I swear, do you just pull this shit out of your ass with zero research and statistics to back you up? I thought PPD was for informed debate, not regurgitated garbage from male-centered subs. For all men complain about unfair assumptions and generations, they sure love to assume and generalize about other issues. Men don't protect women, but they will pretend to, in exchange for chores and childcare. "Here, why don't you cook and clean for me forever, and in exchange, I'll protect you from this o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 11:19 PM
3	The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy. Patriarchy is DEI for men. Men are the head of the household, just because. Men don't need to do any of the shit work, like childcare or cleaning, just because. Men's last names are passed down through the children, not women's, despite the women giving birth, just because. Women adopt men's last names at marriage and are stuck doing the paperwork to change her name, just because. Man and wife, not husband and wife, just because.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 03:55 AM
0	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills Making men individually responsible for a minority isn't illuminating of anything, it's just a tired collective blame argument Yes. And your anger should be directed to the men who make all men look bad, not the women pointing this fact out. If anything, men lack accountability, not women. But don't you ask yourself: why aren't women explicitly needing to be told not to rape, murder, harass and abuse others? They just fucking get it. Men need to be told explicitly not to rape, murder, harass and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 03:18 AM
1	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills Now factor in the reality that men are going to be reticent about volunteering with anything involving children. Yes, that invisible forcefield that precludes men, and not a response to men with a horrible general record of child sexual abuse. So the only contact men have with children, when they aren't ignoring them to watch sports and play video games, is when they're sexually assaulting them. Women move through social spaces with relative ease because they aren't seen as threatening and there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 01:13 AM
5	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. Yeah, because men certainly aren't winning. I wouldn't want to keep score either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 12:19 AM
4	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. They blame them for creating the circumstance to begin with. What circumstances do women create that prevent men from doing the grunt work enrolling their children in sports programs, making doctor's appointments, shopping for gifts, planning birthdays and Christmases, playing tea party, watching them so they don't do dumb shit to hurt and/or injure themselves? There's that invisible forcefield again. If that invisible forcefield just disappeared, men would be full and present parents. The third…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 11:37 PM
13	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. radical, underthought and cruel idea Not any less cruel than men straight up abandoning their children to survive without them because they can't be bothered to parent. You know what's fun on a Sunday afternoon? Smoking weed, playing video games, watching sports and porn. Which is exactly the shit I'm doing, except I'm allowed to do it because l don't have children. Do you know what isn't fun? Childcare. Men can't even be bothered to be responsible for where their sperm ends up. They have that p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 11:24 PM
15	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. I realize you are being facetious but these are the same arguments men's rights proponents make, where they blame the parent that stayed and excuse the parent that left. Of course they would, because men lack empathy and on the rare occasions they do empathize, it's to defend and empathize with another man's terrible, self-absorbed life choices. Yes, because there's an army of selfless non-parents dying to do the unpaid thankless grunt work of parenting and raising someone else's child, for zero…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 10:49 PM
0	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills Nah, men can't have that. They are allowed to be as selfish and lazy as possible, blame everyone but themselves and complain about their loneliness as a result of being selfish and lazy as possible and nobody is allowed to make unfavorable observations or criticize them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 08:17 PM
-3	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills Men have the worst social skills. They interrupt women more than they interrupt men. They talk when they should be listening. They don't even give women the satisfaction of completing their train of thought because the men are already interrupting her. Women don't do this to men, because it's rude and they have empathy and consideration for others. Men only think it's rude when someone else interrupts them. Women don't even get the courtesy of saying a second sentence because men dominate the co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 08:10 PM
1	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills But they are more than willing if there is an incentive for them to do so. Vagina being one of the most powerful incentives known to man And if they don't succeed, it's the women's fault for not giving them the vagina they are entitled to, because they actually put in the effort this time and are therefore owed vagina. So men are transactional shits that won't do any work unless there is an immediate benefit or reward? Thanks for providing my point. I'm glad we agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 07:58 PM
1	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills You: Who said it has to be casual sex? They could be looking for a lifetime partner. Also you: "Yes leaving the house to find poonany is perfectly acceptable" There is a third option: going out to find friends and enjoy being around people because they have common interests and conversation that doesn't lead to sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 07:54 PM
2	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills I know you are, but what am l? Insults only work when they are true. You can reflexively call women self-absorbed and lazy as a response to any criticism about men as much as you want, but we all know that isn't true. Women are interesting and enjoyable to interact with. That why they seek and are seeked out by other women and men. Because they listen and take a genuine interest in the people around them. This is proven by the higher number of social support networks the average women has compar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 07:39 PM
1	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills lower participation in group activities Can you fuck off with the passive voice bullshit that excuses men for their laziness and lack of initiative? men are affected More passive voice bullshit. It's called a natural consequence. Cause and effect. Cause: l don't take initiative nor take the effort to get to know people for who they are. I only see people (women, really) as objects for sex and attention. Effect: no one likes me because I'm self-absorbed and lazy. There's not some invisible forcef…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 07:16 PM
-4	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills What's the advice you get "don't leave the house simply looking for pussy" "don't go to social events with the sole purpose of finding a woman" Wow, it's almost as if there's a third option available and we aren't necessarily pigeonholed into a false dichotomy. It's called treating women as people and enjoying interactions even if nothing comes of it. But that would require viewing women as more than objects and a means to an end. Men are too transactional. They won't go out or make plans unless…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 04:26 AM
2	The number one problem with lonely guys is not cultivating a social life and social skills men initiate every interaction is not a social skill When the hell do men initiate contact and make plans? In most gatherings, it's the women who plan and coordinate. They're the ones that go shopping, buy gifts, decorate and cook. All men do is show up, eat and leave and do as little as possible. Then they wonder why they aren't invited anymore. Do you think women like doing the work and all the stress that comes from it? No, they don't, when they can sit another night alone, play video games a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 04:08 AM
–	The societal hostility towards "failed" men will make things worse for everyone if not addressed increasing hostility towards men in our current society. I don't think it's increasing. I'd say that men are finally getting the comeuppance they deserve for the millennia of oppression for which they were responsible for and benefitted from. It's the first time women have had to a chance to air their grievances through the internet. If your grandfather beat the shit out of your grandmother, or come home, sat on the couch and did no cleaning or childcare, she couldn't do anything about it. She h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 09:05 PM
1	Women clown on lonely men for turning to porn, but are also hostile to the idea of men going out and approaching them Yes, that is fair. Women should stop clowning on lonely men for turning to porn and men should stop going out and approaching women and harassing them for casual sex. Men should be able to enjoy as much porn as they want without judgment and women should be allowed to enjoy a night out without men approaching them. Glad we agree. If women don't want to stop clowning on lonely men for turning to porn, then they shouldn't be hostile at the fact that men are going to approach them in public. Women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 07:42 PM
3	What would it take to heal the divide that has seemingly arisen between the sexes so that we can all move forward together, against injustice? > we might not intuitively understand If it's the job of women to tell the men, then whose job is it to tell the women? Is this the Matrix? Were women implanted with the knowledge of chores and childcare? No, they weren't. But they took the time to learn and participate. So can men, when they're not busy doing literally anything else but chores and watching the children they wanted so much. A 2023 survey found that 57% of men surveyed wanted children v. 45% of women surveyed. It's even lower for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 11:17 PM
1	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. Men don't go through the same ordeals as women. But here, you are, claiming privileges as if men did get pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 10:30 PM
1	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. > A woman can give birth to a baby and drop that baby off at a hospital Yes, a woman can. Why? Because she is the primary caregiver who birthed the baby. The man literally came and left, with zero accountability for where his sperm ended up, even if that same sperm created an unwanted baby. Men have that privilege. Women don't. Women don't get to cum and go like men do. Pregnancy and childbirth (and abortion) are painful, life altering medical proceedures. Once she gets pregnant, she has no choi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 10:27 PM
1	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. > but until there is a paper abortion for men, women are not the ones who are discriminated against The reason why women have a right to abortion is because no one can compel anyone to go through pregnancy and childbirth if they don't want to. That only logically entails that if men were put in a position where they go through pregnancy and childbirth, they could also obtain an abortion. But just because men don't need an abortion, because they don't go through pregnancy and childbirth, does not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 10:06 PM
–	Women’s advice to men hurt women more than it helps women Or how about men start viewing women as people, and not as a means to an end? Interesting study about how men perceive women. In brain scans, it turns out that when men see women, the same part of the brain lights up when they see objects. So men literally don't see women as people, with their own needs, goals and interests. Men literally see women as objects, which is a scientific explanation of how self-centered men generally are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:38 PM
–	Women’s advice to men hurt women more than it helps women By your logic, we should also stop legislating and enforcing laws because criminals are going to commit crimes regardless and telling them that they are breaking laws isn't going to stop them and anyone with a sense of morality doesn't need to be told that they are breaking laws. Your assertion is ridiculous. Obviously, we need laws and enforcement of those laws to regulate order in society, much like we need informal rules to govern acceptable behavior. Just because a few men choose to disregar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:28 PM
0	"Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framing I thought you were gonna start quoting statistics stating how married women are happier than single women and single men. Instead, you pull some anecdote out of your ass that's applicable to no one and proves nothing. Women are happier when they are single. They live longer lives than married women and they also have more leisure time than married women because they aren't stuck doing the grunt shit work, like chores and childcare, that men won't do. They also don't have to deal with the extra m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 02:22 AM
–	Cuck men are embarrassing… I’m not referring to men that help around the house, help cook, or anything So by implication, men doing their fair share around the house instead of leaving the unpaid grunt work to the wife, even though she has her own full time job bringing in half the household income, is cuck behavior? They know their woman doesn’t want them home because she’s likely buying a lot of stuff online but trying to hide it, wants a lot of time to herself The male breadwinner dynamic is uncommon. 81% of women have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 01:08 AM
1	Pick Me Girls are not respected by men. Women are not jealous of them. I hate pickme women. Fucking amoral union scabs who would lose women the right to vote if it would get them some dick. And the men still don't pick her because she's fat and unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 01:47 AM
1	Dating for women is NOT dating on recruit difficulty. Dating for women is more like Normal difficulty and dating for men is Veteran Dating for women is interloper difficulty. Men date on pilgrim, while complaining that they're on misery mode. When women aren't being killed by men while on a tinder date, or being harassed or pestered for sex on the first date (where they don't orgasm), they have to do the emotional labor of keeping a date going. Men treat the date like an unpaid therapy session, they don't ask questions of the women and they don't listen, as evidenced by the fact that they don't stop talking. Then they're som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 11:10 PM
7	If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills" So men don't have agency now? They choose to follow Tate, like how they choose not to do chores or childcare, kinkeeping or volunteer, because he validates their laziness and entitlement. with no woman romantically desiring them Why would women desire men when women spend double the time on chores and childcare than their husbands, even when they have their own full time jobs? Reverse the genders. What man would enter into a relationship where he is responsible for providing half the income, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 09:34 PM
-2	Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys? No, not all men. Just 35% of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 07:48 PM
-1	Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys? And yet we don't have scold any women to be more empathetic and be more considerate of the needs of their sexual partners. Like we don't have to scold women to do their chores and childcare in the house, even though she has her own full time job. Like we don't have to scold women to do more kinkeeping, like remembering birthdays, anniversaries, planning parties, arranging a family picture day. You know, the shit that keeps relationships strong. Women do all the work. Men just show up, like a thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 07:09 PM
1	Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guys If women have agency, then why can't l fuck them? Yet again, men suddenly caring about women's agency, but only in the context of rationalizing men's exploitation of them. If men actually gave a shit about women, they would be campaigning to end 3rd world poverty conditions so women have the economic freedom to make their own decisions, not trying to use their money as leverage to get indigent women to fuck them. Why can't these men use their money as leverage over women living in 1st world coun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 06:47 PM
7	Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys? Women have to be. Because only 65% of women in relationships reported orgasming everytime because men are self-absorbed and care only about their own orgasm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 05:46 PM
-6	Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guys Imagine being such an awful person, you have to exploit 3rd world living conditions and dangle the carrot of escaping crushing poverty in front of some hapless woman, just to have a chance at a relationship. Because everyone else who can leave, has already left.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 09:01 AM
2	women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable. Lesbians need to keep their damn hands to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 12:09 AM
1	Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex. who knows if we'll hold it together as a world before it ever sees fruition. No, we won't hold it together and we don't deserve it, even if we could. If the birthrate continues its downward trend as a natural consequence of our stubborness and we perish, then we deserve it. We are so divided that we would rather implode than admit someone else was right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 11:51 PM
1	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf Dave Chappelle's argument is wrong. The reason why women have the right to abortion is because no one can compel anyone to go through pregnancy and childbirth if they don't want to. A women's right to abortion only logically entails that if men were able to get pregnant, men would also have the right to obtain an abortion. But just because men don't need the right to abortion, because they don't go through pregnancy, doesn't mean you can substitute another obligation in its place. If women campa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 09:22 PM
1	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf Yes, a child's needs do come first. Tell that to the men, who spend less than half the time than their wives on chores and childcare, even when the wives have their own full time jobs. Also, women outnumber men 5 to 1 in regards to being the custodial parent. Worry less about freeing men from their financial obligation to their children, and worry more about how men shirk and delegate their parental responsibilities because they're lazy and self-centered. We don't need to tell women to care for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 08:22 PM
1	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf > we found that 32 percent of custodial fathers didn't receive any of the child support that had been awarded to them compared to 25 percent of custodial moms. Now the first and most obvious thing to say about all of this is that there are way more custodial moms in America than custodial dads. They actually outnumber them 5 to 1. And on top of that, moms are also more likely than dads to get awarded child support Did you read your article? Of course you didn't, because it's unpaid work, like ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 07:41 PM
1	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf Women are allowed to be discriminatory towards men during dating, even to the point of avoiding men altogether because women bear the brunt of the consequences of dating men. If men are lonely because women are avoiding them and choosing to stay single, then so be it. Have men trying doing their fair share of household chores and childcare instead of dumping it on women, even though most women have their own full time jobs? They aren't generalizations. This is data taken from the American Time U…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 06:23 PM
1	Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex. But why do you think men deserve the touch of women? Men should support women's rights because it is the right thing to do. Women should want to touch men because they are emotionally moved by men's empathy. They shouldn''t be coerced into having to touch men in exchange for men's support. Nothing gets women more motivated to touch men more than genuine selfless acts of kindness. But that's the disconnect with men. Men are so entitled and transactional that the thought of doing a good deed with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 06:44 AM
-4	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf No, men cannot be compelled to be parent, nor is it ethical to force to a reluctant father to parent. But they are legally compelled to provide child support. If men are reluctant to parent or pay child support, they are welcome to assume their fair share of responsibility for birth control. Also, you're making the assumption that men pay their child support willingly. In some states, men can't renew their hunting licences until their child support is paid in full. Imagine being so self-centered…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 05:11 AM
8	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf The reason why women have the right to abortion is because no one can be compelled to put their body through a pregnancy if they don't want to. "not ready to be a parent" or "having a child right now would mess up my life plans." If the women actually campaigned using these arguments, they wouldn't have gotten the right to abortion. Pregnancy is a major medical procedure with life altering affects. Men minimize the effects of childbirth because they lack empathy. Feminist: if they didn't want to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 04:14 AM
0	Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex. > eventually nobody touches anyone anymore and the human race becomes extinct Yeah, I think this is just a tad extreme. But is this the worst thing that can happen if women avoid men, is that men don't get to touch women and we become a nation of sexless robots as the birth rate plummets to zero?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 03:41 AM
0	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf > hey're not the same because the former decided by a man and the latter is decided by a woman. Your whole premise is based on the notion that since women can opt in for single motherhood, men should be able to opt out of fatherhood with a paper abortion. If you want to make a comparision, the circumstances and outcomes have to be the same. They aren't the same, because the circumstances and the outcomes are different. With the refusal of a financial abortion, you are compelling a man to do some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 02:38 AM
0	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf Because you're arguing in bad faith to excuse men at every turn, while suddenly pretending to care about the wellbeing of the child. If you actually did care about the children, you wouldn't be in favor of financial abortions for men. It's as disingenuous as men equating women's right to avoid men in dating with institutionalized racism against black people. Suddenly white men care about black men, but only in the context of using the experiences of black men to shame women into dating men under…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 11:40 PM
0	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf Again, men resulting to personal insults when they can't quote statistics to prove us wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 11:29 PM
1	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf > Men often make custody and child support agreements not because the man thinks they are fair, but because that's all he can afford, or the agreement is to the only conditions under which the woman will let him have custody of the child. You're making the assumption that men in general are full and present parents to their children, when we have evidence that they aren't. You need to post statistics proving that men are full and present parents. You can't just declare this statement to make it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 11:28 PM
-3	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf That's because you're conflating a paper abortion with single motherhood by choice. They aren't the same, because the parties involved in aren't being affected in the same manner. The reason why feminists are opposed to a paper (or financial) abortion is because men are using the argument that since women are allowed to have a medical abortion, men should have a paper abortion. However, the fact that women can get medical abortions only logically entails that if men could get pregnant, men can a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 11:13 PM
0	Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex. Good job proving how transactional and self-centred men are. So men won't do anything unless it benefits them directly? This explains the appallingly low rates men have for volunteerism and care work compared to women. Also, do men have to be explicitly told to sit on the couch during family gatherings when the women have been working the whole day, cooking and cleaning? No, they don't. But when they see their grandfathers, fathers, brothers, male cousins sitting on the couch doing jack shit, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 08:52 PM
0	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit > Only a fool would give weight to the comparison of those stats Yes, which is why my second point was to compare the number of attacks on men by women as women are just as plentiful in the population as men, as opposed to bears. Guess what, men are still a danger to women and the people around them, much more than the average woman and much moreso than the average bear. So it's useless because it's useless, meanwhile it documents how dangerous the average man is to the average woman. Wow, I'm c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 08:25 PM
0	Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex. Yes. Men coddle and excuse other men. They bring up women to diffuse men's responsibility with this "both sides" bullshit, despite the fact that women don't sexually harass, abuse and kill men at the rates that men do. Women also don't dump the household chores and childcare on men like men do to women, despite the fact that 81% of women have full time jobs. They don't police other men because that would require putting restrictions on their own behavior. Men telling other men to do their fair s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 07:48 PM
1	Bear in the woods - let’s revisit > First off—let’s get this out of the way—its moot to compare crime statistics to bear attack statistics. Crime stats measure intentional human behavior in society, while bear attack stats measure instinctive wildlife encounters, so the two datasets describe completely different conditions and can’t be compared meaningfully. Yes, let's disregard the only metric we have to determine how dangerous the average man is to the average woman, compared to how dangerous the average bear is to the average…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 06:55 PM
0	Expecting your date to state their ultimate intentions with you on day 1 is WILDLY unrealistic. No, they don't. If they do, then post statistics proving your point. Just saying it doesn't fucking make it so. 81% of women have full-time jobs. Even though they bring home half the income, they spend double the time on chores and childcare, because doing chores and childcare is so fun and not because men refuse to do it and dump that unpaid labor on women every chance they get. > Date better men then This is from the American Time Use Survey, where they compile data from thousands of household…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 05:27 PM
1	Expecting your date to state their ultimate intentions with you on day 1 is WILDLY unrealistic. The reason why men go on dates is because no one will fuck them if they stated their intentions clearly. Very few women are into casual sex and for good reason. Instead of being introspective and understanding why women wouldn't be as receptive to casual sex as men are, they go on dates to be deceptive and misrepresent their intentions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 07:37 PM
8	Expecting your date to state their ultimate intentions with you on day 1 is WILDLY unrealistic. Yes, they do. Men don't want to state it because it's deceptive. Lots of men want casual sex because it's fun and easy for them. Women don't want casual sex because they rarely orgasm, and it's them that has to deal with the fallout, like STDs and pregnancies. It's the women shopping and worrying about Plan B, not the men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 07:23 PM
3	Expecting your date to state their ultimate intentions with you on day 1 is WILDLY unrealistic. God, what the hell is up with the formatting? Men will spend time writing terrible essays but god forbid they do their chores or take care of the children they wanted so fucking much. Also, it's "lose interest", not "loose interest". How the fuck did we become a nation of confident, yet illiterate morons? The reason why men are deceptive about their intentions is that they just want casual sex. Women get zero benefit from this. Only 65% of women in relationships report orgasming everytime and th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 07:16 PM
0	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. > Men's rights No one knows what it is because it's literally self-inflicted problems. For example, custody battles. Men complain that courts are in favor of women? Why is that? Because men don't ask for custody, as evidenced by the fact that men generally do little to no childcare because it's boring, unpaid work, even though their wives have their own full time jobs. When they ask for custody, which is rare, they usually get it. On the off chance that they do request 50/50, it's mainly to redu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 06:47 PM
5	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. > Feminism is largely unpopular No, it isn't. It's the reason why women can own their own bank accounts, credit cards, own land, have jobs, get abortions and leave shitty relationships. You couldn't do this back in the 1970's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 06:18 PM
4	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. They're all grifters. If they actually believed in what they were preaching, they would be barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen with their 5 kids. They wouldn't be doing podcasts. Men lack the critical thinking skills to understand that they're being used. Pearl believes that women shouldn't have the right to vote and men are allowed to cheat. Any man would be happy to have Pearl Davis as their partner. Despite her pandering, Pearl Davis is still single. What does that tell you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 06:13 PM
-1	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. Trump won twice because the Electoral College ensures that whatever presidential race will always be close, and whoever wins can win despite losing the popular vote. Giving Wyoming 3 Electoral votes even though that state is mostly undeveloped land is stupid. The fact that there is a male loneliness epidemic that men are expecting women to solve shows that men don't care about other men. If men are lonely, why don't they just develop and nurture relationships with other men, like how women do wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 05:55 PM
4	How polarized you are in gender wars? How often do you support "male side" in arguments? The onus means nothing to men Yes, l know. Men have very little accountability for their behavior. But thanks for confirming how predatory, self-absorbed, inconsiderate and transactional men generally are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 09:04 PM
-1	Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminism Are we piling more work on women now? Men already do less than half the childcare and household chores, despite their wives having their own full-time job. They don't do any administrative work for women like women do for men constantly. They also don't do any care work for their partners and elderly parents. Women who fall ill have a 20% chance of getting divorced. Women already do the majority of kinkeeping work that keeps relationships strong. Men also don't go through pregnancy or childbirth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 08:44 PM
7	How polarized you are in gender wars? How often do you support "male side" in arguments? Yes, the responsibility is always on the women to be telepathic and be able to predict in the future who is going to be lazy and abusive to her. All women have to be on guard, but god forbid we ever put restrictions on men's behavior. The onus is never on the lazy and abusive man, who knows they are lazy and abusive, to stop being lazy and abusive. Or that lazy and abusive men should stay single if they're going to be a drain on whoever they date. Somehow, it never occurs to these these lazy and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 08:30 PM
3	How polarized you are in gender wars? How often do you support "male side" in arguments? It's easy for men not to engage in gender wars because they benefit the most from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 08:22 PM
12	Women complain in hopes that men will take the bait Women moan and complain about men because no matter what they will win. What exactly are women winning at? That they are bringing in half the household income and are still stuck spending double the time on household chores and childcare than their husbands, because their husbands are lazy and sexist and believe chores and childcare are still a woman’s job, even though 81% of women have their own full-time jobs? That men do their bullshit man chores that take 2 seconds or are monthly or yearly a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 07:35 PM
1	I think all women would be happier single > Men are still the breadwinner in the majority of relationships Nope. This is actual bullshit and misleading. While men typically are the breadwinners in marriages, the breadwinner/homemaker dynamic is uncommon, as they only comprise of 19% of households. The majority of households have 2 earners, as 81% of women have full time jobs. > Work more hours outside the home than women. So this somehow justifies men spending less than half the time on chores and childcare as their wives, despite their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 01:49 AM
2	Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them. What? I did find it and I posted it. 2 seperate studies from 2009 and 2025, both haven't been debunked, which confirms the anedotal evidence from doctors and nurses that if you are a married woman with an illness, you have a 20% chance of being divorced. Men in the same situation have a 4% chance of being divorced. What's the problem? That men don't like scientific evidence from multiple studies documenting how shitty they are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 09:50 PM
2	Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them. Yes, you are absolving them when you say shit like this: extremely poorly socialised as carers Because you're blaming their mothers for not socializing them and not blaming men for lacking empathy and consideration for others. Men don't do any care work because they're self-absorbed and transactional. Because it's unpaid work that provides little tangible benefit to them in return. That's why they don't do it. And that's why a woman has a 20% chance of getting divorced when they get sick, wherea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 06:22 PM
1	Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them. "Sources? Got a source for that? Where are your sources? I'll ask for sources but l won't read them because it's unpaid work l have to do." There are other studies that have found similar results. From 2009: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/ Another one from 2025: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.13077?af=R	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 06:12 PM
3	I think all women would be happier single You don’t sound very happy being single Resorting to personal attacks when you don't have a response? That's not very logical. How emotional of men. I am happy. Thanks for asking. Because I've just catalogued all the stuff that l don't have to do for men that makes married women miserable, because men expect this unpaid labor but don't reciprocate. Lots of other women are planning on joining me, because by 2030, Morgan Stanley predicts that about 45% of women between the ages of 25 and 44 will b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 05:59 PM
3	Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them. the doctor appointments for every single small thing as a nuisance Single men die sooner than married men because they don't have an unpaid secretary making their medical appointments for them. The classical women moment of doing shit NO ONE asked for It's men's Schrodinger's work. The work is important and necessary to run a household, but since it's unpaid work, men neglect to do it themselves, but the work is somehow excessive and unnecessary when women do it. Because people love running out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 05:48 PM
8	Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them. extremely poorly socialised as carers "Shit, no one taught me when l was at a young age. Therefore, l am absolved from having to learn it forever". Are men ever accountable or are they always trying to diffuse responsibility and blame everyone else but themselves for their selfishness and the consequences of their selfishness? They find themselves thrust headfirst into that situation, find themselves completely at sea, and flee in panic. This isn't the Matrix. Women aren't implanted with the kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:33 AM
12	Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them. Men love the person No, they don't. If they did love women, they wouldn't be content to let her do the majority of the household chores and childcare, while she has her own full-time job bringing in half the household income. They also wouldn't burden the women with all the administrative grunt work, like grocery shopping, making doctor's appointments, planning parties, vacations, while they sit on the couch, watching her. Married men do less chores than single men because they dump that work on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:18 AM
3	Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppression Instead we see the opposite, countries like USA have a higher TFR despite (or perhaps because) of less egalitarian conditions. Where exactly are you going with this? Are you suggesting we should burden women even more than they already are and trap them in unhappy, unsatisfying marriages for the sake the birth rate? Because if you are, you're a terrible person. The ends don't justify the means. Typical men. Always willing to sacrifice everyone but themselves. God forbid men do some basic chores …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:52 AM
8	I think all women would be happier single Yet married women still report more life satisfaction then never married and divorced women No, they don't. Did you actually read your article? Your article doesn't distinguish between the happiness levels of married men and married women. It just says "married couples". So how can you come to the above conclusion? Marriage is generally great for men, who report being far happier in marriage than being single. Much research indicates the reverse is true for women. Single women report being happi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:43 AM
8	I think all women would be happier single In 77% of divorces, it's the woman that files. Men love trotting out this statistic, but they never say why. The 3rd most common reason for divorce is an unequal distribution in household chores. The fact that it's the women that file is enough to tell you how lazy and entitled men are. Even when the marriage is over and both parties want out, men dump all the administrative paperwork on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 03:10 AM
7	I think all women would be happier single Stop dating/picking assholes Yes, because asshole men have a tattoo on their forehead that says "asshole" to distinguish them from non-asshole men. Assholes hide who they are until motherhood, then the asshole side comes out. If they were assholes right off the bat, no one would date them. Isn't great how the responsibility is always on the women to be telepathic and be able to predict who is going to be an asshole to her in the future. The onus is never on men to be less of an asshole, or for a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 01:56 AM
2	I think all women would be happier single And even if women did cum easily I still think they wouldn’t want it that often. They do, when it's with sex with other women. When women have sex with men, only 65% of women reported having orgasms every time. When women have sex with other women, 88% of women reported having orgasms every time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 01:11 AM
4	I think all women would be happier single Nope. Women initiate the majority of grey divorces and tend to stay single the rest of their lives. It's the men who immediately start dating to find new partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 01:05 AM
0	I think all women would be happier single A lot of generalizations here How exactly is the orgasm gap a generalization? A generalization is a general statement or concept obtained by inference from specific cases. They arrived at this conclusion by doing statistical research in counting all the cases available and coming to a conclusion based on the evidence found. By definition, that's the exact opposite of a generalization. they are better off having one with a man than by themselves How? According to the American Time Use Survey, des…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 12:51 AM
0	I think all women would be happier single Nah, let me bring in half the household income while spending double the time on household chores and childcare than my husband, because doing the majority of the unpaid grunt work, while he does the bullshit man chores that either take 2 seconds or are once a month or once a year is so fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 12:40 AM
3	I think all women would be happier single after awhile especially with the orgasm gap The orgasm gap is the single most telling indicator of how selfish and self-absorbed men are. If only 65% of men said they orgasmed every time, there'd be a lot less men asking for sex. The fact that men are biologically incapable of being sexually satisfied with only one woman Which is fine if men stayed single. But they don't. They want all the benefits of being in a relationship, while being free to pursue new people. They wouldn't like it if the wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 12:37 AM
1	Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppression What's sexist is men leaving women to do all the work, while they do nothing and benefit immensely. Do you think women like fighting traffic, going to a packed mall, finding gifts, planning parties, cooking and cleaning all day and dealing with all the stress that comes from it? No, they don't. They'd rather be sitting on the couch, smoking weed, watching sports and playing video games next to the men. But if the women didn't roll up their sleeves, then there's no Christmas, birthdays, celebrati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 12:23 AM
2	Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppression every man must have a wife and then build a family who loves her. It's logical, and biological because he will no longer be alone, he will have to fight for his family every day. Yeah, and what happens when men and women do get married? 81% of women have full-time jobs. Despite bringing in half the household income, women are still stuck spending double the time on household chores and childcare than their husbands. There's nothing logical about burdening their wives with all the work in the hou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 11:48 PM
8	Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppression nobody ever listens to me when I talked and back when I was suicidal everybody saw what was going on and didn't lift a finger for me even now nobody lives a finger for me The male loneliness epidemic is self-inflicted and women aren't sympathetic, nor should they be. Have you even once considered being there for someone else? Listening to other people? Putting their needs ahead of your own for a change? All your statements consist of "me" and "l", which shows how self-absorbed and entitled you a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 11:31 PM
2	Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppression How is this relevant? In Sweden, there is still an unequal distribution of unpaid housework and care work. Just because Swedish men go from doing 0% to 20% of the work doesn't necessarily mean they are truly egalitarian. Do they want a cookie for going above the absolute bare minimum?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 11:05 PM
6	Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppression Lot of women think they are winning being single They are winning. Single women and married men are the happiest demographic in the population. The unhappiest? Single men and married women. Why are married women unhappy? Well, because despite having their own full-time jobs bringing home half the household income, women are still stuck spending double the time on household chores and childcare than their husbands. While single women don't get the benefits of marriage, they also aren't saddled wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 10:31 PM